Old Gays React To Coming Out Videos

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@bernardothehorse2420
@bernardothehorse2420 4 жыл бұрын
"I have deformed ears." "I can see that." I love these old gays.
@captainteeko4579
@captainteeko4579 4 жыл бұрын
It was such a READ XD
@platinumrubies85
@platinumrubies85 4 жыл бұрын
Being shady while not being shady. Lol
@Ahonya666
@Ahonya666 4 жыл бұрын
He was so cute
@richiejohnson
@richiejohnson 4 жыл бұрын
years of his ears being used as handles! : )
@bernardothehorse2420
@bernardothehorse2420 4 жыл бұрын
@@richiejohnson LMFAO I-
@anildo1372
@anildo1372 4 жыл бұрын
"I am transgender" "oh and pretty too" loved that
@Orxy
@Orxy 4 жыл бұрын
Amen🌊🖤😌
@pokaay3163
@pokaay3163 4 жыл бұрын
Honestly gorgeous, both her looks and her words!
@SomberTwilight_
@SomberTwilight_ 3 жыл бұрын
@Cat Aye regardless of being problematic she's her true and authentic self and that's something that needs to be normalized. There are so many people that disrespect trans people's pronouns just because they simply don't like them. It's so disgusting.
@ShinAlba
@ShinAlba 11 ай бұрын
A man
@ali-gw9fb
@ali-gw9fb 4 жыл бұрын
"he's making fun of you, bob" WHY WAS THAT SO WHOLESOME
@savybyrin459
@savybyrin459 4 жыл бұрын
IKR
@casiel.
@casiel. 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr?
@qilir814
@qilir814 4 жыл бұрын
i loved how 2 seconds later their names were shown and "bob" is called Robert LOL
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
IT REALLY WAS
@grenouillemomento341
@grenouillemomento341 3 жыл бұрын
I kNoW 😞
@shiteyanyo1111
@shiteyanyo1111 4 жыл бұрын
"As a minority, it's harder for us." "Why?" "I'd like to know why." This was powerful
@smooches77
@smooches77 4 жыл бұрын
And it's so true
@mhussain19711
@mhussain19711 4 жыл бұрын
I need love for lifetime relationships I m gay
@Josh-bu1kr
@Josh-bu1kr 4 жыл бұрын
Made me cry
@cillianrussell4506
@cillianrussell4506 4 жыл бұрын
Also "if you have a problem with it its your problem not mine" 🥰
@sashaandrov231
@sashaandrov231 4 жыл бұрын
@@cillianrussell4506 this is the most important message. Not everyone has to like gay people. It's okay that some people suck. Being proud of yourself and who you are is our cross to carry as gays
@EagleRockers
@EagleRockers 4 жыл бұрын
I remember coming out to my mom in the early '70s. She said, "Well, I never wanted grandchildren anyway." I cried with happiness and laughed my head off all at the same time.
@EagleRockers
@EagleRockers 4 жыл бұрын
@Maggie Mae Sounds like we both had great moms. I miss mine also. It's been 24 years now.
@aldennakano3291
@aldennakano3291 4 жыл бұрын
Love ur mom
@papamache7224
@papamache7224 4 жыл бұрын
Mine said something similar "At first I was sad I wouldn't get grandchildren, but I should have known better, you wouldn't want kids even if you were straight or bisexual, it's just not you, but this is"
@sophiekruse6504
@sophiekruse6504 4 жыл бұрын
CUTE!
@adrianaandrade8809
@adrianaandrade8809 4 жыл бұрын
That was so sweet of her 💙
@kissfan7
@kissfan7 4 жыл бұрын
I normally do NOT associate this kind of wholesomeness with Grindr.
@squirrelbuddi
@squirrelbuddi 4 жыл бұрын
Ikr XD I was like, "0.o..." But I will say that if this is the direction they're going than I'm all for it. Time will tell.
@_labacanitaz
@_labacanitaz 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I can now because I LOVE these guys
@doc-savage
@doc-savage 4 жыл бұрын
Idk man...I think Grindr is nothing but holesome 😉🤣
@the_cruz_shooter
@the_cruz_shooter 4 жыл бұрын
@@doc-savage gtfo! 😂😂😂😂😂
@PersonTP
@PersonTP 3 жыл бұрын
@@doc-savage Omg... NO! Stop it😂😂
@robertjackson3552
@robertjackson3552 4 жыл бұрын
“Every time someone steps up and says who they are, the world becomes a better, more interesting place.” Captain Holt, Brooklyn Nine Nine.
@Eggiesz
@Eggiesz 4 жыл бұрын
i just love this quote so much
@rainbowbeebuzz8444
@rainbowbeebuzz8444 4 жыл бұрын
I love B99 so much
@bellastitch1238
@bellastitch1238 4 жыл бұрын
Nine Nine
@SleepyCrumpet
@SleepyCrumpet 4 жыл бұрын
I love that quote. And Brooklyn 99 is so great 😁
@cosmololol7584
@cosmololol7584 4 жыл бұрын
NINE NINE!
@nathanmalik1697
@nathanmalik1697 4 жыл бұрын
"He's known by a younger generation" "And we're old gays" 😄
@laila-janetalbot-griffiths5916
@laila-janetalbot-griffiths5916 4 жыл бұрын
me : just had a vibe of him being gay in teen wolf
@sophiekruse6504
@sophiekruse6504 4 жыл бұрын
I love them. Especially Robert
@InimitableAde
@InimitableAde 4 жыл бұрын
That moment cracked me up. He was like, just so we're clear.
@MaddysinLeigh
@MaddysinLeigh 4 жыл бұрын
My uncle was an out and proud gay man in the 60s and died of probably aids in the 70s. He was disowned by our family. If he was still alive today he’d have a gay nephew and two bisexual nieces that are loved and accepted by the family. I wish he would have had the life me and my two cousins have being gay/bi in today’s world. RIP Uncle Jack!
@ayo1285
@ayo1285 4 жыл бұрын
RIP
@samisbiggaytm8763
@samisbiggaytm8763 4 жыл бұрын
RIP 🥺💔
@plate2759
@plate2759 4 жыл бұрын
RIP
@Luke_05
@Luke_05 4 жыл бұрын
RIP ❤️
@mori9018
@mori9018 3 жыл бұрын
RIP Uncle Jack
@frankreynolds9965
@frankreynolds9965 4 жыл бұрын
My teenage daughter came out to my wife and I a couple weeks ago. The day after, we surprised her with a pride flag for her room to let her know that we support her and I can honestly say I have never seen my daughter so happy. Before she came out to us she seemed super depressed. This went on for a very, very long time. We'd ask her what's up, but she just wouldn't tell us what was bothering her. The burden of holding this secret had sunk her into a deep depression. When she told us and we told her we support and love her...it was like the depression had just been destroyed. She's made a complete 180. Super social, super optimistic, super happy. It's the best thing ever.
@datt7398
@datt7398 4 жыл бұрын
🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@enderwiggins8248
@enderwiggins8248 4 жыл бұрын
🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈
@nicholashilton2514
@nicholashilton2514 4 жыл бұрын
“It was like the depression had been destroyed” that got me. God bless you. The world needs more parents like you.
@frankreynolds9965
@frankreynolds9965 4 жыл бұрын
@@nicholashilton2514 Thank you. My wife and I would move mountains for her. I wish every parent could just stop and just listen to their kids and be there for them, understand them, accept them, and love them unconditionally. Mr. Rogers once said "When we love a person, we accept him or her exactly as is: the lovely with the unlovely, the strong along with the fearful, the true mixed in with the façade, and of course, the only way we can do it is by accepting ourselves that way."
@napofastar553
@napofastar553 4 жыл бұрын
@@frankreynolds9965 you sound like truly amazing parents
@yayabex
@yayabex 4 жыл бұрын
Basketball player: *comes out as gay That one old gay: hE’s HoT My heart: 🥺😖🥰
@frost_fire5381
@frost_fire5381 4 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@frost_fire5381
@frost_fire5381 4 жыл бұрын
It was so cute 😖🤧😭🥺
@HawkTear
@HawkTear 4 жыл бұрын
Same here, so cute 🥰
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
it was so cute!!
