Have Your Standards In Men Changed As You've Gotten Older? - Out Loud With Claudia Jordan

[@hawdarkshooter]

These ladies are pushing 40 still thinking like high schoolers.

[@litrojan]

And will call men shallow when they're no longer attracted to them in their 50s.

[@litrojan]

@GotAL2Say They could do what they want. They just sound ridiculous when they complain the men they desire don't want them back, though. You hear complaints about being unwanted all the time, especially from black women, yet they spout off superficial things they want in a man. That's like me, a short guy, complaining that tall Scandinavian models don't want me but ignoring the all around average woman who do.

[@moenaethomas7337]

@GotAL2Say VERY MUCH SO INDEED YESSSSS ♥️ P'S'REALLY

[@Cahluvca]

Our culture is now grown individuals that cant take criticism and grow...

[@JelaniB28]

hawdarkshooter - Women are nothing but grown children. Many men are have been mislead about this.

[@313designs]

Runaway from women who say “I need to be put in my place .” That means she likes to argue and be at odds with their man.

[@football4914]

Survivor313 correct

[@pacha777]

Gordon Payne true a lot of time they put mixed or light skinned and make them as they represent us dark skin people... it’s all confusion and deception...

[@mr_knowitall]

Like she needs to be disciplined like a child.

[@heruthemaster]

Yeah she crazy...

[@dominiqueosorio-davis6781]

She's usually combative she'll call you just to find a way to beef. She'll shit test you for the purpose of beefing when nothing is going wrong.

[@c.j.196]

"Men aren't so worry about how we feel" 🙄 You like street dudes that aren't street dudes

[@MsRobin-rt4jm]

lol whyyyyy and now I see why she doesn't have a man like seriously

[@nicholusjones6243]

Lmao

[@justinwinfree7843]

I know right it's like I like virgins with 30 years of experience.

[@miloboy55]

This line took me out. You have a type and that type doesn’t care about you but NO It’s all men’s fault because you live in delusion.

[@rangariraikunedzimwe2780]

they want a medical doctor who acts like 2pac..

[@MrBmore45]

Don't smoke ,don't drink, but be in the streets. You can tell she immature as far as relationships go.

[@perfectbeat]

💯

[@shookone568]

rbd the problem with men is that once we see a pair of nice tits, personality and character become secondary. If you took her personality, level of maturity and character and placed it in a man, would you be good friends with that man?? Probably not.

[@JS-jm9sq]

Lmao

[@musashi-san____1409]

She is clueless. 100% he is cheating on her.

[@EButta71]

Exactly!!

[@reboundingfromnarcissistic5386]

Good men do care about how you feel, narcs dont.

[@AvecPoesie]

That's absolutely right. Some women go from one relationship with a narc to another and then another and make the conclusion that all men are terrible when that's not the case. Don't get trapped in a cycle of narcissistic abuse.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

@@AvecPoesie lol most attractive women are narcisitic if you look at the dictionary definition. Men just don't care about feelings as much as women, that doesn't make someone narcisitic, it means they don't like to waste time on nonsense

[@AvecPoesie]

@@PCSPITTER4NY I am referring to the condition of malignant narcissism. It is a psychological issue that is extremely difficult to treat let alone engage with. This is not the same as someone simply being vain, this goes much deeper and is often at the root of many abuser's behaviors and inability to feel empathy. While I believe narcissism is pervasive, especially today, a malignant narcissist is a breed of it's own. Male or Female, such people are highly toxic and should be kept away from.

[@PCSPITTER4NY]

@@AvecPoesie narcissists are not the problem, you are. Every human being has a little of everything in them. Stop deflecting and reflect Stop investing too much of your energy in what psychologists say, you will always think people are in need of mental help( even when they are not)Psychologists create boogey monsters to get paid . Go buy a new car and take it to a mechanic, they gonna want to fix something. Women if u want to know about men, listen to men. We are not all similar, don't ever believe that.

[@AvecPoesie]

@@PCSPITTER4NY Stop. You are misconstruing where I am coming from and you have jumped to erroneous conclusions. You have no comprehension of my personal approach to self-awareness, life, and relationships. Your statements are those of someone that has either not endured such abusers or has perhaps inflicted such abuses yourself. Return to my initial statement. I made it very clear that not all men are similar. Your assertion that psychologists are cultivating falsehoods purely for money is ignorant. Personality Disorders are very real. Mental and emotional health impacts everything.Therapy can be hugely beneficial and healing. You believe understanding is based upon the capacity to listen but you contradict this sentiment by choosing not to do so in your closed-mindedness. You think psychology is not worth consideration? Especially as it pertains to relationships?

[@brandonm.254]

Generalizing can be misleading. It all boils down to maturity for both male and female. FYI, maturity isn't base on age (Just saying)...

[@firesign4297]

👍🏿👍🏿

[@klccostello1273]

Amen

[@micolespicer9711]

We can't confuse growing older with growing up.

[@joycewatt800]

Brandon M. So so true!

[@alicerogers1961]

Absolutely👍

[@gjones9831]

This conversation is ridiculous and these sistas (like many) have no idea of what they want. Good brothas/men all around them and they want the bad boy who dresses up nice. Silly.

