Having this will make it hard for narcissists to replace you | NPD | Narcissism

Having this will make it hard for narcissists to replace you | NPD | Narcissism
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder

[@berean65]

Narcissists don't love you. They love what you can do for them, and them alone!

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@saved & here I thought I was being this LOYAL wife, Sure took me for a FOOL, I got it ... NEVER EVER AGAIN! Thank you LORD for saving me 🙏🏾

[@missygeno4391]

True. I don't have a problem with that either

[@macseagle5968]

My narcissists treated me like a mule with money. I broke away and my life is so much better.

[@rielrelacion7566]

True.. it took me a long time to figure that thing out because i am a person that is always looking not on the bad things a person could do to me but the good thing they can put on the table, unfortunately, some person will do good for you only if they can get something in return, all the good things will disappear after you slow down on giving what they want or they found somebody who can fill up your shoes which they think presently can offer more than what you can offer it is not only financially but in all aspects in life, more bullshit will come including they will make up stories just to put you on blame for anything to justify what they really like to do. Such a cold hearted self centered individual..

[@feminazislayer]

I'd argue they hate you for that too.

[@amandakropen3273]

I think they are truly theatened by our kindness and wish they could be like us.

[@KL-pq3mz]

Yes!! At times, it seemed like he absolutely hated my kindness and empathy. If looks could kill!! I so agree!

[@jaredknight1627]

Possibly! Is that why she acted so kind for the beginning of the relationship? Also in the public eye. She is always so nice to people at work and like the kids teachers and stuff. She is a social worker and a licensed therapist. I know super scary! I feel like she gets off on other people's pain/ loss. When she left me she didn't divorce me for a year and a half or so. She played with my emotions and brain like it was a toy. Like how a cat plays with a mouse that is almost dead. Once I started catching on and didn't act like I knew what was going on. It was so clear to me she was doing so many things on purpose just to hurt me anymore. One example I would go and spend the night every once in a while. One day I stopped by and she gave me a pair of some other man's whitey tighties knowing darn well I never ever wore those kind of underwear. That is just one example of the insane abuse I took like a sucker I was. I knew I was being a sucker but at the same time I truly wanted to keep our family together. My parents divorced and I didn't want my kids to have to go through that too. So I put up with so much more than I normally would have trying to keep our family together. She knew I wanted the family to stay together so she took advantage of that as well. Just to hurt me more. These people are literally demons. No normal human could see another human in that much pain and keep going with what us hurting the other person.

[@KL-pq3mz]

@@jaredknight1627 - Horrible. I’m so sorry.

[@jaredknight1627]

@@KL-pq3mz no worries, it was a great learning curve. I am sorry you had to go through it as well! Thank you for the kind words

[@KL-pq3mz]

@@jaredknight1627 - It was a great lesson. About broke my soul, but I have made it out and am growing. I hope you are too! Thank you! 💝😊

[@Pattie7291]

They don't love themselves, much less anyone else.....this type of person is dangerous.

[@jdee3451]

6:57 "They hate clear and simple communication because it gets in the way of what they want to do."

[@shirleysmith756]

God said let it all come up together Hze

[@shirleysmith756]

He will do the seperating vengeance is His He will repay them for Dirty deeds @all cost!

[@SusanSummer]

Well said

[@Glitter504]

Cause they hurt others that’s why they think everyone will hurt them

[@missygeno4391]

True

[@fire4myChrist]

They can't love themselves they CAN NOT LOVE YOU

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@Fire THIS ... Most of All, is what hurt The MOST! TOO BAD, TOO SAD How their childhood must've been. Thank you JESUS for the LOVE I got to grow up in 💜

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Say it again

[@samxsara]

They hate themselves

[@JunaTabTheChosenOne]

Narcissist hate that you’re love by many, and they will go to work overtime to make sure everyone hates you. They’re extremely ungrateful.

[@mariebrooks1232]

So true ! My ex couldn't stand that his family likes me,And he often poison their minds concerning me.He turned his mother against me for a whole year, She didn't even know why she was mad at me but judging how he was acting it was something he said.

[@lucyhabwe1310]

That's what he's doing

[@julyj8151]

🤣🤣🤣 oh my ex tried this he just didn't think I would.out petty him. Or out smart a narcissistic person that he is with the truth 💅 and now he only has like 2 people that talk to him. While he tried to hangout with my best friend they wanna hangout with me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@judithscott6587]

You can say that again. Mine even scammed my bank and I. Got into my computer and got my debit card and bought plane tickets hotel room and restaurant . Now I have to pay it back.

[@user-bt6qd8it1d]

You against their world it’s sickening n true

[@spiritwellness252]

They miss your empathy…and how easy it was for them to cheat on you. They thought if they dumped you for a new person who didn’t work out, that’s when they miss you, your supply and energy that made them feel safe while they ran out there behind your back. Don’t fall for the story..block, delete on all social media and phone n email.

