After The Breakup | Therapy Thursday | Jerry Flowers

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@paulabarker5715
@paulabarker5715 Жыл бұрын
"God will wreck your plans when He sees that your plans will wreck you". That hit home!
@Mariliza.
@Mariliza. 11 ай бұрын
💯‼️
@veronicaharris1836
@veronicaharris1836 8 ай бұрын
Yes grieving is hard but there is still more after this
@mitzivalentin8410
@mitzivalentin8410 5 ай бұрын
Amen! Needed this today! 🙏🏼
@DomsHouse
@DomsHouse 4 ай бұрын
That part!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@akubajoy3394
@akubajoy3394 21 күн бұрын
Amen
@TheAnissaMonee
@TheAnissaMonee 8 ай бұрын
I did not want to let go and I begged and pleaded because I knew I loved him. Yet his dismissive behavior and the words “ It’s time to leave this alone” woke me up and God reminded me that I am more and I will have great. My burden is light and my yolk is easy. I love you all and I wish you an easy process I’m running with you
@diariesbycyn
@diariesbycyn 8 ай бұрын
I’m struggling with this too… the begging and the pleading. It hurts. Let me know what you’re doing to cope with this.
@CM-ye1bc
@CM-ye1bc 7 ай бұрын
Experiencing this now
@TheAnissaMonee
@TheAnissaMonee 7 ай бұрын
@@diariesbycynI had to come to my senses and release him because that’s what he wanted. I asked God to walk me through this process because I was hurting bad. I turned my love I had for him back to myself. I’m still hurting but I’m no longer begging. He doesn’t value me, but I have to value myself. Love you sister it will get better. I also dealt with regret but I repented and laid it all out before God
@TheAnissaMonee
@TheAnissaMonee 7 ай бұрын
@@CM-ye1bcwake up sis if they want to walk away we have to let them. Lean into God and cry out to him. Not to man. People failed me time and time again but God never has.
@CM-ye1bc
@CM-ye1bc 7 ай бұрын
@@TheAnissaMonee thank you sister. Been filling my head and heart with the word of God to keep me going. About to use this time to work on myself.
@shadchris2304
@shadchris2304 Жыл бұрын
This pain I feel is so intense that sometimes all I want to do is sleep. There was a fear that I messed up something that was great. But I receive Gods Word that even if it was me God still has a plan for me.
@linnette6493
@linnette6493 Жыл бұрын
I've been there. It will get better. Even if you messed it up, God still loves you. This too shall pass! ❤
@ChadRobertson-mc2cp
@ChadRobertson-mc2cp Жыл бұрын
I messed up terribly
@Ritatrue
@Ritatrue 11 ай бұрын
You got this!
@antwan7836
@antwan7836 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for comment. I feel the same way
@kayscapsule
@kayscapsule 7 ай бұрын
Amen
@FeliSigagu
@FeliSigagu 16 күн бұрын
Ghosted after a 4 year relationship. It happened while grieving my brother's passing which was followed by Mom's passing in less than a month. Had to grieve 3 people at the same time. 😢
@Free2rimeanytime
@Free2rimeanytime 11 ай бұрын
I think it was both: I was the problem and also divine intervention. I’m praying for all of us.
@MarsOutdoors
@MarsOutdoors 6 ай бұрын
This breakup has brought me closer to God, and I pray it will bring her closer as well. I pray we collide again.
@eunicegordon3774
@eunicegordon3774 24 күн бұрын
Amen, it drew me closer to God too❤
@ChyUpNxt
@ChyUpNxt 10 күн бұрын
@@eunicegordon3774me too❤
@Mariliza.
@Mariliza. 5 ай бұрын
We just broke up this morning - 8/21/24 - and I came across this video. God knew i needed this. To all who are hurting, suffering, mending, healing... I'm with you. God bless us all. 🙏 💔
@Veteranemo
@Veteranemo 5 ай бұрын
@teasamays471
@teasamays471 5 ай бұрын
We broke up on 8/3/24, and the pain and hurt is unexplainable. I didn't see it coming, but God. Keep healing and moving forward!
@geronimooconner8468
@geronimooconner8468 5 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@whatthelee_haus
@whatthelee_haus 4 ай бұрын
Same date as you. I was stuck in a state of denial because I didn't see it coming, but as I listen to God's words, I know it had to have happened. Praise god for period of growth and restoration of my relationship with Him the savior.
@estephaniemartinez7531
@estephaniemartinez7531 4 ай бұрын
8/22/24 And I’m still feeling all the hurt. It’s been HARD. But I have a God who loves me and while I may feel alone I know I’m not
@raip3073
@raip3073 6 ай бұрын
This is so easy to listen to but so hard when you're in the mist of pain
@evanbigcas7722
@evanbigcas7722 Ай бұрын
"Be angry, but sin not." This breakup just hurts too deep that I'm just so angry at that person right now. But I put my brokenheart in your hands, God. Help me heal, Lord.
