@@vlog.pajamas-wife You should feel bad for the defenseless baby who's constantly attacked by your oldest son. You don't have the option of giving your oldest son "more time." Your only option is to firmly teach him right from wrong. To save your baby, you must not allow your oldest son to touch the baby at all for awhile, and later only if you give permission. His behavior is extremely cruel and aggressive. He cannot be trusted at all. I would under no circumstance leave him alone with your dog either.
@sirlenelopes64462 жыл бұрын
Alguém tem que educar este menino 👦 mais velho, faz o que quer, não respeita ninguém. Maltratando o irmão mais novo, beliscando, mordendo, gritando na cara do bebê. Os pais devem corrigir esta criança .
@brendaflow7885 Жыл бұрын
You have beautiful children. But I think big brother is jealous. I see him do things to the baby in this video that is dangerous. If he were mine I would discipline big brother so he knows he can't do the things he does.
I loved your whole outfit but I especially loved your coat you put on right before you left. It’s a beautiful coat!! I’ve always wanted a coat just like that! 😲😉☺️ Your family is beautiful! I’m glad every one is safe, healthy, and happy😊
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
hello. Thank you for complimenting my coat and I am very happy. I guess you are a very fashionable woman. I think it's very good for women to stay fashionable even after becoming a mother. I pray from the bottom of my heart that we are in a peaceful and healthy world. Please continue to comment. I am always grateful for your help.
You need to discipline the older son. He’s to rough and he’s pinching him when your not around.
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Certainly the baby is under stress. Raising both the eldest son and the baby at the same time is actually very difficult. When I'm just playing with my baby, my eldest son is jealous, while when I'm spending time with my eldest son, my baby starts crying because of dissatisfaction. Balance is everything. I would like you to turn over quickly, so please give me any advice. Thank you.
@raej1307 Жыл бұрын
@@vlog.pajamas-wife The jealousy is normal. All older kids have it to some degree when a new sibling comes along. I raised 4 kids, I get it. What is NOT normal is how mean your oldest son is. At one point, he goes behind his brother's chair after biting him and hurting him further and he laughs. Laughing at other people's pain, no matter the age is not a normal thing. You did nothing in response. In his mind, that's as good as approval that he can continue this behavior. Because whatever you do say to him at some point is being ignored. He just blows it off. He needs to be punished. I would never suggest hitting your eldest child. That's counter-productive. What I DO suggest is IMMEDIATELY putting him in a time-out in the corner for 5-10 minutes. I also suggest taking away a favorite toy for a day or two. The faster you act after these incidents, the faster the older son will connect the punishment with the bad behavior he's showing. It's never too early for children to learn that actions have consequences. Every single time. They're beautiful children.
@user-bp7yl7or1z2 жыл бұрын
長男にイライラしちゃうわ。。。
@rebecacalderonlopez6179 Жыл бұрын
Hermosura el muy inocente jugando y feliz tal lindo y toda ternura el bebesito hermoso 🥰😇😴
@afreteaisake36772 жыл бұрын
4rm Rotuma, So beautiful and Cute ❤
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment! Please watch this video again. I'm doing my best to raise my child happily. .. thank you!
@MiMiluvsBug2 жыл бұрын
I understand that you love both your children. Parenting is never easy, and you have your hands very full. Most older siblings can be bullies to some degree. But your DEFENSELESS BABY is being abused, intentionally and repeatedly. And you are allowing it to happen
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment. Certainly the eldest son is an active child and does not yet understand how to love a baby. It's easy to hit and discipline my eldest son there, but I'm trying to discipline by talking to him and counseling in words. It takes a long time, so patience is also required. Now my eldest son has calmed down and I have almost no chance to hit my baby. As you say, I love both of them. Thank you.
@79Bobola2 жыл бұрын
He barely did anything, ridiculous that people are freaking out over nothing, but then again, it’s Americans, known for coddling their children and thinking every little thing is abuse. Completely ridiculous and offensive.
