Grey's anatomy 8x03 Merder "Ending Scene"

[@tanishachander]

I can’t stop watching this. This whole scene breaks my heart but also shows how much Derek loves Meredith and how hard it is for him to give up on her no matter the consequence.

[@s-rtweeds5072]

I know how you feel

[@simisolaodukomaiya151]

Lol, you certainly don't know anything about their relationship ​@TheBible_

[@geniusfollower]

it was so easy for derek to walk away from his marriage with addison, but with meredith, he is sticking around even if their vows are on a post it, and she is driving him insane.

[@user-si2wi4sk2u]

geniusfollower it wasn’t easy for him to walk away because when she came to Seattle he tried to work it out with her even though she slept with his best friend

[@kianadoescod6402]

Aalaa Basheer when mark showed up in Seattle and was just talking to Meredith he gets punched in the face when Derek sees his wife and mark in bed he runs to Seattle. He only chose to try and work it out with adddison because he admitted he wasn’t present in their marriage and wanted to try again. It didn’t work obviously and his love for Meredith is way more then with Addison

[@user-si2wi4sk2u]

Kianas143 yeah he obviously loves Mer alot more but it wasn’t that easy to leave Addison

[@georgiabarker6852]

Addison did worse. So, it makes sense that he found it easier to walk away from her. Addison had an affair with his best friend. As far as I'm concerned, their should have been no coming back from that. He never should have left Meredith when Addison showed up in Seattle. Addison got more than she deserved, as much as I like her character.

[@nicoleskorupsky1007]

@@kianadoescod6402 Its not that he loved her more than Addison it’s that no matter what they forgave each other for everything regardless of how bad it was. Another thing is that it wasn’t easy for Derek to walk away from his marriage to Addison, they were together for 11 years give or take a few and when she presented the papers he refrained from signing them because of their time together. He drove Meredith into a drinking frenzy during this time as well, he promised her he would sign the papers and he never did til something set them both off.

[@monikahrischeva6190]

"I know that you took her to protect her. I know you altered the trial for Adele and for Richard. You stood in front of the bullet for me. And I know why you do all of that. That's what I love about you." "And what you hate about me...." "Yeah...."

[@marciasilva549]

This. I think he didn't trust her with herself.

[@marzadky4934]

Marriage in a nutshell. When you and people who are getting divorced it's often the things they loved that irked them at the end

[@mistybustamante8906]

so beautiful I cried. that is a real marriage

[@peachaesthetics6972]

OMG when he pointed at the post it

[@s-rtweeds5072]

peach aesthetics ikr!!!

[@StoriesAndChill]

I said he was an ass and that he wasnt being McDreamy but now that he got to TALK and to finally explain himself and his feelings i can understand that he is just hurt and he is trying to deal with it, im kinda proud of him... And of Mer too for rocking that surgery :D

[@abstractionx]

A lot of what Derek says is so true. Whereas I love Meredith for the same reasons he does, she didn't take the emotional responsibility for her actions and wasn't BEING sorry about it(rather than just saying sorry). Which is hard when she doesn't regret her actions completely. Such a powerful couple scene with multi-dimensions.

[@leilanimartinez8903]

John Rea Meredith might have done it for consider reasons towards Richard and Adele but she was very selfish when it came to Derek. She didn’t think how Derek would’ve felt or how it would look on him as a doctor.

[@CCEkeke]

Not to mention, part of the reason why Derek did the Alzheimer's trial is because of Meredith. He feared that she might inherit the disease from Ellis.

[@rookiemonster646]

Ik this comment is 8 yrs old but honestly I am mad at both of them here. You remember when Derek reported Richard to the board. Meredith was mad at him, yet she supported him. And here, he just can't seem to stop screaming. Ik, Meredith took some awful judgement calls but they definitely jumped into adopting Zola without thinking any of it through. They could've both done better here.

[@mwuahugz1115]

@@rookiemonster646 It's what Derek's mom said that Mer sees everything in gray and Derek needed that. Mer made some terrible decisions but are neither right nor wrong. and i guess Derek couldnt see that she did it for Webber and all he could think is that she sabotaged her. I remember they were wondering if Adele gets the placebo and Derek said it's what she'll get cos they dont have a choice. However, i think this problem is bound to happen, working while being married. Work problems getting into the relationship

[@marciasilva549]

@@mwuahugz1115 I think Derek doesn't trust Meredith with herself and the consequences of the risks she takes generally fall on the shoulders fo the people who love her, namely him.

