He called in from the hospital. Preference is white women.He’s open to a natural black woman however

[@Mrsjengood11]

I hate that Kendra kept asking him about his preference. I feel confident speaking for my black sistas in saying WE DONT WANT NO MAN THAT DONT WANT US.. we thank him for the heads up and we will move accordingly

[@Ladydiva6590]

That part sis 😂😂😂😂

[@louisgordon-415]

She was being sarcastic.

[@Shanice___Loves]

💯💯 she wasted too much time on his preference. He was clear. White women or a natural black woman.

[@blahblahblah3722]

Right!!! Like why she do that? I can't wait to marry my non black man. I haven't dated a black man in almost 10 years.

[@ariamason9324]

He has a right to what he likes. I would not date a Chinese or Indian or African man..doesn't mean I hate them.

[@SistaGurlonFilms]

The monitor started beeping because his ancestors wanted him to shut up and quit embarrassing them 😂😂😂😂

[@reneesingleton]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 AGREED!!!! Shut the hell up!!! 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Shanice___Loves]

😂😂 stop

[@BlessedEnergy_]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@firstbloodwarrior3868]

Yaaaas!

[@firstbloodwarrior3868]

Yaaaas!

[@JBeaz]

#1 He had the audacity coming on a Black woman's show, looking for a white woman...#2 He's saying that he's picky but the deal breakers ie heartbreaks he experienced, came from the white women that he prefers... go figure

[@pg1538]

Don’t gay people come on here looking for what they want?

[@ShopTalkRadioJ]

Yup, they going to be the one who kills him, with stress

[@jamessmith-zk4co]

There have been black woman on this show who's preferences were white men, did you feel that way about them? What about White men coming here looking for "Kweens"? This show is watched by people of all ethnicities. Let people love whoever they choose. Life is too short to be hateful.

[@nellescott4899]

@@jamessmith-zk4co were they in the hospital about to croak as well?

[@jamessmith-zk4co]

@@nellescott4899 I have no idea. His preferences have nothing to do with a hereditary medical condition. There are black people, both men and women in the hospital fighting this same disease and many of those folk are in relationships with Black people. I know because I see them everyday. I'm getting ready for work right now. I'm in pediatrics this week. Though rare, I've seen infants with severe hypertension.

[@lobengone477]

Black women don’t you dare. In arguments he will only compare you to becky. SMH and he in the hospital chile!!!!!!!!!😂😂

[@jailamink6489]

Right

[@k.nicolexoxo9732]

Becky didn’t even come to check up on him

[@dandan4132]

Watch black women going to reach out to him….

[@coldblooded568]

Oh, 100%

[@thewinzerfam]

I don’t do dudes that think it’s presentable to have on Durags during an interview that may get thousands of views

[@Recoverywithtamye]

As a member of the Black Woman Community, we gladly accept his resignation and wish him the best of luck. ❤

[@Harrizist]

Women *

[@SISTAGURL]

I don’t wish him the best. I’m learning how to wish them nothing. Neither good or bad. Key is indifference 🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@sacoope1]

@@SISTAGURLWell said. That is exactly what they need.

[@tanyacommon8374]

Lol 😆 don't want him 🤣

[@blxgrl]

Babyyyy u said what most of us thought. Well said!

[@DaishaView]

When he went out of his way to mention that his mom was “high yellow” that told me everything I needed to know

[@Arvndenise]

Right Folks didn’t catch that🥴

[@kinbre4448]

I caught that too 😒

[@Mysasser1]

That part. It's giving he is "the dark" one in the family.

[@videofan1010]

It's disgusting. And people in the comments like awww - poor him.

[@suzycarmichael933]

He is crusty , unkempt, unhealthy, he is doing black women a favor.

[@taup6992]

He's admitted to the hospital with hypertension and really thought this was a good time to call into a live webcast dating show? Why?

[@KiiC.]

Some folks prioritize shit so weird😭🤦🏽‍♀️

[@LadyK007]

Right lol

[@virtuallyglorious]

Because he's a hotmess

[@verapetty6070]

Right!!! Why????

[@tessy28]

He doesn't even seem to take his own life seriously

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

Whats wrong with him? He can't stay focused or sit still. Also, he said theres hardly any black women in the south. The majortity of black people in the USA live in the south. Theres plenty in every southern state. So throw that excuse out the window.

[@bevhoney-b2184]

I was thinking the same thing he 🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢! Just stick to that's what you like! Stop making up stories about there ain't no black women in the South that's all in the south is black women! Boy bye! Oh maybe I shouldn't say that! 😂

[@roxanneroxanne3232]

Right!!!! 💯

[@vegannn7178]

Plenty of black people in the south including black women, he lying down. Maybe in his state but many are in the south

[@blahblahblah3722]

What he meant was, there are no light skin, biracial black women in my area who will settle for me.

[@ariamason9324]

He said he suffers from anxiety..that's why he can't stay still

[@09irishpride]

He was respectful & didn’t bash anyone so I hope he finds the white woman of his dreams. BW should not reach out to him. He won’t treat you as well as he would the white girl he actually wants.

[@lakishawashington8882]

I don't even like the fact that she pushed him to compare... After he respectfully stated his preference.

[@pacekey694]

Facts! But the ladies mad at him for for the comparison. Kendra asked him

[@tessy28]

Yes I agree although I feel he needs to focus on his health first. Wrong priorities. He is 3 years younger than me and his body is already a mess. 😮

[@purplescorpio4456]

With all his health problems I'm gladhe is looking for WW. I mean we have seen the WW come on looking for BM so full circle I guess.

[@reepa5399]

Yea he clearly said he doesn’t want black women so no need for your side comments and advice to black women not to reach out to him lol

[@brielax4441]

24 y/o man with high blood pressure.. 🥴 Edit: my dad is from Kentucky and a lot of my relatives marry/date White women. But he's not being truthful, there are plenty Black women in Kentucky, he just prefers White women 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mississippibilly_]

Kentucky 8% black Mississippi 38% black.. Black women are mostly around the big cities in Kentucky

[@brielax4441]

@@mississippibilly_ You’re right but he also explained his reasoning of dating White women, which confirms his preference. But idc what his preference is.. as long as he’s not bashing Black women.

