Sarah Paulson asks about forgiveness | Handsome

[@kdholden]

"Hello, my name is Joe...and I work in a button Factory. I have a wife, 3 kids, and a family. One day, my boss walked up to me and said "Hi Joe, are you busy?" "I said no" he said "Turn, the button with your left hand"... And on and on until it's like "Sit down!" 😂😂 👍

[@janelleelizabeth]

And you have to say all of them together “turn it with your left hand, right hand, left foot” as you add them!

[@Tententenoch]

Closest to what I remember as a kid for sure

[@rachelwilliams1454]

"He said Joe, are you busy" I said "YES!" That's how we would finish 😂

[@hero1293]

This is how I remember it and I loved it as a kid! Reminds my of Alice the Camel

[@vanessawhitneypro]

As a nanny, this made me LAUGH SO HARD… I don’t know “Joe”, but, I knew EXACTLY what she was doing & the “game” for kids! 🤣

[@chellestan]

My favorite part of these podcasts is when Tig says "Fortune!" in that surprised/dissapointed mom voice.

[@TheMartyadamson]

Cracks me up every time!

[@hdog4474]

That and Tig’s response to Mae Facts 🤣

[@Pearls_Have_Eyes]

MAE! TIG! FORTUNE! What A Podcast!

[@krisswitzer2314]

Same here

[@Bodhiexplainsitall]

I watch the Joe song over and over. It brings so much joy to my life!

[@SaraNewman-b9v]

Mae's face when Fortune is singing about Joe the Button maker is priceless!

[@anniegargia]

Mae and Tigs faces when Fortune started singing were soooooo funny!!!! 😂

[@rebeccajames1970]

Joe and his button factory were a huge hit in NC. The best was at the end when you had to push the button with your tongue while continuing the song. We see you Fortune 👆🏼

[@skatechi]

I was waiting for Fortune to mention the tongue part, I watched a large group of kids including mine do the tongue out thing a few years ago and laughed so hard.

[@RachieMarie24]

Yes! Singing with the tongue while pushing buttons with all your hands and feet! Silly and fun.

[@carrierogers1511]

Yes! And it reminded me of the song “My Name is Abraham,” it goes on to say “and I have 7 sons, and 7 sons had Father Abraham…” Did other NC kids sing this, or was my 5th grade teacher such a hardcore bible-beater that she was the only one teaching us this song???

[@TibbiScott]

This song (and its variants) is hilarious when you watch a group of kindgarteners singing it. Tig doesn’t know what she is missing not teaching it to the twins.

[@goriamofolos]

OMG I died when Fortune started singing about Joe and the Button-factory. I am from Norway and we always sang this song in school, just a bit different in Norwegian.

[@JS-dv9ji]

I know it and I'm Canadian...but it really depends on the province and Mae is from a way cooler province 😂

[@soul2soul399]

I’m 20 minutes in on the audio podcast right now and I can’t breathe. I’m literally crying with tears coming down my face, trying to catch my breath from their reaction to Fortune’s button factory “rhyming” song! 🤣😭💀

[@messengerofgoodnews]

SAME!!! 😂❤

[@denamartin765]

How funny! I just posted the same comment lol

[@maggielayer3447]

Love how in the same pod you went from button factory to the depths of what forgiveness is/might be. Good stuff

[@janelleelizabeth]

The pod has range 👌

[@handsomepod]

that's handsome!

[@mudbuds1161]

​@handsomepod what a podcast!

[@a.h.9438]

I need you to know that the chaos of the "my name is Joe" song was the hardest I've laughed in a Long time! Thanks for being handsome

[@julieberns1474]

I grew up with “hello, my name is Joe” THANKS for pulling that out of your hat

[@meganhuntz]

Yes, Fortune!! Joe and the button factory - perfect camp song. Please tell Mae and Tig about "Going on a Bear Hunt"

[@thewonkypenguin]

I've bookmarked this episode for when I'm having a bad day. The way Tig and Mae try to hang with Fortune when she starts her song and then reality sets in that THIS is really it is my favorite moment in podcast history.

