Telling somebody who is upset to “calm down” is like telling somebody who is shot to “stop bleeding”. That’s not how that works.
@xplr_ghosthunting9 ай бұрын
exactly like when i’m upset especially when i’m crying and someone tells me to calm down i can’t calm down i try but it’s hard
@joelwilliford67579 ай бұрын
I feel that is trying to take control and that your feelings are not important.
@justdeaf-ry6bn9 ай бұрын
We all got emotions. Let it out whatever it is. We're human
@lauraevans21049 ай бұрын
I think it also comes across as trivializing me being upset. There is usually a reason for it, so it’s dismissive.
@FacePlant13249 ай бұрын
Yes, it is a thing everyone does; it feels almost instinctual.
@lannystanfield75659 ай бұрын
"What's in your purse?" The head of the last person who asked me that.
@rotabo0019 ай бұрын
hahaha....ok, that was funny.
@wyatt7197 ай бұрын
If you ask me to get your purse and it feels like you have weights or bricks I'll ask out of curiosity of what is so heavy and why is it in a purse. If you slap me I would genuinely be confused
@NativeWarrior884 ай бұрын
Yes! I love this one! 😊
@theaikidoka9 ай бұрын
The "I don't care" conversation was relevant to me. My sister and I are both big "don't carers" and we can sometimes have a standoff about who is going to finally choose. You're right, there's a world of difference between "I don't have any interest" and "I am happy for you to choose for both of us". I've found that saying something like "Literally anything except X or Y" is better, especially when in groups - by the time you've knocked five choices off, the choice is WAY easier.
@aaronwinget179 ай бұрын
I agree with Kendra here. The person who asks should be paying unless it has been discussed beforehand if they will split the bill. Also YES the calm down thing is just a big no-no, and I'm pretty sure that is something a lot of people can relate to
@spider-fan-uk9 ай бұрын
I genuinely cannot understand why people say such horrible, rude or nasty things like this to anyone, regardless of who they are, there's no need for it all, and I bet half the time, they've no idea how upsetting or hurtful it can be. Thank you for taking the time to share these with us and your thoughts.
@AnEnchantedLife9 ай бұрын
I ADORE the fact that the two of you have your shit together! And THAT is an attractive quality! Much love from Northern Ontario, Canada.
@kendallbelles429 ай бұрын
7:19 telling someone to calm down works as well as baptizing a cat -my dad
@lovelexie19458 ай бұрын
I mean, he's not wrong 😂
@littlemisswolfee10959 ай бұрын
I agreethat it should be the person who asked the other one out who pays, that being said I never ASSUME the other person is paying and always have enough money to cover myself minimum
@Vardas23239 ай бұрын
This video was very informative. I never knew some of this stuff. Keep up the great work.
@victoriawaddle83779 ай бұрын
When someone tells me “your nothing without me” it just gives me motivation to do more with my life, be a better person. And the petty in me to show them I am everything without them. My ex told me this all the time because she got me out of a bad situation with my parents and I am grateful for that but I didn’t like that it was held over my head for years into our marriage till finally, (not how I planned things but she went out of country for a year for military reasons) and I started realizing how much she gaslit me all the time. We obviously did call it quits and are officially divorcing this year when she returns to the states. But yeah. I am healing from all my trauma and working for the good life I deserve.
@jimthiel22479 ай бұрын
You are great people and very good insight on how people feel about things . Can wait for next video and when is your next trip I love those too . Love you
@pqrstsma20119 ай бұрын
oooh the intro was cute! looks like Kendra (the real one) was genuinely not prepared for / not expecting that!
@alexromero97339 ай бұрын
I've had female coworkers who felt insecure, and I gave them a hug and said, "You are a QUEEN, A WARRIOR, A SUPER MODEL", and they immediately felt better for the rest of the day or for most of it. So, I try to look for the beauty in women and men, and not drag them down unless they talk smack first then that might be a different story. But all and all, I believe that everyone is beautiful just the way they are and in their own way and try to not cause any uncomfortable discussion and try to lift them up rather than kick them down. Stay gorgeous my friends
@briansgamesandanime9 ай бұрын
These questions and statistics are actually depressing and frustrating at the same time. It all comes down to one basic principle: Have respect for yourself and have respect for others and everything else will fall into place.