[@R.Yvette.X.]

​@@mississippibilly_Jackson, MS is 82% Black. Keene, KY is 89.7% Black. If he wanted a Black Woman, he should look a little harder.

[@mississippibilly_]

@@brielax4441 he would definitely bash BW in the right setting..I had a teammate from the middle of nowhere like him in college who'd stereotype

[@brielax4441]

@@mississippibilly_ right and it’s a shame. Date who you want to without disrespecting your own people.

[@lb6902]

Becky, Liz, and Emily, please come and get your Kang.

[@bevhoney-b2184]

😅😅😅😅😅😅the shade!

[@richellalugo4931]

😂😂😂

[@nikkibracy312]

Yes make him some bland food for his blood pressure chillleee!🥴🤷🏽‍♀️

[@jeannettegordon8064]

Lol

[@thewinzerfam]

@@nikkibracy312 😂😂😂

[@mariaantoinette3958]

I wish him all the best. Fellow BW rejection is God’s protection.

[@serious7179]

Half of us wouldn't even be looking at him anyway LOL

[@richellalugo4931]

IKR

[@UnpopularAdvisor]

Why do yall have to say this.. as a black woman this is so cringey

[@calikeisha365]

Imagine McDonald's calling you up saying you're unqualified to work the drive thru but you have a corporate six-figure job... From what I can see black women have not and are not applying...

[@nanararapiti]

Indeed

[@Netta-jb1dv]

I think he has a issue with color🤎🖤 earlier he mentioned tht his mother was black, but quickly said "she's high yellow tho" then later he said he's open to dating blk women, but they have to fit his "tone"🤷🏾‍♀️🤔 then quickly said his "energy " I can read subliminals & in between the lines

[@serious7179]

He's definitely been brainwashed and has an issue with his own blackness... I met a guy like that before... He was actually dating a really pretty friend of mine secretly because she was too dark skinned for him to take out in public... She was too insecure to realize what a jerk he was.

[@vegannn7178]

He’s color-struck like many black men that’s why he quickly emphasized he wants a white woman and he also quickly emphasized his “high yella” mother

[@brownsugako7772]

I think the racism is so strong in the south, it turns a lot of Black people colorists. My mom is from the south and we live in the Midwest, but she was big on saying how darkskin people was evil. Once I got old enough to know what that meant and I'm darkskin, I used to tear into her ahhh, she don't say it to me anymore, but I know that's what she still think.

[@foxyboop4164]

@@brownsugako7772 Damn, that's horrible.

[@foxyboop4164]

@@vegannn7178 Right..like high yella, is it 1973?

[@jbak485]

IM A BLK WOMAN FROM KENTUCKY!!! There are PLENTYYY of us there!! Lol he’s a cappin COLORIST

[@oliteabancroft2109]

Exactly

[@msalohakitty]

Not him asking for a fit woman while currently laid up in the hospital with high blood pressure 😂🤣😭🤣

[@cygnevara8400]

riiight! its the delusion for me!

[@maddielu5286]

When the htn meds might give him Ed

[@kimberlydill8059]

He's looking for a care partner

[@misssincere5762]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@officiallyveeveetv]

😂😂😂

[@one_n_a_billion]

If you’re a Nubian queen, you have to match his energy, if you’re yt, it doesn’t matter. My brown sisters, please stay far, far away.

[@one_n_a_billion]

He’s on a “Little” Live looking for yt love while in the hospital for his blood pressure at 24 years old. #MakeItMakeSense Condolences for his precious baby 🙏🏾

[@virtuallyglorious]

The only requirement is whitness

[@nikkididthat1604]

Run!

[@AspenEnergyy]

that’s exactly what i heard too lol men like this are so sad to me

[@one_n_a_billion]

@@AspenEnergyy Right! It’s so bizarre smdh

[@hattiemae2244]

The du rag hospital gown combo gots me in stitches 😂😂😂

[@nikkibracy312]

He’s just another dusty statistic 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@copperamerindian050]

@@nikkibracy312how is he dusty and what makes him a statistic??

[@nikkibracy312]

@@copperamerindian050 Just look at him. Simple as that. It’s not rocket science that he’s young and doesn’t take care of himself, but yet he worried about humping on something. Let’s just keep it real. The same ole mess that’s in the hood everyday. A dusty! Simple as that🤷🏽‍♀️🥴

[@ariamason9324]

Black women wear bonnets in the streets everyday.

[@nikkibracy312]

@@ariamason9324 I don’t! And they not on here. He is. If it was a woman on here like this… I would say the same thing. Take care of ya health before you worried about a relationship. He don’t know if he going to survive, but yet he worried about a woman. Make it make sense.

[@jailamink6489]

I’ve been natural for 7 years,the men that approach me are WM and foreign BM.I rarely get attention from American men,I am making a point

[@lb6902]

This right here .

[@Seeingisntbelieving]

Same😂😂😂.

[@roxanneroxanne3232]

Yep, I can concur with that 💯

[@jailamink6489]

But I’m cool with it,I go on fabulous dates,and ain’t no one asking me for no money,or what I bring to the table

[@teelee-83]

I would agree I had that exact experience. I have been natural over 15yrs and when I had my long natural hair I got attention from only white men or older blk men. Blk men always say they want natural but end up dating and marrying the complete opposite….

[@DebtFreeDad]

Bro is in the hospital at 24 for heart pressure looking for white women. Bro...get your priorities together....put the fast food down and hit the track. Condolences, but you can't let yourself fall apart, geesh.

[@TheeMrsChampion]

Nuclear medicine technologist who works in nuclear cardiology checking in. Unfortunately this is happening to younger people in our society. It used to be mainly the older population but that is changing.

