Groom Has No Idea What He's Getting Into - Rich Bride Poor Bride 410 - Dollars And Sense

[@karens346]

That bride was the most annoying person. She was totally outrageous.

[@mariacherrington61920]

I watched the show Bridezillas once n this girl Karen she made this bride look sane!! This girl Karen was arguing w someone n she said " listen you 9 dollar an hour human being" just yikes

[@babylonaduppy2524]

And unattractive.

[@fairlind]

@@leonard2880 Yes, I would too, but the mother was also no prize. It seems this is a very manipulative family. To say yes, and then to change things behind the bride’s back is scummy. Why not just hand the bride a set amount, and let her decide how she wants to spend it? Why argue over every article? I get the feeling mom just likes to mess with her daughter.

[@sulcatagrl]

How could anyone marry that primadonna low-class moocher mess? What is wrong with this man? She's got more red flags than a communist parade. I don't even blame her. I blame ALL of her eneablers.

[@fairlind]

@@sulcatagrl Bingo.

[@lt3074]

the bride is being unreasonable and ungrateful especiallly since the mothers are paying. if the birde wants more than what the mothers are willing, she needs to help pay.

[@claragranja3854]

Oh i fuetqui

[@claragranja3854]

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[@marlenemallaley4462]

I think she is a spoiled brat and he is big trouble with her that poor guy

[@markvigil718]

Wow how selfish spend your own money spoiled brat! How disrespectful bit..!

[@rocksiirose4536]

@@claragranja3854 🤔

[@christinamenhennett]

Good grief her food budget is almost $52,000 without her wedding cake and the reception!!! Geez that's more than I paid for my house!!!! The bride is definitely a brat!!!!

[@blockawocka4026]

Lol it’s the price of two beautiful weddings in France!!!

[@mariacherrington61920]

I was thinking that too yikes

[@mothermayi9545]

Whatttt?! Where in the world do you live?! I just dropped $500k on my 3BR house! 😩 (Though I did buy it in this insane market)

[@christinamenhennett]

@@mothermayi9545 I live in Missouri . $500k for 3 bedroom? Man that must be some house! Here you can get 4-5 bedroom with fenced land for around $150k.

[@mothermayi9545]

@@christinamenhennett to be fair it is a new construction. And I live on the water in New England. Sadly, it costs a few organs to live around here.

[@everso2151]

Love how frank butted in and thanked HIS mom for cooking all the breakfast food. Good luck man, you’re going to need it

[@nubianjane4448]

I Wish I woulda talked to my mother like that ever!! Ain’t no wedding, it’s a funeral 😂😂

[@ayla9905]

Fr 😂🤣🤣😂😂

[@karenwink7313]

Why don’t the mothers just give them the $ they want to contribute and let the adult children figure out what they can have. Then if it goes over that,the groom and bride will pay for it.

[@dolphinsandsunsets]

exactly!

[@krystalsmith5218]

I'm sorry but if my parents or inlaws were putting forth that kind of money I would not be upset about them taking some control. It's only one day anyways.

[@cw-s3582]

Good idea!

[@FairyChild_For_Freedom-Justice]

That's a very clever idea I stand by your words they came up with the budget of $20,000 hand over the $20,000 if it comes up to 50 they got to pay the balance sounds like a plan to me

[@maryharvey6909]

That’s what I did for my one son that wanted a big wedding. I told husband that we were giving them $2000 and they spend it how they want to. My husband was surprised that we were going to give that much. And I said the things they are talking about are going to be expensive and we need to put our limit out there so they know what they can expect from us and that’s all they’re getting.They were both working adults. My next son to get married was a working adult with a house and he just wanted to go out in the woods way up a trail and get married just with them the preacher and photographer. They also got $2000 to spend as they wanted for their wedding, but no more.

[@bonitaesskew6682]

Frank Run!! This is what your life is going to be. She’s a manipulator She’s completely out of hand

[@shyaalexa5710]

THE groom has not lived with this witch yet. He will have an affair eventually.

[@maddygvanlifer435]

@@shyaalexa5710 or a nervous breakdown

[@cabayern9416]

Total narcissist.

[@fcllc4217]

@@shyaalexa5710 He'll leave hey if he's smart.

[@NOLALessNOW]

The sound of her whiny voice wud drive me alone.

[@amandawilliams9785]

How embarrassing. I can't believe someone who is lucky enough to not have to pay for their own wedding would be so disrespectful.

[@janedoe-dk1on]

I was thinking the same

[@liisamiller2969]

She’ll look back at this and probably be embarrassed . Or maybe not? The entitlement is strong in this one. 😵‍💫

[@sweetvonbettie1]

She a spoil effing brat

[@sarahhowell5435]

It's because she's not paying that she feels like she can act like this... what a brat.

[@robertamcmunn3642]

What happened to respect to our elders and self respect. they will divorce I guarantee, They are so very disgusting and put it on line thinking it is okay. Lord help us all.

[@kasperorganics-organiccott6881]

This girl makes me really appreciate my beautiful, intelligent, very practical daughter.

[@EmuCosmo]

32:34 her husband is literally like what the hell am I marrying. His face of disappointment in her utter gross disregard of the budget is at this moment making him realise he should get out now.

[@loveyoutube2177]

That daughter is insane. As someone that’s mom passed away, she needs to be grateful and only appreciate her mom hearing there to love her and help her.