@stayonezy5570
@stayonezy5570 3 жыл бұрын
That’s bill I think
@benshapiros13threason88
@benshapiros13threason88 4 жыл бұрын
"Oh i know him" "i'd like to..." "he's hot" the three musketeers of in the closet, out and very proud lmao
@benshapiros13threason88
@benshapiros13threason88 4 жыл бұрын
thank you!
@StonedTotheBones0000
@StonedTotheBones0000 2 жыл бұрын
lol your name though 😂
@dawniac4089
@dawniac4089 4 жыл бұрын
As I like to say, LGBTQ+ doesn’t try to make others homosexual/transgender/etc, but homophobes will often try and make others homophobic
@radioactivepi734
@radioactivepi734 4 жыл бұрын
Damn right
@imnotsurewhatimdoinghere7676
@imnotsurewhatimdoinghere7676 4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@redacted5078
@redacted5078 4 жыл бұрын
Thats because you cant choose your identity but you can choose to be an asshole 😌
@redacted5078
@redacted5078 4 жыл бұрын
@@LYNN-id9rb whats wrong with the Q+?
@imnotsurewhatimdoinghere7676
@imnotsurewhatimdoinghere7676 4 жыл бұрын
@@LYNN-id9rb *LGBTQIA+
@theRadiantHill
@theRadiantHill 4 жыл бұрын
when i came out as bisexual to my mother she just told me 'you don't like women, you just like sex'... I was a 15 year old virgin and to get labeled like that by my mother shut me back in the closet. now, all my friends know and love and support me. they've seen my date men and women, and their support has kept me going.
@fianashapiro7919
@fianashapiro7919 4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you got that reaction
@melanygiron5060
@melanygiron5060 4 жыл бұрын
I had an extremely similar situation but with my step dad it hurts to know that they think that I'm 14 and a virgin as well. I understand what you felt.
@neilagangitlog
@neilagangitlog 4 жыл бұрын
Gosh I'm sorry that happened to u
@ry535
@ry535 4 жыл бұрын
My mother told me the exact same thing but I was 12.
@paulac.munoztorres
@paulac.munoztorres 4 жыл бұрын
I am so sorry. I have a best friend in the same situation and is horrible not being accepted because you’re not understood or are had prejudices against you. I am glad you are doing better now. You don’t need bad influences in your life, doesn’t matter where come from, although I’m sorry they’re from your mother.
@thesoftlife1033
@thesoftlife1033 4 жыл бұрын
I am committed to this mindset: "closets are for clothes not people!!" Be yourself.
@junbei4290
@junbei4290 4 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssssssssssssss!!!!
@arianacarrucini3923
@arianacarrucini3923 4 жыл бұрын
Wellll said! Love this
@thehappyhippo-_-
@thehappyhippo-_- 4 жыл бұрын
Yes! (unless it's not safe, please stay safe❤️)
@alex.r.891
@alex.r.891 4 жыл бұрын
Bold of you to assume I’m not just a pile of clothing
@thesoftlife1033
@thesoftlife1033 4 жыл бұрын
@@alex.r.891 🤔🤔🤔 if so, I hope you are FABULOUS and high end designer 💋
@papasmamas1
@papasmamas1 4 жыл бұрын
Im straight, daamn, just feel the weight that gay people should carry feels so stresful, hope no gay man have to continue dealing with that.
@flaviusmersan4110
@flaviusmersan4110 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the kind words 🥰
@MrSocks-vd4gu
@MrSocks-vd4gu 4 жыл бұрын
yess we stan an ally
@scrunky8683
@scrunky8683 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support!!!
@mondohdz531
@mondohdz531 4 жыл бұрын
❤️
@cassey9629
@cassey9629 4 жыл бұрын
Not only gay man but all the lgbtq community
@evangelianickolas6850
@evangelianickolas6850 4 жыл бұрын
“The more we keep coming out, the more we can’t be denied.”
@lavanyaverma1194
@lavanyaverma1194 4 жыл бұрын
YASSSSSSSSSSSSS 🌈
@sapphicsandals
@sapphicsandals 3 жыл бұрын
I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THAT QUOTE!!
@jak7826
@jak7826 3 жыл бұрын
@@ariana-wu9td me too but i have a family who would accept me and my mum already thinks im gay.
@johncollinge619
@johncollinge619 3 жыл бұрын
@@ariana-wu9td Apprehension makes total sense, and you're not alone in that. If you are happy and comfortable in your family as things are, coming out may feel like a test of both you and them. They may surprise you, or disappoint you. It may leave a lasting impression that affects all of your future relationship. That's a lot, and I think it's great you're thinking it through and preparing yourself. Coming out does free up a huge amount of emotional energy, and you really get to define who you are. Hopefully you will get to take your family on the journey, but you'll have yourself regardless!
@johncollinge619
@johncollinge619 3 жыл бұрын
@@ariana-wu9td How did it go?
@Noconnection_Dino
@Noconnection_Dino 4 жыл бұрын
“He’s known by a younger generation “ “We’re old gays..” 🤣🤣🤣
@wintersarmstrong
@wintersarmstrong 4 жыл бұрын
I hollered when he said that
@arianastande4046
@arianastande4046 4 жыл бұрын
ahhh I missed the old gays, glad they're back!
@grindr
@grindr 4 жыл бұрын
Same 🙂
@Danish7689i
@Danish7689i 4 жыл бұрын
hi ariana sunde
@arianastande4046
@arianastande4046 4 жыл бұрын
@@Danish7689i hi
@brentduanefoster
@brentduanefoster 4 жыл бұрын
Aren’t they amazing????
@blair7721
@blair7721 4 жыл бұрын
Arianatorrr ❤❤❤
@kikigogh
@kikigogh 4 жыл бұрын
Being born in an Asian household with a dad who's a soldier, I was beyond blessed and grateful they never made me feel like I was an outcast for being gay. I never have that moment when I say to them like, "Dad, I was gay" but instead they were the one who confronted me spontaneously when I was in 5th grade when they noticed that I always choose to distance myself to them. I thought my dad will gonna hurt me. He somehow knew that I was bullied in school because people made fun of me being gay and knowing that he's a soldier stresses me so much, making me feel suicidal. But He told me that no matter what will happen I'll always be their child as my mom sits beside him with a smile on her face. I was surprised and overwhelmed with the atmosphere they have created and I was there crying and couldn't say a single word. I saw how my dad looked at me like I was the most precious thing in the world and hugged me afterwards. If ever I'll be born again, I'll always choose them as my family despite all the circumstances. I never had that coming-out story but I'm proud of all of them and I wish them all the best things in life. Also to all those people who's still not ready to come out, take your time and I believe that you can do it. Always remember we all deserve to be accepted and loved unconditionally.
@overlov8460
@overlov8460 4 жыл бұрын
thats so lovely
@cuongpham6218
@cuongpham6218 4 жыл бұрын
Awww, as an Asian born to a father whose extended family is fairly conservative, I can relate so much to you. I thought as conservative as his family is (and he also holds some traditional values as well), he would never have been acceptable for who I am. But boy was I so wrong, he took the news much better than my mom, and needless to say I was shocked, happily shocked it is. I'm forever thankful that my parents have accepted me and let me be myself, even sponsored me to study abroad and have a better life in another country they think safe for LGBT people. And bless your family too, much love from Germany.
@peraverta2115
@peraverta2115 4 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty happy for you and your awesome family ꒰⑅ᵕ༚ᵕ꒱˖♡
@gardeningkittycat6025
@gardeningkittycat6025 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you, your dad and whole family are amazing 💕
@pocaland
@pocaland 4 жыл бұрын
Omg I just cried reading your comment... That is so precious
@kalenleib5100
@kalenleib5100 4 жыл бұрын
If these old gentlemen who can barely figure out how to use headphones can so easily use a trans person's correct pronouns, then nobody else has any excuse.