@eunicegordon3774
@eunicegordon3774 24 күн бұрын
God loves you and He will heal your wounds and I want you to know you are good enough !!!❤😊
@natashatate2332
@natashatate2332 10 ай бұрын
I was dumped recently & struggling to move forward. Feeling blessed that God led me to this video. ❤
@mrgoldengreen7126
@mrgoldengreen7126 3 ай бұрын
@natashatate2332 I’m going through one now how hard was it for you
@goldenlifelove7251
@goldenlifelove7251 Жыл бұрын
I need this word so badly!! I'm struggling so badly w/ this breakup! Nothing has hurt be this badly in my entire life. I'm in therapy, been in no-contact since he dumped me, deleted every picture, voice-mail, text message, sent back every gift he gave me & threw away all the cards & notes. I feel so stuck with this & I'm still so hurt. I miss his friendship so much, it's excruciating. I'm fine 1 day & not the next. I cry so much it's crazy😢 I've never been through anything like this. It's been almost 2 months & Idk how or when I'll ever get past this. I don't want him back, I don't trust him anymore, I'm just hurt. There were no arguments, I was happy & thought he was too, but there were so much deception & lies on his part it hurts so much knowing he probably never really cared about me. I just pray God delivers me from this pain soon.
@cuttinupwithcrystal5484
@cuttinupwithcrystal5484 Жыл бұрын
Same here ❤😢
@dtjisdivine
@dtjisdivine Жыл бұрын
God will. It does get better. ♥️ I’ve been there. God loves you and I pray he comforts you through it all.
@jasminedubose92
@jasminedubose92 Жыл бұрын
😮‍💨
@ladyrenee1982
@ladyrenee1982 Жыл бұрын
When your relationship grows closer to God you will forget him I'm going through the same thing but I know I'm worth so much more than sex and a late night blunt now I'm clean do drinks no weed and no sex praise god
@alannahjack2188
@alannahjack2188 Жыл бұрын
How are you feeling now? ☺️
@brewerville1502
@brewerville1502 3 ай бұрын
I woke up to a break-up text 10.7.2024 and Jesus gave me peace. He was cold, but Jesus was there ❤😊
@MistBristCrisp
@MistBristCrisp 3 ай бұрын
I broke up with my girlfriend exactly that same day, she didn’t even try to fight, she stopped loving me and I could tell
@cristinamaldonado2553
@cristinamaldonado2553 2 ай бұрын
Yesss same here! It’s tough but I know Jesus is with me 💕
@godsgirl0305
@godsgirl0305 Жыл бұрын
Shake off the dust. Don’t allow heart to be calloused. Staying in a place where you’re not received is wasting time. If I’m at the wrong address, the receiver won’t receive us. Shake it off and enter my new season!! Go and take my peace with me…to the new village.
@eltigredemazatlan
@eltigredemazatlan Жыл бұрын
Dude, it was me all the time, I regret not changing while she was here and now that she is gone I miss her ☹️ Miss her so much, guys pray for me …
@treasurehardy3711
@treasurehardy3711 Жыл бұрын
That’s my situation too! I miss him like crazy but I know he needs the space from me to move on and heal.
@whitneyparker5168
@whitneyparker5168 10 ай бұрын
🙏🏾🙏🏾
@lunas2551
@lunas2551 10 ай бұрын
Sometimes God is kind enough to let us learn these hard lessons before your spouse comes along. You may have wanted her to be the one, but hopefully the clarity you gained can be a blessing. I am sorry for your heartache and pray God gives you the answers you need 💗
@pwillskiapparel3886
@pwillskiapparel3886 9 ай бұрын
Bro I feel you, we got a son together so I gotta see her almost everyday. It’s tough but I’m taking it day by day
@LuzMartinez-fl3qx
@LuzMartinez-fl3qx 9 ай бұрын
It’s truly hard to think U had someone that was it for U.. Where U had all your hopes and dreams with this person only to find out he isn’t it… My situation is a bit unique I guess… I got married 20 years ago with my first bf to help him with his papers.. Long story short he ended up getting deported and I never got to getting a divorce… I met someone and we had been dating for roughly 4 months when I told him i was still married his perception changed of our relationship… I can’t really afford to get divorced at the moment soo after much discussion.. He basically said he couldn’t continue with the relationship because of the fact that I am still married on paper.. He said it bothers him and blocks him from moving forward with this relationship… I honestly dont understand that, I mean… If U really want to be with someone should that really matter? I mean it’s not like we are getting married now and eventually I do plan on getting divorced just not rite now.. Unfortunately financial circumstances does not allow me too..: Anywho, I really thought he was the finally the one! He was everything I had been praying God in a man and so I thought God had finally answered my prayer… Needless to say Im pretty tore up rite now… Just been praying for God to give me clarity and help me heal…
@blossom-marie8732
@blossom-marie8732 7 ай бұрын
“They twist their insecurities & project it as your flaw” Thank you, I needed to hear that .
