Shay, you need to remember that due to his CP diagnosis, his cognitive functioning is really not that good. So he can't think, reason, plan and problem solve like a typically functioning person. Even the jealousy, it's not necessarily because he doesn't want to see you win, it's just that he's developmental age is probably that of a child and therefore he thinks and reaosons like a child. So please don't be too hard on him, it's not him, it's his condition ❤️
@chineyempress55194 жыл бұрын
This is the best comment that i have read so far. Because what you have stated is facts on this matter.
@tajmahal81814 жыл бұрын
Very true. People just want to judge and give their two cent
@jo-mp4kx4 жыл бұрын
@Red Dre What the hell is wrong with your comprehension dude, you don't sound like you " functioning mentally at the fullest capacity" like seriously
@jacksonbm4 жыл бұрын
Dont give up. With you being strong n being there thru wuteva, it'll help him🙏🙏🙏
@jayeleee3 жыл бұрын
This comment! My brother has CP too and he’s very similar to Jay
@misscrystalz164 жыл бұрын
Jay needs to realize you have a different audience from him. I'm a girl and i have no interest in video games so ill never subscribe to a game channel. Jay needs to build his own following by collaborating with other men that make gaming videos. Also, please don't ignore red flags and go and have a baby if you're not 100%. You seem like a smart young lady.
@shellycali42644 жыл бұрын
I agree with you dont ignore the red flags trust and believe please dont ignore red flags
@AngelWingz814 жыл бұрын
I agree
@gabrielleelliott73884 жыл бұрын
Your so right
@kenyeaelamin26514 жыл бұрын
U are so right. And god gives us signs early before we get too invested
@CrystalReneeMusic4 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤. Sis, when a person shows you their true colors, believe them the first time. Best of luck.
@AshalindsYT4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the reminder. #Truth!
@rovaamoda98194 жыл бұрын
That's why we like you. You are yourself, dont care what others think of you. We all aspire to be like that, Carefree. Love it. Keep it going😘
@meishasmith82864 жыл бұрын
#REAL RECOGNIZE REAL!!!! LOVE YOU SHAY!!!❤💞❤💞❤💞🤗😘
@kimberlyhibbitt15954 жыл бұрын
Love you sis!
@arobinson0484 жыл бұрын
DITTO
@ruth3and44 жыл бұрын
I love who Shay is. She keeps it real
@vernitad89964 жыл бұрын
@@meishasmith8286 yes Meisha, real is awesome and tg3 best.... real recognize real.... yes transparency is it!😄😀
@reneeelecta95264 жыл бұрын
Shay maybe you could suggest to Jay since he has a disability maybe he can start a channel about how he overcomes the obstacles and how he deals with stuff on a everyday basics. He can be a role model to people that have disabilitys world wide.
@keaaaaa4 жыл бұрын
right❗️❗️
@Itsmedee03904 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Ihave a young cousin who has CP. her mom does a great job with raising her. It just would be inspiration to see an older adult give advice and talk about his everyday challenges. That would be dope asf plus it would attract a broader audience 👌....he can still have his gaming channel on the side too
@hearttosoul86494 жыл бұрын
I agree!
@moneyfantasy4 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👍 idea
@MySideHustleStash4 жыл бұрын
I agree to
@gorgeous.akosua4 жыл бұрын
Oh no, please don’t talk about relationship issues here. People just waiting on this to pour in their negativity.
@IAMBMARIE4 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@juliagulia58234 жыл бұрын
I was just about to comment about that.
@dpeachy67904 жыл бұрын
She’s just venting it’s ok some women need to feel like their not alone in situations I love her for that.
@trineseDMVbeauty4 жыл бұрын
Right! Just give it to God & continue to pray!!!! Nobody's relationship is "PERFECT ".....
@kelcibee16484 жыл бұрын
Love the way yall handled this comment section like true ladies- we are all stressed these days smh
@amberwilson87754 жыл бұрын
Some thoughts: 1. Breakfast looks so good! 2. I appreciate your etiquette 3. Your thinking is mature 4. Yes it’s worth it to keep going 💪🏽. Y’all just in a rough patch.
@nutchelle77774 жыл бұрын
❤️💕
@laverneclark28374 жыл бұрын
He needs to Man Up.