[@DebtFreeDad]

@pammurphy79 heart disease and blood pressure hurt our community more than any other. People need to take care of themselves.

[@loveyu2778]

He said he works out at the gym

[@DebtFreeDad]

@loveyu2778 Yeah, and he's in the hospital for blood pressure he in there looking for white women, and he is not working out. 🤣😅

[@foxyboop4164]

@@DebtFreeDad He doesn't work 😳

[@selfmaderish4690]

Shoutout to all the nurses working hard ❤️❤️

[@venetia98]

❤❤❤❤❤ 🙏🏾thank you and we love all you humans and wish nothing but the best for all🫶🏾

[@ancientaquarius1310]

Thank you love!❤❤

[@hannaw193]

Thank You. I wish everyone health and healing ❤️‍🩹

[@cassiephillips859]

Rite,he getttall the attention

[@ommiohmy]

Aww!! Thanks for the love❤❤❤😊😊😊

[@itsSimmonds]

my brother died at 24 from a heart attack today is actually the 12th year anniversary of his death! Rip to my brother 💯

[@lizamimi]

🙏🏾

[@hilbertsandifer8337]

RIP 🕊️🙏🏾💐 my condolences

[@thankthelord4536]

So sorry😢

[@itsSimmonds]

I appreciate all y’all 💯💯💯

[@NubianP6]

Oh, I’m so sorry.

[@foxyboop4164]

Black people, please get that blood pressure under control!! It will take you out without notice and 20s is way too young, health is wealth!! Sorry to hear about the loss of a baby 💔

[@Jame6999]

Eat beets

[@jfelton3583]

@@Jame6999 also stop eating so much salt/sodium. It's literally the leading cause of death in older black men. High sodium diet and high levels of stress will give you high blood pressure

[@foxyboop4164]

@@jfelton3583 Exactly! I use herbs and spices to season food, not solely salt. When I do need additional salt, I use pink Himalayan salt...at least there's some trace minerals.

[@foxyboop4164]

@@sistachristian660 Yes, fast food is quick way to earn a fast pass ticket to the ER, then surgery with no legs and a pacemaker.

[@jfelton3583]

@@sistachristian660 yes because fast food is filled with preservatives and salt/sodium is a primary ingredient in preservatives.

[@marriejames01]

Let Dude date who he wants. Most BW don’t want a BM that dates WW. A lot of us have self respect and higher standards.

[@erosnectar5481]

Correct!! I always thank God when they make it known!

[@adams8830]

You'll always lose dating a black man who only dates white women.

[@kimberlydill8059]

Most black women want black men that is why dating shows have a problem finding dates for black women because most black men want white women.

[@CharisBrinkley]

Yes

[@jonathancoleman6482]

Sure you do y’all don’t like good man 😂

[@IAMGROOT4EVA]

Bw have to bring the table, the chairs, the silverware, the plates, cups, napkins, AND the food. Meanwhile, all ww have to bring is her whiteness. Cyn G was right.

[@j.daniels1548]

Nah, you don’t bring shit but drama and bastards 😂

[@vegannn7178]

That’s because they worship whiteness and whiteness is the only requirement hence why they attract white land whales

[@eke.D]

No different than wm just need to exist for swirlers.

[@kisha6370]

No we don't. No one is forcing black women to do anything. I'm beginning to see bkack women doing all this throwing themselves at the "alter" on their own then running back crying victim, y'all some weirdo's. Keep your wealth to yourself and stay in good health

[@main1033]

From my personal experience. Not really.

[@dannidavis8875]

Gurrl we dgaf bout these BLACK KANGZ putting they “preference” on a pedestal meanwhile they stressed out, depressed, Cheatin and literally be on they last leg 😂😂🍵

[@Reneesaidit]

His "flaws" were all about him being an asshole, let them have the stress trying to please him in hopes of getting chosen.

[@NatashaRenee12]

He’s beneath us.

[@myseville1976]

LOL LOL !!! You sound upset

[@myseville1976]

@@Reneesaidit another single woman

[@myseville1976]

@@NatashaRenee12 ok, Ms. Ray-Ray!!

[@ThatSocialloner]

More black women for me 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@rabrown2799]

Right

[@marquitahatcher3561]

🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️💯🙌

[@airicadotson]

😂

[@rogers5622]

😂

[@TheSoCalledAngryBlackMan]

You mean more babymama's 😏 🤣 😉

[@daniella8400]

White girls this is your King 👑 🥰

[@richellalugo4931]

😂😂😂

[@EBONYSSHIELDS]

Yesss with the high blood pressure

[@joshuatruvillion3044]

@@EBONYSSHIELDS how many kids do you have about 10?

[@ccleavemebe4790]

@@joshuatruvillion3044 how many felonies you have ? 3044 like your handle says ?

[@truthteller4659]

Kang

[@7Diva504]

🤣 He described a woman who “lets him do what he wants”. He wants a doormat that he can do & say whatever to them. Yup his choice is definitely a good one for HIM

[@krissy35]

This! That’s what was most profound to me.

[@Yellowpickachu]

I just commented this same thing above he wants to do what he wants with no accountability

[@seatosea1925]

He's going through some things. Condolences to him on the loss of his daughter. He doesn't need anyone drama filled. Them white women is what's stressing him out. They'll get a policy on him and live good while he's in the after life.

[@cdubya752]

He can’t a policy with high blood pressure and 24 years old .

[@uwilberforce4628]

And THAT A BE GOOD FOE HIS AYASS. 24YO, WITH ANXIETY SO BAD HE HAS BLOOD PRESSURE ISSUES. Maybe he needs a passive caregiver, that may secretly kill him off for an insurance payoff...

[@Talkthattawk]

He will learn like the other Bm do. Best wishes to his search for his yt queen black women do not date him. He made it clear his “preference”

[@WeezyJeffersonYo]

​@Corey Williams why? Because it's not normal?

