Small talk has two main uses in my view: 1. Getting through a moment of awkward silence. 2. Being civil with somebody who has no business knowing anything deeper about your life
@quantumleap88883 ай бұрын
Spot on
@Blaze235574 ай бұрын
Some people have the knack of making you feel comfortable.
@carr03024 ай бұрын
Beware the silver tongued serpent car salesman!
@carlac90264 ай бұрын
I'm told I'm too deep and I think too much 🤣
@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied4 ай бұрын
I love you.
@RunninUpThatHillh4 ай бұрын
Yes same. I don't mind small talk though. I love it all.
@kristy93374 ай бұрын
I prefer deep thinkers over shallow talkers 🙂
@carlac90264 ай бұрын
@@Stickadonkonit What they really meant is "you make us think". It is not a compliment.
@oldworldwildona5504 ай бұрын
That means you are REAL - Devine Creation.
@sylvies50504 ай бұрын
That connection feels like home.
@sunnysaz304 ай бұрын
Everyone is at a different stage. Sometimes the simplest and kindest thing we can do is to be the reason someone smiles 😊🙏🏼🕊️
@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied4 ай бұрын
Yes, this IS the answer. You nailed it.
@SafeSpaceInc4 ай бұрын
Yes , What a lovely outlook. The world needs "smiles" more now than ever. ♥
@melk67204 ай бұрын
Yes be kind, love is the greatest commandment
@itsalladream14484 ай бұрын
The dark night of the soul is a painful journey but it starts our journey Home. The Heroes journey. God bless
@vrtx33563 ай бұрын
🤮
@PamelaA.Pearson4 ай бұрын
After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
@torbjornnilsen4 ай бұрын
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
@PamelaA.Pearson4 ай бұрын
Thanks to my co-worker (Alex) who suggested Ms Claudia Ann Brandon.
@PamelaA.Pearson4 ай бұрын
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
@PamelaA.Pearson4 ай бұрын
After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my son's surgery (Oscar). Glory to God.shalom.
@JeniferJ.Johnson4 ай бұрын
God is more than enough for us, and his mercy is new every morning.
@king777034 ай бұрын
When i bump into my neighbour's n they say, 'Did ya see ? In todays papers?', i say 'No i wouldn't believe the date in them, they're full of rubbish' they look at me n hurry off 👍
@greendrummers4 ай бұрын
😂 nice response!!
@samdemic33734 ай бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👌
@greendrummers4 ай бұрын
@TheBronzeGoddess love island, what is that? Epstein files?
@oldworldwildona5504 ай бұрын
I vacuum driveway once a month to keep my neighbors away. Such a simple and effective strategy to avoid shallow people. I like acting ‘insane’.
@greendrummers4 ай бұрын
@@oldworldwildona550 what a brilliant idea. If you did a video of it and put it on KZbin, you would get many subscribers.
@hongolloyd87284 ай бұрын
More of us are on the same wavelength then you think. Stay on your purpose.Thank you for being reasonable.
@Organicme14 ай бұрын
Yes, I believe so too.
@carr03024 ай бұрын
Than* jk, love you and agree with you!
@lisabutton86184 ай бұрын
We call these moments “divine appointments” my friend! The Spirit, recognises the Spirit 💪
@GazBobTalks4 ай бұрын
Someone could talk to me about the price of bread and I'll up going off on a rant about the government and the NWO etc...I don't get invited to parties these days.
@edie43214 ай бұрын
I have the tendency to do that, too. It blows my mind how blind people are. Plus, I really want to meet someone like you, so that we can get this stuff off of our hearts. Hopefully soon. I'll see you then.
@tammyh.84544 ай бұрын
@@edie4321You cant be serious , most people want the court jester to make them laugh or are you a republicans or democrat? I understand where you are coming from, I am the same, we want to help warn people, but the ship has left the harbor. Its hard I know, I have given up on my family, They think I am nutz, knowing the truth is very hard, you will find a rare one that will hear you. good luck
@JillTipton-vo4gl4 ай бұрын
I'm feeling the same so I don't say anything now🤗🦘🇦🇺
@melk67204 ай бұрын
You would be bored stiff going to their silly parties 🤣🤣
@wunderinwyndfeatherakaskje88724 ай бұрын
Lol...same...😄👌🇨🇦
@TheLastChristian14 ай бұрын
Every time I chat .. I get banned? …The biggest problem we all got ..we forgot how to talk to each other.
@kristy93374 ай бұрын
I just keep typing and see what makes it through. They want us to give up and quit posting. I won't🙂. How about you?