[@blackjackxxi7305]

I love that their vows was applied/showed on this scene; -Love each other even they hate each other -No running 2 vows left: -Take Care each other even when they got old. I think with regards on this vow, Derek was always there for meredith and his kids after he died. Meredith dreamed of him, Prayed to him & Sees him on her covid dream. -And its Forever. I think MerDer is still the endgame, she may have been involved to new relationships after Derek but Her heart still beats for him, the love of her life and Her one great love. 💙💙💙

[@goodbyetonight1]

I love the voice of Patrick Dempsey when he say " but you make it so damn hard."

[@jessicahornby6026]

that’s a real marriage right there

[@TinyDancer250]

Chandra Wilson directed this.

[@Castlegrey100]

i never thought that my favorite scene so far in season 8 was a fighting scene but that was amazing. i think they both have a point. i heard that the whole Shepard familt is coming to visit in an upcoming episode. i wonder if being with the family will bring them back together?

[@Castlegrey100]

have you ever nocited that the best merder scenes are when they are broken up? Look at season two?

[@hadjrlili3728]

Yesss! Especially that "you don't get to call me a whore" speech

[@Mini-Toast_]

Yeah because unlike Jim and Pam they aren't as fun when they are actually together. It's all just angsty and annoying. And you realize the best couple was calzona.

[@jessicahornby6026]

Season 2 was honestly the best - I love the way he cared for her even tho he wasn’t together

[@catys.m9108]

Mini toast yeah they were always so fun and happy when they were together:)

[@Castlegrey100]

i can't believe that some people don't like this scene! I mean people need to be a little more patient. try watching castle that will help you with patience.

[@rookiemonster646]

I absolutely hate the fact that Meredith had to give up neuro because of Derek. Hate it. She was a natural at it and she had to give up neuro. Maybe she messed up the trial but losing Zola was not all her fault. Who asked Derek to sleep on the deck the first time they got Zola?! Yeah, he was pissed at Meredith for ruining the trial but that doesn't mean he should sleep on the deck the day they got Zola. Had he not been sleeping on the deck, there wouldn't have been inconsistencies in Meredith's story the next day at daycare when Janet came to see Zola. They were both equally at fault in losing Zola. I hate Derek for indirectly making Meredith give up neuro. Hate that. She was a natural at it damn it. She would've been a brilliant neurosurgeon.

[@moumitasantra9039]

Well it's greys anatomy....the easy solution would be either Derek or Meredith change hospital and continue to work in nuero but Shonda is Shonda and Greys don't use logic!!!😅

[@Castlegrey100]

the song is: Rain by the innocence mission

[@maureenavilia208]

Actually those who say she didn't get her consequence she did, coz she gave up Neuro which is what she wanted to do since she joined seattle grace as an intern, for almost 2 months her and Richard were never allowed in the OR, plus the Resentment that Derek gave her it was enough.

[@loveforchenford]

He is being a mctwat 😂💀

[@calistalawson741]

Derek gets so much shit for his issues this season, but honestly I fully agree with almost everything he says, it was just poorly worded.

[@leeannwallace5778]

I always say this ...yes he worded it wrong and was shouting it but what he's saying is facts she never took emotional responsibility for her actions and always thought when she did something wrong she did it seeing it only form her eyes but not the eyes of anybody else and to see that Richard too the blame and if it were any other resident he wouldn't and never liked meredith but I love merder and the fact the she never stop doing it pisses me off

[@ChrisYangDOC]

the innocence mission- Rain(setting out in the leaf boat)

[@liliahernandez8940]

Please let's help Alan to get back to me with the details of the project and I will be there

[@sandramitroi6025]

I used to love them together, but now when I think about it... He was quite patronising and egotistical. It was always about his needs, his desires.