@raej1307 Жыл бұрын
@@79Bobola You don't have a clue about raising children if you think this is acceptable behavior. As far as that goes, it's much worse in some of the other videos she's posted. Actually, I think it was just a chance to take a jab at Americans. Hateful people are like that, they use any chance to spread their vitriol. Have a nice day!
@wereallabitcrazee43128 ай бұрын
I've noticed that nearly all videos from the countries over there allow the older siblings to do whatever they want to the younger ones with no repercussions 🤔 It's like they have a second child to give the older ones something to terrorize 🤣
@79Bobola4 ай бұрын
@@raej1307 well I am American, so I know how coddling parents are here. It’s why we now have a generation of entitled narcissists as adults and this country is going to sh!t. You don’t even speak the language to know what is being said here, yet you continue making disrespectful, rude comments, when you can just chose to be a decent human being. Know your place, and try your hardest not to be a waste of space, I know it’s difficult for you.
@jackinthebox6312 жыл бұрын
The older child is dangerous around baby, he should not lay his body on his brother. He needs checking when he does this
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
hello. Babies are definitely stressed. Raising a son and a baby at the same time is really hard. When playing with the baby, the eldest son becomes jealous, and when he is with the eldest son, the baby cries out of frustration. It's all about balance. I want you to turn over as soon as possible, so please give me some advice. Thank you very much.
@79Bobola2 жыл бұрын
You need to mind your own business old man.
@amomsworkisneverdone65792 жыл бұрын
The oldest child is to aggressive and hes never disciplined for his treatment
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
I love both sons as much as I can. And I hope they grow up quickly. I find it difficult to raise children.
@amomsworkisneverdone65792 жыл бұрын
@@vlog.pajamas-wife raising children isn't easy at all. They look for guidance,love, comfort,and when they do wrong they need to be scolded! If you don't do that raising your kids will seem more like work than anything. That's not fair to you or them! Your the leader not your children. I hope you take my advice bc you will soon see how much easier your day will go! Just bc they get upset doesn't mean your a bad parent. Allow them to run your home doesn't make you a great parent. So take your power back as a parent
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the very informative story. Certainly, the owner of our house is a parent, not a child. Parents need to be intelligent and sometimes angry in order for their children to know a lot. You say it's important to guide your child on the right path. I think so. I would like to guide them in the future, thank you.
Viendo el video, realmente el hijo mayor es mal intencionado, creo que aruña al bebé, se retira, se va atrás del sillón se agacha, se ríe y queda viendo por un lado a ver si la madre lo está buscando, dá cólera un niño con este comportamiento. 🤔😡. Yo no tolero los niños asi!!! Creo que la madre no tiene el apoyo del padre para corregir a este hijo mayor.
@rebecacalderonlopez6179 Жыл бұрын
El hermano mayor muy cariñoso y jugueton con el bebedito que lindos tan tiernos 🥰😇😴
@Mary-qd9lr2 жыл бұрын
It’s sad because the parents don’t ever tell him to stop he’s just baby so. Sad
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. In fact, I am paying attention to my eldest son over and over again. However, I do not hit or kick my eldest son to stop him. It is nothing more than dominating him with fear. It's certainly not good to hit the baby. I want you to stop immediately. So, as a parent, I've told him many times about how to treat my baby properly. He seems to be getting better at understanding, albeit little by little. I would be grateful if you could look forward to future videos to see his growth. Please don't be sad, thank you.
I'm stunned you allowed him to bite him! Then he shoved the baby face right in front of you!!! Yet you still leave him alone with the baby! Either your just a lazy parent and could careless what he does to the baby! Or your blind but this baby doesn't deserve to be his punching bag
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
That's right, no matter how many times I pay attention to him, I can't stop hitting the baby. Perhaps he wants his parents to bite him, and he doesn't know how to love his baby.