@franziz8226
@franziz8226 4 жыл бұрын
I´d really like to give this comment a hundred likes
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@himikoyonaga3065
@himikoyonaga3065 3 жыл бұрын
Spitting straight FAX
@anetak.9494
@anetak.9494 3 жыл бұрын
I do think it can be easier for people to use the correct pronouns if they have someone in front of them that visibly identifies with one gender (this girl worn a lot of make up and had generally a female appearance) while people get more confused when someone identifies as she/her and has a rather male appearance (e. G. Beard etc).
@kalenleib5100
@kalenleib5100 3 жыл бұрын
@Butt Head I don't know any Mongolian people and I don't go out of my way to be friends with them. That said it's not a lot to ask of me to not call them Tibetans
@florenceryu8648
@florenceryu8648 4 жыл бұрын
Few months ago I came out as bi to my strictly Christian korean mom after 22years. She was devastated at first saying it's a sin. It was heartbreaking to see what had happen after I cracked the news but I wanted to remove that bandaid so I could feel free. I didn't. But about a month ago while I was at work she sent me a lengthy text saying 'I love you no matter what and hope that you'll find someone that will love you for who you are.' I broke down cried at work that day 💖💜💙
@TiaTruly
@TiaTruly 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. It made me cry too. I'm so glad your mom has been able to adapt and be accepting. Wishing you the best future! 🌈
@philippineshotpot1923
@philippineshotpot1923 4 жыл бұрын
I feel you 100% babe. Asian culture sometimes is furious. Iam glad that your mother accepted you already. Saranghe oppa ❤️👈
@michaeljohnpeterson1056
@michaeljohnpeterson1056 4 жыл бұрын
Oh Darling! You have done not just the right thing, but the good thing for Mom.
@mossthebryophyter
@mossthebryophyter 4 жыл бұрын
This is nice. I'm happy she accepted you
@aldennakano3291
@aldennakano3291 4 жыл бұрын
😍love to your mom
@CashelOConnolly
@CashelOConnolly 4 жыл бұрын
There’s plenty of racists in the LGBTQI community too. It infuriates me!!!!
@brentduanefoster
@brentduanefoster 4 жыл бұрын
It is true. We are not completely innocent in our ways, but we’re growing just like anyone else.
@maga6252
@maga6252 4 жыл бұрын
Remember when they said that Pete Buttigieg wasn't 'gay enough'?! Well, I guess you can't be 'too gay', too!! SMH
@FlowWolf7
@FlowWolf7 4 жыл бұрын
Transphobic as well. I'm bisexual and MTF and have felt excluded once others find out I'm either trans or bi. I feel for the Asexual and nonbinary community since I know first hand how L and G can put you under a bus just to make straights see them positively
@SepticShockAKAVin
@SepticShockAKAVin 4 жыл бұрын
The transphobia in the gay community is also infuriating.
@SepticShockAKAVin
@SepticShockAKAVin 4 жыл бұрын
@@FlowWolf7 Awww, thanks! I'm nonbinary and demisexual and that made my heart so happy to hear.
@givemeiyzkofi
@givemeiyzkofi 4 жыл бұрын
society tells you to be you, but persecutes you if you’re different.
@lavanyaverma1194
@lavanyaverma1194 4 жыл бұрын
True. Double standards of society smh 😒
@Melodysupporter
@Melodysupporter 4 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@zitussssify
@zitussssify 3 жыл бұрын
We celebrate diversity, just not diversity of thought
@esther_6
@esther_6 3 жыл бұрын
Sooooo TRUE
@sadlobster1
@sadlobster1 3 жыл бұрын
I don't quite understand why society hates anything that's different
@LaurenElizabethYT
@LaurenElizabethYT 4 жыл бұрын
If any of my kids are ever gay, I wanna find out the same way I’d find out if my kid was straight. Telling me about who their crush in school is, or who they bring home/date when they’re older. I’d hope they won’t feel like it’s something they should hide or be afraid to tell me.
@roosa9132
@roosa9132 4 жыл бұрын
it was like that with my best friend a few years ago! so its already happening!
@lavanyaverma1194
@lavanyaverma1194 4 жыл бұрын
There need to be more people like you mate✊😢
@daantjed9949
@daantjed9949 4 жыл бұрын
My mom is like this. She always says to me, I will just see who you show up with at our door I don't care if it's a woman or a man. I love her 💅
@zorathemagic7310
@zorathemagic7310 4 жыл бұрын
I think the exact same way
@claracerqueira5
@claracerqueira5 4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@damagedheather
@damagedheather 4 жыл бұрын
I love my gay grandpas 😭
@erikasakai2692
@erikasakai2692 4 жыл бұрын
As a Japanese bisexual and who has a lot of lgbtq+ friends, it’s always unreal to see how many people outside of my country are supportive of our community. If I had the permission, I would love to translate this into Japanese and share this with more people.
@joaocritico
@joaocritico 2 жыл бұрын
How do the Japanese people deal with homossexuality?
@demonyu5325
@demonyu5325 2 жыл бұрын
Im so happy you have a lot of lgbtq+ friends despite where you live i hope your country will be more open and accepting with people like us. 🌈
@nicolet8186
@nicolet8186 4 жыл бұрын
I also came out to my mom “in her coffin” so to speak. She died when I was 24 and we’d had one moment 4-5 years earlier where we were talking about LGBT things and she said something along the lines of “I think that if you were something you would have told me by now” and it froze me. I don’t remember my exact reaction but I brushed it off and it never came up again. So, a day or two after she died, I wrote her a letter and mentioned in it that I wasn’t straight and it wasn’t that I didn’t feel comfortable telling her exactly, just that I’d never really found the right words. And then the letter went in an envelope and the funeral director had it cremated with her.
@kalliope5088
@kalliope5088 4 жыл бұрын
Holy crap. Man bless you and your mother, keep going strong and head held high. I think your mom is proud of you to come out even when she died, and she is still proud of you now.
@nicolet8186
@nicolet8186 4 жыл бұрын
LP.Skates a cop out??? Find some emotional intelligence.
@lp.shakur
@lp.shakur 4 жыл бұрын
@@nicolet8186 that came out wrong, sorry, I will delete my comment. not trying to hurt you
@gmc5618
@gmc5618 4 жыл бұрын
So proud of you x
@zorathemagic7310
@zorathemagic7310 4 жыл бұрын
Frick im tearing up
@Dallas88888
@Dallas88888 4 жыл бұрын
Their strength is overwhelming! Their leadership has helped the world in so many ways. YAY, OLD GAYS!
@Lorenzo01x
@Lorenzo01x 4 жыл бұрын
Hello to u
@demosteneswiggin5122
@demosteneswiggin5122 4 жыл бұрын
When I was 22 I get mad at my dad for always saying things like "if one of my sons is gay I will kick him out of the house" (we are 12, 7 girls and 5 boys)... One day I was so tired of this that I came out as Bi and tell him if he doesn't love me anymore then is his problem, because I'm the same girl he knows, being Bi or gay or whatever doesn't change who you are. He was silent, he spent hours without talking to me. Then, he came to my room and hug me. I wasn't expecting that. Honestly, I was thinking of leaving the house the same night but fortunately he understood what I was trying to say. Now he has a more open mind. I'm glad I came out to him because my biggest fear at that time was if one of my siblings turns to be gay, bi, pan or whatever, what kind of relationship they'll gonna have with him?
@ratatosk8935
@ratatosk8935 3 жыл бұрын
I'm just a straight guy, but I'm crying right now, reading your comment. Glad your dad opened up! Wish you all the best!
@Julanar_4
@Julanar_4 4 жыл бұрын
I'm going to come out today to my brother..wish me luck friends UPDATE: he said,okay (with a smile) I know, and he hugged me.....( thank u guys for supporting me and I love u all)
@PaquitoNYC
@PaquitoNYC 4 жыл бұрын
Damn! Good for you.