@fakecake19899 ай бұрын
hahaha so excited for this video! you both have given me the confidence to try to come out to my family this year! do you have any helpful advice? im going to come out as lesbian😁
@magic-art-rubikscube-chess9 ай бұрын
@folklore.on.top Good luck on coming out this year am really happy for you just be yourself and be true to who you are and I'm positive that your family will love you for who you are ❤❤❤ 🙏🙏🙏
@Silvia_7739 ай бұрын
YEEEEESSS. You got this girl!!
@xplr_ghosthunting9 ай бұрын
you got this girl you can do it
@AnnabethOwl9 ай бұрын
GL!!! I’m also going to try to come out as a non binary lesbian this year!
@vampirechick8139 ай бұрын
Best of luck!! You got this! I hope it goes over well!
@kieronsdead9 ай бұрын
As someone with ASD, I really appreciate how you went into detail on better ways to say things like the bad memory issue. ❤
@shannoncrotts2279 ай бұрын
Love your videos as always! You said something during this one about going live.... Do you still? I never get notifications so was just wondering.
@Grozny_grad199X9 ай бұрын
Ladies, thanks for the dating advice. You women are literally some of the coolest people who offer advise than just pointing out mistakes after the guy/girl has been on the date. Thank you again .
@mikeblank57349 ай бұрын
"Whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa before you mix that concrete...." hysterical.
@quantumkitty1289 ай бұрын
Was a DV victim for 6 years with my ex, I was so ashamed to tell anyone that I genuinely didn't know how to get out for a scary amount of time. I'm so very lucky to be alive tbh, and have spent the years since I left as an activist for DV victims. Thanks for covering this. It's so much more common than I knew.
@ashley-jane89179 ай бұрын
You 2 are absolutely relationship goals!, so much communication and honesty! its so good to see!!🥰🥰
@sunshinepogue4585 ай бұрын
34:03 or so… it wasn’t PMS that caused that court case loves. It was ovarian cysts and the hormonal influx it brings however in the average woman that age it would be argued as PMS due to the fact that until you hit your menopausal phases you only have your cysts rupturing during your menstrual cycle due to PCOS or polycystic ovarian syndrome. It was argued she was not in the right frame of mind due to a hormonal influx related to her medical condition plus the stress she was under. As someone who was diagnosed at the age of nine with this issue I can attest to the fact absolutely anything can set you off so god forbid someone give you a reason to rage that hard. I think I remember the case you are talking about in fact because I was in fact alive for it and watched the footage of her rolling over her husband and possibly the woman he was cheating on her with multiple times via news coverage. The news these days is all propaganda. In my day? It was actually reporting. I miss those days lol.
@SeanFromMars9 ай бұрын
Another fabulous video, you two are so wise
@sirsilk19783 ай бұрын
Dunno why this one appeared on my feed today, but I'm glad it did. I'm guilty of the "I don't care" right along with Hailee. And I'll admit, I'm stubborn about this because I genuinely get aggravated when someone says "I don't care" as a means of distancing themselves from something they care about a lot- be honest with your feelings, put it out there. Fully appreciate Kendra's take on it that she is attempting an interaction. And that's fine and cute and a good relationship language technique for a lot of people. But in Hailee's (and mine) defense, actually meaning "I don't care" is a complete answer. The question asked for an opinion within clearly defined parameters- and a definitive answer was returned. If the point of the question was to stimulate interaction, then try bringing an open-ended question or suggesting an activity, or sharing something funny on the phone. Also, and in written form, there is a chance this comes across more focus-shifting than intended, or looking to start a conflict where there is not one. I assure that is not the intent, just an attempt at introducing a point not previously mentioned. When Partner A is asking a close-ended opinion question, and Partner B returns a complete and genuine "I don't care" in response, Partner A becoming offended at that answer is being dismissive Partner B's thoughts and feelings. An alternative approach when dealing with a Partner B would be instead of soliciting an opinion in a closed question, would be to instead ask Partner B to create a food rank list and see if that gets them fixated on something. When they do, then Bam!- opinion for dinner is revealed. And of course, if the other person doesn't genuinely mean "I don't care" then all bets are off. After several years of marriage, I've learned that it is indeed possible to bring the wrong thing home for dinner when the other person said IDC. Our work around is that I'll go anywhere and pick it up on my way home, but I will not do so without a complete order from the other person. One place, one order. No choices, options (unless when dealing with specials or limited supply), or imprecise language. I'm like DoorDash that way. Don't want mustard on your cheeseburger? Better say it. That either McNuggets or Filet-O-Fish is fine? Great, then you can go and tell them directly. But it cuts both ways, too. I better be prepared to wait half an hour for a pizza after an already long day. Or if that place closes early, then I'm taking that light while it's still orange. Not a fan of the place Partner A chose? Then I better find something on the menu that fits or be ready to make something for myself at home.