[@debbiecurtin1431]

Just believing he was taking care half mortgage I was very intimidated by him and commbank huge mistakes to take my name off top of loan and put as garuntor and put his name on loan instead they didn't check his credit rating it was 10 000 in debt and he said he paid house and expenses no I di they did not check commbank cost me twenty years if struggling when my Don and me could have been going in holidays and stuff living well like he did two boats lots of pubs his other son I'm sure was getting his child maintenance snd everything he needed courtesy of me and my family the house we paid for people say move on start new if it was only thatveasy my psychiatrist says I Sm scanty and disorganised homeless for eight months lived in car hotels horrid places and a friends for a bit my five cats boarding at lucky lodge Reynella very lovely lady very cheap compared to most. At boarding I saw them Tuesday first time in five months so anyway thank you for reading this it's a big load off my mind to say really how it is and how bad I feel I will continue my life with a lot of sadness and regrets not being a stronger person being Nieves and too trusting and way too nice and very generous with anything I have I'm sure prince charming will meet me along the way and like I always dreamed live happily ever after a fairytale I believe In - true love lasts forever -

[@DavidGonzalez-ek3zh]

They are always on the prowl. She was already starting to cheat on me after 4-5 weeks...nut job

[@Splakyy]

@@DavidGonzalez-ek3zh always on the prowl literally… they will fuck damn near anyone 😢

[@debraannedimezza8075]

Done

[@michaeldhoncho5963]

Working on it.... difficult with children, however even more needed for the well-being of the children...still, a big mess

[@jannlewandowski5540]

When his mask came off, I stared and said UNBELIEVABLE, YOU NEVER LOVED ME!!

[@jennywager6228]

Pathetic but functions well wearing his mask! Now how to protect myself from this Shiite type of hustle, evil, demonic personality type. They’re not dysfunctional but function very well. I’ve healed from loving a turd and time is lost but it is what it is.

[@jonathanomahony688]

It took 35 years for me to walk away from my narcissists husband. The last 15 years was like a roller coaster, up down, up down. I decided to leave for good. I discarded him, packed his belongings, went no contact. That was 4 months ago. I am now living my life for me. Life is so, so, good now. Get them out of your life and keep them out. No looking back is the only way to go. You can do this , stay positive.

[@samxsara]

You see it in the eyes, it’s just nothing human

[@bloodymary8540]

It doesn't matter if u have this or that..when u are dealing with a narcissist they will suck it out of you...nothing u posses will holding a narcissist back to devalue or discard you.. They will never have that respect.. Remember that💜

[@petekdemircioglu]

Yes

[@carolgonzales4262]

If a person is OK with being a slave to an ungrateful evil manipulative non human...live with a narcissist.

[@GoodwinGlassworks]

Not totally true. From what I've seen(intimately)...money, social status. These will keep them a servant to the person, because it supplies a "lifestyle" they feel entitled to

[@parrymylogicthen290]

​@@GoodwinGlassworksher point still stands. Cause once that's gone, the narc will be gone too! They love how beneficial you are to them. That's it!

[@elenaalexander449]

Narcissists appear to have demons. Demons like Narcissists can never be appeased, remain content, and are never satisfied. Both are dead inside. Thank you!!! Great teachings.

[@scottnewcomb4230]

Yes they do have them, but remember they let the demons in voluntarily.

[@iramsavir5631]

That's a fact!! They lack conscience and are completely cold-hearted. They're usually porn addicts and substance abusers.

[@judithfloyd6693]

They are DEMONS in the flesh. It blinds us to who they really are. At first we can't see it because you are an open loving and real person. I found that I saw some of these of things in my narc long ago but again I didn't know what I was looking at. I know now.😊

[@amyiunharris2364]

​@@scottnewcomb4230: 😊

[@koyotekiller337]

and from my experience very spoilled

[@td2968]

There is no perfect match for them. Narcs always replace you, you are no different from any before you or any after you, noone is special so don't take it personal

[@forensicbadassprofiling]

Exactly. The YT coaches who teach the narc lost their best supply are deluding themselves in that "I'm not good enough" codependent mentality. As soon as I hear some self proclaimed coach teach this, I run. It's physiologically impossible for a narcissist to ever think they made a mistake or lost the best supply. It's ridiculous n goes against everything biologically founded in the brain of a narcissist.

[@rielrelacion7566]

Very much correct, it took me years to accept that line though.

[@donatodaquino3371]

Yes I agree with that there is no one that could be a perfect match for them. Because they can't feel real love and care. We are all not perfect for each other but when you have the right feelings for each other. You'll do everything to make it work because of those feelings love care understand respect trust and honesty and loyalty. That's why it will never work for these people no real understand of the meaning love care understand respect trust and honesty and loyalty. That's about the bottom line of it lot of nothing at the end. 😎 take care

[@donatodaquino3371]

@@latenightyoutubeviewer7981 yes but how many other's does he have behind there partners back that they don't know about. Believe me they have.

[@TheAngie9409]

We’ll. They just repeat the cycle. No one is immune. .. I wish the new supply luck ..!

[@Glitter504]

All true !!! Walk away ! I have seen the jealousy , wanting to be me as I’m kind and have good self esteem they have none and hate themselves !!! Walk away!!!

[@jeannebrauher]

Don't walk.... Run!!!

[@bernicebaker2596]

🏃🏃🏃🏃run away...🙏

[@G45689]

The only thing i can do from now on for this person is to pray for them but not allow them to control me in any negative way going forward

[@shirleyandersonbey9409]

I'm dealing with a narcissist and I'm ready walk away and not look back.

[@adasteia6667]

It will be one of the kindest and most loving things you will do for yourself in your entire Life ! 😮h, I know

[@mickac4073]

I just did, should have done it 6 months ago! It was after a 5 year roller coaster relationship and no respect for boundaries, constantly lying big and small, gaslighting, triangulation, cheating, making big decisions without taking me/feelings into consideration, playing victim all the time, etc….finally I can heal… it is incredibly quiet now, bc he used to suck All my energy and air out

[@MegaRose1958]

Plan to leave, but don't tell the person !! I would have never made it out my house safely!! My ex would always tell me he wasn't going anywhere! I left my own home to get a PTO, file a police report, go to the emergency room bec. I had bruises on my arm and stomach from him punching me, he had accused me of cheating even though I never did. I changed my locks once he was served when I came back to my house

[@juanitawarren1456]

Don't walk run run fast

[@tjtanner9311]

Your mind is may up. Reclaim your peach and happiness💝! It won't be easy but best decision I made. I'm much better than I was before.

