Goodbye, 2023! | Everybody Loves Tom | Ep.12

[@Nightowl333]

Tom and Scandoval actually saved me, it helped me have the courage to have the conversation to break up with my girlfriend who I wasn’t happy with after many years. I hung on for so long cuz I was afraid to hurt her and it was convenient, so I stayed to avoid that convo. She loves the show so I was able to use it as an example “it’s healthier for us to break up before things get bad…before something happens like what happened with Tom and Ariana” Thank you Tom! Admire you so much for your strength and growth from this situation, its amazing. I’m also now 7 months sober!

[@morrisbrinard]

This is so pathetic. Congratulations 🎉

[@taylornicole5025]

Loving the new podcast. Proud of you for continuing to live life, and grab dreams instead of letting your past mistakes, and peoples opinions define you!

[@leontineanderson919]

This was fantastic Thank you.

[@tinagarrett1685]

This was easy listening. Thank you!

[@rebeccabell7760]

Tom Sandoval looking fresh in this...nice to see your shine back....

[@clairebearsquarehair]

Thailand is the best place ever. You'll love Bangkok.

[@sarhlavigne30]

Its nice to see you smile again Keep doing you So great your sober You got way to much crap from the media and the people. People make mistakes we grow and learn from them. Here is to a New Year 🎉

[@alexissimpson]

"yeah, it was a fucking doosie!"

[@hayfergroup]

Hey guys, was listening while driving ro Florida. Love that it felt like I was right there just listening to tou guys talk, guests, no guests, always a good podcast. Have fun on vacation!

[@ShellyBomb]

Greetings Guys ~ Those are indeed some great Goodyear Christmas 🎄 albums ... I remember them from childhood too! 🥰

[@marysmith3847]

OMG ! The Goodyear Records ! My parents had those they were all beat up along with the show tunes but Yess - Andy Williams , what a smooth crooner, we had that exact record ur holding. going to Discogs asap to find a piece of my childhood! Thanks Tom😀

[@EaglesChicFan]

OMG you put my sign I made over mantle. Thank you Tom! Means the world to me.

[@johnpinegar8027]

Happy New Year Sandoval and Schwartzy. 😊

[@autttgracee]

Hi Toms! Yes you should definitely get heidi and spencer on the show.

[@luciasievert12]

You know Johnny Mathis was my mom's all-time favorite Christmas album. To this day I love it still.

[@ThefutureMrs]

When you have been living a lie out daily. The heaviness and dread of that maintaining that lifestyle is depressing. It is not real and it’s not fun. Been there done that. Once I was free and confessed. Yes it was a tuff road and lots of hate. The only regret I had was that I stayed in the relationship. I tried to make something work that never was going to. Lesson learned go with my gut and stop trying to make everyone else happy. No more codependency ✅

[@AshliGoodspeed07]

I’ll be there in late February! I can’t wait to come to Schwartz and Sandy’s!

[@kristelcorrea769]

A Christmas Story is one of my favorite Christmas movies. That movie is so funny.

[@lovemypets254]

Tom Sandoval is so awesome! Tom’s tiger photo in Thailand was so BRAVE! His critics are cowards & he posed with a LIVE TIGER not like the cowards that take photos of them killed. Tigers in Thailand are pets walking with trainers not caged like the American zoos. Haters are hypocrites & Tom Tom’s are American freedoms best!

[@1110karin]

love the talk but while I am cooking I could barely hear them with volume on top level

[@kikipaz7704]

you learned, you are growing and will continue to grow.....eat and live clean, drink your green...and stay positive...both of you! Love the Toms

[@TomSandoval01]

Thanks for watching! Happy New Year

[@sarahwestenkirchner6563]

Why does that one red ornament behind sandoval keep bouncing?

[@heatherdavis7605]

Cuz he keeps hitting the tree w his chair

[@figand_fern3997]

the parts of this episode that are the best are when sandoval goes off into his introspective philosophical tangents and schwartz is just there perched.on the edge overly fearful of every word he's going to say 😂

[@squirtlesquad666]

Make it three, I’m not driving!

[@ShellyBomb]

Tom holding the 🥒 - continuously 😂!!!

