What To Do If You Lost Emotional Control On Him? How To Redeem Yourself After Going Crazy On A Man?

What to do if you lost emotional control on him? How to redeem yourself after going crazy/ needy on a man?
In this live I'm sharing with you 5 strategies on how to redeem yourself if you lost emotional control on the guy and went crazy on him. You acted like a total psyho and pushed him away. Maybe he broke up with you and you went crazy. Maybe he provoked you and you overreacted, maybe he is not treating you well and you keep losing emotional control. So how do you redeem yourself after being clingy, desperate, needy losing your emotional control, and going crazy on him?
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[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

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[@kujayasinghe9199]

This lady deserves 2M subscriptions.

[@gologanlarisa5871]

I absolutely agree!!!

[@danilove8127]

Yesss she does I love her!

[@lisaariottiart]

Remember things end how they begin and Everything is energy. Pay close attention to a Man's energy and to your female intuition. How he treats you is how he feels about you. I learned this the hard way. I'm with Greta. If a man ever treats me with any level of disrespect or game playing I'm out. If you give them your body prior to commitment realize that you do so at your own risk both to your health and to your heart. Game only creates Game.

[@lugm1034]

Absolutely, but everyone will test you somehow, consciously or unconsciously, specially men. So it´s not about being out, it´s about boundaries, and with not reacting you are being elegant, implying that you dont care, that you are above his games. Would you react with a guy that you dont like or care about? There you are.

[@lisaariottiart]

@@lugm1034 I don't want to be with a person who tests me. We should spend time to see if we are compatible and that love and commitment are a mutual goal. Testing is for people who are unable to trust.

[@gillh405]

At (a very youthful) 62, I've been single again for the last 6 years. I cannot believe how many men around my own age, finding themselves single again in later life, have regressed to the mindset of 20 year old players. I'm just done with it. I'd rather be alone forever than having to deal with their games. Younger ladies, we suffer too 😆

[@mmxw2294]

🤡 these kind of fellas will not be accepted anymore and if majority of ladies would honor themselves first the world would be a better place

[@luckyduckydaisyflower2344]

Goll darn it! 😆

[@bridgetulrich1711]

This year has been the craziest year of my life. I have lost emotional control more than once on my man and he has stayed. Yet, he has changed - he changed before I lost emotional control the first time. His lack of future talk and talk of commitment after starting off the relationship heavy with this sort of talk is what has led me to lose emotional control. I'm glad I am not the only woman struggling to maintain control this year.

[@sarahsummers4093]

Same here 😢

[@Trashpanda888]

I lost emotional control and he broke up with me.. so now I’m trying to get my relationship back. Currently in “no contact”

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

Wow, your videos has changed me tremendously. I love you so much. I will no longer act desperate despite how much I like a guy. 💕

[@hdshjs]

I listen to Greta's advice for hours and replay them all the time. I'm not quite drama free yest, but I'll get there someday. Keeping my fingers crossed for all of us ladies!

[@danilaroche1156]

My biggest issue with my man was loss of control. Though he thought I was smart and beautiful. Though he was loving, generous and consistent..my temper ran him off. Why? I had unhealed trauma. I took the break up as an opportunity to heal. I asked the Lord Jesus to heal past childhood sexual abuse and He did! I had a great deal of pain and the Lord healed it. The Bible says Jesus is the Mighty Counselor & Good Physician. Don't you just adore Greta?

[@beautytothemac]

This is awesome, much needed. Thanks Greta ❤️

[@miahlove1753]

Thank you Greta for having a video for everything I can’t thank you enough

[@spiritual5811]

Some of the men we are dealing with are narcissists though and they cannot be changed

[@mbibi5784]

Omg...so true about the monthly cycle. Thanks for the video. Love you.

[@ilenek.5428]

Wonderful advice!!!

[@petparadise6955]

I love you greta youve changed my life so much through your videos ❤️

[@iveyhealth2266]

I love your voice....I listen to it sometimes before dropping off to sleep.

