Guys Talking About Relationships w/ Jackson Passaglia

[@molly-.]

i am now obsessed with this channel just because it’s so authentic and just feels like sitting down w friends n talking and somewhat comforting :)

[@m0rrk]

real

[@sbyl96]

RIGHTTT

[@carmenamy123]

So real

[@LivySoup]

Real

[@fercvallim]

when I had anthropology in my first year of college my professor gave us a seminary saying that this generation will go through a “loneliness epidemic” given the fact that people are often more focused in pursuing a good career and like saving money while they’re young and tend to care more about seeking a stable and lasting relationship when they’re older but usually what happens is that people get comfortable with being alone witch by itself is a good thing but with that comfort comes the fact that people would usually get stuck in the comfort zone and believe for a very long time that they enjoy being alone and living their lives in a routine that they’re already used to but the older we get more lonely someone who’s completely alone will feel he wrapped up talking about how humans are not made to be alone by themselves that is good to have alone time but the more we isolate ourselves the more dangerous it is both for the emotional and for the psychological it was pretty interesting and if you look around to people from a certain age to another it is pretty common to see that people are in a way actually choosing to be alone either by what they see in other people or due to the familiarity to their own routine idk in the end to me it all comes down to compatibility of life goals obviously feelings and attraction are very important things but I feel like if someone is looking for a life long relationship and it’s between two people who have like completely different goals in the long run I think it’s very difficult to have success but again that’s my opinion lol

[@CharlotteJames-v6r]

God, please, I want a man like Jackson

[@carmenamy123]

Love the praying in the comments section XD

[@CeceJianni]

Viewing relationships as a time investment is kinda inadvertently saying you're only in it for an outcome that benefits you. It's really okay to just enjoy your time with another person, learn from them, grow together, and if it doesn't work out that's totally okay. You take people and experiences with you for the rest of your life, and pretending the experiences you had with someone you cared about never mattered isn't a healthy way of coping with a relationship ending. A lot of the negativity surrounding the ending of relationships is based around ego and insecurity, if you allow yourself to grow from it, it'll be better for you in the long run. Best of luck.

[@whirlwhind666]

totally agree

[@madeleineiee]

Yea i was thinking this too

[@zeph3338]

100%

[@alexa-hk2xu]

relationships are a lot of work because they force you to grow as a person. i dont see how that is a waste even if it doesnt work out in the end. relationships are like a journey

[@alyssavega7394]

I love these talking videos, as a girl seeing a guys point of view of relashionships highkey scares me. I wish I could enter the mind of a man, I just want to know😭

[@bentobin9606]

gIrlS ArE sO dIffEReNt ThaN GUy Carrington fans have zero IQ. Im not surprised. Your idol literally paints her gay ass nails pinks and then comes online pretending to be straight. Get some brain cells.

[@virtuallullabies]

honestly as a girl i feel the same way as them, ive never really invested much time into romantic relationships bc im so focused on discovering, creating and building myself. i feel like its so much more fulfilling. everytime i get into an almost relationship i always run away, relationships r sooo scary 😭😭 i hope i can heal my attachment style one day before entering a committed relationship so i can rlly give my all ykwim

[@Imjust_KEN]

@@virtuallullabies SAMEEE i feel the exact same way. I dont run but i reject them really brutally (but privately) so there's no way they'll try talking to me again and i wont need to waste my time on a relationship

[@luvusm111]

I love how casual and authentic these feel

[@SofaWrld]

10:30 "The grass is greener where you water it" A relationship is like tending a garden A relationship is sometimes walking your own path and deciding to always come back to each other

[@lejua9243]

You should spend more time with jackson he seems like a really good friend and the way he’s thinking could benefit the people around him not meaning you’re not adding anything but this conversation felt so natural and conforting ❤

[@Haleyyyy938]

I love hearing these conversations, it’s nice to see guys who are willing to talk openly about it and have such a well thought out perspective and I have to say, I agree with everything except that relationships are a waste of time if they don’t work out - I think you should definitely be intentional with your time and selective with who you choose to be in a relationship with because it is an investment but even in the relationships that don’t work out, the takeaway heavily depends on your perspective. If you leave the relationship feeling bitter or angry or depressed, of course you’ll feel discouraged from the next one. But if you take the perspective of taking the time to heal and reflect on what you learned about yourself and where you can improve for your next one, and leave knowing what that relationship lacked or what traits your partner had that you wouldn’t want in a future partner, that’s never a waste of time. Even in failed relationships, you have the opportunity to get personal growth out of it.

