Having social anxiety is unacceptable.

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How to Easily Overcome Social Anxiety
How To Overcome Shyness And Social Anxiety (Self Improvement Guide)
Overcoming Social Anxiety: What I've Learned
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[@RealZydrixx]

CHI, I see you have an amazing future ahead of you. Keep up the amazing content, I’m sure you’re aware, but just know that you will help millions more young men in the future, not just the few thousands currently. Very grateful for your content

[@chiyinde]

This means so much to me brother

[@ranc1977]

He is reaching young men to develop psychopathy and narcissism.

[@robelientje89]

I am 34 and going through a lot. Thank you for doing this, and please continue. I'm sure this helps a lot of people.

[@ranc1977]

This video is filled with pathogizing, patronizing and symptomizing people who were abused and you thank him?

[@musclemommyenjoyer]

what?🤣@@ranc1977

[@Eagle-qj8pl]

@@ranc1977Yes, we are.

[@harrisonbarnes3704]

Im 15 years old almost turning 16 and feel like im going out of phases of thinking my life is together to feeling like shit your videos have been fantastic I hope you grow your chanel so people can get your message instead of the many fake self improvement channels out there

[@ranc1977]

You are too young and too impressionable. So it appears as if being confident means being narcissistic and psychopathic. Glib charm is primary trait of psychopaths. Instead of self tyranny - which will later on in life lead to abusing your wife and kids - and you landing in jail - you need to accept yourself as you are. Then paradoxically you will become confident and secure. Buiding a fake personality leads to mental illness.

[@GalaxyofCalm]

watching this makes it so easy to visualise WHY you may have these problems, and how many things are controllable to change and make you a better person, respect bro

[@benvdkaa3502]

bro this is legit one of the best videos i've ever watched. Keep going brother! your content is very inspirational.

[@matthewpiotrowski4287]

Bro you are an amazing underrated KZbinr I’ve already had a good start on a slef improvement journey but you have helped me see thing more clearly as well and I appreciate it keep making this vids and never stop

[@ranc1977]

The desire for self development stems from "narcissistic" desires, a tendency to self-aggrandizement and superiority over others. Sigmund Freud

[@harrisonbarnes3704]

You are amazing this is the second video ive watched of yours and your motivating and captured my attention. Keep up the great work man!

[@chiyinde]

Thanks 👊🏾

[@ranc1977]

You need to find better role models than random video that is pathologizing others

[@Robotmoonz]

Why did “if you’re Indian”, sound like an insult😂 But fr man, amazing video, a lot of great points made

[@chiyinde]

Hahaha I promise it wasn’t

[@user-pw6tk1ii6s]

Bro I haven’t seen such a authentic video in a while keep it up really 🙏

[@ranc1977]

It's crappy.

[@Nexui]

With me its more like i enjoy talking with people and if i talk with someone i get really happy, but the conversations end real fast since im not the best at keeping a conversation going. Thanks for the videos though really helpful!

[@chiyinde]

Keep practicing

[@jomo0045]

Very happy to see you grow my guy 🙏🏽

[@chiyinde]

Thanks bro

[@yupthatsme5192]

Your channel openend my eyes brother. Thank you🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ranc1977]

It opened some other hole on my body.

[@slame_blox8178]

CHI, thank you so much, man. You made me realize "my social anxiety" is worthless.

[@ranc1977]

Suppressing emotions is dysfunctional coping mechanisms - and it will lead to mental illness.

[@Ronadhoba]

Moral of the video: Don't get affected by other's Opinions. Yet, If you are an introvert, or you can just get out 3 days of a week, then it's also fine, as long as you have stories to formulate. Also, most of them don't care whether your stories are real or fake. 😏😏 Just feel good about yourself and nothing else. Also, use your alone time to build businesses instead of watching porn and video games.

[@ranc1977]

What happens when we are trapped in mobbing, abuse and we cannot exit tyranny. What we do then? Pretend that there is no problem and never plan exit strategy?

[@Ronadhoba]

Is That What I Said ? I Said Complete Different Stuff Than What You're Saying. It Seems Like You Have Lost Your Way Of Thinking And Completely Adopted Chii's Thinking That's What He Said In Video. Develop Your Own Way Of thinking. Don't Believe Anyone Here. Everyone Is Wrong, you Will have to frame opinions According to your own situations. And My Opinions Was Suited By Many People 60% People Fall In This Category, That's Why I Said About It Here.@@ranc1977

[@TISHBOY]

You are growing fast bro, proud of you.

