One-sided relationship destroying my life and studies !!!! how to control my emotions ?

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[@stutivarshney6698]

Best line " जब आपके emotions आपके लिए मुसीबत हो जाएँ तो cruel हो जाओ " Towards your emotions. 👍 Emotions are temporary....

[@debovani9814]

I wasted the 1st year of graduation ( maths honours) in such ridiculous one-sided relationship. Thanks to my Mumma who made me understand the reality and I got the time to pull myself together. Never look for appreciation and attention from the others because no one really cares . Put your utmost effort in your own betterment . And those who are dealing with heartbreak : plz have some patience, you don't know what an amazing healing capacity ' time ' has. Have that faith in yourself. You can go through this phase, it's just a phase, it's bound to change. You just have to sail through. Don't force yourself , don't try to flush out your feelings. Let the change happen organically, your heart is strong enough to endure this pain and eventually it'll heal. You'll eventually realize your worth, you'll hold yourself at a high esteem.

[@devanshxvii]

It is very enlightening! 🌻 Thank you so much❤

[@sahilKumar-ig3ik]

Thankyou, actually I needed this. It's tough to get out of this. I know I can. but, it is becoming more tough for me.i just want to get out of this . I was not like this . sometimes, I think what I was and what I am now??this feeling ..really, thiss iss hell worst than hell 🥺🥺

[@MS0O1]

Waao how well you explained I love it actually I ruined my 6 months in my life not just 6 month but a year I was in love in one sided love first I waste my time in a confusion that should I told him or not then one of my frnd suggests me to tell him them I waste my time that how to tell I collect all my courage and tell me but he ignore me literally I took a week to arrange my words of emotion but he say nothing nothing at all Then I waste time that I feel so guilty that hurt me my self respect specialy when I know him it damage me badly Then I get to know he got married after 3 month with a beautiful princess but atleast if someone already in his life he must tell me but keep silent saying nothing is like murdered of someone feelings

[@py12367]

@@MS0O1 He played with you sis. I hope you came out of it.

[@MS0O1]

@@py12367 yes finally I came out !

[@sparshkapoor6611]

I left my job as a Data Scientist when I was earning 14L package. Started preparing for government examinations. Qualied for Mains SBI PO Once IBPS SBI Clerk Once. SSC CGLE Pre Once. UPSC Civil Services Pre Once Still I am preparing and trying not to be emotionally weak because of the one selfish person who forced me to face bad experiences. She used my resources , my time , my guidance and now she left me as I am nothing to her. In a nutshell I realized "Never ever open your cards in front of anyone". And the fact is Vikas Divyakirti Sir is right " Naukri toh sirf IAS hain baki sab naukriyaan he hain " Mujhe IAS he bnna h. Mere liye koi CPO wali sahi nahi ho sakti.

[@pvilassharma6091]

But bro, why you quit data science?

[@sparshkapoor6611]

@@pvilassharma6091 Brother I have quit because I am interested in Administrative Power. I want to work in government and besides that It will definitely give me power position allowances and much more.

[@AryanSMH]

@@sparshkapoor6611 most educated ex-corporate slave

[@sparshkapoor6611]

@@AryanSMH May be you are right brother. But now I am having more practical experience of life.

[@singhstudio-pp7zv]

@@AryanSMHtu bhi kisi ka tog slave hoga

[@dhruvmishra3969]

Abhilash ko upsc clear karne ke baad nahi mili samajh jao ab... 😂😂

[@debasishlenka3783]

😂😂😂

[@phothon_in_split]

Abhilash to khuda chhora tha....bhai 😂😉

[@ambikeshmishra7793]

@@phothon_in_split राइट

[@breathe.1478]

If you feel that you're emotionally driven for someone, who is being ignorant, and at the same time you have a goal like Upsc, state pcs, please watch shows, videos which display social issues of our society, which are really needed to be solved, you'll feel an attachment towards it, instead of listening to Arijit Singh 😅, no offense, listen to some motivating songs, after all the goal is to become a Civil Servant, right? Nation needs better candidates, become one, study hard, Jai Hind.

[@rishabhpartap]

If you can be distracted from your goal that it is not your true goal at all for sure.

[@aaozindagikesathkhele2264]

You are totally right

[@tula__]

But why do you have a white woman's pfp. 😜

[@vaibhavgaikwad3555]

... just like Whitney Houston's Greatest Love of All

[@themishraji09]

Sb Bollywood ka galti hai .... Rahul Anjali ruined the career of meteor by granting wish .... Dil dhadkta h duppata sarakta h nonsense...

[@theclumsyone2213]

why do people still watch bollywood?😂

[@positivevibes8986]

Completely agreed..

[@kaustubhpriyadarsan2162]

😂

[@kavyatripathi4450]

Lol😂😂

[@varunsharma-rq7po]

Agreed

[@adityavaishnav4078]

I have gone through the same for last 3 month........... the thing which helped me is .....plz be in isolation for 1-2 week , let your emotions out .... cry as much as you want to cry no buddy will stop you........gradually take your mind to spirituality to God.......... it's kind of funny though but seeing mahabharat and reading Geeta helped me a lot 😅😅........ it will teach you a lot of lessons ..... m not promoting any religion here , it's my experience what I'm sharing ... and please try to enjoy that time also atleast aap k life me koi kahani rhgi ki " haan Maine bhi ek tym pe kisi se pyaar kiya tha " or kuch tym baad aap apne aap pe hasoge ki kitne pagal the aap

[@VG__]

Noo, it's not funny uk...Guys, I really really wanna say that "SPIRITUALITY" is a weapon, it's a way to live life. Self control that even sir is talking about comes with spirituality. And I have seen Ramayan and Mahabharat (caz of lockdown ) and trust me, they really really help. After watching them, you'll NEVER be the same human, u will be different with good thoughts and beautiful mind😊

[@rubypal8145]

@@VG__ from where did you watch can you please tell

[@VG__]

@@rubypal8145 First of all, I watched Ramayan and Mahabharat telecasted on TV last year but Mahabharat has recently started again on tv(starplus) Added, more practically, when I missed the episodes I saw Ramayan available on KZbin and Mahabharat (recent one directed by Amol surve) on hotstar.