[@jailamink6489]

@@Talkthattawk that’s true and I ain’t mad at him

[@ivyunnanelson]

So he think yt women don't wear fake hair 😂😂😂

[@marcyscloset6835]

I know right 😂😂😂😂

[@maddielu5286]

That's how foolish some of them are. And at least we wear the fake things...their entire existence be fake

[@marcisca4296]

Just when you thought that you've seen it all, KABOOM! Calling an online dating show whilst hospitalised is crazy bro.

[@randyholmes2399]

No lies detected here!

[@chantelvenessa]

He's probably bored

[@imreadii]

😂😂😂😂

[@ninamatthews8747]

It’s kinda crazy, 😂😂

[@ranathomas3204]

Fr😂😂😂😂😂 ppl just want attention so bad smh

[@jrobinson39]

Lol 🤷🏾‍♀️ stressed out, blood pressure problems, anxiety, in the hospital lol. Your preference can have you. 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Babyluv_]

That's EXACTLY what I'm thinking too

[@peacefulblessed2114]

Whew forreal

[@brownbagz]

Right!!!

[@NatashaRenee12]

‼️‼️

[@carlamoore3471]

RRRRRIGHTTTTTT. He is a hot ass mess

[@09irishpride]

Damn, it’s not that serious to call in from the hospital lol

[@kbthegoat824]

It's boring in there

[@09irishpride]

@@kbthegoat824 I mean get on hinge to talk to women lol not a live show

[@sheilaorisha4809]

He apparently needs a nurse maid and a ride home🤭

[@DestinysMom]

​@@sheilaorisha4809 pretty much.😅

[@maddielu5286]

For him it is. He has to get that ww😅

[@Therell98]

He's only 24 and his self hatred is this prevalent. Wow

[@waventures855]

Facts, his self hatred is also prevalent.

[@marquiwill1]

Most black women are single mothers….its not self hatred, it picking the most valuable option.. which most of you aren’t to us black men..

[@greenytaddict]

Let him swim in the pool of throwbacks maybe his heart will give out like kitten heels...faster if he likes RedBull.

[@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687]

​@@greenytaddict I sense a Cyn G fan

[@lisetteb8727]

@@marquiwill1 A lot of black women are single moms due to black men making them single moms. I swear black women always get blamed for everything in the community. That man “prefers “ white women due to being brainwashed and self hating. It’s most natural to want to date your own race. It would be different if he said he dates all races and didn’t stereotype type black women. He doesn’t even date black women so where did that stereotype come from? Sounds like something he made up.

[@chanelrobinson4089]

I’m a black woman; his preference is white women. Why does he have to explain it so much? I’m starting to notice people try to tease people for the preference in race they have .. why? I’m not perfect but as a black woman, I never get offended when I hear a black man say that they don’t dont like black women. Why? Because I’m confident in myself as a black woman; me not being somebody’s “preference,” doesn’t take away from who I am or how I see myself: People are entitled to like what they like; everybody not gon be a fan🤷🏾‍♀️it’s A okay..

[@iwontrespond4039]

You are correct in every aspect. I have never thought about it when I see them together because I'm totally not and never have been attracted to black men as a black woman. I've never found them attractive i've always dated another race, Dated one black guy in high school and that was it and he was mixed race. I just don't think they look good sorry not sorry✌️

[@DandyDuh]

​@@iwontrespond4039 🙌🏼🤣 Sis for real! If I do it's extremely rare & definitely not a preference to date a black man🫡💯💃🏽

[@TalkswithBellaTT]

Yeah it’s only annoying when people start shitting on their own race. But if it’s a preference there is absolutely no problem with that. I think some people just be angry and butt hurt. I prefer black men but I would date any race if we had a connection and I found him attractive. It’s really not that serious. At one point in my life I preferred white and Spanish men. Everyone has the right to like what they like.

[@jameelah4439]

High blood isn’t just from stress.. poor lifestyle choices can do it too.. alcohol, foods we eat etc..

[@loveyu2778]

He could be diabetic..

[@dwatson1976dw]

I agree but don’t you dare bring alcohol into this. One

[@foxyboop4164]

@@dwatson1976dw Right, bc I'm about to drink my 🍷 right now!

[@2ootie77]

He wants a woman he can control becuz in his household with sisters he did not have. He’s a perfect example of weakness

[@kayabe856]

Don’t forget drug use. Crack cocaine is prevalent in the black community.

[@laurenpenn3634]

🗣S/O TO BECKY CLEANING UP THE BLACK COMMUNITY ONE DUSTY AT A TIME🚮THANK U FOR YOUR SERVICES🙏🏾

[@bervin7749]

Why is he looking for a rescue/hospice girlfriend while being hospitalized? Whoever signs up for this is seeking drama. He is saying he is fit, but he was hospitalized due to high blood pressure? Too many contradictions. IJS as a nurse. Listen. Just listen to him.😩

[@milkmarie5120]

He looking for a nurse with purse.

[@rvwilliams100]

And he looks overweight, and that's why his blood pressure is out of control.

[@bervin7749]

@@milkmarie5120 Thisssssss..a rescue/hospice nurse😭

[@H_da_6.5]

Women love drama not to mention nurturing men. He should have no problem getting action from any women.

[@Tonshmar]

Blood pressure isn’t linked to only being unfit. You can have high blood pressure and heart issues while being fit a fiddle.

[@kamariaspeaks]

Unpopular Opinion: He has a POINT. Signed, an unbothered Black Woman

[@chynadoll77cyn59]

Right let that man have what he wants. No worries here

[@janl4805]

Right he wasn’t rude about it 🤷🏽‍♀️ he grew up around white women and that’s his preference.

[@janl4805]

@Pretty Bones I also agree with this. What went on with Eboni K. Williams with the gaslighting was disgusting.

[@LynnieJ22]

@K no she didn’t.

[@LynnieJ22]

@K that’s your perception of what actually happened. Iyanla asked her a question that didn’t go along with the conversation and she was caught off guard, as were the rest of us with common sense. Lol i literally made the same face watching the interview because she steered the conversation left for absolutely no reason.

