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[@TeaRenee]

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[@tanyaanderson8128]

Can you share what brush you used to put your concealer on? I really need it.

[@Kind28_]

Hey Tea, new subscriber, very first video I watch on your KZbin channel. Shout out to you for still giving him your energy because ALOT of women would of ghosted and blocked him for wanting to be on the phone for too long, that would be their 'ick' lol. He clearly has too much free time to want to be on the phone with you more and too eager to see you sooner, as a guy in my opinion he is doing way too much on the phone but it is your choice to continue with him or not. Good Luck!💯 I Really Enjoyed the video!! More Storytime!💯

[@Yannatalie1]

Men know what boundaries are. They make them all the time. They just don’t like it when boundaries are set against them

[@juleswifey6003]

this is so so so true

[@zqydust]

FRRR

[@destinyysantana]

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[@Goldgoodnesscan]

Him not respecting your boundaries by not accepting Friday as your only answer but kept trying is an indicator of the future. Good for you. Your head is on straight. Too many women are ending up dead or abused because they ignore the “little” things at first. Also as far as telling them about your job, just say you own your own company, and change the subject. Don’t stay in the phone with men all day long either. Especially at first. They will take all your time for no reason. ❤❤❤❤.

[@Goldgoodnesscan]

Also your intuition is on point! I’m in my 30s and it takes some of use forever to learn the things that you are picking up on. You rather be picky and wait longer than settle.

[@TeaRenee]

yes yes yessssss

[@toriyt2714]

I’d say free lancer. Just come up with a phrase that down plays it a little. Because what you do is not important early on. I’m a quality chemist that makes great money but when on a date I simply say I work in a lab and then talk about something else.

[@Goldgoodnesscan]

@@toriyt2714 oh that’s even better! A freelancer! Yes!

[@iAmCelineLois]

This!!!!💯

[@jpes905]

girl, i'm so glad you're listening to your instincts. its crazy how he feels entitled to your time within knowing you for ~2 weeks... possessiveness is such a red flag! stay safe beautiful!

[@samanthamiguel2971]

I thought you were Rihanna I got so darn excited!!!!

[@AnAdultKpopFan]

Girl the phone thing is definitely a valid red flag! I'm an introvert. I need my own time; I call it "me time". I don't always want to be talking to someone. The moment you said that he told you "oh we don't even have to talk!" I just KNEW he was not the one.

[@myesha874]

The part where you mentioned that he called you twice then sent you a mad face kinda scared me a little bit. It’s the small things that we have to pay attention to because the minor things can become major. Not all of the time but it happens. I know that you already know this but please be careful out here sis❤❤❤.

[@TeaRenee]

yessss im always taking mental notes bc that was a little over the top!

[@princess___dess]

Sameeee I would’ve blocked him. I don’t give my time to people who aren’t understanding of my schedule and boundaries.

[@Liaesbonita3.0]

Tbh after watching you for over a year I think we can all see how much more comfortable you’re getting with vlogging. I am so happy for your growth and love to keep supporting you as you flourish.🫶🏽

[@TeaRenee]

omg thank you for this I almost had a panic attack before posting so i really appreciate the reassurance, LOVE YOU

[@Khayran]

Wow, I would never know. You definitely seem more comfortable ​@@TeaRenee

[@kalina4999]

Being on the phone is low effort, and easy access for them. He was not for you ❤ he doesn’t understand that you want something real, and that takes time. People who want full access to you like that is just trying to love bomb you and make themselves the center of your life. The bad part is, they are quick to leave. Keep that rule until it’s serious 💕

[@bellarosa8594]

Exactly!!

[@AshlleighLynn]

Perfectly said.

