My parents had a one stand and ended up being set up on a blind date a months later and their still together 34 years later
@sk9rib2blz5 ай бұрын
Now this sounds like a Real REAL one night stand. Love this!
@jayskicksnfits93725 ай бұрын
It's *they're* ,not their. That's crazy in a good way.
@YeahMackD5 ай бұрын
It was fate for them to meet again
@CC-si3cr5 ай бұрын
@@jayskicksnfits9372 That was not the only grammatical error in this post. She missed "night" in "one night stand". She missed the word "few" when saying her parents were "set up on a blind date a [few] months later". Clearly neither parent was an educator. I also have no idea why they would tell their child they smashed day one. Ew.
@wendyfan80715 ай бұрын
@@CC-si3cr😅
@user-rc2eo8ch6y5 ай бұрын
Yep my wife. 26 years later we’re still going strong
@gknox1715 ай бұрын
Same here! Almost 29 years🎉
@OmniUni0075 ай бұрын
Beautiful
@janeeyx56724 ай бұрын
Not a one night stand. It would have been if you never saw her again.
@jthegemini86914 ай бұрын
Doesn't qualify as a 1 night stand. When you decided to see her again, it throws the one night concept out the window
@user-rc2eo8ch6y3 ай бұрын
@@Debate_dagame_not_dadebater this was 98 so no internet or social media. She came as a tagalong with her sister because her sister didn’t wanna come see my homeboy by herself and I played wingman. I thought it was one and done 35 days later she’s pregnant eight months later we married.😂😂😂
@deeransom5 ай бұрын
It’s not a one night stand if you sleep with that person more than one night 😂😂
@kuzonsembewe46545 ай бұрын
😂😂 Right!
@janeeyx56724 ай бұрын
Right! One night stands is when you sleep with someone you don’t know and just met that night and never see them again.
@ebonyc37514 ай бұрын
More like one night stand turns into a situation tht turns into a relationship. When you sleep wit a total stranger u may not ever see tht person again. U have the name he gave u n the number he gave n can very well disappear the next day bcuz u have nothing else. But sumtimes its meant to b more 😊
@takiakahler87095 ай бұрын
Clearly no one knows the real meaning of a ONE NIGHT STAND these days 🤷🏽♀️ Listen … y’all meet & if the vibes are right then sex and that’s it. If y’all meet up again then it’s a situationship until it gets serious. Am I wrong.?
@selfmaderish46905 ай бұрын
Yep! Idk why every one commenting on actual relationships that didn’t workout or work 😂
@louanne3605 ай бұрын
You're right. If you start going out later then it's not a one night stand. Maybe you originally intended it to be but it didn't end that way.
@stayfocuseddi5 ай бұрын
💯💪🏾 Only the real freaks know what up
@CC-si3cr5 ай бұрын
I was perturbed when they let that first caller go on and on about how they originally met in middle school. Girl, are you for real with this?
@wendyfan80714 ай бұрын
@CC-si3cr thats what I'm sayin 😅
@rybaxter54244 ай бұрын
They are confusing sleeping with someone on the first date and a one night stand🤦🏾♀️ a one night stand is meeting a stranger out at a club or wherever and sleeping with them while knowing absolutely nothing about them🤷🏽♀️
@shoni9194 ай бұрын
Exactly!!! OMG finally someone understands the assignment. Between TBC and these comments was stressing me out😂
@YoungOne1514 күн бұрын
@@shoni919😂😂😂
@EricReaves5 ай бұрын
My one night stand turned into a beautiful blessing loving lil man and me and his mother has been together for 15yrs.... love blessing respect to all.
@CMG8105 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@shaquilhoskins30785 ай бұрын
Naa my one night stand turned into a toxic fling that I can’t stop 🤣🤣
@SmokeTherapy4205 ай бұрын
🫡😂😂
@misskay465 ай бұрын
😂😂🤣
@CarsonDouglas5 ай бұрын
Not toxic fling 😩🤣🤦🏾♂️
@don2004w5 ай бұрын
😂😂😂facts
@shunsmith6785 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@bwatkins10va5 ай бұрын
If you're STILL TOGETHER.....You DIDN'T have a one night stand
@oscarrobertson50975 ай бұрын
🤣😂That makes too much sense
@devinpineda14675 ай бұрын
Fr
@Veon_Ray5 ай бұрын
It *STARTS OFF* as a one night stand , and then *TURNS INTO* a relationship... comprehension is everything.