[@business_leddy]

Some men will do anything except going to counseling. Including going on a dating show while in the hospital 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@salutemimi81]

😂😂😂😂😂 The beeping while he trying to talk I'm flabbergasted Then he couldn't answer 3 flaws Then Kendra yelling at the nurse I'm going to bed early 😂😂😂

[@stacey8284]

😂😂😂😂

[@TruthSerum101]

Hilarious.

[@mzfanci8574]

😭😭😭😭😭

[@ad8al327]

Lmao

[@torianalexia]

Kendra: u ok? Your BP getting high again? 😂 goodnight Kendra

[@mawnee3000]

Hopefully he finds who he’s looking for. Black women, this is none of our concern.

[@mrmoe110]

Being "fit" but having blood pressure issues is like an oxymoron. Having muscles doesn't mean you're actually healthy. Bodybuilders are out here dropping like flies. And bro, if you don't like all the fakeness get you a natural sista with locs. They out here

[@Frugal637]

He doesn’t seem like the type to want a woman with locs.

[@ashleynicole6210]

He don’t even wan black woman and if he do they definitely gone be high yellow like his mama 😂😂😂

[@luvfashion101]

Not that I’m taking this dusty’s side but family history, stress and anxiety can all cause high BP. You can be physically “fit” and still have high BP. Weight training actually increases your BP as well..

[@mrs.w8193]

He need to stay with Becky with his colorism issues. BW don’t want him.

[@Rudysgotdachalk]

Kendra: "does she have to look a certain way" ... Jamel: "white" ... Kendra: "can she be overweight".... Jamel: " yeah but only if she white"... Kendra: "Does she have to have arms and legs?" Jamel: "As long as the face and torso is white" Kendra: "can she have kids" Jamel: "are they white?" ...on a serious note does that "natural" look apply to white women or is it just black women? I've grew up in the suburbs and had white roommates in college and they've been wearing a face full of makeup since 6th grade and sleep with their foundation on.

[@coldblooded568]

I'm just glad these dudes leaving us alone willingly lol. Imagine tryna force them 😢

[@wjones1216]

Surprisingly their will be some black women that will.

[@coldblooded568]

@@wjones1216 there

[@DandyDuh]

@@coldblooded568 🙌🏼🤣

[@myseville1976]

WTH hell is tryna??

[@latoyaracquel1680]

I got secondhand embarrassment from the persistent questions about his preference. When WW come on here and state their preference for BM they may get one f/u question but then it’s pretty easy breezy. When WM come on here and say they prefer BW it’s all smiles and giggles. It’s 2023, let people choose who they choose. Same thing with attractive Black gay men. It’s not a loss if you were never in the race. Enjoy being a spectator in those cases.

[@dekev7503]

Thank you 🙏 it’s getting old at this point.

[@Nikki-wi8ho]

Right! I’m a BW and didn’t understand why it was so many questions.. he like what he likes and that’s it

[@ladymariej4156]

Amen sis...amen we can't bully blk men into liking something they dont!!

[@LovelyLeta3]

Yea that’s one thing I didn’t like,because others don’t get grilled like this U Right!I just hope know blk women hit up thinking they gonna change his preference. Plus his health is a question.

[@love_reka_8877]

She was just teasing him

[@arymat9979]

This just showed me that men can’t and won’t be alone for the most part. Homie get well first. 🙏🏿

[@SISTAGURL]

Great point 🎯🎯🎯

[@arymat9979]

@@SISTAGURL Right. Because there’s NO WAY that I would be on a dating show and my health isn’t up to par!

[@erichillsman6585]

Shittin me, I'm perfectly fine being alone.

[@chocolateraisin1266]

Those white women is why he look older than 25😅

[@Thatbul]

It’s because they don’t use any moisturizer

[@spreadmorelove5235]

No shade but i do notice that black people that get with them long term tend to age fast and badly and their white one stays looking youthful and healthy longer. Hmmmm, something might be to this.

[@chocolateraisin1266]

@@spreadmorelove5235 👓 🌳 🤣

[@cherylmoore4133]

Kendra: Ain’t your mama black? This guy: Yes, she’s high yellow Me: 😐

[@Ruby0465]

Immediate red flag 🚩

[@Quinten4M]

Right ! Run women run away!! 😂

[@maddielu5286]

The whole entire scene, preference or not. Some women is in for a hospice wife

[@sORrYiMLaTe_wHAtdiDiMisS]

@@Quinten4M BW can walk normal.

[@richellalugo4931]

Is it just me??? I just listened to his whole interview...yet he said nothing.

[@rayshawnwren4004]

Any black woman who hits him up should be ashamed and embarrassed. Maybe I’m overthinking but I just feel that reaching out would be a backhand knowing he don’t date BLK 🤷🏾

[@AllThingsVeee]

Condolences.. I can’t imagine the pain of losing a child and I pray I never have to. I’m not judging cause everyone has a preference. He didn’t say anything bad about black women so good luck to him.

[@blahblahblah3722]

Saying that white women are prettier IS saying something bad about us. He hates black women because we are African.

[@MyANN78]

@@blahblahblah3722, He also has self-hate issues and low self-esteem, like most sell-out bros.

[@PrinceInawRakah]

@@blahblahblah3722 a lot of BM don’t understand nation building.. preferential treatment.. or anything like that.. They think more from an individualistic, do whatever you wanna do, standpoint.. why? Because they’re not actual men.. they don’t have the spirit of conquerers.. they have the spirit of a conquered ppl, and they don’t feel any intrinsic connection to the group. Their only understanding of their identity is the media portrayal of how BM act.. what they wear.. and what they’re interested in.. which is loosely based on our creativity, but limited to the unproductive ideas and habits of a conquered ppl.. They let their emotions dictate their dealings with the community, and the state of the community is the least of their concern. This is how you get guys glorifying WW, while little black girls grow up without fathers. No remorse… no natural sense of duty.. and an odd attachment to their conquerors. ✊🏾

[@shaunaadams6924]

@@PrinceInawRakah Damn 🤯

[@mimineren8787]

He did not say they were prettier though.. he said he wouldn’t say that they are prettier.