[@sashastockwell3585]

I missed the lives! Thanks Greta!

[@anushreesrivastava4572]

Awesome👏😊😊...this one will enhance my good behavior more now... Thank you queen👑 ❤

[@elizabetdanova3219]

That video was very helpful!!

[@noratarbi7118]

Excellent advice. Ty Greta!❤

[@sunisupandsmile1812]

Thank you Greta so much! 🤗

[@virtuouswoman7558]

Thank you, you such a great encourager. Much love for you.

[@BBGshop7]

Greta.. I really appreciate this video. I'm gonna watch it again.

[@Cashalfstory]

💕💕💕 so helpful thank you!

[@aislingying9971]

I like this hairstyle on you. I need this video emotional control is my issue.

[@leahgannon8838]

Thank you so much Greta, you know your stuff and I appreciate your videos 🙂💞👍🏼👋🏼🌹

[@rosaclick1995]

You are so God sent

[@bethathighvaluewomenmovement]

Amazing video ❤️

[@ilenek.5428]

What a topic! I did all of these things with my current husband. Didnt realize that he was playing games to put blame on me! I'm done. (Its been 24 yrs with these games that have gotten worse the last 7 years). So done, unfortunately. Huge mess to clean up. I want better.

[@shwetagharwade2365]

U helped me being highvalue. Thanku Greta

[@florr756]

Love this :))

[@user-ik7ji6td9y]

How beautiful you are Greta and everythin you are doing for us. Thank you!❤❤❤🌸🌸🌸

[@tianiemitchell5692]

He's aware of his behavior

[@Versiongurl]

Oh my Greta, your advice is golden. I really wish I could get you or if hire you to help me with my marriage.

[@Julia-vu6fr]

Thank you 🙏

[@patiadomaitis2840]

You really changed my life.

[@GretaBereisaite]

Thank you

[@leonarizardo2750]

Woww I learn from you a lots thank you

[@fefifofob]

Thanks for all the tips about how I can manipulate him.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

Greta, I’m so pretty and I get hit a lot by vast majority of men but I have a bad habit of Putting high-quality men on a pedestal hence they treating me with a lot of disrespect. They often get uninterested in me in the end. I hope I can change myself because they think they are all that. 😢

[@shrinidhipatil335]

Thank You! You look like Taylor Swift

[@randiirachelle]

Hi Greta! I'm new to finding you and I am sooo in love with your videos, they have helped me realize my worth and boost my confidence! I was wondering if you could maybe do a video on how to be high value when posting on social media?? Like are there things we post that maybe we don't realize can make us appear low value? That would be so interesting and very fitting for these modern days :) Thank you for all of your work!

[@valeriaives1135]

That's a great idea, I hope she considers it

[@abigailmelekajohnson7076]

Thanks alot

[@patriciaburtescu]

I agree with you , Greta... playing the game is not the way. Men always win it. Prevention should indeed be main strategy😘

[@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou]

I always beat men at their own game. It’s easy once you master yourself first.

[@yeniiavila7903]

What do I do if he has left home because of myself losing emotional control? We had a really bad argue. Now he doesn't want to be in touch with me. He has blocked me everywhere.

[@mritam123]

We were talking n he told me about wishing a girl at 12, n then he sent me screenshot, I found it funny. I wasn’t actually jealous, n later he was pissed. It wasn’t sth I planned, now I realize wow about my reaction,I had control.

[@immunegarden5104]

I'm so in love with you greta....💕💕💕💕💕 .. I'm a loyal fan to the end...

[@aleksandrabenedict2135]

I love your lives.

[@jazzdivaa5466]

If a guy never says " I love you" back and says how will that make difference if I say or not

[@ellie4443]

@8:30 Thing is.... They know we will ignore but it makes us mad. Why is it wrong taking it with derision?

[@kujayasinghe9199]

Greta is Great!