[@firesign4297]

👍🏿👍🏿

[@marcusbrooks1185]

Perfectly stated.

[@PragmaticProminence]

@Amor Ankh that's a lie the desire is always there 🤣

[@Sageboy13]

G Whiz exactly, my family always asking me and my cousins why we still single cause we’re pretty easy going guys and I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s just an age thing, 22 now but few years from now lotta chicks will wished they stuck around

[@TURBOBEATZZZ]

The Bible calls them silly women for a reason...

[@mrdavidashley6892]

Half and half lol Lil light skin is DUMB young " i want him to be street, but not in the streets, but he don't smoke and drink, but he's about his family" LMAO lord help men in their 20's. Lord help men, in general lol

[@BG-it7hb]

She is what the red head was in her youth...

[@Whatsyourproblem99]

Yes she has to be 19 because that reasoning is very childish

[@tracey6999]

I agree she doesn’t even know the full woman she will one day become.... she makes no sense...when you confuse what your looking for for what you want you always get it wrong. When it fits right you’ll know... it’s just like the perfect handbag or shoes for ladies... don’t walk in shoes that hurt your feet then expect to get better results... it will lead to busted toes lol.

[@TheThriftQueen]

Mr David Ashley she sound dinky. Like baby no 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@everythingyouneededtoknow332]

As crazy as it sounds that's how a lot of men in their 20s especially early 20s are. They are made for each other.

[@riddickj16]

With the exception with the woman in the braids all I heard a was a bunch of jump off looking for a man to make them a honest woman.

[@smc983]

Facts

[@moenaethomas7337]

IN MY OPINION NOT ROCISE

[@sasthyme8857]

riddickj16 .... true.

[@Hannibal730]

the home wrecker

[@bauttiet.h.u.g.5900]

I picked up on that to. She also had the least to say. She understands

[@thesheshed1775]

The sooner we stop taking relationshp advice from each other, the soon we will win.

[@fredricmartin3639]

Very true

[@stevietstevens9384]

Lol!!

[@cephas5053]

@Tony O'shea no dont follow your heart. These women on the panel are all following their hearts...

[@ricorogers9319]

But when men tell yall the truth, yall dont wannna hear it

[@jammalaustin8455]

Amen baby 💯✊🏾✌🏾

[@h.peters]

Type- is attraction based on the surface and/or appearance of the person only. Standards- is based implicitly on your values and morals aligning with the individual. You must both be on the same page in mindset.

[@lonelrick]

Thanks. I wasn’t ever really sure if it was answered

[@jaquanliljon]

They talking a whole lot of nothing 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@duncanthedelinquent493]

jaquan liljon that’s women for ya lol

[@1tuffbulldog.]

I agree with you. Shorty in the blue dress I dig though

[@AlfieTank]

In other news, water is wet🤷🏿‍♂️😂😂

[@Sombra_Azul_]

Straight!

[@billionaire33]

As a man, I think women put too much emphasis on finding a man instead of allowing a man to find them.

[@jayluv34]

Baby girl with the braids said she doesn't look lets them come to her.

[@billionaire33]

@Gemini Love Agreed.

[@Juiceish1]

Because Women hate being alone.

[@billionaire33]

@Emmia B yes

[@MicMurphy1981]

Preach brother!!! they act like they weren't promiscuous also then all of a sudden want a good man

[@KDR-ql4td]

Claudia started the conversation off with the GOD to honest truth. The men that they want, don't want them. Literally she could have just ended the show right there. GOD is not the author of confusion. You should stop rewarding childish and confused men. And do some good work for the good LORD and a good man will be added to you.

[@MsStewart920]

KDR 1224 best comment on here

[@acp2078]

Real Talk Queen

[@moenaethomas7337]

COULDN'T SAID IT' BEST 🗣️

[@nicholusjones6243]

She is 1000% correct. But women don't wanna hear this.

[@GlobalK]

Yall kill me with this god talk. My goodness.

[@johnnyestrada6993]

You don’t attract the same men in your 20s that you do in your 40s. When you’re young and beautiful you can get away with A LOT because we as men are dumbasses when we are young and will put up with attitudes and red flags just to get a taste. In your 40s not so much because the odometer has a lot of miles, that new car scent is long gone.

[@larrycoleman9513]

Lol im not trying to agree with you but you are right.

[@David-ej1ps]

Facts

[@vr4892]

Also think that we as men become wiser as well. That same 20 to 40 example applies to us too.

[@WidebodyLotty]

You need more likes and comments on this thread. What you said is nothing less that 💯 truth.

[@dsword456]

Plus our IQ is turned all the way up to female's bullshit

[@latoyacross7061]

This conversation was all over the place. Claudia, get another panel of women please.

[@Cahluvca]

💯

[@JaeWest]

Jesus Christ. They was killin' me.

[@Trayson11]

Oh thank you

[@prettybrown6201]

Exactly! I can't with them.