[@pjerdolinski37]

Constant drama, intrigs, chaos... if you are not in to a dysfunctional life you shuld walk away asap.

[@debraannedimezza8075]

From the week I met him basically the week I left five years later all he ever did was talk about his exes and what they did to him he never said anything bad I did, and they were all crazy. I guess that makes all of us crazy because he went with very educated, professional women, including myself, and he probably destroyed everyone of us.

[@allondon6914]

Absolutely true every word on this video . I lived with my ex narcissist girlfriend 4 years together , and I suffered all what mentioned here. 100% correct ,and the best advice for someone who deals with a narcissist . They are evil, and they destroy lives. Finally, I dumped her, as she was driving me crazy , and that was the best decision I made. Never look back, if you left a narcissist, or being discarded by a narcissist. Narcissists have no feelings for others , they only care about themselves.

[@vanessajohnson6077]

TRUE FACTS 💯 on point ☝️💯

[@herminablackstock]

So true my friend

[@Fifitrixa]

So true and they try to turn the tables on you, try to break you with words and actions cheat and lie then deflect, take all and give you crumbs when you try to leave they are being destroyed by you for dumping them ex amount of times. Seriously they are dangerous and liars future faking sad individuals they need pity as they will never know pure and true love.its a waste of time trying to get through to them they will see it as abuse 😂 then you become the abuser. Just walk away and don’t look back. They are little kids. They display childlike behaviours if they don’t get their way and use every manipulation in the book. See right through them. As they are so predicable. Live your best life don’t waste it on these people they do not deserve you beautiful ones.

[@jamalmcdaniel3339]

Im convinced im a narcissist. And im convinced my gf is one to. They often get into relationahips

[@duanemcclure8324]

Sounds exactly like the girl..or, 'Karen' I dumped too. And, as expected, she 'claimed' SHE did the dumping so she could hear herself say it and believe it. Like you, I just cut her off completely and reached my breaking point. I feel like I was paroled or something and don't miss her one iota! The sex was all there was left and even that became hollow and worthless. Nothing but spoiled little tempor tantrum laden 12 year old mind that gave me a sick and heavy feeling when I got within 100 yards of her..like a demonically possessed person and I KNOW that is actually closer to the truth than most realize..

[@RS-ww8jo]

Married to one over 30 years. I never knew about what they are. At the end during the discard it was horrible. Three years of healing learning and getting away was the hardest thing I’ve ever done and been through in my life. Divorce was insane. Yes, don’t get involved and learn the signs I didn’t know.

[@TheHillrat4wd]

Let me just say it's easier than you think. I've been in a relationship for over 30 years with a female covert narcissist but I had no idea that's what I was dealing with. I met her when I was 24 and fell in love with her was infatuated with her. You need to remember 30 years ago we did not have the information that we have today about all the personality types and disorders . The Internet was not around and there was nobody to talk to about it.

[@latenightyoutubeviewer7981]

I married one too 30yrs ago but I recognized abuse early on. My husband had no father figure & a mean mother. We grew up together in school. I thought I knew him. Turns out I didn't. So I left.

[@shenelljones2763]

I know I had no idea that he was like this. Bad as I want to be with him. ITS A HELL NAW NO MORE KICK ROCKS .

[@christineswick5977]

I was married to one for 32 years. I was 19 when we married. He was all I knew. I know I will be the one he will never forget(due to the long term marriage) but that seems like a curse because I am normal and have feelings. And it hurts so

[@ReRe_642]

@@TheHillrat4wdexactly

[@sabrinapetersen5358]

The one thing that narcissists fear, is when you find out who they really are! They can't handle the truth about themselves because they don't want to hear it by who is with them! These people will always be in denial about their own behavior and actions towards you which are abusive and dishonest!After you leave left this unhealthy relationship for good, you will feel good about yourself! For you ,no contact is best thing ever for you and you don't have to deal with difficult people who have used you and betrayed you ever again!🤥🤑🥶😈🤐💔😢🥺😳🤔

[@CarlVanderStichele]

I have fallen hard in love with a covernarcisist but now I don't know what to do: I don't want to bring her down but let her believe in true love ....

[@janetduncan87]

My late ex- was a narcissist. Oh he tried to replace me, but she barely lasted a month. He did the same things to her, he did to me. Lie, cheat, and manipulate. He cheated with her very young daughter. After she was gone, he moved onto another woman who also a narcissist. She could con him out of money. He had bo trouble giving her money. With me it was always, let me crunch the numbers. Or I don't have it. He'd get his tax returns and I never saw a dime of it. We had 7 kids. The woman he ended up with was using him. She had a record and was running from Chicago PD. He never believed it. I think he got what he deserved in the end. The con, was being conned.

[@teresarenee3829]

They always do get what they deserve.

[@SPFAN00]

My ex used to talk about his first girlfriend who broke his heart. My mom still talks often about her abusive ex like he was perfect. I think it’s true that narcissists always have someone in their past that “broke” them. They never actually ever try again.

[@balooprime8130]

That usually mean they are going to do the same to you. Ex said stuff like she wouldn't do this or that and compared me to the ex all the time. Then boom all the bad happened.

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@Dayna D His ex's were always CRAZY ... Then he started calling me CRAZY, I NEED HELP , Something wrong with me .... Where's that mirror??? Fricken JOKE 🤓

[@SPFAN00]

@@tammymedeiros7325 Same, he said every ex was crazy. Their past is your future.

