Answering The MOST UNWANTED Questions - Hailee And Kendra

[@celticlord1992]

As a person that identifies as a straight male, I'm baffled why people can't be compassionate to each other. Someday I wish we reach a point where we all realize as a people, that there is enough hardship and negativity in the world to hate someone for how they are, feel, or identify. Much love to you, Hailee and Kendra, for being the wonderful, caring people you are. ❤❤❤

[@HaileeandKendra]

We are baffled too, we really are! Agreed and thank you 🌹 for your kind comment

[@celticlord1992]

@@HaileeandKendra 🌹❤️

[@matthijsclaessen8152]

Word!

[@w0033944]

Same!

[@Enazel]

Yeh they some strange people out there, and I sorry for anyone who as to go though this because of those idiots. My missus as to go though similar questions as a bi woman, and because she happens to be dating a male, people make assumptions.

[@sulumorromulus346]

I just love you two!!! I am a 66 yr old lesbian. Came out in the early 80's and enjoyed the Marches on Washington for our rights and so happy that I can view a youtube channel with such a cute couple talking about the same questions I had to deal with too. But to be so OUT AND PROUD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Makes me happy!!!

[@HaileeandKendra]

THANK YOU! Thank you for being part of our community, thank you for marching for our rights 🌹 we’re so happy you’re here!

[@bettycross8872]

Kendra’s moms did the same 😊 - that’s why she’s here 😊 Thanks for being part of the movement that helped to co-create her 🙏🏼 We are all truly blessed 😇

[@Kyliem540]

I just finished a video and whenever you were talking about how people just assume people are straight without asking my friend told me that she was bi and I said same and she said what she said she don’t look like you would be I just assumed you weren’t and I’m sitting here like well I am surprise surprise🎉

[@DrummerGrrrl]

I also marched in the 1987 March on Washington. I got my picture in some mainstream newspaper, too! Ha ha! I was kissing a Dominatrix's foot at the time. 😂

[@chrisb4057]

This is a great video, and Kendra's feistiness is on fire today. And I agree that you are to love whomever you love, bigots need to kick rocks!!

[@florcervantes1125]

I was going to say the same thing!!!! Oh my 😅

[@HaileeandKendra]

Kendra woke up today and she chose “FEISTY” 😅

[@w0033944]

And we love it!@@HaileeandKendra

[@brandoncolon1160]

Some people are just rude and nasty and the fiesty puts them in their place

[@SuperBrooklyndodgers]

​@@florcervantes1125000

[@thund3rstrik329]

Hailee's whole point at 14:44 about how she didn't choose to be gay and how you wouldn't choose to be something that would make your life harder really resonates with me. I just came out as trans to my mom a couple months ago and she keeps going on about how "Oh, you're probably just confused" or "Oh, you're being influenced by the media you consume", and she keeps treating this as if I'm choosing this for my life when... I'm not. So that made me feel a lot better about myself, thank you guys so much, you're awesome!

[@maaikebouwman1168]

Being queer is never a choice 💝 Keep going strong, you're perfect just the way you are (i hope i can give you a smile with my words)❤🧡💛💚💙💜💪

[@iampetewyse]

GOSH your point about choice, and how NOBODY would choose to be gay because it's dangerous etc. hit me hard. I'm straight, but have enough friends in the LGBTQ+ community to know how hard it is to be who they are. And yes... YES... that point hits it on the head for anyone who thinks it is a choice.

[@SpiritWalker47424]

Smh the level of some uneducated people just boggles my mind. And their unwillingness to learn the truth never ceases to baffle me. Oh and I am straight and I hate when my friends In the lgbtq+ get asked about is it a choice question. I can tell people just how dangerous yet in 2023 to be a lesbian, gay, bi, transgendered, queer or non binary. As I have lost several good friends to violence perpetrated by bigots. All over small things or ignorance. Hailee and Kendra I love your content, and I offer up prayer to the GODDESS I worship that the two of you are always safe in your travels.

[@BayAreaBerk]

I figured all this out when I was really young- I like da Ladies, but I'm not one myself. I've had friends, esp folks who 'grew up in the Church' think it's 'a choice', but had to get introspective when I asked them " with all 'they' have to deal with, do you think they chose to be gay?" I like these guys, they help fill in a female component & energy that's useful for having a good balance, are attractive, and Funny. It's like trace minerals, a little bit is both nessisary and sufficient...

[@garricksmalley1733]

I as a straight, white, Christian, male was hoping to hear a new question I did not know the answer to... nope I knew them all and I am still amazed these questions are being asked. Kendra, loved how you covered yourself for that one question and damn that smolder. Seeing two young people in love makes happy and brings me joy, Thank You.