@brichanel8126
@brichanel8126 3 ай бұрын
Everything he said is so true! I had to realized the part I played in certain things & I am very honest with myself. I’m disappointed in most of my actions man, I wish I knew how to control my emotions. I’m not as great as I thought I was to him. But I did love him, I’m just disappointed that I didn’t properly know how ALL THE TIME.
@siaspence6333
@siaspence6333 9 ай бұрын
“Healing scares people who benefit from your brokenness”
@BNT1130
@BNT1130 Жыл бұрын
Grieving and they’re still alive! Definitely that part!
@familler7
@familler7 Жыл бұрын
I ignored all the red flags. This person came into my life at my most vulnerable season in 1997, and I believed it was a God send and was married to this person for 25 years through all the narcissistic, childhood trauma and dysfunction. I am determined to heal from this grief from this divorce!
@ChadRobertson-mc2cp
@ChadRobertson-mc2cp Жыл бұрын
I was so toxic ,narcissistic, manipulative. 100 percent wrong. I regret it. I will I've grown so much but extremely guilty.
@mandysmith4901
@mandysmith4901 9 ай бұрын
Same here!
@stephnyamify
@stephnyamify 9 ай бұрын
I also ignored the red flags 20 years and 4 kids later 😢 I'm struggling to move on
@Misspermiscuousgirll
@Misspermiscuousgirll 6 ай бұрын
I getting divorce too
@Kiara.Alicia
@Kiara.Alicia 5 ай бұрын
Things break apart easier when they were being held together by a lie!!!!!! My GOD!
@lauremak8047
@lauremak8047 4 ай бұрын
I initiated the break up out of great emotion but I really didn’t want to and then I tried to get them back. I knew I was not always the best in the relationship but I did try to truly love them. I often felt as though I was not cared about the way I wanted to. This relationship was also taking me away from God not because the other person forced me but I thought that if I got too close to God he would wouldn’t want to be with me anymore. Now that it is over I feel guilty for how it ended and how I could have done better. I pray that God guides me and him I deeply loved him. But the good thing about this break up is that I now want to get back to God and forever this time. I want Jesus to be my everything.
@sbryant8123
@sbryant8123 2 ай бұрын
THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS. I BEEN THROUGH THIS .
@jaredjones7555
@jaredjones7555 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this❤️I just really miss her and if its meant to be then God will Tell me. I will continue to get closer to God
@lauremak8047
@lauremak8047 2 ай бұрын
@@sbryant8123 I hope you’re doing well ❤️❤️
@lauremak8047
@lauremak8047 2 ай бұрын
@@jaredjones7555 I understand you miss her it’s normal. Allow yourself to feel everything and heal. Get closer to God and sure enough if she’s the one he will bring her back if not he will bring the person that is for you. ❤️
@SummerJacobs-u8p
@SummerJacobs-u8p 8 күн бұрын
God has used you to help me understand my pain and bitterness. Thank you, I cried for the first 12 minutes..... I needed that cry! Thank you!
@Melaninnmuse
@Melaninnmuse Жыл бұрын
I’m only 5 minutes through this video and Pastor Jerry is nailing my exact feelings. I always use to ask people how do you grieve someone that’s still alive, still breathing, walking around as if the hurt they caused means nothing. Oh but god, it truly blows my mind at how he works in the midst of it all. Cause in the end, it only brought me so much closer to him. And at one point I had to ask god “Did I hurt you the way he hurt me?” …because when god said no other idol above him, that’s truly what he meant. I’m so grateful for where my relationship is with him now, and if it took having to go through what I had to, to get here, then so be it. I definitely shared this with a few friends already ✨ “There is still more after this.” Amen 🙏🏾
@AshiaNecole
@AshiaNecole Жыл бұрын
Hi! I would like to start a women’s group that uplifts women and we all help each other strive to be kingdom women that God has called us to be would you like to be apart of it?
@ccartagena2262
@ccartagena2262 Жыл бұрын
I said the same thing
@jessicalong6011
@jessicalong6011 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@tmarie9609
@tmarie9609 Жыл бұрын
@@AshiaNecoleI’d love that!
