Healing From Heartbreak with THE LOVE COACH for Women

[@HardlyInitiated]

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[@rocknew1624]

"What are the requirements to even get into my space!" LOVE THIS!!

[@courtneecarrigan3340]

I appreciate the way she handled this interview. Wonderful woman!

[@bigblack4001]

These 3 are solid…Funny, I came in on the middle of this video,while my cousin was watching…and I told him,Cass is of Caribbean descent,not because of her looks, but because of her sheer logic and delivery…Very few Africa Americans can go through hell,filter out toxicity,genuinely recover,using self awareness,mental fortitude and is willing to help others.

[@flydollronda1926]

I will say she’s beautiful & an absolutely phenomenal, well spoken woman ❤

[@laquintaf.574]

Very well spoken and entertaining

[@CoachCass]

thanks sis

[@patriciawade8563]

I am so happy and thrilled that I found this PLatform... I was a bitter black woman that only loved one man my adult life... He approached me with lies.. our whole relationship was based on lies.. I have forgiven him as well as forgiven myself but I'm still lacking healthy boundaries for my future husband.. I need to continue breaking chains.. by the way I'm single I'm speaking in the future about my husband.. I want to be wife material with no baggage.. So I'm grateful I have subscribed after watching the Judge Lynn Toler story ❤

[@diahannab5072]

Sadly I was the wife in her scenario. My ex worked out of town during the week and came home weekends. Some weekends he couldn’t come because of obligations and required overtime, which I encouraged. I was forgiving, understanding and didn’t go visit because I had my own job and the kids. So was easy for him to have another life. He could tell gf he was visiting his kids every other weekend. In the end, it broke my heart and the somehow the blame was on me because I encouraged the sacrifice for the family.

[@TNexpert]

It's not your fault

[@lala5061]

Dang this is my exact same situation...problem is he is accusing me of cheating but I think he has someone out there now because of these accusations 😢

[@kamed.]

Mic drop all over the place! Awesome podcast! Awesome guests! (Current and future guests)

[@julietoneill1268]

This woman! She's a queen 👸 💯👏💕🎯

[@laquintaf.574]

She speaks my language. She hit some key points. I too believe that you should learn your person and let a man lead where he wants to lead

[@jessicag0625]

Please bring her back! Love her!

[@courtneypuryear4217]

Bring her back ❤. Great convo guys.

[@CoachCass]

aww thank you

[@rocknew1624]

I need to join her community!! My GOD, help me regain connection to my Feminine energy!!

[@Queenconsciousness311]

A free spirit recognizes a free spirit... truly enjoyed this beauty Coach Cass!! 💎💎💎 I'm joining the Real Love community! ❤❤❤ ✌🏽🙏🏽

[@patriciawade8563]

"Not perfect but in progress"👏👏👏👏

[@janespitfire9884]

Your advice sounds so good. I have not been with anyone in 15 years. Married 2 time and each got bored with me and cheated BIG TIME. Also I was a goody 2 shoe wife, too nice, a empath and too passive. Now I just want a good male friend to create some memories . I want to be like the lyrics of Naked in Ella Mae s song. I always refuse to deal with men who smoke or drinking but seem to get mean men later on. If I had stayed in the marriage I d be dead. He told my daughter he should have NEVER married me. That hurt! I could tell by the Ex hubby's actions he did not want me any longer. Divorce was my safe option. I shall get your book! Thank you> Yes the song Love Makes A Woman by Phoebe Snow..Excellent Song describes a female needs

[@dmhardnett]

Ms Janespitfire9884, I’m glad you are safe. Always remember to love you. Self care lets you sit in a quiet space for you to get to know you. Focus on things that you like and enjoy. Once you know yourself and enjoying yourself. You will attract the love of your life. God bless.

[@mariawilliams558]

I really enjoyed this particular podcast. The guest was so feminine that it was delightful to listen in. Girl Do Your Thang!!!

[@ladymvp10]

I have listen to many podcast and women speaking and received valuable information. But this lady here..Wow ohh WOW!!! Thank you for having her on here, learned soooo much more and feel like I hit the gold pot listening to her!!!! AMAZING PODCAST!!!

