Got my scammer's address, ASMR, Eating Thai Green curry and rice, spending update, whispering
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@loveliveasmr82322 ай бұрын
I know it’s not my business, but I sincerely hope you stop lending money out to people. Why are they even asking you, I’ve never heard of such a thing. Tell them to apply for a credit card and use that. Great video, brother!
@RxversedButters2 ай бұрын
Funny seeing you here! Just watched your beer ASMR video about an hour ago😅
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Than you. I think it's because word has spread around that I lend out money.
@wt25252 ай бұрын
Did you like her? I don’t get it ? Why would you lend a coworker that much money and then your car or (parent’s car) ? 😮 You should never lend any coworker money so lesson learned 🤷🏽♀️
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
I guess I did like her a bit. I was trying to be nice and I don't have firm boundaries.
@charlielorch48382 ай бұрын
Its a total loss. I would chalk it up as a lesson learned and take the money you keep lending out and invest it in something that benefits you since its your money. If she didnt have a job it was on you knowing she really had no means of paying you back. It was a risk you took and now you will have to learn from it. I dont think much can be done since it sounds like you never drew up a contract or anything. Cheers.
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice.
@KathrynMcKenzie-Smith-hj4gn2 ай бұрын
I think your mindset for quitting your job or not is very good. I think that’ll give you a clear picture for what’s best and will definitely give you the best outcome. I agree with a lot of the comments on lending out money though, it’s incredibly unusual that people keep asking. Though it’s a lovely quality you have that you want to help others out finically, i think a lot of them are taking advantage of this and are using you for financial gain. I definitely think it’s best you stop lending out money as it can be very dangerous. Great work on the video!
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. Yeah I think I will probably keep my job and if I decide not to keep it then I will get another day job.
@Bighomie4202 ай бұрын
Your whispering videos are the best they really calm my anxiety i listen when im at work or laying down in bed to sleep keep the videos coming bro
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Will do. Glad you like them.
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
Great hook and thumbnail - interested to see how the algorithm interacts with this one. Awesome ASMR too - as usual! :)
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thanks, Ethan.
@O-O.O-O2 ай бұрын
My bro, I think you should just stop lending money, even to your friends. You never know if someone is going to take advantage of you, it’s sad but true. Nice video mate! :)
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Well said
@kulacin74802 ай бұрын
There is legit nothing you can do in this situation to get your money back. Shake it off and learn from it. Leaking her info would lose you subscribers for sure and stir more problems you don't need right now after you said you are thinking of going full time.
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Good points, thank you.
@OutdatedHat60692 ай бұрын
You’ve got to let this go. Take this as a learning experience, don’t lend out cash to folks if you think they can’t pay you back. You aren’t getting anything back in this case, and don’t joke about doxing folks it’s a bad look. Even further don’t lend out money period, you aren’t a bank. If you don’t have an enforceable contract like a formal creditor you will not be able to guarantee anything being payed back to you. Most creditors run into this issue, it’s why they charge such high interest rates to make up for it. If you want to give folks money to help out that’s fine, but if it’s an informal loan you have to accept the fact you may never get it back. Don’t lend out money you won’t be fine never getting payed back.
@julianbalcziunas16792 ай бұрын
Your sentiment is ridiculous, a verbal contract is valid in 99% of countries around the world. That includes Canada where he resides. Having the persons address is a great way to serve them with court documents in small claims
@micahgeorge3262 ай бұрын
@julianbalcziunas1679 As someone who works in Canada for a Crown Prosecutor, I can comfortably say he's never seeing that money again.
@stewartkendrick37702 ай бұрын
@@julianbalcziunas1679how the hell do you prove a verbal contract in court? He has absolutely no leg to stand on.
@julianbalcziunas16792 ай бұрын
@@stewartkendrick3770 oh idk maybe the text thread he mentioned in which she states that it wasn’t just a money transfer or a gift…. Small claims isn’t exactly the equivalent of the OJ trial. The stakes are extremely low and in most countries you are not entitled to be represented by a lawyer simply he say she said with a tinge of evidence
@julianbalcziunas16792 ай бұрын
@@micahgeorge326 I doubt someone who works in the criminal justice system knows anything about small claims😭they’re two entirely different worlds
@michaelburmudzija35842 ай бұрын
Putting someones address on the internet will get you a serious lawsuit and criminal charges. Take the 500 dollars as a loss and dont lend people money without a signed document. If you had a document, you could file in a small claims court for your money back. But putting someone address online for 500 bucks looks petty. Learn from it.
@Bighomie4202 ай бұрын
You can't get into trouble for putting someone's Addy out on the internet it's called public information if you know they're name it's free game that's why they say protect yourself on the internet never use your real name
@Trappd2 ай бұрын
@@Bighomie420 doxxing is illegal
@Bighomie4202 ай бұрын
@Trappd it's not doxing if someone knows your full name it's called public information why do u think ppls names and addresses were in the phone books in the 1980's and 90's do some research
@Bighomie4202 ай бұрын
@@Trappd it's only illegal if you are making threats to show up to their house
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice.
@vBlackbear2 ай бұрын
Is there any reason you wouldn't just give the police the address and explain your situation?
@michaelburmudzija35842 ай бұрын
Police aren't going to do anything. If you lend people money, make sure you get a written form with both parties signing or there is nothing you can do.
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
I thought police wouldn't be able to do anything since she can just say I owed her $500 from a cash transaction a while back.