@jacksonbm4 жыл бұрын
🙏prayer and love💕 and two can do anything
@fountain8554 жыл бұрын
Shay, I'm almost 50, you are still young. Sometimes God shows you who people are, you just have to be willing to see it. I pray you both stay safe. Jay is not a bad guy and youre not a bad girl, maybe you both arent good together right now. Who knows maybe things will change, if it doesn't keep it pushing and keep your head up Sweetie !
@trineseDMVbeauty4 жыл бұрын
Amen🙏🏾
@pattiamoh11364 жыл бұрын
You want him to make the investment
@janicepittman82414 жыл бұрын
I wish I had a delete button for the comment above from Edith. That's your King and you are his Queen. Keep fighting for the love you all have!
@drearoses13064 жыл бұрын
i'm almost 50 too and i actually took myself off of social media just because of people and their opinions and for the simple fact that i wanted to work on me..i will say this, my most beloved couple on KZbin was Jaime and NIkki (look them up, my 16 yr old introduced them to me nearly 5 years ago)..they're an Australian interracial couple...their love story was awesome as is Jay's and Shay's...they had 2 lovely girls and vlogged daily...slowly the videos started taking long pauses and eventually their subscribers found out they were headed to divorce. they are a good looking couple - for a white guy he is handsome in my eyes and she is a Sudanese (ethnic background) fashion model - just stunningly beautiful...there were rumors he was cheating and like i said he then moved out of the house they purchased thru their KZbin dollars....Shay -- it's not worth it...be patient with Jay (that's my bf's name too so im extra protective of him just because lol) but honestly don't let these random KZbin comments, your Queens, your Kings ruin or influence your feelings. I can feel the love come thru the computer when i see the two of you interact..of course, we dont see yall 24-7 but i just feel like it's a true friendship you have that someone out there in KZbin land might act like they love but behind closed doors is waiting to sabotage...guard yourselves and your relationship and do what you know in your heart is best - please dont let these people who have imperfect lives influence the rhythm of your relationship with your man...dont care how big you get - and you will get big...don't let your head get bigger...trust God, trust each other and keep it moving...I'm rooting for both of you..you're a cute couple and i love seeing you both in this channel...be blessed Shay :-)
@janicepittman82414 жыл бұрын
@@drearoses1306 I wish I could give you a 1,000 thumbs up as much as I wish I could delete Edith's text!! Point on!!
@angelawilliams90884 жыл бұрын
What you're doing right now with the way you eat, is right on low carb high protein! I lost a lot of weight on that way of eating. And I still eat that way! Don't let what he's doing right now, you're a good woman, he'll be back! Guarantee! 😘
@HerrComplexx4 жыл бұрын
It’s so okay to speak about your relationship when you have a relationship with the most high because it’ll be protected. You don’t know how many other women are going through this sameeeeee thing. Your testimony is helping somebody through this very thing. I love you Queen. If you need spiritual advisement or just wanna talk, I’m here. Love and light queen
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🥰
@dpeachy67904 жыл бұрын
Yesss Amen!
@SassyQ874 жыл бұрын
You’re so real with your relationship. So many ppl come on yt and lie and act like everything is perfect and don’t talk about real issues. These are actual issues that ppl would have when making yt vids together and being around each other all day during quarantine. Love your channel ♥️
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
💚💜had to release bad energy to let good energy in
@Yaya-pz6lv4 жыл бұрын
Shay your facial expressions shows some overwhelminess and uncertainty about your future. Keep praying about it and leave it there. Stay focus and seek God. He gives you the peace that you need. You numbers are indeed climbing rapidly... So get ready for it Girl and I'm happy for you. Just know some people are looking up to you to change their situation with much encouragement with your confidence
@mgf7_4 жыл бұрын
I quarantined with my boyfriend and in the beginning were having so much fun, but two months in or so all we were doing was arguing. He would say the most hurtful stuff and sometimes I would just go hide in a room to get away from him... I feel like it screwed up a lot of relationships. I hope you guys can work through it. I love real you keep it and the positivity you radiate. 💕
@lovelykiyah74152 жыл бұрын
Didn’t screw up a lot of relationships that always been and this is the age of Revelation!
