Dave sends damaging message to Tash | Season 7 | Below Deck Mediterranean

[@annygoldberg6792]

The fact that she agreed to keep working with him shows she’s a good person and didn’t want to hurt him. I’d be scared to keep working with someone who treated me this way.

[@dannyduggan4324]

Toxic, controlling and jealous behaviour. He wouldnt allow her to breath during the days, texting her all the time, moaning when she didnt text back, literally staring at her anytime she spoke to one of the other Male crew members, and he wonders why she isnt interested anymore. He suffocated her. He was being aggressive with the deck hand (sorry forget his name)n the first night out before anything was going wrong. Good job she found out now what hes like. He needs to stop the alcohol as well. Doesnt help.

[@fernamage]

i must say do she did lead him on alot and yes he was in the wrong but come she is not a saint either, just tell him you dont want anything thats all he needed but no keep playing the victim

[@DarkKnight906]

I feel really bad for Dave. Tash has been playing games, being hot and cold, giving him the silent treatment, avoiding him then leading him on etc. Like make up your mind and stop messing Dave around! That said, texting Tash every 5 minutes isn't the answer. She's obviously feeling overwhelmed by him and needs breathing space.

[@PeacockRhino]

I can see why he’s annoyed but he needs to leave the boat to save him from himself. That’s nuts behaviour!

[@edisyar]

Stalker ! Why are the chefs all creepy weirdos on these boats ! Dave has rejection issues. Hook up does not mean marriage or even a relationship...

[@skythdicnri88]

It's the same in restaurants hahaha they're super unstable and usually closet cokeheads

[@georgiarobey1307]

I think they’re both in the wrong. Tash leads him on and then Dave reacts to it making it worse. The use of alcohol just escalates things. Neither of them are innocent here. This was pretty toxic and hard to watch. Pretty spine chilling.

[@beastlyidiots9232]

Geezuz dude. Leave her alone and just do your job. It's already difficult to work on a luxury yacht let alone start a relationship on one. Yea she wanted to room together but Dave just got clingy and desperate real fast. Get seperate bunks and keep your workplace professional.

[@cheukyingkong7030]

She led it on, plus she cheated, and whenever she doesn’t feel like it just ignore Dave without making it clear. Let Dave feel sad, drove him crazy and doesn’t know what happen. And Dave was treating her really good and sincere. Natasha shouldn’t play with ppl’s feeling like this. That’s very selfish. What do you expect ppl to react when you hit and run?! I don’t understand why she won’t make things clear between ppl. Probably she wants ppl keep liking her and be good to her. Now she’s acting like innocent. If you really want things stop just say so. Why leave Dave has a mixture feelings and blame on him?! Cmon boys, how could you can’t see this about her?! I feel sorry for those silly guys…

[@saranefati751]

So trying to blackmail someone to talk to Them otherwise he Will tell ewerybody about their sexlife is normal behavior and calling someone a slut and then trying to Force the person Whit blackmail to talk to Him is okay and understandble wile if a guy was in a relationship and a girl tried to force him to talk to him or she would tell ewerybody about their hookup she would be seen as homewrecker stalker chick this guy is creepy and thinks he owns a Woman sence hes doing blackmail and calling her bad Words to Bring her confidence down Whit bad words and threats so she will obey to hes needs so this is normal becuse hes mad dude you need help if you act like this you truly need to tell a psycologist of how you see women in diffrent scenarios.

[@cheukyingkong7030]

@@saranefati751 Ofcuz he wasn’t right to do that. But he was drunk and lost. And he did apologise and stopped to do that again right next day. If he didn’t I will feel unfair for Nat too. But Nat knowing what happened and her feeling for the whole time. She doesn’t take responsibility for her mistakes and just making excuses to let herself look good. Was she doesn’t understand she’s the one who knew the situation and started and ended whenever she wants? After used Dave and made him so lost and sad. Doesn’t she owe him an apologies and explanation too? Why just make it looked like only Dave’s fault?! That’s so unfair, when she also should take her responsibility to not making ppl feel sad because of her selfish actions.

[@keliaantoine1060]

I 100% agree

[@jorissafaith7549]

@@cheukyingkong7030its very late but you are spot on ! Dave’s behaviour is all a response to how Natasha treats him. She pulls away without communicating and Dave is the type that thrives on communication & the fact that they spoke beforehand n agreed to keep it a secret but then coming on the boat she push n pull plus not communicating at all! and during that first crew dinner night she’s saying she don’t trust him when all he did was give a response to everyone on the group bc its quite obvious that they were more than just workers. But it was obv Natasha wanted to save her image and bc of how their relationship started she feels guilty for cheating on her ex wd Dave. She should have relayed the message to Dave so he can stop chasing for ur attention. It was a mutual understanding before coming on the boat and she switched up bc she is worried with people’s opinions abt her

[@LipglossAndLove13]

i am bothered that bosun didnt say anything to dave, just stood there.

[@karanaferreira]

He’s creating a scenario in his head from nothing

[@Bondisaurus]

Don’t have sex if you know you’ll get attached.

[@blackcotton2771]

Who the hell ever knows if they'll get attached after having sex with someone though. They are irresponsible adults, she shouldn't have lead the man on if she wasn't serious, he shouldn't have given in to his lust. It's not fair to blame the man his reaction is from an action. People should learn to be fair and stop being sexist.

[@Bondisaurus]

@@blackcotton2771 individuals have needs. They hooked up. Casual sex at best. They were never officially BF&GF. Surely you’d take the hint and realise it ain’t that serious. He got attached to a girl who wasn’t even his GF.

[@blackcotton2771]

@@Bondisaurus yes this is correct the casualness of it all, however we know there are all sorts of crazies in the world, she should be thankful at least he has an ounce of self control.

[@Bondisaurus]

@@blackcotton2771 thankful?!!! He was absolutely vile and controlling. Let alone the abusive texts by calling her a slut! My god!!!

[@alisuhhh]

@Black Cotton "she should be thankful" lol what a joke.

[@user-by9xk7yo2n]

She shouldn't have lead him on & than lied about it no wonder he got angry

[@mikhalaa746]

This is some men's problem. They can't take rejection.

[@jefflarson7180]

she should not have used him then, she treated him like a secret rebound. men have feelings too ya know. I dont condone this sort of response but i understand how he feels

[@davidsegrue9531]

Dip loves lollyyy

[@sanguinedekker7287]

Never lead on a crazy man

[@mozit8063]

Dave seems a nice person but the alcohol and her ignoring him and not making things clear. made him react. She has to take some blame for this instead of acting the victim . !

[@michellerogers3312]

🎉 yeah that's how not to talk to a female if you want some sort of relationship with.

[@leah8526]

This why you don't lead people on, he is expecting a relationship with her and she isn't serious, i would never let any man touch or talk to me if i wasn't serious about him.

[@fleurmurray6581]

He sounds nasty

[@djoy123]

so glad I am not watching this season... these clips are just fine

[@davidsegrue9531]

Easy tiger

[@mekako1985]

What’s wrong with you Messaging S

[@leeleefluffy06]

That's what happens when you cant keep it in your pants... both men and women... 🥱🥱