Goodbye Italy I'll miss you

[@wberchin4871]

Darn Rafael, this initially came as a shock to me. As someone who is currently pursuing my Italian citizenship through Jure Sanguinis via ICA, you were my initial and one of my biggest inspirations in going after this dream. However, so good to hear that you will still be providing content in that regard, albeit from a remote and different location. I’m here for the long haul! Having said that, it’s quite honorable and commendable on your part to put family above self at this time, and to do what is necessary to be your best for your family. You’re a good man! I want to wish you all the best in this new chapter or your life, the best to your family as well. You deserve it! Also, glad to hear your merch will be available as you mentioned what great stocking stuffers they make! Alright Sir, take care until next time.

[@michelle_architect]

Sometimes life takes us in a direction that we didn't plan but when we look back we see it was exactly what we needed. Blessings to you and your family. Can't wait to find out where you find yourself now!

[@SabraQueenoftheUnderworld1346]

I'm happy to hear that your family member made it out of the hospital and I have the utmost respect for you and your family for making such a hard decision on leaving Italy. There's always that chance that one day you can always go back and live there in the future but for now you can always visit when the time is right. Be safe

[@gutsandgrittv5076]

Many things left unsaid speaks volumes. You are a pro at what you do Rafi. You’re going to be great. Life changes. Be like water and change with it. Good move. God is with you!

[@briansims7382]

Brother when you said that "family is #1 to me" You can see the love in your eyes. Your a good man, take care of family. We are praying for you and your family. I'm still going watching. And hope that you can continue your travels once you take care of your loved ones. Take care brother Pizza, Pasta, and Amore.

[@rstartup4081]

Rafael, I really appreciate your videos over the last almost 3 years since I've been watching them. Never missed a week. Very helpful. Wish you the best!

[@R.P.Miller]

Rafi, first and foremost, you and your channel have provided us with so much valuable information and perspective on life as an expat in Italy. We discovered your channel right at the start of Covid and subscribed right on day one. Thank you for everything you have shared with us. You have educated us, entertained us and given us joy each Friday night and we will continue to look forward to what you will be sharing with us. As caretakers for several family members over a span of almost 20 years, we know what it takes and we absolutely commend you on your decision to put your family first. You are and will be a blessing for them. Buona fortuna, be well and a presto.

[@channelthefire2745]

No worries Rafael! - you explained the situation well and I, and i'm sure everyone else, understand completely. Stay safe!

[@MsBritaly]

Rafael - you should be so proud of your journey. I’m so happy that I had the opportunity to connect with you - almost one year ago - and that you featured me in your montage ❤️ Everything you said, I can completely relate to. Living in Italy especially with a language barrier, during the pandemic, was challenging. I arrived three years ago and yes, I agree Italy has changed since before the pandemic (as has the world). I’m sad you have left Italy but absolutely you have to do what is right for you and your family. Your channel is a great resource for those thinking of moving here and those who currently live here and your channel will continue to be just that! Stay in touch - a presto ❤️

[@peacejoyandwanderlust]

Agreed! 💜

[@reneeoconnell4606]

Thank you for all your info and wonderful content you have provided. The best thing we can do for ourselves in life is learn how to adapt and adjust as our course changes. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you and can go back in the future if you wish. I look forward to your next chapter!

[@TMAItalia]

So glad your family member is doing well and I pray for continued health and wellness! I'm so proud of you!

[@zevgotkin7114]

So admire you for leaving to support your family in time of need. You are great guy, and as someone who knows you IRL, I can say a true mensch. Do what is right for you and your family and Italy 🇮🇹 will always be there waiting for you should you decide to return. 💙

[@robindavin446]

Hey, Rafael, life happens and it's a completely understandable decision. Very happy to hear the channel and podcasts will continue. As someone pursuing Italian citizenship and considering retiring to Italy, I love hearing your thoughts. I say don't worry about reporting on the current situation, focus on what you enjoy. Wishing health and safe travels to you and your family, and a lovely Christmas! Of course you'll be back! :)

[@jimmyjohnny3779]

Family is everything, you do what you need to do. I’ll still follow you. God bless you from Ireland ❤️☘️❤️

[@jimmyjohnny3779]

Oh and by the way your life is far more interesting than Italy will ever be so keep it up 👍

[@italianjourney]

So sorry to see you go but completely understand. We have 9 grandchildren back in Phoenix and miss them terribly but our hearts and lives are here now. Good luck to you- always.

[@calise8783]

Sad to see you go but wishing you many adventures along your life’s journeys. After all, life is a journey and not stagnant. All the best for your future and I look forward to all your future content.