[@ranc1977]

Narcissism.

[@IS12378]

wow this type of videos is doing so well, am so happy for you brother

[@chiyinde]

Thank you brother

[@kNoopers]

Look at how social media has affected people today. We’re constantly exposed to images of men and women who seem perfect, with lots of money and success, and then we compare ourselves-working an 8-5 job, feeling average, and thinking, 'I'm a loser.' That's complete nonsense. Don't just compare yourself to those who seem better off. Compare yourself to everyone you encounter and work on improving yourself.

[@Monkeman-dg3rn]

im back, love the content man keep at it.

[@akshitbonam2069]

Keep Up The Grt Work Man. You Just Opened My Eyes

[@rafavsky9126]

idk how this man only has 11k subs.

[@GalaxyWrld710]

this is a eye opener

[@Scymet]

Thank you, I needed this

[@ranc1977]

You needed psychosis and living in delusions?

[@AlphaCrucis]

I think being introverted is a real psychological trait, but that doesn't automatically equate to being shy, awkward, etc. I am extremely introverted, but I can operate well in a professional setting (though it wears me out). Socializing isn't something I love though. It can be great to discuss your interests with others who can relate, but afterward I'll want to go home and not talk to anyone for weeks. I have friends but I only see them a couple times per year. I also just don't have the motivation or desire to socialize with anyone, so I only see people when obligated. Leaving comments online is enough to satisfy that need.

[@chiyinde]

Agreed. I believe I am still an introvert but my understand of what it meant was faulty, as you described.

[@Masquerain6]

Just remove the words introvert and extrovert from your existence, live without labels of what you have to be like, be present all the time. Imagine these words didn't exist you would've never thought or acted on it, just existed as yourself

[@ranc1977]

@@Masquerain6 Imagine working on your trauma - without suppressing emotions and then not developing mental illness in the process by creating fake personality of narcissism.

[@Masquerain6]

@@ranc1977 what

[@ranc1977]

@@Masquerain6 Social anxiety is complex trauma. It is not a mere shyness or personality flaw or being sissy nor feminine as this Chi yacks about in his video.

[@fastfenrir]

Love your video's mate ❤👊

[@Sandman0411]

Thank YOU brotha! This is what my life what waiting for to listen 🥲

[@ranc1977]

Confirmation bias.

[@ShortClipss4u]

Amazing video bro❤

[@esoteric_hustler]

Excellent video man & your delivery is very good! I have been shooting videos for a month now and been struggling with structuring the message I want to convey, do you script your vids or have cliff notes/ any other strategy or do you use concentration to stay on topic?

[@nurridhatekstil]

Thanks, chi

[@Shayan10945]

Your a blessing ❤❤

[@rayzeh.sounds]

smart talk right there

[@Justsomeguy17]

Your content is very underrated...

[@ranc1977]

For a reason. It is crappy and full of BS.

[@hotbuttered7711]

I have never had a boyfriend before because I'm terribly anxious and can barely make eye contact with a boy I like I'm scared of them breaking my heart lol 😢 I think this is due to my excessive caffeine use too I'm quitting......

[@ITxc]

bros got beef with indians

[@chiyinde]

No 🤣🤣

[@pd_heart]

LMAOOOO

[@Unknown-ck6iy]

How do I become more nonchalant and stoic my girl thinks I’m kinda emotional and can’t hide emotion

[@dariusowens1060]

Semen retention that’s all you need

[@jomo0045]

@@dariusowens1060bullshit, you can be on semen retention and still be the biggest loser. That alone wont fix it, gives a little extra boost for sure

[@Unknown-ck6iy]

@@dariusowens1060 I did 3 weeks but was edging than relapsed now I’m on 2 weeks and haven’t edged once and I feel more energized and confident than I did 3 weeks while edging every 2-3 days

[@nyx8026]

​@@dariusowens1060 sure, semen retention is everything a man has to do

[@wil3793]

Before you react practice breathing techniques even if it’s subtle to calm yourself down and while you do that genuinely ask yourself if the situation is worth a reaction. Your brain will slowly begin to start processing situations like this the more you do it and you essentially create a mental tipping point where you are able to discern if something is worth a reaction or not. You’ll find yourself being reactive to less unimportant things and when you do react it’ll be more relaxed and delayed because your mind has a second to think about it before you act.

