What an incredible empathetic man! I was honestly surprised that he started looking at polygamy from the woman's point of view and chose not to do it for that reason! Bravo! And kudos to you young man👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@jennaxoxox48213 ай бұрын
That is the double edged sword of groups that are extremely patriarchal. Distant and harsh fathers that leave the child raising to women can end up showing their sons exactly how women should not be treated.
@amypetra50213 ай бұрын
That young man probably should have a woman dna tested before he begins a relationship with her, just sayin’ 🤷🏻♀️
@heatherjackson25208 күн бұрын
@amypetra5021 what???
@amypetra50218 күн бұрын
@ they’re talking about possibly being closely related due to incest. In this instance, dna testing before marriage might be warranted. Common sense 🤷🏻♀️
@little.heathen3 ай бұрын
As the mother of a nonverbal, autistic son, the part about the boy with autism broke my heart 😞 i couldn't imagine treating my beautiful baby like that. The empathy you had for him is wonderful Joe, I'm truly sorry that you had to experience this but you're a magical soul with an amazing heart. Despite everything you've been through, you're still here and still shining. The type of person i would want to be friends with. Thank you for sharing with us 🖤
@tbella51863 ай бұрын
@@little.heathen Same, poor kids have no way out.
@lauraestrada72793 ай бұрын
As a behavioral therapist who lovingly works with her autistic kids as well as my lifetime commitment to the education and awareness of kids on the spectrum. Especially those who age out of services that should NEVER be stopped. I fight for the education and social services to put money into special needs programs as well as their caretakers and such. You are loved and hopefully supported mom. Always remember there are those of us who know how hard it is!!
@Raidersmama24893 ай бұрын
I couldn't agree more as a mother of a nonverbal autistic son he is my little Buddy and it is so heartbreaking to hear about an autistic child like that
@rockdocandlittlebird3 ай бұрын
Ditto. My little bird is on the spectrum, and I was nearly sobbing.
@byeblckbirdxx3 ай бұрын
Also, how do they expect any neurotypical child to hold still for (checks notes) STITCHES without pain management?? Let alone a child with sensory issues. Some of Daniel’s other kids have implied that he was a sadist and this story tracks
@kelliannawebb57383 ай бұрын
What a sweet man. His mother would be super proud of him. I hope he knows that! ❤
@JamilaJibril-e8h3 ай бұрын
Wealthy people love this bullshit especially if they have sickness In the Line family tree things
@katwitanruna3 ай бұрын
We need to normalize people expressing their emotions. Expressing your emotions doesn’t mean you’re out of control.
@ladyhagaming3 ай бұрын
or that one is weak, I think it takes a lot of strength and interspection also self-reflection
@GameChanger5973 ай бұрын
Well expressing your feelings could mean you're out of control. Of course not always but its not like it's impossible. However I think the worst one is when they say people who express their feelings are weak. This couldn't be further from the truth.
@theblondeone77713 ай бұрын
Especially men. It doesn’t make them less of a man to express your emotions and feelings. I hate that stereotype.
@rattgod3 ай бұрын
@@theblondeone7771I think it’s more so that a lot of men don’t know how to properly articulate and acknowledge their emotions, especially anger, frustration and anxiety. A lot of it manifests externally, it’s really sad a lot of males aren’t properly taught how to navigate the complex feelings they have.
@jhoughjr13 ай бұрын
Or noone cares about ur emotions they have shit to do.
@hmneill2 ай бұрын
“A confident girl is super cool” 😭😭😭 green flags all around. What a great guy, to come out of such a misogynistic system and have such an empathetic heart.
@steenabellew7999Ай бұрын
It makes me think his mom was amazing.
@rachelhansen24173 ай бұрын
I’m shocked at how insightful he was as a child! Recognizing the limitations of a child with autism, and the struggles of women in polygamy… it’s impressive!
@bottledutopia3 ай бұрын
When you grow up as the "sensitive" one it can be easy to try to become the opposite, especially when your peers see your emotions like a negative thing. To me it's clear that one of Joe's strengths lies in his care and love for others.
