Donal Trump or Hillary Clinton, Will you see to it that the less fortunate, and the poor that are drug addicts or alcoholics be able to get the same kind of rehab that Elizabeth was able to get?
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@lastspoonleft59474 жыл бұрын
I watched this a year ago...while drinking a bottle of wine. I knew it then. Today I am 193 days sober.
@katiakaty12724 жыл бұрын
Wery good, keep up the good work ❤️
@buckaroocalamityjane34044 жыл бұрын
Christina Suchon congrats! One day at a time and easy on your self.
@weefyman4 жыл бұрын
Well done, keep going, you dont need it.
@KLFD5304 жыл бұрын
Congratulations
@0819playboy4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I see it's possible. 😊
@conoroniel87173 жыл бұрын
Sitting here alone(currently in the process of getting a divorce after 22 years of marriage due to my drinking) at my kitchen table watching this show with a massive hangover and tears in my eyes. I have decided that today will be the first day in a sober life for me. this show has been both inspiring and a wakeup call.
@Emilia-lg1ll3 жыл бұрын
❤💪
@faithinwhatChristdidonthecross3 жыл бұрын
Praying for you I too knew I needed to give up and surrender to God's will and not my own. By the help of the Holy Spirit it's been almost 2 years.
@anujaagrawal70693 жыл бұрын
Wish you all the best in this fantastic path you have tread upon👍
@ritaroad3 жыл бұрын
God Bless You and watch over you.
@dawnjenney55193 жыл бұрын
Pray, every day. Wishing to peace and strength.
@kimprestonlaribee87353 жыл бұрын
I listened to this several years ago after my sister was found unresponsive due to alcoholism. I tried again and again to not drink. Today I am almost 365 days alcohol free.
@martinbrodie85073 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Keep it up!
@carlosholt14033 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
@veronica52353 жыл бұрын
That's awesome. Happy Birthday!!!
@susanrowley83753 жыл бұрын
well done...keep going. x
@kimprestonlaribee87353 жыл бұрын
@@susanrowley8375 thank you so much. I’m now 420 days alcohol free and I am so happy and grateful 💕
@DelaniaAndTheDogs3 жыл бұрын
Three days clean. It’s nothing in the big picture but it means the world to me. Thanks for sharing.
@mweinheim79118 ай бұрын
It is a big thing!!!
@annemckiernan6577 ай бұрын
Keep going. Bless you 🙏
@aml61067 ай бұрын
I'm proud of you.
@purpleraindrops41326 ай бұрын
Good job I’m right there with you.
@autygris1Ай бұрын
Keep going! I’m proud of you!
@perkinss97065 жыл бұрын
This lady has balls! She really didn't have to expose her private life like this but she did to help others..👏👏👏
@sexobscura4 жыл бұрын
she also has a donger
@ricssweigart83294 жыл бұрын
So sad authority no a copy
@vickiejowisdom52924 жыл бұрын
We have to "give it away to keep it"!
@user-nz8du8cp4q4 жыл бұрын
She was already caught but I do admire her for putting her side of the story
@spicynomad4 жыл бұрын
someone wanted to expose her cause he felt that elizabeth was getting special treatment and he was not. so elizabeth got ahead of everything and released her story herself, allegedly.
@aaronw45263 жыл бұрын
“I would die for my children, but I couldn’t stop drinking for my children.” Last time I watched this I was in the middle of a full blown addiction. I remember this hitting me like a ton of bricks. This was the simplest way to describe my addiction. I’m almost 8 months clean now
@laretta53243 жыл бұрын
good xxxxxxxxxxxx
@entrepreneurialendeavors26133 жыл бұрын
I think only those who’ve been in the throes of addiction can truly understand the stranglehold it has over us! I always say these 3 things... 1. Hate the addiction/disease not the addict! 2. Addiction is science/ brain chemistry and physiology! It is not a choice to “just suck it up/or stop” 3. Tolerance is not a moral issue! Also, as with any disease, relapse is part of recovery ...yet remorse, guilt and shame are absolutely paralyzing to addicts! Congratulations on your sobriety! 8 months is no small feat! One day at a time right!??!!
@Elevatedpoetry3 жыл бұрын
So proud of you! Sober by Wyatt Coates kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZ3XaZSrip6Kg5o
@trinafirey11753 жыл бұрын
You’re human! Forgive yourself.
@kimmcdaniel10043 жыл бұрын
Wish you the best. I am going through it also. Don't know how to stop.
@wagonburnereb5 жыл бұрын
Full blooded American Indian 20 years sober this September 2019. Thanks to my creator and the awesome fellowship I’m in.
@mariem10645 жыл бұрын
That is wonderfull. My grand mother used to say that alcohol is the devil's blood. And I believe this to be true. 90% of all deadly accidents or crimes is because people being under the influence.
@koichinishi90754 жыл бұрын
Amazing!! Keep coming back!!
@gigietc4 жыл бұрын
YOu Didnt become addicted to Acholol The first time you Drank! Hang in there! Perservearance! you will learm toLive with out itJust like ou learned to Live with IT!! LET GO and let GOD wagonburnereb May God bless you with Soberity!
@koichinishi90754 жыл бұрын
@@gigietc One day at a time!
@gigietc4 жыл бұрын
@Cheryl Love Our Mom and Dad seemed to Become Adicted to the meetings! Whenever we had "Family" Events like our Childrens Birthday party for one of our babies I swear The Entire AA group would be there! NO presents, just invasion! As Adult Children of Alcoholics We seriously felt replaced! point here is WE accepted everything the Group offered to Our Dads sobetity! It was keeping him Sober and mother Stress free! This is All their 4 little girls ever wanted! For Daddy to be Sobor and Momma to be Worry free from Alcohoism. the Jelli"" of the AA family was the best sacrifice we made to this horrible addiction And most likely the last! WE still Invite The AA "kids" FAMILY to our Family functions! . Daddy has 27 sober years in March! Happy Birthday Daddy. RIP Momma!
@sexy-armpit8962 жыл бұрын
Alcohol makes anxiety so much worse, especially when your hung over and haven't slept very much. It absolutely heightens the effects of anxiety and depression.
@rubar10253 ай бұрын
Alcohol makes it worse because you're actually suffering from withdrawal.
@rawkingkong23 күн бұрын
@rubar1025 alcohol will raise cortisol levels so it is increasing anxiety 100%
@soniapola3345 жыл бұрын
Serial relapser here! Currently 26 days sober. I want to make it this time!
@Humgin12345 жыл бұрын
UY Scuti I’m not trying to preach or offend but I hope you ask the lord to remove the addiction and help you find even public mental health care to get to the REASON YOU feel compelled to self medicate best wishes. Jesus wants you to talk to him.
@Lost-xl6im5 жыл бұрын
15+ years . find a sponsor
@starvingartist10005 жыл бұрын
You have to believe you deserve it, Uy. You do deserve a sober good life.
@migram41905 жыл бұрын
You are named after a star, that's fantastic! 😁
@techmaster1705 жыл бұрын
@Liz P. what makes you say that
@eriksoley67745 жыл бұрын
Small business owner, I lost huge contract, facing eviction, crazy stress. Walked to liquor store and stared at the beers for 20 mins. I survived - I walked out. 2 yrs and still sober.
@mmgortonct4 жыл бұрын
Keeping going...you can do it.
@infowazz4 жыл бұрын
hopefully things are ok now with the virus situation. i'm into digital marketing if u need help at all.
@mellima42263 жыл бұрын
❤️🙌🏻
@nicoleb40773 жыл бұрын
Proud of you Erik!!!!
@texaslady19693 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Keep on keeping your health and family in mind
@fd01891234564 жыл бұрын
I just wanna say ABC thank you for giving her another chance ❤️😭
@DGNYY274 жыл бұрын
They let her go two years ago
@ionelastrait94823 жыл бұрын
I thank ABC News for giving her another chance. Liz vargas is a pretty lady with beautiful heart
@rochellea96523 жыл бұрын
Fickle are the news stations.
@erikthorsen2403 жыл бұрын
@@isabellind1292 Fucking A. So true. She made it out, and Barbara is trying to shame her back in or something.
@brad5150able3 жыл бұрын
@@DGNYY27 why did they let her go. She fell off the wagon.
@lauracarlson8572 жыл бұрын
I am in tears. I stumbled upon this, and reading everyone's comments... I am 8.5 years sober and I couldn't be happier. I was so deep in alcohol, it was my life. If you would have tole me then that I could be happier than I have ever been in my life without it, I would have laughed. Sobriety sets you free. It's a hard road, it's not easy getting sober. You don't just go to rehab and you are cured. You have to WANT it more than anything. The only one who can get you sober is YOU. If you are struggling, don't wait. You CAN do this. I was an absolute MESS. Shame, guilt, anger, anxiety. There are so many layers to this that you have to peel through. I hit rock bottom too many times. One thing pulled me out of it and I said enough is enough. Don't wait, your next drink could be the end of you, don't take that chance. Much love to you all here. All who are lost and hurting. ❤
@LoveGodOutloud2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'm 4 months strong now
@LegitLC2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@mciburton2 жыл бұрын
@Laura Carlson, I stumbled on this too. Her doing this is so courageous. I have 11+ years, and while I can't say I've never been happier--because life gives everyone a different test and I could never have anticipated what mine would be--I can certainly say I've never been more grateful. She says that it is grace--indeed!! Why do some people stay sober while others don't? My getting sober allowed me to deal with an emergency. Had I been drinking at the time, I don't even want to consider what could have happened. And while I can't say I never want a drink, I can surely say I never want to be even remotely like that, and the best way is just never even take a sip. If I were to have one drink, I'd be in trouble sooner or later. I'm allergic to certain fish, deadly allergic. There is no question in my mind that I can't and won't ever eat it. Yet, we lack that understanding when it comes to whatever we are addicted to. To all of you out there struggling, as has been said, if you're going through Hell, keep going. ❤❤❤
@Ryan-mn1kn2 жыл бұрын
I want to get sober, I have been to treatment twice, and failed both times. I am so full of guilt, shame and worthlessness. I hate my life. A friend relationship I am in keeps dragging me down. I'm lost. I'm tired of lying and being a fool. Laura I Love your message ✌️
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
@@Ryan-mn1kn Nobody gets sober in treatment. (Residential) You get medical attention, rest, nutrition, and knowledge...but you don't get sober. It's what we "DO" after we walk out that determines life, or death. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". All the best to you Ryan! Mark 5/8/1994
@lorrainecortes72963 жыл бұрын
Today I'm 30 years sober.♥️
@5thdimension6253 жыл бұрын
XXX congratulations!