@tmarie9609
@tmarie9609 Жыл бұрын
This was well written and I had the SAME experience!
@montana8779
@montana8779 6 ай бұрын
I idolize the idea of marriage and relationships and need deliverance from this thinking. I try to believe/understand that God is all that I need, but I have this desire in my heart for companionship so bad that, sometimes, I lose myself in this thought, and I lose myself in a man. I am proud of myself for walking away (I believe this demonstrates growth), but I’ve internalized this to mean that something is wrong with me, or God may not love me enough, or that i’m not deserving. I feel a bit defeated, but I know that God is still good, and His plans are not my plans.
@juanitaanderson77
@juanitaanderson77 4 ай бұрын
This!!! baby this thinking has held me in a place, using God''s word to even hold me there. Glory to God for the release! Praying for you too sister on this journey of ours.
@mademoisellemsc
@mademoisellemsc 4 ай бұрын
Can relate to this!
@siaspence6333
@siaspence6333 9 ай бұрын
“You’re healed when you see the person who cut you and you don’t want to cut them back” - this is soooooo good! 👍🏾
@fionalinda7383
@fionalinda7383 3 ай бұрын
This! 👆🏾👏🏾✨️
@SGWAPO
@SGWAPO 11 ай бұрын
it’s been 10 months for me & i never experienced pain this intense. I truly thought she was the love of my life, but i was wrong. 6 years of putting my heart & soul into someone only for it to be a lesson. She moved on a couple months after the breakup & seems happy. Meanwhile i’ve been dealing with excruciating pain every single day. I pray to God everyday to heal my heart & help me move forward with my life but it’s a long process. I have faith that it’ll get better eventually, God is just working on me a little longer.
@Bonafide0324
@Bonafide0324 10 ай бұрын
Try fasting and praying it helps also delete everything that reminds you of her.
@SGWAPO
@SGWAPO 10 ай бұрын
@@Bonafide0324 Thanks alot! Trying my best
@Misspermiscuousgirll
@Misspermiscuousgirll 6 ай бұрын
That’s my situation right now But God is the one healing me to make me ok and accept the breakup and not have excruciating pain So you gotta get your spiritual life right
@Humgin1234
@Humgin1234 Ай бұрын
Pray the prayers cutting soul ties ! In Jesus name 🙏
@iamdawnharris
@iamdawnharris Жыл бұрын
“I just don’t want to move on, I want to move on right and with health.” A powerful message! Thank you for allowing God to use you. 🥹
@shaqwannacole4419
@shaqwannacole4419 11 ай бұрын
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@deec.christian7012
@deec.christian7012 Жыл бұрын
Understanding my purpose...even as a single woman and mother
@forgiven904
@forgiven904 5 ай бұрын
9-1-24 i have finally decided to release an unhealthy situation that i wanted marriage so bad, i want commitment but expect it from someone that not meant to be in my life anymore, God has shown me time and time again that i needed to let go but I have been holding on to maybe it can still work! Its not ! I know this because our season is over! We both have sabotage the relationship that we wanted so badly but seasons change and so have we! So i just ask God to help us both to grow up and learn how to love the way we are meant and to heal from our traumas! God help me to be still long enough to heal!
@rotjames1
@rotjames1 Жыл бұрын
Thankful for the Lord letting me see it was me and the relationship was not good for me either! Grateful to God for caring enough to snatch me out when I didn’t have the strength or sense to do it myself. 🙌🏾hallelujah for freedom and true healing to move on! 🎉
@sebastianwilson8899
@sebastianwilson8899 Жыл бұрын
My mother always warned me about this: “You can’t be wrong AND strong….
@deenyembe4915
@deenyembe4915 5 ай бұрын
Going through my first ever break up.. The Holy spirit told me it was time to end the relationship and it really hurts. It's been a roller coaster and may God help me stay away from relationships that aren't from Him in future. This really really hurts.
@Trulyblessed921
@Trulyblessed921 5 ай бұрын
This pain hurts. I married this man and thought it was forever. I was discarded and he and another lady have moved in together. He has tried to literally tried to destroy me and is now trying to take the home even though he has not paid one mortgage since 2023. The lies, abuse, smear complains, manipulation, and deceit was overwhelming but I never would have left him. Please keep me lifted in prayer
@ebonydixon3568
@ebonydixon3568 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Lord for using Jerry for delivering this message
@sanders4911
@sanders4911 Жыл бұрын
The way this man preaches is astounding ❤
@donetalkingpodcast4
@donetalkingpodcast4 2 ай бұрын
God Bless everyone in these comments that’s going thru any heartaches. Doesn’t matter if it was your fault or not . God will redirect your steps and continue to heal your heart and mind. It’ll all be clear in the end ❤
@kaleighaalejaga7470
@kaleighaalejaga7470 11 ай бұрын
THERES STILL MORE AFTER THIS!! Lord your story for me continues onward,,, heal my heart, spirit, and mind the right way, the way it's intended for, Hallelujah! Thank you brother for being a vessel & allowing God to speak through you!