[@WhosaidIrene]

I’m having a bad time in general. This content is keeping me going minute by minute ♥️

[@thekatiemae85]

The Joe song is a song I learned from Sharon, Lois, and Bram on “The Elephant Show” in the 80s! It’s definitely “a wife and a dog and a family.” Thanks for posting a podcast on MY BIRTHDAY and bringing back so many good memories as well as giving me new laughs! ❤❤

[@jennifertheriault5846]

Yes!

[@andreabellavigna6172]

I’m dying because my version of the Joe button factory song in childhood… his name was BOB.😂😂😂

[@aprilk569]

I learned the button factory song at camp when I was a kid 😂 Not speaking to its value... just it's validity lol. You Handsomes have me cracking up while shoveling a foot of snow off my driveway in -9° weather. Thank you for that 🙏

[@leighv1026]

Joe and his button factory was a total banger when I was a kid. We see you, Fortune! You're not alone!

[@staceface4303]

This was awesome. I felt like I was in a therapy session, a really funny, laugh-out-loud therapy session. And it didn't cost $200! Thanks, Handsome!

[@renhamilton5789]

"‘It is heavy carrying around that raging sense of injustice" Whoa Mae I felt this in my bones. I related a lot to Fortune's Mom story - mine asked for forgiveness from me a couple years ago via email and 'didn't need to talk about it again' so I'd been feeling sort of cheated that I didn't get my pound of flesh and really tell her ALL the ways she hurt me, while she got to just shake the Etch a Sketch and run away. But this ep made me realize that's just breaking MY spine carrying that around. Love you guys and the pod!

[@jeanettehirst9521]

Thanks for posting this video! Mae’s face when Fortune started singing 🤣 💀

[@marisaleva7441]

Agree!!!😂

[@LeeleeBoo141]

I’m a music teacher and I use the button factory song with young kids. It’s an action song and the words create rhythms that can be easily remembered. It’s a good teaching tool and a fun song!

[@Taboo008]

Even Zoom’s touch up couldn’t cover up Tig’s disdain for the Joe song. 😂

[@sherimcdonough663]

You three amigos crack me up 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kathyg8684]

I wasn’t aware of Tig’s documentary on Netflix ….and so I watched it….WOW. What a moving, beautiful doc. If you didn’t love Tig already, you will love her or love her even more after this. What she has lived through and somehow she came out the other side shining. And the story of her relationship with Stephanie was so wonderful to witness. Please watch if you haven’t ! You’ll be happy that you did. “Tig” ❤️❤️

[@amandamowery2801]

I was a camp counselor and we sang the Joe song, from kindergarteners to high school seniors. So much fun watching a group of kids trying to turn and push buttons with both hands, both feet, and their tongues!!

[@laurenbendik2006]

I was a camper who had counselors that sang it!! Was that u lmao

[@heatherntucker]

YES, I forgot about that song! We sang it at camp and bible school. The adults wanted us to burn off energy. I am neurodivergent, diagnosed ADHD. Suspected autism but I haven't gone through with the tests yet. It is a big difference than "thinking differently". Being NeuroSpicy is amazing. I wasn't dx until 40 and it has changed my world for the better.

[@WooHooLinduh]

This episode is a must-see! Instant classic for Fortune’s song about Joe the Button Maker that renders Mae speechless and Tig’s incredulity that this song is appealing to anyone

[@prmac3071]

Tig’s mic is bigger than her head. I appreciate that. Y’all are all handsome and don’t need any work done. Finally, I can’t listen to y’all at work because I cry laugh SO HARD that it disrupts my co workers. So now I watch the KZbin episodes when I’m at home and my laughing irritates my husband which provides so much joy to me. Thank You for making me happy! Also, y’all are great. Keep doing what you’re doing! Finally, is anyone “pro germ”? Sorry. I keep editing because I add comments before the episode is over plus I’ve been drinking so my mind doesn’t work right. Thanks. Bye!