@boyprince76073 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@davidfealvega68123 жыл бұрын
Buena vida felicidades:).
@swimpy38383 жыл бұрын
@Lorraine Cortes, way to be. Keep going & never look back. That it very cool.
@swimpy38383 жыл бұрын
Way to be! Keep on going & never look back.
@SmittenKitten.6 жыл бұрын
Both of my parents were so-called "functioning" alcoholics, and although they were never cruel to us as kids, I was embarrassed that I couldn't have friends over after school or on weekends. My father was a psychologist, and he explained to me that both sides of the family had strong genetic tendencies toward addiction, so I decided I'd just never tempt fate and drink. The only alcohol I've ever had has been in cooked food. Some people call me boring, and I'm fine with that. I prefer boring to chaos any day of the week.
@adoannie26426 жыл бұрын
I don't consider you boring but very smart due to your genetics.
@SmittenKitten.6 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Pam.
@a.k.45336 жыл бұрын
Excellent comment
@thomasrearden6 жыл бұрын
Wow you are amazing.
@midnightelf91496 жыл бұрын
SmittenKitten is the best name :)
@SehrKhan4 жыл бұрын
30 days sober but I guess we gotta start somewhere...
@abbyrosenbaum3 жыл бұрын
i hope you’re ok!
@SehrKhan3 жыл бұрын
@@abbyrosenbaum thanks for asking!! ❤️
@SehrKhan3 жыл бұрын
@Allison Bauch too kind thank you so much ❤️🥰
@snikkerr19493 жыл бұрын
One thing you'll realize is that no matter how many minutes/hours/days/years you have...you really only have today. The person who has 20 years...only has today. Today you'll go to sleep and say thank goodness I have today......
@walkinloveonpurpose94963 жыл бұрын
Keep going strong 💖
@tenofivelips2 жыл бұрын
I have never been a drinker. During our shelter in place last year, being isolated from my family while working in urgent care, I started drinking, just to relax. I was very surprised at how quickly the thoughts of alcohol would enter my mind after work, almost immediately. For me, it's best I just stick with a Christmas toast. I'm so grateful to be aware of that.
@obi-wankedogi Жыл бұрын
Happy for you to have been able to recognize it and deal with it before you had to suffer from the consequences of addiction. Hope you're still doing well.
@pattym40309 ай бұрын
Omg I was just about to comment that the exact thing started happening to me in 2020. I'm glad I caught myself, and shortly after I decided not to drink again. I haven't had a drink in 3 years.
@opera937 ай бұрын
Thanks.. same here: specifically @ BIG TIME BUSY Pharmacy ……. THOUGH had cut back ethanol, (* side effects,etc.) to less toxic chemicals(* esp. diazepam, Hydrocodone)……
@lemonmorals7 ай бұрын
I just want to add this tidbit about drinking alcoholic beverages at your company Holiday Parties: I was new to a company & was invited to a nice Holiday Party, but the very well-dressed female employee sitting at my table warned me whispering "Don't drink beer or wine or mixed drinks--the staff is watching to see who imbibes in those types of drinks so they will be ready to fire you easily when their funds are reduced or grants are not renewed!".
@TrishaHill-ys7tt7 ай бұрын
Ur so brave
@Williamgarity5 жыл бұрын
18 years, 4 months and 13 days. Miracles do happen.
@wifemotherconservative34325 жыл бұрын
I'll have 2 years this July 15th!
@eeltenaj195 жыл бұрын
ODAAT! Way to go! I'm 16 years sober.
@officialheathercombseardrp5595 жыл бұрын
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEES! CONGRATS! Keep-It-Up!!!!!!!
@junebermingham93005 жыл бұрын
WELL DONE!!!🌺🌺
@armandofernandez82575 жыл бұрын
YES THEY DO. CONGRATS.
@citizen11635 жыл бұрын
"I would die for my children..I would kill for mr children but I couldn't stop drinking for my children." THAT's addiction. Brava for sharing, being SO strong & quitting.
@jr88775 жыл бұрын
Perfectly Said
@kaydale58905 жыл бұрын
I drank enough to harm my cerebellum in my brain and soon will have to use a wheelchair. Just have a hard time walking even with a walker! Stop-it’s just not worth it. If anyone has a cure for this disability kindly let me know. A cure for cerebellum damage
@kaydale58905 жыл бұрын
It’s not god it is yourself that gets one to stop
@annezotos98035 жыл бұрын
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU TO ADMITTING THIS TRUTH. I ALSO LOVE AND KILL FOR MY CHILDREN BUT SOMEHOW EVERY PINKY PROMISE THAT I WOULD NOT USE AGAIN WAS BROKEN THE NEXT DAY. ONLY TURNING TO GOD HAS GIVEN ME THE STRENGTH TO TURN MY LIFE AROUN.
@andreaturnquist48555 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@cheyanndoyle25427 жыл бұрын
Thank you Ms. Vargas for your courage.
@Videokeizah7 жыл бұрын
I admire her. This openness about one's mistakes is rare, especially in the US (I guess).
@11kwright7 жыл бұрын
Cheyann Doyle Most of ya'll are alcoholics or recovering that support her!!!!!
@melaniexoxo7 жыл бұрын
Wrong. I'm not an alcoholic or recovering. I totally support her because she has probably helped people by doing this. Life isn't just about my personal experiences.
@jc10907Sealy6 жыл бұрын
Cheyann Doyle they don’t eat
@broadft612 жыл бұрын
Today is Day #7 of being sober, this show meant so much to me. Gives me strength to know I belong to a group of very brave people. One day at a time, sometimes one moment at a time. Thank you Elizabeth!!
@reneeterry150910 ай бұрын
7 days is huge! Keep it up one day at a time. If one day is too much, take a half a day at a time. You can do this. This was such a real wakeup call for me. Hang in there 💖💙
@Redplanetfilms13 жыл бұрын
I used to work with her and she was such an absolute professional, never knew she was going through this. This was a huge surprise, happy she is doing better.
@alvinrodgers9343 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. She seems so beautiful inside. Where it counts.
@ttthecat3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing that- even the most functional can be hiding a terrible addiction.
@malihahan2 жыл бұрын
My mom was a very aknowledged school teacher, but at home she had a abusive side (drinking in the closet) and violent relationships.
@herbertd.fischer2789 Жыл бұрын
I know deep down in her beautiful troubled heart this had to be one of the toughest interviews she's ever done because for once The roles are changed Elizabeth 's the one being interviewed & asked tge tough questions .HOLD YOUR head up high Elizabeth ! You're winning the battle & sweet lady you have more support then you'll ever know. I struggled with it for years til I moved & made the decision I wanted to make a change in my life 2 decades later I can walk down the beer isle or sit with folks who are drinking and it doesn't bother me & I can't stand the smell of it.
@FuckWillieXT5 жыл бұрын
24 years 4 months thank you Lord for keeping me.
@abeltesfaye_5 жыл бұрын
You're awesome! Congratulations :)
@bellissima785 жыл бұрын
That is amazing!🎉
@lindadavies61095 жыл бұрын
Amen. To God must go the glory. Well done!
@fluidefluide11285 жыл бұрын
Bless.
@maddietrafford12255 жыл бұрын
alvera orr really? “The lord” you’re REALLY not even gonna give yourself the credit you deserve? Why?
@officialftincredible9165 жыл бұрын
Day 1 of being sober! Pray for me! This ones for myself, My daughter,My Sons and My Fiancee
@changeurlife34714 жыл бұрын
OFFICIALFTINCREDIBLE how you doing?
@deenjohnnymelton37614 жыл бұрын
Prayers 🙏 I am also an alcoholic. I want help and so ready after 18 yrs.
@deenjohnnymelton37614 жыл бұрын
This gives me hope Elizabeth thank you
@justinmopavich36854 жыл бұрын
Hope your doing well still please update us
@robertyanes47514 жыл бұрын
You can do it. Stay strong...all the best to you!🙏🌹
@Dawnjeanelle2 жыл бұрын
I am 5 years sober. Alcohol consumed me and my marriage. My husband and I were both alcoholics but only I was physically addicted. He went to prison and I went to treatment. He’s been out of jail for almost 5 years years and we are going strong. This story is such an inspiration! #wedorecover
@Mimi-cq4bg5 жыл бұрын
Dont quit quitting. If it takes 100,000 tries it's worth it.
@martinkent3333 жыл бұрын
Join AA and be a winner, dude.
@juniorjohnson59613 жыл бұрын
I've been in recovery for quite a while if it wasn't for A.A. I'd be dead but it takes more than that you have to learn how to be happy 🎇
@valeria-militiamessalina56723 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the pep talk.
@merncat33843 жыл бұрын
💞
@cd62433 жыл бұрын
That's The best advice 👌🏼😍
@candelacanseco5 жыл бұрын
It's my anniversary today. 2 years with no alcohol :)
@summersnow78285 жыл бұрын
🤗🌻
@koichinishi90754 жыл бұрын
Keep coming back!! One day at a time.
@amazingsweet41254 жыл бұрын
Do u do meth
@Almarico38404 жыл бұрын
Congratulations 🎉🎊🎈 you are strong., you new life start right now.
@koichinishi90754 жыл бұрын
@@amazingsweet4125 Different program for that.
@techmaster1706 жыл бұрын
I'm struggling with alcohol. Cant make it past 7 days sober. Starting day 2 again, pray I can make it past my days off.
@deeemis-pena93165 жыл бұрын
You can do it! One day at a time.
