Growing up with an Unknown Syndrome (The Unique and Delightful Ruby)

Ruby lives with a syndrome so rare that doctors can’t diagnose it. She is in the sixth grade and feels all alone because there is nobody else like her. Ruby feels different than her peers, but just wants to make friends and fit in.
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[@pilarboutte392]

12 years old going on 25. She’s so articulate and well spoken. She has some major authenticity, beauty, depth, and compassion. Sad it’s so rare to find people with a character such as Ruby’s.

[@rosaaprophetessofchrist4610]

Absolutely 💞

[@classycouture]

Wonderfully written. Ruby is a beautiful young lady, with an amazing personality. I know she's a pleasure to have around. She's going to find her niche and be a success in life. A well balanced young lady ❤ keep up the good work!

[@ji1072]

I want to reach out and give support. So does my 15 yr old daughter too.

[@sakischatzikaleas7825]

Absolutely!

[@deannaray4837]

I agree Pilar Boutte!

[@lovethewordofgodjn321]

Ruby seems like she's way past her years. A highly intellectual person with a lot to offer.

[@MeritxellFarre]

She is definitely an old soul, she has that thing that is so precious that you forget she is only 12.

[@givemeahappyending]

@@MeritxellFarre absolutely!!

[@jackib8113]

Well spoken young lady. Very sweet

[@bernlin2000]

She has such a great speaking voice, definitely could be an actor, her sense of timing is fantastic.

[@adrianwillis66]

Almost like an old soul she was born to teach others something

[@catenystrom6506]

She's only 12?! She's SO intelligent and well spoken. Honestly, she understands the language of feelings, which is rare for a 12 yr old. Hold your head up high, Ruby, you're something special :)

[@sophiastrange2213]

This kid is the type of person I love for my children to be around because her presence produces character. I wish the children around her knew what they have in their midst because this girl should be invited to everything.

[@rickstebbens5135]

Amen to that.

[@c.hlorine]

Beautifully said.

[@Laura_G]

Ruby is so intelligent and perceptive. She is a remarkable girl. She will do great things in life.

[@mcstrakka]

100% she is a normal typical human being and full of great energy.

[@7somekindofsomething]

I can really see her doing amazing things in the world. Such a kind and intelligent mind.

[@bumblebaa2327]

I think she might have autism (the high intelligent kind, formerly known as Aspergers). I'm an aspie myself and something echoos hard. Or it could be she's been forced to think too much about social interactions at such a young age, just like aspies do. Either way she may be helped by some of the tools and approaches that work for us aspies :)

[@7somekindofsomething]

@@bumblebaa2327 she doesn’t show any signs of autism. Just because she’s intelligent. And they would have mentioned that.

[@bumblebaa2327]

@@7somekindofsomething Autism is very difficult to diagnose in intelligent girls. Whether social interactions come natural and are not thought-out is the determining factor. I do not know this for Ruby. Could be, could be not.

[@7somekindofsomething]

Honestly can’t believe she’s only twelve. She’s more articulate in expressing herself than many adults I know. And her questions. So clever. Ruby you could really go places in the world!

[@tonydalton4708]

She's very mature 👏 but she deserves to be a kid

[@AlexandraKamp]

Ruby is sooo smart and charming ♥️🧿♥️🧿♥️🧿♥️🧿♥️🧿

[@janewestcountry5131]

I agree completely !

[@nah6730]

@@kushking949 Who are you?

[@antoniajane5442]

@@kushking949 of course he is making money - it is his full time job. However, he gives these kids a platform to speak on.

[@maratb5291]

What a beautiful, eloquent, and caring young girl. She has more personality and depth of character than most adults.

[@kennie1814]

ruby is so incredibly charismatic and intelligent, i could listen to her talk for hours. the way she chooses her words so carefully give them such depth, and her ability to make you literally feel what she is feeling when she speaks is simply mesmerizing to me. what an incredible person!

[@gracielacomitini3384]

Que pena que por ignorancia la gente evalúe al otro solo por su apariencia ,se pierden de tener un encuentro desde el alma con ruby que es una persona muy especial inteligente, sensible y y con sentido común alguien muy querible

[@Rose7576_]

She talks a lot more maturely than most girls her age. She’s definitely going to go far in life.