@delaanaleonard89034 жыл бұрын
I pray everything works out for you and hubby cause y'all are such a sweet couple❤️💚❤️
@nutchelle77774 жыл бұрын
❤️💕
@meishasmith82864 жыл бұрын
MY #FAV KZbin COUPLE!!!💯❤💯
@timeoutwithgorjus16674 жыл бұрын
You’re such a class act! I love your transparency. Real is hard to find. Your it Hunni. Prayer changes things. I’m gonna keep you in my prayers that God turns everything around and be in your favor. No matter what your bomb Boo
@blackberry844 жыл бұрын
quarantine changed everyone's life...
@mcleo99354 жыл бұрын
BlackBerry you sure have that right.it is a Demonic force like the devil to kill steal and destroy,but we have to be strong.combat this spiritual warfare💪🙏
@daphneball754 жыл бұрын
It like everyone is effected by being so close but that's only natural because of the change! Being together a lot! Good to vent but you really love him! It will work out! KZbin is something else to get used to! Putting yourself and man in public view! It makes you see flaws!
@sallyyanne4 жыл бұрын
Definitely changed mine!!
@Carolinas_SweetTea4 жыл бұрын
Yea it did blackberry 💯💋💋
@whoswhowho48724 жыл бұрын
You ain't lying Sis!!!
@tlw324 жыл бұрын
If your partner feels a way about seeing you grow it’s time to have a deep talk with one another if we are together my growth is your growth no me vs you! I love the transparency shay praying for you both!!! Quarantine is revealing a lot in all our lives!! Don’t ever forget you matter it’s always ok to get you some space!! take a trip to visit your family just you !! Congrats on your 20k …1mil is on the way sis!!!! You can get love an money back but loosing who you are never a option for time spent!!!! ❤️
@fefemyluv4 жыл бұрын
I agree. This was the issue I had with my ex. That insecurity really ruined our relationship, alone.
@nutchelle77774 жыл бұрын
💯❤️💕
@sagitariusaries4 жыл бұрын
Well said! I believe many women forgo themselves in the name of a relationship & in the end find themselves sad,depressed, regretful, etc. In a relationship, one person’s growth, is a success for both parties! My ex felt like my income made him less manly and he ended our relationship over money. He couldn’t see that is was a win for us and our goals. But, God does things for a reason & I’m happier now than I was prior.
@Johanna-uq9dl4 жыл бұрын
Your page randomly popped up on my explore list and after 3 videos, I subscribed. One has a way of sensing a person's intentions and energy and i've gotten nothing but positivity and genuineness from you. I SEE how much you enjoy what you do by your choice of content and by being vulnerable with us (PCOS, new diet). We love to see it queen....Keep the entertainment coming...
@Hollablackgirl934 жыл бұрын
This was beautifully stated ♥️
@airheadgoddess29854 жыл бұрын
Shay you are the ONLY youtuber that I have subscribed, like every video, and got my post notifications on 🤣🤣 I think I’m obsessed.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
That means ALOT! I really appreciate YOU & every QUEEN our there💛😍👑
@airheadgoddess29854 жыл бұрын
Plus Size Shay 👑 This is ItsA GirlThang... I changed my name because I didn’t realize a lot of other girls had the same name as me 😝
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
😂 you know I rock with you!
@iamleolove85084 жыл бұрын
I just discovered ur channel 🤦🏽♀️and I SWEAR it was GOD! Not to sound creepy but, my sister passed away an i be DAMN if your spirit isn't JUST like HERS!! To the point i cried... now i can't stop watching you. Anyway i just wanted to say ur AMAZING a TRUE Queen an this is the time where EVERYTHING thats Hidden will be REVEALED so just armer up an stay True sis.. new subbie. Much respect 🙏🏽❤
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
sorry to hear about your sister. stay strong queen. I. glad your in the palace💜💙
@frennchgirl19954 жыл бұрын
Girl, you are so wise. You are way brighter than Jay. Don’t let a man hold you down because of his jealousy. Do you honey!!