@techmaster1705 жыл бұрын
@@deeemis-pena9316 thank you. Two weeks ago I finally decided to try something. I'm 21 days sober right now. It's been annoying, my journey has just started. But, so far this has been great. I gave disulfiram a try and I'm two weeks into it. Gotta do some test on my liver tomorrow make it it doesnt hurt more than help. But, so far it's been great. While on these meds I literally cant drink or I'll get sick. Its helped me knowing I literally cant drink at all or suffer horrible consequences.
@techmaster1705 жыл бұрын
@@RH-qx7wm thanks for the advice. I tried AA a couple times where I lived an the atmosphere just felt not satisfying to me and felt like a cult. I don't know how to explain it honestly. I'm currently 25 days sober right now. I take one of those pills every other day right now and that makes it where I literally cant drink. Or if I was to, there wouldn't be at fun in it. Straight to sickness from one drink. Once I get the testing finished an blood work back seeing how this is effecting my liver, I'm going to start going through a Christian program at a church in the town i work in. I already talked to the guy twice so far. Hes an ex alcoholic. Was supposed to die, his liver was just dead. Doctors said he had only a few weeks to live. He ended up praying knowing he was going to die and was asking for forgiveness an such for what hes done with his life. And he said a few days later after passing out due to pain he woke up and his liver was no longer not functioning at all. 100 percent functional. Doctors couldn't explain it. I'm a Christian. So you might think stuff like this doesnt happen. But anyway, after talking to him I believe this is more of a program I'm willing to try. AA just didn't feel right. I need to not only stay sober but I need to correct my life in this aspect too. I've been back sliding. Anyway, sorry for the long reply. I just randomly woke up, kinda not awake yet. I appreciate the comment. :)
@henrywhh5 жыл бұрын
techmaster170 keep trying.. it may take years but the intention is key
@techmaster1705 жыл бұрын
@@henrywhh oh I'm not giving up. Currently 25 almost 26 days sober right now. :) But if something happens an I fail again. I'll get myself back up and keep moving forward.
@MarkDunn2 жыл бұрын
I can so relate to her story. I was a functioning alcoholic for years. Raised 3 kids, worked, did everything any other person would do. But boy did I drink. One day, I told my kids I had enough, and passed out. I was in the hospital on my back for 2 weeks. I got out and just never looked back. It's a very personal addiction. It becomes your best friend. I am sober over 18 months now, and have no cravings or desire at all by the grace of fate. If you are in this position, please seek help.
@KA-mq4wj3 жыл бұрын
Ughh. I’m watching this in 2020. I’m an alcoholic and struggling horribly Thank you Elizabeth Vargas. You’re my HERO
@Michael-tr7uq3 жыл бұрын
Learn how to use naltrexone correctly for 6-12 months and you can cure yourself. Check out this TEDx talk , kzbin.info/www/bejne/bHbKmZyPlNhlqtU Documentary www.amazon.com/gp/video/detail/B07NBWMH9D
@martinkent3333 жыл бұрын
Be a winner and join AA
@samanthab19233 жыл бұрын
Prayers 🙏🏻 you get help. It's out there. Go to an AA meeting. It will help.
@liannehelenebourque81983 жыл бұрын
🙏❤
@michigan12913 жыл бұрын
KA go to the AA web site> find a meeting> online and telephone meetings and just listen to people like yourself. block the video on Zoo if you don't want to be seen. I'm 28 years sober and love/ need these meeting everyday. WE can do it :)
@DaDennyH4 жыл бұрын
Currently drunk alcoholic here. I hope I can join you sober guys soon! I'd like to escape this, as you have.
@vampiraJ4 жыл бұрын
I’m struggling too but I have cut back. Start small by having even one less drink. We can do this!!
@mychellefitzgerald4 жыл бұрын
DaDennyH the night I called the AA hot line in despair the person on the phone told me the only person on this earth that can get me sober is me. I have to want it. I celebrate 16 years of sobriety tomorrow. It was difficult the first year, but SO worth it.
@konstanting34004 жыл бұрын
@@mychellefitzgerald that's amazing! I'm struggling with alcohol.. 😢
@SeasaltedSTJ3 жыл бұрын
You can do it!!
@elmtree333 жыл бұрын
My friend died from alcoholism days ago. She was 45 years old. My dad died from alcoholism one week after his 49th birthday. My sister is in deep denial and drinks until she passes out regularly. She says she doesn't have a problem.
@colldollm515 жыл бұрын
Sober since 2/28/88. Thank you, God and the fellowship of AA.
@MPrice-qv5ii5 жыл бұрын
And your willingness to do what you had to do to stay sober. GREAT JOB!
@edithhardy8394 жыл бұрын
Colleen Monahan AA save my life . Got a God of my understanding, 19 years sober, by Gods gift to me One day at a time. Eh
@carlosholt14033 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
@rivkaclifford4276 ай бұрын
Every time a person overdrinks, brain cells die. Many people still think addiction is a moral issue. It's a medical and psychological issue. Never be afraid to ask for help.
@VidaBlue3179 күн бұрын
It can certainly be a conditioned response like Pavlov's dogs. But most alcoholics, including myself, are dealing with underlying mental health issues -- and booze is usually the first prescription we encounter that works.
@mercy20846 күн бұрын
Alcohol kills brain cells ... and they cannot grow back.
@jesusislord44213 жыл бұрын
I just lost my brother to this. He was my best friend. He was a good father, brother, and son. He died December 15th. It killed our mother on 1/23/21 a month and 8 days after she lost her only son. Her heart couldn’t take it. He was the most caring, loving, funniest, great big brother ever. I take his ashes everywhere with me. We put his asked in the ocean because that’s what he wanted. He loved all animals and nature. He loved to fish. I took care of him the last few years of his life. I wish I could hear him one more time. I too was a alcoholic. I’ve been sober since 2012. You can do it I miss my brother
@ClaudiavanVerseveld3 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful person.
@evitaevita983 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. May your brother and mom rest in peace.
@jillgott65673 жыл бұрын
Prayers
@suchabadkitty12932 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP to your brother and mom. Losing people really sucks.
@DeeDee-nn4ff2 жыл бұрын
I have been sober for 28 years now, one day at a time.... I will always be an alcoholic. My mother died of wet brain at the age of 46. I understand what you are going through. ..
@pamelajohnson98534 жыл бұрын
26 years, 7 months, 6 days. By the grace of my higher power.
@martinkent3333 жыл бұрын
Struggling with inanimate objects? Are you a powderpuff?
@ElmoKnowsWhereYouLive51504 жыл бұрын
This August I'll be 4 years clean.
@prettyinink16613 жыл бұрын
I salute you !
@johnwilliams24793 жыл бұрын
U mean dry, drug addiction is clean, your not the same as a alcoholic,
@julieroja13 жыл бұрын
@@johnwilliams2479 all labels suck.
@johnwilliams24793 жыл бұрын
@A D I'm correct
@rhon7153 жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@nicoleallen54492 жыл бұрын
It's amazing that she did this interview so many people need to hear this. From day one alcohol was a problem for me I was a monster at 14 the moment it touched my lips it was over I was blackout drunk and it led to a drug addiction that ruined my life thank God I got out and I have 5 years clean 🙏
@MiniM692 жыл бұрын
Good for you! What a triumph:) keep in going!
@nicoleallen54492 жыл бұрын
@@MiniM69 thank you!
@iluvdolphins19832 жыл бұрын
Awesome so proud of you!
@jinseng93042 жыл бұрын
well done
@kialuvsyoo2 жыл бұрын
this is awesome and I'm so happy for you! 14 is so young but you got through it and I am so happy!
@KP-rh5qz4 жыл бұрын
Over 5 years sober. Best 5 years of my life.
@MomCatMeows7 жыл бұрын
I cannot imagine the courage it took for her to do this. She's so strong.
@PresidentialOGkush7 жыл бұрын
Jenna Mahanay don't let the dog.
@MomCatMeows7 жыл бұрын
BuyTheTicket TakeTheRide huh??
@MomCatMeows7 жыл бұрын
okay Curt, you're right.
@dtschuor4596 жыл бұрын
Beautiful answer Curt. Perfect.
@Holly-days6 жыл бұрын
Jenna Mahanay, Curt Christensen: Each individual who deals with addiction has their own words to describe their experience and they are all 100% right--for themselves. No one else can describe it for anyone else--only for themselves.
@jellybathwater5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing. I too am an alcoholic. I self medicated my panic disorder with vodka. I got liver disease and was on my last legs. I am now 8 years, 6 months and 1 day sober. I am studying for a degree in Psychology and behavioural science and addiction.
@mcewenca5 жыл бұрын
Donna Kay well done girl, be proud of yourself. I’m proud of you
@jellybathwater5 жыл бұрын
@@mcewenca Thank you!
@LSUN1185 жыл бұрын
How can I help my 75 year old mom quite drinking?
@jellybathwater5 жыл бұрын
@@LSUN118 you cant. It is something she has to do of her own accord. If you quit drinking for someone else you'll never succeed. All you can do is give her information, tell her that support and help is there if and when she chooses. I know being a family member of an alcoholic is soul destroying and believe me, your mum knows shes hurting you but until she has the resolve to do it herself I'm afraid you have to sit back and watch. Dont enable her though. Dont give her anymore money or supply her with booze. Cut her off from that. Be there for her to lean on but refuse to be part of the problem anymore. Good luck
@LSUN1185 жыл бұрын
@@jellybathwater •☆.•*´Thank You`*•.☆•
@stewpuddy41612 жыл бұрын
Married to a recovering alcoholic. You have some serious guts, and I commend you for putting yourself out there for others to see. I was in the same boat as your husband. Raising 2 kids while mommy slept it off, just to start again as soon as she got up. It nearly destroyed our marriage. But, my wife had the courage and ability to quit and I thank God everyday for that. Thank you so much for sharing this story Elizabeth. I hope it helps people take their lives back.