@MaKaylahLetsChatPodcast
@MaKaylahLetsChatPodcast 6 ай бұрын
I can’t believe I begged and cried😅… no more of that! Better is coming and I needed that relationship to end so that my Faith could be made stronger in Christ. My faith NOW is so much more mature now that I am not connected to my ex. I pray for him and I wish him nothing but the BEST!! Thank you God!
@beautifulb2078
@beautifulb2078 11 ай бұрын
My heart is so broken right now I don’t love myself so I couldn’t love him neither. This man loved me unconditionally and I couldn’t give or receive it back. I promised God before I met him I would work on and heal myself before I entered a relationship I didn’t keep my promise and now Ive ran off a good man. I know God is working in my life but it’s hard not to feel anger with God! when does my happiness come when will the pain from my past not affect my present and future
@iluvhanson
@iluvhanson 3 ай бұрын
Sending love and strength. Going through this now
@MaryIsbell-i6g
@MaryIsbell-i6g 8 ай бұрын
I miss him for real and it's a roller coaster day to day and I know I can't go. Back
@MathiasSchreiber-y9p
@MathiasSchreiber-y9p Ай бұрын
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am fand at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other
@LucasWilliam-n6p
@LucasWilliam-n6p Ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not. I feel your pain sister, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thout it was, but it worked wonders for me.
@MathiasSchreiber-y9p
@MathiasSchreiber-y9p Ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
@LucasWilliam-n6p
@LucasWilliam-n6p Ай бұрын
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@MathiasSchreiber-y9p
@MathiasSchreiber-y9p Ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@jamzz_
@jamzz_ Ай бұрын
I need help brother
@Pearl_Ma292
@Pearl_Ma292 4 ай бұрын
I walked away, and he didn't try to stop me its been really hard. I hope God heals me. You personally spoke to me😢🙌🏾
@333lavender
@333lavender 3 ай бұрын
Same here. It's been 4 days but my calender keeps filling up so I'm grateful it's just the mornings are hard
@jasminedahna9901
@jasminedahna9901 Жыл бұрын
You can tell that Jerry genuinely loves the Lord and wants to help others
@jam09aica
@jam09aica Жыл бұрын
I allowed my insecurities and jealousy to take over my mind. I pushed away my ex. I am grateful that I see the errors in my ways. I understand my thoughts needed healing. I will use this time to mentally heal. I will keep God 1st pray for healing and seek help. I will renew my spirit and mind in GOD'S NAME AND WORD.
@alenablanco5151
@alenablanco5151 8 ай бұрын
I hooe youve been well my love remmever God is good!! How is everything now? If the time is right you guys can meet again
@diattie
@diattie 7 ай бұрын
Amen,sis! i have been like this
@Totandher4kids
@Totandher4kids 7 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽 I really could not have said it any better!
@tydance8865
@tydance8865 Жыл бұрын
i was planning on marrying my ex we haven't spoke in three weeks.. i'm really struggling. we were unevenly yoked & did alot of fighting but had amazing times as well. God has revealed he separated us to get me closer to him and if he didn't i was only going to stray away from him even more.. hallelujah.
@RiasJourney-s9e
@RiasJourney-s9e 9 ай бұрын
Same here 😔
@shaunteljerome1908
@shaunteljerome1908 6 ай бұрын
This is how I feel now and I’m still in the relationship 😢
@GlamCam84
@GlamCam84 6 ай бұрын
Amen
@JimmyCooks-fy6bq
@JimmyCooks-fy6bq 4 ай бұрын
I was a walking red flag…technically I still am. I am in a season where I need to be alone so I can grow closer to God and follow his calling for me.
@michelledanielle4511
@michelledanielle4511 Ай бұрын
Just broke up yesterday and I definitely needed this. I see the wrong I’ve caused and I just wanna change and be better thank you Jesus for this message ❤
@tessymumbi8420
@tessymumbi8420 9 ай бұрын
Broken but I trust in God someday I’ll come back to this comment to see where I was at some point and give Glory to God..😢
@daisybarasa9940
@daisybarasa9940 5 ай бұрын
How are you feeling now ?
