The Dangers of Being a People Pleaser w/ Jackson Passaglia

Are you a people pleaser? In this video we talk about the dangers of trying to make everyone happy. We'll talk about why it's so important to stay true to yourself and not let others' expectations dictate your life. Plus, tips on how to prioritize your own happiness. Subscribe :D

[@nini-wx9ly]

I find it harder to be yourself as a girl bc boys can automatically be funny and ppl don't question it

[@user-zw1ry6nb4j]

this is how i feel

[@charedits333]

no literally

[@queentatianaaguilar]

Ong

[@M4ridine]

Sure but that doesn’t mean you should just not be yourself.. at the end of the day all you have is you..

[@bail440]

I agree. Comparing with the video, we have a different demographic as girls/ women, but that’s okay. We should try to look into HOW being a girl can be the most beneficial to us. It is hard though, but there has to be a way around it, right?

[@jasonberkowitz4754]

Jackson is wise beyond his years

[@cheby4460]

bro u dont know how happy seeing jackson back is no bs no people pleasing just glad he back

[@m.lavenders]

same omg

[@retro_bab3]

I once saw a quote that read ; "Put your needs before others' wants and put others' needs before your wants"

[@sam42914]

legit good advice and great to hear jackson talk

[@saraaaa747]

I could literally watch videos like this for hours and never get bored, thank you so much oml

[@mianuman2557]

I just turned 19 and I relate to this video so much and half of the stuff u guys spoke about I didn’t even realise I did. I feel like the idea of hiding your personality slightly out of fear of being judged or thinking that someone won’t like you hits so hard. I think u mentioned something like the shell of Samantha ure like “kinda Samantha” as an example but it’s so true like ppl have personalities but we conceal them sometimes without realising. I’m trying my best to be my most authentic self straight away when meeting people because I always find myself trying to adapt to their personalities subconsciously at first. I feel like anxiety has a lot to do with altering the way u present yourself to people also but I do think that I’m getting better. But I still got work to do with bettering myself, building my confidence and giving out into the world what I want in my life like u guys said. I’ve also never been in a relationship although really wanting to be in one so I feel like I could need self reflection on what I’m actually scared about when opening myself for that type of commitment .. a reason could be fear of not being good enough which u guys mentioned that I rlly get sm. ugh , this was such a good video :,((( it’s such good advice that could help a lot of young people especially this generation because shit like it’s fucked up fr

[@KaliMarr]

Um,jackson sounds like a poet from the Middle Ages and just talking to him audiences in his own play they both are truly inspiring, and I feel what they are discussing, and it's really interesting seeing great influencers just speak truth and not trying to gain more views and actually relate 😀 😊

[@makaylah2865]

you guys were actually spitting and gave really good advice, learning how to distinguish who’s your “friend” and who’s actually in your close circle is definitely first step to stop people pleasing!!!

[@emmatorrance]

love these videos so so much, thankyou carrington and jackson

[@lulubells6611]

Yall are so awesome to listen to, this video is so honest and I really feel like I'm just listening in on your conversation, I really fw that quote "If you're a friend to everyone youre an enemy to yourself." I've never heard that before. Love your quiet confidence to talk about this stuff 🔥

[@Lofouu]

Crazy how insightful a tiktaker can be

[@gavintiesing4570]

All of these videos are genuinely so great and making me think back on myself and I can relate so hard to every video, these are great thank you gamer.

[@MaryAliceComedy]

Youre bringing back old school youtube vlogging with this

[@emma-jb8uj]

This is a beautiful video, thank you for this.

[@donutdonut1303]

It’s refreshing to see men talk about this topic as a girl Not a lot of men don’t talk about this W video

[@leecohen6959]

Good to see you Jackson you have disappeared for a while, you 2 have good balance together it works

[@zoha3336]

We need an advice podcast with Jackson 🙏🙏

[@morganbelaire7046]

I know it’s so overdone, but you and your friends should make a podcast. Y’all have things to say that I want to listen to.

[@GonzalezAlex]

Realest vid coming from the best professor!