[@StrallyMan]

Great channel

[@Monke_boi13]

My one is f up I have an autism which makes me have it

[@ranc1977]

He does not know what is autism because he is ableist and neurotypical. Anything else than accepted norm is abnormality and sickness to him.

[@averydaniels8924]

Boy you the truth! Lol

[@ResearchDump-iu4pz]

Social anxiety is fear of social judgement

[@ranc1977]

Social anxiety results from being around people who are resolutely opposed to who you are. Stefan Molyneux

[@Papuci99]

God bless you 🙏

[@ranc1977]

He is more on Satan side, this is not God work.

[@peacemaker7075]

Love you bro ❤️🇮🇳🫂

[@smd716]

Please we need shorts here.

[@keifer7813]

You clearly have no idea of what causes social anxiety if you think it's so stupid. Why do you keep your hand away from boiling water? Because you learned through repeated exposure that it burns. Similar thing with social anxiety

[@smd716]

TOP GEE...

[@abz454]

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@reshzed4874]

Do you read stoicism and if so put me on some good books

[@chiyinde]

Read “The Little Book of Stoicism”. Very easy to digest and understand.

[@reshzed4874]

@@chiyinde goodlooks bro keep grinding

[@ranc1977]

Stoicism does not mean being afraid of emotions and suppressing them.

[@chiyinde]

@@ranc1977 who said it means that?

[@ranc1977]

@@chiyinde You talk in your video that if we have emotions and feelings that we are sissy and feminine and that we must become "man" instead. As if our genitalia will fall off if we gone through trauma.

[@kobe.francis]

saying social anxiety doesn't exist is like saying depression doesn't exist

[@Ocymber]

because is does not

[@kgeddesballsout6807]

@@Ocymberit does exist, you just never had it.

[@chiyinde]

I did say it only exists in your head. It's a result of negative thought patterns and irrational thinking. I used to have it, btw.

[@Ocymber]

@@chiyinde it's a sickness are something like you catch a cold. It's not like oh it's not something you just have like ADHD and it's also not something that can be fixed by a bunch of pills and that I know out of experience. it's just a mind game

[@matthewpiotrowski4287]

@@kgeddesballsout6807I had it I almost killed myself twice and now I belive it doesn’t exist cuz I got my shit together trust me bro life is amazing when you focus on self improvement

[@ranc1977]

"Nobody is looking at you, everybody care about themselves" That is not true. There are toxic people who do judge and find small details to abuse and use for their hidden agenda to cause harm to others. Social anxiety is result of trauma and being exposed to narcissistic abuse. The idea that we reject social anxiety - will lead to making our trauma hidden and rejected - and trauma will then fester. It will come out as cancer, allergy and physical illness and mental illness too. The idea that we equate masculinity with confidence and being dominant leads to narcissistic abuse - because in real life - it is unhealthy and dysfunctional to be parasite. When someone is using confidence as a way to dominate over others - is being a parasite. IT is not being man.

[@BlackNinjaX89]

Wow your like leaving negative replies to most peoples comments here in chat, but your free to have your own opinion, i liked Chi's advice and am going to follow it, because i think it will help me really better myself etc. Also God can fix that, if you pray to him (if you believe in God) but when you pray to God you have to say in the name of your son Jesus Christ name Amen, after a while God will help cure it, and he can also get rid of other things like bi polar disorder etc.

[@ranc1977]

​@@BlackNinjaX89 Negative comment is not the same as feedback. Inability to differentiate between these two is borderline personality disorder issue. Black and white splitting cognitive distortion.

[@benhulme2863]

You being alive is unacceptable.

[@ahai8858]

Ngl there’s not much you can do if you are Indian

[@chiyinde]

That is NOT what I meant

[@ranc1977]

@@chiyinde Seems to me you do not know how to express yourself yet you are so confident in your social skills that you patronize others around

[@lgbtqia-pride-is-wrong]

If your Indian 💀

[@peacemaker7075]

Ur insta pls