@ellysavatia
@ellysavatia Жыл бұрын
That was spot on! The worst combination is when somebody is arrogant and ignorant 😂😂😂
@sixteen.candles.4644
@sixteen.candles.4644 Жыл бұрын
Lol
@Destiny-pq6zd
@Destiny-pq6zd 8 ай бұрын
THERE IS STILL MORE AFTER THIS, THE BREAKUP
@charliemcindoe3539
@charliemcindoe3539 Жыл бұрын
Omgoodness I really needed this today because I’m in the middle of the healing process of healing from a six year relationship with two kids out of it 😢it’s really hard thank you lord for this
@tyralewis5394
@tyralewis5394 11 ай бұрын
Hi girlie! How are you doing now?
@AshantiJackson-t9v
@AshantiJackson-t9v Ай бұрын
There is still more after the break up 🙏🏾
@cherankimiorak1739
@cherankimiorak1739 Жыл бұрын
What a word 🙌🏽🙌🏽 Yes when I was with my ex narc my spiritual life greatly declined. Stopped going to church, prayer life came to a halt.. Thank you Jesus my Boaz is on his way 🙏🏽
@miseducated7185
@miseducated7185 Жыл бұрын
Move on right; walked away hoping they’ll stop you;don’t know how to grieve about something that is dead but the person is still alive…. Move on with health, Heal with clarity
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j 6 ай бұрын
Nice video, I'm still struggling with the end of my 7-year relationship. My significant other, who I considered to be the love of my life, left me a month ago, and I can't seem to shake the constant thoughts of her. Despite my efforts to bring him back into my life, nothing has worked, and I feel frustrated and hopeless. I've tried to move on, but my heart still longs for him, and I don't see myself with anyone else. I apologize for sharing this here, but I just can't seem to stop missing him.
@LunqCharlotte
@LunqCharlotte 6 ай бұрын
It's hard to let go of someone you love; I went through a similar experience when my 12-year relationship ended. I tried everything to get him back, and eventually I had to turn to a spiritual counselor for assistance.
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j 6 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
@LunqCharlotte
@LunqCharlotte 6 ай бұрын
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@LunqCharlotte
@LunqCharlotte 6 ай бұрын
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
@QueenJessica-z5j
@QueenJessica-z5j 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@ray.bailey
@ray.bailey 11 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾. I needed to hear this . Went thru a divorce and I still find myself missing her and thinking about our family . Healing is messy, but necessary. Amen 🙏🏾
@jecintahwanjiru1606
@jecintahwanjiru1606 10 ай бұрын
I feel you, going thru the same😢
@Erin-v5d
@Erin-v5d 9 күн бұрын
THERE IS STILL MORE AFTER THIS 🙏🏼
@diariesbycyn
@diariesbycyn 8 ай бұрын
I am struggling so bad to let go. It’s very clear that it doesn’t matter if I stay or if I go to him. I begged, questioning my worth. Why not me, why not fight for me. I want it to be him…. It hurts so bad, my anxiety eats me up, I over think. The day I see him with someone else.
@cecemoon9692
@cecemoon9692 9 ай бұрын
The death was my doing. I lied to him because I was afraid of telling him the truth and fearful of the reaction I would get from telling him the truth. He was my best friend and I betrayed his trust. He had the grace to still forgive me but we’re no longer together. I recognize that I have unhealed issues. I pray for him to this day. Currently in a phase of suffering and shame but grateful for this suffering otherwise I would not be changing for the better. I am striving to walk with God more and strengthening my relationship with Him. Thank you for this video. God Bless everyone who is in the same situation as I am, I pray you heal and learn from the word so you can stop hurting your loved ones.
@rhodaparker-wilson7362
@rhodaparker-wilson7362 11 ай бұрын
I dont want to just move on but i want to move on right😢. Help me Lord🙏🙏
@queensassii7328
@queensassii7328 Ай бұрын
It’s been a week. I’m so sad and the tears won’t stop. I just want it to stop! Having a person act like they care then to be so dismissive is so heartbreaking like huh? I’m so confused. GOD LEAD ME
@09hiram
@09hiram 18 күн бұрын
I can relate I’m 3 days in. After 4yr relationship. I was so insecure, I may have been the reason but I always was asking if something was wrong. And would always get generic replies like “yes”. But never understood why love was dying out. I tried asking before if there was issues I wanted to be better for her.. but for whatever reason a lot was held back. Until she got fed of my insecurity and told me to leave for questioning her. I don’t understand how you let go of something so fast that you spent so long and hard working for. I turn the situation around and I still could not see myself giving up.. I pray for peace and healing, cry out to God. He is near the brokenhearted.. here with ya in Jesus name.