[@hewllohi]

loving these types of videos

[@mathinayogendran9611]

Loved this, had to pause and think abt how I acted in the past alot. Maybe sometimes here and there still when I’m on autopilot just tryna get through the day. But this also made me realize how I actually just naturally moved away from people pleasing when I moved away from being like that with the years. I guess early 20s tryna figure out adult life and dynamics can be difficult.. u live and u learn

[@embby99]

I feel like we're sitting around a firepit talking about deep shit lol

[@Adrian-wn4nz]

Real shit thanks professors

[@user-zk8pv7lf6v]

11:52 this part of the video about compensation I relate to so much

[@nifo3330]

You should have a podcasttttt OMGOSH

[@alvinxiong]

Still couldnt sleep but love this video!!

[@tondoliprane1817]

Your Debate is 🤘🏼✨🦋💖 I loved the quote The reason we struggle with inse- curity and Anxiety is because we compare our behind-the-scenes with everyone else's highlight reel. I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine 👌 Most powerful is he who has himself in his own power ꧁❤︎꧂ Guys .. You will be surprised by what you attract after you Start believing in what you deserve. Everything is possible for those who dream, dare, work and never give up. I send you lots of love ! 🐞🍀🐺🌹🦋🧸

[@yaretzij9273]

love y’all ❤️

[@watersilk]

its amazing how sometimes when u focus on yourself, people are surprisingly pleased by you anyways… no need to try :) (if you’re a kind person)

[@manlogdog3713]

NEVER STOP MAKING YT VIDEOS, LY🙏🙏

[@kmcguire05]

another banger vid

[@m.lavenders]

that intro is fire

[@rhyanne4056]

carrington best youtuber ever

[@esennelle]

Keep it real ❤

[@chachachom9958]

I love this video

[@talonnamoore2541]

my two fav pplll

[@nini-wx9ly]

Love this

[@yaaaawi]

This Is True.

[@crazyzen]

a friend to all is a friend to none

[@4ngelsl4yer]

bro’s teaching more than neuroscience atp

[@navishtaali3085]

Carrington hiiiiiiiiii hope you are having an amazing day!

[@feralmonkey4560]

loved this vid, it was v real n insightful not like a lotta the toxic positivity bs on the internet rn

[@briaci6339]

The human condition fr full circle

[@ibbuwasfound5681]

do we still have a test on monday?

[@carrington69]

Pop quiz

[@user-xp1ck1nc2r]

😮

[@homuras]

love the content you produce !! you guys brim with personality but are able to deliver your approaches in a vv insightful and conducive way. appreciate it 🫶

[@juneiniguezperal6974]

pls make a podcast

[@Tooreal177]

People do want to be alone like I find peace in my OWN COMPANY you guys need to learn to value yourself before you try to go out and make friends.

[@user-pdiddy09127]

Team Jacob

[@ezlyn707]

Did you mark our papers??

[@deolupus8675]

Play lego batman one or you’re a lego batman poser

[@isticmusicmuse722]

1:00 bore 1:05 1:09

[@alexisblows]

2 mann🤭

[@whirlwhind666]

free will is illusory

[@bentobin9606]

ah the pretty boys who spend 1 hour every morning getting ready (getting their hair right, painting their nails, etc) are here to project about not being people pleasers ... then why focus on your appearance so much?

[@4ngelsl4yer]

literally not the point of the video

[@butterflies7522]

Wtf are u saying

[@navishtaali3085]

Be nice They work hard! be appreciative be positive and inspiring instead of being negative

[@yeahfrfr]

what LOL maybe bc they wanna look and feel good for themselves. do u only brush ur teeth and wash ur face to appease others? likeeee what is this comment

[@mianuman2557]

No they just look after themselves and they are clearly naturally good looking boys. Why r we even talking about this anyway has nothing to do with the video.. They’re a lot more than they’re looks so I’d prefer if u stop talking about their appearance. They said some really good advice and could help so many people .

[@meganfox_x]

I love jackson