[@riddickj16]

These are typical bw talking points. She said I want a man who’s street but not in the streets 🤦🏾‍♂️. I wonder how that’s working out🤔

[@FredTechSc]

right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@danijones819]

She really don't know what she wants thats why

[@insomthegreat]

Her father was probably half way home so.....

[@mr.shakur3930]

she wants a fuck boy. a lot of these dude just "look" street. thats what she wants...she's a fucking clown herself.

[@quackdracular7610]

Yeah she's young. She is the type that's going to end up like Claudia and Rocsi in there 40s if her attitude and oultlook doesn't change. If you listen to the full episode I think she was having an aha moment when the expert mentioned that you attract fuckboys when your social media is all about showing ass and being sexual. You need to put out what you want to attract.

[@thepoetrybender]

When it comes to relationships and men-these women are completely lost. Especially the light skin girl with the curly hair. She’s lost! Most of the conversation was filled with superfluous talk. At the end of the day, it was outright uninformative and misleading.

[@bigkeezo]

Mashayla says she don’t want some guy to come home after he kill somebody. But he can be on paperwork and a felon 🤒

[@rangariraikunedzimwe2780]

i think she means crimes which don't involve murder and violence..

[@rangariraikunedzimwe2780]

@@bballforlife1231 none!, but that's what that woman is implying.

[@bballforlife1231]

@@rangariraikunedzimwe2780 opps sawry I was reading that wrong

[@darnell607]

So she can't date a police officer, politician, president, armed forces officer etc cause they all kill people but they're celebrated. These women are programmed

[@dominiqueosorio-davis6781]

That was a knee slapper. Murders her cut off point.

[@eeedubbleu]

That last statement is very telling about Rosci's own personality. No accountability, no humility, no mention of what she did wrong in all her failed relationships-she is the common denominator after all.

[@FredTechSc]

none!!!!! sad!!!!!

[@lesleymarie7005]

e dub I thought the same thing!! She’s the same female who like to sleep with other people’s husbands.

[@kelcibee1648]

Didn't she sleep with Lisa Rayes husband She seems very immature - imagine years back smh

[@seattlestunna]

💯

[@pray4us688]

Rocsi been community property from the jump. She’s talking bout going to the other side (white men), guess she forgot she’s Spanish, but truthfully they might not even want her back 😂🤦🏿‍♂️

[@conjunction7959]

The only thing that can keep a man is a man that wants to be kept!

[@asiagoins0004]

The one with the short bob really doesnt seem to know what she wants. Someone else needs to be on this panel.

[@firesign4297]

Her mentality is...immature 😞

[@Aggie4life77]

She was the one that confused me the most. She looks young, so that could be her issue.

[@JohnSmith-er7dw]

You gotta keep her on the panel for variety in women, her words represent a group of womens in America.

[@MrVdurrell]

I think they have her there for a younger perspective

[@MrVdurrell]

Yea she don't have a clue

[@sarcasm176]

Women need to start understanding we are different than men in all aspects. Stop assuming they are like us because they aren’t and vice versa

[@Cahluvca]

Generation of wanting to think men and women are the same...it has consequences

[@Hannibal730]

exactly!

[@pacha777]

KLUV yeap never seen so much confuse people smh

[@TheJosiahrosette]

I just reminded of what my friend said: prettiest women have the most issues.

[@vanessah4545]

They should talk about how having a father or not having a father shaped their thoughts on picking a man. I think that's why some women make bad decisions when it comes to men. We learned as young girls what to expect from a man that's why it's important for fathers to be in their childrens especially their daughters life. Don't just blame them for always wanting a bad boy or thug. Ask who put the thought in their head to WANT a thug or pretty boy.

[@JennHayden]

personal responsibility would be nice too. furthermore, the mother dictates the men in the child's life. ask mama who put it in their head.

[@shesuschrist4472]

And I've seen girls with their fathers in their life who sets a great example of what a man is and still pick the shittiest dudes... face it it's not that deep

[@thaqafahstyle]

@TheChicago's Great yeah I believe that's because fathers being in a girls life nowadays have nothing to do with what she sees as an example of a mate that should be chosen. The culture has raised these women and the culture has more of an influence over their thinking than the very men in their homes.

[@at3852]

Vanessa H Your thoughts and mines Exactly I felt the same way watching this

[@harlemkidd82485]

Style Diversity this is facts! And social media has played a huge role

[@Richie2k6]

This video is a bunch of single, hurt, confused, inconsistent, man-trashing women. I wonder why they're single.

[@assadnite8429]

I don't see that. I think this is the least man bashing panel I've ever seen.

[@THAPRISA]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@maebeacook]

@@assadnite8429 Glad you noticed it too.....the least male bashing panel.

[@maebeacook]

People need to stop being so butt hurt because someone made a comment and it inadvertently called out your character.

[@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-7596]

The Lady With The Braids is Beautiful.

[@HeavyMental1000]

She is the only halfway intelligent one up there. The rest are going to end up alone as they play games and the wall approaches.

[@BG-it7hb]

Natural looking hair style. She was the quite and made actually sense. No coincidence.

[@TicketsTheMovie]

Your standards have changed because you've hit the wall. The wall comes for them all gentlemen. Remember that.