@queensassii7328
@queensassii7328 18 күн бұрын
@ thank you so much! They’re all lessons for sure! Many hugs to you as well. It’s a terrible feeling but I’m so glad I’m not alone! We will b just fine in Jesus nsmeb
@09hiram
@09hiram 18 күн бұрын
@@queensassii7328 you got this! I remind myself of Peter on the boat with Jesus, can’t focus on the storm. God is and has always been with us. We have to look for faith in him🙏🏼
@sincereshay
@sincereshay Жыл бұрын
I was with a man who eventually said he didn’t want to pursue God yet, It’s been painful and I never stopped seeking God. The pain drew me closer than ever because I just didn’t understand. But I’m healing, God never chose this for me.. my actions led me here but I know better now. He’s helping me every step!
@niy2071
@niy2071 9 күн бұрын
this video hit. i looked for this video to give me motivation to stay strong and move on from someone who I know I deserved better. But Im sitting here with the video on pause because although he may not have been right for me. I did alot of wrong too. I would let my emotions take over. Send multiple hurtful messages, blow his phone up. Although I think he cheated on me Im not sure, but my insecurity and jealousy raged out like a cycle and I just never healed. I needed to walk away but I was also doing damage at the same time. I need to heal, if I dont I will stay in this vicious cycle and I dont want that. Thank you pastor for keeping it real. Looking inside to see where you went wrong is hard. Its easier to point the finger.
@c.7473
@c.7473 6 ай бұрын
A much needed message after a 5 year relationship that led nowhere. I’m officially 2 months with no contact. I’ve felt every emotion (anger, sadness, denial, etc.) over the past few weeks and it’s still an ongoing battle but I know God will guide me out of this as long as I stay by His side . 💜
@kalex1992
@kalex1992 Күн бұрын
Just broke up today 1/30/25 Have known and loved this man for 20+ yrs -we tried it 2x and this was it. I hate it hurt him.. I hate he still wants to try but I see it cannot stand. Too little too late and I want more.. Still hurts because I can't remember life before him. But God told me to leave it because He has something better. To all of us moving on in grace I pray we all find our peace & path. 🙏🏾
@SandraVergara-w7i
@SandraVergara-w7i 11 ай бұрын
I hurt my husband. I was the problem 😔 i hurt a great man because i was afraid to love. I let my fear and victim mentality take over.
@belle_pikachu23
@belle_pikachu23 7 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾 ❤ THERE'S STILL MORE AFTER THIS
@yahkar
@yahkar Жыл бұрын
📖 _If your always the teacher and never the student, then your probably the problem_ . 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@LearninLyfe
@LearninLyfe Жыл бұрын
Yes Lord I needed this!!!!! I receive this message in the name of JESUS! Amen Amen Amen
@angelaferraro2329
@angelaferraro2329 7 ай бұрын
My ex, in every talk the teacher. Ignored my feelings, kept seeing his exwife.
@eunicegordon3774
@eunicegordon3774 25 күн бұрын
I too have lost some people I cared about. But what I realized was I was the assignment that got taken advantage of and that never should have happened. But God gave me peace after I prayed that God remove the soultie and it has gotten easier day by day. Gods peace is priceless ❤️
@blepaok
@blepaok Жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this today. I have held on to the dust of another village with dear life because it's what I want even when I heard a whispering in my spirit that God had to close that door.
@everettwhite3430
@everettwhite3430 28 күн бұрын
I’m accepting that we are done, and it hurts, but I thank GOD
@CourtneyThompson-o5y
@CourtneyThompson-o5y 8 ай бұрын
I just want to grieve and get over him 🥺
@tamekapinckney3140
@tamekapinckney3140 Ай бұрын
My God ❤I was scrolling through and saw this message. God will wreck your plans before they wreck you 🙏🏾❤️ thank you Lord ! I will survive 💪🏾God thank you for having my back ❤
@essmomanyi470
@essmomanyi470 9 ай бұрын
I feel so broken right now......everything in my life is scrambling down but wat scares me the most is my relationship with God and my career 😢.....leaving this comment here in april 2024 for future reference coz i know God is gonna deliver me 🙏 🙏 Glory be to God
@PhilD-h7o
@PhilD-h7o 7 ай бұрын
❤🙏🏽
@smilergal89
@smilergal89 6 ай бұрын
Please come back and testify. Trusting God for you. You are loved ❤
@Misspermiscuousgirll
@Misspermiscuousgirll 6 ай бұрын
Praying for you
@kikkysamuel7180
@kikkysamuel7180 13 күн бұрын
How do you feel now?
@daniellecollins5873
@daniellecollins5873 Ай бұрын
Claiming my peace taking my peace back
@lordhasmerce
@lordhasmerce Жыл бұрын
Healing scares people who benefit from your brokenness!