[@BloxyMelonio]

is she that mature to mention it? i see this as a normal attitude for her age. now i’m just imagining how *immature* children must be is this is “ahead of her years” 😳

[@jordanwardan7588]

@@BloxyMelonio dawg shes literally 12!!!! when I was 12 I was crying because I got a haircutand people said I was mature for my age

[@user-kz2zq4kj6n]

Ruby isn't average, she is mega above average! A beautiful soul! I hope she is interviewed again in 10 years.

[@carissapaglino4591]

When she said “I’m not not an average girl”, I thought “no you’re not Ruby you’re above average”

[@paulalancaster1]

Whatever her "syndrome" is, it certainly includes precocious maturity, intelligence and worldly insight. What a delightful treasure of a girl!

[@tallicagirl]

The bond within this family is stunning.

[@IlanaTubiana]

But this bond is as it should be for every family and every one

[@MegnetaFusion]

I don’t remember myself being as intelligent as Ruby when I was 12. She’s obviously a very bright young girl with a great and promising future. Ruby rocks!

[@WCove99]

Agreed. Wow. Good for her!

[@kjpiper8398]

I agree 💯

[@bumblebaa2327]

I was. I later found out I have autism and just had to think a lot about friendships and social interactions pre-teens, just like Ruby. It doesn't help her social including, the intelligence. With me social interaction just didn't come natural, because of the autism. With Ruby it's because of how people treat her because of how she looks and probably her diverse daily energy level. Such a pity a good heart or a good brain doesn't help with this. What does help is finding friends over a common interest and also communicating over the internet, where your brain can shine and you can take your time to reply. I find lots of humour on the internet :) I hope Ruby does too.

[@DeMonotheist]

Experiences make people intelligent.

[@mationElit]

I don't think i'm that intelligent now to be honest and im 32. She is an amazing girl that will achieve great things!

[@katelyneldridge7481]

This girl is a adult stuck in a child’s body! Holy! She’s so smart and wise for her age!

[@bettyjean740]

I agree, Ruby may think that she looks different from others, but she is such a deep thinker, that is truely her differentness. She's empathetic and wise beyond her years. It will get better after middle school she is really atrong!

[@KG-wv9sg]

Wow, this unknown syndrome certainly hadn't affected her ability to communicate her feelings or her intelligence. What a beautifully spoken young lady.

[@Ruby-xk8kn]

She's only 12 oh my gosh she is so smart and wise beyond her years, she has such a wonderful brain you can tell she is a deep thinker, very introspective, she is going to achieve so much in life, she has so much to offer the world. 😊

[@McSuperRoy]

Agreed, she has an amazing aura about her

[@Shanban44]

So well spoken! I agree!

[@ophelian4646]

Yes, she's definitely going far in life. And with that family around only sky's the limit!

[@rachelgosney314]

That’s what I was thinking! Like, WOW!!

[@bigbodywhip]

thats what i was thinking, the word wise perfectly describes

[@Sorrely1]

Ruby needs to do some interviews on your channel Chris. She is so wise, such a great communicator and asks such good questions. You’re right this is a crazy world Ruby, which is why we need grounded, perceptive people like you in it.

[@gwendolynsinclair]

Awesome idea💡

[@kjpiper8398]

This is a great idea. Ruby would do fabulous interviewing Chris's guests.

[@LauraVogel731]

This is a e really cool idea

[@joytotheworld2100]

Yes. She would be great at Interviewing.

[@-MyNameIsPuppy-]

I agree...great idea!! She is wise beyond her years.....very intelligent!😁👍

[@kreese316]

Ruby seems like a deep thinker with a kind heart. I think she should write some of her thoughts, or maybe a book some day. If she is this bright at 12, imagine what she will be like as an adult? I'm so thankful that she is surrounded at home by people who love her.

[@Mina-px3zb]

probably one of my favorite interviews thus far. Ruby is incredible in every way. Very aware, intelligent, well spoken, funny and beautiful inside and out. She is far better than anyone at school i know that's for sure. She deserves so much and more

[@a.evelyn5498]

“You have to act not yourself to make other people happy.” That was a remarkably insightful comment about social media.