[@rielrelacion7566]

I beg to disagree, I don't think those guys who leave them before are the ones who broke their heart, i am pretty much sure that it was them that pushed and scared those guys to decide to go away, actually i am not really sure if narcs really know the true definition of love, no such thing as the one who broke their heart (narcs dont have heart to love), it is more safe to say that those guys who leave them is the ones they really LIKE, they just have plenty of guys who come and go in their life to compare who is the best (like not love) they are just confused on the definition of love and like.

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@@rielrelacion7566 I strongly believe the narc has NO CLUE what LOVE means. How could they know when they weren't even brought up in love??!?

[@danielborrowdale3903]

It is never hard for a narcisisst to replace you, your an object to them they treat themselves as an object, the way to help them and yourself is to leave and work on yourself.

[@susanbahadurian-vogel218]

Thank you , I was married to one for 20 yrs , so spot on, 14yrs later still trying to destroy me its pathetic disgusting and tragic I hate him and that is an understatement they are horrid people nasty toxic evil

[@zanmeredith7418]

I'm going to listen to this video several times because it's hitting home. Everything you mentioned are TRUE FACTS

[@tanyabell7748]

AAAAAAAMEN!!!!

[@shenelljones2763]

Me too. 26 years gone bcs he wants to just saw to heck with you. Never thought that this would happen to me.

[@cherylthompson2731]

I watch it over and over again.

[@brickecharga1102]

I dated a narcissist for a few months and it was an awful experience. What is also not mentioned in the video is that some narcissists have violent tendencies and are abusive. The narcissist I dated seemed to "hate" women. He was a liar, dishonest, had no integrity, thought he was above the law, was attention-seeking all the time, bi-polar, moody, tried to turn everyone against me, playing the victim, a quintessential gaslighter, etc. I can go on and on... I broke clean from the relationship and didn't look back...

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

I can fully understand. I am dealing with one such demon...!!

[@lesley-annlarode6479]

Good thing you realize that in the early part of the relationship

[@know973]

Yep i married one, they move and feel like a demon....they have no soul, devoid of love, compassion and yes noo integrity at all...i sometimes think to myself how physically sick he makes me...i find him to be a disgusting human....im trying to get out...im exhausted and depressed, depleted...but im still pushing to get away!! Its hard

[@TressieWilliams-eq4ww]

I was married to a man for 13 years. He physically, mentally n verbally abused me. He tried telling everyone I was the crazy one. I finally had enough July 4 of this last year n left with just the clothes on my back. I left everything behind.Hes a lying, cheating evil monster.. . I did everything I could to mithis marriage work. I'm so happy I finally got out. He's evil

[@vaijayantigulve4883]

Cheers ..!! Don't look back...you have a bright future. Love and light to you... ❤️

[@fleurkus]

Your videos are the best. You are spot on about the narcissist. Don't ever get sick when you are with a narcissist. They will be angry and won't want to help you willingly. They do the bare minimum, just so they can brag how wonderful they are.

[@Bebetheloveofmylife]

*Thank you for this video, my ex husband is suffering from this, I truly loved him, I wish there is cure for this, May God help him*

[@springBloomsinAwe]

He isn't suffering. I'm sure he doesn't care. Find Dr Ramani

[@Bebetheloveofmylife]

@@springBloomsinAwe *May be*

[@thefarmersdaughter8235]

Listen to your body is the best advice. Chills, upset stomach etc.

[@FrostSoul-qs6kq]

Being a primary source feels weird , they want you , but hate you , but then they try to change you to become like them and the fucking foot tickling ... Jesus CHRIST . THAT was the worst of all the torture ...

[@delightfullydeanna]

Wait you had a narcissist who also constantly tickled you? Mine would do that non stop. I hated it! He also would crack my toe joints, it hurt so bad. I begged him not to.

[@weekendersline5141]

Foot tickling? Lol Seriously? I thought that I had heard it all, until now. Wow, I am so happy to learn from both of your posts. Thank you. Be blessed.

[@beverleymeaney8162]

Never knew about Narcissist till 2 years ago .I was always wondering what was wrong with my daughter,she was so angry & her heart was full of hate & hurting everyone a specially me,I blamed sent she last her brother,so I spoiled her more loved her harder never said no,,I don't regret that because I loved her & she was all I had left but I see now she used my love to get whatever she wanted,this video is all her,I don't no how one can be so evil from loving her so much,I blamed myself.I finally standing up & not giving in to her game playing but it cost me to loss everything,the family is broken & I can't see my grandchildren,she has taken everything from me as that's her plan,but I'm working on me getting my power back & strength, it's been 3 years since no contact

[@tileartist59]

I never knew what a Narcissist was until I got away from my last situation and moved out of town, that is when the answers finally came as to why I kept attracting these people into my life who were trying to control me and drain the energy from me... in each situation it would always start off like the perfect connection, then ended with the perfect disconnect... I was fortunate to be the one to leave before the destruction was complete in each situation, now I know that I needed to go through this process in order to desensitize myself and fortify my defenses against any attacks that the narcissist will send my way... now that I armed myself with this information, no one will ever penetrate my defenses without reciprocating CONSISTENTLY the same love that I give (notice that I capitalized consistently, not starting and then stopping when you think that you have complete control of my mind) thank you for this most valuable information 💖

[@Mr101473]

So do I

[@rielrelacion7566]

Same here.... I am so crashed by reality. I've tried so hard to prove myself wrong for these findings but then nothing really much better than accepting the reality and moving forward in life

[@tinaehrob384]

Me too and it was a time where there was social media 1994. Getting from one is better than getting out of jail.