@thismomthatmom
@thismomthatmom Ай бұрын
THERE'S STILL MORE AFTER THIS
@AnansaStJuste
@AnansaStJuste 5 ай бұрын
I'm ok with losing the person, they didn't value me or see my worth and because I know my worth to God I had to let go and let God, it's hard but Hod has greater than what we lost for us
@sharmainehart2081
@sharmainehart2081 29 күн бұрын
I'm getting my peace BACK!!!!
@Kiara.Alicia
@Kiara.Alicia 5 ай бұрын
My lord!!!!!! Thankyou for releasing me from liars
@GoodieBillions
@GoodieBillions Ай бұрын
Watching this on 28/12/24, 9:28am Just got into the video and the comments are already speaking to the hurt in my heart. I'm glad I'm on this.
@sagantoussaint4592
@sagantoussaint4592 23 күн бұрын
How ironic that is the same day that I too realized that I was more invested in curing him of his demons then I was in protecting my energy from them..
@Nicole__97_
@Nicole__97_ Жыл бұрын
YOU CAME FOR MY SCALP ON THIS ONE JERRY!! THANK YOU!!
@wdsanders04
@wdsanders04 Жыл бұрын
We have to move on the right way .
@BeautifuuuuuL
@BeautifuuuuuL Ай бұрын
I didnt wanna let go even still now but i know its Gods plans.
@IntegraTypeSPerformance
@IntegraTypeSPerformance Жыл бұрын
I’m getting my peace back. 🙏🏽
@Mzshey2006
@Mzshey2006 4 ай бұрын
💔🥀😔Dude left me on 09/04/24. I’m so hurt been crying ever since then. This sermon was meant for me 🙏🏽
@newenglandtoffee9190
@newenglandtoffee9190 Жыл бұрын
I'M GETTING MY PEACE BACK🙏🏽
@porchewilliams1422
@porchewilliams1422 10 ай бұрын
MANNNNN YOU BETTER PREACH because I can’t stand my ex/baby daddy!!! Whew yeah you talking to me ‼️
@HorizonEast72
@HorizonEast72 Жыл бұрын
Amen and Amen. Thank you Lord for showing me that I had to end that relationship. Thank you Lord for showing me my own brokenness. Please help me to heal and to get on the right path - to get on Your path Lord. I can’t do this by myself anymore without You. Thank you Lord for Pastor J and his ministry and for access to Therapy Thursday. In Jesus name Amen!
@Cherylgawazah
@Cherylgawazah 3 ай бұрын
THERE'S STILL MORE AFTER THIS❤️
@LifeWithKimJ
@LifeWithKimJ 3 ай бұрын
I loved my ex and cared. But I would always come at him over my emotions,and I would always say let’s cut ties.Until one day he really gave up on me.and 2 weeks later he already had someone else .Yes I blame myself for my choice of words but that person moved on 1-2 weeks later with someone staying to his crib.If he loved me I feel like he would have gave me another chance.But my intuition never lies. My ex ignored me and avoided me etc. I now believe it wasn’t in gods will.
@neikoneiko964
@neikoneiko964 13 күн бұрын
😢😢 omg same! Hope you’re well❤
@vicd9740
@vicd9740 Ай бұрын
He didn’t have to clock me like that 😭😭😭😭 but I needed it ❤️
@blaquecinderella3560
@blaquecinderella3560 Жыл бұрын
Pastor Jerry Flowers ALWAYS delivers God's message in the most loving, gentle yet firm & simple way. God bless you Pastor. I totally needed this. Watching from Nairobi Kenya 🇰🇪
@amyrecain5988
@amyrecain5988 3 ай бұрын
THIS IS GOING TO BE GOOD !!!!
@lucasb4590
@lucasb4590 Жыл бұрын
I just broke up And seeing right away is just God😭
@jessieoakford6113
@jessieoakford6113 Жыл бұрын
God provides, the love we can trust
@alenablanco5151
@alenablanco5151 8 ай бұрын
@@jessieoakford6113 are you okay now?
@ntsikelelodwane8306
@ntsikelelodwane8306 Ай бұрын
Getting my peace back
@sieglindeallen9626
@sieglindeallen9626 Жыл бұрын
There’s still more after this… glory to the most high
@tamaralee7455
@tamaralee7455 2 ай бұрын
Missing them is not permission to return. This broke me.
@deec.christian7012
@deec.christian7012 Жыл бұрын
That whole part...grieve someone who is physically still here
@gbtruth6959
@gbtruth6959 Ай бұрын
THERE’S STILL MORE AFTER THIS!
@sarahdelisca9435
@sarahdelisca9435 Жыл бұрын
There is still more after this! Thank you Jesus!! 🙏🏼
@tequilakearney8972
@tequilakearney8972 Ай бұрын
There’s still more after this! Amen.
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