[@seanwick1076]

I’m a straight man who was raised by a single lesbian mom. She had married my father back when it was expected of woman but finally accepted her authentic self. Being raised by a lesbian made my life so much more fulfilling. Our family dynamic was amazing and I’m a better man because of it

[@stuff1784]

Aww ❤

[@cuddlequeen3225]

That sucks for her but hopefully you being born was worth it

[@AceTackett]

Tell your mother that she is a amazing person and inspires queen youth

[@larryeffler7108]

A co-worker used to sing in bars with her girlfriend. They would invariably get some drunk dude asking which one was the “boy” in bed. Her answer was, “I could ask your girlfriend the same question… but I don’t think you would like the answer.” It was a long time ago.

[@HaileeandKendra]

That girl had the right type of energy 👌

[@williambanks2223]

It's frightening that people sit up and think of these questions. As a black male, it's like when people ask me racial questions that are stupid like "Do you like Fried Chicken?"😳 my answer is "As a human, yes i do. Do you?" Love your life the way that makes you happy. Keep making great content. Love you two.

[@JarradBruessel32]

I love fried chicken. As a white man I wish I had it more often lol. Idk why loving fried chicken has to be stereotyped? Fried chicken is good! Never once met a person who wasn't a fan of fried chicken.

[@MichaelThe-Pyro]

@@JarradBruessel32 its funny when you think about it. most black "stereotypes" are just poor Sothern stereotypes. is a white man who grew up in rural Louisiana most summers were fried chickens, watermelon, half destroyed kiddy pools and unknow colored drinks that ranged anywhere from Kul-aid to knock-off Gatorade

[@Skibbityboo0580]

I met a Canadian who claimed he didnt like it, and it just didnt make sense to me, so I bought some from a Popeyes and gave him a piece. He LOVED IT. turns out there just wasnt a good place to get it in Newfoundland. He was also really happy we have fried bologna....newfies love that stuff!

[@RichardX1]

I grew up in the South. For most of my life, I just assumed that people who didn't like fried chicken were vegetarians.

[@vizionthing]

"It's frightening that people sit up and think of these questions" I doubt any level of the thought process could be considered "thinking"

[@AuduxBeast]

In my opinion the only question that matters is, “are you happy?” As long as your making each other happy, nothing else matters. Your both great, keep up the great energy!! 👍

[@HaileeandKendra]

Facts! And we are happy 😊

[@Superbus753]

Yes yes yes! Thats really the only thing in life that matters.

[@MikeWayson]

Hats off to hailee and kendra for their honesty and for telling it like it is ❤

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you Mike 😊

[@jaypeacemyth]

I know this may sound overblown, but videos like this are SO important. Smart, level-headed, loving individuals systematically countering stereotypes with compassion and logic. You two already display such a strong and honest relationship (people always learn more through example than through debate), but if just a few people find their eyes opened even a little wider by watching this, it serves not just queer folk, but all good humans by making the world just that much more empathetic and sane. Thank-you for sharing and being so open, because obviously it was a conscious choice to do so. And that choice could possibly help (and protect) so many. May the beauty you two share together continue to grow and nurture each other.

[@nosliwec]

"Are you sure you're a lesbian?" Seems rather obvious. Like how I know I am heterosexual. I don't understand why it's so hard for people to just accept that people love who they love. Keep up the good work and keep smiling. You two are lovely people and we need more people like you in this world. ❤ The fact you get asked these questions, even if it's only online, is wildly inappropriate. But the anonymity of the internet tends to bring out the worst in people.

[@HaileeandKendra]

It really seems like people on the internet feels free to ask anything that crosses their mind, no matter how inappropriate it is - without any sorts of respect towards the humans they’re talking to. We’re just trying our best to live our life and make people smile 😊

[@gerhardjahnke6268]

And you're doing great 😃

[@nicoletteibler1507]

@@HaileeandKendracool

[@DUKE_of_RAMBLE]

Hailee, I gotta level with you... 😅 Kendra being blunt, is what's NEEDED for these people who are asking these sorts of questions. *On the flip side...* yea, even then, not all of them will get it _anyways..._ So wanting to have her curb her answers/language, to not earn a strike, totally feel you there! lol Anyways, good for both of you for even fielding these questions! Don't ever feel like you "need to," though. I think *_most_* people asking them, are people who don't actually watch you guys and are just trolling. Anyways, that's just my opinion. As a straight guy, I apologize for those who act like this towards you. Me, I enjoy watching your videos because you both are hilarious, and wholesome! ❤ Keep being yourselves! ✊

[@JulioRosario]

I appreciate that Kendra not afraid to say she's an atheist. ❤

[@donndidthat416]

Man I've been trying to give myself reasons NOT to crush on her, this doesn't help😢😂

[@bestabothworldz2766]

I am the complete opposite but I respect her and her truth

[@wroughtiron9224]

Almost fell out of my chair laughing at the unicorns comment

[@Lorentari]

When you think about it, it is kinda weird that saying "I don't think there is an invisible and unproven entity. I only believe in things we have evidence for" is a controversial stance

[@Tallenn1]

Why would she be afraid? Honestly curious.

[@valkyrie1331]

I just want to take a minute to appreciate Kendra’s unapologetic approach to these questions. 👏👏👏 she was so feisty and real with these answers and I loved watching it. You two are amazing ❤❤❤

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you so much!!