[@waynesworldizm]

SolidTree exactly (red pill)

[@Ncnnn29]

I hope rocsi did change her type of man cuz they tend to be the already married type lmaoo

[@moenaethomas7337]

HOW YOU' NO THAT'

[@darlenej9999]

moenae Thomas is that you Rocsi

[@madridista703usa3]

Nope sorry old and used we want young and tight

[@kdeloris2225]

These women don't know what they want their talking in circles

[@jb33rd]

Can we get a mans perspective now we’re tired of woman perspective! It’s old!!! But the woman with the colorful braids was the most intelligent one on the stage because she understands men are different species then woman so I loved her answer 💯

[@denicewms]

Yes, even on the phone they couldn't have a man comment? C'mon.

[@sexyblackcharlery]

Yea I liked her

[@jb33rd]

Denice Williams right exactly lol

[@jb33rd]

Dani J me too I agree

[@miyahisrael4855]

I agree with the woman with the braids. She understand that's a man's nature. Not all but a lot of men do this. Even in other cultures they have more than one wife. But here in America you can do all unimaginable things you can think of and it can be legal but you can't marry more than one to build a community.

[@Self-helper415]

No one should do “wifey” duties without being an actual wife. What does he have to work for when your giving those privileges away for being a girlfriend. It’s like for him getting a Maserati for 10k it doesn’t happen.

[@slingeries]

Double R what’s wifely duties? Is sex considered the ultimate wifely duty?

[@slingeries]

Double R typo “Wifey”

[@Self-helper415]

ecilop Dorsey no that’s not what I’m talking about but that can be included

[@zero1188]

No such thing as wifey duties . If you can perform wifey qualities before marriage it means you dont have any qualities of a wife and not worth it

[@slingeries]

L.B.E. Vanguard true

[@tobeerike8630]

Grown women with childish mentalities and they wonder why they are single or in poor relationships.. not one of them took responsibility for their failed partnerships

[@meddeck]

Rosci is really not likeable. I don't like listening to her.

[@nmessai215]

meddeck lol

[@moenaethomas7337]

WHY IS THAT'

[@meddeck]

@@moenaethomas7337 something about her...seems disingenous. 🤷‍♀️

[@youknowwhatflav9916]

She like to date husbands

[@idanceforthestars]

@@meddeck yup

[@henrylester4051]

Why do women like men that are dangerous and into criminal activity? Men that cause them to put their lives in danger and harms way. Black woman ask yourself these simple questions!

[@Trini190]

She meant to say she wants a man that’s a protector she associates street as being a key factor in knowing he is a strong man and not a push over!

[@wongel3950]

Social programming

[@henrylester4051]

@@Trini190 Still not worth it in the long run.

[@innerpowerup]

@@Trini190 A protector doesn't put a woman in dangerous situations,immature girls find street dudes attractive because dangerous fun is entertaining until someone gets hurt.

[@MC-xv3eu]

Chick w braids is like “who is these dumb broads past 40 talkin bout dating?” 🤦‍♂️

[@melechdomeyhwh]

In my (joker laugh)lol😄

[@usthefolksmusic]

The lady with the braids understands female/Male nature

[@willemdee]

The girl with the braids was preaching.

[@jlofton52]

that sister with the braids is dropping some serious science....check out Shahazard Ali....forgive the spelling

[@brianlove984]

They go on shows like this and complain about being single and are clueless about why they are alone.

[@Cahluvca]

Have to take accountability to make change in ones life

[@sunnyboateng180]

brian love not all of them are single . Rewatch the video

[@bigaceboogiewoogie1928]

Alicia Monet was the quietest and ended up making the most intelligible point when discussing actual human nature between the two genders.

[@kyserjose4183]

@Ricardo LaCue Usually the one that speaks the least says the most. Totally agree with your comment.

[@vr4892]

Agreed

[@tommydesir2788]

She made the most sense but she as well doesn't have her game on point. None of them do. The girl with braids just was a bit better

[@THERISEOFNATTURNER]

ALicia Monet,,, Did DROP GEMS ON THEM & ROCSI WAS IN DENIAL WITH THOSE FACTS THAT,,WOMEN FORM BOND'S AFTER SEX WITH ONE MAN!,,,WOMAN ARE NOT TO BE WITH MULTIBLE MEN!,,ONCE SHE'S PREGO SHE'S NO GOOD TO HER DATING PARTNERS NO MATTER HOW CUTE SHE IS!,,BUT MEN COULD ALWAYS MOVE AROUND THE WORLD & GET HUNDREDS OF WOMEN PRENANT!

[@travisfreeman3353]

I love how some black women can have all the standards in the world but let a group of black men sit down and talk about how we have standards our likes and dislikes in women all hell would break loose! There's nothing wrong with standards but let's be realistic and honest with our standards..

[@litrojan]

This and the fact that many black women are usually the ones to complain they can't find men because they believe the world thinks of them as ugly as a whole. The shorter, not as attractive guy like me who likes them get virtually ignored by them, yet, they're upset they can't get the tall, good looking brothers who are extremely short in supply.