[@jacquelineadams8363]

Sorry my beloved late mother said to me you are just as married spending less within a budget. Blowing the bank is a huge waste of money for just one day. She is lucky to have her parents for the ceremony. But it's her day, so spend away.

[@vanadians3819]

Truth! I'm in the same boat.

[@vanadians3819]

I have a strong feeling this is a Canadian production :( all the STUPID sound effects. It really does'nt do us ANY justice! No wonder there are so many talented Canadians in the states. This kind of production value does nothing for their talents.

[@vanadians3819]

Classless, your center pieces should not be so big that your guests need to talk around them.

[@janiscrabtree4587]

No respect for her mother.

[@emy4love]

I can’t stand when a bride puts more energy into the wedding rather than the marriage

[@yvettewilliams4893]

Thank you!!! See this is what I said... She's talking about she wants this, deserves that, my wedding, my wedding, but hadn't said anything about life AFTER that wedding with all of those silly wants of hers! Too many times ppl have put all of the focus on the wedding forgetting that once those few hours are over, you must go on and live life with the person.....

[@emy4love]

@@yvettewilliams4893 I was 7 months pregnant when I got married, on my 4th baby. My husband and I had been together since we were 14 and had our babies at 14, 16, 18 and 20. Knowing it was our last baby, we wanted to ‘do it right’ and be married before he came and everyone had been bugging us for 6 years to finally get married, we were obviously made for each other, complete teenage sweethearts and soul mates. The ONLY thing I wouldn’t budge on was the men in the wedding party had to wear the traditional Filipino formal shirt (custom made with gold threading and gold colored buttons I picked, the men had to be measured and the shirts were made in the Philippines and sent here to Seattle), but everything else....flowers, cake, decor, music, food...I compromised with my husband and made sure he was JUST as apart of the decisions. We didn’t fight about anything, he didn’t have to check me, I didn’t throw a fit and I was HUGE prego and hormonal with a 6, 4 and 2 year old. I could have easily pulled rank being prego but nawwwww, this was about US, not me being a princess and look at me, look at me!! I got 6 more years with the love of my life, but he passed away suddenly at 26 from a heart attack while playing in a 3 on 3 basketball tournament. At 27, I was a widow with a 12, 10, 8 and 6 year old. Had I known then what I know now, I’d still marry his ass in a hot second!

[@terriehaylock9058]

Agreed!!! And I HATE how they aalll want to be a "Princess" aaarrrgghhhh

[@lorijenkins419]

They why watch the show? This show is about the wedding not the marriage.

[@lindadonaldson7568]

We went to city hall and then my aunts gave us a dinner at a local restaurant. We will be married 28 years in October. All our friends who had big fancy weddings are now divorced!

[@GameChanger597]

That "artist baker" was more like a swindler.😂 "I don't just do cakes..."

[@DanielleFores]

He got some real shady vibes

[@enibeni2071]

A 4000 dollars philosophy is a "harmelin flute". Philosophy doesn't pay they school, electricist, gasoline, etc. Also, gold can be symbol on some culture, however, It isn't the most important nor the only symbol that exist on these cultures.

[@joannescott-johnson2523]

A creative shyster!...The bride was his muse (sucker)

[@hellcat58563]

It’s just a cake with a some decorations on it at the end of the day. My mum made and decorated my wedding cake (and her own and my brothers) which made it more special than some tacky, overpriced creation. Unfortunately people get sucked in by others who convince them that they’re paying for their creative vision. Weddings do not need to cost a fortune. This woman is acting like a spoilt child.

[@Emjolein]

I bet he was the stripper at her bachelorette party

[@LightshamanaDhyana]

To all who bashing the bride: her parents raised her this way, giving in to anything and made her an entitled little brat. Just because you wealthy you don't have to indulge every whim the child has. Period. She raise her and she isn't any different.

[@4dilemma]

10:09 It's not just a cake, it's a whole philosophy behind the cake LMAO

[@holdencawffle626]

Ya what a douche

[@vincenzolee6576]

I am speechless! I come from an Italian family. I would never have asked my parents to pay for the type of things this bride feels she is entitled to. Weddings are not supposed to cause hardship for anyone. Did this mother actually raise this girl to be so entitled? Her husband is in for a very pressured life. I’m glad she isn’t marrying into my family.

[@joycepino9749]

So did I. I was 19. I had a nice dress, married in a Catholic church mass, venue was at a Italian restaurant and piped in music. This was in the 70s.

[@fcllc4217]

I can't see them staying married because she feels so entitled. She's a spoiled brat. I raised strong independent women who are rational and financially independent.

[@yvettewilliams4893]

@@fcllc4217 You know I said the same thing, I can't see Frank wanting to put up with this "entitled" person's silliness for the rest of his life

[@tastx3142]

The mom sounds like she is used to getting what she wants and the daughter has the same attitude. Neither of them understand negotiating or compromise.

[@diannepriestley3175]

@@tastx3142 you have that right and the groom must be very stupid if he can't see by the way Mom and daughter behave now what he is going to have to put up with being in this family! My condolences to him and his parents.

[@AFAskygoddess]

I want. I want. I want. I love how bridezilla has no problem spending other people's money. She is a nurse. She can buy some crap herself.