[@desireeleslie7837]

Your daily information of narcississts is so so helpful and insightful. I love my partner but sadly he has quite enough traits of a narcississts. I do believe that people who are narcississts will have their days of reckoning. I do believe that GOD will handle them and so will GOD handle my partner as well.

[@G45689]

I just got out of a long relationship with a man that is a narcissist. I am thankful that I finally see what was going on (the entire time) but I just wish I could have found out sooner. Everything in this video is true. And this is a truly lost person. I do not harbor any hatred or anger anymore. I have been able to work through this with my firm belief in my spiritually with God. I am thankful that God has allowed me to see more clearly now and that I am not heartbroken as I was during the entire relationship. I found closure within myself.

[@pamelafreeman1312]

I’ve lived with my husband for 50 years and gone through what I call “the yo-yo syndrome, up times, down time. I’ve looked through reams of pages to help me figure out my husband’s personality. The closest I’ve come is the histrionic personality. Lately, I have listened to enough pod casts by people like you to realize, without a doubt, that his is a bonafided narcissistic personality! Many, many thanks!

[@carolgonzales4262]

😮wow...me too married young...spent 50 yrs with jeckle and Hyde. Finally free for 7 years now. Living a happy life...my way!

[@scottnewcomb4230]

38 years for me. I’m now healing and rediscovering who I am. Starting over at 71 years old. Good luck to you and I will pray for your recovery. Scott

[@cynthiaarons9373]

Pamela Freeman: I hear you. I went through the same experience as you - had never heard of narcissism until it was too late. I lived with a full-blown narcissist for 17 yrs. I truly believe narcissists are demons on earth! Very destructive. This video is accurate! I just dislike the constant soliciting to subscribe.

[@paulinewqi]

Am still stuck after 50 years...am too old to move on...one day at a time, good or bad...🤦‍♀️🪷🌻

[@sharonfowler9971]

Wow! Your amazing 50 years; 22 for me and thanks to the courage and remarks I m learning some great strategies! Prayers and hugs !

[@wyleenblack6947]

Absolutely true depiction I have a 53 year old narcissistic Daughter and for year's since a small child she has been a heartbreaking challenge! Now she is a married woman with 5 grandchildren 1 grandchild who I love dearly! however i have come to a Clear understanding cannot take anymore abuse now that my grands are grown up! I have made a heartbreaking decision to go NO CONTACT!! 😢💔

[@Aries-Amore]

How was her childhood? It usually stems from arrested development

[@Aries-Amore]

Why do you only love one grandchild dearly? 😢

[@michellelooman9565]

Thank you I'm actually living this exact nightmare your talking about as we speak thank u for helping me see that I'm not crazy and I'm getting closer to being done for good thank you.god bless you.

[@keithwittman4741]

I asked my teenage son twice if I was crazy. Then she reflected and I looked up narcissist, and all the signs came to light! I am so thankful for finding out. Also sad that I can't do anything to fix it.😢

[@user-xv9io8pc3v]

Me 2 living in it as well now

[@Peacealways247]

They lose everyone they are with unless they die first. Its like they look for a high and don't let them think that they've found the right one and he/she is strong minded and willed even though you're nice to them. That will cause the manipulation and gaslighting because you're calling them out and holding them accountable..and the push back puts fire under them.

[@brickecharga1102]

You better say that again!!!

[@Red-Iceberg]

I never hid the fact from the narc that the life we lived was his and not mine.

[@asmerawityas6538]

The narcissist I get to know over the last year is full of STI. He acted like a very healthy person and hid that he was hiv positive and had oral herpes from me. When i discovered this, he went to the people introduced to us and started saying i was messaging him when he said he wasn't interested. And he is avoiding me.I learned so much from this channel. Everything you said fits him perfectly and confirmed to me that he is narcissist. The audacity he has is unbelievable.

[@sharesewilder5729]

Omg I knew someone like that minus the hiv but he was a walking sti smh

[@rbin5156]

%100 accurate on all levels of this discussion

[@dalialovesdoggies4361]

Indeed

[@patience5387]

Indeed

[@veep5712]

Dood, you WANT TO BE REPLACED if you are dealing with a Narcissist. Literally nothing, NOTHING good comes from a Narcissist.

[@annieh923]

Yup, I could never want such evil back.

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@@annieh923 Yes ... EVIL, DEMONIC CREATURES. Sad & pathetic how their need for destruction. Empty shells the devil has his way with then pukes them out like nothing .... MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! I PLEAD THE BLOOD OF JESUS ON THEM ... REBUKE YOU SATAN IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS, AMEN♥︎

[@susanvanheel4382]

My first husband was a Narcs, thought I knew what to avoid, but here I am in a 10 year relationship with another Narcs! I have decided to give up on any future relationships, as I don’t trust my ability to know what a normal person is. My Father was also a Narcs. I have no other close friends so I think I need to just learn to embrace my solitude. Thanks for a very educational podcast! It gives me strength to hold onto a “no contact” rule, while I grieve the loss of another relationship.

[@tinaehrob384]

Don't let them take your future

[@iraschellenberg-kollenstei2247]

I have gone through the same several times, until I found out how to set boundaries. If your self-esteem is high enough, you won't let anybody step over these your boundaries. So be happy again and let the right person come to you.

[@charlotteclark6061]

...Sorry. how you find a good one one day!

[@lynnmazzarella9988]

You're not alone. EXACTLY THE SAME SITUATION!!

[@lynnmazzarella9988]

You're not alone! I am in THE EXACT SAME SITUATION 100% TO A T! MEET YOUR TWIN

[@lindamateri9906]

2 years ago I didn’t know what a narcissist was but now living with you is unbelievable Wow what I have experienced!!!

