"GO TIME": when it's time for your feelings to stop mattering (so much)

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[@bookdragonloziejane5165]

"In life, we are heros in some people's stories and villans in others, but everyone is a side character in ours." I can't remember who said that to me, but it helps me quite a bit when I re-enforce a boundry in my life and it makes someone angry with me. Don't get me wrong, I'll always help if I can, but I will no longer destroy myself to please others. If I have to become the villian in their story to be able to continue mine, then so be it.

[@LaidyJezabel]

100% relatable. I'm a trudge through gripping my backpack take care of everyone person. I know I need to stop and sort my stuff and also set boundaries but hard to do when its all you've ever known. Helps hearing it from someone else and reminds to think about these things. Thanks for the talk. 💜

[@scarletb3378]

As someone who was a caretaker for half their life, it took experiencing a major loss to see who my friends and family really were and how miserable I became trying to get them to care about me. Now I focus on myself and yeah I may be the villain in their story but I’m the hero in my own ☺️ Thanks for this reminder! 😊

[@elerainone5737]

Gracias por compartir tu experiencia! A un "dador nato" encontrar el equilibrio sin sentir culpa no es fácil pero es extremadamente importante. Te quiero ❤

[@tomyannguenther2978]

You are so very correct. We cannot be more than we are and nothing we do really hinders other people in the long run!!!

[@user-gt6el2vz1q]

Wow. Put a tissue warning on these lives, will you??? I have become a shell of who I used to be. The caregiver role - children, parents, family, etc. - has become obsolete. I loved that role. Now, I have become SO lost and purposeless. I am overwhelmed everywhere I look, because I stopped moving forward. It is time for me to call in reinforcements to reset my definition of me. I need to load up my backpack and take those "go" steps. And yes, it does really help to have a forum to put structure to feelings and thoughts. Thank you so very much! Wish me luck in slapping the pendulum 💜🤞

[@pz4971]

Good luck to you on your new journey💜🙏!

[@user-gt6el2vz1q]

@@pz4971 Thank you! I’m going to need some courage and a huge BTS playlist! 💜

[@pz4971]

@user-gt6el2vz1q my Amazon BTS playlist is almost 23 hours long with all their collaborations & solos. (Once RM's album drops, it'll be over.) That should be enough to get you started 😁

[@pz4971]

@user-gt6el2vz1q my BTS Prime Music playlist is 23 hours long (including solo work, collabs, etc. ). That's a solid playlist for a life change/ life embracing soundtrack😁

[@catandfishy]

solid life advice. Thank you.

[@brendatorres8279]

Thanks!! I really need this.

[@pamaustin2823]

Thank you for sharing. I think I needed to hear that right about now.

[@justice7858]

Acknowledge the emotion (it’s yours) make adjustments and move forward. Then address it when it’s appropriate. Unpack it to review and study then grow in it. Unpacking does you absolutely no good if you can’t make it work for you. I suck at this. I’m a work in progress.

[@TamaraPanera]

💜💜💜

[@anitralarae_mahjacat]

I've had 5 Spinal Surgeries between March 12, 2020 & April 3rd, 2024. I've Recovered to certain extents, but never back to my Full Capacity. My Mom has, since I returned Home in 2013 (at 40), taken care of the Home stuff, generally. This last one took my ability to Drive, and I've fully regressed to Pre-Teen. Sucks, but it is what it is.

[@KootchLB]

I hope the community gives you comfort and lightness. I can say (from seeing your comments in other discussions/reactions) that your physical challenges have not robbed you of your heart or your intellect. Hugs 💜

[@pz4971]

Good luck with your recovery. Physically, mentally, & if applicable, spiritually💜🙏

[@mamabear_moon7138]

🫂💜💜

[@claudiagl8423]

Não estou entendendo o que houve???😢

[@AmeliaBrown]

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[@madlarking]

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[@1oldcrow350]

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