[@annortolaza6401]

Sorry to hear that you are leaving but Family is first and most important in our lives. Your doing the right thing! Italy will be there waiting for you. 🇮🇹. I still look forward to your continual vlogs about Italy and you. Dio Bendedika y Buena fortuna!!

[@d.o.m.e.n.i.c.o_d.e.n.t.i.c.e]

Oh no!!! have been following you for a while and this comes as a big surprise!! sad to see you go but I wish you all the best in your life and new experience!!!

[@RafaelDiFuria]

Thank you! it's unfortunate that it was necessary, but I am looking forward to a new adventure ^_^

[@RyanNeeson]

Best wishes to your family Rafael and congratulations on making your dreams a reality

[@donp.f.2864]

Wow, Rafael, I did not see this coming. You and your broadcasts were very helpful to me in seeking my Italian citizenship through Jure Sanguinis, so it's hard for me to think of you not being in Italy. That being said, I *COMPLETELY* understand your decision and respect your devotion to your family. Best wishes to you and your family as you start this new chapter in the book of your life.

[@gmhefner1]

everything will work out as it should. :) i'm glad you will be with your family, and thank you so much for the content you have created so far. looking forward to the future! safe travels!

[@MikeS29]

I just found your channel and subscribed today; I was recognized as an Italian Citizen in November, 2020, and received my Passport recently. I will have to go back and review your body of work. Thanks for doing all you have done, and I will binge your content. Best of luck going forward!

[@8francesco]

wow! this was a surprise. but one must go where the tides of life lead them. good luck to you. tanti auguri. e grazie mille per quello che hai dato!!!

[@lucchese20]

While disappointed with your decision…”You gotta do what you gotta do” and yes “Family comes first.” I respect your decision and looking forward to future episodes. 👍🏻 🇮🇹

[@allthatrouble]

Good luck to you, Rafael! I'm looking forward to hearing what's next for you. Maybe 5 years was enough for you and it's just time to move forward. That's never a bad thing. Good luck and hold steady the course, Rafael! ❤

[@playea123]

I hope everything goes fantastic Raphael and can't wait to see what you do next

[@suzyblake2007]

I literally only found you today and was so happy. Then I watched this video as my third video. I am sorry that your life sent you on a different path. Different isn't always a negative thing though. I will gratefully continue to watch all of your videos. Thank you for your insightful content.

[@YouMeandSicily]

Stay safe Rafael ! Glad you are going to continue this project !

[@brigittebowen1120]

Hi Raphael … No way, you are leaving! I just come before November… from Oregon… and I hear you repeating, learn the language! I did a little… but yeah … it’s just a drop on a hot stone. But I found friends, who help me and I just made an offer on a house. Not a Trulli in Ostuni but I will create an artsy paradise! I listen to you for years now… and I am glad you keep on going! Brigitte

[@ElibelDublin]

You’re right, family is nr 1. Everything gets more complicated with age and not speaking the language is a big barrier. For sure it’s better for them to return to an environment they are familiar with. I’m sure you’ll be able to make it work, regardless of where you are located geographically. In bocca al lupo!

[@Domcel]

Best wishes in your future endeavors. Thank you for all the content and insight you have provided so far. I'm still subscribed, looking forward to your future content. La famiglia viene sempre prima!

[@MichelePonte]

I respect your decision. Hopefully we’ll be able to meet somewhere around the world 🙂

[@RafaelDiFuria]

We definitely have to meet up in person one day!

[@divalaspada]

Safe travels - thank you for all the extremely helpful content!

[@RafaelDiFuria]

Thank you ^_^ Also, don't worry there will be more Italy focused episodes :)

[@dianez9000]

Wishing you the best, hopefully we will hear from you. Hope your family members are doing. better

[@marleneyoung6575]

Your news was truly a huge surprise. I don't know where you are going but I do hope you film it. Hugs to you and I wish you great luck in your move.

[@djlabate6706]

Good luck with everything you do. We recently discovered your podcast and have really enjoyed all of the content you provide. Will definitely keep watching and take care.

[@max8224]

it happened something quite alike to me, too. A few years ago I went to England with the intention of staying there but once my family has had serious issues it turns out that I had to make up my mind and decided to turn back to Italy, then I haven't been able to move back again if only for short little trips.. at first I felt like disappointment was overwhelming me but after a little while I tried to accept the thing without blaming myself..

[@siriboonkotchaseth297]

It's a kind of heartbreak, but I understand. Anyway, good luck, Rafael. I enjoy the content you have done so far. I will keep following you.