[@mon5845]

ABSOLUTELY! Such profound words !

[@DoctorSess]

This girl is wise beyond her years. We can all learn something from her!

[@cghynd]

I was just thinking the same thing! Definitely incredible insight!!!

[@victoriajohnson4420]

This has always been the way of the world, long before personal computers and social media. Social pressure to conform, and to be uplifting and pleasant is part of being human. Men especially have long been conditioned to hide their feelings and emotions.

[@squarepeg9546]

I love how she flipped the interview and asked Chris great questions that lead to a great discussion.

[@denisesurber8176]

I noticed that too. And it was a very insightful question. Her mind is amazing at her age.

[@danielam993]

I totally agree!

[@caityallen2998]

She really got him with that too?

[@rosaaprophetessofchrist4610]

Absolutely 🤗

[@MegaKitkat88]

Me too that bit was great she's very clever for her years

[@bradendash]

Grandmas energy is so lovely! What a fantastic soul

[@57msdeb]

This precious girl needs to go to a small private school where each child is known and appreciated. My grandchildren go to one and there are many kids with physical differences there. They are accepted and have friends. I hope Ruby finds her group so she can feel how great she is.

[@emdeejay7432]

Yea those cost a lot of money.

[@57msdeb]

@@emdeejay7432 there are scholarships available.

[@VelvetyMoon]

@@emdeejay7432Sometimes you can go for free or very discounted. But yes normally, very expensive.

[@Anotherhumanexisting]

lol private school like that traumatized me so much.

[@VelvetyMoon]

@@Anotherhumanexisting public school traumatized me so much

[@Lisa-pm3jp]

She's so well spoken for her age

[@nonniewatson4561]

Very much so 💜

[@lales5954]

She's a child?? She looks like an adult in the way she uses vocabulary. Absolutely lovely and sweet. ❤️

[@reekrodriqguez6552]

Physically a child, mentally on the verge of an adult

[@ashlouw5350]

She's the kind of child you can have an intelligent conversation with and you have to remind yourself she's just a child. Her abilities definitely overshadows her disabilities

[@ashlouw5350]

@@DevJonnyThank you, I have a son who's autistic and he's shown and taught me so much more.

[@pascal7357]

I’m 48 and if she could be my friend I would be proud. She and her family are amazing. Beautiful people. Hearts of gold.

[@pou618]

She's incredibly intelligent and wow is she expressive! Ruby anyone would be lucky to have you for a friend xo.

[@erichavenbass]

One of the most tragic aspects of this story is that because of people's attitudes, this beautiful and intelligent young lady has no idea just how amazing and special she is. Ruby is already an incredible person, and she is going to grow up to be an exceptional adult. Even back when I was her age, I would have gladly been friends with her. And not just because she might be "special" or "different", but because she is an awesome person.

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

Perfect. Her nature would have me try and be her friend.

[@melisamullins2405]

Right there with you on that one!!! I can’t imagine anyone not wanting to be her friend!!!

[@waynejenkins4110]

She knows

[@tylersays-]

Same!

[@globalwarmhugs7741]

She's strong.

[@danaezevely4150]

Ruby, I can only imagine wanting to be seen as an “average” 12 yr old girl, as you stated. But Ruby, there is nothing average about your great intelligence (socio-emotional, verbal, etc), the deep and unconditional love your family has for you, and the special relationships you’ve built with your family members. Nothing average at all. All extraordinary.

[@YvonneWilson312]

That's what I was thinking too - Ruby will never ve average for all of the reasons you describe. She is way above average!

[@Tarcisiobossi]

I really think that the fact of Ruby doesn`t heave any diagnosis yet, it`s because she is perfectly normal. She`s smart, very conscious about herself, with teenagers worries and wishes. That`s it. I really wish you the best Ruby. You heave a fan right here in Brazil.

[@GiveHope-tf5cz]

Dieses Mädchen ist so unglaublich weise und liebenswert. Unglaublich, dass sie 12 Jahre alt ist. Diese tiefgreifenden Gedanken kann kaum ein Erwachsener äußern. Ein tolles Mädchen. Ich wünsche ihr nur das Beste im Leben🥰

[@tarag4049]

When Ruby asked what Chris would say to someone who watched this video just to make fun of her, it really hit me how brave all these interviewees are to let themselves be vulnerable to this sometimes mean world of the internet. You’re an eloquent and wise person, Ruby. I wish this world could have been kinder to you so you didn’t have to grow up so fast. I’ll work hard to try and make that world possible for you and others.