@kailynjohnson82679 ай бұрын
This video was very helpful. Thank you!
@Ekimsredne9 ай бұрын
I used to tell my wife to “take a breath.” It worked better than calm down. Of course it started as a joke about being able to swing better if u take a deep breath first & choose where 2 aim easier.
@KeiShirogawa9 ай бұрын
I remember one time at the store with my then fiancé and we were at the check out line. The woman ahead of us looked at me and asked if I was pregnant. Astonished and gob-smacked, I quickly stated no. She then looked at my stomach then back to me then stated, "It would have been a happy mother's day." I've always been a bigger person and made fun of/ridiculed for my weight but that interaction certainly takes the prize
@Tithoniavr_2.04 ай бұрын
(K) “first of the take their freaking name” (H) “only their last” (K) “ayee” that’s my fav❤❤❤❤
@GoFishOffice8 ай бұрын
I really enjoyed this! You both put out great videos I am so glad I found your channel last year!
@noelosburn9 ай бұрын
never fail to make us happy great work guys just keep on making videos
@ChiChi-dy9qi9 ай бұрын
I agree with Kendra on the "who pays" question: The inviter pays.
@xplr_ghosthunting9 ай бұрын
i hate it when someone tells me to calm down i will not calm down it doesn’t work it makes me more wound up
@VangaurdNZ9 ай бұрын
Cool, some wild statistics there lol .... Thanks for presenting it in such a fun and awesome way ! , thank you both for the super cool content ... and also both of you are incredibly beautiful humans, don't let anyone tell you otherwise !!
@markeggers83569 ай бұрын
That was truthful, spot on, and frickin' awesome!
@jefftucker9759 ай бұрын
My favorite response to someone saying ,"Why are you so negative?" I respond in a tongue in cheek way, "I'm an optimistic pessimist. I'm 'positively negative'....... lol
@Corbit15198 ай бұрын
I love that!!!! Perfect response!
@EiyaFinn-SasaraStrix8 ай бұрын
I'm so happy that when you two do these videos, you explain things, you give moral feedback, you both are amazing role models. We are so privileged to have you two. I'm so proud of you two wholeheartedly.
@timbutler50339 ай бұрын
This was very educational thank you for this. You should do more like it. I don’t know a whole lot about human beings much less how to act around them so this is something I greatly value.