[@tondoliprane1817]

"are you single?" No I'm traumatized please leave me alone. Traumatised should be a relationship status 😂

[@zzoee0]

i get exactly what u mean about feeling like it’s pointless because it’s eventually gonna end. but then i’m missing out on the whole side of life with a fun relationship, and even the breakup part of it. LIFE IS SO HARD SOMETIMES

[@butterflies7522]

Jack is so hot

[@StardustDani]

The part where yall talked about being too invested in your goals is soooo real! Like not needing a relationship, as a girl ppl seem to think that being single means im looking for a relationship like broooo im just tryna do stuff 😮‍💨 new fav channel frfr so glad i found it!🫵

[@VittoriaFiorillo]

This video genuinely helped me so much, I just got out of my longest relationship and this is the view i had but he didn't and this helped me get over it so thank you so much.

[@janisquesadilla]

I feel y’all but also I personally don’t see a relationship as a “time investment”. I think sometimes you meet and connect with someone, naturally you want to be around them all the time and make that commitment. I don’t think it’s something you have to plan out , it just happens. Of course after that it takes work for both sides to maintain it with effort. Anyways yes please keep making these because I love too see what men talk about

[@carmenamy123]

Not even done with this video yet but its cool to get other people's perspective on relationships, I haven't really spoken to many people about relationships before (and i mean thinking of its such a good conversation topic)

[@bankrolldame]

As a woman, going celibate has improved my life and energy more than anything (maybe because we receive more than give in the act if you know what I mean, it’s pretty invasive). Literally on top of the world now that I don’t hook up with ppl that I don’t even respect/match values with

[@emmarbishop]

i thought jackson was gonna start rapping at the end there for a moment

[@hayleyphillips2305]

I love this so much. also I don’t think relationships are always a waste of time I think even tho maybe they might not be the one they can teach you things about what you want and what works and what doesn’t. It’s like trial and error.

[@Sevincnryva]

Jackson looks like Jess from Gilmore girls

[@lottie.softsun]

Sometimes you can’t help who you fall in love with. Or when you fall in love. Obviously if you are comfortable and feel your ready for it, go for it! I believe love, after all, is the very reason we are here. We are here to risk our heart ❤️

[@ShoshanaMuses]

In my experience with relationships. Two people in extreme hustle mode often backfires and they trigger each other rejection wounds by telling each other that they dont make time for each other and then the relationship falls apart. If your in a hustling mode and don’t have time to honestly invest really in another. It’s best usually to just own up to that and enjoy close and deep flavors & connections outside of a committed partnership. What worked for me when I was in my hustling mode, is dating someone that in the same industry as me and we collaborated together on really cool projects. The best was when I was a fashion stylist and dated a fashion photographer and the co creative feeling of collaborating and being super creative together and seing the beautiful results, that was so good! And getting some fun in between the work always adds another level of excitement. Of course you can’t plan love too much you might have all these ideas, but when it hits you, that’s it. So fuck y’a keep hustling. I swear to god relationships took so much out of me. I wish I would have stayed more solo through the years, and invested in my wholeness as a person, before going out all over the place to find that love outside myself.

[@alvinxiong]

I personally don't have much experience with love and like you guys never really felt the need to fully pursue one cause of self-growth. I've only ever been in one relationship and only ever felt love/wanting to be with someone for who they are with 3-4 other people. So I'm definitely not an expert and everything I say is my personal opinion of a healthy relationship. I completely agree with Jackson's first statement about being comfortable with being alone and how important your statement about having your own time to grow is. I think it's really important that both people are able to be happy alone and not need constant reassurance and support from each other. One it shows both partners can be independent and grow by themself, two each person is allowed to enjoy their own hobbies making the relationship feel less like a chore and three it shows that both partners can respect each other's boundaries. Within the people I know, I have seen many toxic relationships where both partners hindered each other's growth because they relied too much on each other's time for happiness. Relationships should instead help you grow because you have someone to fall back on and motivate you to do better. The second most important thing in a relationship is communication where both partners can effectively communicate their feelings even after a huge argument. This allows you to fix things before they become bigger problems in the future where both partners are constantly bringing the same issues back up. the third most important thing in a relationship is being open-minded and okay with differences in opinions and likes. This is important because no one person is the same and so expecting it to be that way will only make things worse. The last most important thing is don't expect perfection. No one is perfect and everyone makes mistakes. Having a little compassion and patience during those moments goes a long way. This is what I've gathered from seeing both the good and bad relationships in my life and there is definitely a lot more to relationships than this. For me personally, I think this is a pretty solid list of good core traits that I would look for in a relationship and If found someone with at least 2-3 of these qualities I would be happy. Another thing I agree with Jackson about is marrying later in life like 30's. I think that's when most people have figured out what they want with their life and have learned most of the worst things in their partner that they are okay with. It's also really good because most people have had time to stabilize their lives and so they want to settle down. That's also why Carrington I think it's perfectly fine to want to wait till you are more stable and have more time in the future for your partner cause you could always meet them again in the future when both of you guys are in a better place. And I also think it's fine for you to be in a relationship when you're not fully ready as long as you both have an understanding of where you want to be in the future and you both respect it.

