Every room has a smartest person, sometimes that smartest person is just there dropping seeds and giving yall some free knowledge then he’s off
@secretsantaification7 ай бұрын
I think it's a good idea to try to teach them something because they teach a lot of dudes the wrong thing right now
@edbradley68157 ай бұрын
he walked in there willingly
@Todo_fighting7 ай бұрын
Absolutely.
@mcmjr4057 ай бұрын
Most well read man in the room… a book a day is advantageous more often than not.
@apptrade7 ай бұрын
Nature doesnt give a sh*t about culture. Well said.
@user-vu9hb1qd8r7 ай бұрын
That is so very true
@shammybarn7 ай бұрын
It actually does though culture would be part of your nurture. According to most researchers Chomsky being a prime example the two parts that comprise a human being are both nature (their genetics) and also nurture(how they are raised/ external stimulus)
@squeekyclean16447 ай бұрын
@@shammybarnI agree but I think in his context he means “nature is Father Time, it doesn’t care if your culture has you searching for the best option, when time runs out nature is cruel”
@rylosoter7 ай бұрын
@@shammybarnNature is literally different than nurture that's why one is called nature the other is nature
@fach44227 ай бұрын
Yeah but obviously when he says nature, he's talking about Biology, meaning your biology doesn't care about you culture because at the end of the day if your culture leads you to not having kids and settling down, then that trait will not get passed down genetically @@shammybarn
@stuartlawler24116 ай бұрын
He didnt even flinch through that insolent laughter...a big boy right here.
@HK000886 ай бұрын
I respect this man he’s born in wrong generation
@thomasspann86786 ай бұрын
My mom is messed up so I see nothing wrong with being messed up as well.
@HK000886 ай бұрын
@@thomasspann8678 my moms messed up but idk
@xxdarkson436 ай бұрын
Sigma shit
@jayjayx5x16 ай бұрын
I don’t think you realise they weren’t laughing at Tai… They were laughing at her.
@HapticFrequencies6 ай бұрын
"Nature don't give AF about culture.." Brilliant
@leveticus14616 ай бұрын
It was a dumb statement as its vice versa. Culture doesn't give a sh1t about nature.
@merkretro6295 ай бұрын
Yeah that was good for sure.
@noneya12385 ай бұрын
Well, we live in civilization now, and many people are choosing to not have children.
@kiaunte44 ай бұрын
Said that to like 10 people in the last 3 years, thanks.
@Mobi_Beaming4 ай бұрын
Sitting here with my lambo
@davidperry43107 ай бұрын
That room was like a junior high class. One adult in the room.
@devonwilliams24237 ай бұрын
I bet tais garage gets more puss than those guys lol
@wondoxl48667 ай бұрын
Two including myron
@davidperry43107 ай бұрын
@wondoxl4866 Myron is a bit childish too. But he makes a lot of sense!
@csteph177 ай бұрын
Your childish as hell asserting how you feel . Being an adult is not a on a spectrum of how you feel theirs a definite age regardless of maturity.
@JakeDaMistake6 ай бұрын
@@davidperry4310Myron only 31. Crazy I thought he was in his 40’s
@devlinn27977 ай бұрын
Notice how the idiots hosting the show think Tai is joking? It's because everything they say is meant to be an insult, but Tai came with real sources against a claim
@fantomman38817 ай бұрын
I noticed you are a typical simp mate 😂 💯
@Yaseen477 ай бұрын
LOLOL this is so wrong and its funny bc it sounds so right The ONLY book you need on the paradox of choice is called Feeling Is The Secret by Neville Goddard. Audiobook is on KZbin btw YW GL
@crzxm7 ай бұрын
They were not laughing at Tai. They laughed at the girl's crazy idea.
@Thomas-ps9qk7 ай бұрын
Because what he said is funny because it’s frank and quite rude. They’re right to laugh, and he did a good job going deeper. Imagine if someone said “I’ll just do drugs, my mom was a drug addict and she’s fine” And your response is “dang, being an addy is genetic”
@sibusiso28417 ай бұрын
To be fair, "its genetic" in this context sounded funny. We can be humorous while addressing real subjects but I get what you saying
@choncha236 ай бұрын
My mom is single too. She is an immigrant from Mexico. Growing up, she used to talk so much shit about Men. The independent stuff and boss babe stuff. Today, she is 70 years old and is all alone. I married and made my life. She lives by herself barely scraping by, and she tells me how she regrets not marrying. It’s one thing saying I will be single when you have your youth. When you are old and sitting in an apartment alone until the holidays come around is a different type of realization.
@JNAMOTORSPORTS5 ай бұрын
Same shit my mom did and what’s stupider. She kept relying on my dad who wasn’t worth a shit and kept having kids with a abuser and when I ask her “why” and then I ask her “ why did you miss treat me for being a boy and a man with me also defending and taking your side and then you send me to be with him when you knew what he was” then she claims it’s my fault, doesn’t know how babies were made, it’s his fault he did use condemns, I ask when “ after the 2nd fucken kid you couldn’t figure out what a condemn was or be on birth control? I never get any real answers from either of them. What I’ve learned is they are both insane and they are both totally miserable morons and we suffered from adults who couldn’t be responsible or decent human beings and no, no one was a drunk, and no one was on drugs. These are totally sober people which makes it worse.
@thecasualatvguy6175 ай бұрын
Your mom and the girls mom kn tje video need to get together. The girl in the video can go along and make sure the cats don't eat em
@popwayneful5 ай бұрын
Sheesh this is sad, I’m happy for you but man do these single older women need to speak up so the younger women don’t fall for the same trap. I’m convinced since they aren’t it’s because misery loves company
@deekaysky5 ай бұрын
Children either blindly follow their parents example or they learn what to do and NOT to do from their parents experiences, my father was an alcoholic and seeing him like that I chose to give up drinking
@rndmusrnm27635 ай бұрын
You can be widowed any day though. If you’re marrying just not be alone on the holidays then you’re doing it for the wrong reasons. I’m not anti-marriage either. But it’s better to be single your whole life then marry when you’re emotionally immature/haven’t found a reliable partner.