[@TheSolitary1]

Sistas, let him find exactly who he prefers. Just scroll on by.

[@taup6992]

Kendra, sounding like a jealous pick me is embarrassing. I hope her behavior was strictly for entertainment. BM been stating their dislike of BW for yearssssss now. I do think he picked the wrong dating show for seeking a white mate. Most of Kendra's audience are black viewers.

[@thewinzerfam]

U right. That’s his preference. I’m not knocking anyone that likes whites Hispanics and so on.

[@darkangel6621]

I agree! This was a bit much. He liked what he likes, simple! No harm, no foul. He should’ve been able to state his preference and move on

[@welcometowtfnewschronicles9926]

This fool said he’s fit while in the hospital for high blood pressure

[@louisgordon-415]

You caught that too??🤯😲😵‍💫

[@iamBlackTech95]

Why do people think stress is age specific? To be honest I think these young adults at 25 and under may be more stressed than 25 year olds of previous generations. With social media, work life balance, expense of everything at a all time high. If I could offer some encouragement to anyone, you will make it. Discouraging times only last for a season we all go through them. Just keep push and let your past be your testimony to help someone else out when you get to the next destination on this journey of life.

[@juicy2fresh]

That’s because this new generation is soft

[@mrmoe110]

LMAO the same things everyone else deals with? If you let regular life get you that stressed out you need a new mentality

[@serious7179]

Half of us women complaining about him wanting yt women wouldn't be interested in him anyway lol... he's definitely not a catch in any way...sorry about his loss and being so unwell at such a young age.

[@foxyboop4164]

Exactly 💯 He's inarticulate, prematurely unwell, probably needs therapy, and someone said, unemployed. Like...why do they even care who he wants or any other BM for that matter. I don't understand it...

[@jetskipapi6193]

Exactly...same BW complaining are the same ones that would reject him regardless.

[@kbthegoat824]

I'm sure yall would give him attention if he hollered at yall...but insult him cause he said he likes ww lol.

[@serious7179]

@@kbthegoat824 just because you find him attractive doesn't mean we have to 😂 as much as you want to think that we care about some sickly scamp with colorism issues, we really don't babe

[@AAM2011]

And his inbox will still blow up. Let him be and move on. He’s triggering a bunch of black women lol

[@melissahendrick2243]

That silent killer…. Is no JOKE… my BLK ppl… we have to do better.. being a nurse I see more and more young ppl in a nursing home..

[@Chinathomas_]

How young are the people that are in nursing homes ? Just generally curious

[@Ash2beauty]

@@Chinathomas_0’s and 30’s, I’m an occupational therapist and rehab these poor ppl regularly. It’s honestly the reason why I’m more health conscious these days.

[@cnb1243]

Sis! All of this. It’s so sad how many young folks we have in the nursing home. I see ppl my age (I’m 33) I’m like yikes

[@melissahendrick2243]

@@cnb1243 most definitely… and I see dementia patients in their 20’s and 30’s … really… that’s sad

[@LadyK007]

@@cnb1243 33 in a nursing home?! 😮DAMN. So sad

[@Itzsheila3087]

Well…. you really can’t make this up, here’s a black guy coming on a dating show run by a black woman, with a audience of predominantly black women….. stating his so-called preference to meet a white woman. What a crazy world we live in today.🤷🏽‍♀️ shout out to all the great nurses out there👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 condolences for the loss of the baby

[@originalstorm6272]

Let's call a spade a spade. He suffers from a deep rooted self hate that was passed onto him. The mere fact that he had to assert that his mother is "high yellow" when Kendra said his mom is black....as if mentioning her skin tone absovles her from being "too black" is very telling of his mindset. Date who want, but lets stop acting like most aren't dating off of self hate.

[@clarencedolan699]

So black women who date outside their race is self hating too?

[@originalstorm6272]

@@clarencedolan699 Yes they are.....a lot of them date with the mindset of having "good hair" kids. A lot of black women hate looking at themselves in the mirror and seeing their blackness, so they try ridding themselves of that by creating mixed children. Anyone that doesn't see the beauty in their own race and wish to create another like them has some form of self hate. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Romeyjackson]

Lemme simplify this for bro……IF IT AINT SNOWING HE AINT GOING!! ❄️🐇😭😭😭

[@richellalugo4931]

😂😂😂

[@annettemint]

Hahah 😂😂

[@verapetty6070]

Now, this is funny. I may have to use this in the future 😂😂😂😂😂

[@myseville1976]

Bro, stop the CAP!!

[@videofan1010]

😂

[@lovelight5553]

Let the WW have him. He sounds like he will deal with a back woman to pass time but if his preference came along he'd ditch you

[@calikeisha365]

A Mcdusty talking about he doesn't settle for less but whoever gets with will most assuredly be settling. Health is wealth and the fact that his priorities have him calling into a show instead of focusing on grieving and his health problems says a lot. Health is truly our wealth for those with high blood pressure: going to a mostly plant-based diet, doing deep breathing exercises, yoga, and taking supplements like garlic, hawthorn and COQ10 will help. Please black people let's focus on our health BP is the one killer in our community.

[@randyholmes2399]

And you're so right about what you said about blood pressure been the leading cause of health risk in the black community. And eating more fruits and vegetables could reduce any chance of diseases.