[@Prieze868]

Hate to be this Bridezillas nurse-patient

[@lostcontrol1981]

Exactly my thoughts! A nurse makes $100,000+ a year - so she can pay for her own things that her mom doesn’t want to pay for. A $4000 cake suddenly doesn’t sound so great when you have to pay for it yourself.

[@purplepixie274]

@@lostcontrol1981 a nurse makes how much???? I just googled average nurse pay in UK, it's around £35k, and that's with 5 years experience.

[@lostcontrol1981]

@@purplepixie274 I’m Canadian. Average full time nurse here makes around $100,000 CAD a year. I work at the Ottawa Hospital and every year a ‘Sunshine’ list is put out that lists anyone who makes $100K+ and most of the full time nurses and nurse managers are listed. £35,000 is about $60,000 CAD. So if that’s what the average full time nurse makes, you’re worse off in the UK than Canada.

[@karenmm]

@@purplepixie274 lol come be a nurse across the pond, they need people in healthcare and you get paid well :)

[@skye2211]

The fact that she said “I don’t even remember most of the wedding” speaks volumes. All that unnecessary spending and things she didn’t need just to not even remember it and be so stressed. Was it worth it? No..... also when did this become the brides Wedding ONLY? I thought it was two people getting married?

[@tinamalvarado]

She is an ungrateful person

[@latoshamercado8717]

Totally agree with this comment

[@lineprestkvrn9014]

I have been married one time. My mother (widow) paid for dress, hairdo and boquet. We paid (my husband and I) for the dinner for us and our 2 witnesses. No guests. My Grandmother sent an unexpected boquet for our table at the hotel where we ate and it was greatly appreciated. We paid for the photostudio and the shoot and the photos. I went to a big wedding at a rented place with full dinner and a lot of extras. The bride's father was a lawyer. Mine was dead. We both got divorced later. Stupid stuff based on stupid decisions. Not worth the excess use at all.

[@MrIyanbali]

50% of all married in the United States end with divorce, it's pathetic.

[@IwasBlueb4]

she's a spoilt brat

[@i.cannot.even.]

The groom is seeing her true colors throughout this wedding preparations . . . this is what he's marrying! RUN!!!

[@Braids5719]

Omg…my husband and I have been married 23 years and we paid for our own wedding. We had a budget and got everything we wanted. This bride is crazy! People shouldn’t go into huge debt to have a party to celebrate love! I had the dress of my dreams…it was a discontinued Vera Wang. My mom made my cake. We made all the decor. I come from crafty people and am crafty. Loved our day! It

[@cathrynhesketh5703]

If my daughter behaved like that she would be paying herself. What an attitude

[@bobbie3359]

So disrespectful. I get it it’s her wedding. she should’ve saved up if she wanted a grandiose wedding 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@bevwilkinson2853]

Spoilt brat!!!

[@maryjones1195]

I’m pretty sure they paid her to act that way, some of it was so fake

[@evn.9382]

Cathryn Hesketh, I am 1000% with you.

[@jeanna7851]

💯

[@charleneroderick7409]

I’m dying laughing , I’d give her $500 and walk away . The girl is hilarious , she’s horrible , she doesn’t deserve one single thing. If I were her husband ( to be ) I’d RUN my ass off

[@valarieagiza1189]

🤣🤣 lmao

[@priscillemartin696]

my thoughts exactly

[@smithface8791]

@@priscillemartin696 And mine.

[@user-ow2zy5iw1c]

She’s seriously horrible

[@patriciafaulkner3771]

oh what horrible child growing up to be spoil and brat. How she get away with it.Poor mother had to pay all this for one day, you know only she say married to this one guy. no kidding.

[@janparish8055]

I can't believe I just spent almost an hour watching this, the awfulness was mesmerizing! How does someone like this actually exist? What a spoiled, entitled, selfish, loud-mouthed, undignified woman. I pity Frank, and can't imagine the hell his life will be. But he chose her, so I guess there's a lid for every pot!

[@donnadeboard3631]

I found I couldn't turn away either to watch something else, the outrageous behavior kept me glued to see just how far she would go. Lol

[@radioactivedetective6876]

It was like watching a rofl sitcom!

[@christinawatkinsyoutube]

Me too🤣 I couldn’t turn it off. Makes me very thankful for my partner

[@peterhoffman8525]

When my wife and I got married 40+ years ago, it was very small and simple because we paid for it ourselves and didn't have a lot of money. No drama. Years later, when our grown children got married, we gave each couple a set amount to spend toward the wedding or honeymoon or whatever and still no drama but 3 new in-laws that are GREAT. As far as I know, all of their weddings were kept to a budget and none of couples acted as stupid/entitled as this 'woman'.

[@katrinaquezada42]

I got married in my living room wearing a dress I already owned and have since reworn. With just 5 witnesses and a cake my friend picked up from the local bakery. I suspect my marriage is going to last longer and be happier for it too.

[@kprpearl]

I love their wedding planner!!! He keeps the budget in mind-and I love it!

[@sjsksgwkwksksjw3092]

That is literally his job lol

[@imanerada1382]

Tu Je

[@imanerada1382]

Hhhhhhh Je je la connais mais pas pas grave bb

[@imanerada1382]

Tu

[@imanerada1382]

Je je te suis suis te te dire

[@glennamiles3566]

I could not watch this whole thing. Disrespecting her mother was disgraceful. Unfortunately the apple did not fall far from the tree. Her poor husband.