[@SCWellness-spa]

Thank you🙏 beautiful perspective on love

[@tamarajohnson8328]

“When you have the right man in your life, they got you.”💚🫶🏽💯

[@jazzbeinme9710]

I love, love this conversation. Especially about letting the man lead. Yes study ❤

[@kathyjones1408]

This is golden! I agree with her! I prefer starting as a friend! Get to know me to see if you like me. 😊

[@sheronaking9466]

A Jamaican in the house! Talk girl!! 🇯🇲🇯🇲 🎉🎉

[@sheronaking9466]

@HardlyInitiated... This is my favorite episode to date. Dr. Cass is so on point. Thanks for the gems 👌🏾👌🏾

[@CoachCass]

blessings sis

[@flydollronda1926]

He needed to go all the way out of his house and into his car to take a phone call? Idk…something about that story just still doesn’t sit right with me regardless. Trusting someone and being secure is one thing, but I can’t blatantly ignore weird scenarios like that. I’m glad she is now happily married though.

[@leomarilyn4232]

I will sit in the car a need the call to continue on speaker, or understand why is this call so urgent that has this guy taking this call and in privacy cause I am not paranoid, or tripping cause I am not playing with my time in a funny strange situation no relationship I want to go along

[@flydollronda1926]

@@leomarilyn4232 Yeah it sounds like even the new marriage may be a little questionable (imo) aint no man taking no private calls around me, unless I for certain know it’s business or a family member. I thought she was going to say she heard the call, but to walk off and be okay just because he said, “I’m not that guy,” naw, sometimes they be exactly the same guy, but because you told them what you been through, now they know how to maneuver and “handle” you better. She said he walked out of the house and was alllll the way in his car, no sir.

[@leomarilyn4232]

That's why I believe you don't tell them all about your past relationships so they don't get to have an advantage on your hurt,tramas or your triggers, they use that against you in the relationship and when you sense something is going on based on their actions, attitude and behaviors they want to say we are crazy, I believe we have to take our own advice on this kind of matters especially since we know all the angles of the situation be ready, plan and leave him or get him out your home you don't want no weakness in your homes foundation make sure you have a man who cares and answers to your straight up questions, about our emotions and support we got family and friends to relate, release and reflect on our past relationships, but we must spend some time on our own to recover from a prior damaging relationship, heal our self in spirit, mentally and emotionally but don't take too long to bounce back, God willing we pay attention and attract a solid Man, our equal to the foundation to make a home, a family of two is a new family that can grow together and offer any children involved a safe family life in a home. Hope for all the best to All who put God, and themselves first when choosing that one and only standup kind of life partner who can stand side by side you through thick and thin in all lifes circumstances and events of joy and hardships, challenges and crisis and the in-between daily life, I don't want no one holding me back, getting in the way of my life's purposes- With Respect, Faith and Actions I will know his walk in life and if he fits in my Life, not everyone is worth my time, love or friendship, don't be too generous with everyone you come across not everyone gets to hold my hand in Life, be honest with yourself about your place in the relationship, if your not legally married it's not a marriage don't expect that "significant other" to behave or treat you as the wife/husband anything else is intended to be a temporary kind of relationship that is not the foundation for a home, honor and value yourself to get the most of an honest relationship with your life partner, if for whatever reason the relationship must come to an end, then be okay with yourself and End it, life goes on and you continue with your purpose God has to be in your life so that he/she is with you through all life seasons that the only way I can make move on and forward with Peace and not all broken into pieces, let yourself breakdown if you have to in order to complete your transformation in the healing process but don't go broken into any relationship yes we walk around with scars, scars are a sign of healing, its not a sign of your death don't let anything get between your hearts and God, that's the sacred space you hold for that one true and only one who deserves that place in your life who has earned your trust to hold your hand it's that significant remember you are a Gift of Life don't waste your time with foolishness

[@lexviaortiz9342]

Such a good episode 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 love her and appreciate her input

[@frankieharrison356]

She did the damn thang🔥🔥🔥she spit game🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@nashonharris7805]

I always appreciate a good conversation coming from an imperfect person with experience and knowledge. Now, I let it sink In and comprehend it all and apply it to my life.

