No Girlfriend, no money, no job, feeling depressed - Can UPSC solve my problems ??

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Harshit Dwivedi Education

Harshit Dwivedi Education

3 жыл бұрын

#upscpreparation #lackofmoney #motivateyourself #hardworkistheonlywaytosuccess

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@Sujeetbhosale4
@Sujeetbhosale4 3 жыл бұрын
Reel life: Sandeep bhaiyya 🤩 Real life: Harshit bhaiyya❤️🙏🏼
@ajipray2575
@ajipray2575 2 жыл бұрын
Yes ❤️
@surajkumarsingh9902
@surajkumarsingh9902 2 жыл бұрын
💯
@dr6516
@dr6516 3 жыл бұрын
Friends never do any good. Infact, no one is your friend now-a-days. Very few are lucky to have real friends in their lives.
@BTS_Girl_Jennie
@BTS_Girl_Jennie 3 жыл бұрын
Yes. Apne Ghar vale na kaam aai to koi kaamm Nahi aata
@amiyaranjan4478
@amiyaranjan4478 3 жыл бұрын
Mam apni ki bangali mone hoy?
@amiyaranjan4478
@amiyaranjan4478 3 жыл бұрын
Good
@mahavirsonival6244
@mahavirsonival6244 2 жыл бұрын
agree with you
@yogeshyadav-pd2yo
@yogeshyadav-pd2yo 3 жыл бұрын
Friends permanent nhi hote...upsc training mein new friends mil jaege👍🏻
@PernandoBoro
@PernandoBoro 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this 😀
@VishDumb
@VishDumb 2 жыл бұрын
Bitter but reality 🔥
@00-Ghost-00
@00-Ghost-00 2 жыл бұрын
Sahi bola
@Rohit_Rp555
@Rohit_Rp555 2 жыл бұрын
Vaa bhai 🤙
@generalknowledgesa227
@generalknowledgesa227 Жыл бұрын
Kuch logo ko yeh samaj nehe aata 😂😂 aunko lagta hai ke permanent hotel hai friends . I have zero friends , mai apne aap se batt karta hu ab 😂😂 . But I am happy 😁 . Dream chaheye friends , gf nehe .
@swatisharma6146
@swatisharma6146 3 жыл бұрын
Whoever written this email. Just want to share few things with you as I am going through similar experience in my life. I left my Job in Oct and started preparing for state PSC, though I wanted to prepare for UPSC but age constraints (31 years) didn't allow. I was working in Good IT company (salary was around 65k) still I resigned after thinking thoroughly for around 5-6 months. Then I got married in Nov and so have some family responsibilities as well(husband,in laws, expectations). I also sometimes feel scared and demotivated about this decision of mine but still I WANT To Do this, so whatever it takes I WILL CLEAR PSC.This is the first time in my life I have some dream of my own and will do anything to make it happen. So if you are bachelor, have more age& time , you shouldn't feel demotivated about this.This is a long journey keep yourself motivated and you have to think aabout Future ( target) not past. You have decided and started this journey, this itself is a big achievement.👏 So continue doing hard work and all the very Best👍👍
@al-fattaahias6760
@al-fattaahias6760 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Ma'am
@Uppcs_Prof_Nishad_Sir
@Uppcs_Prof_Nishad_Sir 3 жыл бұрын
Very nice though. I hope u will get your desired post
@user-xb7wp9bz7x
@user-xb7wp9bz7x 3 жыл бұрын
Your story has motivated me 👍
@pappumahato1178
@pappumahato1178 3 жыл бұрын
Great
@royalridhaan7931
@royalridhaan7931 3 жыл бұрын
Ma'am plz share ur strategy I req
@Anilkumar-og3nj
@Anilkumar-og3nj 3 жыл бұрын
The worst phase your life always bring the best version of you
@luckyboygyana
@luckyboygyana 3 жыл бұрын
There is no permanent friend or enemy ,only self interest . What I learnt in my life is that the most important thing in life is 1.HEALTH 2.EDUCATION 3.MONEY 4.FAMILY
@Kelorie
@Kelorie 6 ай бұрын
For me..i am putting. 1.Family 2.money 3.Health . 4.eduaction...now i can not change it..
@subhamsoni8480
@subhamsoni8480 3 жыл бұрын
"The beginning is always hardest " "pressure m banda bhikar jata h ya nikhar jata h" -- Ms dhoni
@taniamann8309
@taniamann8309 3 жыл бұрын
I am all alone,, nothing, literally I have nothing,,, last year showed me the truth of world, I accepted that no one is with me, and now it's my Strength not weakness, thanks to time, now I have nothing to lose,,, I have only UPSC, not a single friend but upsc is my best friend
@loveyourpresent833
@loveyourpresent833 3 жыл бұрын
Alone people does wonders , what truth u got last year??
