Grey's Anatomy 8x20 "Bailey loses Tuck"

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[@mads6488]

"um idk" is without a doubt the worst thing you could say to parent lmao

[@celesluvsu]

I'd freak out too if the woman in charge of my child said, "umm idk"

[@brett8460]

And she said it so nonchalantly like she really didn't care.

[@jagirl281]

Right! I would be livid

[@fabmothernature7324]

I probably would have lost it too

[@trailee3197]

Exactly!! Like bitch that’s my baby you lost.

[@NataliaLeal97]

I work with children because I am a teacher-in-training, if, for example, one of the children needs me to take him to the bathroom, I always tell my partner (another teacher-in-training) "hey, I'm going to take this child to the bathroom, I'm coming in 5 minutes" and likewise she does too. At university they taught us to always keep children on the radar because that's what we're here for: taking care of them, teaching them and giving parents peace of mind.

[@c00mgoblin]

I love that she turned around to gather herself for a second so her son didn’t see how panicked she was. It’s little stuff like that, little social queues like that that make great actors and actresses.

[@babygirlzmommy]

I agree. I bet it helps that she is a mother in real life too. So it probably was just instinct for her as well

[@beckyforcier3515]

Bailey is awesome she is a believeable actress she shows a hard working mom that has lost people she truly loves but she shows how we out here would feel. Even though she has issues with Meredith I believe she cares about her

[@beckyforcier3515]

I think Dr.Webber did that he had an affair with Meredith's Mom and sat watched Meredith at a young age get thrown around Meredith never asks him for anything they still blame her because he does do things out of quilt. Bailey deep down she knows that also.

[@kaitlync6086]

She perfectly captured that feeling when you lose sight of your child for a moment and your heart sinks. She’s an amazing actress.

[@victoriarivero1530]

I love Bailey, but now everytime I see this scene all I can thing about is in Mark&Sofia and Derek&Zola, and how the girls will never be with hers daddys again!

[@miranda13c]

😭😭😭

[@ESTComicsEvolutions]

This is legit four episodes before Lexie's death and 6 before Mark's.

[@victoriahedegaard6366]

And this was when a girl that had been kidnapped and raped went to the hospital, she had been missing for like 17 years and baily always remembered the story and she was always overprotecting tuck but daaaamn chandra deserves an oscar emmy and everything

[@alex-ln7kv]

Exactly!🦋

[@TheDiego517]

I mean I wouldn’t call it overprotecting, if the specific person in charge of my child says to me “I don’t know where he is”, I would lose it

[@shevahauser1780]

Oh it's that episode? Makes so much sense, bailey was on edge all episode.

[@khuslenzayats5272]

When my older sister was 2-3 years old a stranger picked her up from preschool saying he was a relative and they just let him. Thankfully our cousin (around 8 years old at the time) noticed her on his way to school, intervened and took her home

[@samslee972]

Waw your cousin is a hero! Horrible to think of could have happened

[@brett8460]

I hope your parents reported the officials in charge to the school district because that is irresponsible as hell. My aunt once asked me to pick up my cousin from school and because I'm not his mom or dad they had to call my aunt to confirm that she sent someone down who matched my description to get her child and I had to show them my driver's license to prove I was who I said I was. I also had to get confirmation from my cousin that I am indeed his cousin and his mom told me I would be picking him up before he was released to me. The whole process took around 8 to 10 minutes.

[@blakejennerisanabuser822]

@@brett8460 my school was like that too, my nanny was always the one to pick me up when i was about 3-4 from my preschool, my parents have work till like 4 in the afternoon soo, one time my dad suprised me, and because he never picked me up (it was my first year, the guard doesn’t know him and wouldn’t release me, not until they called my dad’s phone and it rang and they called my mom to confirm as well, my das was actually happy because it meant that my school’s security is high, up until like 4th grade they don’t let anyone just take someone, they now have fetchers id, unlike when i was younger sooo

[@Queenofthatank]

Man I remember my aunts were arguing over who I was supposed to go with to the exact SAME house after my first day of first grade. When they asked me I said "I don't know I just remembered my mom said to go to my grandma's house with my tia with all my cousins. She didn't say which Tia." And because they couldn't get ahold of my mom or dad because my mom was in the microscope part of the factory and my dad was in the fields they finally said "who picked you up last year?" N my uncle had to get off work to take me to my grandma's house. The question of why my aunt took off work to pick me up from school but her kids were going to go walking home with my aunt was never answered.

