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When these women came to me they all had a secret that burdened them. They are all well-educated, smart, funny, loving, beautiful women but there was a big gap between who they presented as to the outside world and how they felt inside.
Although they have successful careers, are great mothers and grandmothers, they felt lost, lonely, confused, afraid to stand up for themselves and haunted by past trauma, or trapped in patterns of toxic relationships they were desperate to break free from. Most lived in fear they weren't good enough and would end up lonely and alone.
All had sacrificed themselves for love, giving everything and getting little in return. And wondered how and why their lives had turned out this way when they had so much love to give and so much goodness in their hearts.
But they all had one thing in common. They were sick and tired of being scared and tired. They were ready to do whatever it takes to heal and reclaim their life, find themselves and joy again. And weren't prepared to spend one more day feeling sorry for themselves or making excuses. They were tired of hidden shame.
And that's when they found me and I knew that together, we could heal their lives. For 8 weeks they put in the work, we dug deep, cried tears as they shed the subconscious layers that had held them back from living their best life on the inside and out. They were never even aware that they were there.
'I was, like, Wow', said Norma. 'I almost fell off my seat because you just knew what the issues were and keyed in on them'.
'I had stuff I'd been trying to grieve for a while', said Christy. 'It was like someone cracked a coconut and the water poured out, it was such an emotional release'
'At first, I felt lighter and I didn't know what it was', said Leanne. 'And then I realised, it was happiness!'
And they were stunned at how fast they healed and emerged as the strong, grounded, empowered women they were born to be. For the first time, they had hope, stillness and, joy. And the tools to stay that way.
Leanne told me: 'I was that low I didn't care if I didn't take another breath. Now I am that excited, there's so much to do, so many plans. I know who I am now after 50 years and that's huge! I had self-criticism for 50 years and that has gone!'
You wake up one morning and you think: I'm different and I don't know how!' exclaimed Mary. 'My healing has been significant'.
'My boyfriend told me: Wow, Viv is a magician. She's changed your life. She's changed you! Thank you so much for changing my life forever' she said to me.
Sara sums it up by saying: 'Just do it. It's a fast track into the bright light'.
And Christy: 'Get into these new shoes!' beamed Christy, 'It's beautiful on this side'.
I am so proud of these beautiful ladies. It's a privilege for me to be a part of their journey to become self-assured women who stand strong in self-worth, sure of their boundaries, and who will never settle for less than they deserve again.
If they can do this then you can too. If you are truly ready to take action, that is, and to live in secret shame is no longer negotiable. You are over making excuses and ready to find the courage to face your fears.