Women Questioning Gender Stereotypes

[@Meg-IV]

Most hard striking quote I got from this video was this - I've seen marriages work because the woman failed.

[@rachnatripathy]

I so agree with Amrita raichand.. men cook as a hobby, women cook for necessity. When men cook, entire household is like, you are so lucky, your man cooks. But when you earn decent and support your husband, no body comes and tells him that oh you are so lucky your wife supports you a lot. It's oh my god, how you manage. Double standard right there.

[@madhulikasharda7742]

My boyfriend for six years and husband for 15 had no qualms about me, earning twice as much as him in for the first decade of knowing him. I am an inch taller than him, but when I wear heals, he has no complains. He knows me as the “know it all”, but would still take an IQ test as a family and proclaim in front of the kids that, “now we have proof that your mom is the smartest in the room”. To me he is the manliest man there is ever. I have been fortunate enough to have men who always empowered women, in my life. I come from a conservative South Indian family, where women empowerment and equality is not a strange thing which needs to be pushed or preached. My father never disagreed with my mother, my brother took a backseat in his career, taking care of his 2 toddlers, while his wife is still away in a hostel doing MD for the last 2 yrs. I’ve never experienced my parents discriminate my brother and me.. if not anything, they valued me more. And we are an extremely conservative traditional South Indian family. All my male friends have been similar. And I have quite a few.. I have seen some gender bias at work, but it also comes down to how I handle it and put people in place.. I now have a son and a daughter, in their teens. My son does more chores and cooks as much as my daughter does. Gender is never a factor. so, am I just the blessed one, or am i oblivious or do I live in a parallel universe?? Having said all this, I do see issues. For instance, my mother who was a banker, used to slog away in the kitchen, after work. She still does, in her old age. The male members of the family have never helped in the kitchen.. but the way I see it, it is still she who is enabling that behavior. If she could set boundaries and rules or if she decides to give herself a break, I don’t think my dad or brother will ever object. She doesn’t.. so it’s up to women to stand strong. Love themself a little bit. Some men are pigs. But I strongly believe if women were strong enough, they could put them in their place. Control what can be controlled. Change oneself, not keep trying to change those around. And I don’t mean taking feminism to an extent that men have to do all the heavy lifting. Just take gender off the equation, for oneself and others.. treat everyone as an equal human. If women stopped pampering the other gender, be it a son or a husband, half the problems would be solved.

[@vollkarmoviies5767]

Kangana is right

[@priyankajadhao9575]

Ha sagala video pahun khrch as vatat ki yamde saglyat jast chuki hi aaplya samajatil bay kanchi ahe karn aapn aajhi ashya sanja mde ahot jite aajhi baykani purushan sagitleli kam hi kami pana vatatat pahil tr gharatil kam lagn zalay ntr ghratil sagli kam hya baykankde astat kdi kdi purusha shudha hi kam kartat ashya veles hach aapmala samaj tya purushyla nav thevto aso 1.bayka ghari jri kam krt ashya tri tyachi kahi value nhi ka tr tya kamvt nhi 2.ani tya kamvayla laglya tr gharche aadhr pn det nhi tya bayka ghrchi sagli kam karun paise kamvtat pn tyla khi value nhi mulat kamvanarya baykana kutlich value nhi 3 .aaj aapn kam krnary ,mulana sambhadnarya ,navryachkarnarya pn ya baykan badal bolachi vel ali tr gharche sagtat ky gharich rahte ghari rahan manje ghari rahna aste ka yek diwas ghari rahun paha ghratil kam ky astat he samjel pn yachi khi kadar nste pn hech jr kam novkar laun karto mtal tr 10 te 12 hajar rupye fkt novkrala denyat jagat metro city mde tyachya pekshya jast rate asto pn aapn bayka ghratil hi sagli kam aapl ghrch ahe mhanun karto 4.aapn aplya samajatil mulana khas karun ghratil kam sagt pn nhi ani purusha mandli krt pn nhi yavrun yenari pidhi ji ahe ti shikel tri ky aaj jr navara bayko 2pn kamvnare astil tr tya 2pn kam vatun ghyve lagtil jene karun yenari pidhi he shikel ki kontch kam kmi nhi pn aaj ya mde jri sahri bhaga mde frk padat asel tri choty cities mde yacha khich mahatv nhi 5.ya kamvayla jri laglyat tri aapla samaj ashya baykan kde chgly dhrushtine paht pn nhi 6. jo prynt aaplya kde bakyanch baykankde pahnyach dhrushtikon badalt nhi to prynt samaja mde badal honar nhi mi ite purushna tumhi saglich kam kra as mint nhi tr tyani sudha aaplya ghrat aapli sudha jababrai ahe ase samjave aaj shiklelya bayka sudha kutl pn kam karun jagat ch ahe ki kamachi ky laj dusryachi bhandi doon aso paisa tr kamvt ahet kami ka hoina pn kamvtata aso bolayla gelo tr khup khi ahe pn kahi janana maz hech boln khup lagel

[@samikshagoyal7707]

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