@twill10074 жыл бұрын
20K ! Congratulations Shay, you really deserve it 🎉🎊
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! something special is coming up
@thesunshinebrit4 жыл бұрын
I love this channel for the simple fact SHES REAL , all the fake people on KZbin is growing I love finding channels like this fr 😭
@rosalindgreen33974 жыл бұрын
My Beautiful Sister, don't allow social media to come first in your relationship, Stay Strong Sis. You and your husband are a Team, keep pressing and stay the course. You guys are truly loved. Keep on keeping on.
@bluebellss90164 жыл бұрын
Heyyyy... Shay. This is Missy from NYC. Iam a big fan. You are amazing. You are such inspiration to me. Yes, iam a skin woman, and my confidence is not where yours at. Let me tell you from a long relationship point. I love you guys relationship. We all look at everyone else relationship and thats when we look at whats wrong with our man and our relationship. Iam not saying dont feel how your feeling but. Maybe you doing all this youtube and you getting all this love from different places, maybe you are giving him more confidence then he had before. I say to you, if you love him, work it out. Do this wrong down 10 pros and 10 cons about him. You will know what to do. Your still young. You are not the only one going through things like this. Love YA. NyC all day
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
👑💚💚💚
@cherylgreen49214 жыл бұрын
Girl, I feel u on the needing some free time and space .
@NKAB44 жыл бұрын
Bills first relationship second...I dated a guy that had an issue with my hrs...had to send him packing cus laying up don’t pay bills nor rent...
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
that part 💯
@NKAB44 жыл бұрын
Plus Size Shay 👑 I looovvveee you Shay...just recently find your page your vibe is beautiful 🥰🥰🥰...
@foxyboop41644 жыл бұрын
Purrrrrr
@forfree23673 жыл бұрын
BIG FACTS
@shannonjohnson12034 жыл бұрын
I love your channel ... you seem like a real homegirl to me! Your heart is good and u funny as hell! I am here to stay! You are so down to earth 🥰
@rainbowbutterfly31334 жыл бұрын
I love your channel.⭐️ Your personality.⭐️ You are amazing.⭐️ Keep up the wonderful work!⭐️ ⭐️ 💞
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!💖🤩🤩🤩
@melaniemo80154 жыл бұрын
Hey sis! What you are experiencing is not KZbin so much but the male ego! We see you love that man, he knows it too but when you succeed at something sometimes our mates get jealous! Like you said be patient! Pray about it and keep doing you! Regardless you have the right to be an individual even in a marriage! And because you are that’s why you are needing your “ME” time!
@temiahb4 жыл бұрын
Yesss to the zoom Saturday’s Shay!! I will continue to pray for you💕💕🙏🏾🙏🏾.You have such a delightful and positive disposition 👑
@elegantgrannytv4 жыл бұрын
Sis! I love how your mind processes. You pretty much gave yourself therapy opening up to us while positioning yourself as a portal for others to think about their own situations. There is definitely no doubt you will make it through this and anything else. Love you much! Much peace and many blessings🌺🌺🌺 BTW: GURRRRRLLLLL.....your skin has a BEAUTIFUL glow.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
😍😍😍😍
@finnafaint20874 жыл бұрын
Shay I must say you are a breath of fresh air just so down to earth 🌼Stay sweet and just know we are rooting for you gurl 💕
@nieceyturmon2914 жыл бұрын
I love you Shay💕 Stay positive and support your husband at the same time. You have a beautiful spirit, whether your on KZbin or not, your going to shine!
@saundrat.52434 жыл бұрын
New Subbie!! I love you and keep your personal business with your husband to yourself. People will try to destroy your marriage. No man or woman is perfect. Marriage is up and down, yall must work together and FORGET people. Stay married and keep your marriage to yourself. You are a beautiful person and live your life. Be blessed my sister ❤️❤️
@SH-mw1er4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you being so transparent about your relationship struggles. You seem to come from a place of frustration because it seem like you do everything and you want to see more from him. Try talking about it with him get out how you feel maybe he doesn't know what your expectations are..?
@mahishapittman42194 жыл бұрын
I love your spirit. I admire you for everything you do. Keep looking up sweetie. Sometimes you gotta loose to win. Looking forward to seeing what's next for the both of you. Much love.
@154angel1544 жыл бұрын
The SAG in ME...loves to have PEACE ALWAYS! You and Jay seem great together!!!