[@doll9763]

Exactly

[@nzt338]

The guy with the texting while you’re sleeping (especially if it was super late),then calling multiple times, and the mad emoji is a BIG NO… he sounds controlling. Don’t ignore those things that seem minuscule, or lower your requirements to be accepting. As you said (and know), people pretend… especially in the beginning. I’m in my late 30’s and I’m afraid to get back out here because these men be tripping sometimes 😂

[@ShayBelladonna]

It sounds young too

[@Meghan144]

definitely the mad emoji from a stranger is actually worthy of a block ewww lol

[@jlynne_2423]

At 53 I am significantly older than you, but can honestly say I’ve experienced love bombing and the “it’s just a joke” thing at almost every age. The red flags list in your last video was like hearing my own list read back to me. Thank you for including that. It is so, so important for woman to stop ignoring red flags. Great couple of videos you’ve done here. Keep up the good work and stay safe out there. ☺️

[@lou15176]

Yes! The “it’s a joke” thing. If you don’t laugh along and sing to all their tunes and so called jokes, they start gaslighting you and insinuating that you are uptight or have some kind of problem. When in actual fact their jokes just aren’t funny. X

[@danelecarter8660]

Dude sounds possessive and def giving 🚩

[@julianaanorzaa]

I am so inspired whenever I see a woman do right by herself by being ‘strict’ as you call it. Don’t settle for things that bother you, no matter how little they seem.

[@tasnimahmed3710]

when you are firm with your boundaries it lets them know they cant mess about so definitely let them know when you feel uncomfortable or if you feel like you are being disrespected because narcissists or controlling people tend to be nicer in person in the beginning but their traits can show through in text so I'm glad you distanced yourself from him x

[@zhanenovell8873]

You’ve opened up so much and I love to see you be transparent, it’s refreshing. Your intuition picked up on the signs, trust that 💗

[@rhianoduntan1588]

its so good that ur learning from past experiences, so proud of you for setting those boundaries

[@pilkingtonp79]

100% you should travel. I went to Italy and Greece last summer and it was so amazing, inspiring, transformative…..so many things. I’m going to Iceland this summer. Traveling can be a little stressful, but not to the point that you shouldn’t go! You WILL NOT regret it. ❤

[@MonetAllDay]

I agree! Traveling cleanses your SOUL and really puts the world into perspective. It made me realize how many options I have in this life, that I don’t have to follow any rules. Italy is one of my favorite places! I’m looking to go back to Japan soon and then Germany after that. Safe travels to you! 🍻

[@Joliefleur31]

Just randomly watched this and wow I commend you on following your instincts and setting firm boundaries. Your energy and time are invaluable, never let a guy think he can just command you to be available for him. You absolutely did the right thing.

[@ivymerritt7577]

I don't want to sound paranoid, but being on the phone with someone and NOT talking sounds...off. Very, VERY off. I think you did the right thing by not continuing to date him. Great video, btw! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@kehindechidiebere]

Please don't date this guy! Hes obviously possessive and doesnt respect boundaries. If you keep communicating your boundaries and he dismisses them. He's definitely not worth it.

[@nicolehernandez6335]

First of all, I want to give you credit for being up front with him. I'm in my 40's and I WISH I learned how to communicate better with men. I settled so many times! Please continue to be you...Don't accept anything that you wouldn't want a younger female relative to accept! You're beautiful, intelligent, and you know what you want. Have fun girl❤❤

[@SameBrittDifferentDay]

First off, I'm loving these GRWM/Chat vlogs lately! Second: So proud of you for vocalizing your boundaries, regognizing they were being crossed, and moving on. I still have issues sometimes saying what i feel should be common sense😂. Last guy i was talking to always tried to make plans with me last minute. Even when I would tell him when I was free days or a week ahead of time, he'd still wait til the day of to ask me out. The last time he did that and I told him "No", without an explanation he just stopped reaching out 🤷🏽‍♀️. I thought maybe I shoulda said something. But it is what it is! Love you gworl! Just have fun and keep it pushing if you're not feeling it.

[@bigmich_]

Spain and Italy are both amaaaazing! Out of both countries, I preferred travel in Spain (Barcelona and Madrid) the most and I felt like it was easy since most signage is in both spanish and english. Italy is an incredibly charming and fun country (I've been to six cities and will be back in August) and Barcelona was a more relaxed and chill vibe with easy access to places to party. Overall, the transit system is soo much better in Europe (and I live in a major city in the US) and because the EU is a very transient place, it's set up well for travel - either train, flights, or bus. Uber is always accessible and I've even found it to be cheaper in Europe. Go!! You'd have an incredible time!