@TheLastChristian14 ай бұрын
@@kristy9337 ..I’ll keep going ..It’s what we do…🕶
@MrMigido4 ай бұрын
Yup, and split words. Ie.. "ne ver gi ve up" @@kristy9337
@melk67204 ай бұрын
Lots of people feel like you, we will get our good world back, don't give up being nice and kind 😇
@rogerlewis64884 ай бұрын
I'm with you there Carl. I can't do small talk either, Never have, even as a kid. The thing is that I remember in my childhood that many kids did engage in deeper stuff when talking. I think it is because kids are eager to learn, given a chance, and are willing to test out their ideas at a deeper level. As I have aged, 73 now, the circle of people I feel comfortable with has shrunk considerably. My youngest brother is not too bad, but my young sister was really switched on and we could really engage at a deep level. Unfortunately cancer took her many years ago and I miss her. With all that is going on now I would love to have someone I could regularly have a face to face conversation with. All my old Army mates that I could talk freely with are scattered all over the place.
@k919854 ай бұрын
Very rare to talk to someone and they don't pooh pooh everything i say. It's a shock when it happens
@tims94344 ай бұрын
I meet them all the time. It's like magnetism with me
@Zizzyyzz4 ай бұрын
"Sorry, Greta". 😂
@themacksteruk8744 ай бұрын
The Swedish Doom Goblin 😂
@lilcricket43794 ай бұрын
You still have joy in your heart, it comes out in your funnyness 😚 My "community" is small minded soooo... Gag! Off to talk to the garden spiders 🥳🌻🥀🕷️
@outoforbit004 ай бұрын
I've learned in life that the friends you have deep conversations with arent the ones who will stick around if your going through a crisis. The best friends in that situation are the practical, hands on, get things done type of people.
@jameskershaw60074 ай бұрын
I'm blessed i have my wife for this. Otherwise i'd be waiting to talk to Jesus face to face
@justinedevoe71664 ай бұрын
I met a lady in an antique shop. She owns the shop.. we atarted talking and I was so surprised to meet one like her out there who was so aware of things going on.💞👍
@EvaGenevaINextraordinarytimes4 ай бұрын
I get into deep conversations with strangers, mainly past issues, I try and help if I can. Unfortunately not so with anyone close to me, probably because superficiality was the standard in my family and relatives, it was like living in Jane Austen novel, visiting my great aunts we had tea and cake with a napkin and a fork, a look of horror or vexed comment if you didn't use a fork or napkin. 😀
@fowchiiiliedpuppiesdied4 ай бұрын
Not a massive fan of small talk either. Yup - keep on keepin’ on, buddy. We are with you.
@jokennedy29433 ай бұрын
It’s not “weather” , it’s Geoengineering
@jselliot79583 ай бұрын
I recently said exactly that to someone I vaguely know after they complained about the autumn-like weather in July here in the UK, they stared at me as if I had just arrived from mars then made their excuses and scurried off! Hey ho!
@lordbogdanoff89394 ай бұрын
Humanity is over-socialised to the point of utter neurosis. Keep vibrating at your highest frequency and let the law of attraction do the rest.
@stonerubber4 ай бұрын
Yes. And the right brain has been put in a straightjacket by the left.
@melk67204 ай бұрын
Agree with you stay away from plastic people
@jelkel254 ай бұрын
I do enjoy listening to the nonsense/nothing conversations when they are required to be longer. It's a dance of two people trying to make out they like each other, are enjoying said conversation while revealing nothing of significance about themselves to the other person. This is apparently normal. It's a dying art form though as it gets in the way of having phone jammed in face which must be adhered to during all waking hours.
@MeditationsbyICEMAN4 ай бұрын
Good channel thank you
@aprilhebert87103 ай бұрын
You are the only person on the platform that speaks from Experience. I have met no one that can teach anyone anything about the human Experience. Soul deep . It's like people don't know how to work on themselves. Bushcraft great skill we can learn from it. But it's really about the human body and the mind and how it works and how we can get in these topics and grow from it. This needs to be discussed. We're at the last if the human experience. And still nobody knows who they are. What makes us do the things we do and why we do them. And what purpose we have on this world. That's the change we need. Because there isn't enough of us that's clear.
@pallasathena13694 ай бұрын
That movie called One by One with Rik Mayal in it, expresses exactly what you're saying. Based in a cake cafe.
@crow49364 ай бұрын
Yes and I miss her alot.
@greendrummers4 ай бұрын
You miss Greta the entertainer with orange paint?