[@derek_michael]

Well said, Tara.

[@imapisces1]

Tara, that was very kind and thoughtful of you to say. I'm right there with you to help pave the path for others like Ruby. This interview really touched me.

[@MalleableMetal1]

Yeah that really bothered me too and the whole feeling of not fitting in, yes it's normal that teenagers feel that way but this poor kid is probably so Amplified by the way people are judging her. Thinking that intellectually she has so many problems when really she's so so intelligent and has such Ducks. I think that kids her age might struggle to relate to her because she's ahead of them not behind I think they're misconstruing this by never giving her a chance and bothers me. I think it's really heartbreaking that so many of these kids bear their emotions and their souls in this interview and they feel like that it is really Brave to come forward and talk about it

[@ji1072]

That was a beautiful sentiment Tara! Do we know if she has social media? Or the mom?

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

@@MalleableMetal1 I think you are right.

[@gost2633]

She's going to grow up to be such a great woman.

[@kevinosalza8133]

I was going to write the same thing, then I saw your post. Shes a ray of sunshine and has a wonderful family.

[@alizaquintanilla]

I agree!

[@tattooedwitch7885]

I think Ruby's beautiful inside and out. She's an extremely smart soul, I feel it would be an honor to know her in person. She's intellectually brilliant!

[@hayleegraves1561]

Ruby is by far my favorite interview, I relate to her with her social situations even tho I am a abled person. She is definitely a tough chick!

[@unicornmadness6286]

Her family is just straight amazing, the young woman Ruby has become is a reflection of the family members that surround her. And let's not forget her brother. This entire family is just wonderful.♥️

[@rhondaqueen6408]

U r amazing

[@darleneeastman4121]

She has so much insight! At 83 I still can’t express myself like she does, an exceptional young lady!

[@jamesgomez9151]

I can’t express how much I agree with your comment. Ruby is truly exceptional.

[@ardaoguzhan8181]

Boomer

[@ukitakesephiroth186]

@@ardaoguzhan8181 Disrespectful. Get a life kid.

[@Kinypshun]

I just sent my email to Ruby. I'm speechless over how deeply this young lady thinks as a 12 year old. The term "old soul" comes to mind. I wish I could go back in time and be Ruby's friend. Chris, please follow up with Ruby with more videos in the future. I'm in love with the whole family.

[@emptyhanded79]

Same, here. They are really a phenomenal family.

[@lokallifestyle93]

I had the same thought about “old soul”. I teach 8th grade & for a 6th grader she is so wise & emotionally intelligent. Ruby, you are awesome & beautiful! 💕😊

[@MsGoldenSmiles]

Same! This is one amazing family.

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

@@MsGoldenSmiles Yes, even though they were challenged and concerned for Ruby when she was born, they stepped up and stayed positive and committed to her life. It didn't shatter the family, it strengthened it.

[@Jtdenver]

Such a beautiful family! Would love to follow them on TikTok or instagram to stay up to date with them

[@al_pal_]

She has a great personality and some seriously solid parents and grandparents.

[@user-yl9oo8re5z]

Подумала,склько любви я получила за мою жизнь.Почему я такая скупая сейчас.Надо исправляться.Спасибо вам!Ребятам и семьям Божьего благословения!🙏

[@nicolereiff7846]

When Ruby turns the questions on Chris and Chris knocks it out of the park with the truth! What it looks like when two wise people from different generations have a conversation ☺️

[@dewilew2137]

Seriously. I know adults who aren't half as introspective and emotionally intelligent as Ruby already is.

[@genesises]

@@dewilew2137 And many of those who are don't have the tools to even try confronting their problems!

[@adamdrotar7154]

Being 12 is such a tough time. Kids are really just starting to truly develop empathy and many haven’t yet. I know Ruby will find people her age that will invite her everywhere soon!