[@kristysalvador1848]

I have been working in the early childhood education field and have sung this song /chant with preschoolers for 25 plus years! The children love it! Hi, my name is Joe and I work in button factory. I have dog, a house and a family. One day my boss walked up to me and said Joe are you busy, I said no. So push the button with your left hand. The best part is when the kids yell YES! At the end. You are correct Fortune! The whole conversation made me laugh!

[@diannecormier3218]

Depth + Humor together ... be still my heart and brain.

[@LilPurplNicks]

I haven’t laughed this hard in so long. Tears literally pouring down my face. I’ve never heard the Joe song before but I get the concept. My god you all are hilarious 😭😭

[@NapoleonBanana4171]

Not only do I know the Joe song but Willow is 100% a childhood favorite!! The woman I am heavily involved with has never heard of either!

[@tammya26]

It has been far too long since I have belly laughed this hard at anything! Thank you for sharing your humor and wit with us. I look forward to the podcast every week and am thrilled that I can watch you now on KZbin.

[@LemonThymeArt]

Omg crying laughing with the button factory song! I loved the weird premise and doing the silly hand motions with friends at a camp as a kid. Thank you for sharing your chats. So pleasant and chill to listen too. Also... You've inspired me to get off my butt(on factory shift) and start treading water ❤

[@virginiaf.5764]

I love how the three of you make each other laugh so much. And when Tig admonishes Fortune ... so funny.

[@RosesBloom-im9bv]

Thank you Fortune for your insight in forgiveness. Thanks for sharing about your mom . Also Reason Season and lifetime - I agree. Tig I think it’s wonderful you can hang out with your ex as family friends- time is a wonderful gift if you’re given the chance .

[@rachshine7252]

The button factory was a hugely fun song. I love your reactions to it as adults but for some strange reason, it was a total banger in primary school in Australia!

[@luv2fiddle]

I definitely sang the same song for many years at summer camp in Ontario, Canada. It seems to have world wide appeal which would probably be a shock to Tig and Mae!

[@janelleelizabeth]

Can also confirm it was a hit in Australia

[@Jadda-jg1hz]

Yes! Im Australian too, and I’d completely forgotten about Joe until now, but it immediately and vividly came flooding back with the first 5 words.

[@jenr8335]

First time I ever saw Sarah Paulson was in American Gothic. And I never forgot her. Shes so great

[@jenr8335]

Someone’s at the door

[@kdholden]

Lol I know the Button factory song. It was like a camp song and YES Tig, similar to the hokey pokey 😂

[@kasispivey8698]

We 100% talk-sang that song many times in elementary school and my son learned it in boy scouts as well. Our version ended with "...one day, my boss came to me and said 'Joe, are you busy?' I said 'YES!'"

[@snookiefarris8510]

9 Minutes killed me! It took Fortune took a second to catch it but when she did lmfao

[@karenavey2183]

Thank goodness for Handsome in the middle of the night!

[@RL-wu1jf]

Wow, I just keep going back to Fortune randomly breaking out into “Joe from the Button Factory” and then laugh crying for the next 5 minutes. 😭 😭 thank you Handsomes!!!

[@ashleighmurphy5135]

I’ve had the button song stuck in my head all day. 😂

[@Pearls_Have_Eyes]

for anybody curious, pretty sure the tracy chapman 'fast car' skit was on In Living Color

[@nonaeubinis4934]

Indeed it was. Love Kim Wayans❤

[@DMoneys36]

Great comedians. Incredible talent honestly

[@Wonderish]

Literally wheezing over here 🤣 That’s a call and response song which I think y’all should add to the list of things to do!