[@rubypal8145]

@@VG__ ok tq so much

[@ShwetaSingh-bk8si]

Very true...

[@shaktiprasadnath8980]

Last line was lit, be cruel when your emotion is letting you back 👌

[@Frozen_Princess_01]

I faced this problem for a long time but finally I'm ok bcz I engaged myself a lot of works ❣️

[@maheshmatigarbha6173]

I still don't say that I forgot the person or anything related to us. I just considered it something that is gone just like a business loss. I did deactivate all my social media for it but it was worth and I feel much confident to qualify. Aur bhul ke bhi wo "thukra ke mera pyar" wale mode me mat cahle jana that will be even more harmful, just live and let live. Kisi mahan insan ne kaha tha "wo nahi toh koi aur sahi... koi aur nahi toh koi aur sahi".🤣🤣 On a serious note If you really want officer like quality this is very important... finally it's your time your life your carrier your decision and your decision will make a difference

[@atozshorts5918]

please translate video content to english

[@proudindian9140]

@@atozshorts5918 so sir basically said that u cannot control the situation or the behavior of that person who is ignoring u...If u are stalking them and waiting for them then u are wasting ur time and once that time will be gone, u cannot do anything as both that person and time will be gone.U cannot force someone into loving u, it comes naturally and what doesn't comes naturally does last much...so better focus on urself, be he best version of urself and good things will come to u.

[@atozshorts5918]

@@proudindian9140 thanks for replying

[@ravi10sharma]

That mahaan insaan is Vikas Divyakirti sir, I guess?

[@arpitaingale921]

Meditation for 20 min daily help to remove overthinking and past realtionship also☺

[@rishabhraj586]

How to do motivation? If you have any video link about meditation which you follow to learn.

[@Meghnath_from_Lanka]

I don't think so. When someone is in love in meditation time they mediated about whom they love. And its make it more worsen.

[@TheBiharAffairs]

Mujhye bhi yeh problem tha.. But hamlog kisi se discuss nhi kar pate hai, kyuki samne wala es baat ko positive ya negative lekr side kr deta hai... Aap ek chanakya ho sir,,, apka lecture dekhne ke baad yeh sab bhi video recommend aa jata hai youtube ke tarf se ☺️.. Apka har ek video worthy lagta hai.

[@rahulkumarsaini6706]

This is indeed very much genuine problem. Most of us had or will go through this problem. the problem here is attachment, so detachment is necessary but how can we do that, solutions are( it worked for me) -) meditation -) self love -) workout/ cardio( will relieve stress) -) don't stay in isolation, keep urself busy with like minded people or with your work -) little bit of spiritualism. -) involve urself with your parents -) travel explore new places, explore different cuisine ( matlab smjho life ek hi hai and khud ke liye jiyo). -) think about the betterment of society, contributing towards society. -) and be selfish when it comes to your goal, target, aim and happiness. Eventually u will come out of this phase, I know this is difficult but believe me u will come out.

[@suryadeepsingh4649]

One solution= just be relax.

[@viveksbg]

Yaa bro I aslo do the same.

[@athlete_296]

This exam is a an ultimate sacrifice that we have to happily give for greater glory. Such a beautiful lesson. All aspirants can relate to it one way or the other.

[@positivevibes8986]

Love is impractical in this time. Just focus in ur studies. If feeling depressed then go work with disabilities children then ultimately value you will value your things.

[@ipsitapanda7245]

Good advice.

[@yashtoliwal4585]

The very last thing what you mentioned Sir, that we need to be a bit cruel for the sake of our dream. That was really something that I as an individual have learnt it the hard way. I've been with your channel and not just watch your videos,but also try to inculcate an officer like approach towards life and every other problems that I come across. Thanks a lot for paving the way for people like me. I don't know how and when it would be possible, But I would surely like to meet the person who is influencing an entire generation, strata or class of people who not just dream big. But also have a feeling of serving the country in every way possible. Thanks again, keep up the brilliant work . I wish you all the very best.

[@poojajadhav2473]

Sahi hai yar bhad me jaye aisa pyar kaha UPSC kaha pyar , actually maine to khud break up kr liya upsc ke liye..😁😂 real love Krna hai to maa baap ka love pe dhyan do unke liye kuch kro kya ldki ldko ke chakkar me pde ho .. aur yahi sb Krna hai toh don't think about UPSC ..

[@reezulkumar2493]

I left college during first year of my graduation coz I underwent such a mental torture due to some toxic affection and emotional attachment. People just leave and what you have is only anxiety and depression. Though, that was a phase and it taught me number of things and i turned out to be way better person. !! I felt rejected but i was being directed to something way better (spirituality) ❤ ..now I do work hard for my goals and focus on family and self improvement only. God has his own plans. May Lord bless everyone going through such hard times. 🙏

[@RanaPahadiEntertainment]

I will save this video in my playlist, whenever i will think about herself, than i will watch this video.

