Girl Talk While I Do My Makeup | Being Bi, Marriage, Going Back To An Ex, Balancing Life and More..

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[@DevronHuntley]

We love private D too, if she never says another word about a relationship or her personal life I’m still watching. PERIOD

[@dearra]

And that’s why I love y’all ❤️

[@SimplyTeeshon]

No fr 👏🏾

[@laytheoriginal]

THIS !! 🫶🏽

[@dearra]

Thumbs up if you love the Girl Talks 🤗✨

[@Rainsound0101]

Here for it yess og dee

[@GabrielleJMorgan]

Love you From the house of Lorvae -

[@mizzmimi3092]

🙌🏾

[@BajaBoujee]

Love it👍🏼❣️✨❣️

[@breannibrown]

I love it 💕💕

[@taniquevirgo]

Totally agree with the fact that women do know their worth, its just that we love giving others the benefit of the doubt and having faith that things can take a turn and be better.

[@dearra]

This the one ‼️‼️

[@StarringShameka]

Yup & more thank likely, things never turn out to be better 😔

[@mommace2009]

I’m going through this as we speak

[@nanhabibiali534]

@@mommace2009 Don't forget you are worthy

[@vee4954]

You are so right.

[@monikacookie_]

De’Arra Said “ What You Can Do For Me, I Can Do For Myself & What I Can Do For Myself, I Can Do For You But What I Can Do For Myself You Also Gotta Do For Me “ 🤞🏽💕‼️

[@slaysariah4359]

this is exactly how i feel folks don’t see it that way though :/

[@Em4everblessed]

‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@MsUniqueChellann]

We fall in love with potential or the idea of a person but not the actual person themselves. In other words, knowing that they can be better and holding out hope.

[@thitam5003]

ok

[@tamtran-lx6zr]

ok

[@nandaaat9100]

I honestly don’t blame her for not wanting to show her next relationship . I wish most YT couples did this . Always good to set boundaries ☺️

[@dearra]

That’s the word I was looking for boundaries (setting boundaries) I definitely had to learn that the hard way.

[@huynguyen-yb4pf]

ok

[@shidas7690]

Yes bc once thy start doin KZbin together it dnt last long

[@CherryPieTime]

“I’m a hard worker, I’m just not an OVERworker.” This whole video is IT 💕

[@autismmomjoy4214]

💯

[@marieshanae8813]

That part!

[@TimeBucks]

You are so real & transparent

[@grapesforallofus]

Wow 😲😲😲

[@supriyanto8401]

Thumbs up

[@supriyanto8401]

Thumbs up

[@DaybeBaby]

NOT A MAC SPONORSHIP! Love that for you

[@baileysquad3634]

PERIODT!! LOVE IT FOR HER!

[@bichnguyen-uc4ys]

ok

[@francinepope7405]

I stayed with my husband longer than I should’ve because I know that humans aren’t perfect and we all struggle with something, so I want to show mercy because I want it shown to me. Also when I leave, I want no regrets. I want to do everything I can to save a relationship because when I’m done, I’m done - no going back

[@tumichikita]

This is me

[@kiaratraylor4882]

This me

[@nai-lahkristasimone5161]

Pisces?

[@taylorayonnatender]

@@nai-lahkristasimone5161 I’m a Pisces and leave at the first sign of any difficulty lol

[@jayparker96]

@@nai-lahkristasimone5161 lmao Im pisces and i agreee..

[@gagirlb]

I believe we as women stay in situations because of the long history together, comfortability, and/or low self-esteem, thinking that they will not get anyone better than the mess that they're in, unfortunately.🧡

[@mofra9952]

Right a lot of women do that . Put up with so much cheating disrespect etc Meanwhile a dude will move on with the quickness cheat etc he don’t care about how long y’all been together or having kids together none of that apply to him bc he gon do what he want to do .. and knowing u gon stay and put up with it , but women a lot of women stay bc of that and that’s just ridiculous.

[@samasiarobinson1461]

And fear

[@eloiartistrytv]

Well said !! Yesss! Literally everything that I was thinking while watching it!