[@ShellyBomb]

P.S.S. The Toms Adventure ~ Eat ( 🍽️ ) Pray ( 🙏 ) Love ( ♥️ )

[@ShellyBomb]

P.S. Wonderful to see Tom speak honestly / reflect on what occurred + how he's grown, and, how we ALL need to listen to our gut! ❤️‍🩹

[@aprilrodriguez3039]

Someone once told me that all relationships are hard work which made me think that if that is the case then of all the people in all the he world who is the 1 person worth putting in work with? Who will you trust to have your back as much as you have theirs? I think that person for you was Ariana. Hope you don’t wake up 20 years from now alone in your big house with a heart so heavy with regret. Much Love. Maybe this year will be better than the last 🎉

[@HectorVilla-ed3xu]

Would love Spencer and Heidi on the podcast.

[@kendramiddletonwilliams]

Tom Sandy - I don’t think you are evil, people make mistakes. I will visit Schwartz & Sandy’s next time I’m in LA - Sillicon Valley haven.

[@HumblebragginsTV]

Schwartz looks troubled and not at all at ease with himself. Completely different demeanor than what I saw on Winter House. Schwartz, you should know that you don't ever deserve to be someone's little backseat passenger. You should travel on your own! You'll learn more about yourself that way and meet new, healthy non-toxic friends along the way ❤

[@HikerGirl13]

NOOO NECK TATS 😢

[@lolamar6064]

The movie, the Beach was filmed on Koh Phi Phi island in Thailand, fly to Krrabi and take the speedboat to Krrabi, it's busy but it's beautiful, you will feel the incredible energy of this area Schwartz

[@wellnessbum]

Loving the new set!! This has quickly become my new fave podcast 😊Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, Toms!!

[@lolamar6064]

Definitely just go to the Thailand, I go every year for 3months. Hit up Soi Cowboy in Bangkok, and the weekend market, over 3000 vendors, Food is dope there. then head to Koh Samui, skip Phuket. Chiang Mai is beautiful too up in the mountains, lots of Thai Boxing (Muay Thai) and the food is the best of the best in Thailand! Have fun, it will change your lives, it did mine. 😊

[@KayVaughn-x8p]

I love ur resilience u r a true inspiration!! An ur guys friendship..is goals..everybody needs a tom best friend. I hope wonderful things for u both!! U R A GREAT SINGER ALSO

[@TomSandoval01]

Thank you!!

[@HikerGirl13]

we ❤Jason

[@MarieMclash]

Two Tom’s on the podcast is the best. Always have Swartz!

[@martina7524]

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!! Have a great vacation! You should do a show with the Giggly Squad! (Paige and Hannah) …I think all of you together would be a funny and great episode! I also think Spenser and Heidi would be awesome as well!

[@h11009]

tom on his own on winter house was so cute 😂 fan of you too sandy!

[@HikerGirl13]

You have to watch Anthony Bourdain one night in Bangkok before you go

[@MamaHen87_TheUncensoredVersion]

Maybe do some on air Cameos!!! I looked yall up today actually lol

[@denisemurray1119]

Let Schwartz go to the beach on vacation.

[@esthercastaneda-wilson285]

Omg! YES, Spencer and Heidi!! That’s too funny! U guys we’re starting when they were close to ending. Ppl forget that. And Sandavol u we’re on The City as a model!

[@kal2487]

Not to be (edit: freudian slip) stalkery, I looked up your natal chart (w/right birth year) and it definitely looked to me like this scandal was fated in your life, or else why else would it have blown up the way it did? You have Jupiter in Scorpio at zero degrees. Scorpio is death/rebirth/transformation. Jupiter expands whatever it touches so it will produce a huge transformative experience for you but Jupiter is also good fortune which means it will ultimately be a positive thing. Zero degrees is notable in anyone's chart it's basically like a new baby being born. I never really judged because I assumed that subconsciously you needed to blow up your life as it was, in order to grow. And Ariana needed it as well, because she was also stagnant even though she didn't know it. Life is messy, sometimes you have to play the bad guy, but it can ultimately be for everyone's benefit.

[@NoeticNotary-sx1ec]

I’m don’t think that’s stalkery - that’s just how your brain works - you have a big picture brain … pretty awesome to look at his charts - in fact, if you had a YT channel where you discussed stars charts, you just might be able to use your gift to its fuller capacity … I think that’s really cool of you

[@kal2487]

@@NoeticNotary-sx1ec Awe, thank you so much for the encouragement!!🥰

[@PeaceMeBish]

It’s also really interesting to me that what they went through seemed to be echoed across the collective as well. I was in a rather toxic relationship and blew it up during Scandoval as well. It seemed to be a year for really growing into oneself and learning about our worth and value, and what we truly want out of life. It was many seasons ago, around the time that they bought the house and Tom was talking about marriage and kids, and Ariana shot him down once again that it was never going to happen. You could see the wind taken out of Tom’s sails, and I remember thinking that if she didn’t at least soften on that in terms of at least not making him feel so bad for wanting that with her, the relationship was done. So, I wasn’t shocked that it happened in general, but I was shocked how it went down. I actually figured she would be the one to walk away in the end, since she felt so strongly about not having the same future as him. I saw her pulling more of a Kyle Richards, than ever seeing Tom cheat on her. But yeah, crazy year either way. Glad that they are all finding their way toward their own paths.