[@TeaRenee]

omgomgg this just made me wanna go even moreee, thanks for this❤️

[@iAmCelineLois]

Tea I totally understand wym when u we’re saying you don’t wanna be otp w/someone u just met… that’s sensible; like being otp anytime once we’re “serious” makes sense, but def not when we’re still getting to know each other…. So I personally think u did the right thing by distancing yourself after u noticed he wasn’t respecting your boundaries. ❤❤

[@supermodeljaz6829]

What do you do for a living? “I’m in media” is a great answer

[@simonedm111]

I agree to take things slow, get to know each other first. If they're pushing too hard, then it might not be worth it. Also, be careful about going to his place and meeting his friends too soon. This is coming from a place of experience. Long story short, the guy I was seeing several years ago tried to get me drunk so his friends could take advantage of me. Lucky for me I'm not a big drinker, so I came to my senses in time to get the hell out of there. So yeah, you're not overreacting at all. Too many women go through these things. Thanks for sharing.

[@bellarosa8594]

He's giving narc vibes!! The control over having access to you, ignoring the fact that you were working , desperate for your attention and validation answering his calls serves has validation in his mind that he comes first which boosts his ego , the love bombing is his way of getting you to seem him in high honor and become more open and vulnerable. You did the right thing girl and you have great boundaries to weed out the toxic and the narcissistic men who prey on independent confident women they LOVE a challenge to break down a woman who's everything they are not. Keep your distance from him!! You deserve so much better than that mess you and the right man will find you!!! A man that finds a wife finds a good thing! It your job to love on your self and stay open to love the right man will come when you least expect it!💕✨

[@maiasworlddd]

Girl the first red flag was him calling you twice and sending the mad face emoji…but I’m glad you got out

[@Dakia74]

This reminds me of my current situation a little. A co worker I've known for about 2 years finally got up the nerve to ask me out on a date. Now, I always knew he had his eyes on me but I always kept it short with him bc 1. Even though he's a "nice guy" he's not really my type. 2. He's displayed behavior patterns with other people that clearly shows he could be short tempered. I did make dinner plans with him bc my friends was like just give him a chance. I'm at the point in my life where if I'm getting the slightest sense of a bad vibe from you I'm not going to even entertain the situation so after careful consideration. I canceled the date and will not be rescheduling. Long story short go with your intuition. To me it seems like you were forcing yourself to try to give this guy a chance when he already "crossed boundaries" from the start.

[@lumen8039]

Omggggg! I’ve been to Mexico, Greece, and Italy. Some other places in Europe. My first trip alone outside of the States I landed in Berlin and ended In Greece. I LOVE LOVE LOVE. Traveling solo. Yes it was disorienting at first but my natural instincts turned on and also ppl/locals gravitate towards me so they make the trips so much more fulfilling. Mexico and Greece are my favorites. The people and cultures are so warm, they both love to party and eat good food. The last time I left Greece I cried bc it felt so much like home. Definitely take the leap and do the long plane ride to Europe. The great thing is that once you’re there all the countries are so close to each other and it’s easy to hope on a cheap flight or take a train ride through the countries. I also recommend trying to stay a month so the plane ride is worth it.

[@lr8093]

Driving crazy with you in the car, when they know you’re scared/uncomfortable, is an abuse tactic

[@yenyeennn]

I think you did a great job advocating for yourself and your boundaries. Its understandable if a part of you feels like you werent being communicative enough, but at the end of the day clear communication is one of the hardest skills to foster. You’re doing amazing sis🫶

[@kianaconley7]

I like your approach to dating! Take your time because I’m in the same boat. Never feel pressure to date or do anything you don’t wanna do ! 💕

[@LoveAvril167]

honestly i think you did a great job at communicating, plus it's always easier to see what u should/might've done differently after the situation. it looks like he was just purposefully misunderstanding ur boundaries, u did the right thing! also, i love your videos 💖 much love

[@nefertitixo]

Omg I’m the same way, meeting someone and if we have an amazing chemistry, I stop going on dates. Now I learn to always keep my options open, don’t rush myself and stand on my boundaries. Proud of you!

[@jubiterr]

Love the follow up. And I think you did well, you stood your ground.

[@kayydee159]

You did right!!! I learned to see the red flags rather small or big and my boundaries are MY boundaries.