[@eddtoon]

Well you have his contact info, why not send him a message about to believe he hasnt grieved enough for his daughter. I swear hate these fake ass moral grandstanding

[@calikeisha365]

@@eddtoon You are no different than me, I posted a comment in a comment section offering my unsolicited opinion of this man’s actions. You are posting in the same comment section offering an unsolicited opinion of actions I should take and alluding to moral grandstanding when your comment is essentially that…Well here’s another unsolicited opinion to add to the bunch self awareness is much nice, maybe try it. 🙂

[@eddtoon]

@@calikeisha365 you mean other than the fact im not calling someone a mcdusty because they have a preference, and trying to end it by throwing some shit about watching for his blood pressure. Judging how you think someone has mourned for their lost child, calling him a mcdusty and giving some spiel about watching your health in the exact same post....we are not the same

[@africanbeauty7]

@@eddtoon Why should BW send him a message to help console him with his grieving? Where's the white mammy kf said child and the rest of the pale cat congregation? That needs to be his support system and if he needs support from a melanated woman his Black mammy that raised this 🦝 can step up.

[@constancemercedes701]

Why would he call into a dating show from a hospital? So far the only thing he has proven to me is that he has an inability to care of himself and would probably be relying on me to look after him. I see this all the time as a nurse where husbands can't answer basic medical questions without their wives present because they just don't know. They don't know what medications they take, when their last surgery was, etc. .. One of my female co workers not only has to take her husband to the doctor she also has to schedule the appointments as well. This is your future if you get with him. Why would anyone find this attractive?

[@rasun316]

...i don't get why he came on this show looking for a white woman?

[@cdubya752]

Damn his heartrate is up? He got tachycardia and hypertension? He need to take care of his health before he tries to find a relationship. Priorities

[@valpooh7532]

I low-key feel for him regarding the anxiety and high blood pressure. I started with blood pressure problems at a very young age. Followed by anxiety at 19. It’s definitely hereditary on both sides for me. When you go through a lot as a child it triggers many things.

[@k.simmons862]

That’s so scary

[@CookWithStephh]

That is definitely true

[@Bmf214]

Girl just walking as a black man be dangerous! I’m surprised that there is not a higher incidence among young black men and dating white women In The South Into the bargain! But he wants another one! Good luck to him.

[@tmcurly]

KS was walking around with very high blood pressure and that took him out 😭😭… He was seemingly of healthy weight and lived a healthy lifestyle 😔..

[@LisaJones-dj9xi]

Usually high blood pressure it brings on strokes....KS didn’t have a stroke he had cardiac arrest severe heart attack...

[@R.Yvette.X.]

Dude got 1 foot in the grave and says he stays in the gym. Prefers Becky but Beckies never show up to the hospitals. He needs to reconsider his requirements because he coming in with health issues.

[@olgarinacastillo5950]

High blood presure is more prone in Black people at young age and can be hereditary.😊

[@foxyboop4164]

@@olgarinacastillo5950 Exactly 💯 we have over 40% increase in our risks. Let me fast tomorrow 😩

[@R.Yvette.X.]

​@olgarinacastillo5950 And he's still not healthy. Plus, he'll have ED. Doesn't matter if it's hereditary, either. So unless he's going to have a life insurance policy in place, I wouldn't even look twice at him. Let him find out the hard way that being unhealthy is a dealbreaker for many.

[@shaylabrown6038]

This is insane. He's a walking contradiction. I'm healthy yet in the hospital for stress and blood pressure. Only dates white women and was born from a black vagina. Sir get your health and life together. White women enjoy 😂😂😂😂. Black women digress

[@chelseawashington1162]

How he fit and healthy and he got High Blood Pressure

[@foxyboop4164]

Sometimes its hereditary and not much you can do outside of lessening your risks by exercise and diet.

[@valpooh7532]

@@foxyboop4164 right. I was diagnosed with high blood pressure at 15. Been battling it every since.

[@jennzifur]

You thought that hypertension only happens to the heavier folk? 🤨

[@nmmboy]

That’s the scariest part of HBP, the silent killer. Stress can be just as much of a button pusher as a poor diet and lack of exercise.

[@ajoyner614]

It took The King of 'Fit, Feminine, Friendly' outta here.

[@brownsugako7772]

I hope Cyn G get a hold of this video! 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@vegannn7178]

You know she will 🤣

[@brownsugako7772]

@@vegannn7178 😂😂😂

[@richellalugo4931]

😂😂😂😂

[@girltalkforgirlz]

😂😂😂

[@mz_deedy123]

I hope angry biracial can get a hold of this video too

[@ninamatthews8747]

The call is a whole MESS!! Why is he calling a a black woman’s dating show that has mostly black viewers, looking for a white woman FROM THE HOSPITAL??? 😂😂😂

[@loyalandkindsunshine3382]

The degeneracy gave him high blood pressure at 24.

[@Tres_cee]

😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😫

[@DandyDuh]

Faacts 😩

[@addiebrook2517]

Laying with pink women. How dare he!!

[@DandyDuh]

@@addiebrook2517 In case you missed it seems like that's one of problems here🥳

[@DandyDuh]

As a natural woman, Becky getcha man❣️ And God bless his baby🙏

[@neyaharris5316]

This is definitely the show to go on while on your death bed! Absolute LAST resort!!

[@dopefiendsdream]

😂😂😂😂

[@fdouble6335]

😂🤣😂🤣

[@bluebutterfly5684]

😅

[@reepa5399]

Girl go get your ass on the treadmill and go find a man to take care of your kids single baby mama

[@arisboba]

Lmfao

[@Amber-db9cz]

BW better not DM him smh

[@sparkleebony]

When the BW don’t want him he’s force to go for Brad trash who has no boundaries Ain’t nobody mad

[@j.daniels1548]

To be fair, women control access to sex, not the men 😂😂😂😂

[@OpinionatedMe_]

Everytime Kendra Asked him about white women he monitor started going off! That’s his ancestors 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Moore_cookies51]

LORD, SELF HATE WILL KEEP YOU CONFUSED. LEARN TO LOVE ❤️ ❤YOURSELF IS THE GREATEST LOVE OF ALL.

[@AandP4dummieslikeme]

Any black woman who wastes her time on him deserves whatever she gets.

[@Stephen.Williams]

Cynthia G would have a field day with this one .

[@joshuatruvillion3044]

Let her have a field day. Tommy Sotomayor is going to congratulate him.