[@PriyaSingh-fw6lx]

Pata my himself name is also Rohit when I saw that immediate I stuck with it...... waiting him for 2 year

[@debasishlenka3783]

@SACH KADWA HAI sahi bola 😂😂

[@proudindian9140]

@@PriyaSingh-fw6lx one can never love u if he/she makes u wait.

[@hemasingh572]

Same

[@whatithinksingh]

@@PriyaSingh-fw6lx tab thum dodo ek dosre se connect hoojao. Sayad thoda acah lagaa

[@symrank7021]

I love how you’re not just helping us academically but also mentally💜so proud to have found your channel😌So grateful for you sir🙏Thankyou so much🙏

[@ankitsahu5502]

ये सब ऐसी बातें है की इसमे आप खुद की ही मदद कर सकते है, कोई दूसरा नहीं कर सकता, और ऐसे इंसान के लिए जिसके लिए आपने सबकुछ भुला दिया हो, अगर वो इन सब की परवाह ना करे, तो उसके लिए मिटना बेकार है l मुहब्बत के लिए तब मिटना चाहिए जब सामने से भी वही मर मिटने वाली मोहब्बत मिले l

[@uzzzy4209]

Tht line jab apko upsc ki yaad aaygi Or apke pas koi attempt ni hoyga 💔💔💔

[@hiteshrout305]

Best line -jab apki emotion aap ke liye musibaat ban Jaye toh thoda cruel ho jana khud ke liye bohot jaruri hota hai

[@GeerishaAcharya]

आदर्शवादी बातें ऐसे टॉपिक पर कभी काम नही आती, इसलिए व्यवहारिक निर्णय लेने चाहिए, सम्बन्धों में स्पष्टता होनी चाहिये यदि ऐसा नहीं है तो आगे बढ़ो ऐसे रिश्तों को लात मारकर..कुछ समय के लिए दर्द होगा पर तुम सम्भल जाओगे अपने आप..Be strong be bold.. भिखारी वाली जिंदगी कभी मत जियो..😊 बादशाह बनों..👍👍मन के केंद्र में अपने "उत्कृष्ट लक्ष्य" को रखो..अपने जीवन की सार्थकता समझो..

[@PiyushSharma-tk8ku]

Miss Naib-Tehsildar if you are reading this Please try these things >Delete every social media platform you are using >Delete each and every song that makes you remember him >Try to read some good books >Talk to your best friends whenever u feel sad I hope it'll help...... 👍

[@advocatenoshin4315]

It doesn't worked😁😕

[@PiyushSharma-tk8ku]

@@advocatenoshin4315 I don't know it worked for your relationship or not but it must work for your grammar😉

[@chandan_0309]

😂😂😂 I remember my friend used to tell me bhai "teri bhabhi h" aur usne aaj tk uska 1 message bhi seen ni kiya... 🤣🤣

[@masternobin]

Mann hi mann IAS BANGAYA hoga woh to

[@lakshmi4239]

😂😂😂😂

[@himanshukumar5726]

@@masternobin bhai wo DM bhi ban gya aur kitni baar transfer bhi ho gyi

[@akanshabisht1633]

Hahah lol🤣

[@asr738]

Jub apka emotion aapke liye mushibat bn jay to aapka cruel ho jana hi aacha hota hai.... Aab tk ki apne life ki sabse aachi sikh mili mujhe yaha..... Thanku sir...thanks a lot...

[@ankitawalunj158]

Same situation happened with me but now its reverse because i achieved more than him. So just proved yourself, don't be their servants,focus on our goals only 🥳👍♥️

[@MS0O1]

Waao how well you explained I love it actually I ruined my 6 months in my life not just 6 month but a year I was in love in one sided love first I waste my time in a confusion that should I told him or not then one of my frnd suggests me to tell him them I waste my time that how to tell I collect all my courage and tell me but he ignore me literally I took a week to arrange my words of emotion but he say nothing nothing at all Then I waste time that I feel so guilty that hurt me my self respect specialy when I know him it damage me badly Then I get to know he got married after 3 month with a beautiful princess but atleast if someone already in his life he must tell me but keep silent saying nothing is like murdered of someone feelings

[@pragatikumari5294]

Complain in relationship : destroy it. "Always keep in mind we should never do anything which disturb some other's mind". I can understand that not getting the response from opposite side make u feel bad but trust me, when u start ", "only giving" , the relationship will flourish. It is fact that you will not be able to FORGET that person instantaneously. Lekin jitna saath waqt saath raho utna der toh kam se kam khud ko achha feel karao. I am giving you my example. I am Nature loving person. Bird watching, Flower watching and sitting in calmness is my way to talk to Nature. I have been doing it since my childhood. Here u can see that i am not getting any response from Nature. But during that time period, i create only positive thoughts. And My positive thoughts makes me feel happy. It's not about " the person, Thing, gadgets " which we make feel better. But it is our thoughts which create the feeling of happiness. So, don't hold that person .it will be suffocating for him. A toxic relationship. Fix your time say 10 minutes or 15 minutes and send him good wishes, real photographs of nature etc. So, that while sending these things u will also feel better. Don't send anything which will disturb his mind. Because his disturb mind will continuously send u negative thoughts to u and u will become more possessive towards him. When u will become blissful, gradually u will be detached from his way of behavior. And Will be able to focus more on yourself and studies. All the best for your exams. Byee

[@proudindian9140]

wow...awesome girl ...loved it...best of luck for ur endeavors

[@Kartik83853]

@Jai hind mam I m also aspiring for mppsc can I how did u prepared self or coaching ? N wht should I do?