[@faithmottinger682]

This woman is so incredibly selfish and greedy. I almost can't stand her. She wants all these stupid expensive things.

[@fcllc4217]

I can't stand her! I can't believe she's a nurse!

[@cherokeegrandma4135]

EXACTLY …… She’s SOO incredibly rude! !!

[@angelacarleton9575]

When people don't have to pay for things why do they insist on some much more? I know I was working overtime in order to pay half of the cost with my future husband to pay the other half of the cost of my wedding. No parent paid but it irritated me that demanded money from me on top of what I was paying. It truly upset me.

[@Behen786]

Not to mention she has no class and doesn’t even ask kindly.

[@crystalcleareyes8140]

Almost?? Cant Stand Her PERIOD. There...fixed it for you. 😆

[@justhere3794]

Funny. I planned my entire wedding myself. It was so great and cost only $3000. I made all my guests wear black tie, had a DJ who played classy music with Broadway themes and music of my choice. The venue was overlooking a golf course and had a beautiful circular glass windows on the entire room. The waiters, food and everything was perfect. The guests looked great in their finest attire. All 40 of them, Ha Ha. The photographer took great photos that made it look like I had the wedding at the Ritz Carlton in Paris with 500 people!! Very proud of myself for making it so fake and glitzy that even the waiters and staff of the venue said that it was the nicest wedding they ever saw. I still show my photos of my wedding to my friends and they said "Wow! what a fancy wedding you had"....haha LOL. Miss Cheapo over here ... winning!!!

[@victoriasyverson7490]

When was this? Every venue I look at now are 5k up 😭

[@justhere3794]

@ Just be creative and go to a nice neighborhood that is a golf community and then check out their clubhouse to see if it has nice views etc. Good hunting!

[@mrs.anonymous6291]

The people who work at that venue are very snotty to the mother whom is paying for that brats wedding!!!

[@thejaxter6384]

OMG!!!!!!!! Wish I had a dollar for every time she said "I want......" That wedding planner has the patience of a saint. Does Bridezilla ever shut up?

[@valarieagiza1189]

🤣🤣👋 LMAO

[@amethyst1826]

Yeah, like she was marrying herself. The poor groom didn't get a look in!!

[@freshstart4423]

I'm trying to figure out, if the Bride, Jaime got anything she wanted and the groom refused to choose anything but a car. The Bride's dress was under budget so she isn't as bad as everyone says. The Mom made all the decisions by the end of the day, and she spent money on what she wanted. How much of the guest list was for the two Moms' friends and not the bride and groom's friends????? I think the Bride was correct, her Mom was planning her own wedding. The Mom spent a lot on her own dress and her cheese and talked to the other Mom behind the Bride's back.

[@beatricefaria-clendinning8943]

…. I can’t Believe the way she speaks to her mother(No prize herself)…And Frank needs to grow a Pair or “Run like Pizza is on Sale!”😂😂😂😤🇨🇦

[@alzychoze6591]

She is this way 😬🙄 in part because she was raised that way- and she probably has spent too much time watching Downton Abbey….I would’ve never had been allowed to behave that way.

[@cw-s3582]

Do they purposely get the rudest, most self-absorbed Brides on these shows? And seriously, doesn't the groom see what he is in for -a lifetime worth?

[@hazelbasil6451]

They absolutely do!

[@lucyw.7597]

oh im sure they do...and for reasons that are completely incomprehensible to me, there are an awful lot of men out there who seem to positively enjoy and encourage needy, grasping, spoilt drama queens..they seem to love the attention it brings, good or bad..also gives them a great get out eventually...

[@marchesa2u]

Yes, then it's also scripted for dramatic entertainment.

[@veronicawood8295]

Exactly...she's that type who will wear him down bit by bit over a lot of long miserable years, until he's just a husk of a man, who is barely allowed to speak. Sad.

[@AuntStina]

My mom used to swear that a lot of men love a b****. Her words. Since I haven’t gotten a man yet, I hope that means I’m not a b****. Lol

[@rckkeller9437]

With Covid and our daughter being 2000 miles away, planning a wedding was hard. We gave our daughter a check, a substantial one at that, and she and her fiancé have made decisions based on what they can afford. We are proud of this couple, they made hard decisions and got creative. We offered more assistance if they need it, and they said no. If they go over budget they want to pay for that themselves. They are such a beautiful couple and we are so proud of them.

[@melissasanto]

Perfect

[@veronicawood8295]

Unlike this bride...you obviously raised your daughter right...and that's lovely of you to offer the cheque...most parents don't do that these days.

[@hairproducts7637]

Point

[@patwats8860]

Your daughter is both SANE and not selfish. Jamie is not either one.

[@rosemarykriegel3226]

That's what we did, too, for three of our children. Two others, #1 and #4, have yet to marry.

[@blackmetal612able]

Me being the mom I would tell her I’m not paying for anything anymore. The nerve!

[@EllieChristine744]

I have only one word for this: INSANE! I think the bride`s mother must have pampered her daughter most of her life - and here is the result!

[@leahfromcrimia8424]

OMG, I don't know who to blame more for these temper tantrums by the bride. The mother should have stopped this behavior when her daughter was two years old. Or the bride who is a nurse and should be more thoughtful. Or the groom, who is also enabling. Oy vey.