[@kdclothes]

I wish you all the best and also to your family. You have a really lovely personality and work ethic. you will do well no matter where you go. Good on you for helping your family. It is very important. I am happy you are continuing your Average Globetrotter videos. Best of everything to you.

[@travelingwiththechaplain1591]

You will be blessed for the love you have for your family. Life is not over for you. You can always come back ❤️Be at peace

[@cmayone94]

I wish you and your family all good things ❤️ all the best to you, I am looking forward to hearing about your new life. ❤️

[@Haupialani]

Aw Rafi D, I just want to give you a super huge bear hug and squeeze you really tight!! It's not goodbye. I'm just so thankful for somehow finding your channel. You're knowledgeable and entertaining and maybe it's your radio voice that's soothing to me, I'm not sure. But as selfish as this sounds, I'm glad you'll still be here. Family first, yes. We're just your second family. 😉

[@juanitabarbera8925]

Rafael, I have been here since the beginning supporting you and will continue to do so. Thanks for everything you do! Hugs and more hugs

[@kflecha1]

😢🥺 hopefully your family gets better ❤️

[@LeftToWrite006]

That would be a rough decision. I hope the family members in question get well soon. Hopefully things align for you again.

[@turistandovirtual]

Hi Rafa, Thanks for the update. I am an Italian citizen, but I am looking with care to Portugal. I am very excited for your move. Al the best to you and your family.

[@mariadigiovanni1168]

I was shocked to hear this news. I understand your family comes first. I hope all goes smoothly for you all. I was also shocked to hear that you received negative reactions/stalking, etc. in any form for what you do. I wish you the greatest success and good health to all.

[@pabloguerra3028]

Life happens..Rafael..I know it happened to me 10 years ago.. I lived in a dream place, but family called. Then I returned to my homeland to take care of family affairs. So completely understand your situation.

[@josephbordonaro]

All the Best for you, your family, and your future, wherever it may be.

[@RafaelDiFuria]

thank you for your kind words ^_^

[@jeanneamato8278]

You are a wonderful family person and I honor you but I’m also weeping for your move out of beloved Italy. I know you’ll be back. Wishing love to you and health and 🙏 to you and your loved ones.

[@lorifrancis8171]

I just found your channel, so you can't be leaving Italy. Oh well. Best of luck wherever you are headed and best of luck to your family. I can't wait to see the next adventure you have with NYAG.

[@RafaelDiFuria]

Firstly thank you for your well wishes and kind words ^_^ Also, don't worry, there will be more episodes about living in Italy😁

[@a-k6575]

Life's experiences. As a tour manager over decades, renting where ever. I also wished / dreamed of having a base to return to. A place where one can leave collected momentos believing that family will enjoy after one has moved on. Perhaps as you have said about having that base that this move is for that very reason. Thank you for your informative videos and I sincerely hope to continue to follow your life's time line, don't stop here it's only a chapter with more to come Rafael. Warm hugs, you explorer.

[@angelapa9513]

Shocking news . Hope your family is much better .

[@StellaPastLife]

Wow. Only watch you now and then but you seemed pretty much energetically here! Thanks for the news updates and info which was really helpful.

[@elisramosviana182]

Stay strong, Rafael. Wishing all the best to you and your Family!

[@gigi-jeff]

Thanks for all the information you’ve shared! Your beautiful explanation and candid reflection. Best Wishes to you wherever you are going! Stay Kind! 🛵

[@RafaelDiFuria]

Thank you for your kind words Jeff and Gigi ^_^

[@francescogiovannizollo2989]

Arrivederci Rafael! 🇮🇹💕

[@christopherralphbianco4623]

Hey man, good luck and be careful out there. You'll be back I'm sure.

[@joemanginelli2972]

I am sorry you and your family are going through such difficult times. I hope all goes well in the future. In case I never mentioned it before, you are absolutely one of the reasons I started my journey to Italian Citizenship Recognition. And why I chose ICA. Best of luck Rafael.

[@MsTeapot11]

You have to do what's right for yourself and your family. Looking forward to see what the next chapter of your story will be. . Buona fortuna

[@НикитаАрнст]

Agree! I am living in Italy now, and I would say that this is not the best place to get pleasure of life if you can’t speak fluently in Italian.

[@wagner9527]

Even in mainly cities where there are many foreigners and multi cultural environment?

[@НикитаАрнст]

@@wagner9527 more or less yes. Anyway, you will have to spend some time to find, let’s say, a barber shop where people can speak in English. The situation with doctors and policemen is the same.