@eagelcat9 ай бұрын
I love your videos and your both wonderful people have a fantastic year 😁
@JoeZ72184 ай бұрын
See this is the reason I love watching you guys. (One of the reasons.) I say “I don’t care.” All the time. Even if we decide where to go,if I don’t know exactly what I want, I could look at a menu for 1/2 an hour and not make up my mind. T o combat that, I now look at an online menu the moment I know where I’m going and can not peruse the menu again OR I will change my mind, maybe. 😁❤️
@ladyschide82582 ай бұрын
When I was 18 or 19 I worked at a fast food place, usually drive through. More than once I got asked if I was pregnant. My response, every time, "no, I'm just fat". That sounds harsh but I think that was my twisted way of protecting myself so that I didn't fall apart. And I know a huge part of me said that because it made them just as uncomfortable as they made me. I've also had many people ask me for all my friends numbers. I've been messed with for my weight for most of life. I'm 41,extremely overweight, and live with chronic pain. I am still very affected my weight and by how other people view me based on my weight. I truly believe most of my problems would be solved by weight loss. I'm trying, but it's hard. And, when you're trying to get healthier and someone targets your weight, it hits extra hard. You being to question why you even try. This world would be so much better if we treated each with a little kindness, respect, and grace. Thank you for calling out red flag behavior and for sharing a better way to treat people 💖
@AlanDike7 ай бұрын
Generally, when a guy says calm down.. its not telling you not to feel.. its more of a "we cannot communicate and fix this in this manner". I've taken to asking my wife "do you want affirmation, or do you want to solve it.. let me know so I can behave appropriately". Still trying to find a good way to say it, that works better than calm down, but not great. If you want to rant, let me know.. I'll be there calling whoever a bitch right there with ya.. if you want to make progress on the solution, or fix it.. you gotta meet me where I can work, so to speak. HAHAHAHA.. All my exes are crazy.. so you're attracted to crazy people? You're with me now.. am I crazy? I mean people got types and all that, but "I dont think you thought this through very well" type of statements are hilarious to me (I kinda enjoy watching the social awkwardness)
@RebelMoon20239 ай бұрын
I am someone who battles daily to control my temper so when I explode and I get told to calm down it get's even worse and then when I do, I feel like such a shit for losing my cool.
@Osma7778 ай бұрын
Love the video, but have two "issues." I'll let my daughter walk around an island in a bikini top and shorts without comment, but wearing that in a land-locked city will get a negative response. What people SHOULD do, and what they ACTUALLY DO, is not yet the same thing. I don't want people treating my daughter badly, or thinking my daughter doesn't respect herself because she's barely covered up. Second, and connected, even the last statement "you look very beautiful today!" doesn't always work properly. In the last 3 months, I have said "You look beautiful today", "I really like your blouse!" and "I love your hair!" and all three comments have gotten me looks from the woman as if I was some creepy stalker that wanted to lock her in a basement. Obviously not everyone responds that way, but it isn't rare. I give compliments at work all the time (and I work in a female-dominated hospital) and I would estimate that at least 10% of women assume that a compliment is an attempt to get in their pants. Society just isn't ready.
@iantassinari49424 ай бұрын
About the shaving, I said "A lot of time" perfectly in sync with Hailee and just DIED But also, aside from the ones that you should never ask anybody, most of these things you can ask or talk about after you get to know the person and you know who you're talking to. Boundaries are the most important thing (well, respecting those boundaries). Once they're set, you can asses what you might want to bring up from there. You should really never talk about most of these things within the first two months of meeting / being with someone imo. I also agree with everything you two said. I didn't expect to get emotional watching this but when I actually thought about the fact that some people say this stuff, it really hit hard. It's not that hard to be respectful people, just keep things to yourself.
@Angel_Devil149 ай бұрын
I can relate to all of these because my family does the same thing to me because I eat very little in a day an when I eat a lot my family just makes fun of me an I just put on a fake smile an just live with it
@Wesker113A5 ай бұрын
I know most of this already but I'll remember the new stuff I learned. I'm working on seeing a long time friend soon down in Texas and I really care about her 🧡
@warben38 ай бұрын
This was a very different kind of video from you two ladies. It was also informative and demonstrates how smart and mature you both are. P.S. I agree when Hailee says "all tiitties are good titties". 😂😂😂❤❤❤
@KaitlynBenavides9 ай бұрын
First off, I would like to thank you guys for making the content you do. It has helped me through some tough times. Secondly you guys are quite literally my idols. So please never stop doing what you do. I am sure there is at least one other person that feels the same way.
