Growing Up in an Emotionally Abusive Household

[@trykarat]

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[@umbralxrose]

daily life of an asian

[@kedarshinde4216]

so fucking true man

[@cathy94333]

Yup My experience with my mom was that when I was 15 I had lost my math textbook and my mother assumed immediately that I was too busy wh*ring myself around. Mind you this I was a virgin, had decent grades, and a very quiet personality.

[@penthehuman]

very common and tough experience for a lot of young women❤

[@swatir.567]

Literally me.

[@LootandScoot]

I'm Scottish descent but I was born and raised in iittle Saigon all my friends are vietnamese and pretty much most of the women I have dated are vietnamese almost all have said there parents are emotionally closed off and abusive is it just really that common most of my friends parents are absolutely lovely though they're like parents to me as well guess we never really know what goes on behind closed doors

[@cathy94333]

If they didn't have to raise you then they don't have to think about all their hard times with you versus their own kids. Which they will literally bring up stuff before one is born.

[@rebeccachard5854]

Asian parents 😂😂😂

[@dXon_cic]

Pretty normal for Asian household

[@izzymee4551]

How do you get married unless you start off as girlfriend and boyfriend. How are you supposed to get to know that person before you get married? That doesn't even make sense. And after you get married to someone then does that mean you can have a boyfriend, as in CHEATING. Therefore making you a horrible person for cheating. Just saying ppl like that need to hear what they're saying cause it doesn't make sense

[@Skytumblesdown]

Simply if someone reaches u ask them it can only happen if u marry me if he was there just to timepass would obviously leave but who really wanted u would stay and will marry u no matter what the circumstances are

[@Introvertism563]

What you wrote here is such a privilege. My family is finding someone for me right now to get married to. WHILE I am saying, literally screaming, I am NOT ready. And this is how you get married even before you are gf -bf.

[@sirenmarissa]

@@Introvertism563 it’s not a privilege it’s common sense clearly your parents don’t have any and if you’re a child I’m so sorry for you but if you’re an adult what are you doing? Get the fuck out of there away from them bc they clearly don’t care if they are forcing you to marry when you aren’t ready

[@jacksonsilva4409]

My parents told my sister she couldn't have a boyfriend before she was 18. I remember like 2 weeks before she turned 18 she brought this guy home and he talked to my parents. Now they've been married for 15 years and have 2 kids. My sister never painted her hair pink or blue and started having sex with everyone. Life is the choices that we make.

[@diabolicalbussy]

​@@Skytumblesdown I had a stroke reading this.

[@chiarac2747]

When this type of ause is excuse by religion, it's ungortunately socially acceptable.

[@rainamarshall2890]

She just wanted you to get a girlfriend. 🤯Problem solved.

[@Mert-pd2ht]

Blabla 304 for the streets yo mama was right all along

[@jcla2540]

I pray one day you will understand she tried her best to raise you with what she had and what she was taught. And in return you are grateful for the sacrifices they made so you get to have a great life.

[@MrMagicRman]

lmao what a cunt, standing up for shit you have no idea about is such a weird stance. Newsflash, some parents suck. Whether they make money or not.

[@dazedgal]

You are wild as hell for this comment. Straight up invalidating her experience. Are you my mum?

[@HB-he2eh]

Adults know that the brain is not fully developed and makes kids vulnerable to bad decisions and getting distracted by relationships in high school. Teenagers think they know it all and parents are evil for protecting them.

[@HB-he2eh]

​ it's not invalidating, it is a different perspective to consider. Do you really feel parents don't want what is best for their children. It's common across many cultures, and their generation vs younger generations have different priorities, standards and expectations. Sex easily leads to teen pregnancies. It's not rocket science.

[@whyintheworldamiallowedsuc400]

@@HB-he2eh yeah, a parent calling their child a horrible person and giving them mental problems is wanting the best for them. 🤡 "Sex easily leads to teen pregnancies" unsafe sex can lead to ANY pregnancy, has nothing to do with teens. ANYONE that wants sex but not kids should be educated on safe sex so they can safely make decisions, rather than being oppressed on the topics so they lash out their pent up emotions and stupidly have unsafe sex that actually leads to teen pregnancy. as they say, strict overbearing parents only make kids that know how to sneak out and lie.

[@ctran1955]

Damn some of the comments not passing the vibe check

[@jennawebb2112]

Jesus loves you 🤍thank you for sharing

[@eb1634]

No.

[@duanadeem6506]

You don't need to date honestly. Once you meet the guy you think might be the one, get to know him and ask all the important questions that make the decision for you easy and just marry the guy. The relationship you build after marriage is a thousand times better than that before marriage because you are not emotionally getting hurt by someone who you will eventually break up with. You will feel more secure with your husband and you will both love each other more cause yoiu wont be comparing Him to all your exs and wont have unhealthy and unnecessary expectations of Him and vice versa.

[@deadpain2483]

What is a boyfriend to you? And why you need one when you can have a husband?

[@andrajurubitamarin5379]

Yes! She literaly cries cs she couldn't fk around In wt she calls a "healthy sex relationship " 🤦 omg ,imagine those parents of her seing this! She is a fking brat ! She calls out her mom for not letting her bcm a hoe! Omg,ungrateful kid!🤦😡

[@sirenmarissa]

It’s because you don’t wanna jump into marriage with legal binds if you don’t even love them or know them and I mean really know them. People normally show their true colors after a year or 9 months of dating that’s around the same time you find out if they’re really someone you want to spend the rest of your life with

[@girlbye4522]

​@@sirenmarissa facts

[@Skytumblesdown]

Girl she wanted u to get a husband who doesn't break ur heart who owns u not a boyfriend who can do breakup whenever he wanted she tried to raise ur standards but u were the one who wanted to be cheap understand ur parents

[@jacksonsilva4409]

Perfectly said

[@yass5615]

I don't think you really get it, if you go into marriage blindly, how will that ever be a healthy marriage? You need to get to know and love someone truly before you spend the rest of your life with them, it's a huge decision that shouldn't just be made like that.

[@kimipham]

Ok but does that justify making the child feel like a bad person? That’s called control, not love.

[@jebril]

​@@kimipham like literally in five years all of you are gonna change your tune and say you found God.