[@thestrawberrigrl15]

Love these more personal videos! I’ve always enjoyed your beauty focused videos but I also love these sit-down chatty videos☺️

[@Cappazo]

I absolutely love your chit chats with us and advice absolutely love it and it helps me in a way.. ❤ I was wondering can you possible do a video like girl to girl advice on toxic relationships and red flags and dos and don’ts in a relationship by any chance? Ily ❤

[@ZurieRae]

I’m obsessed with the way to do your makeup. Girl! Stunning

[@raindeer-hm5ds]

I kinda feel like most guys r like this deep down even if they don't show it outside or at least the guys I knew before, they always want to be with their gf and to talk to them all the time. my bf is also like that, so in the beginning I was kinda in ur situation like I am busy and I don't have time for this and it is awkward but as time passed I started to realize that if feels really good to be wanted by my bf all the time and to be loved all the time and we have an amazing relaitonship together. and plus he is really possessive and practically told me to stop beings friends with other guys and I did actually cuz I liked him that much and thought that it is worth it. and I don't regret it one bit. it has been 1 year now yayyyy

[@NynZain]

Girl I just went through the makeup that you used and I’m so happy that you kept real and said some links give u profits. A lot of creators don’t. I also love your videos😍😍💕

[@Miss_Ella13]

I have to agree with exploring your options but the problem is I dont know where to meet them😭 I really dont want to go on Tinder because I’ve tried it before and it’s not for me☹️

[@SuperBabycakesz]

You did the right thing! I commented on your last video on what the last guy did to me. He kept moving fast and then switched up once he "got" me. He was a nasty person who wasn't serious in the end & thought he could try to keep me as a situationship. Always trust your instincts.

[@ShaDeGrate]

The mad emoji is a red flag. He literally wanted you to respond on his time

[@sneldagildarobert]

What??? This is the reason why this generation don’t live REAL relationships !

[@ShaDeGrate]

@@sneldagildarobert I said what I said! You don’t have to agree with it 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@sneldagildarobert]

@@ShaDeGrate what you have written is false ! You cannot judge anyone by his emojis because you can miss the best guys. To spot the good guys one date is not enough, one week of talks not too. I can understood that a guy was not good for the first date but what about her ? The best red flag is the person that said that he is single because the fault was only from the other person or people that they have dated were not good enough. In the story time I have just understand that she is not ready for a relationship because she was only speaking about her own feelings and not from the other guy. Relationship is not a question of experiences but knowledge. Today we can see that the people that fails having a good relationship or being single after 27/30/35 years are those having a lot of experience but no knowledge about women’ and men’ psychology/behaviour.

[@hurricanesweettea2149]

Shut up lmao ​@@sneldagildarobert

[@ShaneekaGreenfield]

I’m back dating after a 4.5 year relationship. A few things that are helping me is knowing what I want, setting boundaries and standing on it, and not ignoring the red flags. 🚩 Take your time. ❤

[@Bluewaters02448]

How quick he wanted to go even when you were apprehensive about it… he certainly had ulterior motives. Also don’t chase nor ever feel the need to provide any explanation other than you’re busy or don’t want to 💗.

[@ShaniceG]

Definitely go to Italy. Getting there isn’t bad. The flight is long, if you leave in the night it doesn’t feel as bad. I stayed in Florence and then visited some of the other cities. It was such a fun time. I hope you get to go 💕

[@Notaixhaa]

Honestly respect you so much for trusting your instincts and GIRLLLL stop saying “oh I shouldn’t have done that etc etc” 😡 you did right and you did good so

[@_caram_]

You did good. Stand your ground. Don't ignore small things, they can become bad quickly. Continue to take your time & trust your instincts. ❤️

[@teetee-zq3og]

This video was so entertaining 😂

[@TeaRenee]

haha thank youuu

[@diamonddeal837]

RED FLAG: Wants too much of your time, wants to create a false sense of closeness to make you fall faster. Take it from someone who is 31. He also has an anxious attachment style. No ma'am, keep those boundaries. Too soon for miscommunications.

[@Vibe.naya808]

I'm not going to stress myself out about a guy I just met. I'm not doing it, I'm not doing it. 😂❤ Type energy

[@Ohsomarisa]

I’m the exact way about the phone. I don’t see the point of being on the phone all the time or even texting allll day. I don’t even do that with family & friends unless we can only catch up over the phone or it’s something important that needs to be discussed. Other than that I don’t want to be on the phone lol

[@Ani___QB]

You handled that so well/gracefully! & I second you. 2016 was THE year/vibe, I miss it too.