@gatesraby67445 ай бұрын
That explains so much. My mother was single, meaning she heard her mom talk trash about men her whole life, made bad choices in men like her mother, and agreed with her mother because they can't figure out thar accountability in their choice.
@hunterhendrix53015 ай бұрын
weird way of saying your mom was a sheep and chose to blindly follow your idiotic grandmother’s ideals.
@kissmygrits0017 ай бұрын
“ I got 13 lambos but u know what I value more…. THIS BOOK SHELF 😤”
@LUIGIRACER697 ай бұрын
Hahah
@tommywap09237 ай бұрын
He wasn’t lying 🤷🏽♂️😂
@theorignalmartian12617 ай бұрын
You just brought back a lost memory
@DrewChainsTV7 ай бұрын
OG
@bullseyebulldog80017 ай бұрын
Is this the same guy?
@Curdledmayonnaise7 ай бұрын
"one of my mentors" - tai lopez
@DaPhreshestKidd7 ай бұрын
I think that for any book he reads, he calls the author a mentor, because they taught him something. I doubt he met and studied all these people. Its a way to make himself look more important by association i guess
@moritzkorsch90297 ай бұрын
@@infalliblegodthat's literally what he admitted to doing.
@bigdog41667 ай бұрын
@@moritzkorsch9029the only valuable info tai lopez has ever given was completely for free and it was how to find the golden nuggets in a book that is trying to teach you something so you could get past the fluff that's written to fill the rest of the pages and get to the lessons and learning
@RobertGillontheinterweb7 ай бұрын
Knowing the best quotes from the key books is the way all these influencers work. Look at the new ones like Hormozi, he hasn’t had an original thought in his life, but is full of amazing quotes from others so sounds great
@princemezi37047 ай бұрын
KNOWLEDGE
@dontworryitsdi6 ай бұрын
my mom was a single mom, shes always trying to convince me i could leave at any time and 'do better' than my husband. I don't listen to my mom 🤷🏻♂️ i love my husband
@SwaggDollazZ5 ай бұрын
Thank god
@LvLocks19155 ай бұрын
Unless he's making you miserable I see no reason to separate, it's only sad when you wake up miserable because you are next to this person but you don't want to be alone so you stick around.
@diannahoffman59195 ай бұрын
U are an intelligent woman. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
@diannahoffman59195 ай бұрын
@LvLocks1915 W r o n g.... Marriage ISNT about FEELINGS.... Its about COMMITMENT.
@LvLocks19155 ай бұрын
@@diannahoffman5919 Wow your life is/ is going to be awful if you stick around just because of commitment while you are miserable day in and day out. There's absolutely nothing wrong with divorcing someone if they make you feel like shit.
@Bravybrown6 ай бұрын
Knowledge changed my life literally, even started thinking more appropriately after realizing my ways were misguided. For not having any parents I'm lucky to have realized this.
@skaterzero075 ай бұрын
How’d you get in and make the habit
@Bravybrown5 ай бұрын
@@skaterzero07 Made enough mistakes to know they weren't getting me anywhere, realization is a great attunement to have if your lucky enough.
@erikaw80775 ай бұрын
This statement was the realest!! I felt it for sure!! Knowledge is power and you got it!!
@ghslhgk12347 ай бұрын
Tai has a book for everything
@meganreger69427 ай бұрын
That’s because he reads!!!! 😂😂❤
@JTD337 ай бұрын
KNOWLEDGE
@Fr0styJade7 ай бұрын
Well… there is a book for every thing on this planet so
@YourTruthIsALie7 ай бұрын
@@tahmnkenchfr only broke mfs don't read lmao
@kazaiza64057 ай бұрын
I love that book about a Lamborghini in a garage 😂
@roadtosucessroadtosucess84057 ай бұрын
VERY VERY TRUE. Learned it the hard way. Wen u feel like u have a lot of choices. U act like it. And it causes u to loose the one choice that cared for u
@user-wu1gm8xz9u7 ай бұрын
😔
@kejadventures2416 ай бұрын
Letting this loser tell you anything would make you worthless.
@Freddielounds-17906 ай бұрын
You not u.
@TT-vx2wr6 ай бұрын
And people wonder why in the world of online dating, more people are single! Especially women! Because they see unlimited perceived options!
@alexlilano19316 ай бұрын
I acutally think it is online dating. My friend literally spam the same thing to all girls, literally all girls, even the old and ugly ones to get more responses. These women think they have a lot of choices when their inbox is literally filled with spam, but most of these men arent acutally interested. My friend went on two dates and said the girls are not as pretty as their pictures. He deleted the app because he met some crappy women on it. He literally told his friend to call him to get him out of the date. I also went on a date with a girl and she isnt pretty. I can feel she think she has more option than she does. She actually broke it off which is okay. I wasnt in to her too. I'm married with a kid and she is still online dating in her late 30s.
@adrianhartanto52436 ай бұрын
That's the knowledge we need
@devinmortier52696 ай бұрын
Honestly impressed, first man I’ve seen where they weren’t trying to interrupt him the entire time
@paultexasusa13667 ай бұрын
Tai just out classed the room so hard…
@toolstechgadgets7 ай бұрын
Tai is a knowledge freaky genius 👏
@B00nater7 ай бұрын
@@toolstechgadgetsnot at all he just reads books, I guess being able to read quantifies you as a genius now 😂
@Martyr2177 ай бұрын
I said this at work when I was about 24 years old, someone said I was the smartest person he knows in the canteen with about 8 people at our table and I just said I'm not that smart I just read and watch shit loads of documentaries on history because like a lot of things it repeats.
@dabsmoothbeats11747 ай бұрын
@@B00naterWhat about Tai would make him not a genius? Enlightenment is please.