@Audiogeek-kf2ez9 ай бұрын
These ladies are as open minded of their youth. Absolutely cool
@simonetaylor28977 ай бұрын
I loved Hailey's little "yaaay" when they were talking about Texas Roadhouse🥺😂
@simonetaylor28977 ай бұрын
HAILEE I MEANT😭
@donniecollins20059 ай бұрын
I love listening to you two, your a both sound and look happy, if more people would be like you 2, this would be a better world 😊😊😊
@robertconger20089 ай бұрын
Glad to say that have never said any of these things, nor tbh, thought say. Of course, my experience is lacking
@thatjeff75509 ай бұрын
Oooooh! The sign says, "LIVE *RUDE* GIRLS." Totally different mood there. LOL
@joelwilliford67579 ай бұрын
I would never say "You should smile more" to anyone, especially a stranger. It indicates: 1 judgment, making them wrong somehow. 2. It's creepy. I might say something like. I love your smile, which is a positive compliment. But again, not just in passing or as an opening line. My daughter always throws out compliments to random people. But always about a piece of clothing or hair style, something they spent time and thought on. I've never felt comfortable complementing strangers, I feel like they would find me creepy. But when Ashley does it you see that person's face light up. I always feel good when I see her do that. Anyways, GREAT topic. You guys are fun.
@Stradivarius62889 ай бұрын
What about.. "You look like my NEXT ex"...? 😅 kidding
@xplr_ghosthunting9 ай бұрын
nah don’t say that
@billyfuller48429 ай бұрын
Y'all are great don't ever stop making videos
@ROCKONplaceboforever9 ай бұрын
Learned alot hope a part 2
@purplespudz40239 ай бұрын
the words calm down never work with anyone
@UKSponge3609 ай бұрын
that last one though, oh my gosh!
@douglasw09 ай бұрын
"Go make me a sandwich" "Dude, if I can still walk to the kitchen to make you a sandwich, you're not enough."
@Ms.Chymander9 ай бұрын
I'm someone whose more insecure about intelligence, especially since I have a slower development. However, I do get caught up being insecure about my physical appearence. I've always been bullied about how I look, especially about my weight and would always be called fat, overweight, and meaner offensive names along the lines. But I've always been told, as I'm filling out more, sexualized comments about my body. Other insecurities involved with my appearence are my eyebags and acne (when it's flared up really bad) so an immediate no-no for me is when someone is pointing out and/or making fun of things that shouldn't be said.
@MikeWayson9 ай бұрын
You know you're a dedicated fan when you leave COD to watch the new video ❤
@Bugthehollywoodpug9 ай бұрын
I left palworld 😂
@stevefox22249 ай бұрын
Been married for 39 years, I would never do any of these things or asking these questions! Great video!
@dovah21679 ай бұрын
some of them are so horrible i feel like the little percentage who says they don't hate when they're told *that* is because they didn't especially experienced it and it's most a "how many women have been told that"
@laurenschenck53559 ай бұрын
Happy Valentine’s Day Kendra and Hailee ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@quantumkitty1289 ай бұрын
I always get "Do you have a sister," or "Any single friends," when someone is hitting on me and I say I'm not single - and it's not just insulting, but like, I'm not a matchmaker. Find someone available on your own, dude.
@deziraewildfire7 ай бұрын
When I’m in a relationship with a male, I’m very feminine but when I’m in a relationship with a female I tend to be more masculine. It’s very strange
@Ash-uq1znАй бұрын
Same
@SiryaranelMoone9 ай бұрын
The first couple of times I was asked "why are you single" was okay but lately every single guy is asking me and they then start basically interrogating me like I'm a criminal.
@mastergx19 ай бұрын
2:22 I know i don't care much about whats inside a womans purse BUT I absolutely HATE being asked to get anything from it. Its like a bottomless pit of random junk!
@jennifermichelleswanson37979 ай бұрын
This is very informative and oh so very true. At times I think a lot of people need to come back to this video and listen to it and heed what you guys have said. You girls keep up the good work. I can't wait for your next video and what it will be. Because no matter what it will be either informative or funny. This video was very informative, even if Hailee did take Kendra's name in the very beginning. 😂😂🤣🤣😃😃🤣🤣 That was very funny, because Kendra didn't know what to say. It even threw me off for a second. I was like, wait, what? 😳😳🤔🤔😁😁😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Talapia039 ай бұрын
pmdd is a real thing. (premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) have PMS symptoms (bloating, headaches and breast tenderness) in the weeks before their period. But PMDD also causes severe anxiety, depression and mood changes. Some people with PMDD become suicidal. ) its almost like they become a diffrent person from when ovulation starts till they get their period.