@BTCBlizzy5 ай бұрын
Obviously you can’r read
@josephatkinson56935 ай бұрын
Yooooo they missed the whole point😂
@McClendon7785 ай бұрын
Yall comparing Apples to Oranges!!! The definition of a One Night Stand you don’t know knows each other No Name or Number!! If you bump into each other yall keep it moving!!! What y’all are should be asking is how long did it take before you slept with your BF 🤷🏽♀️ VERY DIFFERENT 🍏🍊
@simonsez17875 ай бұрын
Right lol. I’m like huh?
@ogriss4124 ай бұрын
Thank you
@frederickifill31074 ай бұрын
It’s hilarious that Envy and CTG acting like they don’t know what a one night stand is they know exactly what a one night stand is 😂😂🤣
@TheTruthDragonNJ095 ай бұрын
It happens. That one night stand could turn into a "One MORE night stand" and before you know it, you're battling over the last piece of chicken like gladiators.
@don2004w5 ай бұрын
😂😂
@balorklub5 ай бұрын
Dam 😂😂😂
@daymogeezy5 ай бұрын
Goofu
@WrdtoMuva5 ай бұрын
Not a one night stand if yall see each other again.
@guestguest37565 ай бұрын
But if that one night doesn't happen would they be together now... did the one night stand have them an opportunity to explore more?
@BrokenBellyBeat5 ай бұрын
Oh ye.... We still rocking the one stand after three kids and 13 years❤
@elilove17295 ай бұрын
Never had a one night. Ppl not scared of Aids anymore and thats crazy
@kimberlycooper64195 ай бұрын
That's what I am saying. Like what???? Not only AIDS, but murders and trafficking 😮
@3dknight55 ай бұрын
Cuz they got a pill for that now so it's not a death sentence. Look at magic
@TheIcemanthomas5 ай бұрын
Umm nobody said raw sir
@CC-si3cr5 ай бұрын
AIDS (It's an acronym. Acquired immunodeficiency syndrome) was a 90's problem. Back then a lot of ppl were dying from AIDS. Everyone was fearful. There was no cure bc a lot was unknown about it. Today, AIDS is not a death sentence. You don't hear about anyone dying from it the way you did 30 years ago. So, to answer your question, no one is afraid of AIDS anymore. There are drugs out now where you can live a normal life with the disease. I've never had a one night stand either. I don't know why you would assume a one night stand means unprotected sex.
@dream-nk5xv5 ай бұрын
Condoms still exists 😅
@MsIvieJ5 ай бұрын
I met my guy, who's now my fiance back in Oct. 2017 on a 7-day western caribbean cruise. He was on a guys trip and I was on a girls trip, we are both from the Bay Area, who would have ever known and we are still together and planning on our wedding.
@MsSwankie105 ай бұрын
Good for you.
@KeishaSummers-rf8gz5 ай бұрын
The Mexican work joke 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jonathanlinares17784 ай бұрын
😂
@SupremeMelanatedBeing775 ай бұрын
Yeah it turned into a long term stalkalationship 😐
@KG-mx5ti5 ай бұрын
😩😩
@QweenKoopa-5 ай бұрын
The worst 🥴
@BMorgan135 ай бұрын
Charlamagne & Jess' face @ the end when Envy was talking about the guy. 😂💀
@zzizahacallar5 ай бұрын
Yah at the end 😆. That was crazy
@lebogangmabogoane57645 ай бұрын
Yes and we are now married with 3 kids
@selfmaderish46905 ай бұрын
Clearly no/one knows the meaning of a one night stand! If I go out to a lounge and meet a random guy within hours and sleep with him. We never see each other again. That’s a one night stand 😂
@lynnelfletcher5 ай бұрын
Exactly! They dont know the definition. It's not a one-night stand...if you see the person again!
@jaybah8365 ай бұрын
Yeah. I'm like they slow yo
@janeeyx56724 ай бұрын
Right!
@VolusiaQ5 ай бұрын
12yrs later... We're still together & happy. 💯
@ednaphillips9705 ай бұрын
I had a one-night stand 20yrs ago with 2 children that were produced, ended 3yrs ago.