[@Willow_moon364]

I cried of laughter at the button factory part 😂 did anyone else ever learn the bumble bee song? I really enjoyed the forgiveness section, I sometimes really struggle with forgiveness at the same time I've had situations where I've forgiven people so many times/given too many chances. It's really good to hear other people talking about friendships ending, sometimes being able to forgive but not wanting those people in our lives. I feel like it's something people don't always talk about a lot. I like this quote "Forgiving isn't forgetting, it's remembering and letting go" I really like Sarah's take that if you can't forgive it can feel like you're failing but if you don't feel it you just don't

[@nadiesoy677]

Im literally dying with Joe and Betsy😂😂😂

[@seasidepeck]

I am so happy to be able to WATCH the 3 funniest people of all time. What fun! Smiling all day. Thanks!

[@TonyaMcCabe]

YES Fortune.....we are with you! Joe, the Button Factory, all the turning of the buttons.....it was a THING!!! - at least in Minnesota it was. Great Pod as usual! XO

[@jamiedenoyer6683]

I sang the button factory song as a kid and taught it to over 100 children as a teacher. It is so fun! I laughed so hard at Tig and Mae's versions. 😂😂😂

[@meganjohnson9540]

How did you three get so handsome? I love this so much! Thank you!! 💕

[@LeilahLovesYou]

Literally crying at Joe from the button factory 😂

[@coppersense999]

I listened on Spotify but then came back to watch on KZbin and 14:50 made it worth it. I was dying laughing at the frozen expressions as Fortune started with the epic "Joe the Button Maker Song, yesitsasongbecause Joe! Rhymes with No!" old-timey classic 😅😅😅 Good to see ya'll on YT 🎉

[@HBM-nm5ny]

I am with Fortune! We used to sing the Joe from the button factory song in Student Council!!!!😂😂😂

[@jessicamsutton]

I know I’m late to the game but just catching up on the pod! I’m from Alberta, Canada and we DEFINITELY loved this song as kids! This is how it went for us AND YES IT RHYMES!!! Hi My name is Joe And I work (take a beat) in (take a beat) a button factory I’ve got a wife and a dog and family One day my boss came up to me and said Hey Joe are you busy I said no He said PUSH the button with your right hand… Etc! Solidarity, Fortune!!!!

[@ShonaCairncross-mq7kn]

Another great episode, thanks Handsome Pod! After listening I was just thinking about how my own understanding of forgiveness has changed as I get older. I remember in university a Buddhist monk came to speak to a class I was in and much of what they spoke on was forgiveness. At the time I remember thinking that the whole idea made no sense and that it was a way of letting someone who had wronged me off the hook for what they had done. Over time what I have grown to learn is that all the anger I was feeling wasn't hurting that other person at all. My lack of forgiveness wasn't changing their behavior. The only person being hurt was me. So, I learned that (for me) there is a difference between forgiving someone and excusing their actions. Those are not the same thing. I learned to say, "what you did was wrong, it will never be right, never be ok, but I forgive you," because it gave me permission to release all the anger or sadness or whatever I had been holding. It allowed me to stop punishing myself for what they had done by constantly reliving it though how awful I felt. As to true, 100% deep forgiveness? It's something to aspire to I think? Anyways, that's my 2 cents on it... also as soon as Fortune started with "hi, my name is Joe..." I immediately finished the sentence with her, lol.

[@megancairns7774]

I always listen in the podcast format of Handsome but I had to watch the KZbin version to see Tig and Mae's reaction to Fortune and Joe/Button factory 😂😂

[@lyndseyanneconway6055]

This is my medicine this morning thank you! 😂❤

[@susanboon4605]

Watched this podcast the other night, and laughed at Tig and Mae, who had obviously never been to camp. Even though I hadn't heard it in fifty years, I remembered all the words to Bob at the Button Factory. Kids love any song that comes with repetition (rather than rhyming) as well as actions. Darned if I didn't go to work the next day (I work in a Kindergarten class in Southern Ontario), and the music teacher presented our next song - of course it was Bob at the Button Factory! The kids loved the last bit where you try to sing with your tongue stuck out, and the boss comes in and asks "Bob, are you busy?" and Bob says "YES!" Fortune, you have a new fan!