@princessyas9304 жыл бұрын
you have this aura about you that's so beautiful, genuine and REAL. i pray all goes well in your life sis💞
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!🤍💛
@desilove65304 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate the fact that your being an insightful partner. Your really looking at the collective and not just your own needs. It’s a selfless act, you are trusting the idea of giving your all to someone as what you put out in the universe comes back. I think you both are great people and wish you more blessings, prosperity and love.❤️
@shanettacole56744 жыл бұрын
Hii!!!! Shay!!!! Relationships themselves are so much hard work. I think you are doing a job I love you!!!!I am a subby!!!
@xoxo-vp7ww4 жыл бұрын
Shay, I know you love him and we (people on KZbin) don’t know everything that goes on. But, the controlling, the jealousy, attention-seeking, and the short temper, etc. all make me believe that he has a narcissistic personality. You’re sweet, caring, and want to justify, and overly explain yourself to him while making excuses for the behavior. The jealousy and controlling can seem flattering at first (like, yeah, my man loves me), but please be careful. Don’t lose yourself in ANY relationship. Best wishes for the both of you!!
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
thank you. I know exactly what you mean cause I see it too but I would never let him punk me. I’m smarter than him
@herher7334 жыл бұрын
ELEGANTLY SPOKEN AND I AGREE RESPECTFULLY🌈
4 жыл бұрын
@@PlusSizeShay lol @ I am smarter than him. We usually are and it can get exhausting.
@shellycali42644 жыл бұрын
I agree you are rite
@mschaneymay4 жыл бұрын
All facts
@Itsmedee03904 жыл бұрын
I love your transparency...a very rare gem on these KZbin streets
@DeAndraB4 жыл бұрын
Always go with your gut feeling Shay. Whatever it is always go for happiness. ♥️
@oevans374 жыл бұрын
Love you Shay 😘!! Being married to these men can have you wanting to throw in the towel. I've been married 18yrs and I'll tell anyone that marriage ain't easy. There are days when my bags are packed (in my head) lol, then there are days I love him more than when we first met. It seems the woman is always the one that sees there's a problem and we're always trying to fix it and fight for the relationship, but we're not in the relationship by ourselves. So I feel your pain; Tfs 💕!
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
Right then bags packed in the head cause who gonna put them clothes back in the closet😂😂
@oevans374 жыл бұрын
Right 😂😂
@reginek.70424 жыл бұрын
Man, I love your personality. You are truly beautiful inside and out. I can tell you have a kind heart. I'm glad that I came across your channel. Most of all, you are so authentic and vunerable, which makes your content even better b/c it's like a sisterhood-type-vibe. It's not about the views with you; you just really enjoy sharing your truth. God bless you!
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
💜💚❤️👑
@PretiBlu224 жыл бұрын
Iam a new subbie..enjoying your videos..your numbers going to shoot up..not sure if u know but KZbin is recommending your channel that's how I got here.Congrats on your channel Queen🎊🎉🦄🌹💙
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
awe thank you welcome to the palace
@PretiBlu224 жыл бұрын
@@PlusSizeShay you're welcome love. 🥰🙏🏾
@pecanbrown19284 жыл бұрын
Shay I know exactly where you coming from as far as a relationship/ work..trying to balance everything out.but at the same time you ALWAYS share your spotlight with him, because Y'ALL are one and i see the genuine love that you share, especially the way you treat him and its like some of us have more ambition/goals for certain things..im NOT saying that he's not.. but all at the same time Jay needs to understand that some people just can relate to you more, I mean you can't help who follow/like you. But Shay you hang on in there.because I see that you have a lot on you at the moment .when you start feeling that way ..take your time and get you some me time, try an do some meditation ..i pray for your strength and your peace as WELL as your happiness..so anytime you feel like you need to vent you do it..because we as women need to have that after all the things that we go through / do throughout the day..love you girl..continue to walk with your head held high and KEEP GOD FIRST IN EVERYTHING/EVERY PART OF YOUR LIFE..AND ALL WILL BE GOOD.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
💯❤️❤️
@quinishaharley4 жыл бұрын
Sis dating a older man, is totally different I'm doing it too. So believe we in this together. But I'm glad you got this off your chest. And truly hope that this helps you. Now the healing can begin. 😘😘😘😘😍😍😍 so with that being said I speak healing and blessing on you and your house hold. You got this. And just know everyday ain't gone be Sunday, give it to God, he will take it from there.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
Amen. I’ll share my healing and blessings with you. update we still have our rough spots but it’s better than before
@quinishaharley4 жыл бұрын
@@PlusSizeShay amen
@SiimplyAngie70884 жыл бұрын
YOUR REAL AND I ADMIRE YOU FOR THAT,
@kirstenvictoria82444 жыл бұрын
Soooo down for the zoom calls on Saturdaysss!!! You and Jay will be fine. You guys are still learning each other that's all.