@reactjoemaliajuggalo15729 ай бұрын
11,00 Yeah, That one's taking the wrong way a lot. Sometimes we're asking because we have twice too and don't wanna be seed as weird
@Galiant20108 ай бұрын
On the "Is that all you're wearing?" thing, I agree with you guys. But that doesn't stop me from worrying about my nieces because I know how *other* guys are. I can't do anything about other people. The best I can do is try to be a positive influence to those who look up to me and teach that you treat everyone with respect regardless of how they're dressed. But being aware of how other people think... I just get worried. As you would say, it's about "verbage". It's not a place of judgement, it's a place of care and concern. And I know that they experience those things, simply from being women in this world, and if they feel safe enough then that should be enough for me.
@liamodonovan66109 ай бұрын
I would never ask a woman you are two angels love you're videos
@jeffreymcurtis9 ай бұрын
I have personally seen thousands of instances where someone is told to calm down and also hundreds in which the person who is saying calm down is the one who pissed the person off, and in the vast majority of those saying calm down only serves to escalate it!
@NosferaTTV9 ай бұрын
I agree with Halee about the "Who should pay"... we should get rid of the stereotype. I think whoever asked the other on a date should pay. That should be the given. Just as we should get rid of the stereotype that guys should be the one to ask the girl out for a date. The stereotypes have lifted some over the years but it still lingers.
@PersonalAccount-o7lАй бұрын
Lot of these really hit hard, especially the I’ll hurt myself if u break up with me, my dad is mentally and emotionally abusive and says that I’m all he has and that I hate him and I love my mom more( they are divorced) and he says without me he will commit suicide. He also gaslights me and his memory is sht because of alcohol abuse in the past and he always says I’m remembering it wrong when im not
@reneemckinnon57319 ай бұрын
Whenever anyone says something that indicates a false sense of entitlement towards me, like the “You should smile more” BS, I answer with “I wasn’t put on this earth to please you.”. This generally shuts people up. I also hate getting asked “When are you due?!😊”, I have medical issues that cause me to have relatively thinner limbs and face, but a larger stomach (not huge but I get bloated a lot). I had a taxi driver ask “So when’s the happy day?”, and I didn’t understand so he said it differently a few times before asking when the baby was due, I just said “I’m not pregnant, just fat.😐”, I don’t know why people ask this! If people want you to know they’ll tell you!!! Anyway. I love watching your videos, you’re both very funny, awesome people and you make me smile even when I don’t want to 😊
@scottmooney28379 ай бұрын
Listen though, Lots of women threaten self harm or worse when faced with a breakup. We don't like that either......
@MamaDuckMakes9 ай бұрын
PMDD is like PMS on steroids, it can be totally debilitating and can make you want to do some extreme things - usually to yourself but it has been know to make someone lash out in a much more extreme way that they would usually. It's awful to live with, and extremely hard to get diagnosed as most doctors don't understand it and so women are diagnosed with mental health issues like bipolar
@kathryngordon51159 ай бұрын
If a guy tells you to make a sandwich smile creepily and say ok.
@Azurko9 ай бұрын
A lot of these are universal, not just what women hate.... "Are you sure I'm the father" is still a better question than "Are you sure you're the mother?" :)
@SunflowersAndPumpkins_Eturnal5 ай бұрын
"omg! ; whats not in my purse?!" 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@heatherp5179 ай бұрын
Omg I hate the smile one!!! Unfortunately it’s my mil who tells me that! 😒🙄
@thatjeff75509 ай бұрын
Re: "I don't care." A better way to handle indecision is to respond with, "Hmmmm, not sure. Give me three options and I'll pick one." Or the opposite: "Hmmm, X, Y, Z; pick one." You'd be surprised how much faster the decision process goes.