[@adamsherman3655]

You two are amazing. Your openness and willingness to field so many absolutely ignorant questions just blows me away. Thanks for doing what you do!

[@genem2768]

Hopefully they make a few people less ignorant.

[@HaileeandKendra]

We have a long, LONG list of blocked people, on all of our social media platforms. But sometimes, we like to take the chance to educate a little and MAYBE… maybe, one day, people will be less invasive, less ignorant and more respectful 😊

[@anabear9536]

I am proudly a trans female and even after the two and a half years I think the hardest thing to get over is the gender dysphoria and feeling comfortable with being around other people because I'm still trying to figure out everything. Hailee...Kendra, the two of you genuinely give me hope for a brighter future for us in the LGBTQ+ community

[@alexiscallagan3119]

Kendra when she gets feisty and passionate with her answers are seriously the best thing. I do the same thing, I love it

[@brandonbarenberg1484]

i just love how down to earth the both of you are (especially on twitch too) and how savage yall get when needed makes me laugh at those times

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you! And thank you for being part of our Twitch community too 😊

[@allisonhopper6791]

I love this. As a lesiben, these questions are always asked, and most are very uncomfortable. I appreciate that yall can actually talk about it.

[@CoffeeNCloves]

So very grateful that you share your personal thoughts and feelings. I appreciate that you have the patience to try to help all those people out there that just can't seem to understand the simple concept that you fall in love with the person not necessarily the gender. Thank you both for Being so brave And subjecting yourself to the obvious ignorance of so many people out there that feel they have to put a label on somethings because that's what everyone tells them it's what is normal or the right thing to do. So sad that human beings won't use the common sense and their ability to chose for themselves how they want to see and be seen by others. Keep up the good effort!❤

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you for your kind support, we appreciate it 🌹

[@CoffeeNCloves]

@@HaileeandKendra It is my great honor to continue to support you as long as you feel comfortable keeping up the good work.

[@monkeybeasts]

kendra is so pure and sweet. she's straight to the point always with a smile. you can tell hailee shows more masculine energy.

[@sandyhemenway1456]

Love this effort to clarify, educate, and (hopefully), tear down walls of misconception. Thank you. Just fyi, I am a straight age-61 male, but love the energy the two of you share. It almost always brings a smile. But, on the general topic of "Are you a lesbian because X- or do you think Y because you're a Lesbian?" let me offer this thought. I am left-handed. I was born left-handed. I had an immediate PREFERENCE to hold items in my left hand. I cannot explain why I am a lefty any more than I can explain why I like Diet Dr. Pepper more than Diet Pepsi. It's a preference. And though I did learn to write with my right-hand when I separated my left shoulder in HS - it NEVER felt comfortable. IMO, being gay, or queer, or bi, or trans is no different than being left-handed. I don't know why I'm a lefty. It makes a number of tasks more difficult, (since most of the world is designed for right-handers). But, if we could convince everyone to think of all of the different sexual variations in the same manner as left-handedness, perhaps there would be a lot less judgment and a low fewer dumb questions.

[@randylaytonorangeboy]

Thank you ladies for stomping out those burning questions. Kendra you are the best at explaining it. I will forever keep this knowledge and pass it on to others who need it.

[@HyphenDude]

1. You two are awesome! 2. So well said on each and every question. 3. Damn, Kendra, you are feisty today. Your answers were from the heart and I loved that.

[@ryanwright8476]

So proud of Kendra and her control. She was told at 24 ish minutes she could go to Target but stayed to finish the video😅😅😅😅

[@thunderchunk4658]

I love how open and comfortable you both are with a lot of ridiculous questions. And something I've not seen in the comments (on this video) but has been bugging me so much in previous videos is the garbage take about some false disparity in "attractiveness" or how Hailee is "punching above her weight" or any of the horrendous attempts to wrap your personal relationship into "expected norms". You are both wonderful, stunning, and seem like such amazing humans! Also, stripping down a relationship to just physical aspects is so vapid and grossly unjust. Just so happy to see how happy you both seem! Sorry, off my soap box... Love trumps absolutely everything!

[@jasonstewart6613]

Hailee I can’t relate completely because I’m straight but I am autistic and I’ve struggled to accept myself for years. I appreciate you talking about self acceptance

[@LifewithNJyt]

I love the content that you make it’s so wholesome love it ❤

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you!

[@mrgoose2u]

This video pretty much describes why I love you two. Keep fighting the fight, and being you. You are so wholesome and refreshing.

[@charlie_0061]

Omg, I'm actually in tears of laughter watching this. I love how straight to the point kendra is. 😂 I have had so many of these questions being a lesbian myself and I can honestly say my responses to them are definitely on point with kendras. 🎉 never stop being true to yourselves ladies. Absolutely brilliant responses. 👏 😊

[@micheletomasini2911]

I am stunned. I watch you because you are funny and yet transmit the idea of how a serene and balanced couple should be. I know world's full of toxic people, but still can't understand how many such comments and questions you receive. You have all my support on this. And my congratulations on your splendid job in communicating how a healthy couple should work.