[@ranjeet_4142]

100% true

[@soni2715]

Zindagi barbad mat karo aur zindagi me kamiyab bano aur phir dekho har chiz ap k kadmo me hogi , itna padho k exm ko bhi dar lage tum se , jo ja raha us k bare me Mt socho balke apne future k bare me socho Jo milne wala h tmhe ... 👍

[@AkashIndoliya]

If that girl is reading comments, I will suggest that she should get help of a psychiatrist. It will help a lot. Trust me

[@ksharma1696]

Awesome advice sir nd most imp part of ur generousity is that u had given answer to this...biggest problem in these digital era of stalking someone who was ur ex or anything can destroy us jante hum sab hain bt Krna bhut mushkil hota h apka khna ek dum sahi h cruel hona pdta h jb bat apki barbadi ki ho...hmesha kind hearted nhi rhna chahiye wo bhi wahan jahan apki self respect ki dhajjiyan ud chuki ho ....thanks sir

[@suryadeepsingh4649]

Effective relationship💏= talk less + love ❤ more. Balance ⚖️ is the life. This is a formula👭👈

[@saketautee2329]

I hope I find that someday😂😂

[@suryadeepsingh4649]

@@saketautee2329 sure👍😊

[@jonah3365]

Destiny mai Jo likha hai woh hoke rahega Aur Upar waala sab theek kar dega

[@satishkumarsahu2194]

Sir, the work that you are doing is worthless-priceless. Hats off to you !

[@Ritu26789]

Aapki respect hr video ke saath badhti jaa rhi h thankyou aapki advise hmesha BHUT clear hoti h and I like this thing the most thankyou so much sir. ISS video ke saath Mera BHUT bada doubt solve ho Gaya.

[@yogendrajadhav5653]

Sir you are awesome 🙏 each and every problem you find out the solutions...You are the great sir...god bless you sir keep supporting us 🤗

[@VaibhavGupta95]

I am the best example of this story ☺️ but Ab kafi dur nikal chuka hu sb Emotionally drama ka khel h control your emotions and put it into your career portion .Fir kr lo Duniya mutthi me.

[@S4sumit.]

I have exactly the same problem with me but now I understood what should i do.... You are such a great person ❣️🙏🏽

[@harshvishwakarma7934]

i also started my state psc preparation and joined coaching on sep 2022, there i met a girl in october got really attached to her thought i can come into relationship with her but from 5th of december she started ignoring me and blocked me from social media giving no reasons even after asking multiple times... that you know put me in endless cycle of thinking about her whole day and night and wasted my almost 3-4 months . In coaching rather than studying i used to stare her in home whole day used to think about her ....Now regretting that 3 months so please dont fall so much for someone i regret and right now also i am not totally out of this ..Hope things get well in my life and thanks to harshit sir for picking up this topic for discussion

[@maheshmatigarbha6173]

Sir jo aapne Tanashah wala point bola bilkul sahi hai. I also had a similar experience in life. The reality of it will always be that if you have to get something in life you have to make sacrifices. I just considered it another sacrifice, completely knowing that it was one sided but if you don't think that way it becomes really tough for your brain to accept it. You have to someway somehow make yourself believe that that is the only way.

[@sanatani.Saurabh08]

Hit the line :-jb aapke emotions apke liye mushibat ho jaye tb apko apne emotions ke liye curel hona padta hai

[@Shivanisingh-jk3mx]

Mujhe lgta tha bde hone k sath hum mature ho jaate h But now I come to know itni achi post milne aur settle hone k baad b hum mature nhi hote...the problem is not about maturity it's all about our fool hormones...jo control nhi rehte🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦

[@Shivanisingh-jk3mx]

@SACH KADWA HAI whatever vo ias ho ya ips..ya kuch bhi...matter uski.post nhi krti. Matter uski mental condition h jo vo maintain nhi krr paa rhi .aur shyd ye harr teesre bnde k sath problem h. ...so rather than focussing on the post just try to understand her mental condition..

[@PiyushSharma-tk8ku]

@SACH KADWA HAI bhai Tina Dabi ko dekh le vo to ias h Ho gya divorce

[@PiyushSharma-tk8ku]

@SACH KADWA HAI sorry shaktimaan🙏😂

[@knowledgetoolbihar6401]

It's my suggestion to u bro.. Just leave it Focus on your study... Change your number, and leave all from social anxiety. I was also spend almost 6 years in this types of scenario, he used me physically, mentally, even though I have backlog, just because of him,..... Just because of him I lost everything,.... Now he blocks me from every social site, I m facing guilty a lot........ Focus on your study bro, please...

[@saketautee2329]

😂😂😂😂😂 tehsildar saab appne badi galti kar di yaar....

[@swadhin920]

If you are seeing this thn i would like to tell you that you already know what to do and how to do, you just want to hear it from someone else so that you can reassure yourself that everything gonna be right. Your self respect is in your hand, don't play catch catch with it. Otherwise you ll regret forever. Saying from experience.

[@atozshorts5918]

please translate video content to english

[@loveyourpresent833]

In one sided love self respect is the first thing that goes to gutter.