@margaretpierce52684 ай бұрын
Feeling your hurt. 🤗
@carlvernontalks4 ай бұрын
You have all our thoughts and prayers.
@crow49364 ай бұрын
@@greendrummers no some one special
@greendrummers4 ай бұрын
@@crow4936 Is it a crow? l love crows too
@petercordingley9274 ай бұрын
Synchronicity is such a common theme in my life now, since I have gone down the meditation and spiritual rabbit hole, meeting people and striking up deep conversations about world events and creative pursuits. I am a very sociable person who can strike up conversation with most people and this has been so beneficial in gaining knowledge on a huge range of subjects that has not only benefited me, but my family and people around me. Thoroughly looking forward to reading your new book!!
@embers-cotswold-walks4 ай бұрын
Thankfully I have & I'm blessed (in a non conventional religion/ous way).
@clik3653 ай бұрын
Every taxi driver i have spoken to, they are well aware.
@LulyNo14 ай бұрын
I dont like small talk either ...I like big talk about big tingzzz
@最高KevyK4 ай бұрын
Massif tingz, innit?
@LulyNo14 ай бұрын
@@最高KevyK Humoungous tingzzz 👊😁 Bigger than we can even imagine 🙌💥💥💥💥
@richardnicholls95693 ай бұрын
I hate small talk too, BUT, the weather has been nice today.
@scotty79544 ай бұрын
On your page Carl. Free range philosophers like yourself are few and far between. A chance encounter with a like minded individual who wishes to ponder life, the universe and everything is an uplifting experience. I see it as frequency, co-resonance and perception. Echo your thoughts brother.
@MeditationsbyICEMAN4 ай бұрын
Popcorn chat is what I would call it- never was a fan
@princebuster933 ай бұрын
Most people operate on a surface level of life, because it suits them. I have always questioned things and always been called, to deep, or you think to much. started digging a lot more around 12 years ago when I realised I was being lied to constantly, and that it appeared to be excepted as normal, most people switch off when you get deep, which means a lonely existence most of the time. When your soul is touched by the truth of God, and your reconciliation with him, your on the narrow path which leads to life eternal ❤
@silentwalk17683 ай бұрын
Some of the nicest people to talk to are the ones who think like you when you're out and about it's like you've known each other for years that's how Strong The divide is
@wideyxyz22713 ай бұрын
Sage words Mr Vernon sir.
@Lee_3034 ай бұрын
Festivals were great for this. Not the huge thing Glastonbury but the small ones.
@MichaelRath-t9s3 ай бұрын
I mentally drain people wen i stop for a chat with them!😮
@astrodruid.darkarunez.88504 ай бұрын
There is plenty out there, you would be surprised, thought all this kinda stuff is a given, all part of the test, find yourself find your peace
@sarahmollin45163 ай бұрын
Unearned wisdom can be dangerous for peoples minds.
@AntiDecepticonCampaign3 ай бұрын
Made up stuff is pretty bad too. I know I’m not hopeless though, I don’t listen to Billy Carson.
@samdemic33734 ай бұрын
This is a very ironic video Carl. Only yesterday I experienced this. In a butty shop a comment made about something stupid to the proprietor, to which he commented we are living in a mad world....BAM that was it, instant connection, we conversed about the last 5 years as if we were old mates. Very, very therapeutic to find a kindred spirit with eyes wide open.
@carlvernontalks4 ай бұрын
👍
@fatbaldguy71664 ай бұрын
Ok, as a clueless American, could someone explain what a butty shop is ????
@samdemic33734 ай бұрын
@@fatbaldguy7166 Hello buddy. I wrote the comment. I live in Lancashire, England. A butty is local dialect for a sandwich of bread containing meat or cheese or any other filling. Therefore a butty shop is like a delicatessen where they make sandwiches to order. Hope that clarifies the comment. 👍👍
@samdemic33734 ай бұрын
@@carlvernontalks Hello Carl, thanks for the thumbs up. This may raise a smile An American has just responded to my comment as well. He wanted to know what a Butty Shop is. We often forget our dialects are unique to cultures and countries, thats one of the many things we cant let the globalists destroy.
@fatbaldguy71664 ай бұрын
@@samdemic3373 Thanks for info !