@taniamann8309
@taniamann8309 3 жыл бұрын
@@loveyourpresent833 a bit personal,,, but happy today, cuz i care for none now,,
@loveyourpresent833
@loveyourpresent833 3 жыл бұрын
@@taniamann8309 good that u have nurture this kind of attitude , but it is impossible for some people to stop caring and loving people.
@taniamann8309
@taniamann8309 3 жыл бұрын
@@loveyourpresent833 in fact that was not something personal to me, that that truth is with everyone, truth of world, how the world operates in a practical sort of way, no one cares for none, we learn about people at different stages of our life, and the more early we learn it , the more happy and mature we will be
@loveyourpresent833
@loveyourpresent833 3 жыл бұрын
@@taniamann8309 may be you are right , hope u will achieve your dreams . All the best for upsc👍
@shailendrachauhan960
@shailendrachauhan960 3 жыл бұрын
Be self confident..... छाता बारिश को तो नहीं रोक सकता परंतु बारिश में खड़े रहने का हौसला अवश्य देता है इसी प्रकार आत्मविश्वास सफलता की गारंटी तो नहीं देता परंतु सफलता के लिए संघर्ष करने की प्रेरणा अवश्य देता है।
@Inchy.Winchy1
@Inchy.Winchy1 3 жыл бұрын
I left my nursing training for my preparation of psc. The nursing teacher challenged me that I will never get a job. I am trying my best to prove them wrong. And now I realise that the teachers are my best motivation.❤️
@_Dream_IAS_
@_Dream_IAS_ 3 жыл бұрын
Good
@Rakeshkumarsahu1216
@Rakeshkumarsahu1216 3 жыл бұрын
Odisha ?
@spacecuriosity2304
@spacecuriosity2304 3 жыл бұрын
Odisha Se kitne bache upsc nikalte he...
@_Dream_IAS_
@_Dream_IAS_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@spacecuriosity2304 bahat kam , kyuki Odisha ka bacho ko Motivation jada Free main De-motivation Milta hai...
@m13427
@m13427 3 жыл бұрын
All the best
@shobhitswami9593
@shobhitswami9593 3 жыл бұрын
"What does not kill us, makes us stronger". 💪💪Keep going brother🤜🤛 Sending you prayers❤🌈
@BeingNish816
@BeingNish816 3 жыл бұрын
That's why i dont have any friend... And im happy with that
@mahisbeauty6191
@mahisbeauty6191 3 жыл бұрын
Same here
@User-dl4ni
@User-dl4ni 3 жыл бұрын
Same here Those who can stay alone are the STRONGEST
@bharatkasambhidhan2496
@bharatkasambhidhan2496 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry.. Ye koi solution nhi h Bhai
@pratyush3737
@pratyush3737 3 жыл бұрын
*Friends are an important part of life and jo likh rahein hai , who can stay alone are strongest toh bhadash kahi aur jaake nikalo,, I feel sorry that u didn't find good friend that doesnt mean u will generalize the things,,, Its depend on the person, wo kaise khush rehta akele yaa fir dost yaa gf ke saath bas usme se best aana chahiye, Last year topper kanishka kataria ka interview dekhiyo, uski gf ka support during preparation and Haa Aspirant ka dialogue toh yaad hi hoga rocket wala.. So stop generalising and padhai pe focus karo*
@User-dl4ni
@User-dl4ni 3 жыл бұрын
@@pratyush3737 haan, to hum akele khush rah sakte h. hume khush rahne do fir
@gunjanjain7274
@gunjanjain7274 3 жыл бұрын
I'm always amazed that how we all already know these things deep down.. But it reflects and touches differently when somebody else put it all together and advises..
@VishDumb
@VishDumb 2 жыл бұрын
That's so true
@deepanshuroy5285
@deepanshuroy5285 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly Mam !!!
@ashutoshshukla3864
@ashutoshshukla3864 3 жыл бұрын
Although, I'm a college student and can't relate with this chap's condition now, but I can understand, how difficult it must be for him. And kudos to you Harshit bhaiyya♥️ Can't thank you enough for whatever you're doing to help us grow and become Civil Servants 👑👑
@al-fattaahias6760
@al-fattaahias6760 3 жыл бұрын
Same situation mera bhi hai sir Mai bhi August 2020 me bank ki job chor di Aur ab gf ko time na dene ke karan wo bhi chor di. Ab mai tension free hoke padh rha hun.