[@lifeoftaylor-marie6331]

For me it was all this and more . Haven’t left yet but plans are in motion 😩

[@imanidiamondz1975]

@@lifeoftaylor-marie6331 me now 😢

[@alyvaughn9623]

Dating someone with kids is definitely not for the weak, I used to say I would never date someone with kids but it did happen. I can say he was the love of my life but sadly it didn’t work because he couldn’t find a healthy balance and I would never ask him to put his children before me. Love your videos ❤

[@prettygirlCah]

The title made me run here asap. She knows how to keep us on edge😂❤

[@trip3x512]

Me too 😂

[@locdnhealing8105]

Big factssss lol

[@Stephanie2.0]

When she said...." I'm not here to change your mind...." I felt that SHYT.

[@stephunfiltered4913]

I’m noticing that Dearra is so smart, independent, and hardworking. I feel on her old channel it seemed as if she dimmed herself down and couldn’t really show how smart she actually is. The growth is inspiring.

[@noellemerritt3534]

The reason you described is exactly why I think people stay longer than they should, but also just afraid to start over and be uncomfortable.

[@yourstruly_jc]

Omgg Congratulations on putting out your very First Prescription Glasses!! I’m so happy to see how Lorvae is expanding so well💗💗💗!!!!

[@Sugahoneyicedtea98]

De’arra the amount of times I’ve sat in awe with the knowledgeable words you decided to share with us. It’s challenging growing up as the older sibling with no one to seek advice from. Its almost like hearing from an older sister I never had. Sending love and blessings! ❤

[@ms.robinsontheempath3860]

I have a 14 year old daughter and she ABSOLUTELY loves you darling, I learned about your channel through her and I’m just grateful that you are such a great role model. If my daughter can learn life lessons and to genuinely just be herself from an influencer I definitely don’t mind her and encourage her to continue to follow you. ALWAYS BE YOU D, my baby’s watching and so am I‼️🫶🏾❤

[@jackym4652]

I agree 100% with you sayin it’s not about a woman not knowing their worth!!! That’s why we mentally leave before physically leaving! You realize or know your worth but it’s about not wanting to give up on something you really want. Whether that’s the relationship or maybe a business you guys have together, like my situation. My best friends constantly say I need to know my worth, but I 100% know what I deserve and know what I want but it’s not even about that. I constantly find myself saying I just don’t want to give up because I really want this to work. I know our potential in many aspects and don’t want to give that up just yet..

[@Desi-zz4gb]

23:12 I think the reason is comfortability. A lot of females don't want to start over with someone else when they've already gotten used to who they're with

[@honeymoon143]

Women*

[@Geminivalxo]

I love how confident/independent you are!!

[@uhmokk3207]

ikr i inspire to be like her fr

[@katherynstewart6021]

“Life will be good when you know that balance.” I agree De’arra👍🏽

[@StylesbyEshaxp]

Girl you hit the nail on the head when talked a about when a women is fed up, engagement/ relationships and after a breakup when you’ve been with someone for years. You’ve been so inspirational on this journey thank you for sharing with us ❤

[@joivann5114]

The hair looked like old rich black Hollywood 😭🤩🤩 Giving glamour for sure, I love it 😍😍😍

[@tashaunique6837]

Yesssss my trust issues are really bad also😩 it’s from experience with ppl since I was younger, I literally don’t have NO friends because I don’t trust nobody with my business or being in my everyday life… it’s boring sometimes but I feel safe and I’m NEVER disappointed being that way🥰

[@thechelseakiara]

De’arra is goals. Building a brand and a business is not easy. Whether you like her or not, you cannot hate on her success. That’s just being a hater. 🤨

[@jazz-go1qr]

i love how she’s trying her hardest to be more consistent for us 🫶🏽 ! love youuu d💕

[@Raeann2003]

We love a girl talk with DEARRA 💗

[@Phoenixx.N]