@moosehead44977 ай бұрын
Or he just pulled something out of his ass because it was on his mind and very questionable if it's related to her having a genetic trait
@microwaveoven91707 ай бұрын
I think more people need to realize that having a lasting relationship means finding somebody who may not be the most perfect person you've ever met, but they're someone who shows you that they can work with you to build a beautiful relationship. It's not about finding "the one", but about realizing that they can be if you give them time. It doesn't mean you have to settle for mediocre and hope that they turn out right for you, you should still look for red flags and know that when the other person stops working on your relationship then you need to reevaluate and/or call it quits too. Just remember, when it comes to problems in your relationship it's not you vs your partner, it's you and your partner versus the problem.
@BillyBob-oi9kl7 ай бұрын
Agreed. But as a man reading these comments piss me off. A lot of these guys can't get girls, so they pretend that they'd be prince charming if only they were given the chance. Meanwhile, the more likely scenario is that if they'd have options they'd act just like the people that they crucify.
@felishaenriquez99636 ай бұрын
Just wanted to let you know I really loved your comment. Wish more people thought this way.
@TheFlowZoneX6 ай бұрын
Best comment I've ever read on YT. Brilliant. Thank you
@jasmineroberts60346 ай бұрын
Fax
@Bronco4eva6 ай бұрын
Me and my lady been together for almost 7 years and you got it down to a T. Very well-versed ,there will always be hiccups and bumps in the road but it’s a matter of communication and how you handle it together is how you grow!
@bigguy21286 ай бұрын
"My momma was cursed. I'll just remain cursed"
@neurogal6 ай бұрын
Being alone isn’t always a curse
@honestreviews12036 ай бұрын
Some people are just truly happy by themselves.
@GORILLA_PIMP6 ай бұрын
Oh hell yeah!! The LESS im around other people the BETTER i feel!!!
@DustinLee20016 ай бұрын
The sadness in her eyes tho, she dont look happy by herself while she says it is all Im sayin.
@Geisla546 ай бұрын
@@DustinLee2001bro she’s like 14
@SandiegoRockstar6 ай бұрын
@Geisla54 she's at least 18. And her face can't lie like her mouth does.
@theedwardian6 ай бұрын
This is a cope. Humans don't need to socialize but they need at least one other person in their lives to remain sane and motivated. Naturally this means a partner, and later in life children and grandchildren.
@zenden65647 ай бұрын
"nature doesn't give a shit, you gotta pop them out" --- brutally true 👍
@vsmith61097 ай бұрын
Still gotta be smart and choose someone reliable, comfortable sober, kind, and stable emotionally. Gotta choose wisely or else single mom with regret. Choosing for better? Well financially well off and healthy is also important choices. A broke guy would require a partnership in finances so working soon after a baby is born and relying on someones mom during work days. Then financial struggles is hard. Healthy also means she doesnt have to stress on him and the baby.
@IluvAmerica7 ай бұрын
Not every woman wants children or cares
@jessemockler6167 ай бұрын
@IluvAmerica feminist enters chat
@IluvAmerica7 ай бұрын
@@jessemockler616 if by feminist you mean supports equal rights, consequences and wanting equality socially then yes. I personally do not want children.
@ultragrapple65657 ай бұрын
That's great, it will end with you. We don't need more people with that shit mindset, ignoring your biology and purpose in life is up to you, but having kids is the most important thing you can ever do. @@IluvAmerica
@1TightMinute7 ай бұрын
The paradox of choice, the more choices you have the harder time you will have deciding and the less satisfied you will be with your decision. People were talking about this twenty years ago. It looks like it’s making a comeback now.
@Tamous2146 ай бұрын
Folks. Listen, process, and use information. But just live your life. If it's not applicable, move on. Dont settle for a relationship just because you think it's the best you're gonna get. And dont leave a relationship just because you think you can find someone better. Staying single isn't a bad thing, and wanting a partner isn’t wrong either. But you should be comfortable in either state. Make improvements to your life, become the person who deserves the perfect partner, and somewhere along the way, you just might find one.
@wrapitupcokey85565 ай бұрын
looks like we have a maximizer
@Tamous2145 ай бұрын
@wrapitupcokey8556 yes. I am.
@Maverick.D.6 ай бұрын
He is actually right, and this is something I realized as I got older.
@alejandroleonardo79637 ай бұрын
The laughing stopped when the logic started
@fatboynip7 ай бұрын
Ya wtf were they even laughing? They did t even know what they were laughing at, what did they think he said? Lol
@statik476 ай бұрын
@Ieattoomuch it's called being immature / a man child. Check out Dr Jordan Petersons college lecture on Peter Pan.
@aldomedina79996 ай бұрын
The laughing stoped cause they wanted him to finish his thought loser 😂 without being interrupted
@KenTheAdventurer7 ай бұрын
As long as people who would be bad parents don't have kids then being single is a good choice
@dabsmoothbeats11747 ай бұрын
There are literally millions of successful adults that contributed greatly to the world, who had “bad parents.”
@Applleheead7 ай бұрын
Exactly, some people don't even want kids. Most people.on this channel seem to be very narrow minded. I'd rather be an alone maximiser than a miserable settler. I also don't think I have a lot of choice but I still accept not to settle. Men seem.to.struggle.with this concept.
@TheTyrial867 ай бұрын
@@Applleheead You don't settle because of your own personal issues. Having children is the reason you exist. We exist for that reason. All being single and not producing children does is make you a consumer. All you will do is consume, and everything you build will get returned to the state. Your wealth, time, energy, experiences. All will die with you... That sounds horrible. I have two kids, by the way. We were put here to build a better world for our children.
@heisenburg86087 ай бұрын
@@dabsmoothbeats1174that’s not the point bro, the point is don’t make the world harder than it is. If you give your kids trauma then you’re just giving the future world trauma and giving your kids a disadvantage. Yeah we all suffer but is it necessary to add to that? No.
@Applleheead7 ай бұрын
@@TheTyrial86 I have four, some people can't have any. Life is varied.
@meoshewu6 ай бұрын
That woman is right. People will limit their choices.
@tyroneabram77646 ай бұрын
Pac Man found a new lane. Good for him. 👍
@theedwardian6 ай бұрын
That's Manny Pacquiao? I knew looked familiar. Good for him, he looks taller in a suit.