@authenticityinair
@authenticityinair 3 жыл бұрын
Once i got this much depressed too & wrote to a teacher about my problem but he never replied anyway i know how much depression it take to write our own situation thanks for replying this person as i can understand how much he is depressed... Stay strong dont doubt urself
@royalrajput255
@royalrajput255 3 жыл бұрын
My Gf dumped me She cheated me after a relationship of 2.5 years because mere paas Job nahi thi According to her i won't be able to be successful in my life ri8 from *2018* i am on my track with perfect enthusiasm and Positivism She was only with me for QUALITY TIME PASS But i realised after some time And sir as u said ki wese log parasite hote hain. I agree 👍 As far as friends are concerned no one is Your real friend So it is better to be alone improving urself day by day nd working with Proper focus Rather than Indulging in Shitty things 👍 JAI HIND 🇳🇪
@saurabhchaudhary6630
@saurabhchaudhary6630 2 жыл бұрын
Flag change kro
@yashsharma1280
@yashsharma1280 2 жыл бұрын
No offense but shayad tumhe isiliye job nhi mil rahi 🇮🇳
@Msharma30
@Msharma30 Жыл бұрын
I too get panic attacks now.. But my reason is different. Meri shaadi almost essi saal. Final hogyi thi. Mera almost 2 years ka relationship tha. I felt like He loved me without any conditions. He always use to inspire me support me a lot. Main uss pr etna trust krti thi over emotionally dependent hogyi thi . Phir last September ko pta chala ki wo already pichle 5 years se already ek committed relationship m tha. Matlab wo hum dono ko cheat kr raha tha. Jab mujhe pata chala toh I was completely shattered broken, all my life I had been alone sad, but with him I felt so complete, main ne kabhi socha nhi tha aisa bhi kuch hoga. Thn main ne uske uss gf ko contact kia phir jakr Sare proofs bhi dikhaye. Lekin shocking baat toh ye hain ki uss ladki ne sab jnte huwe bhi uss ko phirse accept krlia. Aaj wo dono phirse ek saath hain. Mera sab khtm hogya roz roti hoon main ne usse pucha bhi ki main ne etna kuch invest kia tum ne mujhe etna support kia you knew everything abt me when no one was there u are the only person with whom I shared my insecurities aur tumne aaj aisa kiyu kia agar tum usse etna hi saccha pyaar krte ho toh mera 2 yrs brbaad kiyu kia aur mere emotions feelings se kiyu khela. Lekin wo bola ki main uske liye matter hi nhi krti ab aur wo kbhi mujhse pyaar nhi krta tha. Uske family friends ko bhi pta h jo usne mere saath aisa kiya phir bhi wo log usse support kr rhw h sabne mujhe sideline krdia. Ignore krke block krdia bas ab life m etni akeli hoon. Depression m rehti hoon in fact suicide attempt tk kr chuki hoon.. Lekin jb bhi apne mummy papa ko dekhti hoon bas yahi sochti hoon mera koi bhai behen nhi hain main only child hoon. Agar mujhe kuch hogya toh mere parents ka kia hoga. I'm a post graduate I can re start everything , focus on my career and leave my past life behind and move on.. But I'm. Scared these thoughts haunt me I feel like giving up.
@masters_9999
@masters_9999 3 жыл бұрын
Im with myself only no one is with me but im happy or nikalunga hi upsc thank u sir 😇🙏❤❤koi nhi chahiye sir bs respect hi chahiye bhot insult hui h anixety hone lgti h jb bhi study table se door jaata hun hope this pain tears will worth it or agar nhi bhi hua toh bhi kuch achha hoga but i give mah best 🙏🙏❤🙏
@meenuyadav2597
@meenuyadav2597 3 жыл бұрын
I got emotional with your words sir🛐Thanku so much 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 Harshit sir you are our SHREE KRISHNA❤️
@mohdyaseen2391
@mohdyaseen2391 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@deepalipradhan7393
@deepalipradhan7393 3 жыл бұрын
Bht logon pe impact padega sir....u really really are great. I'm thankful for each word. It feels like someone is sitting near and understanding our problems and giving solutions in a perfect genuine manner. Will be thankful and grateful.
@yashtoliwal4585
@yashtoliwal4585 3 жыл бұрын
This really made me shed a tear. It's really enlightenment when I come across such videos
@dorothysaikia4022
@dorothysaikia4022 3 жыл бұрын
I know what it feels like. I got into major accident this year and had a severe trimalleolar fracture. I had to get surgery and I was bedridden for 2.5 months. There is so much at stake here, which I can't even fathom. I could not study as I had to lie down so that blood wouldn't accumulate at my surgery site. Added to that I also had a bad staph infection at my incision which further added salt to my wounds. It's only since April I have started studying again with pain as a new and permanent part of my life. I have had to learn to walk again and study again. I still can't sleep with pain at times. But I am not going to give him Hope you don't give up as well. All the best.
@faridiaziz7726
@faridiaziz7726 3 жыл бұрын
THIS IS THE BEST CRISP TARGETED TO THE POINT WORDS I HAVE CAME THROUGH ...THANKYOU SO MUCH SIR..