[@davidoneal6157]

Speaking as a 50ish straight male, i've gotta ask: People really ask you this stuff? Aside from being presumptious, these questions are tacky as hell! I understand Kendra being a bit feisty. I'd be enraged! I feel outraged on your behalf! I get the face that you two have put yourself out there in the public eye. But seriously people! You don't ask ANYONE these questions! These ladies being lesbians doesn't make them fair game! Having vented a little outrage I have to say, this video impressed me tremendously. You addressed completely unacceptable examples of behavior with class, style, and humor. Please let me express my admiration for both of you. You are lovely individuals and a thoroughly charming couple. Thank you for sharing this. I hope it helps others. I suspect it might. I wish it didn't have to.

[@danielaabr777]

I watched this video and I understand the frustration. It's not healthy to keep it in either so just let those emotions out! It's better than keeping them in your chest 😅 I feel really grossed out by these questions but also understand that a lot of people are just ignorant and uneducated. But mostly I just feel like people like this aren't taking other's emotions and experiences into consideration which is so fucked up. I'm glad I found your channel and tiktok, you make me really happy. As a lesbian who can't come out, I love being able to see others be happy ❤

[@HaileeandKendra]

We're glad you found our channel too 😊 we're sorry you're not free to be your true self right now, but we're sending good vibes your way 🌹 things will change for the better!

[@thatlonewolfguy2878]

I love how feisty Kendra is in these videos, she's genuinely so funny, had me absolutely cackling at some parts lmao

[@charlesortner1725]

Intriguingly bright piece. I may not be completely like minded, but I do understand. Articulate, authentic, and addressing the negative in a very positive form. You ladies are intelligent, charming, and stunningly beautiful. Those qualities are a force, and I believe you use it wonderfully. Chivalry, respect, kindness, and simple decency are increasingly uncommon things to see. You ladies are demanding them. As an old school dad of 3 teens (2 boys and the girl), thanks for making those things popular.

[@Harlow150]

I just recently started watching you guys, and I really enjoy your guyses content

[@HaileeandKendra]

Welcome to our channel! Glad you’re enjoying the content 😊

[@megamattoutdoors4590]

I'm a striate man with a beautiful woman. I'm 48 she is 29. Our son just came into the world and we are so happy. I'm glad that you keep your promise to each other and you dismiss the hate people.

[@fryingpanpanic]

YOU GUYS ARE LITERALLY COUPLE GOALS ME AND MY GF LOVE YALL SM

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you! 😊

[@CptnClapBack]

As someone who identifies as a (mostly) straight male, why can’t people just be kind and accepting of each other? I truly don’t understand all the hate and animosity around this topic. You guys are amazing and super funny, love watching your videos and shorts. Sending all the love and support your way

[@rajkhatri8135]

This was so refreshing to watch…. most of the questions were just plain ridiculous & I loved the way you gave straight forward answers with no bs, putting people in their place ! 👏 😍 Ps You are two amazing human beings & I absolutely adore you & love your channel 🩷

[@petergreen379]

I have so enjoyed your "take" on some of these idiotic (and occasionally, I'm sure, sincere) questions. You have a wonderful chemistry that allows you to employ playfulness in your responses while always maintaining intelligence and dignity. No matter what aspect of life you are addressing on your social media, you set the bar very high and deliver worthwhile and thought-provoking responses and perspectives. As the father of a gay daughter, I wish more people would be able to articulate responses and opinions so clearly and with such strength of character and conviction. I enjoy your postings, your reactions, and I feel that time spent viewing your social media is time very well spent. Thank you for being the great people you are!!

[@L0stSn0wflak3]

Hiii I love your videos so much you guys are amazing and I love how you two are not afraid to be yourselves and doing what you love! You guys just make my day when I get to see a new or old video and I'm pretty sure my family is annoyed about hearing the same voices every time I get home from school or just in my room on my computer, ANYWAYS I just wanted to let you know how much I love you and that you guys are absolutely amazing at what you do! There is so much more great things that could be said about you I just don't wanna be annoying and I also don't have the right way of wording stuff sometimes. Oki I hope it make you smile if you see this!

[@L0stSn0wflak3]

Oh uhh you also help me because I can relate to you guys so much and you help me when I'm having an LGBTQ+ crisis idk if that's the right thing to say but that's how I think of it and I can't really describe it either!

[@sandyt2938]

Thank you for being so open and honest with everyone. I've been asked all of those questions and they are so insensitive. It makes me realize that the world doesn't appreciate women like they do men. If they did, we wouldn't be subjected to these ridiculous questions, especially "such a waste" one. Your humor and honesty are so refreshing. I love your videos and the positive energy that you both display. Hope to see many more, I've got a ways to go to watch them all as I just recently discovered your channel.

[@shannoncrotts227]

I love this video. This is one of your best yet! You both are phenomenal!