@sarahissersohn54953 ай бұрын
Or, just to protect yourself, bc feeling everyone’s everything can be INTENSE
@debbyfazfphotography3 ай бұрын
I absolutely love how thoughtfully and beautifully Joe shared his life's story. He is quite a gentleman. All the best to you, Joe! 🤩
@marymarmolejo65083 ай бұрын
What a well rounded gentleman he's wise beyond his years, sensitive, honest seems very happy within himself, great interview!
@laportera3 ай бұрын
Behind his smile I feel his sorrow. Such a strong sensitive person.
@Misty_Haze3 ай бұрын
Daniel's children could start their own channel.
@Valiant.Unicorn3 ай бұрын
💝
@tbella51863 ай бұрын
@@Misty_Haze Call it "Out of Order"!!!
@powderandpaint143 ай бұрын
Daniel's kids should start a lawsuit!
@thistles3 ай бұрын
Or football league
@Narangarath3 ай бұрын
Don't practically all of them (who are out) have their own channels already? 😂
@deannacaudill55153 ай бұрын
Joe your story on escaping polygamy is one I will always remember. As I watched I could just feel how emotionally raw everything was for you. You’d been holding on to all these emotions and experiences your whole life. I’m so glad you are out now and thriving, able to share your story. I can just see even now how huge your heart is Joe! Thank you for telling your story. I hope the leaders of this cult are soon brought to justice!
@karnmarriott23493 ай бұрын
This is the first time I've seen him since the show I feel so proud of him for doing great n not going back x Godbless you have a great year
@sandradubson20263 ай бұрын
His DMs are going to blow up! Such a cutie and genuine heart!
@Sherrylyn-xh5kq3 ай бұрын
What a wholesome son and man he is. He seems to have such a gentle soul. Bless his heart. Keep doing great things and being a loving soul.
@rochellemorris91723 ай бұрын
It is absolutely incredible that someone raised in a cult that would have empowered this idea of authority and entitlement over women's bodies and women's rights and children could still come out of it being such a wonderful and sensitive person and empathetic. I am just completely mind-blown thinking about how much strength it must have taken in order to still say as a man at 15 years old that you want to be with a confident woman and you don't want to practice polygamy even though that probably goes against what we would consider a man's nature. For him to be so sensitive to his mom's needs and his siblings needs and to take on this nurturing personality. Even though it was probably not taught to him because he was a boy is so impressive.
@Acalamity2 ай бұрын
Because THIS is his nature. He is just full of goodness through and through...
@rochellemorris91722 ай бұрын
@@Acalamity absolutely
@betsybabf7483 ай бұрын
One very surprising thing I have noticed about those from The Order is they all had horrible, unstable parenting with not much education, but I have yet to see any one of their generation who is not a very respectful, kind, smart individual. In spite of the poor upbringing they've had, Amanda, Joe, Val, Shanelle, Jessica, Andrea, etc. all grew up to be good, compassionate, level-headed adults which really speaks volumes about each of them as people.
@karinland85333 ай бұрын
Probably because the ones who ended in addiction and suicide can’t be interviewed
@heatherharper92093 ай бұрын
The traits you mentioned are common among those who leave high control groups. The inner strength and character required to give up everything you’ve ever known and loved can’t be overstated.
@TC-87893 ай бұрын
... And probably doesn't describe many that are still in the Order. There is also Respectability Politics, the art of looking decent and being sweet and not cussing... But thinking and saying awful things that are dismissed because you LOOK respectable.
@rebeccarittenhouse22033 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@bananewane14023 ай бұрын
survivorship bias
@syliadalth3 ай бұрын
What a brave and handsome guest! Thank you, again. Non- culty hugs from México :)
@kimalonzo33633 ай бұрын
I admire this guy's fearlessness and also his ability to have a sense of humor.
@min_tea_3 ай бұрын
Oh! Daniel’s son! You are brave and I appreciate you!
