God Is NOT Removing Your Feelings for a Woman Because . . .

[@Strive1324L]

When it comes to women, there are MANY unknowns. I used to second guess myself, always trying to figure out what would work best for her and what she would and would not like. No more of that for me, now i make a decision and stand with it and tell her what she needs to hear not what she wants to hear.

[@dereksmith.]

Wow. The timing of this video coming out couldn't be more on time with my situation.

[@ChewbaccaDv]

Same bro

[@KBowWow75]

I feel I can understand God better than I can women. Perhaps it's because man was made from God and women were crafted from man.

[@PrettyIndependent1]

As a woman this made me LOL!!! That some women can be more confusing than God is so funny to me because it’s true. There are some women that are really confusing because they operate from that spirit, and not the Holy Spirit. So they purposely cause confusion while trying to sound like they make sense and you don’t. They have a spirit of backwardness. I’ve dealt with them. Until I learned what projection was, what narcissism was, nothing made sense with them. I struggle being confused by God sometimes. I know He didn’t create a spirit of confusion, so I just have to live by faith. The reason I find God confusing is because He sees so far outside of timelines, so I only have a fragment of the full picture. So it’s confusing to me sometimes when he’s trying to tell me to do something that makes absolutely no sense to me currently. But I’ve learned to have faith and let it play out because things He told me 2 years ago finally make perfect sense now. And then there’s somethings I just trust that aren’t for me to make sense of, but it’s my part to play in fulfilling something that will make sense for someone else. 😇🌈

[@cesarriveraii550]

I believe I’ve met the woman God wants me to marry. I met her at my church. We had a brief but very good and chaste relationship a couple years ago. We both fell deeply in love with each other. I asked God for His will to be done. Within a couple weeks, it became harder and harder to see each other. Personal circumstances in her life started pushing her away from me, then there was a sudden death in her family. Then she moved across the country to be with her father’s side of the family. My feelings for her still have not gone away. We still talk to each other semi regularly. I’m always happy to hear from her. A few months ago, she texted me that she met someone new and that she was getting serious with him. My feelings still haven’t gone away. I don’t know what else to think or do. I’ve just been trying to get closer to God, struggle for repentance, and live a Christian life. She made me want to take my Christianity seriously in the first place. No woman I’ve ever dated before then or since then has inspired me spiritually the way she has. Everyone I’ve talked to about it has said that they have faith that God will bring her back to me. Pray for me.

[@kuyanatnatdkrx7]

Date multiple women, don't put your heart to a single woman until you are married. The one that stays is the woman for you. I fell for this trap where I had dreams for a woman and very strong feelings, and I thought this was woman God was telling me to marry. But I respect freewill and let the woman choose for herself. I learned to move on and start to look for multiple women. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

[@cesarriveraii550]

@@kuyanatnatdkrx7 I’m thinking I should probably just take a break from dating.

[@Murph_gaming]

If she moved across the country and has begun seeing someone else, you gotta let her go. It's great that she inspired you spiritually and perhaps that was her purpose during the time you knew each other.

[@PrettyIndependent1]

The woman that God has for you will be hearing from God that she’s supposed to be with you too. I do believe there are times where you meet the right person at the wrong time. I can’t tell if this is it. Do make sure you’re hearing from Gods voice because a lot of men have fallen hearing the enemies voice telling them that their wife is the one, when the enemy just knows how to communicate too. The Bible says My sheep know my voice. So it’s so important to not fall for counterfeits. Have you looked into learning about the Jezebel spirit? I’ve met them. They look pure and sweet and like god loving women, but behind the scenes their hearts are far from Him. It took me a long time to see it in them. They did not have the list of the fruit of the spirit. The could look kind without truly being kind. Their kindness was to be seen by men. But if nobody were to see they would be selfish. They lacked patience and were often trying to manipulate things to happen while looking like they weren’t trying to pull all the strings. These types of women love collecting people to pine after them and show interest when they need to keep them hooked and then pull away. I hope that’s not what’s happening in your case. So if she’s telling you she’s seriously into someone else, you need to let her go in peace to explore that and wish her well. Any type of yo-yo-ing is a 🚩red flag. Look into covert narcissism first. There are tons especially in churches. They go to look like good people get tons of attention, to be loved and given forgiveness for their bad behavior but they don’t repent, but demand you to be a Christian and forgive them because it’s in the Bible, unlimited forgiveness… but they skip over the part where it says they have to repent (aka change their behavior not just apologize) to get the forgiveness.

