He called me A LOSER, so I gave him advice - WC3 - Grubby

This might sound like one of the most BM games we've had recently, but there is a tiny chance this whole story is going to turn wholesome by the end you finish the video!
He called me A LOSER, so I gave him advice (Game played on 26-May-2024)
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[@simonachberger4480]

"u cant control how oppo plays only how u" Are the ultimate words of wisdom

[@gamepenguin9]

Artosis could never

[@Enol666]

​@@gamepenguin9 LOL

[@charlesliuzzo7275]

This should be on a tshirt

[@nothingfancygaming]

@@charlesliuzzo7275 u cant control how oppo plays only how u "Grubby" printed out like that xD

[@cykeok3525]

@@nothingfancygaming Would make for a great tattoo.

[@laszlopanyi6406]

'did you know you can transform bears?' is a real housewives level insult

[@rinslittlesheepling1652]

Oh, so that's why women choose bears...

[@hubertnordvall5837]

I don't think people truly appreciate how amazing this turnaround was. Super impressed by how you persisted and won him over, even getting the "GG" in second game.

[@TheFiveStarMan]

I particularly liked how he was real with him throughout the whole process, and didn't try too hard to tell him he's doing well in a patronizing way. He told him where he did well, and was uncompromising in telling him bluntly where he messed up. Even though we knew he was trying to change his mind and get his mental right, he still kept it real with him.

[@Supev_]

Nicest WC3 player gets a free coaching by Grubby

[@kingdomofthesaintful]

Grubby is so wholesome dude. I wish I had his mentality. Him leaving Dota 2 just proves that I did the right thing all those years ago because I don't have 1/2 the mental resilience he does and he still got ground down by the toxicity. If I could be as chill & confident as he is I would be much better at fighting games too.

[@jatabo1574]

@@kingdomofthesaintful Don´t follow his DOTA 2 content much...what happened to Grubby to drop it?

[@yisus1434]

@@jatabo1574 I have the same question :S

[@HighLanderPonyYT]

@@jatabo1574 He realized he's carrying toxic dummies and got fed up with that.

[@brenogf924]

He did a video on it on his channel grubbytalks. Basically be said that dota players are too toxic and it wasn't fun to play anymore ​@@jatabo1574

[@MSsix6]

I gotta say it was very impressive of him. He didn't just insult and take the easy way out by leaving. He stuck by in his raging moment and took you up on the challange and joined another game, where as he could have just ignored. I assume he was still irritated, but was still polite with the "u2". Rising above the emotions. Then when his anger seemingly droped and towards the end, he took advice and had a laugh. And you gave him that chanse. Enabled him to learn and hopefully change his negative outlook. It goes to show that everyone can have a shitty day, but given a chanse and taking that oppertunity, things can take a different course. To me, it was a great interaction. Very likeable. Good job to bouth of you!

[@MSsix6]

Impressive of both actually*

[@jarreththomson4535]

its amazing what happens when you treat others the way you want to be treated

[@_Pikahiiri_]

The F moment was the very minute I tuned into stream for the first time. Definitely a very interesting time to drop by, but you handled it all like an absolute legend. Definitely the way to deal with a rager, and an insult-thrower. Class act, Grubby.

[@CC_Seig]

That was pretty wholesome. Big props to to K1nk (Grubbys Opponent) aswell. I think we´ve all been in that situation at least once in our gaming sessions in which we just saw red and were just tilted. There are opponents that just keep on insulting and it can turn in an ugly mud fight between 2 or more players rather quickly. Really nice to see that he chose to have another game with Grubby and actually try to learn something. Not everybody can do that in a PvP scenario and it kinda takes a leap to overcome the tilted ego of oneself to actually take some advice. In the meanwhile i hope, that he improved his mental game vs human :D

[@daviddavidson1450]

I'll be cheering for him, deeply respect someone who can rebound from tilt to cooperation that quickly.

[@AAJillSandwich]

Yeah, but chimp behavior is fun.

[@franciasii2435]

Seriously legendary redemption arc.

[@mikaelm5367]

I dunno man, I mute myself when I have to swear its not the greatest challenge in the world.

[@franciasii2435]

@@mikaelm5367 OK, Buddha.

[@yuku6921]

Grubby playing with restrictions and this guy raging cuz grubby winning even with restrictions Truly a gamer moment of all time

[@djohawkeyes4776]

it remin me of a time i played chess with my father and he switched board 3 time to max hum me

[@franciasii2435]

As long as someone is better than you, someone will always be worse. What matters is getting better and having fun.

[@OrgusDin]

"noob" says the guy who lost to meme strats while he was trying as hard as possible with the most meta stuff he could get. A tale as old as time.

[@REgamesplayer]

Seems like we watched different videos.

[@hn-ca24]

grubby giving free therapy lol.

[@nicoyouknoww]

while we all watch to unwind (our therapy too) lol

[@hn-ca24]

@@nicoyouknoww dont tell em he might start putting this on youtube subscribers only lol

[@mcj87]

This is a mature mindset - not getting mad in return but realising the one who's tilted just has issues that need to be fixed (probably not just ingame but also irl if you throw insults over a video game loss). Loved this "Mentor meeting the mad Disciple" episode.

[@michaelkayvanfar8700]

Best wc3 therapist. You show him the light in his dark human cage.

[@JayJoke7]

I appreciate all the uploads man, been a pleasure watching your thought process in games. Used to play against you waayyy back when and as a fellow orc main/young teenager I always looked up to you. Now I’m 30 and wc3 is still my favorite game ever, just wanted to say thanks for keeping it alive brother!