@Sarah-dc5fz9 ай бұрын
My parents stuck it through- 45 years. My dad didn’t ask to be an alcoholic. I’m sure his father and HIS father didn’t either. I sure didn’t ask for it. It took a lot of strength and self-control and it just not being acceptable in my family for me to finally get the right kind of help and stick with it.
@emmeturnerbales4765 жыл бұрын
I haven't had a drink for 3 years best thing I ever did
@bayarea11295 жыл бұрын
Congrats! So happy for you!
@johnlumb10785 жыл бұрын
Way to go my dear.
@amazinggrace3135 жыл бұрын
I was the same and then I drank for a friends birthday and I went downhill. I have a lot to lose too!! More than most people
@MPrice-qv5ii5 жыл бұрын
That is so awesome! You have chosen for yourself to stay sober!! WAY TO GO!
@tiffprendergast5 жыл бұрын
Emme Turner Bales congrats
@RamiAzzedine5 жыл бұрын
Today is my day one with out a 🍻 I can't do this anymore please pray for me and god bless you all..
@valerini10005 жыл бұрын
You posted this a week ago so now you should be 7 or 8 days.. wishing you strength
@terrid10305 жыл бұрын
You can do it!
@jp718581b5 жыл бұрын
Im in your boat lets do this please god im terrified at the amount i drink one day i wont wake up xx
@constancemccoy31445 жыл бұрын
I'm praying. For you. One day at a time.
@chelseadmarini74605 жыл бұрын
I’m on day two today. With Gods Grace I will make it this time. I believe in you too Rami!!
@siyama8616 жыл бұрын
Everyone that's being hateful should be ashamed of yourselves. Just because she is rich doesn't mean her battle was less than. She has a problem and addiction is not only a poor man's problem. And the fact that she is well known I think is even more of a brave act to make her struggle public.
@stefanialukovic2216 жыл бұрын
Well said, Kasia!
@LisaMaryification6 жыл бұрын
I guess they're jealous because they've done nothing with their lives. Imagine what she could have achieved if sober all those years?
@Jacqueline_R6 жыл бұрын
She still suffered a lot, lost her husband, almost lost her career. Could have lost her boys. Even money can't stop alcoholism. I'm glad she was finally willing to stay sober one day at a time.
@veronicaallison14686 жыл бұрын
What amazes me...is she has managed to look so good and keep her work.
@rebeccalavoy66556 жыл бұрын
Kasia, you are absolutely right. Anxiety and drinking can affect anyone, rich or poor.
@dianeleake73658 ай бұрын
By the grace of God, I have 38 years in recovery. Thank you for sharing your story.
@shermac2467 ай бұрын
Congratulations on your sobriety Diane.
@Exilemainstreet3 жыл бұрын
I've been sober for four years, nine months. So glad I survived.
@martinkent3333 жыл бұрын
Struggling with brainless things? How do you deal with teenagers, dude?
@billydog553 жыл бұрын
18 months sober after 40 years of black out, broken bones, angry kids and multiple detoxes, treatment centers and jails, one day at a time
@tnt013 жыл бұрын
Excellent. You can do it.
@loric44233 жыл бұрын
How's it going Bill? I hope you're doing well!
@Elevatedpoetry3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you Bill! kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZ3XaZSrip6Kg5o
@joeblevins10583 жыл бұрын
Take it to a meeting!! Not a public forum.
@philipgardiner20033 жыл бұрын
One day at a time brother.
@scalbooche7 жыл бұрын
I am 2 yrs sober today by the grace of God!. It took courage for her to bare her truth the way she did!.
@mariao77226 жыл бұрын
Fantastic Jill, keep strong!
@LisaMaryification6 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!
@antonydick93836 жыл бұрын
Good on you Jill... Xxx...
@patblabla83065 жыл бұрын
Good for you i wish i could stop
@bitchinbob20455 жыл бұрын
Atta Girl .
@janetfedeles3964 Жыл бұрын
I learned in AA that an alcoholic is anyone who takes a drink and then cannot stop. It doesn't matter how often one binges in this manner, even if just a couple of times a year. I had not known this, but looking back, this was my history. So Elizabeth's question, when did she become am alcoholic if she could control her drinking early on? She was always an alcoholic....stopping off at the bar before going home was an early indication. She drank before going home so she could drink more at home, unnoticed. I am sure any alcoholic can relate to her story. She is brave to tell her story to the world. I am also one of the lucky ones, sober now for 20 years. To all of you here who have said you relate to her story yet are still drinking, make this moment the beginning of your new life without alcohol. Get help somewhere...you are worth it.
@Mark-pp7jy11 ай бұрын
We all have to get to the bitter end, however we get to the bitter end, and whatever that entails. Very few people will take any action, until they are backed into a corner. The reality of alcoholism is that many people will die, despite multiple opportunities to recover. THAT is why I practice gratitude every morning, and live in the bosom of the Fellowship. "Go to meetings, clean house, and help others". Simple! All the best to you Janet!
@janetfedeles396411 ай бұрын
@Mark-pp7jy I agree. Everyone's bitter end is different and their own. I was at the end but also remember had one person who gave me a little push. Never know what a bit of encouragement can do. Thanks for sharing. Best to you, Mark.
@yvonneanderson703210 ай бұрын
I binged drinked but never been an alcoholic Its when your dependent on it there is different types of alcoholics though
@janetfedeles396410 ай бұрын
@@yvonneanderson7032 No not really. If one drinks and cannot stop, one is an alcoholic. If one can stop, then no, not an alcoholic. I think AA knows. Been around for years and the program helps millions of people. Alcohol is cunning, baffling and powerful. I had to believe the truth to get help and live a better life. I am grateful today.
@Mark-pp7jy9 ай бұрын
@@yvonneanderson7032 Lots of people can stop drinking, but can they "STAY STOPPED"? Alcoholism is progressive and fatal!
@SuddenUpdraft5 жыл бұрын
15 years and counting. Bipolar, anxiety disorder, and ADD, but thanks to my loving higher power I remain sober. Truly a miracle.
@warrenlouisiana22773 жыл бұрын
Yes,,, it is,,,,hang in there,,,,
@rochellea96523 жыл бұрын
Beautiful lady......but we are all the same.... Aren't t we? It's all about the reality of life.
@Onlinesully3 жыл бұрын
that’s really great
@nancymarin53586 жыл бұрын
what a brave women to share her story...I am also a alcoholic. .15 months sober
@TheLiteralLatest6 жыл бұрын
Congrats! Keep it going.
@mercedes5236 жыл бұрын
Nancy Marin 1 year sober! We can do it. PTL.
@antonydick93836 жыл бұрын
I'm an addict and good on you for getting sober... It is a rough ride and I hope you keep it up...
@mollz285 жыл бұрын
you are amazing!!
@zemzem83235 жыл бұрын
Nancy Marin - you are not an alcoholic- you WERE an alcoholic! I’m so happy for you, my sister is currently an alcoholic and not seeking treatment
@irisdavis74315 жыл бұрын
27 years sober, only because I asked the Lord Jesus the Christ to take the taste out of my mouth. I AM RECOVERED BECAUSE OF GOD'S GRACE & MERCY!
@JesusLovesTheLost5 жыл бұрын
Amen, glory to our Lord and savior Jesus Christ!
@bevandted5 жыл бұрын
Really?
@MyDenali-pv5nh5 жыл бұрын
God is good but please give yourself some credit. You fought hard. Don't ever forget that.
@anitacaple65705 жыл бұрын
Amen glory to the highest God is Good 🙏 may he bless you endlessly
@chrisglyn-jones46575 жыл бұрын
Good old God.Now perhaps he can pay a visit to a children's cancer ward.
@catsmeow6858 Жыл бұрын
A brave woman bearing her soul to tell everyone her darkest demons. So glad to hear she has turned her life around.
@2mauram7 жыл бұрын
Dont bash her. She is been honest and no matter how ptoviliged she is. Alcoholism is what it is
@vincentdublino71367 жыл бұрын
She has a drinking problem - i wouldn't call her an alcoholic based on the amounts she mentioned. And her big 'horror' story was being at the lethal limit one time. It is EASY to be at the lethal limit. Probably one bottle of wine for a woman her size and you could get there if you drank it within an hour. That is NOT real alcoholism. Laura Duhe same deal.
@amg84977 жыл бұрын
Shiawasenaneko omg ... AGAIN do your research you don't have a clue !
@personalcheeses80737 жыл бұрын
Shiawasenaneko With respect you don't know what the fuck you are waffling on about. Your whole post is just assumption.
@justmeblomberg89407 жыл бұрын
Shiawasenaneko WRONG! SHE IS A FULL BLOWN ALCOHOLIC! I hope you don't try to help anyone with that kind of thinking!
@gigid96067 жыл бұрын
they got to do it on their own. No one can help someone out of this, unless they are willing and THEY have to do 90 percent of the work, if not more...
@purami143 жыл бұрын
21 years this December, was my last drink. I really went through the wringer. Life is so much better now. I can relate to her story. She has courage.
@DeeDee-nn4ff2 жыл бұрын
28 years for me... Awesome, isn't it? Good job! ..... One day at a time!
@angelaspeer63862 жыл бұрын
Congratulations, that's so awesome
@kialuvsyoo2 жыл бұрын
holy marbles, 21 years? That is absolutely amazing and do not forget that!
@agathahofmann69772 жыл бұрын
❤️
@agathahofmann69772 жыл бұрын
@@DeeDee-nn4ff ❤️
@robertm14936 жыл бұрын
215 alcoholics living in denial....why would anyone thumbs down this.. This takes alot of strength and is so inspiring in many ways 👍
@annarichardson82845 жыл бұрын
Anyone who hits the thumbs down is clueless. Keep it up, Robert. Don't give up.
@cw54515 жыл бұрын
I long ago decided that some people probably hit the thumbs down button just to be contrary. Which reminds me, have you ever heard of Oppositional Defiant Disorder? I can see someone with ODD giving thumbs down because that’s just how they roll.
