GRWM | How To Make A Guy Chase You

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[@float4046]

I'm claiming the mindset of " if you're not making my life any easier or if there's no positive uplifting from you being in it, then i see no reason for you to be around."

[@j.music1157]

Completely agree !! That’s why I don’t want to have contact with him anymore. He makes my life not easier, just more stressed bc of him

[@Lori.jane08]

Cloak

[@float4046]

@@Lori.jane08 whats that supposed to mean?

[@HeyitsDia08]

@@acryptotrader5926 what

[@mercedes-benzbentleyranger1070]

I like your way of thinking

[@connortmurphy]

As a guy... if the guy likes you he'll do the work to chase. Mostly its personality, looks and if he enjoys your conversations. If you date the guys you friendzoned... trust me they'll do their best to make you happy even if you're not attracted to them they'll put in the effort and sometimes guys in your friendzone make the best partners. :)

[@lummaaziz]

I agree!

[@R999soup]

One more very important thing, any guy will chase u to impress u initially bt once u r impressed nd get into the relationship, the initial things start fading away and the guy might change his decision also...so beware of that too

[@OmarAhmed-jo1cf]

Sorry , but this isn't always true . I'm a guy who loved a girl so deeply I was afraid to blow up the opportunity & didn't feel I was enough for her yet , that although I knew we are for each other my mind was too nervous in trying to make it perfect and that I needed to work on myself first .The pain of this love stayed with me for years , so please don't always assume that if the guy doesn't approach then he doesn't care , he may care too much to approach .

[@vivsmeliatz4397]

@@R999soup this is actually a double edged sword. I dont know either to show him Im also interested or just act normal and let him do the chasing until we feel its enough. I once dated a guy, he put lots of efforts in the beginning but when i gave in he lost interest.

[@R999soup]

@vits meliatz yeah this happend wid me too nd this has become very common these days...i find

[@jeemaarts]

i feel so warm after watching this. you’re like the older sister at a sleepover that always gives the best advice. i came from the break up documented video and subscribed and seeing you blossom into this confident woman who knows what she wants. i wanna grow up to be like you😭 thank you for inspiring me

[@lummaaziz]

I love this, and you so much!

[@lovelillysingh1230]

I think the main message of this video is that, KEEP YOUR GODDAMN SELF-RESPECT TOGETHER GIRLIES! Do NOT give your all to a man who is not ready to make you his gf.

[@simpforcee]

She genuinely sounds like such a sweet and polite person. I'd love her as a friend or my elder sister❤️

[@hi-ix2ps]

fr

[@charlieannamary]

I love how this isn't focusing on manipulating the man into a relationship or like tricking them into thinking your something your not. It's just healthy behaviour

[@charlottes6975]

you have absolutely no idea how much I needed to hear this. I am so so into this guy its embarrassing and was freaking out about what to do because he keeps letting me down emotionally and I know now that I need to just live my damn life and if he wants to be apart of that...boy better work but I'm not slowing down for him.

[@eeelizabethh95]

Period

[@sophiayef444]

Same exact thing for me

[@mahfugaparvin5121]

she is perfect ! she is beautiful both inside and out and is polite and relatable !!

[@lummaaziz]

Love this!

[@demi519]

she starts at 4:45 with advice :)

[@SonyaKhanOfficial]

Not all heroes wear capes!

[@achiengdeji]

Hehe😂

[@lifedeather]

How much time it takes girls to get to the point 😂

[@i.isabellaaaa]

i love u

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Be confident and independent. Show him that you have a fulfilling life of your own and don't need him to complete you. This will make him see you as a challenge and want to chase you.*

[@nihushii_luv]

I was hurting myself and now I am so ashamed of it that I gave too much effort to the guy who didn't even cared about my emotions and feelings

[@nihushii_luv]

@@wasapp9463 What message?