@jacksonville49322 ай бұрын
This is false. A written contract can be dismissed in court very easily. The reason why we don't go to court is because this is what's called 'petty theft' which is like theft under 10k$ or whatever the limit is. Anything under that is basically a 'diy' situation because lawyers and court fees are WELL OVER 500$ @michaelburmudzija3584
@jacksonville49322 ай бұрын
Instead of putting her address, you can make a video about what things she has done to you and others. But I wouldn't go anywhere near doxxing. You can mention names and faces, but you can't leak addresses in malice, even if they are in the wrong.
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
I think that's a good idea, I shouldn't dox her
@leder6092 ай бұрын
Pretty sure he won’t be lending out money anymore guys.
@lunchyprices90702 ай бұрын
Your loss
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
13:05 any reason you weren't using a cloud based service like google docs?
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Not sure hehe.
@FlyEaglesFly.2 ай бұрын
Charge it to the game brother! I hate that for you, but maybe it’s a lesson learned. Thanks for the tingles man!
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
You're welcome. Yes, lesson learned.
@painisvergina369328 күн бұрын
You definitely should go after her and get your money back
@Simple500527 күн бұрын
Thanks but I will leave her alone, it can only lead to bad things if I escalate it.
@painisvergina369328 күн бұрын
Give the address to a private investigator
@Simple500528 күн бұрын
Thank you for the suggestion but I think I’m going to leave it.
@neetipatel85792 ай бұрын
This sounds like a tricky situation, however I wouldn’t leak any personal information, also switching between the two differs types, confused my brain and made it harder to fall asleep
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Hey thanks for the feedback on my video and thanks for the advice.
@mf36462 ай бұрын
Dude. Leave it and take your loss. You lend the money , so it is your fault to. Take it as a lesson to never lend people money.....just learn to say no , and do not let anybody take adventage of you
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
Hi Matt! There seems to be some irrational, illogical, and emotional advice / observations floating around, so I wanted to use this comment chain to give my thoughts on the points you spoke about since I think it will be useful and worth my time to do so since there are so many opinions that differ from what i believe to be the clear, best solutions.
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
7:47 doxxing will not get your money back and may lead to further complications. I understand the thirst for justice, but this option makes you look horrible, almost on the same level as the scammer. No need to stoop yourself to a lower ethic just for some revenge disguised as justice.
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
8:00 waste of your time unless you are looking for people to ridicule you or feel sorry for you. Lots of time and effort spent by you for minimal to no gain - she probably will see it and forget about it the next week or month going on with her life. Not worth your time.
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
8:19 I thought this was a silly joke, but in case it isnt - of course this is not worth your time/effort/money. The gangster wont do it for free, so you will lose more money, time, and effort on a dangerous operation that has an end-goal of... Scaring her a little? What even is the end goal? Does all this effort and risk translate into a better you or a better future? Nah. Not worth your time.
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
8:34 police will not do anything since nobody did any crime. Sure what she did was "morally" wrong, but there is no proof that any crime was commited and you will waste your time and effort for no reason. Not worth it.
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
11:58 I disagree. You did the right thing and helped someone in need. You couldnt have seen that coming, especially since she built trust beforehand and had that social fabric in place. But what IS useful that you can take away from this is developing boundaries, but you already know this. I dont think i have ever lent money to anyone before actually, and i especially would never give to someone who asked for it. I choose to give to the people I want to, and so I cannot get scammed in this way. If your boundary is looser than this and you still want to lend money to people who ask - voice recordings, videos of them signing a contract - basically evidence in case of worst case scenario is your best friend here. If you have evidence you can most definitely get more than the amount they owe you through sueing.
@orbitxgalaxy6972 ай бұрын
I see sucks I don’t lend out money unless it’s my close day 1s but shit depends how much you need cuz once someone says 500$+ ima have to really think about it if I mess with you or not 😭 but from the times I have asked for money the day I said ima pay you back IMA actually pay you back thank god I haven’t had the emergency or situation to ask for some money I hate asking embarrassing and just sucks so I if do I’m paying back 100% hate scammers
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this.
@RealJohnSlinkman2 ай бұрын
Welp good asmr nevertheless
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thank you.
@kissfreak45012 ай бұрын
Share his address here lol
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
I better not.
@tinalancaster32272 ай бұрын
Dude you’re gullible, it’s all on you! What she did was wrong but you gave her the money, you should never lend money to anyone you don’t know regardless. Threatening to put her address out there is wrong and she can sue the pants off you! I get that you’re mad but you only have yourself to blame, and if you put her personal information out for everyone to see I hope she does sue you. Stop trying to be all offended when it’s your own fault!!
@Dean__20232 ай бұрын
Bloody hell, chill out. No need to have a go at the guy, he was helping someone out. ‘Stop trying to be all offended…’ you absolute joker ha, she stole $500 from him - ofc he can be pissed about it. Yes doxxing her address would be a bad idea but I’m sure that was a joke/he clearly hid it from sight on this video. Is this an American thing? To be so shocked at the idea of helping other ppl, that it literally is beyond your comprehension ha?
@imabegroovintilltheworldst57522 ай бұрын
I hope you get sued for being an A** hole
@imabegroovintilltheworldst57522 ай бұрын
I hope you get sued for being an a**hole give him a break he was just trying to be nice it is his fault but you don't have to say it like that
@mangolloyd47362 ай бұрын
Hey bro
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Hey bro
@davidbarry28372 ай бұрын
Go Get Them
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
Thank you for the advice.
@Postalboozer2 ай бұрын
Just show up to the address
@Simple50052 ай бұрын
I thought about it but it's too risky I think.
@chaylez41022 ай бұрын
@@Simple5005 Definitely too risky, I don’t support this
@ethanyosh2 ай бұрын
If a girl does not want to see a guy, and that guy goes behind her back to get her address, then shows up at her door... Yeah. Not a good idea 😂 - police are going to be there real quick for either trespassing or stalking.