@Valiant.Unicorn3 ай бұрын
💝
@katieburnett24883 ай бұрын
❤
@seanhunter42973 ай бұрын
Why you calling him that? His "father" was evil. His mother was more of a parent & she was dying.
@samanthavandusen2 ай бұрын
He has a name...👀
@aceshigh51572 ай бұрын
i just had an epiphany when you guys reflected on the physical abuse "it's not productive, no value, doesn't teach the kid to do what's right.. and you're a big person, and this kid is 12, what's going on? it doesn't make sense... a failed attempt at being powerful and being in control and ruling with fear and pain." i wasn't really physically abused, but the verbal & emotional abuse was just awful. it was terrifying. it deeply wounded my soul. it's hard to not minimize verbal and emotional abuse.
@CultstoConsciousness2 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@IlanaElAvАй бұрын
This man is so impressive, so balanced and so emotionally intelligent. You seem like a great guy! If I were your parent I’d be so proud of you.
@adrienneharner1949Ай бұрын
I love this comment!
@tdsollog3 ай бұрын
Thank you for continuing to share your platform in a kind, compassionate way for survivors. These voices need to be heard!
@katwitanruna3 ай бұрын
Break the silence. Break the cycle.
@kathrynlabrujadelaplaya5083 ай бұрын
Break the silence break the cycle
@DeweyKnowaBitfromaByte3 ай бұрын
I always marvel at your born-in(to a cult) guests’ ability to discern their own true selves and access the inner courage needed to break out. Congratulations on your Freedom, Joe! 🗽 Shelise, you are a skilled and compassionate interviewer, and your laugh is so contagious!❤
@lau45453 ай бұрын
He is so sweet, he reminds me of my brother with his excitement talking about the magic & music, it's SO beautiful when people don't lose their ability to be super excited about something! ❤
@christyleitner59493 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear that today, do what you love! My business of locally grown flowers is a huge passion of mine. I absolutely love my job, even though some of my close family thinks it's just a hobby and I should get a real job. Thank you for encouraging me to keep doing what I love. ❤💐🌻
@debonaire72203 ай бұрын
I am so fed up with people telling me "get a proper job". I do rescued greyhound sitting in my home for adoptive parents.. Apparently.. it isn't a proper job.
@sandybowers50852 ай бұрын
@@debonaire7220 Your job is completely legitimate and so very noble❣️🥰Keep doing you!!! Maybe reach out to other dog rescues in your area to help you get more exposure on social media ❣️👍🏼🙏🏼Best wishes for you and praying for you and your rescue to thrive!!!
@kmariamv2 ай бұрын
@@debonaire7220as long as you can support yourself and are happy
@manarcabrera25283 ай бұрын
Continue to tell your story. I’m so sorry for all the suffering an abuse your mom experienced. Live your best life.
@theoriginalpandanon3 ай бұрын
It’s so wild that he has more siblings than I have acquaintances on fb. Wild.
@birdenthusiast20953 ай бұрын
I remember seeing this young man on Leaving Polygamy. I felt so bad for him. He was truly conflicted. So glad to see him looking well.
@clairemacauliffecarroll2633 ай бұрын
As a mom on the spectrum with my oldest also on the spectrum this broke my heart. Autistic people need additional protection and rights
@sarahissersohn54953 ай бұрын
Yes! I’m also a mom on the spectrum, and so is my kiddo - she has a much easier time w/ some things, than I do, but vice versa, as well.
@Arminius4203 ай бұрын
I was raised a Mormon than a Scientologist. My mind was broken until I turned 18, than I had to literally debug myself and learn how to speak with out using cult language, it was so embarrassing to look back at my formal self.
@annbond50403 ай бұрын
Please do not be embarrassed. You do the best you can with the knowledge you have at the time. God bless. 🙏💕
@tonihoban83503 ай бұрын
So happy for you, Joe! You are so strong and brave and you deserve a lifetime of happiness! ❤
@מאירבןלזר3 ай бұрын
It sounds like your mother was very hardworking A person who does not let his wife go to the doctor and tells her to fast instead of getting treatment should be arrested Thanks for sharing it was interesting
@debonaire72203 ай бұрын
I love the sticky taped pictures in the corner... lol Perfect example of not caring what others think... What an amazing man.. thank you.