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you so much!

[@brandoncolon1160]

You ladies rock keep up the awesome work

[@Autbdhei]

doesnt have anything to do with the video but hailee's voice is so calming. if she read audiobooks i would never stop listening

[@DIVICGamingDiscussion]

You two are always entertaining to watch and listen to. I learned a lot of the does and do nots. Thank you for that. Also Kendra asking for the smolder and immediately regretting it is hilarious.

[@HaileeandKendra]

We’re glad to be able to educate 😊 PS: the one asking for the smolder was Hailee, I’m her wife (blonde) Kendra!

[@danatunsch4006]

Kendras responses are giving me life right now. I had a really crappy start of the day but that just lifted my spirits!

[@custa73burner]

Love the way you make educating people so entertaining.

[@HaileeandKendra]

Trying our best!

[@rogersmallman8960]

Hey, ladies, thanks for sharing this video. I've had the pleasure, in my nearly 60 years, of working with and knowing many wonderful people in the LGBTQ+ community. There's been times when I wanted to ask questions but didn't because I felt it was inappropriate or too intrusive. The closest I came was asking a friend if the 'Q' stood for Queer because I always thought that was a slur or insult. He answered that some people identify as queer "but not me" he said "I'm straight up gay!!". My response was "God love ya for that!!". I've held the belief that be who you want to be, as long as you find some peace and happiness. I think that worked for me for when my darling eldest came out when my response to it was "oh . . . okay" lol. Take care, and thanks again

[@kristineedwards3803]

I love the both of you so much and y’all answered these questions in the most real way possible!

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you! We tried our best!

[@ReaganFletcher-n1h]

my question is how do people think you all look like sisters: different hair, different noses, different eye colour, different skin type, and if i saw you all out and about i would think (damn hot gay couple) not that you arent over screen (imma shut up now) its really nice to have all the question answered. ive been struggling alot lately with me sexuality since me and my girlfriend have been getting closer. i say dont let other people tell you how to act and dont change who you are for them. you two are rocking it

[@sharko_sar]

This title is concerning because people are concerning... but you two are entertaining, so I'm here for it!

[@luke-guitarist]

This is a video that everyone needs to hear and see and understand that these things need to be discussed and understood maturely… you guys rock

[@drewherrington8961]

I am a straight woman and I literally love y’all so much. You are so beautiful you are my favorite people and I am so happy to see what y’all’s opinions are. Thank you for spreading awareness. ❤❤❤

[@beyond_gotham4327]

Kendra is out FIGHTING today!!! Hailee’s pure honesty and emotion is so inspiring We love to see such honest passion ❤ you two balance each-other perfectly

[@fredpayne4282]

Love you both and I truly hope you keep being you both 💗 💓

[@HaileeandKendra]

We can’t be anything but our true selves 😊

[@fredpayne4282]

@@HaileeandKendra I agree 👍 and I truly love you both because you are always fun and in true love

[@GjuroZlikovsky]

I can only say this again and again and again ... World needs more poeple like you ... men, women, straight, gay, whatever ... your humanity, empathy, and humor are what worlds needs more and more, every single day ... please don't change one iota

[@stratotommie1116]

Hi guys been watching for a long time and I gotta say Kendra out here burning down the world today and I am here for it. I am absolutely on board with all your responses it baffles me that some people can even come up with some of these questions. Love you guys keep up everything.

[@matthealy2567]

As an older straight white guy and a parent, listening to your stories and your honestly... you rocked it. I loved your honestly and your openness.I wish I could sit down over coffees and listen to your life-stories you made me laugh, smile, and made feel so sad hearing how hard it was growing up.... I hate hearing the word "normal" - you be you... live your life and love. Peace

[@jamess1787]

Girls, this is DEEEP. Almost wept a tear. "If i had a choice, I would have been straight because I struggled with who I was." Keep it up! You create great content, even if I can never remember who is who.

[@HaileeandKendra]

You almost wept at what Hailee said 😊 I’m Kendra (blonde), her wife. Thank you for enjoying our content 🌹

[@calumgrant4937]

I am watching this VOD as an older straight man and I am so amazed that these questions are actually being asked. You guys are real and I like the way you don't avoid the obviously stupid ideas / questions some people ask.

[@RJLNetwork]

It doesnt matter if you're straight, gay or lesbian. Love is love and that is all that matters! ❤

[@travisSimon365]

I have a friend who is a lesbian, as well as a professor of gender studies, and she has been patient with any questions I have had (and mine are harder, such as... is it EVER OK to out someone? What if they are publicly saying homophobic things, etc). But, my point is that it's useful for people who don't know lesbians to have these questions answered, even if you have to point out how dumb the questions are. It sucks that it might take a little chip out of yourselves, but I think and hope that it will make life easier and less annoying/hurtful/obnoxious for the next generation.