[@jahnvipassi]

You are so relatable I remember when I was dating my ex , we were texting and I suddenly disappeared for hours due to some work. When I finally texted him back , I said I'm sorry for disappearing while you were waiting the whole time, something urgent came up and from next time on I'll let you know how long will it take if I'm busy and he said no no that's not a problem you don't how much I love waiting for you especially when I don't even know when I'll hear from you again. And there has been many such instances with me, so I definitely believe men find it exciting to chase and that's their core nature. When we are too available we are actually trying to change his core nature and that's when things get messed up.

[@JonathanGarcia-hy8hd]

You’re such a comforting soul. I feel like I genuinely get to know you through your videos and they’ve definitely helped me through my breakup process, just want to say thank you for your vulnerability and honesty! Please don’t stop making videos like these 🤍

[@stropia1]

her energy and mindset >>> 💗

[@LemansSunset350]

You’re dating advice is on point and I’m in my 40s. you’re wise beyond your years. Smart lady!!!! You’ve got it!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@nandabguedes]

This is so much more wholesome than I expected, I actually feel beautiful hearing you say this stuff 🤧✨

[@malva5456]

The key here is to be happy, have your life, enjoy… and then a man will come into your life and say: she looks so happy, let me go ruin her life

[@whyjustwhy2168]

So right tho

[@iaf4454]

True

[@mirrorballinme744]

😂

[@prachikhanduri8251]

😂😂😂😂

[@aleeza9025]

ahhh I love her she explains this in such a simple but feminine wayyy 🙂🤍

[@darkknights6661]

i literally love your vibe girl, no matter what others say . your truly a gem out here💖. ILY❤

[@lyndsayrodriguez1962]

omg i loooove your energy. thank you for this queen🙏🏼🦋

[@lakenita2443]

Omg yes girl lol put the advice out there. Sometimes we girls do the dumbest unnecessary things for a guy's attention lol. Your tips advice and support is very kind and very helpful.... thank you God bless u 🙏 ❤️

[@melodyclementine]

I love her this video helped me so much already. I already feel better. im getting over a toxic relationship that lasted 2 years. we broke up two months ago. and I'm feeling a little better now. I dont want to put myself out there for awhile cause I wan to focus on sucess and myself but if someone comes around I know this advice will help. Especially since this helped me to understand that there will be someone who treats me right and I must wait and not put up with their crap because my worth. Thank you for this video I love you.

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

yeah yeah well someone who "treats you right" is a turn off its damn amazing how oblivious females are to their own feelings and nature

[@cydneylaren9746]

Omg gurl I love this so much, I’m so glad I watched this!! You’re energy is everything and keep being u girl! Thank you for this vid it’s so helpful & I like ur take on this topic ☺️💗✨

[@lemanerdogan8831]

I swear when I am watching your videos it's like a listening my best friend.... girl thank you for being real and keeping up real!!!!!!!!

[@yeahnah4303]

nah don't ever tell a guy what you want. It's giving them the blueprint to manipulate you!!

[@jrd_711]

Yes! And I think key is never get too comfortable on both sides. Embarrassing moments are what keeps a little spark. When everything always feels new, you'll always work hard to keep them! Never share too many thoughts together, obviously keep some to yourself. And learn to live without them. So in the end everything is gravy.

[@julesfamily3745]

The right guy will manipulate you the right guy won’t

[@ri7244]

right like especially if u are asking for the bare minimum like attention cmon girl wtf u doing!!

[@ithil-maril9141]

@@ri7244 exactly!

[@7uuaan]

if he tries then he stupid asf, i aint dumb to get manipulated tf

[@athenagriego4561]

Thank you! I needed this video and I will rewatch over and over again so that I do NOT forget!

[@xobbynov]

gosh you’re soooo stunning and glowy!!!! your makeup looks so pretty as well 💗💗

[@kristinej.4182]

Great advice and well taken! Love your energy and videos! 👍🏻💕💕💕💕

[@Tshanduko]

I have to agree with everything you said here. We must not be afraid of starting all over and we must never settle 💯 😉

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

Too late honey

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

Wtf your name's actually honey hahahaha

[@GnlBenjaminNiiKoteyNeequaye]

you are just right

[@amyoursafespace]

thank u for this video! youre so beautiful and everything u said was on spot! sending love xx🤍🥰

honestly, do what you love to do but you are GOR-GEOUS without the makeup too!! wow!