@jamesm51927 ай бұрын
Tai's mentors are warring in his head all day
@codythep7 ай бұрын
Brutally true, I’d wager.
@SharkAcademy7 ай бұрын
Maximizes are also never happy with what they have even when they find what they thought they were looking for, then they realize it hasn’t made them happy so they think the answer is that they need more. This is not only for partners, but also lifestyle, career, etc. They’re always chasing that thing they think will make them happy once they get it and can never be content/happy
@firstnamelastname59507 ай бұрын
Thank you. Great observation
@bestintrest32707 ай бұрын
As a maximizer myself I’ll tell you there’s a spectrum and rational thinking does play a role it’s not necessarily Always to the extreme as one might think
@jonaya99447 ай бұрын
Can you return to us when you are 20 years older with an update?@@firstnamelastname5950
@marcrose34037 ай бұрын
@@bestintrest3270 you are truly not one then
@TommyOhmalley7 ай бұрын
Yeah that hit home. I now think I’m a maximizer. Granted I know life is finite so I do settle but I do find myself always wanting the best. Difficult to settle
@tmptre6 ай бұрын
Of course "look at my Lamborghini" Lopez brings up a book
@Mysteriouslyhidden74 ай бұрын
My mother‘s been married my entire life & she still is.. I feel the exact same way this girl does and I’m not looking for the best. I’m looking for authentic, decent and honest.. That’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack. 💚💚
@MussaKZN7 ай бұрын
The Only one in the room that’s read a book with hard covers..
@FOH457 ай бұрын
one was homeland, u think anyone gets in there without reading? 🤣
@Xzsxztreiii7 ай бұрын
Name 10
@drokhalis33387 ай бұрын
Hey I save money buying the floppy cover textbooks in college.
@kimmieutsunomiya14577 ай бұрын
@@FOH45people that work in government bureaus aren’t that smart. They also look at you as if you’re strange when you want to do extra hours
@OGBACKFIN7 ай бұрын
Indeed 👌 well stated...hard covers. Imma remember that one
@level10protools117 ай бұрын
Tai read that book in 30 seconds in his garage. 😂
@stonedan06 ай бұрын
She looked so sad and resentful while she was saying it
@michaelkelly53565 ай бұрын
The one woman not laughing at him looking directly at him listening to
@KikiNation17 ай бұрын
I like Tai’s response here
@willspeakman24617 ай бұрын
She said she will stay single whats wrong with that? I'd happily be single for the rest of my life.
@PhilipPaxton6 ай бұрын
She was on the verge of tears.
@magneto446 ай бұрын
better to be alone forever than be with the wrong person
@GORILLA_PIMP6 ай бұрын
AMEN TO THAT!!!
@bongwater24826 ай бұрын
Then you will not reproduce and spread those genes. Simple as.
@Nikolebichon6 ай бұрын
You’re the wrong person if that’s the case. Life’s a mirror.
@kazzykaioken88736 ай бұрын
Yep u and the other million people who became incels from watching youtube shorts can all be lonely forever watching porn im sure u love it
@myexistenceoffendsmany...3296 ай бұрын
This whole "wrong person" trope has got people, especially young women, convinced that if the person they are with isn't perfect, according to their standards, then they are the "wrong person". There definitely are many cases of people just not working well together. And that's understandable. But now it seems to me that these people just don't want to actually try and get closer, more real. An unwillinglyness to put in some work. The honeymoon phase of the relationship ends, life gets real, and they bail.
@75starky7 ай бұрын
One of the best episodes of fnf for real. Class was in session on this one.
@jasonkolde997 ай бұрын
I just ordered it on Amazon. Thanks
@ranranpoopants7 ай бұрын
Why would you want to learn about that. It’s for females with problems lmao
@GelatoooBuzzz5 ай бұрын
Knowledge should be tattooed across this man’s forehead
@DanielRamosss5 ай бұрын
Hahaha Tai is a legend for real 😂
@patrickking96007 ай бұрын
“Here in my garaaaaaaage” 😂
@T_DoGo7 ай бұрын
Never ending cycle single moms raising single moms
@Todo_fighting7 ай бұрын
Even if shen wasn't raised by her mother should would still inherit mother's emotional traits.
@alexanderwolfgang35717 ай бұрын
@@Todo_fightingbut, alsp.be indoctrinated by Jewish America.
@l.l.80227 ай бұрын
never ending cycle fathers bailing in their children
@boringnames69207 ай бұрын
Never the father's fault somehow. Men avoid responsibility for everything nowadays.
@mimigemini16337 ай бұрын
I wonder where the deadbeat fathers are to stop the cycle.
@annaleevalfig11196 ай бұрын
I’m definitely a satisfier for the exact reasons he mentions at the end 🤷🏽♀️
@philipbaville82136 ай бұрын
In many businesses and fields they will often refer to this as paralysis by analysis. When you have too many options and choices you will fail to make any choice because you’re too concerned with making the wrong choice. It has fully manifested itself in the dating habits of both men and women resulting in the ultra chads/tyrones and the hoeflated women. The greatest strength of humans, is making a choice and finding the joys in that choice whatever it is instead of looking at the potential joys in a choice you didn’t make.
@jusjay38346 ай бұрын
Man this is law
@cfry36365 ай бұрын
Lol this happens to me at the dispensary they have too many strains to choose from and for some reason i just end up getting the same stuff cause I know its good.
@zairmorningstarmusic5 ай бұрын
Infinity
@jeffmonroe63175 ай бұрын
My trucks oil pump went out and it was beyond my ability to fix... but I knew it was fixable. So I borrowed a car for awhile and bought a new truck. My dad's over one day and I pull up and he's been talking to the neighbor and they ambush me about "what would you sell this for?" It wasn't hurting anybody, just sitting in the driveway. But I gave it up. The neighbors dad took it, fixed it, now every so often I see it parked over there and get sad.
@Salikuthikamini947 ай бұрын
Doesn't always mean they want better - a lot of women dont want to settle for men who will mistreat them and theres nothing wrong with that.