[@sherrymatthews2199]

I appreciate this so much. Topics are much needed. I have tried everything you've suggested. Remove myself? You make it sound so easy. I've tried to leave. I Dont want to be away from him. Why? I don't know 😣 he's no longer kind to me. He's embarrassing me, he has hurt my feelings by saying no kissing just sex after 8mths ”too intimate” we are friends w/benefits I don't understand? We had such great chemistry. I've caught him cheating He's 20 yrs younger. Why can't I let go? I hate it. I want to regain my dignity but I've been too needy. I need a step by step tutorial I guess?

[@jazzyone1986]

Remove yourself and get a life! That’s how you become less needy

[@karrynlipsett5187]

how do u stop a guy from being jealous??

[@AngeloAtheross]

If I had a heart I could love you If I had a voice I would sing After the night when I wake up I'll see what tomorrow brings

[@tianiemitchell5692]

They don't have an agenda Family and most friends.

[@missyumyum8670]

Yep. Every little stupid thing makes you cry at that time. Its awful.

[@erikaalisauskaite7697]

yep, and also making guy just jealous, immature man or narcissist will cheat, coz get paranoid about being abandoned, left and man with sick pride will do that first...

[@lucky8526]

Since you mentioned in this video about the girl who asked a guy where are we, I have one question. I started a dating a guy. He is divorced, but he has kids. In one of our conversations I have asked a guy does he plans to get married again and start a family he replied no and that he is only looking for a long-term partner something like that. I have never been married and I am much younger than him. I goal is to get married and have kids. So, how can I respond to this in HV way? Is there maybe a chance that he likes me if I behave HV and change his mind? What is the best way to respond?

[@coralnegro3702]

What if you already shown emotion?

[@timhendson2550]

also hey i like a guy i have only seen on instagram how do reach to him?

[@candycrushbeginners.5922]

Greta you're simply the Best.. I love the way you explain each and every point and you are so so so beautiful ❤️😍 I'm following all your teachings and my relationship is getting much better now last week my boyfriend left me I begged and pleaded in front of him but he was still ready to leave me then I started watching your videos and I didn't text him or call him, the very next day he called me and started crying on the call and he said that i was asking you to go because my parents are not accepting you although they don't know anything about me or they have never seen me still his parents wants him to marry his cousin and not me and my boyfriend is still confused but he loves me and misses me alot we don't talk to much now but I only want to marry him asap please guide me Greta..

[@candycrushbeginners.5922]

@@Faizashk he dumped me yesterday btw ... And he was cheating on me in the whole 2 years when we were together and now I seriously don't want to see his face..

[@candycrushbeginners.5922]

@@Faizashk Allah will definitely ask him about it one day..

[@candycrushbeginners.5922]

@@Faizashk aww that's so sweet of you.. love you back from Karachi, Pakistan😘❤️

[@lucianewell6084]