@amomsworkisneverdone65792 жыл бұрын
@@vlog.pajamas-wife when he does this as the parents step in and let him know he will not hurt the baby like that. Then place him facing the wall. Do it every time he decides to act that way. The baby is helpless,and it's not ok plus it's hurting the baby
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
It is very important to guide your baby well without damaging it. You need to teach your eldest son how to love your baby. He also loves babies.
@79Bobola2 жыл бұрын
I think you’ve posted enough rude, judgemental comments on here you disrespectful cow. What an arrogant pile of garbage telling a mother she’s no good, it wasn’t that bad for gods sake, he rough housed the baby and he was fine, you act like he had a knife to him or something. These old ladies in the comment section need to be banished for good.
Oh my goodness, why didn’t you fix the baby’s head??? He is probably crying because his neck hurts and his head was like that for far too long. WOW……. Not too smart 😤😡
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment. I will explain this video in detail. Anyway, my baby loves to hug and cries violently when not hugging. So the title of this video is "Hold me". Basically, I always hold my baby, but after all, there are times when I get away from my baby in various situations such as housework and work. At that time, the baby cries violently. He may be very lonely. It's important to hold your baby as much as possible and show your affection, but it's painful that you can't always do it. If your baby grows up a little more, it may be better. Anyway, thank you for your comment. We hope that you will continue to watch over us in the future. Thank you for your cooperation.
@79Bobola2 жыл бұрын
Please stop posting arrogant comments with bad parenting advice. Your rude and not welcome here.
@xmaseveholly1266 Жыл бұрын
@@79Bobola STFU!!! If people POST their bad parenting on KZbin for all to see, then that’s an open invitation for ANYONE to comment about what was posted!!!!!
Big brother is a brat. You need to start to discipline him. He’s going g to hurt the baby.
@amomsworkisneverdone65792 жыл бұрын
I can't watch these videos bc your oldest son is so aggressive. He does it right in front of you,and you do nothing to him ! It's to much for me to watch,and I'm sure many others will follow! And stop watching! Unless you put a stop to his behavior. You need to show him you will not put up with that!
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Hello. Thank you for your comment. The eldest son does not know how to handle the baby. In such cases, it's very easy to beat the eldest son, but it's the same as instilling fear in the eldest son. In other words, you need to be disciplined in words. It's in the middle of it right now. From now on, the eldest son will learn the correct way to love the baby. Because my eldest son really loves babies.
@PhoeNix-dg9wn2 жыл бұрын
Je l'ai vu mordre le bb dans une autre vidéo, gros souci pour vous ,dangereux pour le bb, ne jamais le laisser seul avec le bébé 😤un peu de discipline s.impose !
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Vous avez raison, merci de l'avoir signalé. Il aime tellement les bébés qu'il veut toujours les toucher. Du matin au soir, je lis le nom du bébé et je l'adore. Parfois, je tape un peu. Dans ce cas, je discipline souvent. J'espère que toute la famille pourra sourire. Merci pour votre avis.
@anamariaolazar92212 жыл бұрын
Ese chico maltrata mucho al bebe y la madere no hace nada
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Gracias por tu comentario. Pareces estar malinterpretando. A mi hijo mayor le encantan los bebés y todavía no sé cómo cuidarlos. Es fácil para una madre educarla golpeando a su hijo mayor, pero eso no conduce a un buen crecimiento de su hijo. La madre necesita decirle a su hijo mayor cómo amar al bebé correctamente. Ahora, poco a poco, mi hijo mayor está aprendiendo a tratar a su bebé favorito. Por favor, mantén un ojo en mí. Gracias.
Le Grand frère à un problème,???pourquoi tant de brutalité avec le bébé?vous devez régler ça immédiatement, très dangereux ce gamin !
@vlog.pajamas-wife2 жыл бұрын
Bonjour. Comment ca va. J'aime mes deux enfants et mon fils aîné ne semble pas encore savoir comment aimer son bébé. Mais mon fils aîné aime aussi les bébés et il est difficile de les soigner. Je ne fais que discipliner, donc je suis sûr que ça ira de mieux en mieux. J'espère qu'il n'y aura pas de malentendus majeurs.