[@robyndeddens6658]

Only 5 minutes in and I am like “Oh my” I am not a fan however it’s a train wreck I can’t stop.

[@eggnogalcoholic]

My relationship with my boyfriend is founded on our love for trainwreck television

[@beyond21_]

Robyn deddens 🤣🤣🤣 so am I . I keep thinking I am going to turn this off but like the train wreck I can't look away

[@andreygreenidge4854]

Same here.😂😂😂

[@7466ypb]

Kept saying to myself.. "nooo" smh but ended up watching the whole mess 🤣

[@laurahansen1]

@@andreygreenidge4854 i

[@sherridillon2767]

I think it’s crazy to spend that money on one day…when divorce rates are so high! I would rather spend it on something more lasting- house, furniture or car

[@fcllc4217]

Absolutely!

[@stevenrosado3950]

I got married 6 months ago in city hall had a small get together in a restaurant with 30 people and the money we saved it’s for a house. And we couldn’t be any happier!!!

[@hayaglamazonluxe]

@@stevenrosado3950 You are still newlyweds lol :)

[@MsJubjubbird]

Most costs go to food and drink these days though, which is unavoidable if you want to be a good host- although five course menus with caviar and french champagne are unnecessary. But most of the extras with the exception of maybe a good photographer for the memories and music source, are a waste and cone be done without or more cheaply. The money would be better spent on a honeymoon. Even with a big wedding I would not come close to what they spent on this.

[@MR-lq7ss]

That's what we did. Kept wedding to minimum and saved for honeymoon, apartment, furniture, etc. No regrets.

[@vanikaedward1793]

Not a single penny we took from our parents for our wedding am so proud of it.

[@ashley-cz1sl]

Wow this bride is out of control! The way she talks to people is so mean and rude. Her husband needs to run!

[@sherrichapple3087]

These people are adults, why aren’t they paying for their own wedding?

[@cabayern9416]

Spoiled Brat Syndrome.

[@fivemjs]

I didn't pay anything for our wedding. The parents did. Granted, we were 19 and 21 at the time....and that was 1999. :)

[@fcllc4217]

@@fivemjs Yeah but how much did they pay? It appears this woman wants her parents to take out a second mortgage, which is very unreasonable.

[@yvettewilliams4893]

EXACTLY!!!!

[@kolacic80]

They're not even the A in adult

[@mariag5756]

“It’s my money and I do what I want with it.” You damn right. I love the fact that the mother tells her like it is

[@dm5791]

Then her mum should get married lol. I agree the bride is a brat but her mum is too

[@ameliaforte5532]

@H she does work, it says she is a nurse, but she is a spoiled narcissist

[@juliettecannock8508]

Except she doesn't do what she wants with it, she totally gave in on the cake. $4k on a cake is obscene.

[@MsLiberty101]

Yes but she created this monster and 99% of the time the mother gives in.

[@MsLiberty101]

@@juliettecannock8508 at the end of this they broke down the spending & somehow the cake ended up being $5000. !!!

[@lynette599]

_OMW...Frank really walked into this future with his EYES WIDE OPEN...she showed him who she WAS, and he still went AHEAD....no sympathy for him from me._

[@katwil89]

I think she just wanted to spend for the sake of spending. It seemed like expensive was her only criteria and that feels quite disrespectful to her parents.

[@helenelapre3433]

I don’t understand how the groom is still attracted to her! Such a turn off when somebody is so greedy and selfish! And not even paying it herself!

[@offgridjack5779]

The bride and the groom need to GROW UP and pay for ALL of it themselves!!! If the groom was smart he'd run away!!!

[@LilFran379]

16 years ago my husband and I spent $1,000 and had a beautiful wedding with only close family and friends in attendance. I'm glad we both, to this day, live in reality and live according to what we can afford. I feel sorry for this couple because they are starting their marriage off being doomed to financial struggles....all due to their attitude towards money.

[@KayElayempea]

Current wedding budget estimates that you can find online are ridiculous! I don't remember our exact budget, it was between $1,000 and $2,000 with 200 guests. Our cake was a gift and I made my dress with help from my sisters which helped our budget.

[@jct4294]

That was 16 years ago though

[@maryharvey6909]

The outfit that her mom wanted in burgundy with rouching looked exactly like the table cloths the mother chose.

[@macaylareilly254]

She obviously planned it

[@glion7792]

Revenge!

[@clemons244]

Totally thought the same thing lol

[@jaybritton3287]

I thought the EXACT same thing! That’s so funny! 🤣

[@MsLiberty101]

I know this is a preference but burgundy is just an ugly color to me...

[@tashibalampkin8555]

10:07 That baker needs to sit the heck down with the mess. I don't eat philosophy. I eat cake.

[@KenGud]

Pretty sure if I talked to my mom this way she would take her money and make me pay for it all. 😂😅

[@stephaniebundrick8476]

I don’t care how fancy me and my fiancé’s wedding is, I just want the forever lasting love that’s suppose to be there when getting married. ❤️

[@ThisIsKassia]

The only things you get to keep after the day are the ring, the photos, and the video. And most importantly, the spouse! So those are the only things worth investing in. Investing in your spouse and marriage is the top priority, so you have the right idea!