@laurendeis8628
@laurendeis8628 4 жыл бұрын
Keep us posted!!
@yoyoyoyo-qs5xz
@yoyoyoyo-qs5xz 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck sis , we love u and we support you : ) 👍🏼🌺
@nevaehsangel9620
@nevaehsangel9620 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️ May you have love and acceptance.
@NovelTuber
@NovelTuber 4 жыл бұрын
Good Luck and remember that whatever happens you are loved and valued. Never be ashamed of who you are❤️
@rozieredz
@rozieredz 4 жыл бұрын
I've been out as asexual to my parents for years. They're supportive but kind of distant with it, I guess they can't really understand it. Only a few weeks ago I was watching asexual tiktoks, my mom came up and started watching with me, we laughed at a lot of them together, and at the end of it she asked if I wanted her to buy an asexual flag and put it in the window to support me. That was the moment for me
@Vanessa-lw3ol
@Vanessa-lw3ol 4 жыл бұрын
Awww, that’s wholesome :), my mom kinda confuses me because she’s fine with lgbt community but refuses to let me be apart of it :/
@rozieredz
@rozieredz 4 жыл бұрын
@@Vanessa-lw3ol Ohhh, that sucks :( I'm so sorry to hear that.
@Vanessa-lw3ol
@Vanessa-lw3ol 4 жыл бұрын
@@rozieredz it’s ok :) I don’t let her opinions define who I am, as much as she may push them on me
@peachtea7269
@peachtea7269 4 жыл бұрын
@@Vanessa-lw3ol ... That's the same thing with mine
@MT-ry8gv
@MT-ry8gv 4 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh I almost cried in joy for you! 🥺🤗
@trenvert123
@trenvert123 3 жыл бұрын
When Jessay said he didn't come out to his dad for fear of being murdered, I felt that. As a black bi man who is afraid of my family ever finding out, for fear that the people who birthed and raised me would shoot me and bury me in their backyard, I felt that.
@scorpioninpink
@scorpioninpink Жыл бұрын
I'm 31 and I still never came out to any of my family members. The same fear of being killed by my Father as well.
@haleybisme
@haleybisme 4 жыл бұрын
"I've gotten to the age that now I'm an old gay. It's like, you got a problem? Heh, deal with it baby. I don't have time." - 4:52
@izzylynn8632
@izzylynn8632 4 жыл бұрын
When all of them addressed Nikita as “her” and “she”.
@gilnahnu
@gilnahnu 4 жыл бұрын
@Minty shut up and let people live
@jojobrown1173
@jojobrown1173 4 жыл бұрын
@Minty tf is your problem
@kalkdog8809
@kalkdog8809 4 жыл бұрын
When they did that i felt so strangely safe even though im not trans
@avourrito1819
@avourrito1819 4 жыл бұрын
@Minty When someone just subtly put out that they are softly disagreeing and being disrespectful towards other that have never directly offend them.
@l-3832
@l-3832 4 жыл бұрын
@Riya Gunda what did this ‘Minty’ person say?
@billieeilish4735
@billieeilish4735 4 жыл бұрын
i'm a trans guy and my mom doesn't support me :( to anyone's parents who don't accept them, i'm so sorry. i accept you 100%.
@melissam7146
@melissam7146 4 жыл бұрын
I’m not your mom, but I’m a mom. I accept you 100%!
@lavanyaverma1194
@lavanyaverma1194 4 жыл бұрын
@@melissam7146 wish there were more people like you. I'm a teen who was recently forced outta the closet by my parents and beat up and shamed for it. My mom said "I don't think we'll ever be able to accept you" to my face. I'm studying and working hard to move to another place when I turn 18, unless they accept me. My love to parents like you
@melissam7146
@melissam7146 4 жыл бұрын
@@lavanyaverma1194 I’m so sorry to hear that. Stay strong. I’m proud of you.
@victoriadiesattheend.8478
@victoriadiesattheend.8478 4 жыл бұрын
Alex, I am a mom! And I accept you honey. Don't let your mother dim your light.
@billieeilish4735
@billieeilish4735 4 жыл бұрын
@@victoriadiesattheend.8478 Awwww thank you! This made me smile.
@Emily-pp3yd
@Emily-pp3yd 4 жыл бұрын
It really hit me when Mick said that there’s no going back into the closet once you come out. I’ve lived almost everyday since coming out wishing I hadn’t, but maybe Mick is right. Soon, I hope to be happier with myself and thankful for coming out.
@missmeliss4352
@missmeliss4352 4 жыл бұрын
Awe babe sorry it wasn't a better experience ❤️ there's a whole world out there of people who will love and support you x
@stellamayer1836
@stellamayer1836 4 жыл бұрын
I hope your situation gets better! Stay strong and don't be afraid to ask for help ❤️
@MonstersGoRawr47
@MonstersGoRawr47 4 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU and support you !! Live your truth babe, life is way too short to be anything other than your wonderful self !! Take care of yourself beautiful ♥️♥️
@gen9528
@gen9528 4 жыл бұрын
I sometimes fall in the same mentality bc it traumatized me based on my brother’s reaction, but I have come to realize that as long as I am happy that I have accepted MYSELF is truly what sets you free. Of course we all have different experiences, but I’ll keep you in mind, and I truly hope you know there’s someone out here that supports you and wishes you happiness and peace. Take care ❤️
@oakpkdude
@oakpkdude 4 жыл бұрын
You will. It get's better. Trust me.
@JaTaunPratt
@JaTaunPratt 4 жыл бұрын
Let's just note that he said the industry has changed within the DECADE. These words could not be more true. We are finally beginning to have fully realized, and fleshed out characters with lives and thoughts that don't just serve as a trope for a punchline.
@mgeek1
@mgeek1 4 жыл бұрын
This generation of LGBT is the luckiest. This is a great time to be young and gay. I'm Gen-X and when I was a young adult in the late 80's and early 90's, the world wasn't as welcoming as it is now.
@marbleb33s
@marbleb33s 4 жыл бұрын
@@mgeek1 I hope you are doing fine!
@thefbiagentbehindurscreen5390
@thefbiagentbehindurscreen5390 4 жыл бұрын
@@mgeek1 it is but it being a young gay, many people my age aren't actually accepting. At my school, my bi friend has been continuously bullied for years and so no one else is really out (including me) despite there being quite a few of us. I hope the outside world after school is more accepting though :) (I still agree with you, although people aren't fully accepting, it's a heck of a lot more of an improvement than 10 years ago.)
@bacalay
@bacalay 4 жыл бұрын
I came out to my husband as bisexual a couple months ago(he's the only one who knows about this) and he just said , " Cool , I love you still no matter what, I married you for you "
@oliviahern5775
@oliviahern5775 4 жыл бұрын
That is so sweet
@la_dweng6407
@la_dweng6407 3 жыл бұрын
Can I just ask does that mean cheating is accepted In a way or you are in a sort of polygamous relationship
@oliviahern5775
@oliviahern5775 3 жыл бұрын
@@la_dweng6407 no, they are bisexual so they like more than one gender so they can still like their husband
@battinsons
@battinsons 3 жыл бұрын
@@la_dweng6407 what? do you know what bisexuality means? just because we like more than one gender doesn't mean that we are going to cheat on our partners.
@nat4801713728
@nat4801713728 3 жыл бұрын
But you’re married so doesnt your attraction to women not really affect anything? Like you couldnt be with a woman unless you separate
@DaddyOfTheSugarVariety
@DaddyOfTheSugarVariety 4 жыл бұрын
I came out late in life. My mother was scared to accept it, because her first thoughts were AIDS, drugs & violence. I couldn't blame her, it took years to accept myself. My mother came around after my first break up. We had a good talk. My dad accepted me right away, saying he loves me & is proud of me no matter what.
@futuremaggotfood6875
@futuremaggotfood6875 4 жыл бұрын
Oh that’s wonderful to hear. So glad that your mother came around and that you can be you around some of the people you love.