[@kal2487]

@@PeaceMeBish ❤❤ The reasons the "scandal" blew up are still mysterious. I hadn't watched VPR in 4 or 5 years, then the news hit, and I was instantly riveted and couldn't look away. I still can't tell you exactly why. It must have triggered something in the collective, like everyone needed to reflect on their relationships and relationship mistakes and grow into something better...

[@kendramiddletonwilliams]

I think Tom Sandy needs to become a father- that is going to bring on his next level of development.

[@marcialee7981]

Love both toms❤😊

[@TomSandoval01]

We love you.

[@carriekay4827]

OK...hard to take opening with a peee nuz but I listened anyway. You look healthier...you still have Swartz/Jason who give you undivided friendship which is big. You are in the prime of life...give grace to those you hurt...it will give you peace.

[@kristelcorrea769]

You should see if William Shatner on your podcast. Ask him his thoughts on space and dark matter. Also, he actually went up into space for a few minutes. Can ask on that experience. He was on Stars on Mars with Schwartz.

[@kal2487]

I love this idea.

[@alexissimpson]

I love Tom! You are damn funny and relatable ❤

[@christinataylor5130]

I went to Schwartz and Sandy’s in October and was bummed that neither of you were there… but it was so cool to see it in person and experience the awesome food, drinks and vibes. Great job, Toms!

[@PeaceMeBish]

Tom, I can’t remember what season it was, but I think it was around the time right before you guys bought the house or possibly right afterwards, and you made a comment about wanting marriage/kids and brought it up to Ariana. Not to throw shade on her, but I remember she was rather harsh in her response towards you, and it was pretty obvious to see that it took the wind right out of your sails. You looked so hurt and deflated, and I remember thinking that if she didn’t figure out a way to return some of that hope for you, the relationship wasn’t going to work out. Not to blame her at all for the affair, but I honestly also wasn’t all that shocked that it happened. I was shocked like everyone else how it all played out and went down, because like it’s been said you were always the righteous one in the group. I actually figured it was going to be Ariana who would end up leaving you since you wanted marriage and kids so bad and she was always so vocal about not wanting that. Anyways, my point being, based on you saying you’re not sure where else you’d be right now, that I really hope if that’s still what you want you go for it. Find yourself that person you want to marry and have kids with. Men are a bit lucky in that way, y’all can figure it out a bit later in life. It always seemed like it was super important to you to have a family. As a fellow Cancer, I totally get that. Perhaps I’m projecting a bit here since I think that ship has sailed for me since I still haven’t met my person and I’m 40 this year, I do truly hope that you find and have that if it’s still what you truly want. At the very least, making sure to do what makes YOU happy, not just what pleases others. I’ve also had to learn that hard lesson in 2023. I think a lot of people were learning that lesson. Take good care of yourself. PS. I was definitely on Team Ariana at the beginning of Scandoval. But I was also projecting hard, because I was in a very toxic relationship at the time. Apologies for the hateful stuff that I said online, regardless if you ever happened to read it or not. I’m ashamed that I didn’t rise more above it all, especially knowing how hurt you were (or seemed to be) about the idea of never getting married or having kids. Again, it’s not an excuse for what you did, but I also think there were demons on both sides as there usually is, and I think you just ended up having a lot of that projected onto you as the perfect “bad guy” this year. May we all heal our demons and go into 2024 more wise and ready to deal with our collective wounds rather than putting it onto others.

[@Brianna-q3p]

Ariana froze her eggs and Tom was suppose to go do his part on it and he never went because he didn’t want to stop drinking/ smoking for 7 days so he can do it … seems like he’s the one who truly didn’t want kids but he pretended like he did .. also staying out every single night partying and not coming home when your in a 9 year relationship and refusing to spend quality time with your partner isn’t the best father qualities to have, I mean he’s 40 acting like a 20 year old

[@lisatorma1379]

I went to Schwartz & Sandys in June and was so excited to meet you Schwartz - you were so kind and spent time chatting & took pictures with my husband & I. I was bummed that Sandoval wasn't there - wanted to show some support! Loving the podcast & can't wait to see the new season! Keep your spirits up & stay true to yourselves ❤

[@TipsyGypsy91]

I really don’t think there should be sides - breakups and heartbreak is something we all know well… we have no right to pass comments on who did what.