@mdahsan639
@mdahsan639 3 жыл бұрын
Sir aap ki baton se main khush huaa Aap ek teacher hi nahin balki aap ek achhey motivater ho thank you so much
@shubhammoharil9146
@shubhammoharil9146 3 жыл бұрын
Sir the way u guide us feels like very emotional, touchy lines & as well as rational thoughts... Thanks respected sir🙏🙏🙏
@triptijaiswal1018
@triptijaiswal1018 3 жыл бұрын
Sir bilkul sahi kaha, ekdam sahi, and ye video maine apne dosto ko bhi send kiya harshit ji, thanks
@sonaligranger7884
@sonaligranger7884 3 жыл бұрын
So well said Sir! Each line could be related so easily...
@subhrakalikapati7819
@subhrakalikapati7819 3 жыл бұрын
Sir you are extraordinary such people like you who teaches everything in free of cost and also advices us in critical condition of our life.
@ShubhamSharma-dm2tl
@ShubhamSharma-dm2tl 3 жыл бұрын
Sir aapki advices Bhot hi jyada helpful hoti h....... Mjhe sch m daily life m Bhot help krti h aapke ye shorts
@vedanshu7289
@vedanshu7289 3 жыл бұрын
Sir, perfect answer h motivate kar diya aapne bilkul 🙏
@shalusingh6329
@shalusingh6329 3 жыл бұрын
I listened it first time but the things which I heard from this is unforgettable ❤️🙏 You are damn true sir ☺️🙏🙏 Thank you so much sir🙏🙏
@sprinterr_rraj
@sprinterr_rraj 2 жыл бұрын
Paida kiya hai unhone. . Unki do char gali agar kha loge to chhote nahi ho jaoge.... That line hit hard ❤️❤️
@AparnaSinghRajpoot459
@AparnaSinghRajpoot459 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you soooo much...sir🙏🏻💐 Kuch aise hi concerns mere v the and you guided like our own..blessed to have you sir... THANK YOU AGAIN💐
@shreensiddiqui8614
@shreensiddiqui8614 3 жыл бұрын
I haven't seen anbody other than our parents, teaching us and making us understand things like you are teaching us. Its Appreciable👏
@molu3985
@molu3985 3 жыл бұрын
I really find Sandeep bhaiya from aspirants in you . Thank you so much sir for making us positive. You really deserve a good salute sir thank you for your great effort sir.🙏
@manishapachori9132
@manishapachori9132 3 жыл бұрын
Sir aap bahut ache motivator ho... I am following u from last one year.... And m apki roj videos watch krti hu.. And I am totally depend on ur lectures for my upsc preparation... Thank u a lot sir.... 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@taniamann8309
@taniamann8309 3 жыл бұрын
Thanku sir, for making sucha video, kyunki khud se related , emotive issue pe thoda koi dicuss krke heal kre toh acha lgta h
@shivanshnarayan9017
@shivanshnarayan9017 3 жыл бұрын
ek ek baat bilkul sahi boli hai aapne sir. amazing words.
@adiltaqubee6270
@adiltaqubee6270 3 жыл бұрын
thank you sir these words coming from u makes me think positive in this uneven life😊🙏🙏❤
@mni_nikhil
@mni_nikhil 3 жыл бұрын
Sir Next level! Very well said, excellent! Inspiring content.. Tears in my eyes for the last part, about parents.. thank you :)
@Singer_rajat21
@Singer_rajat21 3 жыл бұрын
Sirf Dil tuta hai dhadkano me ravani abhi baki hai pyar ka kissa agar khatam ho gya to kya zindagi ki kahani abhi baki hai 😉
@shashanksingh4724
@shashanksingh4724 3 жыл бұрын
Bhai ne best line boli perfect condition wali... Mere sath b yhi hua bhai ... U r real ground hero .. Dil jeet liya best explain ..