[@binod9567]

@@proudindian9140 bhai itna emotional kyu ho jate ho.... Ek gyi toh dusri milegi.... Keep on grinding

[@asparmar8786]

Waqt lagta hai...pr thik bhi ho jata hai

[@sanjaybais8002]

Iss tarah ki situation me depression se bahar nikal dega ye serial " Mere Pass Tum Ho"

[@simplyrajan358]

Kuch logo ko lgata hai Naukri he sab kuch hai...but in reality sab balanced hona chahiye?. Am I right?

[@Labani_G]

Sir whatever u have said in this vdo already i am trying to imply them in my life... but sometimes my surroundings make me feel that i am doing wrong and i should be more emotional as far as friends and family is concerned. But now after watching this vdo it is clear to me. Thank u sir💖

[@saurabhdwivedi3627]

You are great sir aap ham logo ki more than problems ko solve krte ho itna koi nhi kr skta hmare liye you are great 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@salonisoni2400]

Nature se connect karo khud ko self love par blv karo aur khud ko break do lyf se Aur meditation aur exercise hobbies ko tym do social media se duri uninstall karo apps ko aur apne sapne ki trf bhado motivate logo ke sath raho negative walo se duri busy rakho but social media open nhi karna limit bano social media par phele aisa kuch nhi hota tha social media aate hi depression tension common ho gya hai social media par apni pdaai se related videos dkh skte hai aur Books pdhe google par jisse ki ap phone sirf kaam ke liye use krnge habit khud hi chli jayegi social media ki

[@manumathur2571]

I have gone through same phase during my cat preparation, the difference is the person first declared his feelings, made me attached to him and then vanished like we never met. Treated me bad infront of his frds. As a result destroyed my 2 years of life crying that should be devoted to my preparation but I got myself together with time, healed myself without my family knowledge and so much happy with the wisdom I got

[@funwithamar8001]

Emotion per control nhi kroge to bahut pashatawoge....very toughfest thing but truth

[@lucidconcepts7013]

Great explaination especially for upsc Aspirants this is democracy 😂aap kisiko force nhi kr skte....sbke apne fundamental rights h

[@dishapathak5852]

Jaha bat karma ki ayee , too waha karma koo importance do , god ne karma ko priority di h , karm nai kroge to khud ko barbad kr loge , emotions koo side m rkhkarr , practical socho , jindgi ke fesle dimag se liye jate h dil se nahii

[@Misskinnauri]

Listen guys , koe kisi ki help nhi kr skta , kud ki help krna seekho ..be strong emotionally n physically ...en lafadho me kuch ni rkha hota ...jus be urself , focus on urself ..jisne life me sath neebana ho ho apko dudkr bhi apke pass aayega...jus chill .. good luck to all guys 👍🏻👍🏻❤️🧿 love n peace ✌🏻 🧿❤️

[@SAHILSHARMA____]

Agree 💯🇮🇳😊

[@smritirekhanath526]

Pahale yadi aap ki chanel ko dekh leti to ajj job ho jati meri....par der se hi sahi maine khud change karne ki koshis ki ...abhi main 27 yrs ki hu..job ki main 19 ki thi tob kisise pyar huwa at first main etna serious nehi thi sirf pohrai main focus thi bad main dhire dhire main serious hui ...aur tob wo banda mare sath ignor karte rahi ...jo ki muje acchi nhi lagi..uski ignorance bhi muje addat hone lagi thi...kabhi gussa ate the to baat nehi karte the wo pyar krne ka drama karte hei..eisitarh meri graduation complete ki...fir bhi life ki actual meaning nehi pata tha sirf uspe time gaba di .meri pahrai main weak hone lagi...meri glti hei ya nehi muje nehi pata par pyar sirf usse karti thi...chor nehi sakta tha use...but wo meri sath drama krte rahe ...main thora depression main chali gayi ,ghar main kisiko nehi pata...andar bht hrt hui kuch krne ko mn nehi karta tha...job m.a 2nd yr ka result nehi aya dimag ghum gyi...life main phle bar har gayi study main ..wo sirf relationship ate hei thori der ke liye aur brkup de dete hei yadi mn huwa to ..maine job sadi ki baat ki to wo kuch nehi kahte hei,uske bare main nehi ese bolte hei....fir kya huwa pata nehi main e bola sadi nehi karni hei to ye relationship stop koro ....kyu tob 24 ki hui thi...pyar krti hu but meri life ese spoil nehi kar sakte....fir main kaha abb main tuje brkup de rahi jo bhi bole kah dena girlfriend ne brkup diya....ab job ki exm ke liya preparation kar rahi hu ...kabhi regret feel karti hu pahle se hi job ki preparation karti to job ho jati...

[@atharvsharma739]

Do meditation ... Spend more time with Ur family or children ... Time the thoughts come ...observe Ur thought .. Tell Ur self ... It's ok I like him ... But I deserve better .. n rgt now xaam is more imp .. that's cracking Upsc ... Moreover add any such frnd inurlife who ... Divert Ur mind on reality check ..n take u towards happiness .. . moving on takes time ... But once done u will b proud of urself

[@GeerishaAcharya]

🙂👍

[@madhu51294]

👍👍

[@moumitamukherjee2804]

I can suggest one thing....find a cause much stronger to affect u dan ur relationship...for instance go through covid 19 news for just two days....the destruction due to covid 19 will just move u....once u drag urself towards some other more strong cause u will get diverted from regular problems

[@AbhishekKumar-th8it]

I also have same problem. She never seen my message in fb since last 12 years but I still ❤Love. May One day I talk to her. But She is my motivation.