[@str8ttruthnochaser311]

I just was discarded on Xmas evening after having a wonderful last few months....She met someone online and said she is moving with our 4 babies to another state we will be in court....I actually found him just by literally thinking like a sleaze bag...The confirmation email to her letting her know I spoke with him. She literally came banging on the door I didn't answer.....I'm free now

[@teresarenee3829]

Just make sure you stay in your babies lives, they will need you....

[@bellamichelle22]

jus by thinking like one? please elaborate?

[@claibornebanks9795]

One of the saddest experiences I had in my near 70 years of life. Dealing with a woman for 3 plus years who has narcissistic tendencies. I love her. She only cared about my money.

[@Starblade2491]

All too common, unfortunately. Renember this is a flaw with them.

[@comeon_man]

I believe you We live in a hash tag “believe all women “ society. Imo. And when we unluckily commit to one with narcissistic traits it’s really destructive, expensive and soul crushing.

[@marimattos8457]

You worth for what you are. Forget her and let the life t o introduce you to a nice person at right time. Good luck!

[@dalialovesdoggies4361]

Sadly. All 100%

[@shamimtemour]

I like to think that mine would regret losing me and walking out on me and our children. Unfortunately I think it’s another Narc from his childhood who he can not let go of. She’s on her 4th husband and now has mine, regardless of what extent their situation is. I do hope that they both ruin each other, especially after what they’ve done to my family 😔

[@truthseeker5941]

Shamim, so sorry for your loss. Just heal and get strong and maybe therapy for the family. It does not seem so now, but it is best he is gone. Those people bring nothing but destruction. My leaving saved me from HIV that mine caught years later while he was married to someone else. In the end, he said I was the only one that had his heart...even though he could never be faithful.

[@tammymedeiros7325]

@Shamim Temour It's our emotional flesh that would love revenge ... bottom line, they're NOT WORTH IT! Bottom feeders, evil, demonic Creatures who worship the devil, sad the devil only sees them as empty , hollow shells who'll get devoured when he has no more use of them. Their choice .... Thank you JESUS for saving my Soul & for Loving me 💞💯

[@suadfarole5136]

Wen I saw him exactly who he is, he became very quiet. But I keep exposing his lies. I fell for his son though, he is ten year old so sweet. But he manipulates him just like he does to me. I finally find way to leave him.

[@victorinedempsey3969]

Narcassist are clueless towards love and empathy. The have short expansion spam.😥. Walk away. There is a void.

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I love it when you talk about the narcissist as a parent. It makes it easy to relate because both of my parents were narcs. I have no idea what a REAL parent is even like. Learning these things is getting the wisdom that I have needed for sooo long. No one was there to tell me what to look out for. I joined your Patreon because I LOVE your channel. I am really growing now and life is starting to change for me.

[@orsumbunnygottahelp]

Super cool! Dont look back... its a spiritual thing and you are blessed today because youre no longer trying to find out why it all doest add up....and filling yourself now with all the right stuff hopefully... it wasnt and isnt you.

[@CarlVanderStichele]

it becomes harder for me ...

[@user-bt6qd8it1d]

No you will be left alone and ate and bullied and abused by all and if you survive they will expect from you what they refused to you and other’s Fairness truth gang stalking human trafficking hostage taking fake family church evil

[@tanyabell7748]

They can't talk cause they weren't taught, no healthy disagreements, no love-which is behavior and they are flat out abusive on all levels. Its incredible how the brain alters itself & rewires in a way to help the child survive, and unfortunately, as a child, teenager, young adult, they are simply learning to hone their behavior as some profound challenges occur. Eventually, they've put all their life's energies into just ending up a composite of both, or mirroring the one parent who was shut down emotionally & narcissistic...arrogant. Took...actual...joy??? in hurting u?? Never to take account for anything ever again in their lives. You are bang on! I got 5 yr with a female friend and male friend. DARN!! That reminds me...gotta call Guiness Book World Records. They NEVER EVER did ANYTHING wrong!?!! I'm serious!! They were perfect. Oh! And they're "thee SMARTEST person I'm EVER gonna meet! " Yah.... I threw up in my mouth a little too. Hahahaha!!!!! I been more out, than not the last yr. I can't do it. I walked away. I can barely get thru a day due to disabled health. Add that!?!! Omg. I'm done with sick broken greedy little boy. See...now I see that child looking for love, acknowledgement from 1 of the parents & breaks my heart. It be why the attempts were sooooooo many. It's just I'm the only one changing. Mourning loss of what never was... & no closure except what I can do for myself. Been baaad couple weeks with 1st holiday alone. Alllll the plans... it WAS the one time I could enjoy myself cause they controlled everything! Sometimes I feel like the crazy one for even understanding & care about what created them & I have so much love to give. ♡giving to me for now loll!! Alllll to me!! ♡♡♡ I think ur very accurate! 😉👌🏻👍🏻 ☆namaste

[@cornellytelg9219]

Its so true about the narcist now that I left him he is trying to destroy me in every way. And all his friends and family believe the lies of this destroyer am happy hè is out of my life.

[@vishnuprasadahyderabad79]

Word after word is quite revealing and sure helpful to understand the psyche of many around.

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

That narcs are paranoid is another very good point! This answers an awful lot of questions and where a lot of things in my life simply did not make sense. When I tried to love and assure them of my love, I got anger and retribution! These people don't know how to even receive love. They are like wondering around with no home and no parents or friends! They have no acceptance of being human and knowing that love makes up for your mistakes and flaws. It is a trust thing that everyone is lovable and everyone belongs in this life and to love. Love belongs to everyone. You just have to trust it.