@2degucitas3 ай бұрын
You look lovely in you Mormon non-approved top. Lol! You rock. I'd totally dance twice with this precious young man. He's a keeper!
@baileyb123bb3 ай бұрын
Your mom sounds like an amazing woman. I know how overworking and being overwhelmed can take a toll on mind and body. I wish she'd had a supportive partner that cared about the wellbeing of her and the kids.
@sarahkeppler80433 ай бұрын
Oh Joe... Daniel is the one who is weak! He hit children, he abused your mother and propably many more. You strength is shown in your understanding, your kindness and your love for your family! Your mom sounds like super woman and such a kind Person! She is so proud of you!❤
@aj2thamaxx7423 ай бұрын
38:46 including the abuse of young girls and women….I am equally disturbed by the fact that young men were pushed out of The Order without resources and some of them expected not to be partnered. That’s one of the great pillars of cult behavior at work: control people’s access to sex and resources.
@kcstill31083 ай бұрын
Joe, your experience with your mom, your empathy for your siblings, your compassion…… you are truly an amazing person. I hope to meet you someday. In the meantime, I wish you only good things from now on. ❤
@twinmomcan3 ай бұрын
Could he be any sweeter? Love your story Joe. You're a truly compassionate and lovely young man. Wishing you so much happiness.
@torchjenkins61582 ай бұрын
He seems like a really genuine and sweet person. It makes me so sad when he awkward laughs about horrible stories. 😢
@elin29623 ай бұрын
Oh what a sweetheart Joe seems to be!😊 And as always such a intressing story. Even tho there are so much hurt in the stories they are also filled with hope and love❤ I love this channel and the guests on it❤❤❤
@heidi1903 ай бұрын
Showing courage to speak up and break the silence of hush hush cults
@jennamillerhernandez83043 ай бұрын
He seems to have such a genuine spirit and kind soul 😊
@TheShadowChesireCat3 ай бұрын
I've been watching this channel a lot lately, and I have to say, as a DV survivor who's abuser seemed pretty set on doing the whole "barefoot, always pregnant, no rights, live in the middle of nowhere in a log cabin" thing to me, I always appreciate stories of healing from DV and high demand group abuse (cause I know my ex would have made it like a polygamy cult because he was an awful person who wanted to sleep around without consequences). I hope everyone can heal from the pain given to them by others.
@sandybowers50852 ай бұрын
This type of abuse is so prevalent in the United States!!! More so in the FLDS and the strictest Amish communities. But also in the FBC and JW’s, Scientologists and a plethora of others😢💔I’ve experienced this first hand in the IBLP cult that infiltrated my small FDB church! No polygamy but definitely husband in charge, women submit (or get hit,imho).Birth control is a sin, mothers must stay at home, and homeschooling was a must‼️Modesty was a huge thing!!! I felt like a black sheep the whole time I was there. Hell on earth. So grateful to be out of there. ❤
@michellekirwan-woods76233 ай бұрын
"She had a picture of Jesus in her room and I left. 🤣 ❤️ Considering everything he went through I completely understand.
@electra4243 ай бұрын
Joe you are such a sweetheart! The fact that you were born and raised in a culture that gave you, as a man, all the power, but seeing the way the women in your life were being treated was enough to shake you out of the beliefs you were entrenched in from birth is remarkable and shows the strength of your character. Thank you so much for sharing your story 💜
@monta46213 ай бұрын
I saw him in a documentary when he was younger he looks good very proud of him ❤️
@thegoat5493 ай бұрын
What documentary?
@monta46213 ай бұрын
@@thegoat549 I tried to look for it but I can't find it
@MarkLee-dc2sl3 ай бұрын
Are you talking about Escaping Polygamy? He was on that.
@thegreatcatcuss3 ай бұрын
He looks so kind and thoughtful! And your job at interviewing is still impeccable.