[@FredTechSc]

Preach

[@faxxxovafeels]

Black men CAN’T have standards... even the slightest ones. Let a brotha say he only dates sistahs with natural hair and watch what happens... shit’ll be World War III up in here 😂

[@travisfreeman3353]

@@faxxxovafeels Facts 👍🏾

[@Cahluvca]

Consequences of a matriarchy

[@bobbyv2042]

When you give women the choice to speak freely and have their own panel discussions .... this is what you get ....

[@allishagreen4385]

Claudia is doing a great job glad to have this show ❤

[@itschrissy2012]

I went on a first and last date with a man that spoke so much about himself by the end of the date I found out he was obsessed with Asian women and had a foot fetish

[@tedtillman5952]

I traveled to Asia and I must admit the women are very feminine and loyal....Not to mention very beautiful.....👽🥀

[@tedtillman5952]

@Elyse George I don't deal with masculine women of any race...When I started to travel to other countries and experience women in a patriarchy culture I was enlighten....👽🥀

[@mr_knowitall]

@Elyse George Always blaming black men for your own problems. "Rest in your femininity"??? Good God!

[@Tomi_janet15]

Wow

[@rosemaryoneale6694]

😅😅😅😅 leave the men alone

[@danijones819]

Half the time women don't know what they want...then they mad cause they choose the wrong man

[@someguynamedpaul]

She said, she’s never been with a nice guy... To quote Yoda, “That’s, is why you failed”. 🤨

[@lionelkennedy1394]

Exactly.

[@acp2078]

CAN WE HVE THE MALE VERSION OF THIS EPISODE THE PANEL SHOULD BE 1 MARRIED MEN , A REFORMED PLAYER AND A SINGLE NERDY MALE LOL .

[@TREADYBREADY]

Straight contradictions. The more you listen to women the more you know nothing about women, lol

[@harlemkidd82485]

I left this shid more confused about woman than when I started watching lol

[@innerpowerup]

Women understand women and they don't like each other.🤷🏾‍♂️

[@mafmystic03]

Redpill content creators are gonna have a field day with this 😂😂😂

[@simoncameron4355]

You can't tell me you watch this video, and understand why some men just go red pill, They are all over the place and really have no clue what they want. Why would a sane person want to deal with that?

[@itschrissy2012]

If a man cannot afford more than one woman he don’t need to be having more than one woman and even then that should be a woman’s choice to be in that situation

[@mr.shakur3930]

its always the woman's choice sis.

[@lovexoxo251]

Mr. Shakur Yea but she’s saying that men should be upfront if they want to be polygamous and a lot of men aren’t doing that, they just lie and cheat because they don’t think it’ll be accepted but some women would be fine with it.

[@mr.shakur3930]

@@lovexoxo251 that in and of itself is a bold face lie. EVERY women I've personally heard say that they'd be cool with the truth and EVERY women I've heard say that in these forums get caught in the lie later in the conversation when presented with a scenario. Women lie all the time, but its never discussed. Women make these fucked up choices in men and then want to paint a general picture at the same time saying they have woman's intuition. if that were true they wouldn't believe half the bullshit those type of dudes tell them.

[@Trini190]

But that doesn’t stop the fact that a man is wired that way naturally, so now we have “evolved “ but it doesn’t mean men don’t still have that urge. That’s why they have found other ways to get want they want even if it means hurting us.

[@Cahluvca]

@@mr.shakur3930 Remember our culture pushes the narrative that women barely if ever lie

[@insomthegreat]

Females with multiple sexual partners is a major turn off.

[@danijones819]

Men with multiple sex partners..and various baby mamas

[@cyyrious]

Well go to a monastery

[@insomthegreat]

@@cyyrious They not all ho's but most are. Good luck

[@cyyrious]

Good luck to me? I’m a woman NOT looking for a woman I was offering YOU a suggestion 😐

[@insomthegreat]

@@cyyrious I was offering you advice....stop sleeping around.

[@7EmpathicBeauty]

See, my life has been the opposite. I've always been ahead of my age and loved nerds but they get terrified too quickly. They also think a girl like me wouldn't date them no matter how inviting I try to make things. I'm 27 now and I'm attracted to 40-50 year old men that look presentable with that sexy salt and pepper hair, have depth, intellect, and spiritual/ emotional intelligence. Maturity has always been something I like.

[@7EmpathicBeauty]

@The Truth Of maturity? Lol I guess. I've even had an older nice looking doctor lock me in the patient room and said, "I'm not supposed to be doing this" and we talked for about an hour. I could keep up with his conversation since I'm a Biology major. He was into me hard and love looking in my eyes buuuut, he let me leave without asking for my number. I was about 24 then. I'm old fashioned on a lot and can sense when a guy likes me but for some reason, yall be too scared to approach. It's like an intimidating thing even with "bad" boys. They all have a respect for me though. Maybe because I'm marriage material and they don't want to hurt me? Lol idk. I do know a guy said guys can pick up on which girls are easy but the same guy won't try games with me lol. I just don't get it. It isn't the friend zone they put me in tho...