[@bettycross8872]

Excellent points you’ve made - and brave to ask those kinds of questions. I think Hailee and Kendra would be happy to address the harder questions too (like the one you asked your friend) - you might ask them. They appreciate people asking honest (even if tougher to answer) questions (I’m one of their moms).

[@meganpovlich7126]

Kendra went OFF and I loved every moment of it. PREACH.

[@HaileeandKendra]

Kendra wasn’t having any of it today lol

[@Toby9103]

no one chooses who they love, it just comes naturally.. and the worst thing a human can do to themselves is to deny themselves love.. be happy for yourself and others who find love(because its not easy) who you are attracted to does not matter. you love who you love

[@cherryblossom8887]

I can definitely say my life between being a lesbian, bi, gay, with many gender crises make it so difficult for me to explain to people how I actually present. Your opinion on not genderizing clothes make me so happy. I am a trans masc person who uses any pronouns except she/her while still wearing dresses and clothes that make me comfortable. The thought that someone would based my gender based on a piece of clothing makes me feel sick. I've seen people who are born and identify as men and wear dresses and skirts and crop tops and heals, and every single one of those men absolutely look gorgeous. I've seen women wear blazers, trenchcoats and suits and other masculine clothes. I've never second guessed someone's gender based on their clothes. You tell me you're trans fem and you still wear suits? You're still trans fem. Honestly, people who are confident in their own body look ten times hotter to me. I'm dating someone who's genderfluid and they use all pronouns and I adore them, no matter what. I care more about your personality and world view than I do your appearance. Besides that, I've recently found your channel and I love watching your videos!! I love how confident both of you are in your sexuality, you make it easier for me to accept myself and prove my insecurities are wrong. Take care anyone reading this! Eat food, drink water, and get lots of rest. Bye:)

[@TheWireMan94]

23:31 Hailee was a deer in headlights for a second, then a bright red tomato

[@kellyr9949]

As a trans lesbian i know i was born this way who would choose to be trans and being a trans lesbian is very very hard i wouldnt wish it on anyone just wanted to say you all r so cute together like u were made for each other and it shows

[@dennisclouse7314]

Who you love, why you love, when you love, is nobody’s business but your own, good luck to both of you lovely ladies…

[@markedwards2717]

My daughter came out to me at 16...(Almost two years ago). I kinda knew, but when she said "Dad I'm gay" I just couldn't help myself and....well...said "Hi Gay! I'm DAD!!"...Dad jokes for the WIN!!! ;) Love is love, and I'm happy she is who she is. She has admitted a few times to looking at men, and again, I'm happy if she discovers she's bisexual. She's almost 18 (Xmas Eve!!!), her and her twin brother are both amazing human beings and I'm proud to be their dad! As long as they are happy, loved and live a great life...their sexuality is theirs. I'll always be there to be a Dad, protect them, help mend a broken heart and do all I can to make sure they live a great life! Good on ya Ladies, F*ck the haters, the f*ck bois and the ignorant morons. BTW 54, Brisbane, Australia a proud Gay rights supporter!

[@keefeepoos]

I love these two, funny, intelligent and generous enough to share their joy in the love they have for each other.

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you! 🌹

[@Angel_Devil14]

Kendra is like me so true and gets to the point 😁

[@mikemerlo4156]

Thanks for the laughs, pick up lines, and jokes! I'm a straight guy who's been divorced twice. Kendra, finally said the quiet part out loud, " Just because you're a woman, does not mean you're not toxic". This has to be the statement of the century, especially in today's world.

[@TheHumanOlive]

I find it so insane that people ask you these questions on a daily basis even as a straight male. I’m lucky to have parents that have tough me common sense not to say anything like this shit (even though it shouldn’t need to be said 🙄). This video was awesome by the way. And keep doing what you are doing it’s making the world a better place.

[@HaileeandKendra]

We’re trying our best to educate 😊 glad you’ve enjoyed the video!

[@fourwinglmt]

The way you fielded these questions with such poise and precision was amazing to watch. I love watching y’all’s videos, I loved the firey side of the responses to these really rude troglodyte questions. As a gender fluid queer person I see similar questions a lot

[@CharliesChaos]

Also, I love how confident and straight forward in her responses and shutting down inappropriate comments. It's really empowering and inspiring!

[@Angel_Devil14]

You guys are so beautiful I hope you have a great night ❤️

[@HaileeandKendra]

Thank you! We hope you’ll have a great night too 😊

[@CClaxer]

What I like about this, Kendra, it's obvious you are fed up with these kinds of questions and that is why you are so blunt in your responses in these, and it is appreciated. Love whom you want, enjoy life, and I'm sorry these get asked so much you even felt like doing a video on it.