@NiyahSan5 ай бұрын
38 & 22 is crazy.
@BTCBlizzy5 ай бұрын
Yep. We were together almost 20 years, since I was 17. And just broke up yesterday. No lie. 😂
@Dipset4154 ай бұрын
Yo Jess is funny asf💯😭😭😭
@omarbrown68525 ай бұрын
Yep. My wife & I have been together for 24+ years. I guess I was just that damn good! 😂
@lavondabonds59555 ай бұрын
Yep😭😭😭... Married to him now... 7 years🤷🏾♀️
@SoulOfOle5 ай бұрын
Yes, 13 years of marriage
@antoinettegarmon18115 ай бұрын
Yep! Became my husband 3yrs later and that was 27yrs ago.
@Jay-wp8zs4 ай бұрын
Not a one night stand then dummy
@NatetheGreatII_A.K.A.DinahsBoy5 ай бұрын
Yeah…she showed me who she was when we met, I ignored it for 9 years TOO LONG, then she reminded me once again…fortunately, I had the strength to leave & with NOTHING to look back for…no kids, no marriage, NADA! WON’T HE DO IT??🙏🏾💙
@jyotirvakyananda5 ай бұрын
No. Knowing how to start is SKILL. Knowing when to stop is MASTERY!!!!! There are a lot of people with skill; but, very few masters.
@AlexXDiety5 ай бұрын
Yes sir. Ten years in with my best friend.
@Sasha-ws6gv5 ай бұрын
To each their own but I personally wouldn't induldge in a one night stand. When you understand what sex really is, I believe more people will think twice about how they decide to exchange energy.. but God bless everybody 🙏 🙌
@TheStar7985 ай бұрын
👏
@PomegranatesWeather4 ай бұрын
Facts and amen
@HouseOfTWIGGA5 ай бұрын
lol yooo that Mexican work joke was diabolical
@callins315 ай бұрын
Yes turn 8 years, married and have 6 month old daughter
@deandreray35005 ай бұрын
I tell my friends that are chicks it’s not like you haven’t had one before see what happens it may turn into something different!
@callins315 ай бұрын
Right my bestman In my wedding did the same thing and they are 5 years in 😊
@Ashley-uq9sf5 ай бұрын
Technology we knew each other through growing up in the same area, didn’t learn that till later cause he was a bit older not much but yes years later ran into each other, got it in and now 14 yrs later together, we came into later relations with our own older kids and had a beautiful baby girl who is 11 yrs old now today. So we share 3 girls total with the youngest being our biological daughter together. I’m not sure neither of us thought this would be long term but with the grace of God he has put up with my crazy 🤪 lol basically he is my calm and I love him for that and am grateful to have him in my life.💪🏽❤️
@joelharvey4 ай бұрын
*I don't this is phrased correctly. What you mean is "have you ever developed a serious relationship with someone you slept with on the first night?" (Because obviously it's not a one night stand if it's more than one night, by definition.)*
@sirrmanning27695 ай бұрын
I had this happen a couple of times in my 20s.. We have all moved on, and as far as I know, the other ladies are both married with children. No regrets at all!
@crystalazan27474 ай бұрын
Yes….and we were married 3 months later. Our 6 year anniversary is this October. We’re best friends and soul mates. Best thing I’ve ever done!
@Neechi20165 ай бұрын
A one night stand is only one night. You can not turn a one night stand into a relationship. If you sleep with the person more than one night, it is no longer considered a one night stand.
@josephatkinson56935 ай бұрын
Let me help you out😒 it STARTS OUT as a 1 night stand(meaning you slept with them on a 1st date not intentionally looking for another date or relationship) and then changing your mind and making it a relationship is what a 1 night stand turning into a relationship is
@seanw46615 ай бұрын
@@josephatkinson5693then it’s not a one night stand then if you end up going back regardless if you intended to or not a real one night stand means yall have sex that one time and never again
@Neechi20165 ай бұрын
@@seanw4661 exactly!!! Ppl don't have common sense.
@Neechi20165 ай бұрын
@@josephatkinson5693 I'll pass on the help. You need common sense first.
@Neechi20165 ай бұрын
@josephatkinson5693 I'll pass on the help. You need common sense first.