[@7EmpathicBeauty]

@The Truth What pattern is that? And what am I or other females late for? I'm just curious. On the other hand, I let guys know that I don't mind being friends if that is what they choose but they don't give a clear answer. Now that I'm talking about it, it makes me think men only want hit it and I don't allow that. They don't get mad tho and want to remain in my life lol...so please elaborate

[@7EmpathicBeauty]

@The Truth Trust me, I do follow my own path when making these decisions. I try to ask men for advice but they usually like me so they don't want to reveal anything. This talk was very insightful and I am greatful for your answers. I have 1 man that I adore and he does me but he claims "busy" or "I have a daughter now". While I understand that, does living his purpose mean he can't hang out every now and then or he can't text me every now and then to see how I'm doing? When I have a problem with "us" he listens and says my feelings are valid but he doesn't go into depth in why he agrees. I don't want to pry b/c it may be something that will bruise his ego if he reveals it to me. He usually is blunt and tells me the truth but the part about hiding something bothers me so I ask him to please just say he doesn't want me or like me like that and we can move on but he says, "I can't say that b/c it wouldn't be true". He stays calm with me and tells me all the time how valuable I am to him but he won't hang out or whatever. So, I know men are different but, does he sound sketchy to you or should I be gullible and believe him? In other words is the saying " if a man really likes you, he will go after you" a true statement? It's a tricky situation.

[@7EmpathicBeauty]

@The Truth Wow, being the type of woman that I am, I have no problem with that. I respect that a lot actually lol. I'll keep this in mind and trust what he says since he gave me no reason to not trust him. Thanks again! 🙂

[@basemanawakens6089]

You like nerds but they get terrified too quickly? Ummm....what type of situations would you have them getting into with you for you to see them "terrified?" So that's your justification for dealing with thugs huh? Typically female lying with her words....

[@chooselove4307]

My first issue with this show is that it was suppose to be a show about "Have Your Standards in Men Changed As You've Gotten Older" - They were suppose to discuss the complexities of dating as a more mature woman. First of all, most of the guest did not come off as mature women and they did not speak in a way as such. I don't know mature women who want a street dude as long as he is not a gangster, who will date/marry a man with a prison record as long as he didn't shoot nobody in the head, or a woman who willing sleeps with a married man. Fox Soul had the wrong type of guest on here for this conversation, next time find women who actually are mature and have standards.

[@227blackmagic]

"I was dating multiple guys but wasnt sleeping with them..... I got my feelings hurt after the 7th booty call." These women cant be honest with themselves. The girl in braids brought up biological and historical facts and the girl next to her was just saying "nah nah nah nah"

[@sportstalkwithzo3707]

Same shit i said

[@blakelip3]

Mr. 215 facts

[@talayaallen7390]

Was not at all impressed by this panel discussion of women. And the what I assumed is a "self proclaimed" relationship expert... 😒

[@reason18]

I mean these the type of women that guys can classify within 5 minutes. I used to listen to Claudia Jordan talk about men 15 yrs ago and i knew that she was gonna be old, single, and childless. Old bitter broads can be seen decades in advance.

[@reason18]

@Good Life I did mean married. Why would i not mean that? I've been listening to her talk for over a decade about marriage and kids... and when it came to men, it was all about of shallow "qualifications" that she needed, but it was never about what she offered. Analogy: It was like looking for a job. She wanted a high salary, creative input, corner office, best parking spot, 8 weeks vacation, health insurance, retirement plan, and a company car. In return, she was a high school drop out. Now that her eggs are dried up.... now she want to talk about "Standards" and do then change. Nah, talk about the actual subject in the realest terms possibly. Do dumb broads "dumb" themselves out of potential happiness?

[@claudiajordanreal]

@@reason18 I dont need to tell YOU what Im offering or have to offer for a man---I let the man Im with know! COME on with the hate. JEEEZ! I'm a hard working supportive kind and good woman yet some of y'all wanna make me bad so damn bad you will resort to just putting anything on my name. I BEEN in a great relationship and my shit talking on the RADIO was just that. SMH

[@claudiajordanreal]

@Good Life thank u! I've never fully wanted kids and I didn't want to bring a child into the world until I was 10000% there.

[@jayluv34]

@@reason18 Church, Preach, Tabernacle! Amen to that analogy! Certified Facts!

[@basemanawakens6089]

@@claudiajordanreal so what did you tell him that you had to offer? So if you were shit talking on the radio how do we not know that you were shit talking on this show?

[@MC-xv3eu]

WAYMENT: Did she says perfect WIFEY at home? 😆😆! YOU ARE NOT A WIFE!!! YOU DOIN TOO MUCH! THATS THE PROBLEM!!! 🤦‍♂️

[@CDub-df2us]

Exactly! Why don’t women understand this?!?

[@martineli312]

A felon on the edge😕...good luck with that😒

[@babyboasty6033]

😂

[@rosemaryoneale6694]

😂😂😂😂😂 that what i said too

[@feesieroley187]

So rosci said that was back n the day and times have time but yet women still want men to pay everything like bk n the day but bk in the day women didn’t work and now they do so what’s the difference??