@DaddyOfTheSugarVariety
@DaddyOfTheSugarVariety 4 жыл бұрын
@@futuremaggotfood6875 I definitely got lucky.
@smooches77
@smooches77 4 жыл бұрын
I was a late bloomer too. My parents used to say really homophobic things when I was growing up. When I finally did tell them, they were as accepting as they could be, it took some adjusting, some talks and perspective, and they're fine now
@DaddyOfTheSugarVariety
@DaddyOfTheSugarVariety 4 жыл бұрын
@@smooches77 My parents never said anything homophobic, the subject never came up. That is until my sister's friend came out as a lesbian and my parents were so happy for her. I guess it's different when it's your own kid. The homophobia came from kids at school, so every night I would come home and try to pray the gay away. My dad told me he believed god is good, and don't take The Bible literally. No one goes to hell. It was harder for him when I also came out as an atheist.
@efrencolomo8187
@efrencolomo8187 4 жыл бұрын
My parents acted similarly
@JassenValentinovNede
@JassenValentinovNede 4 жыл бұрын
"You got a problem? Deal with it, baby." *I LOVED THIS OMG*
@welcmasher2471
@welcmasher2471 4 жыл бұрын
я тоже. ты русский ?
@JassenValentinovNede
@JassenValentinovNede 4 жыл бұрын
@@welcmasher2471 no
@welcmasher2471
@welcmasher2471 4 жыл бұрын
@@JassenValentinovNede болгарский ?
@JassenValentinovNede
@JassenValentinovNede 4 жыл бұрын
@@welcmasher2471 yep
@eroshiyda
@eroshiyda 3 жыл бұрын
Eugene Lee-Yang's video, years later, still brings me to tears every single time.
@Sky-TheYouTubeAccount
@Sky-TheYouTubeAccount 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@JD-rh9xz
@JD-rh9xz 4 жыл бұрын
I wish for a time when telling your parents you're gay, bi, trans or non-binary, is just as normal as telling your parents that you love them. I wish people weren't always assumed to be straight, and LGBTQ+ folks weren't seen as the outsiders, rather seen as the people among us and who are just the same amount of 'normal' as any other person.
@emilydickinson5033
@emilydickinson5033 4 жыл бұрын
I love the way you said that... the same amount of normal as any other person because who is actually "normal"?! Lol thank you for your support it means more than you know :)
@JD-rh9xz
@JD-rh9xz 4 жыл бұрын
@@emilydickinson5033 thank you, I’m glad you agree :)
@AlannahGardener
@AlannahGardener 4 жыл бұрын
This is how I hope to raise my two kids. they are currently 5 and 3. I try my best to use inclusive language, and the kids can play with any toys, I don't gatekeep toys/hobbies based on gender like other parents. My daughter recently started playing football and I've faced backlash from my peers (we're all in our late 20s) I hope that when my children are older and if they are gay/bi etc. they can just come home with their partner and introduce them to me. Every decision I make now is an attempt to make it easier for them when older.
@JD-rh9xz
@JD-rh9xz 4 жыл бұрын
@@AlannahGardener that’s great!
@rebeccakoch1890
@rebeccakoch1890 4 жыл бұрын
@@AlannahGardener thank you for not gendering your kids toys. I didn't get a lot of "boy's" toys and I feel like I missed out
@aldennakano3291
@aldennakano3291 4 жыл бұрын
The weirdest thing about my coming out was that my dad who is Asian was the only one in my family that didn't treat me differently....eventually my other family came around since I have been with my boyfriend for 34 years....we both are now taking care of him he is in his eighties and I swear my boyfriend gets along with him better....😆 I am grateful for my life and my dad
@oakpkdude
@oakpkdude 4 жыл бұрын
That's great. I remember when I got the call from my mom one night that my dad had died. I just sat at the side of the bed in shock. My partner asked me what the call was about and when I told him he burst into tears and threw his arms around me.
@galaxylucia1898
@galaxylucia1898 4 жыл бұрын
34 years!!😲🥰That’s amazing honestly: You and your boyfriend’s relationship and how great your boyfriend is with your dad.
@julius-ceasar
@julius-ceasar 4 жыл бұрын
that’s so wholesome 🥺
@sim3663
@sim3663 4 жыл бұрын
♥️
@melon_boxedmilk
@melon_boxedmilk 4 жыл бұрын
if he's japanese (assuming that based on your name) maybe it's because people from japan are seemingly more accepting of lgb+ compared to other east asian countries?
@MinimaTheWarrior
@MinimaTheWarrior 4 жыл бұрын
As a straight, I cant imagine everything you guys have go through, stay strong! I try to help in any way I can :D
@rytromurati3371
@rytromurati3371 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Your an amazing person! -pansexual person💗💛💙
@j.m6593
@j.m6593 4 жыл бұрын
love u
@Opi0id-z
@Opi0id-z 4 жыл бұрын
Yea especially these elder guys that where gay in a time where it was looked down on ALOT
@squarecrayon
@squarecrayon 4 жыл бұрын
thank you for being supportive, we need more straight people like you!
@casiel.
@casiel. 4 жыл бұрын
@Ruby Crowell same
@Arty1948
@Arty1948 4 жыл бұрын
Love these guys. I'm an old gay too (almost 72), but I knew Colton Haynes from Arrow! My dad died before I came out too. I never really came out to my family. My mom asked me if I were gay and I said yes and she told my brothers (which kind of pissed me off, since I wanted to, but then again made it easier), I did come out to my staff at the time. I was a branch manager of a public library.
@nicholashilton2514
@nicholashilton2514 4 жыл бұрын
Love you, Arthur. Welcome to the party, my friend.
@percytheparkkeeper7826
@percytheparkkeeper7826 4 жыл бұрын
Are you happy?
@Arty1948
@Arty1948 4 жыл бұрын
@@percytheparkkeeper7826 I've been with my husband 21 years, have 2 step-daughters and a grandson, with a granddaughter on the way. Very happy, but would be happier if COVID were over!
@cheyfrost
@cheyfrost 4 жыл бұрын
I understand that. My mom actually did the same thing where she told my grandparents and family from my dad's side. Kind of pissed me off, but recently an opportunity came up in conversations and I got to tell them by my own mouth. Felt good! Kind of a round two lol. Glad to read you are doing well :)
@lohphat
@lohphat 4 жыл бұрын
MICK! I’m so happy to know you’re feeling better. We’ve been worried. Also greetings to the other fine gentlemen.
@kallieb3050
@kallieb3050 4 жыл бұрын
He definitely looks and acts like he's feeling better. Wishing him and the rest of the gays good health ♥️♥️♥️
@michaeljohnpeterson1056
@michaeljohnpeterson1056 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Buddy. The infusions of immunoglobulin are working!
@richardcortezmusic
@richardcortezmusic 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaeljohnpeterson1056 ♥️
@cookiekhoala
@cookiekhoala 4 жыл бұрын
Yes I was happy to see him and he seems better
@lydiablasko2380
@lydiablasko2380 4 жыл бұрын
I WANT TO BE FRIENDS WITH EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM.
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
SAME
@angelawossname
@angelawossname 3 жыл бұрын
So fine some old gays that live in your area and go make friends. A lot of lgbtq support services will have programs that help old gays meet young gays and form a mentor like relationship, or even a grandparent type relationship, as most old gays don't have kids, especially if they realised they were gay when they were quite young, and a lot of younger queer people still are rejected by family members. A lot of programs like these will match you up with someone who has similar interests, the goal is to help queer people to create "found family".
@dinspringstead6636
@dinspringstead6636 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@night0570
@night0570 4 жыл бұрын
Sexuality is not our choice Religion is a choice Sexuality is part of us, we were kinda born with it. We are humans. This is not our choice. Religion is who joins is a choice, but thinking it's a sin, that's their problem.