@deepakchaturvedi9438
@deepakchaturvedi9438 3 жыл бұрын
best thing of UPSC preparation it gives you maturity ,i was failed in almost all exam in my life and my life is just boring and always in anger and my behaviour always irritable and finding ways of sucide but when i realized death is necessary phenomenon and it will happened no one can stop it so i decide i see my life web series ,what will happen to me and whatever condition i will go through it and i started my preparation and today i feel a calmness and a type of maturity and today i have no problem in what people say . and i am handle my failures and all type of problems , there is ways so just go through it and one thing stop controlling everything in your life BE HAPPY
@Msharma30
@Msharma30 Жыл бұрын
I too get panic attacks now.. But my reason is different. Meri shaadi almost essi saal. Final hogyi thi. Mera almost 2 years ka relationship tha. I felt like He loved me without any conditions. He always use to inspire me support me a lot. Main uss pr etna trust krti thi over emotionally dependent hogyi thi . Phir last September ko pta chala ki wo already pichle 5 years se already ek committed relationship m tha. Matlab wo hum dono ko cheat kr raha tha. Jab mujhe pata chala toh I was completely shattered broken, all my life I had been alone sad, but with him I felt so complete, main ne kabhi socha nhi tha aisa bhi kuch hoga. Thn main ne uske uss gf ko contact kia phir jakr Sare proofs bhi dikhaye. Lekin shocking baat toh ye hain ki uss ladki ne sab jnte huwe bhi uss ko phirse accept krlia. Aaj wo dono phirse ek saath hain. Mera sab khtm hogya roz roti hoon main ne usse pucha bhi ki main ne etna kuch invest kia tum ne mujhe etna support kia you knew everything abt me when no one was there u are the only person with whom I shared my insecurities aur tumne aaj aisa kiyu kia agar tum usse etna hi saccha pyaar krte ho toh mera 2 yrs brbaad kiyu kia aur mere emotions feelings se kiyu khela. Lekin wo bola ki main uske liye matter hi nhi krti ab aur wo kbhi mujhse pyaar nhi krta tha. Uske family friends ko bhi pta h jo usne mere saath aisa kiya phir bhi wo log usse support kr rhw h sabne mujhe sideline krdia. Ignore krke block krdia bas ab life m etni akeli hoon. Depression m rehti hoon in fact suicide attempt tk kr chuki hoon.. Lekin jb bhi apne mummy papa ko dekhti hoon bas yahi sochti hoon mera koi bhai behen nhi hain main only child hoon. Agar mujhe kuch hogya toh mere parents ka kia hoga. I'm a post graduate I can re start everything , focus on my career and leave my past life behind and move on.. But I'm. Scared these thoughts haunt me I feel like giving up.
@deepakchaturvedi9438
@deepakchaturvedi9438 Жыл бұрын
@@Msharma30 best time for you start your true journey of finding yourself, and stop finding happiness in other, at the end only you matter and when we are in relationship there is chances at the end we found ourselves alone. So start your new journey, dekho भरम टूट ता है तो दुख तो होता है लेकिन ये आपको सच्चाई भी दिखाता है केसे तुमने किसी को अपने से ऊपर कर लिया और तुमने किसी को इतनी ताकत दे दी कि वो तुम्हें ही बर्बाद कर दे. This is reality everyone left us either natural or whatever reason. Please wake up from bad dream and start a new day. Live your life again. Aacha hota h ek do din ro lena, iska matlab ye nhi ki kisi k liye saari umar आंसू बहाए bhagwan thode hi the. There are lot of things to do. Please start to live again
@Msharma30
@Msharma30 Жыл бұрын
@@deepakchaturvedi9438 thank you so much for this valuable comment. Ji bilkul.. This a lesson for me. Ki kbhi kisi ko etna priority nhi dena chahiye apne se upar.. Nhi rkhna chahiye.. Kiyuki at the end it's me who matters. Kiyuki main uske liye mrne ja rhi. Thi jisse koi farq hi nhi padha kbhi.. So kiyu main apni life aise insaan pe waste kru.. Ab mujhe phirse new start krni hain.. Past ko bula kr
@shubhamJadhav-hn6gw
@shubhamJadhav-hn6gw 2 жыл бұрын
Sir, I like the way you solve doubts. Your words are painkiller for every student who is suffering from the same situation.
@aghyaat2625
@aghyaat2625 3 жыл бұрын
One big like 👍 for this video! Relatable! I wish for his/ her success.
@KumariRagini-ot1ep
@KumariRagini-ot1ep 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou ...ye bohot chota sa shabbd lagta hai aapke liye Jitni aap apne mehnat kar rahe ho hamare liye 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@do-landkimjong6461
@do-landkimjong6461 3 жыл бұрын
Ur hard but truth words hitting me hard sir. Thank you ❤️
@sachinnarwade1359
@sachinnarwade1359 3 жыл бұрын
Sir,most of the aspirants undergoing such problems.. Thanks for the moral support. And giving hope to reach the summit 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@suryadeepsingh4649
@suryadeepsingh4649 3 жыл бұрын
Aap reality ki baat karte hai, hwa me nhi udate dusre ki tarah,,,, yhi hum sabko aap me achha lgta hai 💖
@gunasagarmahananda6326
@gunasagarmahananda6326 3 жыл бұрын
Heartouching comments with heartouching advice ❤️❤️❤️ Love you sir..thank you so much for your awesome advice and showing us great path ❤️❤️🎉🙏
@rahul_00024
@rahul_00024 3 жыл бұрын
Harshit Sir, Thank you so much sir aap itna shi se pdhate ho aapki laxmikant, spectrum and baki ki videos boht helpful h sbhi k liye + sir aapka ye motivational video isne boht doubts clear kiye+motivate kiya thanks sir. #STAYHEALTHY always sir ese hi videos bnate rhiye.❤️❤️
@kaushikraj7635
@kaushikraj7635 3 жыл бұрын
Well said. Sounds like a lot of personal experience :)
@shallurana3840
@shallurana3840 3 жыл бұрын
Thank You so much Sir 😊 I came to this channel via recommendation from my younger sister. These kind of talks are so much rare in today's space (both online and offline). Thank You so much Sir for this honest advice🙏🙏🙏🙏
@positivevibes8986
@positivevibes8986 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much sir. It means a lot in my current situation 🙏🙏
@onlymotivation202
@onlymotivation202 3 жыл бұрын
Was really in need of such messages ❤️
@rahulkhatr5908
@rahulkhatr5908 3 жыл бұрын
I have no money no friend not much family support . But I have faith in myself . We all know the smooth sea can't make good sailor 🙏
@ankitadutta5079
@ankitadutta5079 3 жыл бұрын
I am with you friends
@ankitadutta5079
@ankitadutta5079 3 жыл бұрын
Rahul
@SaffronLemon
@SaffronLemon 3 жыл бұрын
You actually deserve great respect.