[@princess_ama]

If a child care worker ever lost my child, 3 things would happen: 1. She'd lose her licence, 2. She'd be dead, 3. I'd go to jail for first degree murder

[@uhejnjd]

Except in this video the child care worker didn't lose her child, if anything the other worker took him without mentioning it to anyone else.

[@Catartist154321]

I'm studying to be a professional carer in childcare. Something like this would destroy us. From day one we are taught "don't you dare say you don't know because you're supposed to know. Don't take your eyes off of them." We have one job to do... And that woman is lucky she didn't get slapped right then and there haha

[@dreamystar2353]

I know your serious but I busted out laughing 🤣🤣🤣

[@LiveLoveLaugh102310]

@@uhejnjd Sorry to burst your bubble but it was her job to know. No excuses.

[@lemonadelemon1960]

That’s 2nd degree. 😂

[@Mnxeu]

Man, I miss Derek & Mark - but I also love how they both immediately sprung to help Miranda as soon as they realised. They were fantastic fathers. I really loved the close bond that Miranda and Derek formed throughout the seasons, he was her person even if she didn't want to admit it. Her and Mark's bantering was always funny, they were just all good friends with each other. I miss these episodes with the older cast.

[@destiny2500]

She is such an amazing actor 😭

[@enzomartinez8083]

You mean actress

[@destiny2500]

@@enzomartinez8083 no I mean actor.

[@enzomartinez8083]

@@destiny2500 exactly, actress is for women...not men...

[@user-nj8iv5yw1d]

No

[@destiny2500]

@@enzomartinez8083 Actor is still the term for some who ACTS.. actress & actor the separation of it is just sexist..

[@goldensheepdog]

That reaction is very spot on. Every parent in the world understands how that feels like. Also that caretaker took it very under controlled especially during a tense moment. Props to her. Real jobs with very real moments. Rare but still real.

[@TyjaHunter]

2nd degree unless you can prove it was accidental.

[@ImaShoeFanatic]

I've seen this before & STILL cried again. Wonderful performance!

[@christappen140]

Bahh X i know what you mean if this scene dosent bring you to tear this i honestly dont think their would be anything out their to do so i cry every time i see this

[@victouriamims]

Right still brings me to tears.

[@manucapa22]

When Miranda says "oh god he's screaming" GOD

[@nicktroisi6347]

See every parent would react the same, the feeling of losing your child is indescribable. My mum told me that I got lost in a shopping centre when I was little and she said it was the scariest moment of her life.

[@I_AM_NUM_3]

I work in a hospital too, and I take my little boy with me when I don't have a sitter. One day he actually got sick, and I couldn't find him in the nursery. Later the nurse that took him to be admitted, I found them. I was so angry and upset I wrote her up. When I got to my little Andy, I was so relieved and I joked about this action figure toy. I've never been so terrified in all of my life. My little boy's a toddler, so you would understand how terrifying that was.

[@GeethaNaido]

Sarah Cairns they should have left a note or something..they cant just take a kid out...thats so wrong...

[@atheris1641]

that sounds like a terrible experience. Glad he’s okay. They shouldn’t have done that

[@allisonthorson1682]

Doesn't matter if he's a toddler or a grown man.. You really never stop worrying :) Our children are our greatest treasures

[@mertbeloglu]

Chandra is an amazing actress. Make sure to also see her in "Accidental Friendship" when you get a chance. She deserves an Oscar

[@Jazz0726]

It's a great movie

[@fangxyblare1649]

Bailey didn’t think as if it was tuck she thought of George O’Malley thinking she couldn’t loose another child

[@jemisterrr]

This is too perfect. Just. Whoa, I can't even begin t state how AMAZING this is, and how AMAZING Chandra is. Wow.

[@sophiefrancis8295]

If you are a child care worker and you need to take one of those children (which you have a legal and ethical responsibility for) elsewhere e.g. to the toilet you NEED to tell someone else. What if there was a fire alarm? You wouldn't know where that child was. If you are looking after a child it is your job to know where that child is. I would be livid and worried out my mind if the manager of my child's nursery told me they didn't know where my child is.