@bella-sb8ei2 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this when it first aired. I was so blown away at her level of honesty, vulnerability class and grace during this interview. Tbh, I still am and even more impressed. What a wonderful woman who is helping so many with her story!
@d3maccus8 ай бұрын
yea...until you realize she's selling a book and this a standard media plug/cashgrab
@kerrynieh68503 жыл бұрын
Just over 1 year sober and watching this is so inspiring and hopeful.
@fredjohn30153 жыл бұрын
Hello Kerry
@cherieamkcushman52663 жыл бұрын
Don't let any negative comment send you back.. I'm on day one and waiting... Be prepared for battle against arseholes
@janet202572 жыл бұрын
God has blessed us both 🙏 6 1/2 months without that poison called alcohol for me!💜 stay free 💜
@pmstombelska35792 жыл бұрын
Keep.strong
@marysworld826 жыл бұрын
We fall down differently, but the ground still feels the same for everybody.
@lindastonebraker25126 жыл бұрын
SEVEN SIX you'll be fine, stupidity is not a crime as of yet:)
@lindastonebraker25126 жыл бұрын
Mary's World Beautifully said:)!!!
@lindastonebraker25126 жыл бұрын
SEVEN SIX what? You're not old enough to say shit are you? Now run along you blouse.
@7saany6 жыл бұрын
love this.
@antonydick93836 жыл бұрын
I like your comment to Seven Six... I'm an addict and trust me me it is hard work... You hit rock bottom and then realise there is a basement below so you fall even deeper... I'm just being honest... :-)...
@bettyjeanzepeda47673 жыл бұрын
Omg!! This comment section is CATHARTIC!!!! LOVE AND STRENGTH AND LOVE TO YOU ALL!!! I'm in this war as well
@carlosholt14033 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
@quickdraw25323 жыл бұрын
Life is such a precious gift but so darned difficult to unwrap. Never give up.
@JacquelynNhi Жыл бұрын
About 12 years ago I was out with some friends and saw this drunk girl walking alone from the bar. There were guys trying to pull on her shirt because they clearly saw she was vulnerable. I swooped right in like she was my homegirl, asked her if she was okay and where her friends were. Long story short I drove her home and gave her a whole lecture about how she could've gotten herself into some real trouble. Keep in mind I'm a black lesbian and she was a white girl on the westside of Chicago...so I quite literally saved her life.😂😁🤣
@vickythefist7062 Жыл бұрын
Glad that theirs still good people out there . I did the same thing for a teenage girl a couple of years ago. People were walking past and letting them go through her bag and pick her up .she didn't even know the guys and was saying she was fine going home with them to start with . Had to argue with her and make her see what these 2 guys were going to do to her . Didn't even get a thankyou after I got her home but didn't care .at least I could live with myself . couldn't have just walked past cus I know what people can be like they sadly prey on the weak and vulnerable. It would have turned out very bad for the girl you and I both saved. I would like to think if my kids were ever that stupid to do something similar somebody would be there for them to save them from themselves .love from the uk
@nmartin5551 Жыл бұрын
I so hope that girl learned something from your saving her. Regardless, thank you for being willing to help a fellow human. Even if she can’t appreciate it, I do.
@carlavincent132311 ай бұрын
You were her guardian angel. Thank you for caring. God bless you!
@willowsmom575710 ай бұрын
Yes, lectures are very effective for alcoholics. 😳
@megandolimpio657910 ай бұрын
Oooh I was roofied up there, wild,
@mamabear90406 жыл бұрын
I drank like I have never seen anyone drink. I by the grace of God am free of that Devil. Hate it now. I lost my daughter to prescription drugs 5 months ago but never drank because of it. I am as free as I will ever be.Thank you, Jesus.
@MM-Iconoclast6 жыл бұрын
So very sorry for the loss of your daughter.
@maga20426 жыл бұрын
I pray for you. I hope you keep being strong. I am sorry for your loss. It hurts but feel it like we all do (i also lost a baby). Dont be afraid of the feeling. Its hard but it will pass and you will be fine. Sad but fine. Sadness is part of everything we need to experience. It hurts but we are made to overcome it also. Just keep being aware of it. You don't need to escape or numb the pain. Just feel it and it will pass. May God bless you.
@lala_bee6 жыл бұрын
I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope that you'll be ok.
@JannaSlaback5 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for the loss of your daughter. Addiction .... such a horrible and devastating disease, whether it's alcohol or drugs or over eating or gambling, etc. It doesn't discriminate and affects all walks of life. I'm glad you're sober today. Again, I'm sorry for your huge, huge loss of your daughter.
@annarichardson82845 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your incredible loss, Gigi. Prayers for you every day. Don't give up. God loves you so much and He is proud of you as we all are.
@joanholliman6736 жыл бұрын
As an alcoholic myself, I applaud her for her bravery. I haven't drank in years, but still struggle.
@antonydick93836 жыл бұрын
It's damn hard but keep it up... Xxx...
@annarichardson82845 жыл бұрын
Don't stop trying. I am a stranger but I am praying for you Joan. Everyday.
@SarahLizDoan5 жыл бұрын
Joan Holliman you are amazing and one day at a time.
@arx7545 жыл бұрын
I hear you.. I often (jokingly, because I don't believe in reincarnation) think that in my next lifetime, I'll have great skin (I had horrible acne as a teenager and it left scars), great hair (mine is fine and thin), and I WON'T be an alcoholic! (lol). Not necessarily in that order.....
@justi-re8ef5 жыл бұрын
Joan Holliman hope he has fin
@jenkinskevin855 жыл бұрын
I feel her pain. I was brought back to life with a defibrillator about 6 years ago, due to a car accident. If it wasn't for a 16 year old with a cell phone on a bike at 2AM, passing by that night, I'd be dead. All caused by alcohol. It didn't scare me out of stopping. Fast forward 6 years later, detox. 12 days under medical supervision. Still didn't scare me. Tonight, marks day 1. I'm done with the cycle. It ends today.
@justinmopavich36854 жыл бұрын
An update would be great I'm praying for you brother
@mp52494 жыл бұрын
My son's overdose didnt make him stop either. He used heroin. Eventually he decided to stop. They say "you gotta want it." He white knuckled it for at least a year. There is a lot of good people ready to help you. Alone it's almost impossible. Trust me, my other son sits on my piano in a box. The pain is indescribable. Good luck.
@Charrisnemtblueprint4 жыл бұрын
@@mp5249 🙏🏽❤😢
@infowazz4 жыл бұрын
hope you're doing good. do u exercise a lot? that helps me very much. exhaust the body and get into that zen state.
@kevinkelley43764 жыл бұрын
How are you doing a year later?
@LetsPartyOurFacesOff2 жыл бұрын
She was dissociating from the anxiety and the grabbing of the desk and her engagement ring brought her back. I had no idea I was doing the same thing, dissociating. This is so relatable it hurts.
@nicholasdenton38885 жыл бұрын
The most profound thing Elizabeth said was “ I’d die for my kids in a Nano second but I wouldn’t stop drinking for them!” That’s how powerful addiction is!
@edithhardy8394 жыл бұрын
Katy Katt , powerful is correct !!!
@iwonazasada32164 жыл бұрын
I do not understand that and I come from an alcoholic background.
@iwonazasada32164 жыл бұрын
I am a co alcoholic child brought up by alcoholic family
@InnaVitamina7774 жыл бұрын
I agree. For anyone not understanding what it is, this should help put perspective into an addict's mind
@enriquev95084 жыл бұрын
That comes from my soul
@chaunceycali79626 жыл бұрын
I love how ABC really stood by her and let her fumble a few times. That is very rare. Most companies would get rid of you the second they heard of your sickness. Way to go corporate!!
@krismartinez23346 жыл бұрын
ABC
@zac44005 жыл бұрын
That was awesome
@nataliap27055 жыл бұрын
ABC!
@evelynbaron20045 жыл бұрын
that is now, and then, true. But there were several decades before that when doing that kind of job required a high alcohol tolerance level. Then things changed radically, which makes this story that much more poignant.
@hotwheels18385 жыл бұрын
Lol... Because she is high up..... She's been in the industry for a looong time, when you're that high up, you can do anything
@mcewenca5 жыл бұрын
My sister in law just passed away from alcohol related liver disease, she was 48. She was a very intelligent woman with two degrees and held very high positions in Work. We watched the alcohol gradually take everything from her. She fought hard but it was a cruel and relentless demon and it had its hooks deep in her. It was the worst death I’ve ever seen, nothing tranquil or peaceful about it, just the slow shutdown of organs and the knock on effects like ascites (fluid in the abdomen), dementia, hernia, jaundice, psychosis and worst of all excruciating pain that they can’t treat because drugs are metabolised through the liver. We saw this legalised poison turn a beautiful, intelligent and happy girl into a corpse. If you’re struggling with alcohol addiction or any addiction, please don’t give up trying to get sober. Trust me, you don’t want to go out like our Andrea did.
@doot48445 жыл бұрын
A good friend of mine wasted away and died at 42. He was sad and hated his addiction.
@mcewenca5 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for your kind words. Andrea passed away on 20th December 2018, we had hoped she’d make it to Christmas but she didn’t. I’m going to admit something that I’m not proud of but I had been very judgmental of Andrea in the years that she had been married to my brother. I felt that drinking was a choice she made and in doing so she also chose the consequences, I had little sympathy. When I saw her frail body (41kgs), her yellow skin and eyes, she struggled to stand, I felt ashamed of myself for judging her so harshly. I realised that she didn’t ask for this, no one does. I looked at her and finally saw not someone who had made bad choices that lead to addiction, but instead a person who had struggled with a alcohol addiction for decades and the absolute hell it had put her through. Losing her job, losing her home, having to go on welfare, and eventually losing her life. So that was my life lesson, don’t judge lest Ye be judged. I’ll never again look upon someone with addiction and believe they are weak because they fight a battle every single day with only two possible outcomes life or death. For anyone who reads this I just want to say again, keep fighting for your sobriety and your health you are worth it and never believe that you are weak, you are so strong!!! You slip up so what, try again tomorrow. Fall down 8 times get up 9. God bless and thanks for reading Andreas story.