[@Leah_E_Fox]

the thought of marriage is so beautiful to me. it's a full commitment, but at the same time it's like having a best friend forever. on the issue of sex before marriage, i'm a christian, and i believe that it's right to save yourself before marriage. i believe that sex is very emotional and it attaches you to a person. i believe (and the bible talks about this) that sex should be between a married couple. if you're not a christian, i can't judge. that's just my opinion on it. i love you all

[@fabiannatalia29]

hey carrington, I know I’m late but I just wanted to say I really enjoyed this one, it was super relatable and insightful. you should post more videos like this, discussing bigger topics with your friends! it’s entertaining and it shows that there’s more than one person who agree haha…this also made me feel better because this has been my mindset all throughout high school lol and I always felt weird or like antisocial or something because I looked at relationships differently than others…in reality it was exactly what you said, I didn’t want to waste my time. I mean why would you get with someone just because you like them, not taking into account other factors, like long term etc etc…it sounds really harsh but it’s ultimately what makes you successful in any long term commitment later on. I like to think of it as saving your best self for the right person at the right time, and to all the people who think we’re sad for thinking this way, it’s probably the most romantic thing you can do 😂

[@caminoooo8140]

also this was very helpful to me bc i also am kind of a hopeless romantic and i have to remember to just be patient

[@RielaKOKORO]

I used to follow Jackson on tiktok and searched for his ancient videos in youtube then found this video. Your friendship is beautiful and you were funny 😂 loved the whole video (it is actually 4am here lol) also I'm writing a story and your video inspired me a lot thank you, and hope both of you will succeed on your goals *first* and then find the right one once you're old enough and fully ready for it (I also share the same opinion as Jackson) Also Carrington you're so funny 😂

[@omegasigmafemale]

"Like" ×253 loll love this vid

[@synthman303]

Yeah I'd def like to see some more videos like this, you guys rock 2getha :))

[@isabellam4556]

CARRINGTON WHAT THE FUCK I FEEL LIKE WE THINK SO ALIKE bruh w the whole 'i want a wife/husband' but actually j wanting someone 2 talk to and its that time of the year yk🤣anyways love the video very entertaining y'all got valid points🙏 i was a little lost when u started talkin bout celibacy but other than that wonderful for keeping it real✅

[@krysttall]

best duo

[@LudmilaLopez-yh9cj]

Reading the comments I think some people have a rather childish view of relationships. I'll just say that the best thing you can do in your young 20's is to devote your time and energy to fulfilling your personal goals. For everything else there is plenty of time.

[@oakleyv4815]

I think we all just want to be vulnerable with someone and it’s hard to be that way if it’s just a friend. Everyone wants to be goofy with their friends and talking about feelings is hard. I just wanna be able to talk abt stuff wo being a wifeeeee

[@theosmith463]

You are young, take your time to find the right one. Personally men need to find themselves and figure out who and what they want in life. You have a lifetime to find the right one. Settling is stupid and divorce is awful.

[@isticmusicmuse722]

14:21 yea.

[@carmenamy123]

I feel like this video contributed to my character development

[@isticmusicmuse722]

2:18 talks. 2:23 he hisy 2:26 2:50 he try be supportive 3:01 3:15 3:16 3:25 just say wa breM. 3:42 bore. 4:08 4:26 selffosh. 4:33 4:51 do u no.wen was Daniel n ff bd

[@harriet2956]

I loved the video. Taking notes. Though I’m sure I’m looking for a husband like fall in love once. And give it everything no sleep g around no nothing. Just fall in love and be the one❤❤❤. Plus idc if he had been in relationships before cause that’s his life before me but after NAHHH.

[@scumhagg]

I think with the right person love is easy tbh.