[@hawdarkshooter]

That's American women in a nutshell. They want a traditional and modern at the same time but still wonder why they majority single

[@Cahluvca]

Take notes and move different

[@mybigboy1979]

They dont even know what they want

[@keyatm3972]

These woman have tried to go where the money was. Now that they are older of course their standards have changed. Men don't want divorce. So we look at would these women be a good long term match and the answer is no

[@firesign4297]

👏👏👏 to the Sista!💛 in the... Braids!👍🏿👍🏿....her common! Sense is refreshing!👍🏿👍🏿✌

[@Trellden7]

She was the best but they hated her answer.

[@moenaethomas7337]

ROCSIE A'S WE'LL

[@FanzOfTheCultureNetwork]

if your constantly getting dogged out i have the solution. keep them out the bed room. 2nd if u need advice get it from the person who is on the level your trying to get too. 3rd keep people out your business. also people always say communication but truly listening is really what we should do

[@AvecPoesie]

Excellent advice, for real.

[@Teezer44]

I had no idea Claudia Jordan was this seasoned as a host! She's fantastic and deserves own show!!

[@harvemedharvemed7796]

I still don't understand the fascination of a street dude.

[@at3852]

Claudia said she only dated two dudes at the same time once in her life. I always wondered why women always lie about how many men their dating.

[@mybigboy1979]

The caller makes the most sense

[@moenaethomas7337]

AND ROCSIE

[@patmebro2429]

She said "6'4 240 runs a 4.4 40 yard dash" 😂😂😂😂

[@Sombra_Azul_]

To the host's man: congratulation mate, you are the consolation prize.

[@PanSlayah]

The realist person on that panel is the girl with the braids. WHAT IS HER NAME?

[@acp2078]

Alicia Monet

[@PanSlayah]

@@acp2078 thank you

[@moenaethomas7337]

ROCISE A'S WE'LL

[@PanSlayah]

@@moenaethomas7337 yeah rocsi was a lil honest too. She seem to make a common mistake alot of us make by projecting ourselves on the other person. Basically she doesnt fully understand men. They all seem clueless minus my girl A. MONET

[@calikeisha365]

Why are they taking calls when there is an audience there...

[@anthonywilliams9415]

Exactly! 😆😆

[@JohnSmith-er7dw]

Can a woman please explain what this phrase means. "I want a man that's in the streets but not in the streets"

[@mickyfingaz]

they want the thrill of a being with a bad boy but without the bad part where they have to pay probation fees, court fees or help him with child support for his baby mamas.

[@TheJosiahrosette]

mickyfingaz straight like that

[@JohnSmith-er7dw]

@@mickyfingaz Us men have our theory on it like you stated but that comment needs to be answered for us because I know women gonna come at you on this one lol.

[@God.sDaughter]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Linguists are still trying to figure out what that means. Good luck finding the answer.

[@God.sDaughter]

Let me take a shot at it. It basically means they want an alpha man who isn’t aggressive towards her and the family but when it comes to the outside world and intruders, he can be aggressive. Does that make sense? Think of the Male lion. It can be gentle to it’s family at the same time very territorial.

[@VocallyYours3]

I’ve just been waiting for the one, if the one doesn’t show up, I’ll be fine!!

[@firesign4297]

👍🏿👍🏿😊

[@jada9594]

Amen..... Don't give your time and heart to everyone.❤

[@moenaethomas7337]

ME TOO lol YESSSSS 💨 ♥️ P'S'REALLY

[@osirisofthesouth2853]

You won’t 🤨

[@MeTraD_Blk_Swn]

GIRL WITH BRAIDS IS THE ONLY ONE WITH SENSE. SHE KNOW WHO SHE IS. AND SHE IS RIGHT. GO DANCE TO BE WITH U AND LET HIM COME TO U. IF NOT THAN KEEP IT MOVING. SHE IS STRONG. GOOD GIRL👑👑👑

[@realtalk4998]

It's crazy how being beautiful has it's pitfalls, just as much as being ugly. It's those extreme measures that have you expecting too much, or too little. I guess being average ain't too bad after all. #whokilledepstein

[@realtalk4998]

GotAL2Say Reading is fundamental, fool. I never identified my physical attributes.

[@knowbeonekanobe5672]

Tiana is a true goofball. How is she a relationship “expert”

[@peter5336]

Goofeyyoffey

[@habenhaben5268]

"Your type doesn't want you" that was public service she did to all woman.

[@TheWinterShadow]

There's nothing worst on earth then a group of women who have hit the wall and acting like they are in still in high school.

[@scratchnwinboom5679]

Absolutely there standards changed its called the wall😂😂

[@ResearchXProject2016]

I truly don’t understand why the “street, hood or thug” type of guy is appealing. No thanks! 🤢🤮

[@lastdays3148]

👏🏿👏🏿🙋🏾‍♀️

[@firesign4297]

They been watching to much boys in the hood movies😄 And listening to to much 50 cent!😄✌

[@Trini190]

She’s saying she wants a protector abd she’s associating hood with that

[@MikeBNumba6]

Because that's who they momma like. And they identify "street" with black. If you not hood or street, then you not black.