@mcewenca5 жыл бұрын
Lucky Cat I’m really sorry. You know when they die that young it’s been a heavy addiction. It was for Andrea.
@arx7545 жыл бұрын
@@mcewenca : It's wonderful to read what you wrote. I'm a recovering alcoholic. Unfortunately, some alcoholics "bottom" (what finally gets them to stop drinking) is death. There are no accurate statistics out there re how many alcoholics out there get sober and stay sober, but I think the number is fairly low. I got sober in AA after many attempts, years ago. But, since then, I've met MANY people who are "functional alcoholics" , and I have to wonder at how many will die early from "alcohol-related" diseases. Yes, there's no doubt that Andrea did not have a pleasant life, and for anyone to say she "chose" that life, is ridiculous. I'm convinced that anyone who is not an alcoholic just doesn't understand the "pull" alcohol has on alcoholics. to explain a bit, with some of us (the LUCKY ones), alcohol stops "working". It no longer gives us the pleasure it once did, so we are ready to stop. It's called "hitting bottom". But, with others--like Andrea----it doesn't stop "working" OR there's the constant hope that, once again, it WILL work, and open the door to feeling "happy", "feeling good". That HOPE is there each time. Finally, I must bring up the obesity epidemic in this country especially in light of how judgemental people are against alcoholics. I have NO DOUBT that tens of millions of people in this country are ADDICTED to food, and it operates just the same way with them as alcohol does on alcoholics. No ones CHOOSES to be obese anymore than one CHOOSES to be an alcoholic. So, I am very kind to obese people because I recognize they are "out of control". I DO think food manufacturers are to blame for a lot of it, and I wish we treated them the same way we treated Big Tobacco, starting with NO advertising on TV, etc. (If you do research on food manufacturing, you will find that they operate labs to make their foods "irresistable" to people. Read about those who make potato chips, for example, and they work to make the 20th chip taste just as good to you as the first one). I bring this up because I'm sure MANY overweight/obese people are incredibly judgemental of alcoholics and drug addicts. They need to "Look to yourself first, before you pass judgement".
@mcewenca5 жыл бұрын
arx754 thank you so much for the insightful feedback, and congratulations on your sobriety I do know how hard it is to kick. I agree with you 100% about the pull of alcohol because I saw it first hand with Andrea. I was one of those judgemental people who thought addiction starts with bad choices, but watching what alcohol did to my sister in law made me realise that addiction starts with trauma. Andrea had suffered abuse and family violence as a child and as a result she had painful memories and emotions that she couldn’t deal with. Alcohol is unlike any other drug, firstly it’s legal and readily available and it’s cheap. I think the road to alcoholism can be subtle, and by that I mean if you shoot up heroin you know there’s a fair chance that you’ll become addicted, if you take methamphetamines there’s a more than good chance you’ll become addicted. Alcohol is a sneaky bugga, I would imagine that you start out drinking socially, as a lot of us do, and then perhaps a glass or two to unwind after work, again something a lot of people do. Then a couple glasses becomes a couple of bottles, then it’s a hair of the dog in the morning to get you going and without you realising it you’ve become dependent on alcohol to function. I’m assuming this is the way it happens, but I’m sure there are many different modes and reasons. My point being that alcoholism can be incipient, you don’t realise there’s a problem until it’s a problem. I also totally agree with you regarding the obesity epidemic. I assume you’re in America? I’m in Australia, I think we rank 2nd or 3rd in the world behind you and the UK for obesity. I myself have had weight struggles all my life, I’m not huge but I’m overweight and I understand food addiction, so if the pull of food is like the pull of alcohol then I get it. Food for many people does the same trick as alcohol. It’s always there, it provides a feel good factor, its instant gratification, it quells it numbs pain, its at times your only friend, lover, companion. Its very lonely and solitary, and the thing that gives you the most pleasure is also doing you the most harm and adding to your issues. It’s a vicious cycle. When I eat I sit there thinking that I shouldn’t be doing this but I’m going to do it anyway. So feeling good is quickly followed by feeling very bad. If that’s anything like how it feels to be addicted to alcohol then we understand each other more than we think. I know that people drink for many reasons. For Andrea it was emotional, I know for some it’s about chronic physical pain, for some it’s anxiety and social awkwardness. Whatever the reason I have seen the end result and I wouldn’t wish it on my worst enemy. Thanks again for reading my long winded message. I want people struggling to know that you are worth every attempt it takes to get healthy. Peace brothers and sisters
@monwell250 Жыл бұрын
I to have anxiety and an alcoholic. So sick of drinking and I'm sitting here feeling sick from a few days before. I'm glad I stumbled across this story 🙏🏽
@junespence7546 Жыл бұрын
Hope and pray you are in a better place now. 🙃
@starwisdom18143 жыл бұрын
She is 100% spot on when saying it doesn’t matter what you have it really doesn’t matter because the addiction is all you’re living for.
@suestephan3255 Жыл бұрын
She said it leveled her. She might have had a good job and wealth but you are leveled to the position of any addict.
@favouredblessed26317 жыл бұрын
Alcohol is bad am trying to recover God hold my hand
@jenniferselespara13276 жыл бұрын
Agnes Wangari you can do it I been sober for 5 years
@allisonsnow97186 жыл бұрын
God bless you and give you strength
@janedavis47936 жыл бұрын
Whatever works for you to get through the moment, use it. If it’s god, great, if it’s calling a friend, great, if it’s a support group great- whatever it takes to not drink.
@hoopenhanger6 жыл бұрын
Gods not going to do anything for you. Get off your fat hole and get a wonderful job like Elizabeth!
@amadisima81456 жыл бұрын
Agnes praying to God to deliver you from alcoholism He can do miracles all you have to do is ask in the name of Jesus and surrender completely. God bless you.
@_tardigrade7 жыл бұрын
I am an alcoholic. This woman is so spot on in the way she describes how it feels when you realize you're too far gone and can't stop drinking. Great interview.
@the5stacys6 жыл бұрын
tardigrade how are you doing now? Care to share?
@stumack97556 жыл бұрын
he's passed out.
@smug85676 жыл бұрын
Miriam Lancewood Miriam Lancewood Miriam Lancewood, everywhere you look Miriam Lancewood. Damn a Miriam Lancewood !
@emlove60105 жыл бұрын
The jittery/shaky feeling all over your body is spot on.
@babyboyy2072 жыл бұрын
@@emlove6010 and the heart fluttering
@elizabethgracee2 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad she came out of alcoholism. I grew up with an alcoholic mother and she is still one until this day. My grandmother had to raise me and my sister because of it. It’s scary because I was starting to drink a lot too to the point where I needed wine next to my nightstand at night to feel “secure” when going to sleep in case I “needed” it. A friend saw how much I was drinking on a one girls night out and called me out. It changed everything. I haven’t drank in over a year. Please tell your family and friends what you see. You don’t know how much it can impact their life.
@auntihooha3 жыл бұрын
When I think about all the times I was alone and blacked out, wandering around downtown Seattle streets, or alone on vacation in Mexico, I know that I had guardian angels watching over me. I really should be dead.
@carlosholt14033 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
@jameshowardhall31152 жыл бұрын
@@jg6698 Yeah, that is some crazy shit. I have never seen this before. Shame on him!
@annechoyrocks2 жыл бұрын
Glad you are still here with us. Take care!
@megan36634 жыл бұрын
I am seeing so many sobriety dates! Congratulations to you all! And to those still struggling, I am with you, you are strong, and I believe in you!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@justrandom87665 жыл бұрын
December 29th 2018 ...I just decided I wasn't drinking alcohol anymore, Jan 2nd 2019 my husband said he wasn't drinking anymore ( both of us drank many bottles of wine a day for years) I met and married him last year. Its now 31st. January 2019 and neither of us have thought about alcohol since we made our decision. We drink mostly water and enjoy remembering our day and our time together. Since December 29th 2018 I have lost 24lbs and my husband has lost 16 lb, and gone down 2 sizes☺ I had an alcohol dependant father and myself and brother were given alcohol as children with no limits. It has affected me all my life and how i'm still alive i'll never know. This year I feel like myself and husband are begining a new life and we feel great☺
@allisongarrett48244 жыл бұрын
Jayne Pete did you have serious problems coming off of it. I drink a few beers a night, for 2 years. I want to stop but am afraid. Cannot go to rehab and don’t want to have seizures and etc.... i hope you see this,
@InnaVitamina7774 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing ! May you never feel the chains of addiction again ! Hugs!
@terryholt370410 ай бұрын
I can totally relate to everything she says! I fought with alcohol for many years before getting sober 31/2 years ago. Praise the Lord!!
@OK-hi5ym4 жыл бұрын
Just finished reading Elizabeth's book, it was so, so good I highly recommend it to anyone but especially those who are dealing with addiction, either themselves or someone they love. I'm six months (seven in less than week) sober from heroin today!
@martinkent3333 жыл бұрын
Losers are powderpuffs who struggle with inanimate objects.
@karinhattingh82573 жыл бұрын
That is so good to read, not many can get off heroin, you are now on my prayer list until the day I die. Well done
@lydiapetra12113 жыл бұрын
How are you doing? May God bless you and help you daily to succeed and stay healthy 🙋🙏🙏🙏
@PolvoDeEstrellas773 жыл бұрын
God is good keep up the good work stayed bless I lost my uncle to that stuff and not a day goes by we don’t miss him his daughter is having the hardest time ever ! God bless you!
@jeanbecker65083 жыл бұрын
My son and daughter in law just passed 7 yrs herion free..as you know it takes a lot of work but it's possible. Keep up the good work sending positive thoughts your way!
@christinewalker30773 жыл бұрын
I stumbled onto this unexpectedly. I can relate to so many things she said...,the hiding, the shame when my secret was out, etc. My problem was with pain pills, my job as a nurse gave me easy access. I worked for several years before I crossed the line and became addicted. I had to be confronted several times before being able to admit I had a problem. My nursing license was suspended and I went to rehab so I could get reinstated. Ironically, I made the difficult decision not to go back to nursing because I couldn't say if I could handle being around the drugs again and I knew I wouldn't be able to handle hitting bottom a second time. I do share my "sobriety time," which is 26 years and 6 months and I have been a substance abuse counselor for the last 18 years.