[@obnoxiousbluebird6634]

What a beautiful, mature, insightful, expressive, and heartbreakingly sad soul! I hope she finds what she's looking for, and gets to live her life with all confidence and hope she can handle, and all the happiness she deserves!

[@bekahe4433]

I don't know why this doesn't have more views. Ruby and her family are truly amazing! She's very mature and her family truly loves her and vice versa.

[@jungoogie]

Ruby is FAR more introspective than some full blown adults I've met. That lonely place will heal in time if she continues cultivating that great head on her shoulders and doesn't let the "ideals" of others weigh her down. If those around her can't see her, there are so many other's that will! Don't compromise your roots Ruby! You have some strong roots that will get you far.

[@hanbanan2251]

“What a world we’ve created!” “…It’s a weird one.” 😂😂😂 What a wonderful child. I love her smile. So incredibly smart. Doesn’t speak like any 6th grader I’ve ever met!

[@BBB-to4cc]

Right, she’s delightful to listen to! Like I think I would enjoy a podcast with just her commentary on the world haha

[@danielledrake2505]

Lol definitely not mine

[@zzevonplant]

Definitely, she's more mature and insightful than most people in their 20s nowadays.

[@missk9526]

I have a special needs daughter also . Rudy is so beautiful. I can relate to her mom when she said ruby taught me alot . My daughter Faith teaches me something new everyday and I love her so much. God bless Ruby and her family.

[@annaandre9131]

Watching this interview made me think that Ruby is gonna be fine! She's clever, well spoken and insightful. A very likeable girl! Another reminder that we shouldn't judge others by their appearance ❤️

[@pollypocket7125]

I think Ruby should try journaling about her feelings too. She is really intelligent and well spoken. What an awesome girl, I’d be her friend and I think she is super amazing!

[@jcb3259]

Same I would be her friend

[@troubletime8684]

Your as cute as your name 💕

[@CharGC123]

Ruby, I know when people judge you for your differences it hurts, but honestly, though no one ever wants to feel that pain, everybody does... for one reason or another. I got picked on because of my name, because I was a bit chubby, kind of quiet, and even because I was smart... some kids are just so insecure they have to bring others down to boost their sad little egos. I had a classmate who was physically beautiful but insecure and unfriendly, so had no real friends. I understand for you it may not feel this way but it isn't just what you look like, it's who you are that will make worthy friends. Your family is right, love yourself for who you are and don't worry about pleasing everybody or your differences ...the people who are worth your time will appreciate you for who you are, not just what your surface is! I just wanted to tell you if I wasn't old enough to be your grandmother I would love to be your friend! When we're young we want to be the clone of our peers, but when we are older, it's our differences that are so beautiful, and you certainly are, I think you are adorable and bright, and you should too!

[@Jazzy.girl.Sarah2023]

I want to be her friend, too.

[@sunflowerkisses6304]

She has a wonderful personality and intelligence, this is all I’m seeing

[@REDHORSE5541]

I totally agree!

[@beauoneill7010]

Ruby, I thimk you are very beautiful to look at. Your skin is lovely, your eyebrows are perfectly shaped, your hairline around your forehead is very flattering and your eyes are pretty. You are a natural beauty with dark rosy lips and your cheeks have a rosy glow that no make-up could create. I know that these things aren't supposed to be important but I want to tell you them anyway. I was very self conscious about my appearance when I was growing up. I focussed entirely on my differences and flaws. It was only when I was thirty years old that I learnt to love and appreciate the beauty within my appearance. Darling girl, you have so much beauty. Not only on the outside , but inside too. You, as a twelve year old, have more wisdom than I will ever be able to aspire to. I pray God's richest blessings for you and your wonderful mum, dad, brother and grandmother.

[@flopalong4524]

Ruby is such a joy to watch, and such an inspiration. The world is crying out for more sweeties like Ruby. Sending lots of love and best wishes your way Ruby. I'll be cheering you on from a distance.

[@belinda8192]

Ruby is so precious. She radiates beautiful energy, wisdom, and a profound way of thinking and expressing herself. Her family are all so lovely. Ruby should have absolutely no doubt as to how beautiful she is and what a privilege it must be for everyone who knows her to have her in their life - as I think is evident from watching her family members' interactions with her. I think SBSK is amazing and teaching the world about love and humanity and unity, no matter who we are or what challenges we face.