[@ttee4436]

I know the past is the past but wasn’t roxy sleeping with people husbands🤔

[@ttee4436]

She look like she still that type n why she gotta side eye that woman

[@nmessai215]

She slept with a lot of ppl in the industry

[@moenaethomas7337]

@@nmessai215 HOW YOU NO 😂 😆☠️ WOW LOl AT THE QUESTION YOU'RE NOT RIGHT

[@moenaethomas7337]

@@ttee4436 YOU'R SO WRONG FOR THAT'💨 YOU'NO IT'WOW lol YESSSSS 💨 P'S'FUNNY 😁 ? IS

[@candyc4713]

Men will stop the BS and games when they meet the woman they WANT.

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

She said “6’1 muscles High Yellow”😑😑 superficial much so what’s ugly? 5’11 And under darker skin ? 😒

[@thebluejay3145]

Ironic black men cant have a preference without being shamed

[@justshady]

Noticed that ? Just don’t commit to these women.

[@whisperingwhiskerss4877]

Chow Legend lmao obviously NOT I’m a short Ethiopian woman...... I wonder why she still single 🧐

[@chestchirecateyes]

The young lady with braids is spot on! Biology is the driver. One egg vs. multiple sperms. The signs are always there, but too often people pretend they don't see them or make excuses.

[@Aggie4life77]

Claudia seems to have finally figured it out, but man it took her to late 40’s 🤦‍♂️

[@hustlemotivatetrucking8317]

I remember on her old radio show she said she only fuck with light skin niggas with good hair over 6'2 no exceptions in her words she said she only fuck with bad bitches

[@JennHayden]

@@hustlemotivatetrucking8317 yup

[@claudiajordanreal]

@@hustlemotivatetrucking8317 Ummmmm never said LIGHT SKINNED cause I don't have a light skin fetish AT ALL. Now I did (jokingly say) that I date "bad bitches" and I laughed. Y'all gotta know I have a dry sense of humor. It's a joke. If y'all saw who I dated about 2 years ago----totally not over 6'2, light skinned or a gym rat. But I loved his personality at the time. I just keep most of my love life private so its left for speculation

[@claudiajordanreal]

Ummm not true. Ive had some fantastic relationships that I just kept form the public. I'm not so bad at it actually

[@treashurespencer]

That woman on that call had an entire word! I absolutely loved her input! It was a tangible gem of thought.

[@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor]

"never dated a nice guy Every single one was an @$$hole." It might be you! Maybe they see you as easy prey. So when the good guy shows up he don't want nothing to do with you because you let the bad guys have their way and now you're damaged on so many levels.

[@otisjames4445]

As a man we do care. If you are important to us we care.

[@kristophanynoble5263]

Age 20....I have a type I want Age 30....i have standards Age 40....I'll take anything

[@damatricrayton8942]

When you're young females won't all these qualities when they get older does he have a job

[@sponsoredx3110]

Real relationships are really hard to find. There's no formula to having a successfully fulfilling relationship. Here's what no none is saying...time is the gold standard for quantifying growth and goodness in a person. Time, however doesn't or should I say shouldn't be how anyone determines benchmarks for their relationship i.e. monogamy, meeting of each others family, or marriage. You get the point. Time is only relevant when it comes to what value do you put on the person you're investing in. If you enjoy their time and it feels reciprocal, that alone is priceless. A very small percentage of relationships are truly marked "successful" regardless of how subjective that reality is. In my opinion, success in anything is should be measured by the rate of your return and the amount of time you continue to give to any situation, including personal, intimate relationships. View it from an investment perspective...once an investment is no longing yielding solid returns it would be wise to sell and reinvest into something or someone else. But if that investment maturation doubles in value, then you double down. Brought to by CP.

[@wellnessmogul]

The sistah with the blue outfit, black coat and long braids actually spoke truth to power. Reality and physiology is not concerned with anyone's feelings, the times that we live in or what we agree with..

[@latonyalapc9493]

UGHHH!! Not a good episode at all.. The conversation was weak, and the guests were talking over each other. Just a very immature conversation, altogether.

[@iCGreen_]

The woman with the braids REALLY made a great point about a male mentality and polygamy.

[@Mr.Ming07]

I don’t even think women these days care if a man can fix something or not 🙃

[@stephe.8818]

I care. Fix it!😀

[@GuyronBarnes-og2co]

The sister with the braids has the most realistic and sober view about the differences between men and women.

[@rashardstallworth9240]

A panel of rotten fruit

[@claudiajordanreal]

Wow. Bitter much?

[@God.sDaughter]

“Rotten fruit” You’re silly. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@WauniasJIsrael]

As it is written in the 1611 KJV,"A wicked woman is given as a portion to a wicked man:but a godly woman is given to him that feareth the Lord."Ecclesiasticus 26:23.

[@laj4186]

Love your show Claudia! Where is the continuation for all vids?

[@FredTechSc]

Right

[@quackdracular7610]

Go to www.foxsoul.tv or foxsoul app

[@nbrownchicago]

If I was ever thinking about getting a divorce this interview would change my mind.