[@loveyourpresent833]

Kaise krke hatega bhai tu🙏🙏🙏

[@viveksonawane2814]

Acharya prashant ji ko sunlo देहभाव से मुक्त हो जावोगे😂 no feeling no emotion

[@proudindian9140]

wo sidha bolenge - arey iane do na yar iss ladka ladki ki khel me to pashu v pade hue hai , insan ka janam islea thodi hua hai...😃😃😃

[@kishan2k21]

I was expecting a more practical reply from you sir. Self control wala solution sunne mei accha lagta hai, par practical nahi hai. Without treating the root cause, self control is useless.

[@Logout3211]

@HARSH BUT TRUE mast rply😂😂 diya bhai me bhi apnuga ye tarika

[@proudindian9140]

beta iska upay bhagwan v ni de skte tmko...inn chkro me jo pada hai wo barbad hua hai

[@Logout3211]

@SACH KADWA HAI video= Mia khalifa vs jonny sin❤️

[@kishan2k21]

@SACH KADWA HAI Bhai mai kabka move on kar chuka hu, that too by treating the root cause. Itna kamjor nahi hu ki escape karne ke liye hila ke so jaau😁 Shiv ji ke bhakt hain hum💪

[@mon1507]

1.give urself a week to grieve..complete week..flush the grief part down the heart 2.accept that u love the person.dont try to unlove them.makes us think more of them. 3.watch some show a series may be. Do not message,call or anything. 4.excercise. 5.even after all this . remember u won't forget the person. 6.time heals.

[@manikant3804]

Thank you for video sir. Main bhi same situation me hu, par ab balance ho gaya hai, ab use batana bhi hoga to casually kabhi bata dunga... Response jo bhi ho jyada fark nahi padne wala. Jo log bhi aise situation me hain, thoda time do, over think karo, samajh aa jayega.

[@mustafiza3831]

Much needed vedio at this moment 🙂 thanks sir 👏

[@KUMARI-SANAM]

Your this motivated video changed my Life....Changed my thoughts...mere sare questions k jbab mil gye...Thankuhh So much Sir...🙏

[@mrityuanjaykumar2611]

Finally someone is talking it .... personally I suffered from it a lot. Gave my valuable time more than 8 years. But she is my friend so I decided to be only friend till my success.....my experience says nothing is more valuable than ur success...

[@incognitoburrito8]

we are humans ,and the ability to feel a huge gamut of emotions and express it is what makes us a human..what we do is in our hands and what we allow to be done to us is in our hands too. But directing a person to love us and treat us well is not in our hands.to accept it or reject that behaviour is in our hands,setting boundaries and being clear about your priorities is well within our personal capacity . just focus on being a good person , who is clear about goals ,eventually you will have like minded people around you.derive your confidence from fulfillment of your goals and naturally you will not let any negative aura and self harming relationship breed . you dont have to dissociate yourself from your emotions and be stone cold to achieve professional excellence. its a misconception. LOVE , if its there will be your strength , it will help you grow .but if anything else , if you find yourself sulking alone unable to focus then its merely an illusion of love, you need to let that myth you created to be debunked and make space for yourself and people who really care about you , like your friends and family. wishing the best for your emotional healing

[@stutipandey3014]

In my view there does not exist any love here in this materialistic world..Pls don't be aggressive reading it...But think ...It's only physical infatuation.☺️

[@loveyourpresent833]

There is no love in this materialistic world then people should love after death.

[@stutipandey3014]

@@loveyourpresent833 arey bhaiya....it was my opinion. I don't think so...yes there should be for parents n siblings😁

[@SD-zl6es]

I am in a one sided relationship with someone for last 15 years and I am the happiest person on Earth.

[@deepaksinghyadav106]

Good line " if u can't control ur emotions , it becomes necessary to be cruel.

[@user-pw3oq2kk6b]

Mera bhi one side love tha,, 2 sal phle,, 20/25 din barbad huye,, fir usne bhaiya bol diya,,bhram tuta,, fir mai dobara gs aur optional padhne lga😭 टूटेंगे सारे भ्रम धीरे धीरे

[@ambeshsrivastava399]

😂

[@khalekhussain6521]

Me too having the same problem....from last 6 months I didn't read a single chapter😭😭 I'm still in love with her and I hate myself for it

[@Sky-oy8zm]

This was much needed! Thank you so much sir ✨✨

[@shivamshukla1724]

aap amazing ho sir ...kya samjhaate hoo❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@sumeet7633]

Fortunately Facebook & Instagram getting banned from tomorrow. It's a blessing for these people.

[@abhishekvishnoi7462]

Lol 😂😂 social media ban kar degi to bjp fake news kaha failaegi 😂😂😂 watsapp and Facebook pe to main unka votebank h 😂😂

[@sumeet7633]

@@abhishekvishnoi7462 Har cheez mein politics ghusana jaruri ha? Here Sir is talking about time management & you are inserting BJP here. Koi sense ha iss baat ki? 🤔

[@abhishekvishnoi7462]

@@sumeet7633 abey chutiye matter politics ka hi h. Sarkar ko tere time management se ghanta farak nhi padta 😂😂

[@sumeet7633]

@@abhishekvishnoi7462 Phir ja kar koi political channel pe comment kar chutiye. Yahan ghus kar kya kar raha ha? Yeh study channel ha padha nhi title? Ya English samajh nhi sakta? 😂

[@proudindian9140]

@@abhishekvishnoi7462 abey tu chutiya paida lia tha ki koi course kia hai?