[@dewilew2137]

Ruby is just too precious. She's so introspective, emotionally intelligent, funny, and incredibly smart. Anyone would be SO lucky to have Ruby as a friend!

[@eggloria4371]

YESS! she’s a gem

[@Jimmystarr21]

She is way too smart to be 12. Well spoken, great demeanor, and honestly relatable

[@IcedDoubleYT]

Absolutely shes sunning for her age

[@kyliedusterhoft]

This was an emotional one for me. Remember Ruby is a normal girl who is intelligent, funny, thinks and feels the same as everyone else. She just looks different but should not be treated different. I gooe Ruby finds friends who appreciate her for who she is because she seems like an amazing little girl❤

[@foreverwantingpie]

Anyone would be lucky to be real friends with her. I'm so happy to see such a loving family

[@tdvwx7400]

Protect this girl at all costs, the world needs more people like Ruby. Kids can be horrible, but I'm sure that when she gets a little older she'll make great friendships.

[@shellyhopper2416]

Ruby is such an amazing person!! Beautiful inside and out!!

[@daynabee5521]

Ruby is extremely self aware and a deep thinker. She is loved so deeply and unconditionally.

[@johnsobs9579]

Hands down Ruby is my favorite person on the internet.

[@bamboo___]

ruby is very, very smart. love her and her little family.

[@allamaraine8066]

This child has got me crying. Ruby's got more heart, sense and thoughtfullness than people five times her age. What a beautiful person. You're amazing, kid!

[@gaeb-hd4lf]

Amen

[@sharonjoyce6964]

Ruby, you are an incredibly wise young lady. Your family and friends love and appreciate you so much. You have a beautiful soul and you've captured what is really important in this life. Thank you for being transparent, I admire your courage and between my many tears I've learned so much from you.

[@trevorloughlin1492]

@@sharonjoyce6964 I normally view these videos with detached scientific interest and believe gene editing will eventually reverse all genetic syndromes. But her personality activated my emotion chip.

[@grahamvandyke]

"You have to act not yourself just to make other people happy"- she just said the most poignantly accurate description of social media I have ever heard in my life. I love this girl!!

[@KindCountsDeb3773]

I hope she knows that she is Not the only young person who is awkward and has issues in school making friends. She's a rock star as far as I think !!! I'd be her friend if I was her age.

[@commandery3574]

i think this might be one of the most important videos i have ever watched in my life so far. i’m 25. ruby and her family are blessings on earth. truly incredible, i feel that this has touched my soul very deeply.

[@charlottealbanese136]

I could listen to her all day. She's so smart, intuitive, wise beyond her years, tough, fun, and so thankful and positive. I could definitely learn from her.

[@charleshoward5465]

I would be honored to call that girl my daughter. And when I was her age I had no friends of such quality. God bless her.

[@_corona_60]

What does "that" suppose to mean (not in a mean way)

[@janewestcountry5131]

Wonderful comment. She's a little star 🥰

[@Ssookawai]

@@_corona_60 just look at the overall message, it's a great one. We can use "that" for a person physically far from us, internet does make such testimonies available (watching this from Africa) but it doesn't erase the distance.

[@m.k.wallner3145]

I think Ruby is smart way beyond her years and I would not be surprised if I would read reports about her 20 years from now that state that she was saving lives as a surgeon, or transforming lives as a motivational speaker. Stay strong, Ruby, you are AWESOME!!!

[@highmanbeing1591]

my thoughts exactly!!!

[@ophelian4646]

My thoughts as well 💗

[@hannahrosa5485]

Anyone would be blessed to have Ruby for a forever friend. She's so warm and caring and bright.

[@dwellhouse4078]

Ruby! You are so beautiful on the inside and outside. You are so incredibly unique, intelligent, strong and adorable. Never stop being you, baby girl!

[@rachellauryn9547]

Everyone is so impressed with her maturity. I am amazed by her composure and attitude but I know sometimes mature kids have just had more life experience and faced hardships that hardened them. I was one of them. Ruby you’re an inspiration and I hope people can get past their prejudices and see you as the amazing person you are.

[@mayayallop-ryan5549]

yep i feel you on that one!