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Oh, am glad you are back

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You have become my best friend in my healing era. I just watched your 3 months breakup documented video and got so much motivation to feel I will be okay too.

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I loved it..... Every time she says " babygirl" like aaaaahhhhhhhh!!!! Yes.

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Happy to see you back queen. You are so cute ❤

[@lummaaziz]

Yay! Love you!

[@chillingout2690]

Lumma is my lil therapist! Love you girl! 😍😍❤❤

[@dagmarelize]

Girl you know what you are talking about. This is my new podcast right now ahaha. You have a beautiful voice and it’s nice to listen to your video’s❤❤

[@shaydarkbloom335]

That’s such good advice. I like how you said a girls gotta have standards and value herself. Thankx ❤~Subscribed

[@sayes2carrots]

This is so what I needed to hear thanks for this ❤

[@FatimaMD7]

You will be in vogue I promise queen 💗💗💗💗

[@wallacecortazar7924]

You’re literally so funny and have the best advice

[@paulinavlogs3693]

10:34 "You are not ROOM SERVICE...baby girl" 😂😂 very true tho.

[@life-yq7zp]

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Idk what’s better, the makeup or the advice 😍💜

[@mf4rosa]

Omg I’m a little late but I love your videos and especially this one🥹😩 I can totally see you pov🤭 thank you for blessing me wit your videos!!! Sending you kisses and wishes😌

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[@mehekkibria9377]

I didn’t know how much I needed this before I clicked.

[@baddieblanca8283]

Some big sister advice Right there❤❤❤love it .

[@gatestimonymiracle1302]

Yes I learned about dating multiple men. You are more at peace. I have two guys right now, currently looking for number 3

[@nanaabenadarkowaah1800]

How do you do it? Tips please.

[@halasmeddiary2379]

i love you Lumma. i just genuinely love you !

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[@jasminehurtado6613]

Love this and your positive mindset💖💖

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Jasmine...

[@ginmarie7674]

I feel like I'm getting ready to go out to a party with my best friend watching this video. ❤️

[@sk1984]

Thank you so much girl for this advice.

[@sris.5075]

Giirl youree amazing!! Love youu❤️❤️

[@LonghairlinaASMR]

you are such a queen ❤

[@thiee3394]

omg, i love your advice sm. Wish i had knew it soon 🥺

[@Alyjoyce]

I already have a man, but I’m here for the sister vibes and girl time! I love your energyyyy!

[@alisonalibongo3177]

Thank you for this. I have been single 7 years & 50 next year. Hope one day the right man will come along. your stunning

[@bebi6803]

Thank you for slapping reality into me ❤😂

[@ottomanpapyrus9365]

a right five across the eyes

[@camillabrandao_ads]

I needed this so much! Thank you

[@crystalalberto2230]

Too late I cleaned his studio apartment 😅😂 i know he’s not ready for relationship and I’m realizing that it’s him not me. This really help me want to move on more ❤thank you love 💕

[@Skylerdubbels]

when i say this was the PERFECT timing

[@lenawonderland8688]

Two words.Big sisterrrrrr❤❤❤ u go girl

[@leesanderson6885]

So needed to hear this ..awesome dates ..live apart....he even puts me on the train!! Not just dropped outside the station...but when part ..keeps in touch ..but giving crumbs. All energy to get together...is from me. Yep .having that chat soon...

[@g53611]

First time watching you and I love you

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Been waiting for your pep talk ❤ good to seeeeeee you again

[@barbararivera5160]

“This is not Build -A-Bear” 🤣 love it!