[@lyskyg3785]

first of all, you are all so handsome n stunning! aging is so beautiful 🩷 also if yall were to ever see this i hope you know how happy this show makes me. i’m so glad you guys created it and i can’t wait to be here at your like ..200th episode!! yall make me laugh so much i appreciate you 🩷🩷

[@Jenn_Jukebox]

I love listening to/ watching y'all 3 Handsomes! 🥰🥰🥰 I'm very familiar with the Joe & The Button Factory song! My sons attended an Arts Based K-8 Charter School in North Carolina. All the kids & their families learned that song! The school had "Friday Sing" where all the elementary kids, teachers & staff assembled to sing various songs together. Families were invited to attend. It was an awesome community experience!

[@EmilyAlston-Follansbee]

Joe had a job and a wife and a family!! My son sang this after preschool. Great one, Fortune! Thought of it as soon as Mae mentioned button makers!! You are all sooo handsome!

[@kimleal-abdallah3052]

The button factory song 😂 I laughed so hard thanks for reminding us fortune

[@peggybrown5806]

Love seeing your handsome faces! Peace and love!

[@0justBETHANY]

this button maker song has unlocked something inside me. I think I did learn that! But I had to go back and rewatch Tig and Mae's reaction to the song. Their faces were too good!! I'm rolling

[@StefanieSchwartz]

Laughter and healing all in this amazing episode!

[@Everywave_Sandra]

It’s even funnier when you see the confusion in their faces 😂 Come one y’all! Everyone knows Joe and his song about working in the button factory. It’s such a fun song

[@pghbekka]

We strangers in the internet validate you and Joe the button maker, Fortune! Thank you for sharing on youtube so we can have the joy of Tig and Mae's first reaction.

[@LyLy-ct9ib]

It’s an action song! It’s so fun and funny! Clearly Tig and Mae didn’t go to camp 😂

[@sarachazindonaldson909]

Really appreciate the depth of the conversation around forgiveness....so important.

[@AndreaRipberger]

It’s a real and fun song to sing at camp with kids!!!

[@paulaross7043]

Yay. You three are effortlessly entertaining, way to do it once again with the heavier stuff.

[@beccasmith84]

I love seeing y’all on the webcams!! You guys are the best.

[@ladyyaya3270]

Sweet! Just found this fabulous trio 🎉 Live you all! Thank you for all the laughs 😂🥰

[@nancywelsh8028]

I just listened to this episode on KZbin and at the end when you mention the way to watch the episode on KZbin I’m now watching the same episode and I am laughing just as hard. 🤣 I love you ladies so much! ❤️

[@suchanhachan]

I heard a different version of the bird story. He forgets to fly south, and he's frozen in a field and can't fly. Then a cow (horse? dog?) takes a massive dump on him which horrifies him and convinces him this is the end. But he realizes he's now warm and comfortable and can move his wings again. He's so happy he lifts his head up and starts singing, which attracts the attention of a cat who promptly comes over and eats him. The moral of the story is if you find yourself in a shit situation but you're doing OK, keep your head down and your mouth shut...(I'm pretty sure when I heard it it was in the context of a corporate/office situation...)

[@jmac7567]

So many relatable nuggets from everyone. I feel like I just had a free therapy session and I love it. 😍

[@delilahminshallmusic]

This is a camp song and so fun to sing!! Girl Guides still sing it! ❤😂

[@aubreyeven2480]

It is crazy to me that Tig and Mae don't get Fortune's references like "Hi, my name is Joe" and the electric slide because I honestly thought EVERYONE knew and grew up with these. 😂

[@vanessawhitneypro]

Electric Slide for SURE! Though Mae is Canadian, so it may be different sometimes…

[@janelleelizabeth]

Yaaaaay! Video pod ❤️❤️❤️ so glad to see your handsome faces

[@lynnep.1207]

Thank you for adding the videos to KZbin. I like seeing your beautiful faces and the reactions you give to what the others say. I listen to the podcast on my morning walk and always come back to watch on KZbin to actually see your reactions. I am with Fortune on this one, sang about Joe in the button factory as a kid. Sorry Tig and Mae missed out on that childhood classic, haha.