One thing about watching these girls talks I’ve realized Dearra would literally do anything to maintain her peace and I’ve learnt from her to keep it private and show up when the time is right and I’m glad because these girl talks showed me a lot about what I want to change about myself So thank you CEO Dee❤

[@MyeshaRoberts1989]

"One thing about me baby is I'm all about energy being reciprocated!" Now that's a word! I felt every bit of that! ♥️♥️

[@saraelisabeth9038]

Whoever does end up with dearra will be lucky. She’s very sweet

[@teri_p]

Yes she is a sweetheart

[@SOULarLioness]

Queen D uploads, I watch. PERIOD. And CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR NEW LORVAE LINE! Ayyyy!!! 💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@inspiremebyfaith]

The way that you’ve just blossomed since you branched off on your own, honestly, I enjoy it so much and it made all of us really recognize how much we love YOU

[@StitchedByKii]

You are so real & transparent D!! That’s why I’ve been watching you since the start! You’ve grown so much & always make sure to show up for yourself while showing up for your supporters! You are proof in the pudding that you can be very successful & change the way you present yourself while still being your most authentic self! Super inspiring Erra’D lol love you girl !!! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@SOULarLioness]

I really appreciate your perspective on a lot of things, namely how heavy you place emphasis on INDIVIDUALITY. Being your own person, making up your own mind, doing what YOU feel is right for yourself, in ALL areas of life. As far as relationships, it's so interesting to hear your point of view about why women stay "longer than they should," because you're right-damn-near EVERYBODY says the reason why a woman stays is because she doesn't know her self-worth. It's refreshing to here you say that a woman stays because she REALLY wants it to work out so bad. And a lot of times, that's the case. It's good to put that out there so that we can all learn to not judge each other so harshly/don't judge at all.

[@teri_p]

I just love me some Dearra she is a boss, a motivator, and an all around great person! She is a great person to love on endlessly! You are appreciated 🥰😊

[@veronica-xw8yi]

de’arra is a content creator i’ll never get tired of tbh

[@nikkinicole5435]

💯

[@marissa3667]

Coming from an Aries I feel you! Thank you for inspiring me to stay single because standards are very important 🙂

[@shianerobinson2245]

Totally agree. I was in a relationship and engaged for five years and I wanted to do everything in my power to keep the relationship but on the other hand he wasn’t trying and that’s when I realized I had to call it quits. "| didn't leave because I stopped loving you, I left because the longer I stayed the less I loved myself" | remember reading this quote after my heartbreak and it hit me hard cause we all come to a breaking point and realize why are we fighting so hard for someone and getting nothing in return.

[@suawannawalker2019]

Wow I'm going through this right now I need to hear this!!

[@shalekashayy]

Once you become at peace with a lot of things, you begin to grow and see things differently. Live freely being who you truly are and only allowing positive vibes around you. I can definitely feel your energy and it’s so radiant.

[@crystalkerstal]

Sis keeps getting them sponsors and I’m here for it👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 #GIRLBOSS

[@Ayo_itsJayy]

I may not be a girl /female, but this conversation is something I would've loved to have with De'arra because it's like, one of those getting deep convos. All the more reasons I still support and love De'arra. Getting to know her even more.

[@StarringShameka]

Ooooooouuuuuu! Not the MAC sponsorship! 🎉❤ - I do believe that women will leave mentally before they physically leave

[@observebri8392]

YASSS I RAN FROM THE IG STORY STOP PLAYING🤣👏🏾

[@romarlawrence6408]

To the person reading this,I wish you the best of what life has to offer. 💯❤

[@ricka1620]

And the same to you...

[@juliannbeepot6766]

Thank you and same to you!❤

[@bisila]

Same Same !!

[@jasmine145]

Same to you

[@amaricoffee2426]

Yesss on the communication. “It’s a conversation not a confrontation” is one way I was told to look at it & ever since I’ve done that, my communication has improved.