@indiantiger10
@indiantiger10 3 жыл бұрын
I am going through more or less same situation, especially regarding parents, thank you for this video. 🙏
@amiyaranjan4478
@amiyaranjan4478 3 жыл бұрын
I also
@Anilkumar-og3nj
@Anilkumar-og3nj 3 жыл бұрын
Agar koi upsc ke preparation phase me apke sath ni h to samjh lena o kisi kaam ka nahi h apke liye chaye o GF/BF ho ya koi friend ho Bahot muskil h yr bardas karna koi friend 50k month kma raha ho aur puri duniya apko nikamma smjh raha ho This is so tough to tolerate such kind of things finally We proud to be a upsc aspirant
@PoojaSingh-qd3sw
@PoojaSingh-qd3sw 3 жыл бұрын
Ya, u are right because I face this also
@Anilkumar-og3nj
@Anilkumar-og3nj 3 жыл бұрын
@@PoojaSingh-qd3sw approx 90% are facing this situation
@PoojaSingh-qd3sw
@PoojaSingh-qd3sw 3 жыл бұрын
@@Anilkumar-og3nj ya, it's 5 year friendship but he want more from me, so we always argue when he have time he call me and I always with him in every situation but when I prepare for upsc I don't give time, and msg so he think wrong about me so I think its better to separate from that person who is selfish who doesn't respect u, i know its not easy but I do and finally i feel free and happy that know I continue my studies
@Anilkumar-og3nj
@Anilkumar-og3nj 3 жыл бұрын
@@PoojaSingh-qd3sw It's very difficult to manage relationship and upsc preparation simultaneously especially your partner doesn't understand it support it That's why I always use to tell me partner whenever you want you can do breakup because main nahi chahta yaar ki koi mere study ke karn apna precious time kho de Agar o sachha pyar hoga to support karegi ya karega otherwise o apna expectations kisi aur ke sath pura kare 😊 I think you did good best of luck 👍never look back you deserve much more better Baat simple hai agar koi tumhe bs es liye chhodta h ki aap preparation kar rhe ho hardest exam ka to I think o fir partner kahlane ka like ni h aur unki need kahi na kahi puri ho hi jayegi (personal view)
@PoojaSingh-qd3sw
@PoojaSingh-qd3sw 3 жыл бұрын
@@Anilkumar-og3nj thanks a lot, I feel happy to share my feelings and at least u tell that I do right now I feel relax that I do right to left that person, again thank you
@ratnakeshshintre8282
@ratnakeshshintre8282 3 жыл бұрын
Sir, your each & every words hit 🎯 thank you so much for this important lecture 💫✨
@PS-ez9ow
@PS-ez9ow 3 жыл бұрын
Wow.. am thankful for this.. its change my perspective 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@nimrashad
@nimrashad 3 жыл бұрын
Highly Motivated 🙏 Plz time time pr aise video bnate rheye ,❤️
@vinitkumar-ry5hk
@vinitkumar-ry5hk 3 жыл бұрын
Bhot super baate boli sir aapne Moj hi kerdi
@shreeYa22
@shreeYa22 Жыл бұрын
Sir ki baate dil chuu gayi ❤
@pragnyamayeetandi2626
@pragnyamayeetandi2626 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for everything Sir❤️🙏
@vaibhavanandsharma900
@vaibhavanandsharma900 3 жыл бұрын
@02:24:- 1.25 lakhs per month. That was my package in April 2019. I still get options for around a lakh per month despite 2 year of gap. I gave my first attempt in 2020, cleared prelims and wrote mains in Jan' 2021. I couldn't clear mains, but I now know exactly how this exam functions. I literally have zero regrets, because I know that even if I do not clear UPSC, I would still be much better at what I do, in comparison to what would I have been if I had not prepared for this exam. . My colleagues in the marketing industry V/S me:- (they have not studied for UPSC V/S I who has prepared):- . When they look at an issue (I often read their articles on LinkedIn) they can hardly look at an issue with more than 4 dimensions. But when I simply think about that same issue, I can tell 10 more ways that issue is going to impact the company. Now you tell me is it not a blessing?. It certainly is!!!!. . So, do not worry, if you prepare honestly. YOU WOULD BE REQUIRED EVERYWHERE. NOTE:-(1) I also got dumped by my childhood gf. Since, I was socially underground, she even portrayed me as a selfish bastard in our common group of friends, knowing that I would be too busy to care. (2) my colleagues have done great things for themselves. . But at the same time, you are aspiring for a meaningful role in the world's most complex democracy, koi PLATE MEI SAJAKE NAHI DEGA YE KAAM. WE HAVE TO LEARN TO GET OUR SHIT TOGETHER.