@akashajones60797 ай бұрын
Exactly
@user-ry8ms5sq9p6 ай бұрын
Now and days a woman want that guy they find attractive even if they get treated like crap
@tristanbain61306 ай бұрын
When they attract a richer guy, suddenly their man is "mistreating" them😂😂. They never leave B4 tho...that's the most bs shit n they think ppl can't see thru it.
@user-ry8ms5sq9p6 ай бұрын
@@tristanbain6130 you know what's crazy women love to manipulate but for some reason they are terrible at it their lies is so much so obvious it's true only the one's in love will fall for the lies so they won't feel so hurt
@marqueslabbe11056 ай бұрын
They've all dated bums!
@Led_Zeppole7 ай бұрын
As someone who owns a retail store, He is 100% without a doubt correct. Mid pandemic when nothing was available, everything was selling. The second product started flowing back in all of a sudden we didn't have what people were looking for. It eventually might even itself out, but people just seem so lost. They dont even know what they're looking for they just know its not that
@Youtubeuser1aa7 ай бұрын
I don’t know if there is causation there
@Marloelizabeth.-.6 ай бұрын
R u smoking bruddy
@krystalirene83606 ай бұрын
If I wanted to be plain and simple, I would agree with this man.
@sandman98616 ай бұрын
lets see how well this age when you become a cat lady..
@honestgabe.6 ай бұрын
That was such a refreshing thing to hear.
@DJDaddyAbraham7 ай бұрын
I remember telling my neices and nephews that they don't "have" to get married .. and my sister (3 times divorced😒), getting SO pissed at me cause of it
@user-wu1gm8xz9u7 ай бұрын
And you were just trying to comfort them with that knowledge, so they don’t feel pressured to get in a relationship. Then of course, someone needs to budge in and try and tell them otherwise, in this case it was your sister. Who as you said, is 3 times divorced, but for some reason she still believes that marriage is essential. Like, okay, then why haven’t you achieved marriage yourself yet if it’s so essential? Lol, sums society up perfectly.
@malachirobinson73236 ай бұрын
@@user-wu1gm8xz9uMaybe because she's broken and needs to fix herself first but at least she's trying, one day you will see dying alone is not preferable. No kids don't count they leave you too when they grow up except now your kids are damaged because you have never displayed a healthy relationship to them like this poor young girl in the short.
@user-gz2qn3su5v7 ай бұрын
Lotta ppl won't get to know someone. Count your blessings if you can find someone you can imagine the rest of your life with.
@garrettingram44946 ай бұрын
Bro really just said “some people settle some people don’t” no shit lol
@manfrombritain68165 ай бұрын
incredible that tai has managed to claw himself back into gifting
@VBTB7 ай бұрын
Knowledge 📖
@billyyager7 ай бұрын
Needed to hear this as im turning 29 this month but have been stuck the past 3 years deciding what pathway in life to choose. What city would be the best, what kind of career do i want and how should occupy my time etc.. I have so many choices that I'm stuck. Its weird.
@darrend20357 ай бұрын
Billy if your ever in a spot where your stuck then try to read books , books that help educate you and open your mind to new ideas ,
@carlfrye15666 ай бұрын
Casinos turn 99% of people into maximizers. Go in with $1,000, run it up to $5,000, lose it all trying to make $20,000.
@GORILLA_PIMP6 ай бұрын
Gonna be hard if you aren't very smart though
@kennethmaye6 ай бұрын
You’re young, be patient…..unsolicited advice from a 39 year old who’s changing careers…..lead with security first, find a trade that you could become certified in that will make a decent amount of money that will stabilize your life. That could help you find a city of your choice to move to. Then find out what your real passion is and work on that behind the scenes while you’re making money through the temporary career until your real passion is able to take over financially. Remember you’re not stuck you’re in a transitional crossroad of “it’s time to make a decisive path”. You got this💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯
@Liv-qi8dp6 ай бұрын
I just turned 29 too and I feel like im doing life wrong cause im single and never had a kid,
@TheRealMusic4Life6 ай бұрын
"Nature don't give a shit about culture" is str8 BARS 💯💯💯
@TopGRick6 ай бұрын
She gives “MA GRANDMA RAIISSEED MEEE” vibes😂
@shanshackyloveduck7 ай бұрын
It is hard to raise children by yourself. One of my friends said "oh I will just get a donor and get pregnant that way. I don't need a man." I had to have some tough conversations with her. I am a concerned friend. A child needs so much emotional support and guidance. It is harder to supplement that. You have to work harder as a single mom.
@firstnamelastname59507 ай бұрын
Yes. Yes. Yes. If your conversation happened more often. Maybe people would be more considerate about being parents instead of being selfish about wanting kids.
@quadaar10177 ай бұрын
Facts Truth
@Epiphemma7 ай бұрын
@@quadaar1017I’m a single mom. It’s not that hard, I actually kinda like it. Men can be really difficult to put up with, but I love being with my child. And I’m not working hard, I work part time. I see some married women working harder than me.. and some of them, their husband is basically another child they have to take care of, lol. I never imagined I would enjoy being a single mom but it happened.
@user-oo8wf9gq6r7 ай бұрын
@Epiphemma good for you, your child can be the next generation of single people
@legallybored88767 ай бұрын
As someone who comes from a single mother and am not pregnant but married , I do not know how people do it on their own. Pregnancy alone takes so much energy from you , always feeling sick and sometimes not even being able to do things for yourself. I really don’t know how anyone does this on their own and it’s not meant to be something to be done on your own either.
@koimama6 ай бұрын
truthfully women can birth healthy babies in healthy pregnancies later in years than ppl think. they must be healthy obviously but it’s still true. i nannied for women who had babies in their 40’s everyone was doing amazingly. there are still aspects of truth in what he’s saying or getting at. and she’s still right to never settle. she’s clearly in her 20’s she has time.