@larsswig912
@larsswig912 4 жыл бұрын
well most of the times, religions aren't a choice either. a lot of people (like me) are born into one and indoctrinated throughout childhood. I salute all the parents that let their kids choose to seek their own path, and give them unbiased information on all religions and not just theirs.
@imfine5960
@imfine5960 4 жыл бұрын
@@larsswig912 well parents tell children and guide them to the path they think it’s right Then when the kid becomes an adult he can chose to stay or change their believe Like if you believe in god why wouldn’t teach you’re kid about it Wouldn’t that be selfish is you don’t? cuz if he/she grew up not knowing they may go to the wrong path just bc you didn’t guide them Especially if you actually believe you’re religion is true And maybe it is who knows :)
@the_rachel_sam
@the_rachel_sam 4 жыл бұрын
@@imfine5960 that’s easier said than done. If you were raised one way, you’re going to accept that way more readily.
@gustavoruvalcaba89
@gustavoruvalcaba89 4 жыл бұрын
@@imfine5960 when you believe in something it's not a choice, is just a matter of understanding the data/information available and realizing things with a more objective mindset...
@imfine5960
@imfine5960 4 жыл бұрын
@@gustavoruvalcaba89 My only point is that as a parent you love your children so much and you want them to be in the right path What’s the right path? What the parent THINK it is You will not teach them about some religion you find wrong You just can’t
@jumaii2027
@jumaii2027 4 жыл бұрын
"The more we're coming out, the more we can't be denied." And that's on periodt!
@ellie8272
@ellie8272 3 жыл бұрын
Y'know, watching this I kind of felt a little weird at first. Because I'm a trans woman. Knowing they came from a different time, I thought many of them wouldn't accept me. Seeing that video of the trans woman coming out was like.... such a pleasant surprise, and it allowed me to relax and just enjoy the rest of the video
@annaquillfeldt5598
@annaquillfeldt5598 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve recently realised that it’s the LGBTQIA+ community or nothing. If you’re not supportive of the whole community, you’re not a part of it. I used to have friends who were old TERF lesbians, and I realised they don’t stand with us, they just aren’t part of our community xx
@vanessadmitrivosco5631
@vanessadmitrivosco5631 3 жыл бұрын
@@annaquillfeldt5598 PREACH LOUDER SIS/BRO. I'm a part of the community too, but I can't imagine how people disregard a particular spectrum/sexuality. Like it has to do with ace aros, transgender and nb pals
@calebsmith7179
@calebsmith7179 3 жыл бұрын
I know as a straight man I'll never be able to truly understand what you and others go through, just know though I believe you're all amazing and deserve basic human dignity like everyone else.
@ellie8272
@ellie8272 3 жыл бұрын
@@calebsmith7179 Thank you. It's a really weird adjustment to go from thinking you're a straight man to being a trans lesbian. It's a big 180. Granted I was still going through trans struggles back then and just didn't know, but I never really got harassed. It's so different now. I have to question if someone will respect me for who I am. I have to decide if it's safe to tell someone. It's scary
@kcat74
@kcat74 4 жыл бұрын
I love teen wolf for showing Colton Haynes' sexuality in the ending season, and supporting him.
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
SAME
@bazpitch3360
@bazpitch3360 3 жыл бұрын
teen wolf was quite LGBT supportive, which is why i loved it so much
@BunnyFlowers
@BunnyFlowers 3 жыл бұрын
I JUST finished Teen Wolf. I loved that they did that
@frankdingle9920
@frankdingle9920 4 жыл бұрын
What Jessay said to Bob, was something similar to what I was going to say to Bob, which was. "Go to your dads grave and tell him you're gay, not nastily but as if he was still alive. It can be liberating. Most of my family members I have not seen in many decades. It's been so long all my siblings are frozen in time, in their mid to late teens. There are two I've never seen. I have no regrets of being who I am. I have a wonderful partner of over twenty five years. He is my family. I love all you guys
@oakpkdude
@oakpkdude 4 жыл бұрын
Good for you. I am with my partner for 27 years but I was lucky when it came to my family. Both my parents and my 5 siblings accepted him into the family. They love him. Back then it was very scary to come out because we have all heard the horror stories but I had to tell them because I had my boyfriend move in with me and I had a 1 bedroom apt back then.
@meli6935
@meli6935 3 жыл бұрын
I came out to my mum and her exact words were "okay but do you want garlic bread with dinner?"
@wtfisaiah
@wtfisaiah 3 жыл бұрын
That’s good
@dinspringstead6636
@dinspringstead6636 Жыл бұрын
Boy, you lucked out!!!
@allshookup1640
@allshookup1640 Жыл бұрын
Well that should NEVER be a question! Of COURSE you want garlic bread with dinner! Who wouldn’t! I’d eat garlic bread all the time if I could! 😂 I’m happy your mom was so good ❤
@JennyRoses1975
@JennyRoses1975 4 жыл бұрын
my son didn't need to come out because I knew when he was 3 years old. When he finally told me in 9th grade, my response was "What took you so long?"
@d.k.1394
@d.k.1394 4 жыл бұрын
How did u know at 3
@d.k.1394
@d.k.1394 4 жыл бұрын
Yeh how
@JennyRoses1975
@JennyRoses1975 4 жыл бұрын
he played with barbies (his own), dressed up in my clothes, but the kicker was his ability to notice intricate details in women's clothes, like buttons, colors, etc. he was very sensitive and very sweet. I grew up with 2 brothers and he was the opposite of them in every way. it was obvious and we had no problem with it. He's amazing now at nearly 21 studying musical theater. couldn't ask for anything more. Perfect kid!!
@jhey5639
@jhey5639 4 жыл бұрын
@@JennyRoses1975 this is so gorgeous and thank you for the love and support you have given your son... and the next generation! 🥰
@nicholashilton2514
@nicholashilton2514 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jenny. You’re a fucking awesome Mom.
@troys8810
@troys8810 4 жыл бұрын
I didnt really have a “ coming out “! I was helping my mum wash the dishes one night when i was 20 yrs old. She looked at me and asked, Mate can i ask you something personal? I said yes of course mum. She asked, are you gay? Yes i am, was my reply. Ok mate, love you! Now lets finish these dishes. I asked her to tell my ex military father. Next day my dad said, all good mate! Hes not overly affectionate so for me, him saying that was my, i love you son!❤️❤️
@cassidyho939
@cassidyho939 4 жыл бұрын
You're blessed to have such a wonderfully supportive family!
@mau6068
@mau6068 4 жыл бұрын
The mate got me cause I wasn’t expecting it but Awesome! 💜💜💜
@lailaflores
@lailaflores 4 жыл бұрын
"This is who I am. If you have a problem with it, it's your problem. Not mine." That's amazing.
@sheraii
@sheraii 3 жыл бұрын
Very Amazing!!!!!
@keila7287
@keila7287 4 жыл бұрын
jessay for some reason gives me “id like to thing everyone else is gay unless they come out to me as straight” vibes and i love it.
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
ok, but same!!!
@vixikie
@vixikie 4 жыл бұрын
“In the end they'll judge me anyway so whatever.” - Min Yoongi
@zodwamhlongo4455
@zodwamhlongo4455 4 жыл бұрын
My savage king
@blumer9615
@blumer9615 4 жыл бұрын
kid cudi*
@julitorres5350
@julitorres5350 4 жыл бұрын
Army
@3ll3llyyy
@3ll3llyyy 3 жыл бұрын
ahh yes one of my fav bi king
@eren9055
@eren9055 3 жыл бұрын
@@blumer9615 kid cudi?
@Finn-us7xg
@Finn-us7xg 4 жыл бұрын
"He's known by the younger generation." I have no idea who that is, guess i'm an old gay too
@kilianangelo5959
@kilianangelo5959 4 жыл бұрын
@@misery5903 one second what? Teen wolf? I liked that show, I didn't recognize him, now I need to find my glasses
@sophiavogel8491
@sophiavogel8491 3 жыл бұрын
deep down, we're all old gays
@tigerlily0988
@tigerlily0988 4 жыл бұрын
In the words of Macklemore, “I might not be the same, but that’s not important. No freedom til we’re equal. Damn right I support it.”