[@ketolife591]

Frank should see red flags by the way his fiancé is acting before wedding

[@jenaicurry812]

She's a nurse I'm sure she makes a nice amount of money she should be paying for her own wedding!!

[@lauriesliz2731]

With her attitude, what is she like at the bedside? Just saying as a nurse myself?

[@jenaicurry812]

@@lauriesliz2731 I don't understand?

[@xwannabeetinkerbellx]

@@lauriesliz2731 they are the worst type of nurses

[@vanessawyndham8791]

I feel sorry for her patients and colleagues who have to deal with that witch.

[@jenaicurry812]

@@vanessawyndham8791 you and I both she is so ungrateful. If someone offers to pay for your wedding as expensive as weddings are the least she could’ve done was stay within the price range

[@NIkki-ox1ej]

And I’m not ashamed to say that we got the wedding dress on a clearance sale at David’s bridal, including the shoes, access and veil. Decorations came from: Dollar tree, 99 cents store and Michaels and Amazon. And people made awesome dishes for the wedding and brought it to the church, we gave them help as well for food and cake. So yeah, shout out to the budget stores and deals for helping me in this 💒 wedding day, this year will be 4 years

[@waterbird91]

I'm italian. I wouldn't think of my parents paying for a wedding. In Italy, she would be considered "ungrateful & spoiled". I have never ever encountered such lip from our family weddings. Ever. Humility is at a standstill in this video. She needs to be accepting of what the payers are willing. The mothers could simply present them a check for them to spend on their wedding. If they go over then SHE will pay for the excess in expenditure. She's appalling. Shameless spoiled brat " Italian bridezilla" . She shocks. She doesn't appreciate the parents offerings. She shocks, doesn't even remember her wedding after all that hoo haw. Geeze.

[@alzychoze6591]

She shocks because this is entertainment not real life. I cannot believe many Italian wives behave in this manner. Reasonableness does not draw crowds- unfortunately.

[@lindagracia7135]

If your adults you pay. She's truly a witch!!! She's indeed a pain in the but and it amazes me that woman like this find a husband. Grrrrr I just can't believe this is real...

[@gryffindorgeorgi]

That was exactly what I was thinking...

[@FoodieBeautyStan]

I don’t think that it is real. They definitely played it up for the camera.

[@macaylareilly254]

@Jess Stone yes

[@macaylareilly254]

@@sunshinendaisies1545 😂😂😂👀👀👀

[@andrelewis774]

If my in-laws had paid for our wedding all I would have done was say "yes I like that" or "no I don't " especially when someone else is paying. I can't stand spoiled adults. 🙄

[@wuncieadams2979]

The daughter should pay the difference between the 4K priced cake and the $800 dollars that the 2 mothers are willing to pay.

[@georgiasmith64]

I'm not paying 4k for a cake...where entimanns?

[@deborahmcgee7970]

You would want to be mad to pay that much for a cake 🎂

[@christinamenhennett]

$4k for a cake???? Oh my gosh!!! Mom made mine and it was beautiful!! The bride is spoiled!!!!! Mercy she is acting like a spoiled child!!

[@deborahmcgee7970]

@@christinamenhennett same here and like yours it was gorgeous tasted beautiful and looked beautiful. And meant so much more to me because my mother made it.

[@christinamenhennett]

@@deborahmcgee7970 definitely!!! My mother had never made anything but box cakes before. She was terrified she'd mess it up. It was gorgeous!

[@krullfamily5]

The bride is ridiculous! $4000 for a cake?!?! My parents gave us a set amount and any $ we didn’t spend they gave to us. Believe me we found ways to cut the budget.

[@Bebedollie]

That's a great idea

[@gladisfigueroa4242]

Hold up the bride can gets what she wants even if there’s no money but her fiancé wanted a car and there was no money???

[@ninahndz5880]

She is a pain in the butt! I couldn't imagine spending the rest of my life with a woman like that.

[@33tcamp]

Three comments: (1) The cheese wheel was my favorite part and I love the idea of a wedge of cheese and grater as wedding favors; (2) Groom's suit looked too big and baggy and for $1K, not a good value; and (3) $4,500 for the wedding planner was nowhere near enough money for dealing with that crowd

[@beastshawnee]

yep poor planner reallllly worked for his money!

[@hairproducts7637]

Thruth

[@hopehenderson1650]

That favour idea is so cool

[@katebailey1544]

Absolutely insane!!! I would NEVER pay anything close to that amount for a freaking wedding! The parents are nuts and the bride is despicable!!!

[@lyndelblevins4058]

My mom borrowed a dress from a girl we grew up with and my wedding didn't cost over 500.00 dollars and our wedding was beautiful this girl is totally insane and needs to wake up money isn't that important and my husband and I were happy

[@mrs.anonymous6291]

Please do updates on these couples please!!!!

[@mrs.anonymous6291]

OH also that venue Is a total nightmare, total rip-off machine!!! you have to pay for the linens????? Everything was included my Venue and it was one of the best weddings ever!!! I mean we had everything Champange fountains, ice sculpures, two hour cocktail hour, band and 8 hour open bar. There is a new scam that they close down the bar when they feel like it for a beak, BS on that!!!!