@AR-do2ob2 жыл бұрын
Great story
@Fly_Navy2 жыл бұрын
My 30 year marriage broke up due to the excess drinking of the ex wife. She is also a nurse. No one can ever tell her she needed help. I was left with 4 adult angry children. The children refused to allow her back into their life. When they tried, she would become a drunken mess and cause a really bad scene. I begged the children to not hold a grudge, because it would hurt them in a long run. It pains me that this women is alone. She was not invited to two college graduations and two weddings. We have not spoken for years. We all know a phone call is coming......I still prayer for her every Sunday.
@mofnn242 жыл бұрын
Christine good for you and may God bless you everyday. Keep up the good work.
@meganhartgryczkowski72322 жыл бұрын
@@Fly_Navy praying for your kids. My exhusband is an alcoholic and had a liver transplant 3 years ago. He's back to heavy drinking and my daughter repeatedly tells me she hates him and never wants to see him. I tell her that it's okay to be angry but to hate the addiction and hate how it's made her feel, but don't hate him. It's a horrible illness that has robbed my daughter of a father she deserves. I don't know if it's wrong or right, but I don't force her to see him. It breaks my heart knowing how much pain his drinking has caused her.
@camille76232 жыл бұрын
Amazing … ✌🏼
@zeroceiling7 жыл бұрын
Anxiety is the biggest childhood affliction of all...and it leaves life-long tracks.
@seversley8315 жыл бұрын
zeroceiling wow this is soo true. Life long for sure.
@conoroniel87176 ай бұрын
Yes. I am now sober over 18 months.
@behughes637 жыл бұрын
She opens her soul and private life here. Why, to help out other alcoholics. To also help educate people and offer courage. I can't believe all of the criticism for this. What is wrong with people when they have to attack someone who has a disease?
@CalebBlock7 жыл бұрын
behughes63 it's only a disease due to lobbying from insurance companies, there is no disease of alconolism in any scientific sense. being addicted to it can cause diseases... but alcoholism is not a disease
@virginiagirl66287 жыл бұрын
Caleb Block actually there is. thank God with help some people can stop. the statistics are that only 1 in 5 can stop. it is an insidious, deadly disease. but as I said there is hope... but I am not sure a lack of empathy can be fixed. you ought to look into it.
@CalebBlock7 жыл бұрын
Notice how you just glaze over what I said to fit your preconceived notions. If you actually research the topic, you'd come to my conclusion. Of course you mentioned God, but your program isn't religious, it's spiritual.. right? What disease is cured by praying and writing a list of everyone you had sex with? Get real. The facts are that it is labeled a "disease" due to lobbying and committee rather than actual scientific research. But, you're welcome to think whatever you want.
@virginiagirl66287 жыл бұрын
Caleb Block thank you for your permission to think whatever I want. my father died at 47 from alcoholism and I lost almost 10 years of my life to the same problem. I wouldn't be writing this because I would have died a long time ago. AA didn't work, nor did rehab. I was beyond sick and I am sure you won't believe this but Jesus cured me. I completely lost the desire to drink. I haven't drunk in 16 years and I know without the desire to drink being taken away from me I would never have stopped. Peace.
@behughes637 жыл бұрын
VirginiaGirl66 - there is no doubt in my mind that God had a hand curing you.
@jupiterevergreen87764 жыл бұрын
I’ve been sober 14 months. It’s truly, every addict only has today. I’ve said many times I’m only one broken heart away from relapse. It’s amazing the things humans do to avoid or stop pain.
@stevechristie25693 жыл бұрын
Miss Jones is that you in your profile photograph?
@martinkent3333 жыл бұрын
Join AA and see a psychologist. That's for normal people with issues.
@prettyinink16613 жыл бұрын
Yes! I am only a heart break away from a relapse. Love that
@Elevatedpoetry3 жыл бұрын
Proud of you sweetie kzbin.info/www/bejne/oZ3XaZSrip6Kg5o
@quickdraw25323 жыл бұрын
Hopefully you have found what works for you now. If by chance you haven't and are still searching don't give up it does come sometimes it just takes awhile. Life is such a precious gift but so darn difficult to unwrap.
@elizabetht4583 жыл бұрын
I am losing my mom, age 70, to alcoholism. As I grew up, she never drank, we never really had alcohol in the house..she always said she hated the taste of all alcohol. She'd had a long and successful career, which she was retiring from...and suddenly somehow she discovered she no longer loathed alcohol, and over the space of 2 or so years, she immersed herself into full throttle alcoholism. Weddings, funerals, holidays, she has missed or destroyed many of them. Our family is in shambles, relationships destroyed. She has done several stints in rehab, one for 3 full months. She got her 3rd DUI recently. Then in January 2021, a few months ago, the unthinkable occurred, and I don't think we will ever have answers. She has hid so much of her life from us, her friends, etc....but a friend we know came to visit her after not hearing from her for days, and found her in her apartment, brutally beaten, barely conscious, blood just everywhere. He called the squad. My alcoholic mother had received a Traumatic Brain injury, not even speaking to the multiple fractures, contusions- all of it. She has no idea who has done this to her, and after a month in hospital, she was released, was staying with my aunt, and now she drinks openly, the only change was her efforts to conceal her addiction. If my aunt took her Vodka, she tried to leave, said she would walk . The Dr's told us how incredibly important it is the she does not sustain another fall, is very careful...but she can't be controlled. We called the police, there is nothing they could do,it isn't illegal to drink yourself to death. Finally she got so intoxicated we were able to have her taken in as a threat to herself physically, and we scrambled, began the process of filing for guardianship, which failed. She has been taken back to the hospital easily 20 times in these 4 months, and keeps getting out. We make her the neurologist appointments she was supposed to have, she cancels them. She will have 5 minutes occasionally of sounding somewhat like the person we remember..maybe some vague discussion of wanting to get sober, then she drinks. The Doctors have said there was very little chance that her brain will ever heal, likely has gotten worse, we are out of legal options, and are aware that we probably do not have very long, as her labs have slowly gotten worse each hospitalization. Barring a miracle..even the realization that her life is unmanageable due to alcohol is unlikely to happen due to her TBI. My heart is broken, but I will still hope, and still cheer for everyone and anyone who has even 1 day sober..please keep trying.
@pollacksharman01473 жыл бұрын
Hello how are you doing 😊😊☺️
@annylaarman34972 жыл бұрын
ALANON IS FOR FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF ALCOHOLICS TRY IT IT WORKS FOR ME
Wow that's crazy. Your mum sounds like Frank Gallagher from shameless. I guess you've gotta give her credit for not boozing while she was raising you? I wonder if she drank before you were born
@newnana9070 Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry for your families lost of your mother. The personality you’re living with isn’t her. I am the daughter of two functioning alcoholic parents. Functioning in that my dad worked everyday and drank on weekends Friday through Sunday morning. The same for my mother. Then gradually my mother started everyday all day. My dad lost his job 3 years from retirement and had to get one with less pay. They separated and things went totally to hell in a hand basket. I drink an occasional glass of wine maybe 4 a month. I have one brother that is dying from alcoholic medical problems. One brother that started drinking at 14, falling down drunk at times( still did until 2 years ago( had a stroke). And one the would only drink at home, violent drunk. 2 out of 5 brothers didn’t drink at all. One girl out of 5 drank heavily ( drink of choice, beer, and she was diabetic). The rest of us drink some wine now and than. I have a nephew( sisters son) that is a drunk, flat out, doesn’t drink going to work but has lost his drivers lic and has his car booted. Mom takes him to court and dad takes him to work. So It can be a family problem through generations.
@jaygallamore56211 ай бұрын
I watched this when it originally came out and it hit pretty hard. My wife was an alcoholic that struggled with the disease of alcoholism most of her adult life. She didn’t make it. She had many slips then became addicted to prescription drugs. On March 10, 2020 she died from the disease of addiction. I pray for all those and their families that are effected by this.
@lauriehillyard656910 ай бұрын
That's so heartbreaking. My condolences to you for the loss of your wife to the terrible disease of addiction.
@stormyjade7 жыл бұрын
I remember when she announced to the world that she was an alcoholic. I was surprised because to me, she always looked so put together & a successful, professional. It opened my eyes to the fact that alcohol can affect ALL people, regardless of the advantages or disadvantages you have in life. I applaud her courage and she has helped people by sharing her story. We should be proud of her for that & not be critical. Just my thoughts.......
@LisaMaryification6 жыл бұрын
I wonder if coworkers smelled the booze on her breath. I doubt the revelation was a surprise to them.
@alicianottkeys3372 жыл бұрын
We all do. My alcoholism caused me to lose soo much I had worked soooo hard to achieve. I’m in tears watching this.
@pinkydogbear2 жыл бұрын
I agree
@sarahreid34677 жыл бұрын
I've always liked Elizabeth Vargas but I admire her more so now :)
@ILOVEMEW105 жыл бұрын
3yrs sober. And no smoking for that long as well.
@StillWatersRunDeep1015 жыл бұрын
RESPECT
@koichinishi90754 жыл бұрын
One day at a time!!