[@cesarriveraii550]

@@PrettyIndependent1 Well, I’m Orthodox, and so is she. She has been Orthodox for years before I ever met her. She’s a convert from Protestantism just like me. I’ve dealt with very manipulative women in the past and had relationships with them. This one doesn’t seem to fit that mold. I spent enough time with her to know she’s got a good heart. She’s very devoted to living her faith out. While I also do believe it’s possible to meet the right person at the wrong time, I can’t help but wonder when it’s ever going to be the right time. I’ve also considered the possibility that it may be God’s will for me to be a monk.

[@noahbrewer2476]

I haven't had those emotions towards a woman, genuinely, since 2018. With everything I've been through, its now next to impossible to experience them towards someone. Despite pulsing romantic desire, the only thing I'm ever thinking about when interacting with a woman is staying on good terms and maintaining peace. Surviving. Avoiding conflict. No one has looked my way since 2019 so I have even less motivation to bother. Its just me and this idle hopeless now. With Jesus having said that there will be no marriage in the resurrection or the world to come I feel like its completely pointless since romantic and sexual desire along with their institutions will be completely done away with forever. All the more reason why I wish I had the gift of singleness and to just never feel these things so that I can simply serve God to the fullest.

[@Spinoza-ethics-5]

You are imagining on yourself and on others.

[@akindefisayo3267]

I like the second point

[@iEuno1]

There is over $1 billion per year in romance scams. My fiancée has the same problem, always making false assumptions about verification of identity and proof. To let go of a relationship without means to verify who the providing went to is just too unfair, but the scammers design ways to do so. I hired a private investigator to be a witness for the marriage but he says she is a scammer.

[@akindefisayo3267]

HELP ME OUT ON THIS!! I have feelings for a lady i met shortly after i arrived the USA last year August, I told her about it, and on October 23, she blocked my contact just to prevent me chatting her up. So, i also stopped trying to reach out, after 7 months, last week Saturday May 11, she graduated from college and i bought her flowers on her graduation, i took the flowers to her, and met her and her parent as well, she introduced to her family, she wasnt expecting to see me at all, because we only saw each other once, which was last year August when i arrived the USA. Yet, my feeling isn't still going away. What do i do. I am a born again Christian and she is too.

[@Murph_gaming]

That's kinda creepy that you would buy flowers for someone that blocked you and you only saw once.

[@akindefisayo3267]

@@Murph_gaming thanks for the honest response. No one close to me told me that, I feel they are not being honest enough.

[@Murph_gaming]

@akindefisayo3267 are you talking to her or was she just being nice by accepting your flowers and introducing you?

[@akindefisayo3267]

@@Murph_gaming I will be lying if I told you I can read her mind. Maybe she was just being nice by Introducing me. I wouldn't know. But, it seemed she told her parent about me already, judging by her their response when she introduced me. I also chatted with her a little, she invited me to launch with their family but I couldn't make the launch because I had to attend a friend graduation for the second batch. I also met a white guy who I suspect she is more inclined to choose to give her heart to if she hasn't already.

[@Murph_gaming]

@akindefisayo3267 well I mean if she isn't really communicating with you then she was just trying to be nice and not cause a scene with her parents around. If they weren't around it's possible she could have freaked out on you. I get that your gesture was probably coming from a good place but, you have to be careful about doing that with someone you don't know and haven't communicated with on a while.

[@marco13mag]

Am I just overthinking things sometimes? And trying to block out certain things so that I can keep liking this girl? Because the girl I like is already taken, so I’m sure that’s a sign already within itself but I still kinda like her. I don’t get it. I’ve prayed too if it’s not your will God than remove these desires please.

[@agwformen]

Yes, overthinking is a real problem sometimes. Oftentimes you think about one woman because there is no one else to think about. By moving on with actions and meeting new people, oftentimes those feelings go away

[@marco13mag]

@@agwformen ahh yes so true and that’s what I’m actually trying to do. Just talk and meet new people even just in general not even to date just so I don’t overthink, have people to talk to and I kinda forget about that situation as well. Thank you!