[@bryandiaz7133]

She needs to win a award for every acting she does greqt

[@leximoore8364]

Love Derek and Mark here. They understood her panic. It felt a little judgy but they also understood it and went to help no questions asked. And the acting on Miranda’s part was drop dead amazing 😂😂😂

[@jaynehogue2459]

A little judgy she was a bitch to the daycare worker

[@jessjess8574]

She said I don’t know and I don’t how long he been missing. Like girl it’s your job to know. And why didn’t she let the other lady know she was taking him to nurse

[@bellagrant7287]

How worried dearly and mark are is so cute

[@shanoriya]

DONT MESS WITH A BLACK MAMAS BABY

[@madysonroberts1608]

Shanoriya Robinson dont mess with any mamas child

[@calinasantos5290]

She said what she said!

[@LovedLamb]

Or any mother who cares.

[@divahproductions]

ANY Mamas baby 😂 Maoris are worse

[@msm9885]

The other woman should have warned her collegue about going to check the kid's nosebleed...

[@raven12788]

exactly it was 100 percent her fault

[@funandlala]

Tuck is so cute ♡ This scene made me cry ♡

[@Arlothed1no]

Yeah, this is what OCD looks like, just so you know. I think this is before her diagnosis. But yeah, this is what OCD looks like. We automatically think the worst thing possible and go into panic mode. They did a good job of displaying the slow build-up in a short scene. I like how they were planning this from the beginning and that makes me happy as a person with OCD.

[@sunshine-ie7gq]

acegirlinastraightworld Well in this episode a Girl got kidnappad when she was a kid cus her mom looked away for like a second and so I think that was why she “over reacted”

[@elsapatito99]

this wasn´t an over reaction, this is how any mom would felt if her son was missing and nobody knew where is he

[@laurenbruges8784]

I don’t think this was OCD, I think it was a mother panicking

[@CeltycSparrow]

She goes into the daycare to pick up her son and the person who is supposed to be looking after the children is telling Bailey she doesn't know where Tuck is. She COULD have said "Oh, he will be back in a minute....he just got a little injury and my helper took him to the nurse to get it cleaned up", but no.....she literally told a mother "I don't know where your child is". What mother, hearing those words WOULDN'T panic and be searching for her child? And then be instantly relieved when she saw her precious baby and recognized everything was OK? If one of my nephews went missing while in someone else's care, and they told me "I don't know where they are" I would be doing the exact same thing Bailey is doing. And then as soon as she saw Tuck was safe, she took a minute to calm down so she wouldn't scare him and then held her baby and took him home.

[@jlammetje]

oh my gosh, I totally forgot Bailey was diagnosed with OCD!

[@jggreen123]

The panic , the terrifying thoughts . hate it

[@gianasimankov1847]

How Derek sprung up to help right away

[@meredithgrey9856]

Just wanted to clear this up. Bailey did not lose Tuck. He was in the care of the daycare people and he had a nosebleed so they took him to the nurse. He was never lost. Title is wrong!

[@mshshsh902]

Derek : she doesn't understand you any better the more idiotic you sound Derek * proceeds to sound idiotic*

[@da96103]

Weird, one child care worker took the kid to the nurse and the other one didn't know about it? Well, they better redo their protocol.

[@virginiaholder1999]

Not a Bailey fan nor do I have kids but I'd flip out to coming in after a long shift and not seeing your kid or kids where you left them.

[@KayyBug23]

WHY DOES HE GET CALLED TUCK????!!! His name is WILLIAM GEORGE BAILEY JONES!!!!! Not Tucker???!

[@isadoranascimento8911]

His father is Tucker so he is little Tuck 😁😁

[@sallydarakhvelidze7595]

I miss derek and mark

[@katelee670]

My child has grown and gone but I am still a mother and I would be terrified too.. especially in today's modern world if I was a mother.. losing my child for one second I'd be tearing the world apart to find them

[@erauprcwa]

Wow... didn't see this episode.

[@InsuranceChick]

The acting here is insaneeely good

[@victoriahedegaard6366]

Damn chandra you are amazing

[@manucapa22]

This was so heart breaking

[@Gonzalez_Hope]

I love Bailey so much

[@CC-si3cr]

1) Why was the door open to the daycare when Bailey got there? 2) The Asian lady in charge of the kids had waaay too much attitude when a doctor/parent told her to call in a code pink. I would've punched her in her face! 3) The lady that came back with Bailey's son should've told someone in the daycare where she was taking Tucker. It's called communication. It saves lives.