@AnnabethOwl9 ай бұрын
This is so true. I struggle with decisions making so I need option layed out for me-
@thatjeff75509 ай бұрын
@@AnnabethOwl yep. I learned this during a parenting class decades ago. You're having issues with your young one saying "NO!" to everything? Don't ask them a question that can be answered with "yes" or "no." For example, instead of saying to your three-year-old, "Will you hurry up and get dressed? We're going to be late for school." (response: "NO!") the better way to handle the situation is, "Do you want to wear shirt A or shirt B to school today?" (response: kid has a decision to make between A and B instead of screaming "NO!") Sad to say but deep down we're all cranky toddlers that are overwhelmed with too many decisions to make. So lessen the amount of answers to choose from.
@AshiesCorner9 ай бұрын
I will sit here and be honest. My sister and I both live with our mother as we both are her caregivers. My sister takes care of her in the day time as she is the home health aide. When she clocks out, I am the one who steps up at night. I don't get paid for what I do as my state only will pay for one of us to be the home aide. I love what I do though for my mom and I wouldn't change anything for the world. The sibling talk also got to me. I am an identical twin and I would always get asked if my sister was single. I just shook my head and chuckled.
@lyndsaysworld86709 ай бұрын
As a sexually confused female for the "if you annoy me again I will punch you" one I say that to my guy best friend but jokingly and I'll playfully punch him. (He has tried to sleep with me and still wants to which makes me pissed at him even more often. And if I do punch him hard it is completely on accident like I'll mean to play punch but I will have just finished working out or something and I got the pump going. But I will never intentionally hurt someone unless it's in the bedroom consensually (and not punching maybe like your typical bedroom things) I will never bring myself to intentionally hurt someone I love/care for and I know I have anger issues and when I know that if one interaction gone wrong may cause me to freak out I will isolate myself to keep them safe.
@davidstorrs9 ай бұрын
Regarding "What's your body count?": I hate that phrase so much. It conflates sex with murder -- how in the world is this okay??? How did this become a phrase??? Who says that???????
@bettycross88729 ай бұрын
It also objectifies everyone 😳😕
@PileOfEmptyTapes9 ай бұрын
I would be _awfully_ tempted to counter that one with something like "Last time I checked, I'm not a serial killer... well, some poor unfortunate cornflakes possibly excepted..." 😉
@davidstorrs8 ай бұрын
@@PileOfEmptyTapes:> Well played.
@2sockbros9 ай бұрын
12:22 Kendra speaking facts
@Thrillerscribbler929 ай бұрын
From one woman to two others, you two are beautiful human beings, I love that you both exist and I hope you have a phenomenal Valentine’s Day ❤
@Vomahanew9 ай бұрын
I really loved hearing these from a woman's perspective and I agree with you. I'm torn about the "you eat a lot" stat because most guys I know actually like women who eat a lot, but like you said, there's no way to say it nicely. Also, I will never look at PMS again and not think Passioned Murder Syndrome after watching this video
@Neji42309 ай бұрын
"You have a healthy appetite"' maybe ?
@augustusgreen78819 ай бұрын
Can you do the not my hands challenge
@cassieliston31199 ай бұрын
29:40 OMG Hailee 🤣
@christianmartel52479 ай бұрын
I'm pretty sure that a lot of people don't like questions that they are themself asking to others 😂
@ryanpulliam898713 күн бұрын
About the living with parent's thing. My cousin is 23 and she is enrolled in an apprenticeship at the shipyard full time. She still lives with her mom and she has told her that she will probably stay with her mom. Because she loves her that much. And another scenario.. My uncle had to live with his dad(my grandpa) when he developed severe dementia at a very old age
@NativeWarrior884 ай бұрын
When asked on a date, it has absolutely nothing to do with gender, as to who pays. If you ask the other person, you pay! Period! If Im really mad and you tell me to calm down, Im instantly more angry! Let me get it out! Ill be ok in a minute, if you LEAVE ME ALONE!
@LunaFayedragon9 ай бұрын
Was abused in my last 3 relationships didn't realize in 2 of them but the 1 was abuse in every way shape and form and I unfortunately related to a lot of these because of that
@chester87879 ай бұрын
This was very interesting.I wander what the male version of this would be like. y’all are amazing people
@Renee-e8c9 ай бұрын
Love y'all hope to be able to make it back to your streams soon.