[@Makayla2.0tv]

Explain more cause I do not get that

[@sassykiki3067]

It's true we left the relationship mentally before we physically

[@MerahMonaexoxo]

So true

[@cherysfrancis]

I just love the way she motivates us and being herself ❤❤❤❤

[@tiffaniet7297]

I agree. Having 2 people in a relationship who are having trouble communicating is a struggle. Me and my boyfriend use to hold in our feelings a lot and it was rocky until we made the decision to take a break from a relationship and work in a proper friendship. Since then we have been communicating better and it’s just bliss

[@nikki6096]

OG D serving up the content we need , once again!!!!🥺

[@prfcthell]

we here for YOU and you only. you inspire a lot of ppl and it's amazing to see the success you have!

[@dearra]

❤

[@beautifulmommie9732]

The fact that you are just so down to earth just makes me love you like a sister I never met. And us both Aries lol I think that's why I relate so much. Keep going sis. GOD has amazing plans for you. Everything will be in perfect timing💕

[@ariasclark6408]

I really appreciate this video and your honesty. I literally felt the part about not wanting to giving up on someone to my core. Just a few hours ago I decided I’m finally done. Over the last few weeks I’ve been thinking and im really not give up im letting go of someone who is the worst for me. In ALL of my previous relationships I’ve accepted so much bullshit expecting and believing a person can change. I told myself I can’t break me while trying to help heal you! #period. I am SSOOO loyal to people and treat others how I want to be treated but so many times the energy wasn’t reciprocated. I’m not going to stoop to a lower level because God ain’t gone bless no mess, but I will DEFINITELY love on me, fall in love with me and NEVER settle for less moving forward. I’m going to be exactly who I want to attract and some. My love language is quality time but I love giving gift especially when you’ve listened to what the person wants and it’s special the reaction is always priceless. You look beautiful baby girl! 💗 YES to more girl chats regardless of what you’re doing!! Stay blessed love! 🎀🥰💕

[@aliyahsjourney53]

Feel you when you said “you want someone to love you they way you love them ,and treat your person back how they treat you “ love is kind ,love is patience and love takes time .

[@s4lchicc]

thank you for always being so transparent with us D! Love you

[@mmyquial564]

Love the new glasses can’t wait for them to droppp💖💖💖!!!

[@dearra]

Thank you ✨

[@jessicahawkins8610]

Omg she does it every time!!!! Just natural beauty with or without makeup!!!😍😍

[@Vashalasjewels]

Aww I love seeing your growth and the things you've accomplished 💓💓💓

[@trineserobinson2359]

You’re so strong😢 You give us girls so much hope.. One day I hope to truly reach the stage you’re at with peace and healing❤️ You’re doing amazing!!

[@jennilowkey1408]

I like this type of “girl talk” video !!! ❤

[@rozzy54]

De’arra, the make - up and hair looks amazing!!!

[@charissanders3199]

I totally agree with everything Dearra is saying!!!! I love how she answers all questions and she keep it 💯!!!! Thanks Dearra for posting!!!!!

[@priincesslala_]

I love when De'arra drops a new video ❤️❤️

[@tdanelle3151]

The way I almost broke my neck nodding this whole video. As a fellow Aries you hit every nail on the head

[@Dayshaslife22]

you inspired me so much, your energy, the way you carry yourself and handle yourself and your business is just an inspiration love you girl.💙💙💙

[@jamiewright4581]

Exactly!!! That projecting thoughts on someone else relationship!! It’s giving that person the benefit of the doubt to try and change. For me, i see people’s souls and feel their auras, which helps to cut out all negativity and just anything i don’t tolerate when it comes to my standards! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽PREACH D!!

[@sharneseb.official]

“Argue with your mama, not me”…. PERIODT ❤

[@chriseyannaw.8623]

YESSSSSSS YOU HIT IT ON THE T !!!!! Everything you said on why females stay longer than they should what you said was right on I totally agree with every word!