@Kathyyy-wd2kv5 ай бұрын
Yes been with him for 5 years with 2 kids 😊
@Tweeksoutofnowhere4 ай бұрын
Its the original intention or goal. Hit it and keep it moving. Now afterwards when that changes then we have the question in play.
@TheMMFamily95 ай бұрын
You sleep together the night you meet
@deandreray35005 ай бұрын
Me and my gf had a one night stand and have been together for 9 years strong!
@WesleyLindsey5 ай бұрын
Gf for 9 years seems terrible
@deandreray35005 ай бұрын
@@WesleyLindseybetter than being alone I determine marriage she can leave whenever!
@WesleyLindsey5 ай бұрын
@@deandreray3500 you make her sound like a hostage! Good luck to her!
@Lharperreptiles5 ай бұрын
Yeah my one stand turned into 14yrs and 3kids later
@xcheerxfreakx5 ай бұрын
Yes, my one night stand is my husband and we have a 10 month old living in our first house 😅
@mr_nadda835 ай бұрын
Nah! But I stayed friends with a couple of them. I just didn't want to hit it a quit it
@therealbomiangel5 ай бұрын
Hmm 🤔💭... It varies, but the statistics of it not happening is like 80% to 20%
@frankjones57704 ай бұрын
It's about the adventure. If you feeling the situation go with it. Life is all about having experience ls
@FelaKuti80005 ай бұрын
I like how ya'll came into this conversation without a working definition. Hilarious
@rasheed3614 ай бұрын
1 night stands are limited to 1 night. This disqualifies all those celebrating the wrong topic
@yagirlsacha67754 ай бұрын
I had a one night stand with my husband. He was 8 years younger than me. And we are 9 years in with the grace of God! ❤ Use protection everyone don't be out here raw dogging though unless yall know each other and know there are no viruses in each other's bodies. Lol
@ELBONYBEAUTY274 ай бұрын
We just celebrated 10 years married and 20 together.
@momusic33275 ай бұрын
Unwantedly. I’m still tryna get rid of em smh
@Pou1gie15 ай бұрын
@13:00 I'm glad Jess protected that woman from being shamed by CTG and Envy. She did nothing illegal and everything was consensual. CTG really hates the idea of women being happy and unashamed.
@VeronicaMcNealy5 ай бұрын
Yes been married for 13+ yrs 😊🎉!!!
@niccimanz4 ай бұрын
I met my fiancé at a bar, neither one of us thought of being in a relationship. Almost 6 years later we been together since
@dyreckta235 ай бұрын
For some people it's 18 years
@KeishaSummers-rf8gz5 ай бұрын
Right 😂
@youtuberesponse4134 ай бұрын
I think no one should ever date more than 10 years their junior BUT Charla and Envy have never shaded an older man/younger woman relationship the way they did that caller. The never got on JayZ for grooming Beyonce when she was 18 and he was 30. They never got on Ronald Isley, whos wife is almost 40 years younger than him.
@broadwayjoethewriter11795 ай бұрын
I know plenty of married couples who slept together on the first date!!!1
@VanessaElizabeta5 ай бұрын
Idk why I hate when Envy says the word “kinky.” Lol
@sadeakinniyi68064 ай бұрын
Me is when he say “papi”
@OmniUni0075 ай бұрын
Short answer: Yes Almost every one I did with, unless it was someone I thought was but turned out they were married. I felt bad for their husbands ngl…
@princesstidwell40994 ай бұрын
Yup 6 years strong just got married last September
@AprilsAccurate5 ай бұрын
Doubling down on my previous comment. I had one night stands before and I didn’t like any of those men. I left they asses. It happens. People just don’t be for people. But the guy who we actually got a chance to get to know one another for YEARS, we married and been married 12 years going on 13! That worked for us. Whatever works for anyone else! To happy to hate ❤
@zag72575 ай бұрын
The adjunct professor story is crazy lol
@MsNimGirl4 ай бұрын
1 night stand can also be if you hit on the first date with the only intention to hit. Typically it is 1 time and never see the person again. However, if that first encounter causes you to change direction then it counts yoo.
@ChatBully875 ай бұрын
Absolutely. I met a guy on Grindr for a one-night hit... Turned into a 6 year relationship. It ended after a whole bunch of infidelity...
@giffondhall92145 ай бұрын
Depends on the person
@ladyschatze91595 ай бұрын
My meaning of a one night stand, is you meet the person for the first time and have sex the same day or night . I never had a one night stand . Some of our parents had plenty of one night stands. It was a 70's & 80's thing.