@cindyshilanskis85033 ай бұрын
Great episode! Indeed, freedom is the most important thing. Thank you 😘
@cspan17123 ай бұрын
Joe's advice at the end really spoke to me. The way he says things in such a matter of fact way without dismissing that it's not always going to be easy... it didn't feel how most generalized life advice can feel sometimes but instead it extended understanding and encouragement. And he does so in such a calming way that really, for me anyway, grounded me. Things in life are hard and scary but do it anyway because the pay off will be worth it. Thanks, Joe, I actually really needed to hear that right now 👏
@michellesillery20983 ай бұрын
What a well adjusted beautiful person. Was great listening to this chat and even though he must have witnessed some horrible things he was such a kind hearted and sweet person
@michellesillery20983 ай бұрын
Well done Joe, I wish you all the very best. Shalise I love your show and your gentle and respectful manner in which you relate to and question your guests. I love how you laugh at ridiculous things in a gentle way
@jessenashvillejames1503 ай бұрын
What a Great, Kind and Gentle person...
@whiteroses473 ай бұрын
Joe is a gentle soul, and the thought of what he went through along with his siblings, more importantly, what his mother went through all those years, including her bout with cancer, breaks my heart. She was a selfless, amazing woman. I'm glad that Joe got out of that cult. I pray that more will come to their senses and hightail it out of there!
@HobbieGardenGirl3 ай бұрын
Thats beautiful- that he wanted a romantic relationship with a girl, not just the physical. That he observed that at a fairly young age.
@betsymacias3003 ай бұрын
Dear Joe - thank you soooo much for your courage to share your journey out of trauma and into freedom - so very, very well done. Thank you, Shelise!! From the perspective of a "God-Mom" to many youth, Joe, please know how proud I am of you for having a voice, being willing to walk in truth and having the strength of sensitivity and compassion. I HONOR YOU, JOE!!! May your life be above and beyond all that you can ask, think or imagine!! Betsy in San Diego : )
@sarahissersohn54953 ай бұрын
💜⚡️
@louleg232 ай бұрын
What a fascinating and illuminating interview! Joe has so much natural empathy and self-awareness - a great man and lovely person. His mother would be proud.
@kimalonzo33633 ай бұрын
Chillest guy I've ever seen.
@cheryleaston68203 ай бұрын
What a great guy. My only question is why is Daniel not on jail. He is a horrible man who treated his " wives" like slaves. And God knows what he did to underaged girls. He shows a lack of empathy because ot was never around him. Im sure it's there he just isn't able to tap into it.
@miglek96133 ай бұрын
Because the one time he actually committed a crime that left obvious evidence one of the wives pretended to have done it and went to prison in order to save his ass
@ManiyaVinas3 ай бұрын
@@miglek9613 dmb women gene and rpist male genes go hand in hand
@philima3 ай бұрын
Nope, some people are incapable of empathy. You don't even need to see it to develop some sense of moral and D. (ain't worth it typing that one out) is obviously a psycho.
@prinsespluis3 ай бұрын
Why didn't Daniel get sentenced for polygamy? Because it's locally tolerated in the areas where this cult functions. Another reason why he should be prosecuted: child labour! This interviewee held a job at the age of 8 or 9.
@joyful_tanya3 ай бұрын
Under "freedom of religion". Seriously. Unfortunately. 🥺
@RobertaReal79803 ай бұрын
What are these men doing with all the money they collect? It's not spent on the family.
@aasiyapowell8753 ай бұрын
The Order underwent an expansion in business during the '90s. They bought at least one medium-sized business in the Salt Lake Valley.
@jcg030023 ай бұрын
Some of them buy random crap ,like Star wars figurines, while their families starve.
@RobertaReal79803 ай бұрын
@@jcg03002 that's really gross.
@catlover22233 ай бұрын
@@jcg03002 Man children! 🤢
@Sophya72 күн бұрын
Amanda said they buy halloween costumes worth 6k and stupid stuffs like that They are giant men children
@KarenMcAda3 ай бұрын
The story about the poor little boy with autism had me in tears. 😢 Joe, you’re so brave, kind, and adorable. What a great individual. Thank you for your story.