@vipulkumartiwari5966
@vipulkumartiwari5966 3 жыл бұрын
I am really impressed by your words.
@vaibhavanandsharma900
@vaibhavanandsharma900 3 жыл бұрын
@@vipulkumartiwari5966 thank you Vipul. I'm glad if my view someone's day less gloomy. Jai Hind.
@Msharma30
@Msharma30 Жыл бұрын
@@vaibhavanandsharma900 I too get panic attacks now.. But my reason is different. Meri shaadi almost essi saal. Final hogyi thi. Mera almost 2 years ka relationship tha. I felt like He loved me without any conditions. He always use to inspire me support me a lot. Main uss pr etna trust krti thi over emotionally dependent hogyi thi . Phir last September ko pta chala ki wo already pichle 5 years se already ek committed relationship m tha. Matlab wo hum dono ko cheat kr raha tha. Jab mujhe pata chala toh I was completely shattered broken, all my life I had been alone sad, but with him I felt so complete, main ne kabhi socha nhi tha aisa bhi kuch hoga. Thn main ne uske uss gf ko contact kia phir jakr Sare proofs bhi dikhaye. Lekin shocking baat toh ye hain ki uss ladki ne sab jnte huwe bhi uss ko phirse accept krlia. Aaj wo dono phirse ek saath hain. Mera sab khtm hogya roz roti hoon main ne usse pucha bhi ki main ne etna kuch invest kia tum ne mujhe etna support kia you knew everything abt me when no one was there u are the only person with whom I shared my insecurities aur tumne aaj aisa kiyu kia agar tum usse etna hi saccha pyaar krte ho toh mera 2 yrs brbaad kiyu kia aur mere emotions feelings se kiyu khela. Lekin wo bola ki main uske liye matter hi nhi krti ab aur wo kbhi mujhse pyaar nhi krta tha. Uske family friends ko bhi pta h jo usne mere saath aisa kiya phir bhi wo log usse support kr rhw h sabne mujhe sideline krdia. Ignore krke block krdia bas ab life m etni akeli hoon. Depression m rehti hoon in fact suicide attempt tk kr chuki hoon.. Lekin jb bhi apne mummy papa ko dekhti hoon bas yahi sochti hoon mera koi bhai behen nhi hain main only child hoon. Agar mujhe kuch hogya toh mere parents ka kia hoga. I'm a post graduate I can re start everything , focus on my career and leave my past life behind and move on.. But I'm. Scared these thoughts haunt me I feel like giving up.
@neerajsarang
@neerajsarang 3 жыл бұрын
Harshit Sir, Really we love you. God bless you and stay healthy. You're so sweet and lovely. ❤️❤️❤️
@Atulkr.Mishra
@Atulkr.Mishra 2 жыл бұрын
Harshit bhaiya , thanks for making this video, I too left my job in December 20 and going through same issues (gf, friends, family) and was totally able to relate myself. Thanks for guiding us ❤
@shashikantpal924
@shashikantpal924 Жыл бұрын
you are great sir .i heard so many good thing form by your blessing . i hope i will be listen more in future . thats why i pay my namaste in your holly feeet
@deepak-yw2ox
@deepak-yw2ox 3 жыл бұрын
First time i m listing u...rona aa gya h i can't explain ...m dil se bol rha hu first time muje kisi youtuber ki bat dil par lagi...m upsc ki prep. To ni karta hu but state govt exam ki prep. Karta hu..like patwari etc
@rupaligaikwad9750
@rupaligaikwad9750 3 жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi ❤️👌
@livingdream3485
@livingdream3485 3 жыл бұрын
Sir aaapne bhut acche se guide kiya hai thankyou sir...