[@johnbeniedictsantos4763]

This was also the episode where they treated the kidnappped girl

[@patriciaramirez2982]

Now what went on with the communication why didnt the other worker let the other lady know esp if it was around the pick up time

[@philiptmusic]

Dr. Baylie: I will have you throat Nurse: 👁️👄👁️

[@manucapa22]

ZOLA SO TINY

[@lololol4357]

Ikr🥺🥰

[@kimjones1552]

The lady should have told the teacher she took the child to the nurse's office because he had a nose bleed. That could have saved the mom and teacher agony.

[@snirks8635]

Bailey didn't lose Tuck, she went to pick him up from daycare and he was somewhere else.

[@ShesaBombshell]

The aftercare program at my daughter's school allowed my sister to just walk in and take her. They had never seen her before, nor did they know to expect someone different. Needless to say I went off in there the next day. It could have been anyone off the street taking my kid. She was in 2nd or 3rd grade.

[@NataliaLeal97]

I will try to tell this with my low level of English: I was the one who went to school for my brother many years ago and once I didn't know that my uncle and my aunt were in the town (they lived far away and sometimes came to visit), they knew my brother's schedule so they went to pick him up, as a surprise to take him to lunch and eat ice cream, they didn't tell nothing to my mother or me, so when I went to school and I told the teacher (who was in charge of delivering the children to the parents) to give me my brother, she told me that a man had already taken him away. I panicked because that teacher didn't remember well the face of the man who had gone to look for him, I called my mom crying telling her that my brother had been kidnapped, my mom started to panic and then my uncle called her, telling her everything. Obviously she insulted him and scolded him, plus we filed a complaint with the school.

[@elloguvna6820]

Taking a child away without telling anyone… hmm fired

[@laurenj347]

I’d be PISSED at BOTH women for their lack of communication between each other. That lady should’ve informed the main attendant about the situation before leaving with the boy to take care of him. THAT WAY, the mom would know what’s going on.

[@elizabethgallaher4705]

This was NUTS. NURSE SHOULD HAVE TOLD SOMEONE THERE .

[@a_wild_desmond_appeared]

Awww bailey aaawwwwww bailey

[@winxie97]

Bailey sounds like she was about to cry

[@ethanb2981]

And this is also why daycare workers communicate with eachother as well all big chick had to do was tell asain chick hey tuck has a nose bleed I'm gonna take him to nurse instead just walks off with him around the time he's mother comes to get him 😂

[@breannasosa-lopez2009]

I would insist they at the very least has training on taking children out of the room and communication between teachers!! Although I would want her fired for not knowing where my kid was!!!

[@charluna6121]

I would of turn into madea if someone told me they lost my child

[@raymondreddington6317]

Emotional

[@leahsundvall5894]

The one care giver didn’t tell the other she was leaving? There is 2 workers with that many kids? Why isn’t there a security door? Better yet, let’s just leave the door open. Worst daycare ever.

[@c.barrett5114]

She handled it better then i and would have. I don't think she overreacting at all, i think they did the right thing, rather than save then sorry. If you don't know where he is then its a code pink as far as im concerned

[@jessicaizepsontay8990]

What episode is this

[@annieberardino8732]

Why didn’t anyone inform the daycare worker where he was being taken and what for?! That right there needs to be logged some how…

[@ScreamingAtTheTopOfMyLungs]

The doctor who took him should have told the caretaker beforehand..

[@ItsCeiCeixTaffy]

What season and episode

[@SaucyZo]

Wow

[@casiunangelnetta]

Shanorya, that was SO rasist. Do you think that a wight mother wouldn't do the same as baily? Do you think she is yelling at the poor baby siyyer bcuz she is black and black people are more aggressive?! Damn this is resist in so many levels. About the video- I love how Baily tries to calm herself down so Tuck won't see her crying. :')

[@animaladdict4246]

Netta Tal woah chill she didn’t mean it in a racist way I’m almost positive. But if it is her in her profile picture she can only speak for herself as a black woman

[@WhyNot-zr5kl]

Learn how to spell if you are going to "go there".

[@TheDiego517]

I think any parent no matter race or gender would react the same way if the answer to where is my kid? Is I don’t know..... for example Derek or Mark would’ve done the same thing or yelled the same way if the missing kid would’ve been Sofia or Zola. Or Meredith if she had been there. It was only Bailey because during the episode she was in a surgery (where one patient was recently freed from her kidnapper after 15 years or so because she was taken away from her family in a supermarket), she was pretty shaken by that during the episode.

[@radRadiolarian]

"resist" skdhdkdbdk

[@arbitraryname7273]

LOL Wight XD