[@mrssheilasworldoffuninspir1919]

WOOT WOOT coach Cassidy!!🎉❤❤❤

[@sterling.hopkins]

Awesome! Good session

[@HardlyInitiated]

You the man, Sterling! Much appreciated💯

[@sfreeman417]

I love it here!!! Much needed conversation and tools to navigate relationships!!!

[@diva4tv]

I luv her advice! Phenomenal advice indeed. "Dating is gathering data. [...] Stuff stops working. As we get older stuff sags, stuff goes down. ppl need pills [...] life be life'in'"

[@tammys5417]

Say that. Plug your community into your dating process.

[@HardlyInitiated]

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[@furahaj645]

I love her so much!!!

[@moniquewatson6231]

Wow love it. Love the information. I love loving myself and sharing with the people I choose to allow in my space.

[@Cassandra_Alexis]

Favorite episode so far!! Really appreciated receiving wisdom from a sound & knowledgeable woman 🙌🏾 I literally took pages of notes. Thanks guys 😁

[@UrFavPopularloner]

This was wonderful ❤

[@HardlyInitiated]

Let's gooooooo !!

[@patriciawade8563]

This women slapps👏👏👏👏👏👏 very realistic and informative... I want to be your friend mentally ,emotionally and spiritually ❤❤❤❤❤First... Until until🤷

[@kathleenaoconnell5777]

The guy said “his WIFE isn’t here she’s in the Bahamas” the hint it right there he’s married! Do people really want to be a side chick and encourage infidelity?!

[@antwanstowe6561]

I think she is referring to her as his wife because that’s what she found out.. but I’m gathering the man referred to her as his ex wife who lives out of the country.

[@GrigaGal]

Agree totally !!! Dating is gathering data .

[@anonymixx8106]

I have to disagree that a woman should consider staying with a man that hits her just because he shows remorse. Remorse is just another tactic for some abusers so that their victims feel even worse about leaving when they eventually randomly escalate the abuse. When physical abuse enters the picture, whether or not things can be worked out comes completely down to the victim/survivor.

[@venessamoon3741]

I enjoyed this podcast! Dr. Cass gave a lot of good gems!

[@leomarilyn4232]

You got to meet the adult family members especially the grown woman of his family they don't play along to BS

[@MaureenBlack-gq5pl]

She's amazing

[@W.I.F.E]

So ready!!

[@Jovialjay86]

Love vision!! Someone interested in learning how to speak love!!!

[@larecashon6759]

I like her! 🦋I like to hire out as well, so I’m with her on this! Andy is cool too! I enjoyed his Master Class. 🌟

[@ardeniamyrick6858]

Hard, Emotionless, Rock! I’m dead😂

[@EG-hh6zz]

I don’t date for fun I don’t go out for fun I don’t believe in that I feel like peoples feelings are secard and relationships are investment just like a business I don’t put my money were I’m going to lose it so when I’m with somebody I’m in it for the long-run for a future if that scares men away then so be it your not my type but this is what I’m looking for so if I’m investing I want to show up as the best version of myself so that’s my advice e anessa

[@tammys5417]

Can you last from the feeling?

[@t.l1357]

There's one thing that I really oppose that she said. I make a really great living. I NEED my man to make more or at least afford my same lifestyle. There's no amount of money that I will make that will allow me to tolerate a man making less. We live a physical existence and this is programmed into women. It's not about money but about provision. Emotional provisions don't cancel out monetary. It's about safety on all levels. Financial safety is necessary. If I have a mansion and something happens to me, I need a man that can maintain our standard of living. I'm not doing struggle love and have a so called man beside me. I'm just being real. It's a turn off if a man doesn't have ambition and the money that shows for his efforts. I have it, why don't you? It's a man's world in the workforce so nah..miss me with that. Everything else I felt like she was on point with. Great conversation as usual. ❤

[@lala5061]

As u should 🤗 I did the other thing 😬 took care of him and our kids...he focused on making our daughter great cuz he believes with her talents that she is going to be the one to do it for our family and Im like wait what so u not gonna do it? U pouring everything into her cuz she's gonna do it? Wait what...so all I built will go down if something happens to me cuz u waiting for 3 more years for her to get out of highschool so u can see...but actually u have to add an extra 4 for college because she's a sports star 🤔 trust me u doing the right thing!