[@TobyTuesday]

Jamie is one unhappy girl- Unless she addresses her emotional voids- She is doomed for a life of Disappointments and Unfulfilled Expectations. Her family/ husband need to stop enabling her destructive behavior before they (ultimately) fall into ruin themselves…

[@vyvyangutierrez1]

$2000 for chocolate, $2000 for cheese… She is her mother’s daughter 😂🤣🤣 Dude… They could have combined their cheese and chocolate money and bought the $4000 cake! 😂

[@bettemarie622]

It’s hilarious how alike they all are- bride $3k for a chocalate sculpture, mom $2k for a cheese wheel, hubby $2k for a car rental 🤣

[@tashawilliams8093]

SMH

[@lvly5357]

It’s probably the whole “well .. she’s getting a $4k wedding cake… so $2k on cheese not too bad” thinking

[@JustMe-gs9xi]

$7,000. ?what did the whole thing cost????

[@bettemarie622]

@@JustMe-gs9xi I forget but something above $60k

[@heavenlymilano]

The whole thing just cost 89K.

[@Theoneandonly38dd]

Jaime is an only child spoiled brat! Her mother should be telling her, ELOPE, and forget the wedding unless YOU want to pay for all of it yourself!! END OF STORY! Further, I can't believe, after all this... FRANK EVEN MARRIED HER!!!!

[@DragonFruitDelish1]

Jaime thinks she is a diva. She’s ridiculously spoiled and wants the universe on a dime budget.

[@teriwilloughby4353]

My daughter and I worked out the budget. We shared the expenses 50/50. She's my only daughter and still had a beautiful wedding. That is respect. No arguments and so much fun!! Why act like a spoiled brat?

[@Galworld761]

My parents gave each like $15k in “help” and then stepped out of the way. That was all they were going to give and they could not care less about intervening.

[@andrelewis774]

Bride: "budgets are not set in stone". Mom who's paying: "mines is" ! 🤣🤣🤣

[@shastac1396]

The philosophy behind the cake?! That’s a new one.

[@chibirosequeen7855]

She is super entitled. She better be blessed that her mother is paying the wedding, otherwise she would not get the wedding she dreamed of. But c’mon, a wedding cake for $4,000? Are you kidding me? Im sure I can get a cake for $150 or $250. But $4,000? That’s like a down payment on a house or a car.

[@BadmintonBombshell]

$88 000 for one day!? That's a down payment on a house!!!

[@elainejones8334]

Wow, selfish is not the only word I can think of.

[@FairyChild_For_Freedom-Justice]

Once my daughter came to meet with the $4,000 wedding cake and telling me that that's what she wanted that's what she's getting and I had to pay for it right then and there is when I would tell her she's paying for the wedding herself

[@MsJubjubbird]

I've told my mother if I ever get married I am making my own cake. Sure it won't look like that but who cares. I've heard of a bridesmaid buying cake from the supermarket, sticking them together with icing and adding some dragees and iced flowers from the baking aisle, plus some real flowers from the garden. No one knew the difference

[@blockawocka4026]

@@MsJubjubbird lol people knew the difference but would not be rude while being guests and telling you that the cake has an industrial taste…

[@bobbie3359]

The way she pulls up her strapless gown is annoying and so inelegant🤦🏽‍♀️

[@rebeccacastro2525]

LOL That’s why I hate strapless dresses!

[@wendysteele4508]

That's a sign of an improperly fitted dress or one that needed more boning. Wedding dresses with any weight to them, when properly fitted at the waist don't slide down.

[@DellaZA]

The way she's doing it shows that she's really not properly trained on etiquette

[@lunareclipse3242]

I thought the exact same thing! I'm shocked that she only spent 1k on her dress

[@wendygillard2133]

I can’t believe Jamie is a nurse with such a narcissistic personality! Her incredible selfishness, grandiosity & total disregard of anyone else is unbelievable.

[@theywontknow710]

I have a daughter like this. She’s no longer a part of my life.

[@daisy9120]

Wow, if I were Frank, I would become a runaway groom!!

[@lynette599]

@39:15 _Frank: 'You made me happy Jaime'. Jaime: 'That's nice, dear'. - _*_The tone of their marriage for the rest of their lives right there._*

[@yvettewilliams4893]

Pretty much! I said that the wedding was what that silly person wanted, not so much Frank.....

[@Bee-ly4gx]

Yes, my thoughts exactly

[@karenosburn4381]

Same thought! ….and I’m stilllllllllll a spinster…..

[@naturalPaths]

I hope to goodness this is just as scripted as some of those house makeover shows! If I were the groom, I’d run!

[@marilyn3124]

Very fast& far away. Their is a pattern to women like this. Usually attract quiet,sweet, Intelligent,highlanders,don't like conflict or fighting over anything. Regardless of how unfair,costly, unfair it is. He has a lifetime of this behaviour times how many kids they have in future& yrs married.🙊🙈

[@marilyn3124]

High earners stupid autocorrect lol

[@naturalPaths]

@@marilyn3124 Interesting observation..

[@naturalPaths]

I know, right?! 😂

[@hanam3362]

I don't get it..its ur wedding ..why are the parents forking out for it? I always believe if the bride and groom want to marry one another and start a life together, they should start saving up for their own wedding and house.all these savings should come first before anything.

[@ashleysblues5284]

Why did the couple that had no wedding cake seem so much happier than the bridezilla couple, hmmm I wonder why?