@tahirmohidintahirmohidin2166
@tahirmohidintahirmohidin2166 3 жыл бұрын
Yes you can 100 percent sure...inshallah mai ap kya liya pray ajj karoo ga inshallah ❤ bai kya design liya ap nai.... Bus lagay rahoo
@tahirhussain5425
@tahirhussain5425 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much sir ....for giving always valuable information and motivation
@gohilnikul9666
@gohilnikul9666 3 жыл бұрын
Sir please provide this kind of videos for our motivation 🙏
@shivshankarprasad2468
@shivshankarprasad2468 3 жыл бұрын
Thank u sir for your kind words ....most needed
@informativevideosforall7582
@informativevideosforall7582 3 жыл бұрын
In a short and simple reply: Thank u very much ❤️❤️🙏
@Akash-yz7yn
@Akash-yz7yn 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for guiding and motivating us. Same with me i have also left my job for preparation of upsc. 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@sunnykumar-xs3xk
@sunnykumar-xs3xk 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks sir, Bhai aap himat rekho sab sahi hoga .
@GeerishaAcharya
@GeerishaAcharya 3 жыл бұрын
बेहतरीन जवाब सर जी ..💎👌👌शुक्रिया..🙏🙏
@ishapandey5151
@ishapandey5151 3 жыл бұрын
Khud pe vishwas rakhiye....jo aap ka apna hai vo jarur support karega.....bina kuchh soche bas preparation me lag jayiye ..... kyonki sochne me samay nikal jata hai aur pata bhi nhi chalta 🙂🙏
@Rakeshyadav-fb7jr
@Rakeshyadav-fb7jr 3 жыл бұрын
It was really insightful and motivating.Thank u sir
@deeparjunb2426
@deeparjunb2426 3 жыл бұрын
after much retrospection finally decided to Quit my job last year October..7-8saal se sole breadwinner of my family. umar 30 ho gaya, saath me beevi he, native me 65+ki maa he(papa guzar ke 6 saal hue he).. maa ki dava aur food keliye save karke Rakha tha thoda.. beech me wife ki choti behen ki shaadi aaya aur Jo savings thaa vo Sab Nikal jaayega soch ke I temporarily stopped the preparation process, kyu ki uske Baad bina job I wouldn't be able to survive after couple more months..aur papa ke chote bhai bhi guzar gaye 3mahine pehle..chotte bache he, feeling helpless kyu ki bina job financially support Nehi kar paa Reha hu.. Patha Nehi kaise aage jau, but your words gave some amount of courage to me @Harshit, although I'm still not sure how to make ends meet until the journey is over. Channel Subscribe kar reha hu..hope ye comment dekh paoge.
@bhardwajchetna41
@bhardwajchetna41 3 жыл бұрын
you are great and i m your consistent follower 🙏
@sumitdubey1440
@sumitdubey1440 3 жыл бұрын
" Ese dost chahiye hi nhi " 🔥🔥🔥
@ritikakumari1750
@ritikakumari1750 3 жыл бұрын
Sir plzz motivational video bnao we really need this in this tough time... Seeing the situation outside i really feel so depressed .
@gauravverma668
@gauravverma668 3 жыл бұрын
Lots of love..and respect to u sir🙏
@lekhashree2014
@lekhashree2014 3 жыл бұрын
Thankyou bhaiya....... much needed performance and morale booster.......u cleared all the rust from my mind......
@storiesstories892
@storiesstories892 3 жыл бұрын
My story is same sir... Thanks for bringing up the issue on discussion. Stay blessed sir.
@Sahil-pe6oy
@Sahil-pe6oy 3 жыл бұрын
Sirji aapne muje bi motivate kr dia 🥺 Thnks sir.
@deeptiyadav6977
@deeptiyadav6977 3 жыл бұрын
Precious words ❤️...
@harshitchaurasia2716
@harshitchaurasia2716 3 жыл бұрын
Sir aapne Dimag khol diya mera ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Love And Respect🎉🎉🎉
@navyasrivastava101cool
@navyasrivastava101cool 3 жыл бұрын
90 % aspirants ki yhi problem h sir. Aapne ek video m sb clear kr diya. Thanks a lot 🙏
@hiranjanbiswas7467
@hiranjanbiswas7467 3 жыл бұрын
sir apka sath ho to mujhe koi nhi ruk sekta IAS banne se, love you sir
@theroyalking9184
@theroyalking9184 3 жыл бұрын
Mine is same 😞🙏🏻 But till to the date i am set up my mind for never give up
@satyajeetdash587
@satyajeetdash587 3 жыл бұрын
I am not preparing for UPSC but i follow your videos and everything.This knowledge will help us to improve in our life too
@BELIEVER1100
@BELIEVER1100 3 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR THIS MOTIVATION 🙏🙏
@randeepsingh8685
@randeepsingh8685 3 жыл бұрын
I would like to quote "Alone but I am beatific"..... I'm very very fortunate and lucky that I am alone cause I don't like the interfere of people in my life. Live by and for yourself...
@swapnilkesarwani2941
@swapnilkesarwani2941 3 жыл бұрын
U r extraordinary person ..... #personal #advisor❤️
@manashsarmah1996
@manashsarmah1996 3 жыл бұрын
A perfect dose for students ❤️❤️.
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