[@carmenamy123]

I was gonna comment "nostalgic" or something but then i realise i didnt watch this channel and possible didnt even know who carrington was 10 months ago

[@emmarbishop]

(idk how i've missed this video but i stumbled upon it at a wonderful time as myself, a young 21 year old, have been thinking of a lot of this ish as well these days) but not me pausing the video at certain points to give my own comments and thoughts on the situations/topics and whatnot (in a non crazy way of talking to myself) and then literally a few seconds later have what i said being mildly discussed amongst the young lads. i was flabbergasted

[@scumhagg]

When you grow up without ever seeing a healthy relationship and finding love is the only thing you want in life . I feel that LMAO HDJDJDNDBXDB

[@marierri]

I battle these exact thoughts

[@SuperMatt2112]

Great talk guys, it’s really good to see the young having deeper conversations on important subjects. Keep in mind, relationships come in many forms, take you two for instance, you seems to be really good friends and have a great male to male relationship in fact, you two could live together for example and share your lives, you could talk, and work on your common goals like you appear to be doing anyway, sadly because of all the BS gay culture that’s been weaponized against humanity and has now stigmatized what I believe a natural male to male relationships to the point it seems harder and harder to come by or witness, It’s my only hope that I can shed some light on these ideas and at the very least offer you both another perspective to build upon. And maybe put these FAKE stigmas that’s been unnaturally foisted against humanity and set them aside, perhaps this is harder than I understand, I believe we all need to work on changing our ways. Lastly this all leaves us with the problem of our often-perceived importance humanity has put on intimacy but perhaps this too is something that has been highly over rated by such things as the Media Industrial Complex, and some off far away agenda the people have been infected by over the long haul. Again, something else to consider and maybe better understand so we can all help fix some of these issues. All I know or at least feel strongly about is that something has thrown humanity off course and we are now witnessing the results of all these unactual influences. I don’t have or know any answers really, the problem is, no one else does either and so perhaps the remedies to some of these issues are easily right in front of us and the solutions is our collective mind moving forward. This I don’t know. But talks like this I believe are the keys that help unlock our full potential. So thank you both for this offering this type of talks and I can only hope that you continue on this line of thinking, I think you did great.

[@Julia_AAAAAAAAAHHHH]

I volunteer to be your wife

[@bouchra08880]

Relationships are hard

[@CRAZYCAT-xk5fn]

Please start a podcast

[@BritneyGilbert-cc2ko]

I'm ynroh just watching this

[@isticmusicmuse722]

13:55

[@isticmusicmuse722]

8:05 who he remind me of. 8:10 he hv a baf. 8:19 them looking.god calking.th3rs no colour . 8:37 8:42 talk nev done. 8:49 8:54 9:01 9:27 nt 1.bad no. 9:39 rite time 9:42 wow bad. 9:47 more kèarning.i need more. 10:04 10:16 no

[@caminoooo8140]

A WIFEEEEE??? i mean at least take me out to dinner first sheesh(jk)

[@isticmusicmuse722]

7:25 plz keran. 7:32 so grow use clothes hv ebejhd many girl 7:50 7:57

[@embby99]

WIFE ME UP LIKEE.... IM DOWN TO TALK

[@mdz5067]

Can u please make a video of you playing roblox, thanks ❤️

[@brooketaylorpeel3165]

Hey you look good ❤😊😂

[@cassiemcguire1291]

So true

[@Hannah-mn3ut]

no bc i see where they're coming from. relationships aren't always lovey dovey so to be in that position, you'd have to have patience and enough understanding toward your partner that the two of you are growing and learning. love in relationships isn't magically there, you'd have to plant the seed, nurture it, then sow it over time.

[@cassiemcguire1291]

❤❤

[@kaitlynkite]

hi king

[@LarryHazard]

relationships are the basis for a family, that's the only way it makes sense, the man and the woman have to work together on their future and rely on each other. making it completely romantic or sexual or turning it into the main focus of your life is nonsense, life goes on after two people get used to each other, and there are bigger goals in life, so the ideal partner is the one that will make it easier and share your goals, that means either helping you with work or helping with everything else that isn't work. people from 100 years ago had it figured out. it can be scary to choose one person and trust her completely cause it's a huge commitment but I think it's scarier to waste time in a bunch of random relationships that go nowhere just cause people look for fun or excitement

[@sanctuaryofhollanders5954]

Second

[@hohtaBay]

first

[@jadepoitt]

funny enough i want a husband 🧎🏻‍♀️‍➡️

[@4DaDudes]

Bruh Jackson is phine

[@babyblueskyexo]

Date me

[@jadepoitt]

funny enough i want a husband 🧎🏻‍♀️‍➡️