[@directionfinderformen]

19 yrs of toxic living. I said a lot of bad things to her out of anger and frustration. She finally told me that she doesn't think she's ever loved anyone in her life. 2 weeks later, she had me removed from my home by lying to the police. I never understood until now. She's a vicious person.

[@davedsilva]

Excellent content. It helps me strengthen my resolve to not give my evil, narcissistic wife any attention

[@michaelbabbs7585]

Yeah NARCS are EVIL

[@bethomondi457]

What you are saying is very true I experienced them exactly as you are explaining

[@evelynfigueroa2255]

WOW if I needed clarity this video gave it to me , I finally understood so well that it’s sad but very true everything in this video is true i gotta leave I’ll be dammed to have the worst kind of human 2nd guessing my worth I’m just glad I always had the upper hand and always did what I wanted until 2 years ago these traits had me researching , he’s the worst and I rather be aloe then with a horrible human THANK YOU for this clarity 🖤

[@ziziscorsese9475]

The best of luck to you. ❤

[@samxsara]

When I saw him again 3 weeks ago, after 3 years, he told me about his life & I told him that he was just chronically dissatisfied. I think I couldn’t have found a better way to describe his life. I hope he will never forget that.

[@nelsonvargas9527]

If you do not have the ability to love yourself how can you possibly love others ?

[@mostHigh23]

This video sums it all up. Thank God I'm off that hellish roller coaster ride.😊😊 And thank you for your videos and content I am new here.

[@dargeo1406]

I dated a narcissist for 6 months and he’s still trying to get me back even after years. But I know my value now and know he can’t make me happy because he constantly has to have other sources to prop his ego. Told him so recently and signed him up for mental help. Hope he goes to his appointments 🤷‍♀️He didn’t see THAT coming. He probably didn’t think I’d ever figure him out because I was so sweet , kind and gentle with him, he took me for blind and naïve. I wonder what he’ll do next and but need to protect myself physically and energetically… Love and light to all! 🙏❤️🏡

[@CynthiaSchoenbauer]

I think you have great strategy. You gave him a way to go, but you are not holding your breath because you just might die if you do that.

[@sandralogue1774]

"I feel awful about losing my favorite person,I 'll go to therapy to try to sort it out " said no Narcissist ever .

[@ragegamer1642]

EXACTLY

[@luffypupperstien2706]

27 years with a narcissist and only two years aware. I used to be so afraid and confused and my background of poverty and violence used against me, I was shamed by my “being dumb” having been in remedial school Now I see these are kryptonite to a narcissist I r never known life to be easy so food and new clothes is pretty awesome and their ways are less frightening than what I grew up with. I’m dumb enough I let things slide

[@jennywager6228]

You can learn new ways to be…don’t let this shit slide…learn from it! We feel stupid but we are trauma bonded as kids but now we know better. That isn’t stupid…..it’s survival!

[@natashawiley]

You Free now

[@fightswithspirits915]

I could give a crap what a narcissist thinks or wants. I dropped her hard, removed related friends from media, deleted very piece of evidence she ever existed. She was the sweetest kindest most vicious person I ever met.

[@charlenemontefusco8240]

[@melodyschannel4734]

Wow this is hitting home and I’ve been in my marriage for 26 years

[@delf5724]

Great description! I can't just thank you enough for everything you said here

[@CapnSky14]

Everything you said is true I’m dealing with one for 10 years every every every thing you said he done it to me and if I even attempt to tell him what he have done to me he get so angry and calling me selfish while he’s the one now he’s telling me I’m a narcissist but everything you say in this video he done it to me but I’m the one who is a narcissist according to him. He made sure everyone he met in my life now all gone even my oldest son and he was starting to do it with my younger trying to turn him against me too that’s when I knew this guy nothing will change him I wish I come across your videos 9yrs ago it would save me over $2million and a lot of stress and sickness

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

No matter which way they they approach a true partner it is only a temporary deception prior to an emotional divorce

[@thissucks110]

This has been very enlightening. I am at the tail end of a narcissistic intimate relationship. All of what is described in the video happens to be my life with this sad being. I am now going to court for a false criminal allegation. New to my current city, it is difficult to find work, especially in my field due to this narcissist's lies. This person has me facing eviction as well. Not knowing about narcissists, I put individual on the lease as it was my resources that got the apartment which little contribution came from this person. A vow came, in an argument, to destroy me for exposing such behavior to others. It's been an interesting experience. Fortunately, our lease is almost up and court date around the corner. This video has helped me tremendously. All in all, it is done, no matter the added covert BS. I have a better strategy now. Thank you for the valuable insight.

[@1stBorn538]

You can jump over backward trying to appease or please them, go broke, almost lose your life, and they still require more, leaving you frustrated heartbroken & empty. You are nothing more than an object supplying a need. They're never satisfied or content. Very miserable ppl even when they have everything. They need psychiatric help & Jesus

[@know973]

I always say they need Jesus, therapy, Oprah and Dr phil...

[@shamnarinepersaud1942]

Yes I thought they will change but after many many years with my narcissistic partner I am disappointed and you give me the facts Thanks

[@victorinedempsey3969]

They live a double life.

[@fightback397]

They have no life , wherever they go everything turns to chaos and despair .

[@blancamiranda778]

SPOT ON, EVERY TIME‼️❤️‍🔥 THANKS

[@AngelGonzalez-de3nn]

Narcissism, manic depression, bipolarity, and many other personality disorders are very rampant; today.