[@March_13_18]

One day show on Netflix 🥰 beautiful story.

[@hlouise2698]

Love the consistent vids and vlogs sis. Beautiful as always ❤️

[@PaigeSamaroo]

Love your make-up it's so cute. As far as Mr.Dude, continue to go with your gut feelings. I truly believe that all experiences from your past is just a blueprint for how you should approach those same things differently in the future. From all the things you have mentioned, don't second guess your new approach to dating now. So proud of how far you've come

[@MysojuUpdates]

What shade of blush are you using?😍

[@Ang-yl6ob]

Tea! Blessing us on a Friday night ! Love this

[@shaylas410]

First of all. This is my first video I’ve seen of you and you are gorgeous, soothing voice and makeup so natural and pretty!! You have a new subscriber ❤❤❤

[@haderafilmon7792]

Your Voice is so calming ❤

[@DJEWELJAVA]

The makeup is flawless ❤

[@lillyharris4752]

your boundaries are so valid!! this phenomenon of acting like you’re in a relationship a week into talking is weird asf

[@LaceyS31]

Dude was way too pushy and needy. He needed to take cues from you and respect them. I was talking to a guy and we hadn't met yet, just phone calls and texts. He literally got upset because I wasn't texting him constantly one night even though he knew I was spending time with my family. Sir, who do you think you are???

[@Cookiedesigns254]

That’s how it starts with abusive men. They slowly isolate you from your friends and family. Please dash him to the trash love! 🚮

[@nancy_js]

I love your content ❤🎉….. I also kinda miss the sunday reset videos 😍❤️

[@maeva8586]

You inspire me so much 🫶🏾

[@TeaRenee]

awe i loveeee thank you

[@jotatierra]

Hey! I think you did well, and it's always best to communicate more if you think you can. But gurl, I'm so proud of you for standing firmly - I want to do better about that, slowing down. Good for you!💕

[@snal8073]

makeup onn pointtt

[@ninaedwards345]

I had that experience when I was with an older guy he wanted to be on the phone all the time everyday. I felt like he was tracking me to make sure I wasn’t out and then he’d go travel somewhere with his friends and I wouldn’t hear anything for weeks. Yea follow your instincts

[@jylee6745]

Your makeup is so pretty and gorgeous 💖

[@angelicagonzalez960]

13:16 I think in this day and age a lot of Men and Women meeting each other for dates, automatically are wired to think “it’s 2024 dating is a certain way”and if you think of dating differently, they get the wrong idea right off the bat. I agree with you that it all feels rushed and it just feels so good to take it down sooo many notches and just enjoy getting to know each other. It’s the way I think dating should be, getting to know each other as friends first. I was dating a guy who only went on dates once a month with me which I wasn’t mad about to be honest. But by the second date he had already asked me to be his Girlfriend😭 I was like I don’t know you though.. and he said he wanted to be together for that reason. So here’s where I think, if we are boyfriend and girlfriend he’s going to right away want to sleep together but if we just go out on dates I have a reason to say we’re not official but and I can also go on dates with other guys without having to sleep with them or kiss them. Just simply getting to know other people.* I don’t think they understand the difference between going out on dates openly and officially dating each other. And they get frustrated at the situation and think I just want to waste their time *when I very much told him since the beginning I just wanted to be friends first. I really like the way you express yourself keep doing you 😊❤🙌

[@dawnelise223]

Also, thank you so much for sharing your dating experience. I’m moving to a new city in June and I’m excited to start dating once I get settled in but I’m also aware that I have to be super careful 😩 seeing people share their experiences is helpful and gives me an idea of what to be on the lookout for. I can relate to just going with the first guy that you like. I used to do the same thing. I’m working on taking it slower now so kudos to you for doing the same!! My eyes got so big when you said the guy called you at night and was texting you sending mad face emojis 😂😂😂 red flag for sure good for you for taking note of that

[@staceyspencer8113]

that man sounds SCARY, glad you let it go!!! I went to Europe solo in 2022 and it was THE BEST!!! I was scared at first but honestly so fucking glad I did it. I went out of my comfort zone and met a lot of lovely people. highly recommend!!