[@carolmk3114]

The Mom keeps saying Jaime will love when she has already chosen something else. Jaime should have saved her own money if she wanted to make her own choices.

[@glion7792]

or dump that dumb mall candy table, and turd swirl sculpture for her pinned up table clothes and center pieces. Too much heavy food as well.

[@charmayneelliott2900]

88,000 wedding! I’d have a simple wedding and use the money for a down payment on a house instead of all that nonsense

[@jalvarez8052]

Hispanics make everything look expensive but we actually MAKE most of our de decorations. I don't know anyone that's spent over 30k for any wedding and we usually have around 600-1,000 ppl parties

[@hotbambi2010]

88,000 is that what she spent?? That's ridiculous she is so spoiled

[@hotbambi2010]

My thoughts exactly all that money just for stuff

[@nonacee5065]

That's what we did 47 years ago. It was either the grand ballroom and 200 people or deposit for house. Still together although caring for hubby with dementia now. The cost of the one day compared to a lifetime, no comparison. How often does one even look at the wedding photo album except for the one picture framed on the mantle?

[@vincenzolee6576]

The dress may have only cost 1,000 but what a place to pinch pennies. The dress didn’t fit. If it had been fitted properly it would not of required “hiking up”. The support would have been built in and it wouldn’t have budged.

[@debcollins8231]

So funny. The closer she got the cheaper the dress looked. I gave seen many brides who paid considerably less for their gowns that looked amazing

[@cindyholliman2575]

She was spoiled by her mother and now the mother must see what she created

[@lvly5357]

Not her saying “that’s nice dear” to him expressing his feelings to her .

[@saundrahonwytewalopez2286]

Dang our love was so pure, all we had was the rings, I had a blue and black velvet dress, and that’s it. Not, we were two young kids, 18 and 19, Said we’d do a full wedding in a year. That never happened. Going on 25 years of marriage and still waiting. Ha ha ha still love my man, more then ever before. He’s such a great man, provider and father.

[@yasminehayles692]

I am surprised that he still married her. She is so selfish.

[@flinryder7119]

If she wants it’s so much she should pay for it instead of getting her parents in debt so selfish And then has the audacity to tell her mum that she can’t spend twelve hundred on her own outfit… I can’t even cope with this bride aaaarrhhh 😮‍💨😭

[@mimievans8708]

It

[@63timeout]

@Jess Stone look no

[@elizabethgrogan8553]

They have American birth certificates and passports. They are American. The mother's should have given them the budgeted amount and just walked away. The daughter is hideos.

[@powerofknowledge7771]

People like her are an embarrassment to the rest of us Americans. She's an entitled brat!

[@celia61597]

They're Canadian.

[@wendysteele4508]

This is a Canadian show. A couple of the weddings in later seasons are in the US, but most you can tell are most likely not US.

[@powerofknowledge7771]

@@wendysteele4508 I must have missed that part. lol.

[@wendysteele4508]

@@powerofknowledge7771, I work in a bridal shop and planning my own wedding. Since I'm a little obsessed with all things wedding, I had a grand time watching the series on Amazon Prime. Some of the weddings are more modest, and the couples who stuck to their budgets had beautiful weddings (although usually a smaller guestlist than a 400 person gathering). I always smiled when a couple was like..."We are $363 dollars under budget" That said given that the show was shot around 2006...I keep telling myself the budgets are that high because it's Canadian dollars. Lol!

[@fergieingrid2521]

I love the relationship between the 2 mothers.

[@momsum]

U are right … That respect and care for each other are very much missing these days.. only show off or ego !!

[@ameliene6386]

her absolutely happy face when she said what the actual cost of the wedding was.. i fainted

[@purplepixie274]

I'm stunned how I'm still single and women like these actually find people who want to spend the rest of their lives together. I'm actually grateful I wasn't raised like this. If you've got this kind of money, fine, knock yourself out. But they don't. Edit : her mum and the bride are as bad as each other in terms of winding up and being confrontational.

[@Im_so_Retro85]

My thoughts exactly. I don't get it either. 😕

[@b1k2q34]

The daughter is far worse.

[@Grishhak]

The mothers are amazing XD XD XD They're right, 4k for a cake is expensive. 4k for a philosophy is batshit insane. 800 is good for a nice, tasty cake. The wedding planner, husband and both mothers seem very sensible.

[@happycook6737]

I would make my own wedding cake for under $100. 3 tier main cake with flat, double filled sheet cake for most guests.

[@ThisIsKassia]

I think I spent under $120 on cake, for 60 people. Thanks Costco!

[@tesslott8375]

I’m planning my wedding right now, and part of our decorations is pine cones from my yard 😂 I can’t imagine spending this much money to make something look gaudy

[@annetnedelec1313]

Loooovely. When someone says I want Graaaandiose, that spells tacky

[@JM-er2yl]

That cake guy is giving off serious Ron Jeremy vibes. Skeevy! The bride is obnoxious, but so is her mother. Going behind her daughter's back with the table linens and centerpieces + insisting on a $2K cheese wheel neither bride nor groom wanted after freaking about the cost of everything else is poor form.

[@lisasilver1032]

This girl is out of control the mother needs to say I'm giving you this amount of money whatever the cost beyond what I give you you will have to pay I bet bet there will be a lot less I want I want ‼️👑💰🤑