[@nicolebeaumont8549]

Well that brought up some memories. I sang the "Joe" song at camp. "Hi my name is Joe, I work at a button factory. I have a wife...two kids. The other day my boss came up to me and said, Joe are you busy? I said, no. Push this button with your right hand." Action: Pretend to pushing a button with your right hand. This was one of the favourite songs. We would repeat the verses adding and extra body part each time, accumulatively. Our left hand, the L foot, the R foot, our head, our tongue, and last our bum. All us kids would be moving all our bodies all over the place while singing with our tongues hanging in and out of our mouths. Being a kid under 12, we thought it was hilarious! Definitely got the wiggles out around the camp fire before we called it a night. 👏

[@CreativeArtandEnergy]

Love your bullet digging analogy. I viscerally feel that way. ❤

[@Sara-xe9ke]

The stunned silence after Fortune starts singing the button factory song is so deeply funny to me it's almost healing

[@june-bird]

Love you guys!!! Thank you for keeping it haaandsome.

[@heatherkaye8653]

Oh heck yeah! Seeing these pretty little ladies on this pod fills my heart! Thank you for the video! I've been home bound due to injuries from a car accident so it really does help my spirits! You are all perfect!

[@simonedulcie3853]

Im canadian, amd i remember the button song! 😂...man, this was HILARIOUS!!!...what a spectacular group.of ladies!:)...thank you for making me laugh,...i needed this, today!...thanks, handsome ladies!

[@GreenCatEye78]

Mae-let's go out for a drink and have a good cackle!

[@jets85100]

This is so great to see your handsome faces on here! Fortune, I also grew up with a backwards relationship with my mom and had the mom role. We had our ups and downs for sure. She wasn't able to do the growing that your mom was able to. I'm so glad you and your mother healed your relationship as it brings so much joy to us through your videos together. Love all you ladies! I also laughed so much with that crazy button song! 😂

[@SylviaDavis-e5u]

You three are absolutely the funnest on utube. I love your show, i love Joe and his buttons, i love it all. i honestly haven’t laughed this hard and long for ages. please keep going. I only very recently found you but already watched most episodes, will soon have to repeat watch. I cannot begin to express the happiness you’ve brought into my life.

[@rosilindschroeder1880]

I know Fortune's song/game. We used to do it at Girl Guide campfires. Thanks for the memories.

[@desireepeck4355]

I was totally into the button factory song as a kid. 'Push the button with your nose'.....was my fav!

[@Onebetter20]

Definitely my latest favourite podcast so glad I still have a few episodes I haven’t seen. Always cheers my day up ❤

[@ShannonMemolo]

Love you all sooooo much. The Joe song was on point and I am dying😂😅😂!!! I listened to it before work and am now watching the podcast. You three are brilliant. Thank you for being authentic and awesome!! Made my day many times over.❤❤❤

[@maudelorr2656]

love this episode so much fellas! really healing to hear you all give your takes on forgiveness, thank you for this

[@ephemeris1970]

Love all of your work as usual mahandsomes :) yes that Joe song is a def thing in Australia, heard it in my home state of Queensland many many times, but I am a childless X gen so it may have faded away without my knowledge, who can say... look forward every week to chatting with my friends on the Handsome Pod and would you believe I sing your theme song all the time and it makes me very happy, perhaps I should try it on a 5 year old, it could be the next big kiddy thing! ;) Thankyou so much for the pod and please keep em coming, looking forward to your next live at Dynasty Typewriter, already got ma streamin tix to see Tidge, PLL (pretty little lady) and Lil Cowboy!! Love it, Julia in beautiful Hobart, Tasmania xx

[@julieelizabethbarnes]

OMG HILARIOUS as ALWAYS!!!!

[@kathleendouglas9893]

y’all are amazing!!! love u so much ❤❤❤

[@MichelleDurkin-p7s]

Tuesdays are officially my favorite day of the week now because I can't stop laughing during every single episode. Love you guyssss!