@tia-flame3 ай бұрын
Mad respect. For this young man’s attitude & joy of life. Thank you for sharing!
@jackintheboxhater2223 ай бұрын
You can see the kindness in his eyes
@mattskustomkreations3 ай бұрын
When your family tree is a wreath. So sad. I’m so grateful I call my dad Dad.
@Valorie_in_the_kitchen3 ай бұрын
What a wonderful young man. Thank you for this interview 😊
@lj95243 ай бұрын
Joe, thank you for sharing your experiences with us. You are making a difference in people’s lives. I wish you nothing but all the best of life💕
@marysears45453 ай бұрын
May you continue to grow and mature and live up to the full potential that Almighty God desires for you. Your openness was very refreshing.
@amylou22snowhite3 ай бұрын
Walking out over a picture of Jesus was a straight gangster move. Sir, I salute you.
@SquirreleLIV2 ай бұрын
Nah that was stupid.
@fifinoir3 ай бұрын
As a perfectionist I really needed to hear "do what you want to do and don't care if you're bad at it." Wise words. Thank you Joe x
@gillianbennett45183 ай бұрын
Love your soft gentle live and let live attitude to life. A big gentle cuddly teddy bear. Thank you so much for being you
@jnice62633 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness I like his personality 😂❤❤
@chanteljensen94753 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story! I didn't grow up in a cult but did grow up with a single mother who has mental health issues and extremely delusional thinking that lead to multiple forms of abuse. I left at 15 and still even at 30 I find myself having issues dealing with healthy relationships and my own mental health. I married a man who is suppotive and tries to understand and help me when I need it. I'm sure you will get there too if it's something you want. Don't give up!
@Hedwig-gj2di3 ай бұрын
Joe, I think your mom would be SO PROUD OF YOU!
@jillhughes90093 ай бұрын
Great job telling your story! Dont ever stop
@jjbee25743 ай бұрын
So much like his big brother Nephi 💕 I hope you will have a long and beautiful life Joe.
@May525253 ай бұрын
Joe!!! I saw a documentary on your experience leaving and escaping many years ago! It was on Vice and I always wondered if you were ok!! I'm so glad to see you alive and well. I'm so sorry for what you've gone through but I'm glad you're speaking out. Your story is and has helped many people. Please continue to stay well! 🙏🏾 ❤
@AlleyCatInks3 ай бұрын
Kudos to you Joe! This is so difficult to talk about, I’m glad you did though! You’re helping more people than you realize! ❤ keep up the great work, we’re all rooting for you!
@sally44663 ай бұрын
What a fantastic interview! I love his humor and humanity in discussing such a high demand belief system! ❤
@kathyk-h-w18743 ай бұрын
I want to say that this young lady is an awesome interviewer! Articulate, elicits a lot of information -- yet with great pacing, timing, and not rushing her guest. Very refreshing style 🙂👍
@CultstoConsciousness3 ай бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@elizabethj44503 ай бұрын
Every time I turn on this channel and hear "Daniel": 🤬
@jozsefizsak3 ай бұрын
Daniel is clearly a classic sociopath. He's an inverse role model and it breaks my heart to know that he had any contact with children, ever. On the upside, he clearly has some very nice ones!
@ellyne38633 ай бұрын
Joe, I have the same life philosophy as you - letting people do what they want, as long as they’re not hurting themselves or others. It’s been my motto when raising my kids as well, I’m letting them lead the way as far as their likes and dislikes and what they want to do ❤ best of luck to you!! 🥰
@katwitanruna3 ай бұрын
I’ve been through an operant conditioning class with a two year old who had Childhood Onset Bipolar Disorder and Asperger’s and ADD. But behaving like that with any child of any age who is having trouble holding still is ludicrous.