@Marloelizabeth.-.6 ай бұрын
These people aren’t rational and aren’t worth the effort
@neurogal6 ай бұрын
Yes this is true! These shows make it seem like women all need to “pop em out” by like 23 or something 😭🙄
@trombonefellow5 ай бұрын
Every woman won't have that luxury, there is a reason it's generally considered a High Risk Pregnancy. She may not have time either because men are just as right not to settle for her when shes in her 30s or 40s.
@makeshiftusec9925 ай бұрын
But also I must add that it is dangerous
@darkmidnight8185 ай бұрын
It's more risky
@Peterblack126 ай бұрын
Wow that was some KNOWLEDGE. Did he read about that in his garage
@calebriley74666 ай бұрын
She seems so happy to talk about how single she is😂
@jacobwilson90997 ай бұрын
It dont gotta be perfect just compatible
@Jonnisftw7 ай бұрын
The only one in the room that read 10 books
@america2685 ай бұрын
That's what I say about online dating. Too many choices. Meet one woman you like and then tomorrow you meet another one and you like her just as much or more and then another one contacts you and you think you might like her more.
@koacast20165 ай бұрын
She sounded so proud of that statement and said it with call confidence like she accomplished something 😂💀
@EuropeanColonizer7 ай бұрын
1. Give women unrealistic expectations 2. Real men fail said expectations 3. Create a group of forever single women
@Mo-sk7xo7 ай бұрын
it's the 21st century during the social media age.....everyone has unrealistic expectations.....she like 20 the mf hosting this show is unmarried and double her age because of his unrealistic expectations....He seems more forever single than her....Perhaps Men and Women are like that
@Todo_fighting7 ай бұрын
What you said is true, but what he says is also true, our parents pass us more than physical traits.
@JesusRodriguez-ot7eu7 ай бұрын
This also works the other way around.
@ladybug33806 ай бұрын
Men are the ones who gave women unhealthy expectations through books, movies and social programming. They had to do that because of women knew the true nature of men they wouldn’t get chosen. So men had to pretend to make themselves a desirable mate so he can get her pregnant. Nature is wild!!
@mclwhite52896 ай бұрын
@blueberrypancakes4380 single women are the worst kind of poison to women in a relationship. I thought misery loves company is just a corny line but its absolute accurate reality.
@DGaimazz7 ай бұрын
I’m not a feminist or anything but don’t ever let anyone make you feel you need them to be happy. If marriage is so great please explain divorce rate being higher than staying together. Find someone that you can be happy with. Not your source of happiness…
@firstnamelastname59507 ай бұрын
I hate to say it. But you're right about the divorce rate. I mean, im a man. I've been approached by 2 women who were married. 1. i dont count as heavily as the other. The 1 was literally (we had a kid by accident and were trying to make it better, and this was the wisest decision for us) the other... im wondering if she is a maximizer. So anyhoo, even if 50% are together. That doesn't mean those 50% are even close to rock solid as relationships. I dont believe a lot of people realize or care or think of another person. And any level and dont care.... I hate finding shit like this video. Not because of the information. But it helps me understand how i may be fucked. If i am lucky MAYBE ill find someone to love me .... but the evidence in the U.S.A. doesnt give me much hope. Ive wondered a lot if i should travel for love. Lol! 😛
@NightWolf-vv5me7 ай бұрын
You are so correct. Yes you have to find happiness first within and then be happy together with someone.
@guyjoslin76827 ай бұрын
Weak minded people is the cause of divorce.
@Nobody-vr5nl7 ай бұрын
Marriage is a weird trap to me. Sign a contract to commit? That's a weird thing to do for love. If ur committed, ur committed. No reason to bring law into the equation.
@lifestyleeyebyneguibshaban59107 ай бұрын
@@firstnamelastname5950 because we tend to listen more to others advice,forgetting that we are different..Lower your expectations and learn to improve yourself and your patner..Nothing is perfect...I know this is my truth even if i don't feel satisfied with it.
@ZotoZen6 ай бұрын
And she said it out loud too, speaking into existence
@aviedw16 ай бұрын
Notice the joke didn't deter him. He was trying to make a point. He's def in the wrong room.
@Artfulmisfit7777 ай бұрын
They should make her repeat that 3x you will literally be able to see hurt and pain that comes with delusion and internal shame.
@jichaelmorgan37967 ай бұрын
Often, people are more likely to relax, stop resisting, and give it up after they feel supported/accepted as they are, rather than shamed and pressured.
@vsmith61097 ай бұрын
Then ask the question why is it safer to be single? Do you believe you dont deserve love? Do you fear rejection after someone used you long enough? Do you fear an unsafe home with a mean guy after you devoted yourself to them? Its safer to be single right or just in situationships where you never have to rely on anyone or be hurt by them? What if you can be loved? You deserve love and someone to rely on. When you find them... hold on to them and dont let fear keep you single and miserable. She will break down then with that truth.
@user-ry8ms5sq9p6 ай бұрын
@@vsmith6109if the person is sleeping around that's not single that doesn't count
@neurogal6 ай бұрын
Weirdo
@suzannehofer25417 ай бұрын
I call bullshit! Every relationship I’ve ever been in I have been used they’ve become successful at my expense. I am better off being single emotionally, physically and financially!
@ianpaterson61117 ай бұрын
Sorry things have gone badly for you. What would you say is the coman factor in all the relationships you have been in?