@carlathomas78364 жыл бұрын
I'm a Jamaican there is saying cow never know the use of his tail until him lose it Jay you have virtuous woman hold on tight my brother.
@happyscrapper84054 жыл бұрын
I agree with you Queen! I can’t go harder for your business than you! I will help you but you first have to help yourself! I’m learning that lesson with my child!
@ohsoyoutysha22334 жыл бұрын
Idk if this make any sense, but watching you is making me love myself more❤️
@bamachic30844 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing . Raw and unfiltered! It don't get no better than that. A natural beauty that's down to Earth and strong minded!
@BeautiQLove4 жыл бұрын
Social media is something else 🤦🏽♀️
@VelileLifestyleDecorTV4 жыл бұрын
You inspire my Queen. Try and keep focusing on this we behind you and supporting . Sending you love and light from South Africa. 🇿🇦. Let him catch up if he can and support him where you can. I really love your sincere character. You are special.
@LusciousCaramel104 жыл бұрын
Social media as a whole can take a toll on any relationship. I wish you nothing but the best. Remember you are beautiful and deserve to be happy everyday
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
😘😘😘
@nutchelle77774 жыл бұрын
I agree!!❤️💕
@tochifatima4 жыл бұрын
proud of you, shay. I really appreciate your transparency. it takes courage and strength to be able to speak openly about personal issues one may be having so thank you! you’re doing great.
@MissD.224 жыл бұрын
Whatever makes you happy Shay we will be here to watch regardless💃🏾
@divineintervention57684 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your channels originality. Your relationship seems special. Protect it.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@ebkikibo4 жыл бұрын
Maybe he can focus on something else that will make him happy and leave you to do what you want with KZbin if you don't do it together. People enjoy you, so you will figure it, but don't put too much of your business out there.
@Thebeginning804 жыл бұрын
Childish hard to deal with someone who has a lot of growing up to do
@NiqLT4 жыл бұрын
I don’t really like to put myself in other people’s relationship but it’s important to have someone that supports you and cheers for you as your brand grows. You and Jay need to sit down and have a conversation off of KZbin and make sure the both of you understand what you are signing up for. I think everyone that watches you can see how much you love and support him. If he can’t give you that same energy, then do what’s best for you love. Anyways sis I’m proud of you. Your hustle has paid off. Love your videos ❤️
@tiffanydouglas19464 жыл бұрын
Girl i feel u i believe in letting a man be a man i don't want to feel like im dating my son or lil brother.sometimes a Queen don't need a king to run a palace.❤💜🧡💙💚
@vanessaanderson99724 жыл бұрын
AMEN OK
@alegm27884 жыл бұрын
AMEN SIS!!! VERY WELL SAID 👏👏👏
@lisasam53794 жыл бұрын
He has a learning disability though
@tiffanydouglas19464 жыл бұрын
@@lisasam5379 ive never heard them state he has any learning disabilities i see he has a physical disability tht has nothing to do with him being a man the same way he learned how to make a plenty of fish account to meet her and know how to play the games like the back of his hand he can learn to be a provider and do what he needs to do to handle his business periodt 🤨🤔
@isauramorsen53844 жыл бұрын
Hey Shay, dont let anything bring your beautifull spirit down. Keep doing you... greetings from Suriname (all the way in south-America)😘
@addieedwards36634 жыл бұрын
I 'm 71 yr old I love watching you share your love for Jay and your Queens and Kings. Your Smart and Humble that's hard to find in most young adults. Your going too be ok.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
🥰🥰🤗
@fayettefavors54724 жыл бұрын
I love how open you are !!!! Thank you for sharing your life with us
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@theresacarmody7024 жыл бұрын
I think you are right .He needs to take control. .He can't rely on you for everything .This was a nice video
@Ohdatzdeedee4 жыл бұрын
I understand you love him but you want him to take initiative and lead sometimes. He’s gotten comfortable with you doing things for him and now it’s a bit much. You want him to be self sufficient. Nothing wrong with that. Pray about it cousin 🙏🏾 Much love queen 😘
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
🙏🏾thanx cousin
@adriantrice53164 жыл бұрын
Hey girl I totally get were you're coming from about Jay just stay strong and positive and be your sweet self you are so positive and beautiful , it'll work out .