I flipped out on him. I misunderstood him and went off in him. This is a case of a man too nice to tell me to get lost. He apologized to me because he's a sweetheart. This started because he kept telling me he wanted to be "just friends" I went off on him and said "Why are you taking me out then?. I even told him I never wanted to see him again. " I completely read into him wrong. And I went off on him. He was trying to take things slowly . While I was trying to speed things up He wasn't telling me that we would never be more or that things would never progress between me and him. He was just saying that at this time as away of telling me he wanted to do things slower and he explained this after I blew up on him. Lol .. He apologized to me when he actually did nothing wrong. He said "I'm sorry for misleading you " He didn't need to apologize. I'm wrong not him. He did absolutely nothing wrong. He needs a backbone cuz I'm a bitch. However, its a little too late because the damage is done. I cried and acted like a complete 12 year old. I said some really ignorant things to him. The thing about this entire situation though is, I'm going through the change. My emotions are through the roof. I'm highly emotional.,and absent of my period. I'm getting some God awful cramps and irritable for no reason at all. And I'm pissed at the world for absolutely no reason at all. I'm also acting like an unreasonable wench. We been only been dating a few weeks.its too early for him to be dealing with an idiot like me. He's not even my boyfriend. And I'm dishing it out on him already. So unfair to him. However I'm at the initial stages of menopause. I don't really know how to tell him this. I don't want to keep making these God awful excuses. It makes me look even lower value. Even though that's what's really going on in my body. but he's been a super sweet gentleman About this whole thing. However, right now I'm super embarrassed. I know how unreasonable I am. and I don't think he needs someone like me at this time. He doesn't deserve to be treated the way I have been treating him because he's the one in the right and I'm 100% wrong. He can do much better than me. He's super quality. Does good financially. He's Christian. Goodlooking And I'm so acting like a complete psychopath. When I call. He answers. He's a godly man. I think any other man would have blocked me already. But Ii TRIED something. I didn't call today and noticed he didn't call me once either. Honestly, I think down deep inside. Hes actually lost attraction for me . And I don't think he's thinking about me at all . I think this because even though he takes my phone calls he stopped initiating contact and our dates have ceased. Why would he? I've been nothing but stupid. He's just being polite when I call. His morals, values and faith in God is what causes him to pick up that phone to speak to me everytime. because he said to me yesterday "God can't forgive me if I can't forgive you." That makes him exceptional, yes. but none of it is fair .or true. God will forgive him. Especially if I acted like a complete douchebag. He deserves so much better than me. I need to to do my part and not initiate the phone calls any longer He only picks up that phone to be polite to me and also as an obligation to his God. When in reality he has every right to be done with me. Plus, I don't want forced love. I want a guy who wants me. I don't want him to feel like he has to be my friend because God expects it. I'm going to give him his space. I have to do him this favor for me and for him. Because I'm not going to force him to put up with my BS or to like me any longer. Trust me he will (not because he wants to) I'm gonna walk away and if he calls me...that's great. I'll let him know a lil more what's going on with me..but if he doesn't. I'm going to leave him alone forever. It feels so wrong for me to call him at this stage. From now on if that phone doesn't ring and he isn't the one initiating the contact with me, then so be it. But at least he will feel at peace with it and so will I...it hurts inside to feel like this is over between me and him. However, nothing feels worse than me calling him and it feeling like he really wants nothing to do with me. I thought about it long and hard today. I thought "He's not taking you out, You have been initiating the calls not him. He's lost attraction." Feels so wrong. From now on things will be different. If he doesn't call me...then I'm in going to make this easy for him. And in the end I will still be able to walk away with all my dignity.

[@shacutehuntyssssx]

You’re so pretty by the way

[@dorethamoses6202]

I'm confused when you want space you can't tell him or her because it will end badly but a man need should need space so give him space, but a woman can't tell a man she needs space ???

[@manyi4success]

How do you even enjoy a man that run so many games and tests on you? That's a turn off for me even if I'm the exception. What happened to just love and connection

[@dianalereve5402]

exactly! I don't get it... i mean, if some jealousy pops up accidentally, that's a different thing. But if a man does that on purpose !?

[@Mistysfedora]

@26:00 is true

[@eleseclarke6038]

I've dumped him but I didn't want to I felt like I had to because I felt disrespected I lost emotional control completely I am finding it difficult as I'm 30weeks pregnant 🙃 . I sent him messages complaining all sorts I feel like he doesn't care I have a lot of insecurities though and have acted very low value but at the same time he is doing things to push my buttons. I don't know what to do now 😕 😪 I do love him but I feel like he doesn't care

[@Versiongurl]

I understand how you feel. My husband is doing me the same.