[@undergroundsound7419]

😩the moment you mentioned Greece my heart skipped a beat. You are going to love the Islands this year, its always nice seeing more black tourists visiting Greece as a black person living here, they are just a vibeee, as for the phone calls i agree most people dont respect that boundary, i am not calls person either so i am trying to find to the balance of showing interest but also not give an impression to the girl i am playing hard to get, cause i am not 😭, boys like some loving to you know

[@chanaef.8189]

I visited Greece last September, my first solo trip ever. Loved it and want to go back! How long have you lived there? And how do you like some of the other islands? I stayed on Syros for the last leg of my trip, I didn’t want to do the usual Mykonos and Santorini.

[@undergroundsound7419]

@@chanaef.8189 I've lived here most of my life over 23 years here. I have personally never visited Mykonos or Santorini they are not really affordable for the wages we earn here in Greece, but I've really enjoyed my visits to Paros and Milos, especially Milos was quite cheap for me, Rhodes is another beautiful island, preferably going there by Air would be better, the ferry trip is quite long, I also believe Kerkira island to be quite underrated although I am Abit biased since I spent a good chunk of my childhood in a city very close to the island so we visited there often.

[@undergroundsound7419]

@@chanaef.8189 I've lived here most of life over 23 years, ive visited Mykonos once but the prices of everything were quite unaffordable for the wages we receive here in Greece so I tend to Milos or Zakynthos I really enjoyed my stay there, Syros Island is another nice spot had some amazing beaches. I've never been to Santorini last time I checked the prices for accommodation sent a shiver down my spine.

[@jimd230]

I love this makeup look! 😍 What shade of Patrick Ta blush did you use?

[@WacoBeautyQueen]

I did something similar when I first started to seriously date too. Especially when the conversations really flowed and such. But later on would find out in certain instances how my partner was selfish, insecure and just not a good person😅 you’re doing the right thing sis for sure, it’s not negativity it’s just caution since anyone cab pretend to be who they’re not nowadays…or you’re just waiting to get the full scope of who they are. Edit: I’ll admit tho that pushiness from him about seeing you earlier was a bit worrying, sometimes I feel like men do that to test how far they can push your boundaries. So it’s good that your cautious, he needs to respect your schedule.

[@shaymelodyxx09]

i loooove this type of vid i feel like we're best friends 🥰

[@imoleayoabdul402]

You’re so pretty it’s crazyyy

[@fireponyyy]

Lmao ew no the phone thing is weird and your position on it is so valid 💀💀💀 for him to say “we can just sit in the phone you don’t have to talk”. LIKE BRUH I’M BUSYYYY.

[@maryamrezaie2918]

can you please make a detailed makeup vid for this look? tysm :)

[@merisalvi3210]

A little shows you what a Lot will be like later ! End of ! Boundaries are a MUST from the begining !!!

[@valeriesantos8178]

Ol’ school saying, ppl take ‘kindness for weakness’. So in the very 1st date, it can be a cutesy… ‘So what’s ur pet peeve’ type of question. Then he’ll ask urs ;). If u let him know the results of disrespecting urs in the past, he’ll be more mindful of it… for a future w/u :) (If not, he’s an automatic red flag)

[@tomilolakolawole2371]

The finest girl on KZbin is here on my timeline agaaaainnnnnnn🤭

[@ayonahmarie]

I love the ft type videos🫶🏽 and I just put on ur show recommendation🤞🏽

[@TeaRenee]

thank you! & omg i hope you love ittt

[@annicanedean9180]

So pretty 😊😊😊 , what brushes do you use for what?

[@IniAjayu]

Heyy I was wondering what camera you use in your videos !!I love your videos❤

[@Yannii220]

Ok Walmart ima have to go cop , target taking all my money 😂❤

[@valeriesantos8178]

When u wanna see the ‘real’ person, go out w/them in group settings. Eventually they drop their guard, even if for a moment… here + there. If ur friends aren’t mutual friends, u’ll eventually get warnings (if they exist) from certain family members of his. Mine had a sister who saw him getting serious enough to wanna marry me, + she told me to be sure to get him ‘in check’ bc he always physically fought his sisters. Scared me bc it seemed as tho she didn’t wanna flat out say, he is physically abusive to females… which screams angry abusive personality. Turned out to be… true.