@cierraernest77184 жыл бұрын
Love iittt!! Being real, every relationship has it's own problems i love all your content
@islandmariposa-4 жыл бұрын
Wish I had a friend like you Shay,I appreciate this real talk
@vernitad89964 жыл бұрын
Shay your next endeavor should be clothes line... coming from Shay, Shay in the house! Yes ma'am, do it ! I know it's all in the timing!!!
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
a teacher use to call me sassy
@vernitad89964 жыл бұрын
@@yomynameislaney I lile that Sasshay... Yesssss
@vernitad89964 жыл бұрын
@@yomynameislaney Alright Jeremiah, I like that....
@vernitad89964 жыл бұрын
@@PlusSizeShay okay ms.sassy! Alrigh, I like👍🏽😄🤣😀
@vernitad89964 жыл бұрын
@@yomynameislaney Alright Jeremiah, Sasshaying...down the runway... I like, great idea... Go ahead Sassyshay... doing it, doing it! Beautiful clothes line...yesssss😄😍
@kenyeaelamin26514 жыл бұрын
Shay u expressed that so decently. Luuuuuv u baby. God knows your love for him and your viewers. U are rare, we gotta lot in common. U luuv what u luuuv. And i seen the jealousy but i dont do negative comments. U handled so positively. Thats rite make him be the man u kno he can be. Be blessed beautiful. By the way Shay yo skin fyyyye.
@gorgeous.akosua4 жыл бұрын
Shay you are an awesome partner. Every relationship has its ups and downs. Jay should talk about his life just like you talking about your life. He will get followers
@itsyagirlashleytv4 жыл бұрын
I really connect with what you are going through. Thank you for your transparency I really appreciate it and please ignore what people say this is your platform so do as you please! This is a very timely word for me ❤️🙌🏾 God bless you and many good things are coming your way. You are a sweet, genuine, and a giving person. So beautiful and humble!!!
@bmillermcghee4 жыл бұрын
Hey Beautiful,Thankyou for Sharing your journey with Us.*Remember You’re Loved By The Best Queen.🙏🏾
@lamalisimabbw4 жыл бұрын
You’re wonderful I’m thankful that i found you on here... stay blessed and keep making content stay strong🙏🏻❤️
@TheFairlyOddCouple4 жыл бұрын
I know people are saying dont share this, but you never know who your helping by sharing your story and what your going through... Praying that you both find your way and what makes you happy!
@BigMantha4 жыл бұрын
New sub . I love your transparency and honesty . I pray that all works out . Much love
@tia83554 жыл бұрын
I do hope the best for ya'll. You gotta let him know how you feel and i hope he listens to understand and not to reply. And regardless of what happens always push forward because your subscribers are gonna keep goin up ❤❤❤❤❤
@lashonlesaine10934 жыл бұрын
Shay, I am a new Subscriber and I cried after watching this video. You seem to be not only supportive as a partner but very loving. I love your spirit and your beauty. Loving yourself fully can mean moving on from even loved ones who are not for you 100%. It doesn't make you a bad person, it makes you stronger.
@high33674 жыл бұрын
I loved this video... There is no need for him to be jealous, love is not jealous, envious or intimidating. He should know as your husband, when you Win he Win. It's not a me thing but a us thing. I pray you all keep going strong and continue to prosper together!!😊😊
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
🥰😊
@anikabell36614 жыл бұрын
Shay, the reason why I subscribed to your channel is you are real and rare!!! Sooo many KZbinr’s are fake!!! I unsubscribe to them real fast once I feel that they are big headed and forgets where they came from. As Queens, we need to vent, and this quarantine got us Queens noticing things out of pocket. I totally agree with you. If you want something popping.... You have to be motivated and get it done! Don’t wait for the next person to do for you. Anyways Queen Shay... I Love You and have your back!!