[@SARmedic18]

I can’t wait for her to meet all the people who are waiting for such an intelligent and evolved friend.

[@bernlin2000]

If she struggles now, she's going to be the most popular girl in college for sure 🙂 intelligence is particularly valued in higher education, and kids have matured into young adults that see past cosmetic nonsense.

[@ji1072]

She is awesome!

[@heidi710]

She seems so intelligent and smart and so many could learn so much from her, I wish her all the best in the world

[@hannewelter4302]

Ruby ist sehr intelligent. Ich wünschte, mehr Menschen wären so empathisch wie sie❤❤❤

[@cbjk2929]

She actually kinda took over his interview when she turned the questions back on him! She is such a great kid! Sometimes I wish we lived in a world that was blind. And it is only getting worse with social media. This girl will go far she is a sharp kid!

[@Dabestcryevar]

Wow, Ruby is extremely smart for her age. Her conversation with Chris felt like one between two adults.

[@edvela3865]

That’s exactly how I felt watching this. She’s so sincere, articulate and introspective.

[@-J80-]

Wishing the absolute best for Ruby. Her emotional intelligence is off the charts and she is so sharp. If she can get past these critical years growing up and find her inner confidence she will be able to accomplish so much in her life. Amazing person!

[@michellecatrambone9175]

So articulate. So smart so sweet. The future is bright for Ruby

[@katew.549]

Ruby is very intellgent. Her grandma is just.. so filled with love.

[@hayleybarron2277]

I know.... the love for ruby just radiated from her grandma. it's beautiful to see.

[@jenahklassen6882]

I hope when Ruby turns 18 there will be a follow up because she is going to do amazing things. What a wise young woman. And the love within this family, we could all be so lucky.

[@kat.699]

This little girl is wonderful and very well spoken. Wishing her lots of love and joy ❤

[@jmwjrsmom]

Her mom's face watching her daughter talk and how she tries to disassociate when it's too heartbreaking to hear. I can relate to that. So heartbreaking..I have so much empathy for her 💔

[@DoctorSess]

Blown away by her intelligence particularly emotional intelligence. She possesses an awareness and an eloquence that most do not, even if they’re “normal” and she is not. She may look different, she may be different, but she is beautiful. I think it’s also worth noting that even a lot of “normal” folks feel the same way she does. It’s perfectly normal to feel insecure, especially as a teenager (especially now a days with the illusory perception of beauty caused by social media and digital editing). Ruby is stronger and more beautiful than they will ever be.

[@StellaRaeVon]

💯💯

[@deannaray4837]

Well said ♥️

[@sarahvogelsang7555]

So well said!!!!

[@tiffanydivens6129]

OMG! My eyes are sweating! You can just feel the love the family has for Ruby! Her spunk and sense of humor is amazing!!! Ruby you made my day!

[@rosaaprophetessofchrist4610]

Absolutely you can 💞

[@allamaraine8066]

*Beautiful* family.

[@ezesosa8398]

"You can judge solely by how they speak to you, how they treat you, and the emotions they show towards you. Not by appearances."

[@silvialevi5311]

Those special children are the real future of our world, because they have so many more human qualities as a lot of people around.

[@girlnextdoor0703]

So impressed by this bright young lady. She’s a future writer with such a beautiful way of putting things.

[@isabellac1117]

I immediately thought she’ll write a book someday.

[@dloveliesmusic]

This young woman’s grace and intelligence touched my heart so deeply. Her empathy and depth are so inspiring. Her honesty and self awareness are truly beautiful. Ruby, you are so very lovely ♥️

[@aliciashanks5239]

Amen!

[@1love1hope1faith]

Yes well said! ❤️

[@gabbysalzarulo1291]

You worded my thoughts so well !

[@shanimarais9695]

What a beautiful, intelligent and humorous little girl! She's so mature and wise. She's definitely going to make a huge impact on this world. RUBY? YOU ARE PERFECT, MY SWEETHEART!!!

[@Alice-jt1cd]

What an amazing 12 year old. She is SO mature, with a depth one rarely can know. She is destine for greatness. Ruby, you will shine like your name.