[@MrAmrasElensar]

I admire your patience and understanding in answering these questions. I'm 41 years old now and these are the same, often childisch, questions we would have as very young kids. How little we have grown as a society... But your positive way of countering these, helps me be less upset with it. Thanks for being you! :)

[@Sleepyperson07]

I relate to Hailiee so much at 14:21. I know exactly how she feels because I still feel that way and it really sucks. I don’t have a supportive family do to the fact that they are christian and have strong beliefs. And because I grew up in that household I feel like a mistake and that I failed. I too hate myself and feel like crying because I can’t be “normal” and I can’t change the fact that I am a lesbian. But thanks to both Hailiee and Kendra I feel a little more normal because they are proud of who they are and they are just amazing. They make me feel kinda proud to be me and just love who I love without judgement. I hope to find a woman that I will get married to and have that closeness and comfort like these two women clearly do. I hope to find love like that and these women give me hope.

[@bettycross8872]

Yes - b proud to be you!! Know that you are unconditionally and eternally loved by God/Christ (and the universe) precisely as you are. And know that Many many Christians totally celebrate and embrace the LGBTQ+ community……not all, but some (maybe your parents?) are still learning.

[@jasonlouis697]

First, you two are fantastic. Beyond how you are personally, you take the time to answer questions and that will go a long way to gaining acceptance for everyone. I thank you for your bravery and willingness to interact. Second, that whole thought that if someone is gay then they lust after everyone of the same sex is so ridiculous. If someone took a moment to think about it, that's not how most of us are. Beyond that, I would hope folks are able to look at anyone they are attracted to and maintain their vow to their SO. My wife and I joke that I'd be the worst person in the world at cheating because I would run home to tell her about it. If you dont want to share everything with your SO, why are you together? Kinda makes me sad for folks.

[@jasonlouis697]

Also, I thought the stereotype was that if someone was extra attractive, then they're gay. I dunno.

[@jasonlouis697]

The phase question. Just so you know that straights put up with this shite, too, a quick story. I met my wife playing WoW. We moved very quickly and got married. My friends had an intervention for me telling me I was being foolish and blah blah blah. People love to judge others. (Almost no one in that room had a SO.) My phase will be 18 years in a month. Idiots.

[@bettycross8872]

@@jasonlouis697😂 great commentary 👍🏻

[@jasonlouis697]

Thank you! 😁

[@AnnabethOwl]

@@jasonlouis697I always see the “I’m sorry Karen my phase last longer than your marriage” as an answer to the phase question 😂

[@Choralone422]

Some of these questions really shine a light on how there are quite a few out there that are stuck on "traditional" gender roles & expectations and desperately want to apply those onto others. I'm a married man who is a stay at home father for a disabled child while my wife has a full time job outside the home. When we made the decision to make that change several years ago (instead of having both of us work full time) there were many members of our families that had a LOT to say about it, both to us directly and behind our backs! It was really disappointing and also none of their business. I've also gotten quite a few dirty looks and questions while taking our child to medical appointments and therapies. Like how dare a father spend that amount of time with their child and be that involved with their life and well being. However, when I turn around and take my own elderly parents to their medical appointments the reaction to me is always "he's a good son" and things like that. smh

[@HaileeandKendra]

You’re being a good father, and there’s nothing wrong with a dad taking care of his child! We’re sorry people around you was (is) judgmental, it really is unfortunate ☹️ we’re sending good vibes your way 🌹

[@Lowko4456]

As a 31 yr old pansexual male i agree with everything you say and the ignorance of some people astounds me. People shoud be free to love whomever they choose without society's judgement. Keep up the great content ladies

[@Fluffy_Gaymes]

I’m an 18 year old lesbian and I’ve been out for 9 years now, and I’ve definitely had my fair share of abusive relationships even one where I was st@bed, so I definitely think like Kendra said in some ways it’s easier, but now after 8 abusive relationships I’ve found my loving fiancé, I want to thank you guys for helping me through these difficult times and showing me that love dose always win and to never give up on it❤❤

[@jennifermichelleswanson3797]

First of all, me personally, I don't think it matters to anyone else what 2 consenting adults do behind closed doors, whether straight or gay. secondly, it shouldn't matter to anyone else if a person is bi, straight, gay or whatever. It only matters to that individual. To those that are homophobic, that's your problem, it's not anyone else's but your problem. It's very clear that Hailee and Kendra love each other so why can't they do what they want? They don't have to share with us on KZbin, I'm glad that they do, as their videos are very informative or very funny. Hailee and Kendra, keep doing what you want to do and have fun doing it. I love your videos and can't wait to see more of them. 🥰🥰😘😘😍😍😁😁 Edit: A person can find anyone attractive, but that doesn't mean that they are attracted to that person, like Kendra says. I think everyone should be happy that both Hailee and Kendra have found their love, and they are happy with the person they married and anyone who watches their videos can clearly see that Kendra loves Hailee and Hailee loves Kendra. If you can't see that then your eyes are closed, or that you have blinders on and don't want to see it. Because they clearly love each other. Edit-Edit: I think people should watch the movie "Ther Truth About Jane" it deals with a lot of these issues, from family, friends and teachers and what it's like to grow up being gay or lesbian. I would very highly recommend watching this movie, to anyone who is curious about what it's like to be gay or lesbian. It really hits hoe and I think it's a very good movie.