@loveit594 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad ur mature enough to realize social media can ruin ur relationship and u got right on top of it that's wassup gf. I would hate to hear that yal are splitting up it would really hurt my heart I love yal💖💯💜🙏🏼😇🥰😘😋😷
@pattiamoh11364 жыл бұрын
Congrats on subs
@kdreama4 жыл бұрын
21k now! Keep growing and learning and yall will overcome. I found you at 17k. Keep it up. You both are inspiring.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@ceeiamcee16404 жыл бұрын
Shay, I was just gonna ask about the youtube relationship strain. You guys have beautiful energy. Jay will have to learn to to allow your growth, As the older 1 in the relationship he has to let you be you. He just gotta be confident in y'all love 4 eachother. Omg Gurl, now it can work but, adjustments must be made. Dang I need to chop it up with u Sis💞
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
girl yes. give him the game
@anaToeaso4 жыл бұрын
You are not alone sista ..i could totally relate on working and being in a relationship ..always on the go go go lol blah blah blah on my end.i Love your life and I am so glad you are on youtube 💜 ALL LOVE 💜
@beautifulme63234 жыл бұрын
Shay your still young , don't waste your time when it's over it's over .
@gabrielleelliott73884 жыл бұрын
Guess who you are absolutely right
@addydrayton88934 жыл бұрын
I love your transparency not many people are so open and real. You keeping it 100 I respect that.
@itsRAINYbytch4 жыл бұрын
You’re very well spoken Shay. All I can say is please protect yourself. You seem like you love really hard, so do I, another water sign- Scorpio. I’ve been through something similar. It’s nothing wrong with loving and being down for the one that you love. But please, please, protect yourself first. ❤️
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will
@Nana_Yas20204 жыл бұрын
I agree with a lot of people saying to keep your relationship business off or don’t share too much. You’re numbers are going higher and higher without any drama. Keep it that way love. I watch some channels and their channels are nothing but drama storylines. He left me, she left me. He cheated etc.... That mess get real old.
@vernitad89964 жыл бұрын
Girl, we have to show the love, nothing but love, love love....😍😍
@Nana_Yas20204 жыл бұрын
Shay your channel came into my recommendation. I watched a couple of your videos and your personality and beautiful smile got me. Just watching you put a smile on my face. I’m 53 years old. I can tell you’re a good hearted person. Jay needs to understand this (KZbin) is your hobby and his gaming channel is his hobby. I understand what you’re saying. You have to decide what’s best for you and your peace of mind.❤️
@luciasoto4494 жыл бұрын
I recently got a new job with a lot more money then my BF and I haven’t told him because the first thing he’ll say is oh you won’t need me around then instead of being happy for me, people have different interests so it’s hard to say come to this channel but it’s not the same interest.
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
right. I try to explain to him and it’s just not what he wanna hear. I had to work my way to this point.
@yasmine-monique4 жыл бұрын
I love how genuine you are! I hope you and your boo work things out! ❤️❤️
@D-qt6di4 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing wrong with needing your space..go for an early walk by yourself throw some headphones on and detox that mind girl and just remember your partner is not supposed to feel jealous but happy for you ❤️ wish you both the best 🥰
@mama-shellsmith3594 жыл бұрын
Im a new subscriber and this is the first video ive seen to really see who u are..you are a lovely soul...and its something about you that makes me feel peace in my heart. My life is full of pain right now..physical and emotional. I really enjoyed this..thank u my sister. Pray for me as i pray for you. Let God lead you sweetheart. Love u and thanks for being you.
@truthj57254 жыл бұрын
dont let him take ur joy keep doing u boo ur personality is so sweet thats why u at 20k as u speak
@PlusSizeShay4 жыл бұрын
🤪🤩
@tbirdeverything30484 жыл бұрын
You are responsible for your own happiness and I come here to this channel because I feel happy watching your videos. Your a beautiful person simply amazing.