[@HarissaBalderas-sz5xn]

So good !!!

[@OmgjaxxTV]

If someone hits you they will do it again. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@B_4_PTALKS]

Standing&watching on the sideline and being that cheerleader is soooooo good... move accordingly...

[@ashlinaash5612]

this is so good

[@AnEmptyNest]

Love the channel! 🫶🏾

[@AriMayweather]

Great episode gents!! 🎉

[@sherylhokianga3]

WOW! Truth!❤

[@Jovialjay86]

Not perfect but in progress 💎

[@moniquewatson6231]

…. and I want to hear more about women trips to continue to fill my cup.

[@EG-hh6zz]

when a man tells you A and does B believe B because A is what he’s trying to get you to believe B is who he is you get the guy you pick not the one you hope he becomes and if the guy is doing ABC that’s who he is and don’t let the idea oh let’s get married fool you into believing that he’s going to be somebody other than who he is e anessa

[@CL-do5eq]

God will never send you somebody else’s husbands - my mother. God had to deliver me. I almost got into a situation. Once you know they are married you stop. With the help of my mother and God I was able to move on. But he lied. Please look up marriage licenses. We weren’t intimate thankfully. I’m so glad I’m a slow dater because the foolishness will eventually come out.

[@Kwn79878]

Coach Cass!!

[@kayannthegreat]

I love this lady! I hate cleaning toilets and bathrooms in general, that's something for someone who has a gift of loving cleaning bathrooms! Lol

[@WHATsYOUR914]

👏🏽👏🏽 42:30

[@19nvo]

I don't mean no harm, but did she know he was married or naw 🤔

[@flydollronda1926]

That part threw me off a little bit too. It sounded like from the interview he told her he was married, but separated and the wife was in another country. Also, no way a woman in a 2 year relationship and literally had NO clue, there would have been some red flags in that amount of time geesh

[@spacebar6020]

Yeah naw, not buying it. She seemed to have told on herself with her story about the other, other woman

[@duallylicensed145]

@@flydollronda1926​​⁠xxactly, right! There's always always some clues or flags....and, especially, and definitely, 2 yrs relationship 🤔🤨🥴🤷‍♀️🫤. There's a few reasons why they will have nose wide open.....sexualness, compensation (in 1 way or another), or, flat out don't care....

[@CL-do5eq]

The flags are always in the beginning. The flag go are pink first before red.

[@danishaspikes3581]

Is this on the app 🤔

[@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy]

There’s no such thing as heartbreak in my opinion. The idea of heartbreak is just a way of making pseudo or puppy love sound real. Just look at why a person is heartbroken, and there’s nothing whatsoever besides pure foolishness. The ego crushed or butt hurt over something ridiculous or a messed up person. Which is foolishness to begin with and people hurt in underdevelopment and hypersensitivity and think they are heartbroken. 😮 That growing up and developing more is the solution to.

[@desimo9127]

I Love this episode🤍🫶🏽

[@The_Real_McCoy76]

Awesome

[@Sugarlips321]

It’s not dating when a man is married its called adultery.

[@jillh440]

Men need respect and women need love. But when we have to walk in our masculine energy and we have such a large to-do list... It's hard for us to walk in our feminine. Also I find that oftentimes because we're so busy walking in our love side we end up in relationships with people we shouldn't be in. But then it puts us in a position where we can't or struggle to show respect because we have a clown in charge of our family as a spiritual head. So then we can't give respect, because we know more, and we do more than he does. We're more capable than he is. Because we picked a project, not a partner and so the covering and the order of the family is off and messy. And then we're constantly trying to create and push him to be a leader, And for him to be the spiritual head.because he doesn't know how to be. Then we're having to be the spiritual head which is putting the cart before the horse and everything out of order.Then we wonder why things don't work. This is why it's important to pick an actual leader, that can lead us physically financially and spiritually. Because a clown in charge can never lead us. We're constantly taking over having to lead, because we're the better leader. Then we're having to walk in our masculine. Which often pushes him into the feminine because we're his Mommy, not his partner.