[@slamstruck240]

The fact that y'all get asked these questions everyday or every week is insane! Y'all are awesome! My wife and I love your content and how you turn them around like that!! The heart and soul wants what it wants, and the bedroom stuff definitely is meant to stay behind closed I one hundred percent agree!! Also Kendra's feisty meter was turned to eleven in this one just awesome!! Anyway just wanted to say y'all are amazing and awesome and we love your content!! Still just perplexed by the questions and comments y'all get but so glad y'all can turn them around and laugh them off!!

[@kajuncourier]

How you 2 connect with each other is all it matters. Each person needs to connect with themselves first and know whats best for you,no matter what other people tell you need to act a certain way. You are born the way you are . Humans judge humans too much, let it be. When you can walk in those shoes,then you may make a comment. Not your BUSINESS to make decisions of other lives, unless its life or death , some times its the order that needs to happen. There is a higher spirit of guidance that has different titles , but in the end,it's each individual choice to believe or not. I support/respect everything you two stand for. Life is never easy, manageable at best. Each individual has there own path to follow, cheer them on and let them lead it to best of there ability. Assist as asked,other wise back away. Help can be a hindrance too,slippery slope. ( Hailee and Kendra,both of you have something special between the two of you. ) Your LOVE bubbles over every time I watch your videos. I hope many life blessings come for the both of you.

[@caralynn.]

Doing the Lord's work, then cooling down with a few laps around Target. Love you guys.

[@glendehaan2103]

I would love to see more videos like this. This kind of content can be an AMAZING teaching opportunity for people out there. Thank you SO much for sharing all of this for us.

[@HaileeandKendra]

We have an interesting collection of screenshots (sadly), so there will be the chance in the future to do more content like this 😊

[@katsudekubakudeku4092]

Hi so I'm a bit late to this but I think people need to grow up and stop worrying about other people and focus on themselves. I've said this to a few of my friends who have been in a similar position, that people only ask these questions so they can either A) gossip because that have nothing better to do with their lives or B) they are so insecure about themself that they need to be like everyone else and question the "Abnormal" or the "people in the phase" to feel better about themselves. P.S. love your video they make me laugh. Hope you are taking care ❤❤❤

[@Lush.Melody]

😂 Kendra, when you quoted "you look at women more than me," I lost it! My husband says that all the time, and it's very true. My head turns faster than his, and I am the one elbowing him and quietly saying "hot damn that woman is attractive!" I also have a very masculine energy while looking feminine (I'm 50/50 in clothing style), which my husband is very attracted to as well as myself (Kris 100% 🫣). I identify as pan and poly, while my husband (of 18 years) is straight and monogamous to a fault (which I respect and am loyal to a fault). There are so many other opposites about us, including blood type, but I think that's part of what makes us work. Also, I absolutely love how you both interact with each other, and your energies are so well aligned. It's so perfectly clear how much you utterly adore each other 💗! It's sad those who can't see past their own nose... they're missing out on a huge chunk of the beauty love holds.

[@MrRawrs831]

I just wanna say thank you for the wonderful life lessons you brought up during this video. I think knowing a lot of the answers to the questions that were given honestly helped me even more confirm my sexuality, even if I know who and what I am. It helped me learn and understand more on the lgbtq spectrum and more. So again, thank you for all the answers you’ve given to the questions!! Side note: You guys are an absolute amazing team and amazing role models for the people who have learned or are still learning about themselves!!!!❤❤❤

[@themerlynn]

I was raised to be open minded towards pretty much everything. I may be straight, but that's just me. The only things that matter are 1. Love. If two people are genuinely in love, good for them. I'm happy for them. 2. Understanding of others ways. Open your mind and understand others. Understanding brings compassion and love.

[@codydonalddson9023]

To the both of you I want to give you a sincere thank you for sharing your lives and experiences with others. I identify as a straight male, but that has no sway on why I watch and listen to your content. I thoroughly enjoy and love the beautiful and wholesome relationship the two of you have. I continue to look forward to seeing more of that form of purity and fun ! Again thank you and I wanted to be able to share with you how amazing you are!

[@CrankyQuokka]

The expressions and feistyness spoke volumes! I'd like to say I can't believe some peoples audacity with those questions, but we see it everyday on on social media. Another great vid, thank you 😊

[@yodaawilson]

You both have the right to be who you are and love who you do. And be attractive to who you are. I appreciate that as 2 women you can relate to each other better. I work in mental health, with individuals of all orientations, with families, relationships, sexual issues and just wanted more clarity. I had not heard of Tribing thank you for adding another term to my understanding and a way lesbians can connect to each other physically. Thank you for helping me become more educated and I truly appreciate your videos and this Q and A.

[@heathersirbaugh7201]

Love Kendra's bluntness and Hailee's comment about some couples being "acoustic". Great video! It is sad some people don't think about what they say before they ask these questions, but thank you for sharing how you handle them ❤

[@texasred118]

You two are perfect examples of how to be nice, genuine people! Love you guys, nothing but positivity from here :-)