@calebmoyer34567 ай бұрын
If its EVERY relationship, you're the problem. You're the one choosing these people
@bigbob37727 ай бұрын
Females are unfit to properly select a mate. FATHERS job.@@calebmoyer3456
@firstnamelastname59507 ай бұрын
@@calebmoyer3456 not fully fair. Being a person who has had similar experiences. Yes and no. Setting bounderies and finding out if a person can respect you AND have conversations would be a great way to start vetting people. To bad MOST people are about what they get rather then what they give. THAT is a problem. And if you have to set boundaries for such problems. THEN is a decision on your part whether you want to deal with these type of consequences. Because you can NOT just put up with something from someone. There is a LOT of nuances to relationships with humans. BUT they are also simple. Yay human paradoxes! Lol
@lightwork54147 ай бұрын
Ur bad jusdge of character youll learn its life
@smevox74906 ай бұрын
Product of a single parent. Explains a lot
@NewWarOrder5 ай бұрын
Homie has a lot of mentors
@dyllonbroyles54477 ай бұрын
Shitting the bed isn’t better than not shitting the bed, you don’t have to act just because everyone else is, if you have standards and they’re high then so be it that’s the point I’m willing to take time to make sure things are done right than rush in and do them wrong and if someone doesn’t complement my life accordingly then I can’t give it any time or energy you can’t bash someone because they have standards high or low
@MrAntbluntfreaks7 ай бұрын
She's #delusional
@GearZNet7 ай бұрын
Bashings not the point. And, at the end of the day the mother did pick she just didn't/couldn't keep the pick around. The mom got pregnant by someone and raised his seed. 😅
@dyllonbroyles54477 ай бұрын
@@GearZNet so, again I’m pretty sure your shit smells like shit just like everyone you can’t bash people because they made different fucked up choices than yours, as a society bashing one another instead of helping and forgiving one another is why we are failing
@noellburnett56977 ай бұрын
@@GearZNethis "seed"!?!? Dude u sound like such a degen rn
@jonaya99447 ай бұрын
Sure...while you have time to be picky but eventually the day comes when being too picky means being alone and it's too late.
@svetikchum69887 ай бұрын
Picky is not the same as not tolerating disrespectful or icky men, whose going to say no to a man they love that treats them well
@user-ox8dd8mu7u6 ай бұрын
Smartest man in that room. Tries to say something important and everyone laughs
@AmoraEssentials6 ай бұрын
Absolute Facts!!!! Thank you for this. I am sure she appreciated it just as much 😊
@mandysaied6 ай бұрын
Men can be like this too. My ex is a great example. And now he’s 32 & hasn’t dated anyone since me.. 7 years. But he thought he would find “better”. It was too late when he realized he couldn’t. I hope he finds love and has a family someday. And I hope he treasures and holds on to her.
@GORILLA_PIMP6 ай бұрын
He obviously WANTS to be single You seriously don't realize that?
@aldomedina79996 ай бұрын
@@GORILLA_PIMPher cope 😂
@hdfjg6 ай бұрын
why didn't you try for it?
@mandysaied6 ай бұрын
@@hdfjg I did. I was so in love with him. He broke my heart slept with a girl I thought was my best friend and continued leading me on while flirting with other girls essentially looking for another girl. I straight up moved 1/2 way across the country to get over him. And when I was ready to come back it was my ex before him who was still in love with me who put in all the effort to drive and get me. He is also much more stable financially and wasn’t into partying.. little bit older and ready to create a life together VS where are we gonna party next. It was actually he who didn’t try.. and what’s sad is that all those friends he was into dj’ing and going to music festivals with secretly decided to move to a new apartment without him and tell him last minute forcing him to move back to his hometown. He’s been there ever since. It’s sad he deserves to have the wife and family I know he has always dreamed of. He would be a great dad & husband. He wasn’t very financially stable when I knew him, but when you’re young and in love you don’t care about that. Little different in your 30’s tho. Especially if you have high standards for appearance like he does.
@Mia152396 ай бұрын
Maybe he is happier being single than being with you… really ego-maniacal and kinda humiliating to think it’s all about him losing something. Maybe he gained back his life/sanity/peace.
@cixavenue7 ай бұрын
“Pop them out?” this generation of woman have watched their mother struggle with trying to balance both, money is more important, because men dont stick around to help raise them. this is what is truly happening. They sat 2 men with means, talking about the biggest societal problem they have no first hand knowledge about
@harshityadav45746 ай бұрын
I agree with what you're trying to say. Money and becoming self dependent should be prioritised over starting a family
@neurogal6 ай бұрын
Agreed
@kardz18486 ай бұрын
Never thought id have more respect for this guy than anyone else in the room. But here we are.
@thomasgreene80435 ай бұрын
Basically he’s saying settle for less like me hahaha
@zali63707 ай бұрын
Tai didn't even say it to insult her, just spitting facts
@jdlk-ny5yo7 ай бұрын
The girl is right, never settle.
@jdlk-ny5yo7 ай бұрын
@@tahmnkench take a break from the manosphere bro, everyone is entitled to choose their partner.
@jdlk-ny5yo7 ай бұрын
@@tahmnkench there are many 2 parent families that do a terrible job of raising their kids. There are many single parents who do a great job of raising their kids. This manosphere stuff is BS
@panama24687 ай бұрын
What a ridiculous mindset.
@jdlk-ny5yo7 ай бұрын
@@panama2468 settling is for losers, not big strong alpha males like you
@cheesetomeetyou5 ай бұрын
@@panama2468It's not. Settling is like asking for a future divorce
@daseansuper6 ай бұрын
Dude was educating and they thought he was throwing a sarcastic insult..
@MikeJSilva5 ай бұрын
Everyone laugh but stop instantly as soon they realize he wasn't joking with a great explanation.
@BigMoneyBaby6 ай бұрын
Women have the power. She is correct. Stay single, baby girl. STAY SINGLE ❤❤❤❤
@livewutangclan6 ай бұрын
You having a power struggle is the issue. No man is telling yall to protest. it's a inferiority complex.
@BigMoneyBaby6 ай бұрын
@livewutangclan You are projecting. Not my problem. I have the power, no struggle needed. Men are off the table for good. I will adopt 10 cats before I get married again.
@livewutangclan6 ай бұрын
@@BigMoneyBaby The most high has all the power, and he designed you to be with man. You are operating outside of your creators design with these delusions which would lead to perversions such denouncing men for life. Grow, mature, heal. one man shouldn't have the "power" to be able to turn you away from God's plan.
@BigMoneyBaby6 ай бұрын
@livewutangclan My creator made me whole and complete. No man needed. I am the daughter of Love. Mother Nature is God to us small beings on Earth. Argue with your God, not me. #NoMenAllowed
@livewutangclan6 ай бұрын
@@BigMoneyBaby God bless you. God made both women and man with the same intent. to obey his commandments and multiply; and the only way you can procreate is with a man. you can't go against your own nature and believe god is on your side.... wake up lady. you're driving yourself into delusion. I wish you well.
