What about how when we surrender to God in love for Him, we will obey his commandments. Often obeying his commandments is scary and often takes more faith in God and love for God and surrender to Love than not obeying his commandments. And when we think about the way God's commandments come to us, they're always in part if not completely a sense within ourselves of what would be good or what would be loving, or what would be just or right to do for the sake of all things and reality... The question of obedience is one of trust and the question to our own hearts "will you love?" I'm reminded of how Peter says those who live in love live in God, and God in them, because God is love.