[@lindapfister2484]

Love u tom And glad u and tom are fine. By the way no matter what u do in your life if people do not stick by you. They are not true friends

[@NoeticNotary-sx1ec]

Love the opening - Tom playing the penis flute … I’m sorry for all the pain everyone is still working through … thank you for this gem … ❤ keep looking up - bc that’s where it all is

[@TomSandoval01]

Thanks for watching!!

[@AnonymousPerson0182]

Do you mean the pain that he and Rachel caused? That pain!

[@lisamoore9691]

Love the show. Merry Christmas to you all. Tom Sandoval love your shirt. What is the brand?

[@AshliGoodspeed07]

Elf is the best Christmas movie ever!!

[@aaronmckechnie4467]

Put it away! 👀Love you guys tho.

[@rachll7904]

Had no clue you had this channel. 🎉🎉🎉 Just get off drugs and be straight up. We adore you guys.

[@energywellness8834]

I thought I’d check out your end of your podcast because I heard from a lot of people that you have changed for the better and is no longer victim blaming Ariana. No need to worry about her anyway, as a person who reads energy and astrology, she will continue to thrive in 2024 now that all the darkness has been removed from her life, and I am really hoping that you also have an awakening in 2024 and have a more positive year, I really do. Schwartz has mentioned many times, how he is hoping to repair his relationship with Ariana, and I think time will tell, but the bottom line is as long as you are true to yourself, and have good intentions towards everyone, and be a genuine and honest person good will come back to you . I really do wish you well in 2024 🙏🏽

[@audreyhamady1249]

The “one little” thing in Fargo was the main character hiring people to kidnap and or kill his wife for ransom…….these guys are so gahhhh

[@denisecook5640]

Tom Sandoval looks like hes 19...gorgeous

[@carieferkovich1928]

I love astrology astrology ❤

[@SusanC404]

Just want Tom Swartz to know I love the podcast even more when he's on it. Don't you ever become a hermit and hide you would truly be missed by many.❤❤

[@amberdrasher-champion6719]

What a growing Amazing year for everyone!! Congratulations 🍾 to you and everyone involved #MerryChristmas🎄🙏&HappyNewYear🎉🥳

[@angyhill9431]

Love you guys! But just an FYI the podcast is super quiet on apple 😘

[@trae74]

Yall need Spidey! He's the best mentalist!

[@MamaHen87_TheUncensoredVersion]

I think having some alien expert, schwartz and stassi on... They love their tall greys!

[@nicolelarson9372]

Schwartz went off on Lala, that was such a jaw dropping moment. I think it ‘s because we see that so seldom with him. We all have it in us, we just have to tame it.

[@CinderellaRudzinski]

Tom Sandoval you should catch up with me

[@taylord628]

I really liked when Nicki glaser came on. Y’all should get more comedians

[@Frequencychick]

Sandoval, bring Brayden on from bachelor. You two look like brothers from another mother. 🔥

[@angelsplace]

What about the King of Christmas? kzbin.info/www/bejne/r6uqd4OHhs9seLMsi=H8PTrqi_kGiQVwh0

[@CinderellaRudzinski]

Playing the wrong instrument can lead to another wrong choice

[@lindadavis3728]

Relationships lead to discovery in one another and self. It takes maturity to stay in a long lasting relationship. There aren't any books on maturity. There are passages in the Bible on maturity and here is just one of them. 1 Corinthians 10:13: No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. The question, therefore, is how a person reacts to the next temptation going forward because obviously it has to do the with the soul of self realization.

[@rennaveli]

Have KRISTIN CAVALARI on your podcast!!!

[@heatherdavis7605]

U should’ve just made it a Schwartz & Sandavol show cuz Schwartz guest hosts every wk almost but probably doesn’t make a dime🙄My as well name everyone loves the Tom’s

[@rennaveli]

HAVE PENN BAGLEY

[@classyconversationswithrho344]

As long as you are honest and don't mislead others, things will work out. If you learn from your lessons in life, it's all you can do. We are here to learn then teach. Paying it forward to help others is the best thing you can do. Just be authentic! Happy New Year Guys!🎉 Just don't blame Rachel! If anything make it right with her! Her total life was also ripped apart because you misled her! She believed in you! Then you dissed her Tom. No shade just the truth. You know she has a good heart and still hurting over James. She was taken advanced of, by you. Everyone made millions over the scandal. She made nothing! Without her nobody would of made what they did! Bravo should of payed her what she wanted! If you really loved Rachel why did you not stand up for her? Why did you run around with other women? Just wondering why you left her behind after blowing up her life? Answer those questions! Thank you We all make mistakes nobody is perfect. It is how we learn. Make it right is all you can do. Many Blessings Its a great idea to do your show in your home. The sad thing is there are people who cheat, all the time and don't care. These people do it with everyone! The sad thing is the person being mislead is so divisstated they don't even want to date anymore. They were hurt that badly.