[@Laurelin70]

@@НикитаАрнст But that's the way in ANY foreign country. Yes, there are coutries where English is more spoken and understood, but it still isn't the native and so fluent language. Maybe are the foreigners who should learn the language of the country where they live, and not the contrary?

[@НикитаАрнст]

@@Laurelin70 Agree. But this is true only for people who have immigrated to the country. The situation is absolutely different when you were invited to Italy to do business/science/project. From my personal experience, Austria is the most adopted country for foreign specialists in EU. And, dear Claudia, please, don’t accept my response like a way to humiliate Italy. I like this country. I just mentioned the problems that people might face as they will arrive.

[@litolito1893]

Sorry I heard about your sick family member and I wish them well!!! Look forward to your next video and journey 👍🏻

[@montyjoel]

I'm sad to hear this news, but I totally understand and appreciate your situation. While it's sad to end this part of your journey, you are so blessed to have these important people in your life. Thank you so much for your content and keep it coming.

[@TazExprez]

I hope your family member gets better and wish you the best in the next chapter of your life.

[@ronaldreale9666]

Good Luck Rafael I hope the best for you and your family (GOD BLESS)

[@johnnyv5995]

You're a good man, family first is something every decent person can understand & respect. I'm very saddened to hear that you were harassed for some of the work you did, I presume it was for work done on the situation we have all been living through the last few years - which I personally found extremely interesting as it gave me a real pulse on what was going on. Be safe, best of luck in Portugal and continued success. Ciao Bello!

[@WriterJenOnYT]

I can sense the sadness in your voice. But I get it. Family comes first. My aging mother is the only reason that I'm still in the US. I will pursue my Italian citizenship and spend more time in Italy as time progresses. For now, though, my small family needs me. I hope you find happiness wherever you're going. I look forward to following your journey.

[@antremo355]

Thanks so much for your amazing and beautiful content Rafael 🙏☺️ Your voice and energy always puts me in a pleasant place. Wishing you and your family the very best on your new chapter of life 😊 Looking forward continueing to enjoy your videos 😀 Thanks again! 🙏 Ant

[@jessicabey275]

That's crazy that you got stalked and was bullied like that! I wouldn't give out your location but maybe a general area like " I'm in the mid west" kinda thing. I'm sure it was a hard decision and it seems like you love Italy but hey your still young so who knows what the future brings! Excited to see what you get into! ☺ I thought that when you did your community post that you left or will be leaving YT lol

[@mattd7650]

Life changes our plans bro! It's good to know that you will still be posting content. I am now really curious about the "updates," I haven't heard about. I hate that KZbin favors the big box propagandists. Hopefully I'll find what you're referring to.

[@RafaelDiFuria]

Life throws its twists and turns and nothing about the future is ever known until it is already the past.

[@mr.dsproductreviewchannel]

Very Very Sorry to hear about the Family Health Issues and I also Agree about Family First. Hopefully You and Your Family will be More Comfortable and get the Care that they Want and Need. Also, I Hope that Eventually You might be able to resume Your Italian Dream where it could be permanent at some later point.

[@simonenardoni5274]

sono Italiano ed adoro i tuoi video Rafael ! Da italiano posso dirti che non lasciero mai il bel paese. New york era il mio sogno e lo e' ancora ma troppo attaccato alle mie radici. Rafael the best :) Un saluto Simone dall'Italia

[@johnnytolengo742]

Buonna fortuna , i am spending the entire summer next year prepping my way to Move there, good luck raffi

[@johnbarone2009]

Much respect to you Rafael.

[@timlinator]

I understand you completely. The only thing keeping me in the states is my aging mom. When your situation changes you can always come back.

[@MRIJorge]

Well Ralph you can always live back in Italy part time just to improve your Italian and keep up with what’s going on in small towns there. Of course family comes first and always will be to most.but having both feet in in the two countries is awesome! Would be great if you visit Spain as well and create content there to. Good luck brother! Ciao!

[@thewebhorse]

Good luck Raphael. I followed your videos mainly to improving my worst English, but nevertheless I liked them. I'm sicilian and I can witness here they're some American citizens, whom them anchestors were Sicilian expated in USA, whose back In Sicily. It means you'll can might come back again in Italy next time. Cheers

[@itsmetaran]

Family comes first... NO MATTER WHAT! Respect your decision. And glad to know its not a "goodbye", it's only a "see you later" ... all the best & see you soon.

[@wb1385]

Rafael seems that you are become even more Italian if family come before everything that's absolutely the same decision that most Italians would have made! so good luck and come back when you will able to do ...Italy doesn't move will remain here as stretched out in its wonderful beautiful Mediterranean sea

[@annamariagennara1479]

La famiglia è tutto, quindi tanti auguri a te ed alla tua famiglia. A presto!