@sarahissersohn54953 ай бұрын
For anyone who is curious, I strongly encourage people to research Why (many) Autistic People Think ABA Is Abuse. (I am autistic, and even I didn’t understand, at first- I also had to research, to get a differently informed perspective)
@Adm9063 ай бұрын
I’ve seen so many videos of Joe, starting from when he had only just recently left. It makes me so happy to see him healthy and happy. Women are treated like chattel in these societies, it’s easy to forget what it does to the children that have to watch it happen ❤ Keep going Joe!
@margeryk0003 ай бұрын
What an amazing man! Best of luck in your future living your life.
@jaccaj16263 ай бұрын
Joe; I am so sorry you had to grow up like this and experience the things you did as a young person. I commend your courage and strength to take your life in a better direction. Thank you for sharing your story. Your voice may very well protect others from being in the situations you experienced.
@estopesto26472 ай бұрын
As a mother I would be beyond happy if my son turned out like you Joe. You're an incredible man with a heart of gold x
@thistles3 ай бұрын
Walking out on the Jesus pic is hilarious and relatable 😂
@rubyandbert3 ай бұрын
Another great guest! Have a great life, Joe!
@majesticsunshine113 ай бұрын
I so loved this episode! He seems like such a caring and mature young man! He will make it.
@cc-hk5ih3 ай бұрын
Such a lovely guy a real gentle man. It's amazing that he should turn out so well after his previous life experience. Great sense of humour and heart. I wish him well and hope he enjoys a free and happy life! I'm still amazed at the really lovely people who emerge from these cults despite the huge traumas etc that their upbringing had on them. My late Dad was a gentle, sensitive man which is something to be proud of not mocked. Making new friends building your own community is a huge challenge, especially if you are cut off from family. New people new family. And that is from someone not in a cult but who had to cut ties with some family members !!! And in mid life!! Great episode. cc
@kathycooper35942 ай бұрын
Thank you for opening up so honestly and openly with your like. I hope you find whatever you want in life.
@miraclenichols43322 ай бұрын
Just such an interesting perspective!!!! Was wonderful to listen to!!! As always your interview style is just Purrfect!!! You never push anyone you just encourage more dialogue ever so gently & you let people finish their thoughts!!!❤️💙
@sylc.6723 ай бұрын
Joe, thank you to you and all of the people who give voice to what goes on in groups like this. It takes incredible courage. Shelise, thank you for what you do here. Your work helped me begin to put the pieces together about my own family dynamic growing up (now 33, just realizing everything). The way you discuss patterns as well as specific events helped me to see more clearly. I'm at the beginning of deconstruction, working with my lovely trauma-informed therapist, and beginning to feel some hope that life won't always feel like this. Your channel and your advocacy are making such a difference for people. Thank you.
@michelepascoe60682 ай бұрын
You are both so lovely, after each having had a bad start. Best wishes for your success. Love your commitment to mental and emotional health and sharing your stories to help others.
@icobenayga98063 ай бұрын
Great interview. 👏 The point of not opening up to boys but being able to open up to girls, maybe it has to do with the bad relationship Joe had with his dad and the good relationship with his mother... You seem like you would be a great empathic dad. All the best to you🍀🍀🍀
@NabilYoussef-h7x15 күн бұрын
I love your smile and the way you are you interrogate your guests in a methodical way and to put them at ease to tell their story.
@livinglifemyway65112 ай бұрын
Awesome empathetic and inspirational young man! Don't let anyone take that away!
@alisonbufarale34062 ай бұрын
His voice change when he started to talk about his mom being sick, broke me. 😢😢😢😢
@rachelfisher59682 ай бұрын
What an incredible and honest young man. So wonderful to see his face light up when he talks about magic. Also loves that he so clearly spoke about being supported emotionally by the other Mormon family and how even once he was financially secure he still needed that. Knowing and understanding our needs and how to meet them is really such a key to a wonderful life. Thank you for sharing your story and your thoughts. I have learned so much.
@Zai.BАй бұрын
A very kind hearted man. You truly should be proud of yourself loved listening to your story. So incredibly inspiring and wonderful person. Thank you.