[@lizethqp2258]

He was not. A marriage needs talking, Meredith never talked to him (at the beggining), it wasnt her fault it was just the way she was, but for a marriage you dont need to change but you need to compromise... so all of that argument was right. He was pissed for almost ruining everyones career and almost losing Zola... he had the right to not trust her, but at the same time. She didnt do it on purpose, so its difficult but i guess that is a marriage you just need to talk scream and then forgive

[@erauprcwa]

YES!!!!!! I started watching the series during season 8, then I binged watched the series to get caught up right before the plane crash. Binge watching the series, you notice certain character flaws. I was not upset when his character was killed off... He was a narcissistic bastard, how his story ended proved that to me.

[@sydneysykes4312]

@@erauprcwa i agree but he has a right to be angry she almost ruined everyones career and she got zola taken away

[@erauprcwa]

@@sydneysykes4312 He has a right to be angry, but he has part in why Zola was taken away. He definitely didn't make the situation any better and it was how Derek was reacting to everything is what made the social worker question the situation. Derek wasn't innocent. Also, if it wasn't for Meredith, that trial would've never been started to begin with. Remember she also lied during the last trial (going against what Richard told Mer) and Derek had a successful outcome... Which Derek then took all the credit when his face was on the cover of a magazine...

[@sydneysykes4312]

@@erauprcwa meredith is a grown up who knows how to trust herself if she thought it was wrong then she shouldn't have lied and how was he supposed to reacted his wife kidnapped a baby, and lowered their chances of even being able to adopt her, if this were real life she would've gone to jail

[@michelesabty28]

Derek is a jurk but he got a point

[@kimberleymorris8052]

And she did it again in 15x 24. This show really needs to end

[@francipazzerella97]

@Castlegrey100 you're SO right....

[@mimiel7938]

No matter who she altered the trial for she ruined her husband s career ...

[@rosaliesalesse5391]

She so ruined it that he worked for the president in season 11. She did it so that Richard (who has been a father for her) don’t live with a wife who’s got Alzheimer’s

[@rifenossimple4344]

@@rosaliesalesse5391 She also ruined that. By being selfish and staying in Seattle, while she could have had the same carreer opportunities on the east coast. People call Derek selfish but he always came back when it came to it.

[@masonwaters2325]

@@rosaliesalesse5391 if my wife did that, I’d understand but I’d still be pissed off. Especially if it set back my career and ruined a chance for me to cure something that affect many people. I understand why she did it but it was still reckless, and she got lucky that it wasn’t much worse

[@ajaiachamberlin9133]

@@rifenossimple4344 she wasn’t being selfish …. Her life is in Seattle and she even said she didn’t want to be like her father (because after her parents moved to Seattle , her father was offered a job instead of working for it himself) o can understand her reasoning .

[@nicm2608]

She didn't ruin his career, he already got the shepherd method which she came up with and be took full credit for it. He was a well established before. Now that I think about it Derek always seem to consider his career first before anything else. In season 11, he said he would lay low so Meredith can step up in her career and then went back on his promise and then tried to force her to move to D.C and when she finally stood her ground and decided to stay he gave her hell for months until she told him to go and when he went, he kissed another woman which was one of the worse thing that he could have done. My point is Derek is the more selfish. Meredith done plenty of terrible things but she has always had Derek's back and never cheated on him.

[@r_ns7150]

whats the song tht starts at 1:41?

[@vbcrottybb23]

first to comment! woohooo i love merder! literally so much sexual tension here.

[@emeraldgreen86]

Derek needs a slap

[@sydneysykes4312]

For?

[@emilly9626]

@@leeannwallace5778 Yess!!

[@Castlegrey100]

anyone know the song?

[@589manoj]

he came back not for post it or love for mer only becausehe can live in the woods all alone now now think when u have such a good house who wanna live in the woods screw ego

[@faithwatkins7811]

He was a neurosurgeon he made enough money to get an apartment

[@user-si2wi4sk2u]

He had enough money to build a dream house for gods sake

[@liliahernandez8940]

Meredith b.r Gary and Alex Meredith ❤ 😍 💙 I am zhhn

[@reneebrown9298]

I’m genuinely disgusted by Derek.

[@liliahernandez8940]

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[@liliahernandez8940]

Finding. Nndj caffeine mdnh

[@Lonnie1969s]

This is where I stopped watching this show!! So dumb!!!

[@liliahernandez8940]

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