[@claudiabassi9670]

Forza si chiude una porta e si apre un portone 🤞🏻 in bocca al lupo

[@DJPTEXAS]

Good luck Rafael ! No worries... life changes and you can always go back.... Europe is getting very restrictive and travel is not fun anymore... I returned also...many reasons... God bless.

[@junelanger4766]

I’ll miss you! Good luck

[@wellaciccio2362]

As an Italian living abroad - I get it. "Dolce vita" is not a thing. Taxes are a thing. Opportunities are a thing. Integrating properly is also a thing. Hope that things will ameliorate in Italy and in your life as well. For real.

[@Rodrigo_Gatti]

Hi Rafael im a long time follower of your channel and i have strong mixed feelings about this video. I wish you all rhe best. Cheers

[@MarkVJenkins]

Life is an adventure, never know what the next moment will bring. Be yourself and live your life. You don't need to explain yourself to KZbin.

[@thesandravshow]

It would be interesting to see content on what you, as an American, returning back to the US. I would imagine it’s a different work for you here in so many ways. Are you still connected to anyone from clubhouse? I rarely get on there but when I do I don’t see a lot of familiar faces.

[@horseplop9]

Hey you gave it your all.. Nicely done Raphael

[@pile333]

Italy is your country too so you'll be free to come here to keep us company for a while whenever you'll feel like doing it. Good luck for you next chapter! 🥂

[@RafaelDiFuria]

I look forward to being able to take trips back :) Thank you for your well wishes!

[@AxidentalDM]

Best of luck with your new situation.

[@simplepixel5617]

Keep them coming. I will be watching your videos even if you are in the jungle. Good luck Rafael on your move. See you in your next video.

[@sherikennedy4117]

just found your channel, and darn....you have moved from italy. however, portugal is also a place hubby and i are interested in exploring for future "moving" plans. we are facing retirement in a few years and really would love to become bi-continental (is that a thing? lol) but are beginning to realize that renting short term for a few months and seeing what it is really like is probably more realistic at our age. thanks for all the stuff you post....

[@RafaelDiFuria]

Hey there! Glad you found the channel, there's plenty of content that you may find helpful, especially about rentals... unfortunately short term rentals in Italy can be a bit complicated Wishing you all the best on your journey to Italy😁

[@sherikennedy4117]

@@RafaelDiFuria it just might end up being Portugal...several people have been talking to us about that option. So...you are an excellent source on both accounts!

[@markyarte]

You were intentionally vague about something going on, i believe in Italy, politics maybe? You and Marco have me hooked. I have a long road ahead to find out if i am even illegible for Italian citizenship, and family not understanding...but if there is something horribly in Italy, you must find a way to share . Prayers and good energy, for all you do.

[@kierstinanderson108]

You’ve provided a ton of valuable content. It would be nice to see you evolve your videos and podcasts so that you are more concise and to the point.

[@anderstollestrup]

So sad to hear this, Rafael - I thought that Il Bel Paese was the destiny of your life, You probably also thought that. But also very nice to know that your are a family guy, taking care of your family members and even put your own life and future into the pot - that's huge. I have followed you for the last couple of years and your weekly episodes had really helped me to understand many life issues when I plan my move to Italy hopefully next summer. I hope you will keep up with the good and very honest content. I'll follow along and see how it goes - after all, we only have this one life so we have to make the most out of it for ourselves. Stay safe

[@global_serenity]

So sorry to hear but completely understand

[@ForgingMyLife]

Why would people attack you, stalk you or harrass you because of content?

[@BEYONDDIVORCE]

Italians hate the fact that people can get an Italian passport while living in America and have no interest in learning Italian. They just want to use the passport to move elsewhere on Europe just as Raphaelle has done

[@ericbengel8678]

Hope you're well. If ever in the Pittsburgh region I"m happy to buy you dinner.

[@faramarzmokri9136]

Rafael my friend we knew is coming. Behind your happy face you showed through out you podcasts underlying it was obvious that you were not happy in Italy and home sick . Good move going back home. Ironically Your family situation made the decision for you. You needed a stronger reason to leave five years behind in Italy and go back home. There you have it. Good luck. You will be a lot happier at home.

[@fk5701]

Very insightful comment, Faramarz. I was thinking along similar lines when following Rafael's videos. I can fully understand the decision process he must have gone through.

[@YouMeandSicily]

Family first always!

[@RafaelDiFuria]

COMPLETLY AGREE!