[@DesignDanielle]

Wish I knew all of these gems before I got into a relationship 3+ years ago

[@gigioso241]

Yessss!!! Thank you for the reminder! I AM the prize 😜🤗😄

[@ritejslim5859]

Her voice when she sing

[@blacksugar7773]

you literally look like a Disney Pixar animation, so pretty!

[@mysirenprincess]

coming back here bcs 5 months after the breakup and 2 months after watching your break up videos, I'm healed and need knowledge to get back into dating

[@oliviarose7045]

babe knew i needed this

[@mariarodriguez-williams7820]

💕 your video & channel. You gave the best advice!! 💛🧡

[@sabrinahsu9567]

"this is not build a bear" AHHAHAHA

[@catherineshines]

How to make a guy chase you: You chase you.

[@biancaumana7388]

Thanks girl like you have helped me make a boy chase and in my school there is like alot of like people liking each other and its hard to find someone to trust and to love when you know that a bunch of people like to play you ❤

[@j1nnienchrist]

Is it just this vid u watched that helped you?

[@GnlBenjaminNiiKoteyNeequaye]

Lumma keep up the good work!!

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Thank you I have been looking for this video since the summer of 2022 lol I just subscribed

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I love that robe omg

[@qlonoutlaw]

First Off, Luma U are like a big sister from amotha motha to me!! Second off, THIS was the video that I needed to watch, and Third, I just recently started watching your videos some weeks ago 🤍🤍 def loved your channel!

[@OpheliasAdvices-mp9km]

Thank you for the reminders! I swear the ‘don’t treat him like your bf’ hit me so hard lol, much required!

[@sivialove475]

NOT MISS CLOWNY FROM THE CHANCE OF MEATBALLS IM CRYINGGGG😭 but Fr girl you right. I needa make the guy work for it lol!!!

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SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO EXCITED😍😍😍 WATCHING YOUR VIDEO MAKES ME FEEL SOOO GOOD. THE BEST PICK ME UP

[@lummaaziz]

YAY

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One of the best vids I watched on here👏👏👏

[@Cristinashubin]

hehe, this is fire !!! girl this is amazing !!!

[@ellesyncronicious969]

Needed to be reminded of these things 💅🏻😘 God bless

[@emmaadkins3014]

you are so talented. I love your singing voice. it sounds beautiful.

[@MS-bn3rg]

I think "Why Men Love Bitches" is a good read related to this topic

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I LOVEEEE YOUR MAKEUP!!!!!

[@amansandhu4387]

ugh you’re gorgeous😭

[@mariyamshaukat1167]

I needed this badly

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I am one of the Asian girls. I really like watching your videos. Watching you, I increase self confident and self care. I am healing myself day by day. ❤ 🌎🌎🌎

[@conniethehoarder]

I love how your voice sounds!

[@prlncess4ever]

I like what you say about value yourself and not giving time unless they deserve it but i disagree about talking to multiple men. I believe it's amazing to focus on just 1 person and if it doesn't work then it doesn't if it works then that's a blessing

[@GadgetsGearCoffee]

I find until there is a commitment it's good to keep dating because you show up differently with everyone, less anxious for example. They sense it whether they know you're seeing a few people or not

[@tacobellemployee7819]

I enjoy talking to just one guy as well. It feels so draining talking to multiple, it ends up feeling like a chore to me. For me personally it feels wrong if I start talking to other guys 😭

[@prlncess4ever]

@GadgetsGearCoffee people aren't dumb, they know when you are dating multiple people and you will get dropped. Any guy that's okay with me dating multiple people I would question their intention with me, I wouldn't do it because I wouldn't want my partner to and it's worked amazing for me

[@prlncess4ever]

@@tacobellemployee7819 lol same, I have terrible focusing on someone other than myself

[@carladeprada5770]

Ive never really understood the concept of never settling for less than what you deserve, I was like yeah obvi, but didn't fully understand till now. thank you:))

[@shnookums5806]

I needed to hear this 🤌🏼

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i LOVE you lumma 💗💗💗