@lilmonstersmiler
@lilmonstersmiler 4 жыл бұрын
💯💯
@maryallison0509
@maryallison0509 4 жыл бұрын
As a LGBT momma, I wish all LGBTQ people didn't have to have the fear of not being accepted. Of people being abusive and of people just not accepting their children. Thank God the people at stonewalled and channels like this have made it easier for today's LGBTQ and tomorrow's to get love and support to come out.
@julieta5376
@julieta5376 4 жыл бұрын
I was told "you were my pride" so... yeah, I'm still broken 5 years later
@miss_marie_
@miss_marie_ 4 жыл бұрын
@@julieta5376 I feel bad for you, No parent should say this to their children, unfortunately there are still a lot of them. I know if I told my parents that I am bi, they would tell me the same. I don't think they would reject me from the family, but I would still be a "disappointment" to them. It terrifies me that's why I would probably never tell them.
@cheyfrost
@cheyfrost 4 жыл бұрын
@@julieta5376 I'm so sorry you had to go through that :'(
@maryallison0509
@maryallison0509 4 жыл бұрын
@@julieta5376 I’m so sorry Sweetie💜 I have sort of Adopted a lot of my sons LGBTQ brothers and sisters. If ever you need help or a momma hug just let me know I’m here for you and I’m so PROUD of You!!!
@or6148
@or6148 3 жыл бұрын
I'm straight 30yo woman... but I have my transgender younger brother... His courage, his stubbournness and his amazing will of living his own wonderfull life is something I have never dared to do. Especially here, in Poland.
@alikhatib9784
@alikhatib9784 3 жыл бұрын
I'm gay, I live in Syria. Coming out is a dream. To be liberated from the lies. To tell people that I met someone and I'm in love with. To hold his hand in the street. To feel just like any other human should.
@slowfire2
@slowfire2 3 жыл бұрын
I know coming out isn’t safe for everyone. You do what is safe enough for you. Keep the dream alive.though!
@alikhatib9784
@alikhatib9784 3 жыл бұрын
@@slowfire2 Thanks for your kindness. I'll be strong as long as I can. Best of wishes to you.
@sharondavies9760
@sharondavies9760 3 жыл бұрын
Stay strong one fine day it will happen x
@alikhatib9784
@alikhatib9784 3 жыл бұрын
@@pet.me102 That would be great.
@syra1541
@syra1541 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry, I can't imagine what that must feel like.
@homerolopez2677
@homerolopez2677 4 жыл бұрын
I remember as a kid my mom asked me if i was gay i was so scared i would shake even tho she told me she would be okay with it ... the moment i excepted myself and didn’t want to live a lie it was amazing i am so blessed to have such an amazing family
@tofer2152
@tofer2152 4 жыл бұрын
This comment section is so important. God bless all those sharing their stories. Reading them makes me feel so warm inside. It really helped me come out to my dad. My dad openly stated he doesn't agree with my lifestyle. But he did say because I am a kind, caring, and respectful person, that he will not voice his judgement. As long as my boyfriend and I treat him with respect, he will treat us with the same respect and that is all I could really ask for.
@lunchisaac
@lunchisaac 4 жыл бұрын
"You can't go back in" "Don't want to" why is that a mood
@SpiritedHeart94
@SpiritedHeart94 4 жыл бұрын
Help me out with something here; So when my sister came out as bisexual, my mom was perfectly fine with it, because a few of our cousins are gay, and her older sister (my late aunt) was a lesbian. She has no problem with people being gay in real life, but for some reason whenever she sees something like the 2 moms in Good Luck Charlie, or the 2 dads in The Loud House (who never even kiss on-screen), she hates it, and says that stuff shouldn’t be in kid’s shows because it’ll “turn them gay” (and don’t even get me *started* on Steven Universe!) I told her that was complete bullshit, and as long as they’re in a stable relationship & not making out on-screen (which I wouldn’t want kids to see even if it was a straight couple), then it should be fine. When she continued to argue, I brought up my aunt, and my cousin who was raised by 2 moms & turned out completely straight, and told her that they probably would’ve wanted shows like that back when they were kids, because it would’ve made them feel represented & included, and my cousin wouldn’t have felt so ostracized by her peers because her family was different. For some reason, my mom *still* doesn’t agree with me, and *still* thinks gay relationships shouldn’t be shown in kid’s shows at all. I honestly don’t know how to get through to her, and it feels kinda ridiculous to me because you would *think* she’d be more accepting of it because of the lgbtq+ people in her life, but sadly that’s not the case. 😔
@gemma8096
@gemma8096 4 жыл бұрын
Homosexuals are flooded with heterosexual norms from such a young age, yet they grow up knowing that they are 'different' even if they don't know what 'gay' means. Our sexuality is completely determined by the hormonal processes we undergo while in vitro. Our sexualities are determined before we are even born!! I have some notes on the science behind it if you'd like me to share it with you. Please remind your mom that majority of couples in movies are straight, yet this doesn't prevent homosexuals from becoming homosexual... So why should a gay couple here and there make straight people become homosexual?
@artemisameretsu6905
@artemisameretsu6905 4 жыл бұрын
If watching straight people in shows made people straight we'd never have homosexuals 😒 We had lgtbq+ people way before they were on TV. Honestly just sounds like your mom tolerates the fact that your family has lgbtq+ people in the family bc she loves her family the way people tolerate having family members that are of the opposite political party.
@droptimistic
@droptimistic 4 жыл бұрын
She has a point, is saw a tree in a cartoon and now I’ve grown leaves
@brih9613
@brih9613 4 жыл бұрын
what if you asked her if she thinks that straight relationships in kids shows turn kids straight? maybe tell her that being straight isn’t the default sexuality? ahhh sorry if this doesn’t help
@queer-ios3155
@queer-ios3155 4 жыл бұрын
Be low key passive aggressive and freak out just like her when a straight couple kisses on screen, and when she asks you why ask her why gay people bother her so much
@carleymillette9338
@carleymillette9338 3 жыл бұрын
"do you wish you'd had role models?" "yes! it would have made a big difference!" and now they get to be OUR role models :,)
@Grenadreams
@Grenadreams 4 жыл бұрын
To whoever is reading this, the first step is always the scariest. You need to feel comfortable in your own skin. There will be someone out there who accepts you, even if there are none at the moment. The people who truly matter are the ones who accept you as your true self whether that be you being gay, straight, trans, asexual, or whatever else you are. You are a star, shine on loves.
@michaeljohnpeterson1056
@michaeljohnpeterson1056 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, we are your family.
@Grenadreams
@Grenadreams 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaeljohnpeterson1056 and the four of you are ours. I am so glad you are doing okay :)
@nothingnothing7852
@nothingnothing7852 4 жыл бұрын
@@michaeljohnpeterson1056 this honestly makes me happy thank you
@michaeljohnpeterson1056
@michaeljohnpeterson1056 4 жыл бұрын
@@nothingnothing7852 Very Good!! Thank you.
@ilykylie-ws6if
@ilykylie-ws6if 4 жыл бұрын
"i LoSt mY aiRpOD aND i DonT kNoW WhErE iT WeNT"
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
YES
@annalacey4821
@annalacey4821 3 жыл бұрын
I love him
@ananyachatterjee197
@ananyachatterjee197 4 жыл бұрын
My dear transphobes, did you see how easy it was to say "her" & "she" and "you go girl"??? Open your heart to everyone.. that's natural.. not your cruel & insensitive words..
@sadlobster1
@sadlobster1 3 жыл бұрын
Hear, hear
@Sweetpeafan
@Sweetpeafan 3 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more.
@QuinnRuiz
@QuinnRuiz 3 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree!
@masacatior
@masacatior 3 жыл бұрын
I agree, the lack of empathy is a sad reality. Some decide to be transphobic behind the screens, but when it comes to talk to a trans person, face to face, would you really be that mean? That's what I would ask.