[@figand_fern3997]

Cheaters are afraid to hurt the other person so they turn themselves into a villian by cheating thinking it wll then make the other person not want them. essentialy forcing someone to break up with you.

[@michaelriley1]

Add Saturday night live sketch, low energy

[@squirtlesquad666]

I miss the mustache! Stay optimistic Tom & Tom, everything will be ok 💗

[@nicolelarson9372]

No face tatoo

[@adorejayy834]

Tom please do a lie detector test I would love to know if Ariana really snatched your chain , if scheana actually punched Rachel and did Ariana punch you and threaten to kill herself it’s time we all knew the truth

[@josephinerawley6683]

Totally agree with you

[@Brianna-q3p]

According to her she never said that … she said she wouldn’t know what to do with her life if they broke up that she would most likely delete social media and move out the country … Tom has done nothing but try to justify why he cheated lol “ oh i HAD to cheat for 8 months with her best friend because it wasn’t simple i couldn’t just break up with her when she threatened to kill herself once” such a coward … if he really thought she would kill herself over breaking up then he’s really stupid because cheating with her best friend in her own home for months would make someone kill themselves over breaking up

[@Chawk12]

Look'n forward 2 The Toms & Jax reunion! You All are great🍻 Schwartz..... Ur the man! Way 2 represent on Winter House! You guys killed it! My Gf & I are definitely Team Flood!! We both have watched VR from the very beginning..... And, I mean, the chemistry w/ this "Katie" (although only a handful of episodes) blow da Maloney chemistry out of the water!! We're talking major Flood'n. Haha. Anyways, We both think u2 are great.... along w/ Kyle & Amanda! Also, hang in there Sandoval! We're Rooting for you.... along w/ everyone involved in that situation! People that are still hating on you need 2 get a life and out of there Mom's basement..... I mean, It's been over a year! Looking 4ward 2 the upcoming VR season!.... Merry Christmas everyone 🎅🤟🎅✌

[@LeahBeIvrit]

Please don’t get a neck tattoo dude

[@kimberbell4238]

I thought you were not drinking anymore Tom...

[@laurazytczak9840]

You need to get Laura Lee on the show

[@jeanettelombana4247]

I think Scheana

[@rennaveli]

Have Trisha paytas

[@nicolemay4427]

I think it’s time to let the cheating scandal go, leave the man alone already

[@AirJKB13]

Schwartz contribution to winter house was a ZERO. That was the first and lasts season for me.

[@devved411]

stop beating yourself up Tom, the only thing I think you could of done was tell Arianna to chuck the deuces! and leave. She got real comfortable and took you for granted emotionally, and who thinks it’s ok to have S_x a few times a year? I think this is a good lesson for women that think they’re entitled. You weren’t married so theres that, this is not that serious

[@Brianna-q3p]

Disgusting …. You’re super gullible… they were having sex while he was having an affair with that rat of a girl , they discussed this on the reunion … he’s just stupid and forgot they had a whole discussion about it and trying to justify why cheating is okay …. Regardless that never makes it okay to cheat especially for 8 months with your bestfriend… also how do you expect someone to have a healthy intimate relationship when the guy is constantly out every single night never coming home ? He wouldn’t even spend quality time with her because his definition of quality time is taking mushrooms with her … pathetic … he wanted a 20 year old so he can easily manipulate her … shame on you for trying to justify his actions I wish nothing but horrible things for your relationship / future relationships 🫶🏼👎

[@victoriadavis4339]

Nasty!!

[@laurennnsavageee_]

No does Sandoval really have a podcast 😂😭😭

[@robertscranton8293]

What on earth do women see in any of you?

[@loveynagra4126]

/\does no one know he cheated ???

[@AnonymousPerson0182]

The name of your channel is a misnomer.

[@SusanC404]

Tom I love your podcast please don't ruin it by having Jax Taylor on. Sorry but I just can't stand the guy.😮