@steveakka3 ай бұрын
I usually start off the conversation with what do you think about those fucking chemtrails? 😀👀👍
@jselliot79583 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@LeeJahn-ih9xu3 ай бұрын
Not many … have a friend of 55 years and it’s only ever small talk …. I keep my distance she insists on impeding my privacy … horrible situation
@sheryle37153 ай бұрын
I am currently an almost hermit. Widow, Grandma and always been an introvert. If I engage in a conversation with someone, I warn them that I am just horrible with small talk. We go from there! I miss my husband because we engaged in interesting conversations and he would trip me up by stating some most outrageous things.😃☀️
@Riffwood432hz4 ай бұрын
a couple of times ,you feel energised :)
@raychambers364626 күн бұрын
Difficult to get them to put their phones down , for a chat .
@Organicme14 ай бұрын
I've only had a few people on here I can do that with, none in real life. I'm too deep, too outgoing, too dominate, too open, too opinionated, and too Christian for my family and people around me. I'm just not any of their cup of tea and they take great pleasure in telling me. Stay strong, love you, and God bless & be with us all.
@JonnyParker-4 ай бұрын
Start quoting stuff from Michael Tsarion presentations to really start freaking the normies out .
@Organicme14 ай бұрын
@@JonnyParker- ROFL I should be having fun with them but mans it still shocks me.
@melk67204 ай бұрын
You can never be too Christian. If you have to lose everything in this life, Jesus will reward you. Your pain and sacrifices regarding your family will probably be their salvation. God bless you 🙏
@Organicme14 ай бұрын
@@melk6720 I pray that is so, TY so much & God bless you too!
@margittasaager72383 ай бұрын
You need to engage in sections for the most part, otherwise they'll turn and start running...Meanwhile I'm older and have become ' courageous ' with my topics. The majority who listen will humour me for awhile and find a way to depart politely and those remaining ' In The Club Of No Return ' are enthrolled and full of meaningful conversation. Quite an interesting observation.
@dennisbailey60674 ай бұрын
He said,then she said,then I said,is not a conversation I want to hear.Boring.🤪
@moonlightHare4 ай бұрын
..I honestly believe in my lifetime there will only ever be a handful of really likeminded souls assuming I'm fortunate enough to cross paths with. I'm a deep empath, it's hard to find people with whom I connect with 💜
@Patricia-lc9yl3 ай бұрын
I would like to meet someone like that
@opticalman64173 ай бұрын
everything in this life is playing out the way it meant to be and has a much greater picture be hide all of it in life you can either fight the tide or ride with the waves the choose is yours you create the suffering
@MrSHarper573 ай бұрын
The only connection l've made with someone in my life turned out to be the biggest secret close to They Live.
@terencechapman36994 ай бұрын
I can
@Patricia-lc9yl3 ай бұрын
No I haven't
@lisaharrison21973 ай бұрын
yes!
@deanmadley47863 ай бұрын
It’s not earthly supper- natural powers we require it’s divine intervention
@JonnyParker-4 ай бұрын
It's hard to come across genuine people even genuine friends these days . The majority of folks have been completely sucked into the social media alter ego life , neglecting their own true self it's pretty vile to see it . They don't want to face up to anything real in the world it's all just too easy to keep lying to themselves . More bothered about getting coked up to bits and going on nights out than actually working for some real change .
@meisterlymanu52144 ай бұрын
UK govnmt will kill Millennials. It will strip them of all tangible assets, their money, their hopes while allowing rents and taxes to decimate them. And whos lurking behind them.. the Gen Alphas, 13 now but 25 soon, who will proceed to mock them as Millennials do to Gen X today. Only the Millennials will still be poor, desperate, lost and middle aged. And i suspect the latter description will haunt them the most.
@theoutlier90533 ай бұрын
I hate small talk. I love to talk about deep philosophical and theological topics. As a result my circle is quite small
@anonimzudny32003 ай бұрын
2:38 weather However auuuu xD
@ED-209UHDАй бұрын
Small talk is hideous
@esme684 ай бұрын
Quite a few times.
@everythingisupsidedown95934 ай бұрын
My wife, from Canada, said 'it is almost impossible to get past a second meeting depth with English people, even if yiu have known them for 20 years. Everytime you spend time with them is the same as the 2nd time you spent time with them." There isn't much depth.