@maryannhope82764 жыл бұрын
WOW!!! BLESSINGS SENT FROM RHODE ISLAND WITH LOVE & RESPECT. PEACE
@jimogrady11314 жыл бұрын
Rebecca seppanen I got caught up in going to 70s concerts, I was breaking the law drinking beer at 16. I surprised myself how much I could drink being only 5'6" Tall. Also surprised I had Girlfriends being that small. Doesn't help coming from an IRISH Family. I think IRISH People are SPECIAL born with Red Hair & Freckles. We have our flaws our skin burns easily in the sun, REDHEADS do get made fun of. Had a sister obsessed with Long Hair Rock Stars. Alcohol Addiction is real, I would drink 12 cans & still wanted more. 1 time on New Years Eve I was so drunk I kissed a stranger instead of my Girlfriend. I had lots of blackouts if you don't know what that is you cant remember anything you did that night. Aside from my Drinking I kept my job for 28 years. This is silly when I had to go to Court I thought I would be in more trouble cause of my IRISH name. Lucky DWI laws weren't that bad in 70s & 80s. Going to AA meetings got me sober, those meetings were so helpful everybody is so Friendly. Congrads on quiting smoking. Im live near INDIAN RESERVATIONS TAX Free CIGERETTES only $ 14.00 dollars for a carton. I live in NEW YORK 12 dollars for 1 pack. Sorry for all IRISH Stuff IM JUST A PROUD IRISH AMERICAN
@peggypeggy41374 жыл бұрын
What was harder, quitting drinking or smoking? Did you find that it was a cross addiction & quit both at same time? I'm not a big drinker but I find smoking hard to quit & I like to have a beer when I smoke.
@terrijames1582 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this years ago and I cried like a baby bc I ADMIRED HER soo much! I saw someone with so much compassion, STRENGTH, & COURAGE, etc. I don’t think I have EVER been so PROUD of a woman behind the screens in my life. I’ve struggled with addiction for 13 years. I lost my little brother to ONE pill laced with Fentanyl during the 2020 pandemic- & couldn’t even give him a real funeral. I got clean a few months before he passed. And it’s been the absolute HARDEST to stay straight but TODAY, I can say I feel confident enough that I believe I may make it. I think of this woman so much during my journey. For the rest of you- YOU ARE WORTH GETTING HELP!
@cherylbarger50425 жыл бұрын
Sober since 12/ 1/ 90 But for the grace.....
@lunachickfringe53195 жыл бұрын
Way to go!
@dreasmom27895 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@paperflowers63615 жыл бұрын
beautiful comment ♡
@christopherholmberg70564 жыл бұрын
16 months sober today. I’m studying to be a bus driver 😎
@karterjoseph13003 жыл бұрын
Great . I’ve been a bus driver for 25 years and now a class A hazmat tanker driver. You can do it good luck.
@JB-qt3wo3 жыл бұрын
Lmao….geezus christ.
@kylorenthehusky25843 жыл бұрын
Wishing you all the best ❤️
@suchabadkitty12932 жыл бұрын
@@JB-qt3wo What's so funny?
@jasminejohnstone18032 жыл бұрын
@@JB-qt3wo What's funny ?? Grow up 🥱🥱
@astarryeyedgirl4 жыл бұрын
My dad lost his battle with alcoholism not long before this documentary was uploaded. To those fighting now: Alcoholism kills. Get help if you need it. Keep trying till you succeed. Someone out there loves you and wants you back.
@LegitLC2 жыл бұрын
I did NOT want to watch this. I was NOT going to comment, but here we are. The hiding, the sneaking, the justifying, the deflection, all of it. “Unfeminine” was what got me. I felt that deeply. Full bottles of vodka alone while hiding in the bathroom in the middle of the night while the world slept…not a good look. It’s hard to want better for yourself when you don’t think you deserve it. I’m stubborn and competitive as hell and used that to my advantage. My alcoholic brain said, “You can’t stop.” I said (aloud), “Watch me.” It still sneaks in and I just say, “ZIP ITTTTTT, A**h***.” Whatever works. You do you. 7 years without it on March 5th, 2022.
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
It's the "ISM" that's the ass kicker, not the alcohol. The root problem is "self". All the best to you, and congratulations!
@LegitLC2 жыл бұрын
@@Mark-pp7jy , I’ve never heard anyone say that and I literally yelled, “EXACTLY!” in agreement. You just summed up 15+ years of my life in a sentence. I’m still a bit speechless. Thank you, Mark! ❤️
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
@@LegitLC It is the single most important aspect of my recovery, and allows me to maintain / develop my spiritual condition a day at a time. I can't take any credit for sharing the "ism" knowledge though, because so many others have freely carried the message to me, expecting nothing in return. What a gift to be sober! 🙂
@LegitLC2 жыл бұрын
@@Mark-pp7jy, well I’m crediting you because you brought it to me expecting nothing in return. Thank you, Mark. March 5th marked 7 years and like any other day, I had/have the awareness and a healthy fear that I could throw it away in an instant. I didn’t like who I was though, so I’ll just keep doing me. ❤️
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
@@LegitLC Very happy for you. There was a time when I thought 7 years was an astronomical number, and it is considering the behemoth alcoholism. You "keep doing you", and you'll be fine LC! Oh, and it keeps getting better...you have my word on it! 🙂
@petithibou18916 жыл бұрын
1year sober today
@lilijody5 жыл бұрын
Ju Z congrats
@absolutelyridiculous67435 жыл бұрын
Congratulations!! You're a strong individual and I admire your determination. Here's to more days, weeks, months, and years to your sobriety!
@ritaqueponds14465 жыл бұрын
Congratulations,! So happy for you!
@Johnbartheart5 жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@skywriter93595 жыл бұрын
Wonderful!!
@sierradavis98607 жыл бұрын
im struggling with alcoholism myself, and watching this gave me hope. god bless you. I'll be rooting for you!
@antonydick93836 жыл бұрын
It's hard but you take care me dear... Xxx...
@kathys51765 жыл бұрын
Me too. Been battling that forever plus some! We can pray for hope. Amen.
@rayc.3965 жыл бұрын
Up til 2 days ago I've drink for about20 year havin hard time at the moment But I'm fed up with being a alcoholic....good luck to yall and god bless
@mollz285 жыл бұрын
@@rayc.396 stay strong and take it one day at a time
@ruthsouza94604 жыл бұрын
I cried watching this. I could feel her pain and shame, I knew it all to well😢. I have been sober going on 13 years and I am finally finding the grace to forgive myself. Thank you Elizabeth for your incredible strength in sharing your story. You are a beautiful soul ❤️🙏❤️
@martinkent3333 жыл бұрын
She was a total loser. Powderpuffs always find inanimate objects a struggle. Try raising 4 teens, dude.
@drooliezager87243 жыл бұрын
She needs to join LLAA Lying liberal assholes anonymous She drink out of guilt for lying for an agenda driving media group on a daily basis and she has to sit next to that hack stupidoppolus
@carlosholt14033 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love 💕 all over the world 🌍
@philhuber74933 жыл бұрын
“The grace to forgive myself” That is the most beautiful expression I’ve encountered in over 35 years of sobriety. You, sir, are a beautiful soul. Thank you.
@scubasteve73033 жыл бұрын
Love this. Especially the child dynamic. I was six years sober when my only child, a son, was born. It’s been 15 years since my last drink. My life’s goal is that he never sees me with a drink in my had or booze on my breath. It’s the greatest gift I can give him. For anyone struggling, don’t give up. One more try is always worth it. ❤️
@fabermcmullen13 жыл бұрын
She was so blessed to be surrounded by family who loved her unconditionally.
@suchabadkitty12932 жыл бұрын
And to have the money to deal w this at some luxury resort. Dealing w addiction when you're poor is a whole different story.
@daughterofthemosthigh33662 жыл бұрын
@@suchabadkitty1293 She did not go to a luxury resort. I just finished reading her book. She could have afforded luxury. But someone encouraged her go to some treatment center that turned out to be not so great.
@suchabadkitty12932 жыл бұрын
@@daughterofthemosthigh3366 Irrelevant.
@BJ2020_2 жыл бұрын
Women metabolize alcohol differently which leads to addiction, damage sooner
@suchabadkitty12932 жыл бұрын
@@BJ2020_ Explain.
@jillcarpenter82747 жыл бұрын
I've always admired Elizabeth Vargas. Never would have guessed she had an addiction problem. Congrats to her for sharing and possibly inspiring someone who needs help.
@thewewguy8t886 жыл бұрын
seriously there are many people i would have never guessed had problems.
@samesquibel55106 жыл бұрын
Jill Carpenter amen
@lioydwilliams18503 жыл бұрын
Jill Carpenter,you must be a kind being
@carlosholt14033 жыл бұрын
Hello 👋 , I hope you’re safe over there? I am Carlos Holt from Key West and you Where are you from if i may ask? I hope this year brings happiness prosperity and love all over the world
@speranzaproductions3 жыл бұрын
“There’s not a drug on earth can make life meaningful.” ― Sarah Kane
@nebis313 жыл бұрын
Obviously Sarah never tried DMT
@nebis313 жыл бұрын
Other than DMT your quote stands 99.99% accurate, the rest are garbage
@speranzaproductions3 жыл бұрын
@@nebis31 Here are just a few of the things you should watch for: * intense hallucinations (think elf-like creatures, some friendly and some not so much) * visual disturbances, such as kaleidoscope vision and flashes of bright colors and light * auditory distortion, such as changes in volume and hearing strange voices * depersonalization, often described as feeling like you’re not real * floating sensation, sometimes as if floating away from yourself or your surroundings * altered sense of time * paranoia and fear (and this is just the tip of the iceberg)
@nebis313 жыл бұрын
@@speranzaproductions Lol correct. You get to die, get blasted into the center of the universe and communicate with godlike creatures. There are studies were it is showing a 80% success rate in breaking opiate addiction. Pretty life changing if you ask me
@nebis313 жыл бұрын
@@speranzaproductions That is a list of some of the unpleasant side effects some may feel but what you get out of it is beyond description. It’s changing modern medicine and the way we are looking at depression, anxiety and all kinds of other mental disorders on a level that we were unable to touch with current meds.. listen to all of the peoples lives changed by this medicine
@suzannetaylor62853 жыл бұрын
My husband is 3 years sober ( after his 4 th time in rehab) his brother wasn’t so lucky.. he died from the disease . This disease doesn’t discriminate. Don’t be ashamed to ask for help and don’t give up ♥️
@Mark-pp7jy2 жыл бұрын
Nobody gets sober in rehab! Rehab facilities do a great job of medically supervised detox, and education, but the individual has to eventually rejoin society and make a choice...life or death!