[@nikitakumari591]

So...... Much realistuc things...... I love it sir.... Thanks

[@abhishekbhadauria7928]

Yes sir same with me.... Hum kya kr leyge just scroll profiles...

[@Simran_Anand]

🙂Kya hai yeh Pyar mere Dil m toh feeling hi nhi aati Kisi ke liye Maa se hi Pyar hai bas

[@anurimaruhel254]

Same problem ! I waste a lot of time thinking about wht should I do ,it's so hard to break up and as much hard to being with that kind of person

[@neetubhadoriya3988]

insan ko khud s jyada pyar kabhi kisi s nai Krna chahiye main problem h expectations jhan relationship m problem h wo yai h .. i suggest aap is position pr so aap khud k important bno I mean that aap khud ko dushre ki hatho ka puppet mt bnao bcs u r unique so decide apko Krna h aap puppet bnna chahte ho ya khud apne liya as ur choice...

[@akkireddyjayaprasanna4640]

I just wanna say to the one who are going through this problem that 1 out of 10 people in this world are in this kind of situation..so don't be guilty in the first place if some person is avoiding you.. because you should be proud that you genuinely have heart and feeling which the other person don't..and you seriously deserve better than them..so first focus on yourself..start making yourself better.. Start going to a gym if possible..try making everything perfect in all possible ways..make the other person feel like why did they miss you.. All the best..

[@naquijilani5211]

How positive you are...👍👍👍 Solution oriented people are needed in upsc...

[@golutiwari_8252]

Sir ...preparation ke initial phase me hi hu ... Starting kiye hai upsc preparation ka ...aur jo baat mere dimag me chal rahi thi aapne acche se clear kar diya .....thank you so much sir

[@RahulRaj_goi]

Very needed session. Thankyou sir for you guidance ☺

[@siddhuchoudhary5225]

Eska ek solution upsc crack karke intkaam Lena pdega ...

[@tula__]

*Yeah, my studies don't love me back. They don't give me results even though I give so much time and love to them. Such is my unrequited love.* 😢😢😢

[@nisha7140]

Yes sir absolutely right. I am also prepare of upsc exam after complete my master degree its my first attempt. I am also in relationship but that person completely ignored me and reply only when he need me in this case my self respect completely destroyed beoz in this Relationship only him choice survive not me. In last finally I decide to ignore him and focus on my goal. Beoz some time if you can't slove the problem start to ignore the problem and move ahead beoz self respect must be prime and self became first then feeling.

[@loveyourpresent833]

Love should be mutual with equal respect otherwise it will make your life a living hell.

[@mhk6093]

Ajkal jyadatar relationships me yhi ho rha hai, ladke istemal karke dump kardete hain, isiliye in sab chakkaro me nai padhna chahiye lekin ladkiyo ko kaun samjhay unhe lagta hai unki freedom chini ja rhi hai lekin bad me sabak to mil hi jata hai

[@ankitaswami747]

Congratulations.......after just realising that u r in one sided....u gonna start self love ,care and able to learn to stand with urself...

[@zeal09]

Sir Destiny wala point was the best 😇 destiny me jo likha h wo hoga hi hoga🙏😊

[@anamtakhan1684]

This one side relationship efforts is suffocating, but we have to understand the difference, if you really love the person than love him/her like parents love unconditional. There should be only love, why you're thinking that "usko bhi utna hi pyar hona jitna tumhe h", why?? Can you force someone to love you, to be with you. It's all about attachment, Jo shyd apka relationship ek time pr Acha rha hoga to apko uska attachment h, otherwise feelings, emotions, ye sb cheezen change hone m kisi k lie time lgta h. Spend time with things you love, spend time with your hobbies. If you're in good post then busy yourself so much that you can't find time to think about him. I can understand the pain of ignoring feelings, emotions, because I go through the same. But slowly gradually understand,if you truely love someone then "unki Khushi m Khush ho jao yr" and leave them for the sake of your mental peace. 140 billion people hn, koi na koi mil jyga. Agr ap stalk kroge, check kroge, pijhe bhagoge you end up hurting yourself only. In the end, I want to say, destiny is a big thing us pr jhordo. Jo apke naseeb m likha h wo apko milega chahe kahi bhi chla Jaye, Jo ni hoga wo apke Danton k bich s chla jyga. Believe in the universe system, it will be easy for you. Good luck & Thanks 🙂

[@saumyasingh5902]

Please don't get deeper into this crap of one sided love. Love is beautiful be it one sided or both, but when it comes to self respect and self esteem, nothing or nobody else should come in between. Your self esteem and self respect is in your own hand. I know it is difficult, very difficult to distract yourself from the person you love the most. I have been there too. But dear, not everyone is made for us. We cannot have in our lives each guy we like or love. It is not that he is bad/can't love you or you are better/can love him the most in your life...it's just that every person has their own story of life, their own chapters in life. You cannot control or change someone's feelings for you. You can only control yourself. Respect yourself, keep your self first, be selfish here at least in this kind of situation. Trust me, you will get to meet much better men in the world who actually respects woman and her feelings, her emotions. You are currently just restricted to one place or with just limited bunch of people that you aren't able to see the beauty of this whole world and ofcourse the good people here, you might be dependent on him for emotional/physical support or a companionship, but you very well know that it is of no use when he doesn't give any response to all of this. And you here you have to be more mature in this aspect of your life. Dekho akeli ayi ho akeli hi jaogi, usko sath lekar to jane nhi wali. To behtar hai kisi aur ache insaan ke sath zindagi guzaaro jo tumhe khush or izzat se rakhe for lifetime. You have to find joy with yourself, at least for the time being in this preparation phase. You might regret this phase later so much badly if you keep focusing on him. As it is a really tough emotion to handle, we cry our heart out sometimes. But trust me it is completely manageable. I'm sure more than half of us might have gone through the same and everybody usually face this situation in their life as our mind and heart are strongly bound to some emotions. But you have to handle this maturily. The time you realise that you deserve and capable of so much better than all of this, life will become easy.