@WMA317804 ай бұрын
U trollin, u just described 95% of humans
@stephanielane18214 ай бұрын
Hi Carl, what's with all the comment's about crypto and money making ? lot's of comments are way off topic
@princebuster933 ай бұрын
Never forget how much God loves you ❤ 1 John 4:16 - And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love: and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God and God in him. Zephaniah 3:17 The Lord thy God in the midst of thee is Mighty; he will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing
@JQ-s8h4 ай бұрын
Simulation 😂
@opticalman64173 ай бұрын
The whole world is a stage with many actors reading off a script all playing there part in the Theatre show of earthy life in which every character has a preconceived life that interwoven with other peoples life and as time go on certain characters will drop out of the play we call this death how ever each character plays a vital role in the growth of other characters in the show how ever every character has planed what it going to experience with other souls the point i am making from all of this is the whole of reality in this world is already mapped out and be hide everything that plays out in this world is a much greater picture noting should be taken Seriously in this world every thing that plays out is serving something for the greater good this is a dream world noting is real its a theatre shows and a training ground for souls to learn and growth so they can become a better soul and go up through the higher realms
@oldworldwildona5504 ай бұрын
You can connect with 10-15% of human population. So what are the chances meeting a person who is on your wavelength? That is why deep people are lonely and suffer (or enjoy their solitary life).
@vrtx33563 ай бұрын
Deep people are not lonely or suffer.. they live here and now in a continuum...grow up
@oldworldwildona5503 ай бұрын
This is what I said in my comment, ‘or enjoy solitary life’ Improve your attention span.
@terencechapman36994 ай бұрын
Meet 27
@KerryWoolley-d5l3 ай бұрын
Greta's never seen a real cloud....
@colettes97584 ай бұрын
🕊❤️🕊
@JaxSwim14 ай бұрын
What kind of vehicle are you in?
@waynephillips76003 ай бұрын
Polite society is dead from the neck up 😞
@ROMANS3-25KJV4 ай бұрын
Jesus Christ saves from hell. Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1st Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Jesus shed His blood for our sins (Ephesians 1:7 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1st Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not our works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).
@tims94344 ай бұрын
Was it a comment here that did it? I don't understand this
@cee8mee4 ай бұрын
@@tims9434 Every video, lately.
@godsgrasshopper2724 ай бұрын
@@cee8mee So you are without excuse when you stand before, Christ.
@cee8mee4 ай бұрын
@@godsgrasshopper272 Well, there's a big blind jump to a conclusion.
@edie43214 ай бұрын
@@tims9434 I think they are bots like the political ones. I want to report them for spam.
@melk67204 ай бұрын
Accept Jesus Christ into your life and He will lead you to those deeper levels of truth that you are talking about. With Him in our lives we will be able to fulfil our life's purpose. Read the Gospels and see 🙏
@mamzellilooo4 ай бұрын
*Romans 8:28 And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. Awesome God ❤️my family are happy once again and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement.$37k weekly returns has been life changing, after so much struggles.*
@babytruca024 ай бұрын
Hello how do you make such weekly?? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God.
@mamzellilooo4 ай бұрын
@@babytruca02Maria Angelina Alexander I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.
@mamzellilooo4 ай бұрын
I remember giving her my first savings $20000 and she opened a brokerage account for me it turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me.
@KuramaUchiha-id1ow4 ай бұрын
This is a definition of God's unending provisions for his people. God remains faithful to his words. I receive this for my household.🙏❤
@marcosvg904 ай бұрын
I've been hearing lots of good things, and her trading strategies and programs are great!❤
@sorrycharlie57734 ай бұрын
Present ..
@Preston22444 ай бұрын
Where are you sitting?
@LeroyReed-xp3ct4 ай бұрын
Yep
@jmp8144 ай бұрын
💯
@jshaw47574 ай бұрын
You must have polish or baltic ancestry like me then if dont like small talk lol...yh i hear ya its rare can jump in a hate too say the word but deeper convo..but its not deeper is it i see all topics as just a topic like cars or history or space or paint or psychology there all just topics in our reality arnt they i suppose so yh unless we are talking about the vast unexplored oceans then deeper is appropriate..😂 cheers
@michaelart48784 ай бұрын
ABBA FATHER GOD did create the simplest of fabrics (H²O, waters) to sustain all forms of life here on earth The Jordan, Euphrates, Bow and EL-bow are all rivers 🙌 ALLELUIA 🙌 HABAKKUK 3:9 🌱 LIFE IS BUT A VAPOUR 🌹 💘
@mtlicq4 ай бұрын
How do you get the H² ?
@michaelart48783 ай бұрын
@@mtlicq Habakkuk 3:9 Thy bow was made quite naked (bare), according to the oaths of the tribes (oaths were sworn over your arrows), even thy word. Selah. Thou didst cleave (divided) the earth with rivers.
@terencechapman36994 ай бұрын
2 seconds
@phaethon31244 ай бұрын
no.never met anyone. .what was that last plastering video about?not going to watch it all