[@chrissmith4539]

Right now, desperate black women are putting on their capes and sliding in his DM’s to save him 🤦🏾 I swear I can’t stand the black community 🤦🏾

[@Ruthforme]

He didn’t say any flaws about himself, he said the same thing three different ways.

[@Ruthforme]

@@l.t.3857 Karma is a MF. That may be a contributor to him being in the hospital at such a young age. SMH

[@DanielleTRushin]

@@l.t.3857 so true, unfortunately I was married to a man like him. And he left me to marry a white woman. I’m grateful he stopped with the games and left! Any black woman who gets with this man who’s looking for something serious will only get heart break!

[@db7234]

The only wtye women he can get is those the wtye men don’t want! Tyrone loves Todd trash!!! 😂

[@yulanngup]

I disagree...... Just like most Bm that'll date any kind of WW. There are many of those snow 🐰that love black men no matter how they look.

[@Awol_n_Dallas_Blue_Trumpet]

Maaannnn say that BP doesn't come on overnight. He been having it. I been having it and just never dealt with it. But I tell you what. When you go to the hospital for 1 reason and the checkup does a big 180. It'll make you change. I went for a sore throat. They told me my BP was so high that I should of been having a stroke and that my heart was so big it was on the verge of failing. As a 45 yr old blk male, that shit scared me and made my hard ass cry. Let's say I take those meds faithfully now.....

[@ariamason9324]

My ex died at 50 from high blood pressure. His brain literally exploded. He died within 24 hrs. He refused to take his blood pressure meds and was complaining of headaches. He suffered a hemorrhagic stroke. BP was in the 200s. Take care of yourself please.

[@user-gt1kd9rv1w]

Wishing you excellent health & a full turnaround!!!!!!

[@darkcontinentschild2962]

I don’t agree with the amount of time that was spent on asking him about why WW are his preference. Let the man be, BW don’t care about the men that don’t find us attractive. I’m 5’8 and my guy coworker randomly said to me “I don’t date tall women, you’re too tall” I just replied with a laugh. He’s 5’4. My point is, I’m not going to ask him over and over to explain himself cause I don’t care. That conversation was unprovoked by me.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

Two phrases I often hear online from black women: 1. _If you like white women, just say you like white women!_ 2. _We don't care who you date, just don't bash black women!_ My dude fulfilled both of those sentiments so we can't be mad at the brother. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@Shanice___Loves]

📌📌📌📌

[@MP-qb6lv]

Exactly 😂

[@bruceleeroy8302]

@@sistachristian660 The goalpost has shifted yet again 😆

[@bluebutterfly5684]

Agreed.

[@tdgreer]

Yup, and the majority of us A’INT mad at him.

[@HughCross1]

This is the definition of mental weakness. Sisters leave this problem to whom he says he likes. Brother is so weak. Kendra is a black woman just having a simple conversation, and his blood pressure goes haywire...

[@ebonimynd4133]

All the best, bro. My condolences on the loss of your baby girl.

[@edunlap6594]

He's looking for a nurse. His health should be first and foremost until he is fully recovered! SMH.

[@peacefaith560]

he looking for a meal ticket

[@DeepBreathingMeditation]

Nurse with a purse. Who let's him do whatever he wants

[@misssincere5762]

He is! He looking for somebody to take care of him! 😂😂😂😂

[@Sidra.FBA7]

I was on that live ....let the beckies keep his sick sorry azz

[@jailamink6489]

🤣🤣🤣

[@brownbagz]

👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Right!

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

So much hatred. Why? 🤔🤷🏻‍♂️🙄🤦🏻‍♂️

[@lb6902]

RIGHT

[@td4079]

😂😂😂 why is he sorry?? It’s not that serious… where I live everyone mix blacks, whites and Puerto Ricans/Hispanics. Everyone date who ever. It’s not that big of a deal. Just like who you like.

[@chyna11ful]

Kendra 😂dont convince these brothers How Beautiful we r😂let that man find out the hard way! Where is the white chick while he lying in the hospital?😂let him learn😢❤❤❤

[@j.daniels1548]

To be fair, you didn’t see any black women in the hospital room with him. But you did see a white woman there 😂

[@Ash2beauty]

@@j.daniels1548she’s a nurse, paid to be there, of course she’s there, some of you are so delayed. 🥴

[@chyna11ful]

@@j.daniels1548 Facts! Lol 😆 u got that 🤣

[@VendieSolde]

​@@j.daniels1548why would a black woman be there? His exes are white not black...

[@fayecoleman9384]

White woman wear extensions also

[@j.daniels1548]

To be fair, the extensions look like the hair that grows out of their scalp 😂

[@lb6902]

@@j.daniels1548 get out more. Black women are wearing kinky hair.

[@Ash2beauty]

@@j.daniels1548BM do not like natural BW, it’s just a dig that y’all attempt to take at BW , also WW wear makeup all day everyday and their men are not bothered, but their not bothered about our wigs either TRUST! Just say y’all too broke to pay for BW beauty products.

[@Ash2beauty]

Health first sir, love yourself, and heal. ❤️‍🩹

[@denisef5017]

So many white women wear clip ins to add length and thickness to their hair. But no one talks about that….

[@MyANN78]

It's okay, if he loves the oppressor's women, he may just love the slavery mentality.

[@taliahali9827]

Becky please go make this man some unseasoned chicken so his blood pressure can go down😢

[@fungirl2k]

Yikes

[@FunkyBruja]

Why doesn't he go to a white woman's dating show to search for his preference. 🚪 🙄🙄🙄

[@tee7954]

The way she kept stressing him about his preference was so STUPID! As a black woman, i had no problem with it. He wasn't bashing black women like the majority of them.

[@sherox414]

He looking for a hospice woman! Good luck ladies!!

[@myseville1976]

He's looking for good woman! Don't be SALTY!

[@sherox414]

@@myseville1976 no saltiness here butnaked, ladies just not taking care of another woman’s Babyboy!