[@desireeleslie7837]

Reminds me a bit of my partner because he can be that way at times. Be nice towards me when he wants me to do things for him then within a few hours or so...he becomes rude/moody. And then later complains that his body is paining or his tummy is sore or doesn't know why certain things are going wrong for him. Refusing to pay attention that whenever he behaves in that rude manner and is wrong...karma comes but he still won't listen. But one day is going to be one day... God sees all and knows all.

[@ginalynn91]

Everything in your videos is right on point. I have been in a relationship for nearly 30 years, being slowly pulled in little by little, very slowly and the more I caught on to the lies and deception the more cruel he became. Not really knowing what I was dealing with has made it extremely hard to get away. It has been an up and down ride. I wish i had known sooner.

[@desertdoxies2906]

You hit the nail square on with this one!!!!!

[@elanaseger2868]

All spoken here is 100% true to a tee. So appreciate your insight and wisdom for all who tuned it. You are a gift from God. Thank you.

[@christielawrence4640]

I am a gentle one, But the narc I know gets this from me repeatedly: "Anything you feel like doing today is good. It's all about YOU." Narc will never get it. THANKS SO MUCH FOR YOUR CHANNEL.!!

[@zanmeredith7418]

This is an excellent video. Wowwww... Very good

[@Olivazatar]

I feel like your videos help me a lot to wake up on a lot of mixed messages and stuff. I didn’t understand till I start watching your videos. Thank you again.

[@carolmaplesden916]

I just left the narc in my life over the years I concord his hold on me I was able to come to terms with what he is and he knew it I was with him long enough for him to see there was nothing he could do to hurt me and long enough for him to come to terms with that fact He is still pathetic and I am a better person from knowing him

[@jimohkingslley196]

Love videos,my experience with an malignant narc was so crazy when I tell men bout it they tend to make it a competition of who's marriage was worse or it typically happens to everybody,so frustrating thanks for painting the perfect picture of what it's truly like to be with a narcissist their wives only had high traits but not as manipulative.She was so evil that 2yrs later she still negatively affecting my life with friends and family.

[@jsamanthawise1379]

I love your channel. My husband left me 5 months ago and no contact; he moved back to him family in another state and took all our wedding pictures, why, he is never coming back

[@Duncanexgirlfriend]

He took your wedding photos so that you can’t show them to any one and don’t have proof he was married to you

[@BrandyHuber-ge5ci]

Thank you so much for teaching people about this topic. Im a survivor! It's very important to learn about these kind of people

[@RebelsBestFriend]

My toxic sister was sitting in her truck with her leg stuck out the door. The door accidentally swung shut on her leg pinching it. I was so surprised when she yelled out in pain, I really didn't think she had the capability to feel anything in any way.

[@takangangba9975]

Thank you for your kind information about the narcissist's characteristic in detail manner. We do have a woman of a narcissistic nature who always stabbing back against every staff members that often causes arguments amongst the jury.

[@carolemcneal-otis1983]

Hi I am experiencing this with someone in my life 😢

[@mercadomonica1]

Thank you for allowing me to hear the clarity of mind I have been spinning out of control, for it has brought me so much peace.

[@shovelheadpec]

These women and men Called narcissist can and are from my point of view some of the meanest most deceptive people ever. I gave 16.5 yrs to the female narc family and friends of mine were baffled why I stayed so long 😪 well I didn't even know what a narc was really till last March! Yeah I know I'm 64 almost 65 I thought I was healthy all those yrs till 2020 at her place that nite almost didn't wake up the next morning ended up taking a ambulance ride had a mini stroke she always had me under so much stress day in day out constantly questioning me confusing me accusing me assuming things about me that were so very untrue now I know from these videos I educated myself what a nightmare it was dealing with this psychopath narc I'm alive on my own healing from not just her abuse but other injuries in between thank you for this opportunity to vent after discarded back in July 2022 no contact no messenger or faceplant no no not ever again!! Thank you to all the communities out here that help victims from any abuse because abuse is exactly like it says it's ABUSE!!

[@strangetimes5724]

Wow. A lesson on how to KEEP a narcissist in your life. 👍

[@jeniannicancerian1979]

Listening to this is making me so sick to my stomach. I dealt with one for four years, and I made the best decision of my life not to chase him when he left me he did me a favor.

[@judithbistrian1834]

Thank you for your insight. You are SPOT ON. Married to an extremely insecure, manipulative narcissist. Lord help me.

[@janm9610]

My ex husband was extremely insecure, needed validation from everyone, extremely controlling and told me I was controlling, abusive, manipulate, was adulterous. We lasted 7 months in a marriage. Good riddance loser

[@user-tq2bk8vx3p]

Everything you said is the man I was in love with and I couldn't figure out his behaviors until I learned from you all the characteristics of how a narcissist thinks. Now I know. 8 years of sadness and there's no cure.

[@karencox8699]

In 2014 I left my second N husband! I had no knowledge of this personality! I am empathetic so I was hooked almost immediately! What a horrible experience it was for 9 years! I had quite an experience in this problem! Since then I have slowly rid my life of takers and down to one adult son! That’s a bit harder but it’s also possible to walk away from ‘Nothing’ in reality! I was asked for help and gave help and I saw the light from his reactions! Nope not doing this again no matter who they are! He seems to jump back and forth between types! OH so exhausting! Thank you for your information!

[@prophet1782]

WOW !! Nail on the Head. !! Narcs want to own all good in you.

[@terrycomrie5533]

They are crazy in real life wow man have you opened my eyes

[@tracybrambilla796]

I have just called it quits with my husband of 28 years. It is the hardest thing I have ever done. He has completely destroyed the person I was, I am an super empath and used to think that is was a curse. But I thank the Devine for this gift as it has helped me survive. The narrsasist is pure evil, I have a long way to go before I am healed, but I refuse to give up