[@dorethamoses6202]

Gerta a woman can tell a man she needs space if he is all in her face every day but the next day he's in his face the next day but I didn't tell him that was the problem

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am single Single single single 😍😍❤❤💑💑🌷🌷🙋🙋

[@amyl2116]

Why man is supposed to say:” I need space.’’ When he needs it While woman shouldn’t

[@anneshirly7202]

17:04

[@tianiemitchell5692]

I would open up my phone and go to someplace to go look at this guy isn't he hot and say excuse me I have to go to the bathroom and leave

[@ScorpionPrincess1989]

Hey Greta I lost emotional control and accused my fiancé of cheating, is there any way to redeem myself? I’ve been high value in the beginning till now and I feel this will jeopardise my relationship. He has been planting seeds and trying to get me jealous and saying things like he could cheat on me and I would never find out! All these things just added up and I finally lost emotional control and he felt like I was controlling him because of the way I acted! Should I walk away since I blew it?! If I feel like he will treat me differently after this one outburst should I just leave it

[@mariasmith7338]

I’m in a similar situation - been HV for 7 months but lost emotional control over the past couple of weeks due to his mixed messages/lack of commitment. Now we’re not speaking. I don’t even know who dumped who… What happened with you in the end Jasmine? X

[@ticiaowusu965]

​@@mariasmith7338 What happened with you?

[@karariekstins366]

I love your videos, Greta…but all this talk about games men play really ticks me off. “Oh let’s get married” after one date-who is being silly and naive here, the man who suggests it or the woman who goes along with it. I cut off men as soon as they start playing games with me. They claim they’re testing me-and in the same moment they’ve proven that they will allow their morality to slip past a certain point. In romance it’s not ok to behave evilly in order to unearth someone else’s evil. If someone else is evil it will come out, we do not have to lower ourselves in order to find it.

[@dianalereve5402]

i agree.

[@timhendson2550]

what do you do if you like a guy has a physical type? he likes blondes and i look nothing like that. i dont want to change my physical appearance because i dont desire to change my appearance

[@evka24]

Never ever change. If he did not like u why he would be with you? Keep saying I love my dark hair.. etc .. never ever show insecurity.

[@timhendson2550]

@@evka24 thanks

[@evka24]

@En Joy some insecure men do that to make u feel insecure

[@evka24]

@@timhendson2550 u r welcome. Never show insecurity.. they would use that to manipulate you and your emotions.. not all but many.. and many men r insecure unfortunately.. U R ALWAYS ENOUGH! u r the price! Believe it! They will too!

[@nadineelizabeth195]

@En Joy this is so true 😳😳

[@Flytr567]

If my ex would have sent me a very long message, I'd be flattered, assured of his devotion, I'd be still in a relationship with "him".

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Text him on what's app

[@mclarencorporation9854]

+ 2 3 4 8 1 5 9 1 5 8 9 1 5......

[@dianalereve5402]

WHY the hell should i want to keep a man who is making me sad *on purpose* ?! No, i do not find it normal at all when a man tests out a woman via trying to make her jealous. I find this so immature and i want a grown up man. So i'd just get rid of those guys.

[@dianalereve5402]

oh a little later in the video i realized that you see it similarly, so all fine 😊

[@femsegotier981]

When we're out or in malls he looks to other ladies especially those who wears fitted clothes and commenting about it . And i just keep quiet . And i started losing interest in him though I love him .

[@shrinidhipatil335]

during periods women just lose it!

[@manyi4success]

How do you even enjoy the experience when you have to keep up with so many game rules coming from even 'good' guys. Ah I'm tired. I'm beginning to think God should have made us asexual Is there any man in this planet like me? No games just love and connection?

[@chlariepeace6810]

I have tired to do. Self love for over 2 to. 3 years it does not work and i do not like been high vaule woman i do not like it does get you any way i liked to be used that i get attention

[@rebeccaharris5908]

Greata you look beautiful I see all of your videos I'm in a situation where the guy doesn't like what I wear he only wants me to change according to him and he has lot of girls that's he has on hi s phone he says he has forgotten to delete there msg he only ask on weekends get the cookie get drink and eat thts it nthg else he's not putting any effort bt yes we work together so he make Maggi for me and bring food fr me as wel yes he has helped me out with .money as well he sees other girl tell me they are good what should I do help me out I told him I need break up .bt I have lost emotional control pls help me out

[@aislingying9971]

I like this hairstyle on you. I need this video emotional control is my issue.

[@Versiongurl]

Mines too