[@ABHISHEK-AVK]

Thanks Saumya....thankyou very Much.

[@MS0O1]

Waao how well you explained I love it actually I ruined my 6 months in my life not just 6 month but a year I was in love in one sided love first I waste my time in a confusion that should I told him or not then one of my frnd suggests me to tell him them I waste my time that how to tell I collect all my courage and tell me but he ignore me literally I took a week to arrange my words of emotion but he say nothing nothing at all Then I waste time that I feel so guilty that hurt me my self respect specialy when I know him it damage me badly Then I get to know he got married after 3 month with a beautiful princess but atleast if someone already in his life he must tell me but keep silent saying nothing is like murdered of someone feelings

[@pinkykori4205]

Mai to yhi bolugi ki plss use ignore kare aur apne study pr focus kare aur baad mai jb aap ka nikal jayga to upsc mai to wo bahut pachtayga ki usne kise kho diya plss focus your goal only

[@Aspirantstricksandtechniques]

Thanks sir my bi aj motivated ho gya. My serious ho jta ho jo psnd ai to. But ajtk mh nh koi kuch nhi kiya. Thnks god

[@ShwetaSingh-bk8si]

Sir a huge respect for uh...no one in this wrld help you out..jus love urself...this only the way!

[@kaveetaaryan3734]

A person who doesn't cares if u are Or not then why u wasting yourself for him. Am also in relationship and all time he will be for me, even he helped for my preparation to bought books, my recharge, help me to keep focus on study, delaying marriage, and respected me, my dreams, my family though we are from backward area. U can understand what actually love is in reality not just like bollywood silly scenes.

[@unknownalphaplusman]

Are yaar tum bahut karcha kara dete ho ushh ladke ka. Mai kishi pe chavanni bhi na kharcha karu. Pata nahi log kaise apne parents ka rupaye dusharo pe kharcha kar dete hai, it's really 8th wonder for me.

[@angrejpandey1107]

Sir may main tk bahuch rha hu lekin 10 or 5 number se interview call ruk rhi hai . lekin mere friends group lagbhag log uppcs and ro and other me select ho chuke hai , hamne kuch logo ki help bhi kiya tha aur motivate bhi karta tha lekin 8 sal preparation karte ho gye hai mere dosh log ab mera phone bhi nhi udate ,bahut depressed feel karta hu . Aur jab yad aati hai tho study bhi nhi kar pata aur kayi nagative bichar bhi aaye hai . please tell me to overcome himself

[@lokeshjaiswal2027]

Aap jis se one side love me hai Unse directly jaakar apni feeling share kar do aur apni taraf se ye maan ke jao ki whatever the answer of girl or boy i will accept . Is se kam se kam final toh ho jayega man thoda halka ho jayega

[@kaushalkumarjha8190]

Agar human beings ke pass emotion nhi hota to wo animal ke equivalent hota but the only challenge of our life to control on emotion ,till the time we will not get it Mission is not supposed to complete ....... So please pyar pyar SB dokha hai the only love exist in this world is mother Love ,rest all are bullshit thing.... only infactuation exist ....

[@fpsshooter9500]

Sir you are like shree krishna for me 🙏 a great mentor

[@tohnish24]

Mam, I would say we can be passionate only for one thing the most in LIFE & in others we can have liking, interest but we are not passionate enough so we leave that behind at some point of time ..... Mam, If you are passionate enough for UPSC CSE then such thing can't affect you much ..... As Harshit Sir has said I partly agree n partly not becoz if we become cruel a bit it will definitely save us to that person no doubt about it but it will definitely affect on several other people with whom we share good bond, good vibes ..... We should not be cruel enough otherwise that thing will destroy only us but instead of that we should work on how we can be Emotionally Balanced with Positivity ..... In this way we can save ourself, others with whom we shares a good vibes & to those who don't like us ..... Mam, As you yourself has mentioned the problem answer is there too n answer is "Trust your basic instincts" is the "KEY" that are always leads you where you want to go in life ..... When you know this n as Harshit Sir has already said leave him behind & focus on what is highly important for you at this point of time else you will regret whole your life that I have that opportunity if I had control this thing in ME ..... Don't spoil your life Mam to such person who doesn't even care of you else You should be with those people who care enough & give you a place in their life & trust me Mam once you become an IAS officer "What level of Happiness you will get is nobody can Express that ..... I went little personal so if anything from my side you doesn't like it Mam I Apologize for that & even From Harshit Sir too & further I would say one thing to Harshit Sir Hindi Main "Agar Is Yug Main Chanakya Hote Toh Bilkul Aapke Jaise Hote" ..... You give hope to many UPSC Aspirants including me too ..... Take Care Sir & Have a nice Evening Ahead ..... You too Mam Take Care & start focusing on your studies now ..... 😊

[@shalakatekale2336]

This was much needed for many people ...🤗thankyouuu alot ...🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗😇😇😇