[@havparadise]

if he doesn't vibe with you being a content creator, he wasn't for you anyway. i def agree that you should be firmer in your boundaries! i hate when people feel entitled to my time. i value my alone time a lot

[@alexisrene5854]

Yeah 2016 was different

[@TeaRenee]

VERY

[@SocialChannelStudios]

Love how you apply your make up! Keep inspiring!

[@AnnaMapfumo]

The "God if this person isn't the person you have for me please remove them" always works... I've never been in an a relationship but God definitely answers that prayer be it friends or family members or someone u getting to know ❤❤

[@baseballchica1346]

It’s very stressful and confusing traveling to Europe LOL. I had a scary experience in Italy traveling alone, but it was my first trip out of the country and now I love solo trips. Travel is like nothing else, it’s so amazing. I say go for it! If you want to do something that’s a getaway but still domestic, try Hawaii. 🤗

[@kimiahhickss9187]

4 red flags run ! You are so right for standing in your boundaries, The right guy will not make you question, trust your gut

[@brownskingirly-z3f]

His intentions were definitely not good. He showed you it off the bat, take it as you saw it. 🤝🏽

[@chidalumormah1683]

I really relate to the phone thing omg

[@luckygirliie]

Omg your story definitely reminded me of a problem I had with this guy, that was my friend for 6 years, so yeah we were REALLY close friends and we were really pinning one each other but never at the same time. So then he got a boyfriend and I was okay with it because I didn’t like him at that time. Then he broke with him and like some months later I confessed to him and he also said he liked me so then we were talking more and seeing each other more often. The problem starts when I started to struggle with academic stuff and he didn’t leave me alone. He was TOO clingy, he would say stuff like “I’m so ugly” and “I don’t know why you like me” which made uncomfortable and know I think “why did I even like him in the first place??” So yeah, he didn’t respect my time and he would get so MAD when I didn’t respond to him quickly like I tried to explain to him my mom would ground me or I just didnt have a lot of time for my phone but he would get TOO dramatic. He would start spamming messages and one time even tried to show up to my house after when I told him I wasn’t even there🙄. Then the problem got too stressful for me because no matter how much I explained it to him he would starts saying “I’m so sorry it’s all my fault I won’t do it again” (spoiler: he lacked of self esteem) and I just didn’t like it because he apologized for EVERYTHING.. So then this problem happened, while I was struggling with him I also had a toxic friend who would help me out by giving me tips about what to do about him. But this one day she texts me saying she texted me asking him ALL about us?? And our “love story” which she made fun of and it wasn’t the first time she randomly texts someone i know saying lies about me and them. So I obviously had a fight with her and also him because he didn’t even know her and said “yeah we are together” and started saying Radom lies about me to her. She sent me screenshots so then I asked to him because in the first place why would he tell a stranger LIES about me?? He then later said “omg I’m so sorry I guess i trust too quickly people” 🤨 Anyways the real problem happens when he gives me a love letter saying how much he loved and how much he waited for me all these years. And it was really sweet but the thing I later told him I wasn’t feeling stable enough to have a relationship because of school. He took it okay but NOT EVEN A WEEK LATER HE GETS BACK WITH HIS EX😭😭 I was not even mad just disappointed. It really opened my eyes about how he can’t stand to be alone and how he will just take the first person who wants to be with him. So yeah, he then later apologized and I said okay and we finished in good terms. Which I WASNT😣… But thankfully now I just look back and say ew because he only caused me stress by making me think I was the rude one with him. Right now I unfollowed him because he started calling me “cute” nicknames and spammed me messages. And I just felt really uncomfortable with keeping that relationship. Thank god I’m not talking to him and my toxic friend 🙏🙏

[@boohoo827]

Where is your necklace from? It's so pretty!!

[@TeaRenee]

thanks! i got it from a farmers market and the seller didnt have a website :/

[@alexuz93]

I’m going to Italy this year and I’m so excited! I’m not going in the Summer though. I wanted to go when it wasn’t peak tourist season lol. I chose October. Weather is still nice before it gets super rainy. I’m so happy??

[@ebonylo.]

I recommend reading the book called "ho tactics" it taught me alot about men and relationships in general. Yes the name of the book is kinda eerie but it did help me alot

[@basradove8787]

oMG love this book as well as his site "Black girls are Easy"