[@UniquelyPenny]

Ruby has such a great head on her shoulders. We shouldn’t see past our differences, we can acknowledge them but we shouldn’t be excluded for our physical differences. She asked a LOT of great questions. I’d think she would make a great journalist. Edit: as I wrote this as I was watching. Some of what Ruby has I also have, including agenesis of the corpus callosum and a lipoma. I don’t have muscle on my left upper face so my left eye doesn’t really open, I use my cheek to open and close that eye.

[@SQUIRTGANG]

I like what you said about not seeing past differences, but to not exclude based upon those differences, that’s a really good way to put it Penny. Everyone has a story to tell and something to offer, and today you offered me some wisdom ✌🏻👍🏼

[@ashotoftequila3426]

well said love! ♥️

[@heidigone]

@@SQUIRTGANG I was reading through the comments, and they are all very good, but yours brought tears to my eyes. It was very touching.

[@dewilew2137]

You and Ruby are both lovely, kind and intelligent young ladies ♥️

[@NonBinaryMe]

I can see myself in Ruby. I also don’t know my diagnosis. I was tested for Down syndrome, Turner syndrome, Noonan syndrome, Sickler syndrome and Osteogenesis imperfecta but no. I’m now 48 and still don’t know my diagnosis. It’s hard not to fit in or have others who have the same diagnosis to share things with. Ruby you are such a clever girl and I hope for you to find lots of friends and I hope the doctors can find a diagnosis. To mom and dad - don’t give up. Keep searching. Lots of love from Denmark 🇩🇰

[@marjanf56]

elsamarie..you dont need a diagnosis..you are elsa..by the way i just heard your voice its stunning!

[@jameshoffman1018]

you most likely dont have down syndrome I knew a family friend that had it

[@autisticzuko2750]

You literally don't know anything about them. Not every person with DS is the same. Shame on you.

[@autisticzuko2750]

Diagnosis is needed for government assistance and accomodations in school.

[@irenebernardi703]

Up

[@monabrown5373]

Ruby is a strong young lady you are all so blessed, She will do wonderful things as she continues to grow I feel her strength and love , she's a blessing. ❤

[@GeorgiaPeach420]

Ruby is beautiful and Ruby is SMART!!!! She has more sense than a lot of other ppl I know or have come across... She has Compassion and a lot of heart! Truly God's child!

[@heatherslittebigmic9392]

....No way!!- She's 12?!? Ruby has more maturity in her than I have seen in most 20-something year olds!! I would be ABSOLUTELY honored to sit down and have a conversation with her. She is one lovely little girl who definitely doesn't act so little. She needs to be aware of how beautiful she is with that heart of gold she's got! Definitely sending an email to this precious soul as soon as I finish the video 🤗💞🙏🏼

[@linesmakeshapes]

I'm totally blown away...she has said some seriously beautiful things that will stick in my mind, like when she was describing how she wants people to understand what it's like to be her "not be inside my body but feel what hatred feels like"...and what an amazing amazing family she has!! ALSO it was so interesting when Ruby was asking Chris such introspective questions

[@RainaPants]

I cried when she said that! What an amazing, mature, person she is, and I feel truly awful that anyone, especially a child, knows what hatred feels like. Ugh. And, I was so impressed with her questions to Chris. So smart!

[@vjw5612]

I have no words for this wonderful bomded family.

[@deanncurtis381]

I love how she turned the tables on you and interviewed you. She is so smart and insightful ❤

[@hyperelliptik]

This is the channel I go to when I need to restore some of my faith in humanity. Just these videos and all these people sharing their perspective, that pure human-to-human interaction and care people can show each other, the kindness that exists in our core despite everything... It's a good reminder to not give up, it's inspiring and I bet all these people you've met have inspired others through your videos.

[@jodykidp5396]

@@kushking949 proove to me your data here is correct, if not shut it!

[@rabbit3212010]

I hope that the children at her school, in her neighborhood get see this AND their parents watch too!

[@ShyAnn291]

Yes they all should see this!

[@jackiewilhelm3266]

Such a old soul in this pre teen. She is so compassionate and caring for anyone who has grown up with a disability. Stay the sweet young lady you are now.

[@nicolerue8315]

So eloquent, self-reflective, thoughtful and emotionally intelligent. You are riveting, Ruby. Thank you