@ashlou4197
@ashlou4197 4 жыл бұрын
I love that they didn't have role models growing up but now they are role models for our generation 🥰
@ItsJustMikee
@ItsJustMikee 4 жыл бұрын
They truly are
@viktoria3818
@viktoria3818 4 жыл бұрын
I can't express how much respect I have for these men. So wise and well spoken, making the world a better place video by video. Coming from a straight female I have so much respect for those who come out and I can only imagine how much courage it takes to risk not being accepted by those "closest" to you. Remember, there is always a community of people that will support you, you just gotta find them and surround yourself with as much positivity as you can. Keep on shining and being yourself ❤
@antoniszczepanski5757
@antoniszczepanski5757 4 жыл бұрын
We can all love them! No matter our preferences!
@jasminejacinda8612
@jasminejacinda8612 4 жыл бұрын
Weird flex, but I went to high school with Austin and Aaron, they were around my class or possibly above me? Good people. So lovely to see them thriving after seeing part of their journey myself.
@AwkwardMarina
@AwkwardMarina 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a lesbian, and I look forward to being old and happy and gay like these wonderful men :)
@weird2928
@weird2928 4 жыл бұрын
Good to see mick's healthy and back in video again🥺
@capra_lupus5008
@capra_lupus5008 3 жыл бұрын
I didnt have to come out as lesbian to my family. My mum yelled at me from across the house saying "Are you a lesbian" And I just yelled back yes and that was that. My mum told the rest of my family and I didnt have to mention it to anyone. Except my sister who didnt know what gay was. Bless her heart
@Nebulousgardens
@Nebulousgardens 3 жыл бұрын
Very happy for you. :)
@hahahahahaha9026
@hahahahahaha9026 4 жыл бұрын
When he said "good for you girl" I felt that.
@meliprincexx_peach
@meliprincexx_peach 4 жыл бұрын
When Jessay talked about coming out to his father when he was in the coffin 😭that must of been such an emotional moment for him and I can’t even imagine how that must have felt ❤️
@alondra9974
@alondra9974 4 жыл бұрын
When Jessay was talking about Eugenes video and how minority cultures can be soooo much harsher than European cultures. Ugh the power.
@kikochanplaz9200
@kikochanplaz9200 4 жыл бұрын
3:52 "*hes hot*" I died of laughter xd I love you guys!
@amikireicraftstore
@amikireicraftstore 4 жыл бұрын
Eugene's video had me crying so much. What they say it's so important, when they started this back then it was almost unspeakable, they opened a way and now things are different thanks to them, it is still hard and emotional but now you can say it and it is thanks to them. ♡
@dumpling543
@dumpling543 4 жыл бұрын
im not even gonna bother coming out. im just gonna go home one day like: "mother im married"
@meropedurwood5514
@meropedurwood5514 4 жыл бұрын
I'm most likely gonna do that, but when I'm engaged 😂
@zorathemagic7310
@zorathemagic7310 4 жыл бұрын
I like that mindset!! I feel like coming out shouldnt exist i feel it should just be normal if mabey your son came home with another boy amd stuff like yeah questions would be fine but i wouldnt want my kid to have to prepare themselves to tell me they shouldnt feel stressed about that so im fine with finding out on the way
@Orxy
@Orxy 4 жыл бұрын
That's probably not gonna happen for me. They would probably having a heart attack and crying of sadness if i brought a man to house lmaoo✋😭 But i really hope one day they wouldn't mind and they support and happy for me:) Let's pray🕯️😌✨
@meropedurwood5514
@meropedurwood5514 4 жыл бұрын
@@Orxy I have heard of people whose parents were opposed to homosexuality, but as soon as they met their partners, they did not want the couple to ever break up. 😊
@Orxy
@Orxy 4 жыл бұрын
@@meropedurwood5514 ypu just make me less overthinking 😭 Thankyou so much for reassuring:')🖤
@Banyo__
@Banyo__ 4 жыл бұрын
My cousin recently came out in a very public way to everyone in our family, and online a lot of the comments were "you know we 'still' love you," and I was joking with him that apparently 90% of them had seen the same after school special from the 90's. Like what does the pamphlet say you're "supposed to say" when a youth comes out. I was really happy for him though because his side of the family is very religious and those things tend not to mix very well. I am thankful that we are at a place in time where he no longer feels the need to hide or not live his life for himself. We all deserve that.
@miserymyfriend3995
@miserymyfriend3995 4 жыл бұрын
"I lost one of my earphones and I dont know where it went" He really knows how to crack me up everytime.
@kiahmadison8541
@kiahmadison8541 3 жыл бұрын
On behalf of the people who grew up as children in the late 70s and 80s we would like to say thankyou to the people who came before us.
@deadsetondreams1988
@deadsetondreams1988 4 жыл бұрын
The 2 twins coming out over the phone was literally my first exposure to coming out videos and it inspired me
@fortunatelyfortunate7138
@fortunatelyfortunate7138 4 жыл бұрын
I wanted to cry so bad. My family is extremely religious. My baby cousin came out as Gay and his parents aren’t supportive. I know the feeling of not having your parents support during something so big and it just hurts my heart to know how he must be feeling. It’s just so sad. I don’t understand why people rather hate than support love.
@depressednoodle8579
@depressednoodle8579 4 жыл бұрын
"He's making fun of you Bob." *in really sweet and gentle voice* "I knooow"
@skedaddledbraincell
@skedaddledbraincell 4 жыл бұрын
YES, THE LEGENDS ARE BACK
@harbuggley
@harbuggley 4 жыл бұрын
The Old Gays are so endearing, bless their trailblazing, privilege-gifting souls!! 🖤
@rhonnichan
@rhonnichan 4 жыл бұрын
When I came out to my mom as bisexual, she tells me "bitch, so am I. Welcome to the club" When I came out to my dad since he is a pastor, it took him a minute to understand He asked questions, but he hugged me and told me that God loves his children no matter what and he will love me regardless
@froggygurl8775
@froggygurl8775 4 жыл бұрын
This came up in my recommended, and am glad I saw it. As a lesbian, I realize how scary it is to come out...but our experiences are different from gay men. From everything I've seen at least, it is more socially acceptable for women to be gay than men. It's nice to see a different perspective.
@max-bl6fi
@max-bl6fi 4 жыл бұрын
I think my perspective on it is that homophobic men feel more personally attacked/offended/threatened by gay men than gay women. So the fear of coming out as a gay man stems from the huge amount of abuse and disgust shown towards gay men
@victorianoskov1441
@victorianoskov1441 4 жыл бұрын
Yes that is so true and even then if you’re bi or pan you’re attacked for being “greedy” and it hurts
@lil_buddo
@lil_buddo 4 жыл бұрын
I love all of these guys, so wholesome and so accepting. These guys set a great example for the younger generation
@n.a.8050
@n.a.8050 4 жыл бұрын
Our Old Gays are back! I'm happy to see that all of you are in good health. 😘 This coming out episode reminded me of the time they reacted on the "old gay" title... they said something like, being proud to be one because not a lot of them survived to be this age. Their firsts and sufferings paved the way for individuals to be accepted. Thank you. ❤
@victorvictus3588
@victorvictus3588 4 жыл бұрын
"Ohhhh I think I know this one" "I'd like to" "He's hot" *Oh my god I love these men.*
@emeliasversion
@emeliasversion 3 жыл бұрын
SAMEEEEE
@veganarchistcommunist3051
@veganarchistcommunist3051 3 жыл бұрын
"Sometimes you just have to walk away and plant your feet. You have to say 'This is who I am and if you have a problem with it it's your problem, not mine'". God that was beautiful and so inspiring.
@wheelcha1rman2
@wheelcha1rman2 4 жыл бұрын
"Oh I think I know this one." "I'd like to." Floored me.
@Shmiguelly
@Shmiguelly 4 жыл бұрын
My advice to anybody coming out is do it when YOU are ready. It's you coming out, not anybody else.
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