[@TheAniYaAShow]

WoW WoW WoW

[@EG-hh6zz]

is a women’s only duty to serve her husband and be a mother to her children yes when a woman marries she gives up her freedom remember obey your husband in all things your husband is head he’s putting you second in line in your own life the woman was made for the man she’s a helper that means she has a ruler over her woman know your vows before saying I do because god doesn’t believe in divorce read your bible e anessa g

[@joansheekey476]

There is woman and men that do no there married some people only go for married people they even tell yu two yur face so it’s both people that either go are they do not there’s no excuse none there’s alkways a way out off it don’t go we’re yu are in tgat company that it’s dangerous game e plus kuds suffer trew all this and the other person and iv known people that are so sorry now but it’s two late once a cheer all ways a cheer live with it all down two us all ❤

[@EG-hh6zz]

men if you wonder if can money buy love then you need to understand that money may give temporary joy but it can never buy love most men out here are giving money for love stop trying to buy love what are you going to do when your money is gone there goes your love stop setting yourself up to fail I give you money and you give me love and if you don’t give me money I will take my love back what stupid game are you playing e anessa

[@joansheekey476]

Men are strange. But woman are two yur either a good girl are yur not ❤

[@kaycee194]

This coach is not a wife material. She's a business and masculine woman. But as long as her husband is good with it, that's okay. But will he tolerate it forever?

[@nenajay3174]

@ekeneigwenagu239 She’s not wife material to you. People have to understand that each person has their own personal preference. It’s strange that so many people fell like that can speak for all. By the way there are thousands of business women who some deem masculine that are married and have been for a while.

[@nenajay3174]

*feel

[@kaycee194]

@@nenajay3174 Their are men for those women, but to tell you that those men are very few, look at how long it took her to get married, instead of get married at a very old age.

[@ALEXPIANIM]

Usually men on 2nd, 3rd, and 4th marriage

[@kaycee194]

@@ALEXPIANIM That's not true. Most men usually don't marry after their first marriage. But the stay in a long term companionship instead of marrying again.

[@EG-hh6zz]

jumping from one relationship to another a person who moves from one romantic relationship to another to very quickly spending as little time single as possible is called a relationship hopper some folks are terrified of being by themselves they feel like they need to be in a relationship to feel good about themselves themselves and to be happy they jump from one relationship to the next to avoid getting to serious with anyone

[@EG-hh6zz]

remove money from a relationship and you will discover that over 90 percent of ladies won’t see a reason to be in that relationship if it’s only about money we are hopeless if it’s about people we are hopeful if your a man without money you better have a ten inch personality to make a relationship work

[@EG-hh6zz]

men if you can access her without money she’s your level but if it takes money to access her you are replaceable if you couldn’t access her without money chances are any man with money can access her e anessa

[@EG-hh6zz]

men if you can access her without money she’s your level but if it takes money to access her you are replaceable if you couldn’t access her without money chances are any man with money can access her e anessa

[@EG-hh6zz]

people change for two reasons they have learned a lot or they have been hurt to many times some people don’t change they just find new ways to lie just like seasons people change understand that people change and sometimes they’re no longer compatible with our lives we just have to accept it and move on e anessag

[@Lexi-R3s]

when you get married the only thing that changes the day after marriage is the appearance of your hand third finger.people keep thinking if they get married this solves the problem nothing changes after you get married arguing the whole time when you get married you going to be arguing the whole time.nothing changes after you get married so if you don't solve this problem before marriage you in a world of trouble e anessa g

[@EG-hh6zz]

attachment is the source of all suffering how can I truly love somebody without getting attached to them is that even possible when attachment enters relationships it promotes unhealthy emotions jealousy anger annoyance what most people call love is pretty far from the understanding of it how to have a loving relationship without attachment only enter into a relationship with someone if they make you a better person and improve your practice and you for them then your engaging in the relationship for a virtuous reason to much attachment is a source of all suffering so train yourself to let go of everything you fear to lose e anessa g

[@EG-hh6zz]

I don’t date for fun I don’t go out for fun I don’t believe in that I feel like peoples feelings are secard and relationships are investments just like a business I don’t put my money were I’m going to lose it so when I’m with somebody I’m in it for the long-run for a future if that scares men away then so be it your not my type but this is what I’m looking for so if I’m investing I want to show up as the best version of myself so that’s my advice e anessa