@thatcitrusfriend62347 ай бұрын
She's not wrong though... sometimes children having a shitty parent is worse than not having one at all.
@eldamion45156 ай бұрын
She was bout to cry saying that
@lifegrowth82956 ай бұрын
She said that with so much fear doubt and disgust in her heart, concerning the actual reality that she may have to live this life alone. Not realizing the only thing holding her back from her own happiness may be her own stubbornness.
@chelseybarden9987 ай бұрын
But statistics show single women are happier in most cases. Each to their own. It doesn’t make you ignorant or inadequate. Most men lack discipline & will cheat & believe that’s acceptable. I’m sensitive & could never handle that. I’d rather end up alone than feel constantly back stabbed by the person I love the most. Again, each to their own.
@JonJones17766 ай бұрын
Can you give me that source???
@StrBLADEDing6 ай бұрын
Single women are happier bc they still have dudes around them so they get the benefits of being single while still recieving affection from the opposite sex…. Everyone wants to be their own person, but still feel loved…and the only group of people who experience that are single woman…bc woman are shown love regardless, men aren’t. And a married woman isn’t free like a single woman even though she has the same “feeling” of love as a single woman gets. So no duh a single woman is happier, they get both sides of the coin without the consequences
@PettyCrochet6 ай бұрын
Single women also tend to live longer. Which is a statistic I never see addressed on these podcasts
@austinkesler44936 ай бұрын
Then why do women always jump from relationship to relationship if they are so happy? I feel bad for some of you if you think your truly happier single because that means you’ve never experienced a healthy true love.
@austinkesler44936 ай бұрын
@blueberrypancakes4380 anecdotal evidence yes from my life experience. I have never personally seen a woman younger then forty leave a relationship to not immediately start dating and hooking up again. It’s kind of sad really, yes some men do it too but it is just easier for women so I think that is a large part of the reason.
@NYCBJP6 ай бұрын
This goes for both men and women. Some people are just never satisfied then get mad when they are single or only get hookups. No one wants someone they don’t feel safe with
@jerrydegennaro2736 ай бұрын
In decision.👍 Sometimes you have to find out what you don't want before you find out what you really want.🤔
@johnendalk65376 ай бұрын
I want a real emotional connection or none at all. I will not settle. I'd rather be alone than with someone that makes me feel alone.
@mistresscalytrix7 ай бұрын
Never settle, even if it means you stay single and happy, never settle for someone who isn’t what you want. That goes for all people. No onward should settle for someone they don’t want to truly be with just to not be alone.
@lightwork54147 ай бұрын
Settling is only not being able to recognise the two aspects that matters most, attraction and good character, everything else can be worked on but people want ready made everything when they aint shit, if ur not willing to give u don't deserve to get. They focusing on bullshit and confused why they feel the other gender ain't shit, theyre just shit choosers.
@andyguido77717 ай бұрын
Staying single inevitably will mean ur lack happiness. Saying staying single an happy shows u have the wrong mindset. Maybe u have unrealistic expectations. “Nothing sadder than an outside cat that thinks it’s an inside one” Keep preaching that shit tho an spread that unhappiness of being lonely…bc misery loves company . And if less people r in relationships than u look more normal being all alone. It’s natural to pair up, stop spreading that BS because u r incapable or choose not to
@NattyByNature-7 ай бұрын
I’d rather be single and happy than settling and miserable or unfulfilled.
@dashed03277 ай бұрын
@@andyguido7771 no you can look it up, being able to be alone and happy shows a lack of need for outside validation. If you prioritize relationships over everything its because you feel a void within youself that you want someone else to fill.
@Rivracost37 ай бұрын
This is more true for men than women. Women tend to have active intimate social circles that allow them to maintain good mental health and avoid loneliness even when single. Men tend to only open up and emotionally supported by the women in their lives (mom and wife pretty much). Nobody wants to grow old without a partner but even worse than that is growing old with a partner you don't really want.
@thechampb123457 ай бұрын
Nah we all have endless options in life and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's only the people who are insecure with their own lives, with minimal options, that try to make you choose. Insecure people think being single is crazy. Confident people are ok with it. What makes you think I have to choose something or someone I'm not satisfied with?
@AB-dm5ft6 ай бұрын
Exactly finally a smart answer thank u
@candycolriv6 ай бұрын
I think he’s really only expressing that, time is a factor. It may not be for you, but for most it is. A woman maybe have endless options but her fertility isn’t endless. & past the point of fertility, she’s automatically limited those options. No one has to settle. Time stops for no one though.
@thechampb123456 ай бұрын
@@candycolriv but again, that mindset is from someone with not alot of confidence. "Oh lemme hurry up and find someone because my clock is running out" confident people with options don't think like that, nor could they care less if they end up alone. And men are in this as well, and for me, I've dated a lot in my years, don't want kids, and would be perfectly fine with not finding a wife before I died. We don't listen to the masses who are peer pressuring us into finding love because their weak minds can't live without it. No offense.
@candycolriv6 ай бұрын
@@thechampb12345 no offense taken. I don’t care lol I’m just saying …. That’s part of life. Time. Some people want to be with someone, so they have to consider that. & of course there’s people who don’t want kids… but a lot do. Which is why I said, you limit your options to those who don’t want kids, if you wait too long. Doesn’t mean you settle. Just means you have to be dating with a purpose. If that’s what you want.
@thechampb123456 ай бұрын
@@candycolriv but it's not what alot of people want. That's my point. So for him or anybody to act like you're less of a person just because you don't stick with one guy or girl is ridiculous. To each their own, but to him I would say don't try to force your ways of life onto people who don't see it from your point of view. It doesn't make you better or them worse. You don't have to date with a purpose, no matter the reason, that's your choice to make. Because what you view as a wasted life, may not be that for other people
@DarkLord-se1dv5 ай бұрын
A lot of these women grow up without a father that explains a lot, but in reality, each daughter and each son needs a father and mom not just one