[@lifeoficee]

i watch dearra and immediately wanna get my life together lol💖 i love how peaceful she is, and she’s definitely a motivation! will forever have my support

[@staceyannlowe6079]

Feeling motivated at three in the morning😭

[@raindropsandreflections]

I love watching whatever De’arra no matter what she posts ❤️❤️❤️

[@trendingqueen6961]

Love you De’arra ❤❤❤❤

[@lifewithbee1217]

I love you de’arra 🎉 keep doing you, keep being beautiful I’ve been watching you forever , I’m truly proud of you

[@the.realmiaa]

I got one word. Amen De’arra. This year has been a lot and this video was literally everything that needed to be said as far as a take away as an independent strong woman as well as life tips for this year. Keep going Mamas🫶🏽

[@Leaveit2cee]

Coming from a person who got out of a long term relationship a year ago, I COMPLETELY agree with the going with the flow topic!!! Omg.. like I’m not in a rush to get into a new relationship baby I’m having fun rn & enjoying life & like you said, when it comes it’ll come. Everything in our lives are already written, just go with the flow! 👏🏾 love ya girl 💕

[@ajanaecrouch6432]

I love this so much!!!!! I needed this girl talk❤

[@kedo]

Its so good to see you thriving ❤

[@cmack92]

Loved this ep! Guuuurrl you be on it. If to thy own self be true was a person. The fact that you dont waver and remain true to you is the ultimate success

[@winterthedoll]

i’m so proud you’ve finally found you’re true self , and that you could do it all alone , i love you dearra i’ve been watching you for 4 years now

[@Thee_Specialist]

Dearra have grown so much I love it❤

[@sharondickey90]

Love De’arra she really does her thing ❤

[@KarenKayKayJenkins]

I feel you De'arra about YOU being a brand and having a company as a brand. You're definitely making some wise decisions as it pertains to creating multiple streams of income. This will allow you to acquire some long-term generational wealth for your future family. So proud of you! It's great to see you shining. Keep Soaring!! 🚀🚀🚀

[@shannapriester3991]

Dearra your confidence is everything! I love Girl talk 🥰❤️

[@shekiii8788]

thank u for ur videos … you are one of the most inspiring woman of our day . i love being a part of your journey n i luv uuu 💕❤

[@princessjaii4219]

I loved everything about this video u always give good advice and u slayed as always

[@mariamadiallo5234]

Definitely here for you De’arra cuz of your amazing soul and people can just really get off your relationship life cuz you live and you learn!

[@fediacaseneuve4365]

I’m loving the new mindset De ❤️what is meant to be will be ☺️

[@riahsrockyroad]

ive stayed in relationships for too long from being a hopeless romantic her reactions to the questions are so cute

[@heyitsEnyia]

I do believe some women don't actually know what it feels like to be valued, meaning they don't necessarily know they're worth/how much of a catch they actually are. But also I 100% agree with women staying because they're trying to give the benefit of the doubt because they have faith that things will change!

[@nichellefreightman1213]

Heyyyyy OG D I want to say I've been watching your videos for about two years now and I must say I like all of your videos, but these girl talk videos are the truth. You've grown so much over just one year and it's a beautiful thing. Stay blessed my friend and stay living in your truth

[@Dahje.w]

i love these girl talks they are very much needed 💓!!

[@puertoricanprincess989]

The is a true ARIES..”Feel how you feel but do not expect me to feel the same way or do things the way you want me to bc of the way you use to doing it “.

[@jaylahadi2436]

loving the content D! you don’t miss! 💖💖💖🥹

[@thatssoolexx]

Balancing work life and person life is sooo important. she’s right! You can get burnt out so fast & not want to do anything! I love girl talks with Dee 💕

[@ciararod4036]

You go above and beyond for your people and that’s love right there I luh you girl 🥹🥹🥰❤️‍🔥

[@jazzy3840]

so pretty, keep grinding as always 🤍

[@belyxanita682]

It's the consistency for me❤😊

[@chrissydiorr1610]

I love these girl talk videos! You keep it real , and I love how you don't care what people do, say, think, wear, etc. That's how it should be , because people going to talk regardless. 👏

[@labritt5843]

This video definitely brightened my Monday💕

[@kaylahmorgan4302]

My absolute fave!! Love watching her videos! 😍😍