[@PrettyIndependent1]

@@henrique.camposlook into Christian covert narcissist to rule out if she is doing those tactics or not. I’ve dealt with them. They will be offended and think you are rude to them when you are just confronting their toxic behavior. They turn everything around to be your fault. I was confused for a very long time. They also trauma bond you so that’s one reason why it’s hard to forget about them. Sometimes you may even need to fast to help break familiar spirits.

[@PrettyIndependent1]

@@henrique.campos that’s conflicting. You were hurt and she wasn’t. Someone who loves you empathizes with you. You love someone as you love yourself. I’ve loved people who would never put up with me if I treated them the way that they treated me. They didn’t love me as they loved themselves. I think it’s good to have my kind of heart, but I just walk away from people who don’t follow these commandments because they have no intention of protecting my heart too and that’s not what the Bible says I deserve. The Bible never calls for us to be doormats. To Love God fully is also to love yourself fully and embrace who He created you to be, and then to love others. But some people you need to love from afar because they will get you out of alignment with the commandments because they aren’t honoring you for who God created you to be. I have been spending a lot of time in the proverbs and psalms. The “strange woman” is an interesting one. The Bible warns that these manipulative women know how to look like “good” people. That many men are lead astray by their charms. “For the lips of an immoral woman are as sweet as honey, and her mouth is smoother than oil. But in the end she is as bitter as poison, as dangerous as a double-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps lead straight to the grave. For she cares nothing about the path to life. She staggers down a crooked trail and doesn’t realize it. So now, my sons, listen to me. Never stray from what I am about to say: Stay away from her! Don’t go near the door of her house! If you do, you will lose your honor and will lose to merciless people all you have achieved. Strangers will consume your wealth, and someone else will enjoy the fruit of your labor.” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭5:3-10‬ ‭NLT‬‬ The Bible warns what they say will sound sweet. Elvis had is right when he said, “you look like an Angel, talk like an Angel, walk like an Angel, but I got wise, you’re the devil in disguise.” The devil comes as a harmless Angel of light, not outwardly evil. He does covert narcissism.

[@henrique.campos]

​@@PrettyIndependent1​@PrettyIndependent1 my brother in Christ, I understand you've been through some dark times and you got hurt. You are right in your accessments about your experiences. But don't project them into others. I was as bad as you can think and in her perspective I was surely the narcissist. I repent. I wasn't a Christian back then(she was). You don't know how she took me back twice, how she kindly took distance because she was dating another person. How she respected when I said I would take my distance. She's with someone else and that's it. If it's God's will, then be it. I'd like a third chance after understanding my deeds and repenting, but if this serves as experience for someone else God has for me, I'd be glad as well. Just don't get heartless and understand not everyone thhat does bad things are bad people. Not everyone is a narcissist. Most people are just humans going through God's humbling.

[@Madenewhope]

Yeah my Gf broke up with me because I'm unemployed . Sometimes she pops up in my mind now and then. I still do miss her although did no contact with her. I guess it could have been the wrong time for me to date unemployed but she ticked all the right buttons as a Christian woman at the time. We shall see if my business grows or I find a job whether I will get someone else or If God might bring her back.

[@agwformen]

God bless as you seek the Lord's leading!

[@Strive1324L]

Why would you want her back if she left you while you're struggling? Bad times are a great litmus test to see who is your friend and who is a fake friend. If a woman did that to me, when I found work I would tell her goodbye and good riddance. Besides, if you were married and you lost your job, she would probably divorce you.

[@The4Tifier]

From the sounds of it, you have the right attitude around unemployment. It sucks, but we still need to seek income and employment for ourselves and those that depend on us. In this case, based off the information you said alone, I would say that it was for the best that she left you. Not because of wrong doing on your part, but because she was able to confirm that she did not have any true love for you. For if she did, she would not have left you if you were going through hard times and did not have obvious sin in your life. Considering it a blessing in due time, especially when you do meet the woman that’s truly meant for you.

[@cheaperCharlieOG]

Careful boys 💪she's not yours 😲it's just your turn for the most part

[@Madenewhope]

@@Strive1324L very true.

[@ghostl1124]

What about a woman with ADHD? How long does a man wait for her to be healed?

[@namxhuynh]

PTSD for me