@ineronclairvoyant58294 ай бұрын
THE BREAKFAST CLUB IS ON VACATION WITH THIS POST
@markjohnson64065 ай бұрын
Yep!!! 11YRS TOGETHER AND MARRIED FOR 3 ❤
@lakersin5565 ай бұрын
Congratulations
@craziinancy14 ай бұрын
I think it’s where you INTEND for it to be a one night stand but then it becomes something more.
@THAFLIGHT4 ай бұрын
U HIT IT AND QUIT IT THATS A ONE NIGHT STAND YALL DAMN😂🤣🗣🤝🏿💯
@PrinceJett5 ай бұрын
she sound so happy haha
@flyhigh4955 ай бұрын
Yes lol my husband and I have been together for 9 years now with 2 daughters lol 😘😂
@Vramirez65825 ай бұрын
Yes, and it was 8 years of unhappiness.
@CC-si3cr5 ай бұрын
Why is it NOBODY knows what a one night stand is in 2024? A one night stand is meeting someone you DO NOT KNOW (too many callers talking about we first met in 2004 and I loved his brown eyes. then we met again in 2010.). That is not a one night stand. A one night stand is when you smash a stranger the same night you meet. You do not spend the night. You do not exchange phone numbers. You definitely don't know their last name! You never see them again. EVER! Now if you can create a relationship with someone you had sex with first before having an official date more power to you!
@tamalahale61604 ай бұрын
Yeah it was not intentional either, we broke up two years ago, but if you ask him, apparently we are trying to get back together.
@LisaSmith-hr7rz5 ай бұрын
Yes it turned into 17 years of a mistake…
@soobright5 ай бұрын
Ever notice SUPER HEROES 🦸♂️ fight in the name of VIRTUE and JUSTICE?
@ClarkTS5 ай бұрын
I think a one night stand has to do with intent. It’s someone you intend to sleep with one time with no intention on having a future relationship with.
@fatimahalea84725 ай бұрын
It’s not a one night stand of it turns into a long term relationship
@aricasublett90054 ай бұрын
A one night stand is ONE night.....hence the word ONE yall
@Micwood165 ай бұрын
It wouldn’t be a one night stand if that happened right?
@Nytellem5 ай бұрын
Yeah is no longer a one night stand
@Iambyronfarmer5 ай бұрын
I think a one night stand is you hooking up with a person one time and never hooking up again. No matter how long you knew them prior to the hook up
@claudinecinous19054 ай бұрын
One night stand first night or first date and you sleep togheter and left standing doesn't happen again. Also 2 night stand 2 nights back to back cause it was so good but still no intent to pursue further.
@msarmstrong4105 ай бұрын
Hell no, the younger dudes are just as bad as the older dudes..
@TrevienB5 ай бұрын
Yup my first time doing that too he's my kids father😂😂😂
@SchawanaLee5 ай бұрын
My one night stand on my birthday lead to 17yrs. It's when u got that good good 😂
@TheStar7985 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@treylito22525 ай бұрын
1 night stand is self explanatory how u confused?
@lionelsancha94165 ай бұрын
You dont go into a one night stand thinking oh yeah they the one, its either a date or a one night stand. If its more than one night than it was a date
@byronkeys37495 ай бұрын
Not necessarily a relationship, but whatever it was that Debo and Felicia had going on in Friday(without the beating her in the face part)
@DecaturQue4 ай бұрын
Marsha is saying none sense. She’s calling giving it up the first night a one night stand. I thought one night stand was when you don’t like the person for a relationship specifically
@ezravonhindenburg12405 ай бұрын
Evidently, people do not understand the definition of "one night stand".
@septemberjai52165 ай бұрын
7:45 The stereotyping… 😕🥴
@fitrasta80815 ай бұрын
One night stand is everything happening in one night with a rando and that was it … u can double back after a while but it ain’t no one night stand
@oasisfullfilled76174 ай бұрын
My one stand lasted four years and we got a beautiful baby boy
@YungShep15 ай бұрын
Just longer term one night standship
@CMG8105 ай бұрын
They have kids to show for it
@darlingtonkraven59515 ай бұрын
One night stand simply means "No Strings Attached" arrangement