[@jochem3030]

I really did enjoy this video. As a league player, i encounter these kinds of mindsets all the time, which is frustrating to me as a teammate. During working hours i am a teacher, and i really like your teaching style. You are direct, but you also do ackknowledge his feelings of frustration. You even tell him you have been there yourself, and by your play you show him that theres better alternatives. Im amazed. Ty for this and bless your patience! Edit: Nicest video i have seen on YT in a while!

[@medmel2160]

bruh this is the kind of stuff that make you so cool

[@SnowHarfang]

We can see how in another universe, Grubby is a well respected teacher with easy temper and witty knowledgeable conversation Well done master of all races

[@andrewhuynh1895]

you a true gentleman Grubby, for him to call you all those names and carry on like that. You respond with kindness was pretty amazing to watch. well played man.

[@MrLexaenus]

Best redemption arc, did not expect that at all

[@DivineBanana]

Therapist GRUBBY in the house! Amazing how you turned the situation and his attitude around instead of just flaming back. Extremely patient and mature of you, i aspire to be like that

[@NeonBonesGuy]

him: you play the same every time also grubby: hero solo, tower rush, only flying machines n tinker, neutral heroes, etc,

[@kaineskeptic6484]

He went from salty to listening. Some people need to be taught the hard way. I like that he became receptive.

[@boshman11]

Gotta say i‘m proud the guy came around and actually didn‘t mistake your advice for you insulting hin

[@Kingmakerrr1337]

You serious? Grubby did insult him like 5-6 times in between the "helping him out"

[@boshman11]

@@Kingmakerrr1337 Grubby really was a bit no-holds-barred in how he worded all that. Makes me even more glad the guy didn‘t tilt any more from that and listened regardless, that was quite impressive tbh

[@bryansweeney3077]

I just faced this guy twice in a row and he accused me of maphack and ranted at me about what a loser I was the whole time, so I don't think his attitude improved much after this, lol. And I was playing Orc, not even Human!

[@Lemonjello558]

Grubby giving advice about how to beat grubby is hilarious. You’re not gonna beat grubby lol.

[@BasedOnee]

Oh wow, more of this stuff please! It was so entertaining watching you educated a fellow gamer, addressing his mistakes and what not. He does seems like a good lad inspite of his tilting tendencies tho :D GG man. Great content!

[@ansics6896]

Ultimately, this is the way how to change a community into a more wholesome one. Thanks for this experience, Grubby! Unfortunately, there is no "super-like button" so I can give you proper credit for this!

[@jraz6102]

That was so good. I like to imagine him turning the computer off with a satisfied and knowing smile on his face and playing a game of catch with his father after that game with a new understanding of what ‘it’s just a game’ means.

[@juliantheapostate2263]

ngl, that was pretty inspiring. I have trouble keeping such composure, when insulted. And you even taught him a valuable lesson.

[@stickymoney]

that was a simple mindblock that every uncoached person gets but so hard to rid of. Glad the guy took it well

[@_PEEN1E]

"Lovely human, doesn't even need units" This is 🍈Melon in a nutshell

[@roniroukoz6040]

I really think this guy really deserved to know who you are at the end, cause he accepted to learn and change his mindset. I think if he knew that its a former world champion teaching him it would get to him even more and he would put more effort in.

[@Jacobxiong613]

Excellent. Thanks for sharing your strat. I watched you on Chinese gaming TV in 2004-2006. Good to have you back. Interesting metaphor for a Chinese Canadian resident dealing with racism

[@suleymanbabak1973]

You were very nice to him. I wish I'd met more opponents like you and in general a less toxic ambient. I won't lie, I have been that player in the past, raging irrationally when collecting yet another loss, not thinking straight, venting my frustration at the opponent.

[@Jzscrstsprstr]

"Listen here, noob..."

[@bigtimetimmyjim6486]

"even though I am a loser and a bundle of sticks" LOL

[@marcusmeins1839]

And what an advice you gave him XD

[@andreasbrunner7268]

Grubby brought a sore loser straight to enlightenment to turn his whole life around, damn. 😂 thank you for your teaching Zen Master Grubbster. 🙏

[@user-pc3jl8gx5s]

In the end this guy win a free lesson on warcraft 3 strategy, cause Grubby took really a lot of time to explain, it's almost free coaching! xD

[@bentinata]

What a really nice piece of content. Controlling your emotions is not only useful in game, but also in every aspect of life. Doesn't mean you ignore it, but it shouldn't take over your decision makings.

[@mardakfernfern1986]

Can't believe this is grubby now. I guess maturity makes you a philosopher in every aspect in life. I shall put this guy on my most respected list

[@Carpatouille]

How can you hate Grubby, seriously. Especially in the world of gaming where insults and threats are thrown like candies and where toxicity thrives like cancer, this guy is always there giving positive vibes, being wholesome and at the same time being funny and entertaining to watch. Even to people who might not deserve it. Warcraft 3 wouldn't be half as entertaining to watch if he wasn't there.

[@vinetuchlupaty]

One of the best videos - I really love how you are down to earth and have great self-reflection. I usually just listen to your videos, while working and sometimes looking with one eye. I was watching the whole time.

[@Kaguzuchi-]

My respect for Grubby just went up today. Keep doing what you do Warchief.

[@KEITAROKEN]

Human!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@baz42rus]

That was a really nice movie about teaching an unknown player. Great thing Grubby. A had a really nice emotions watching this. All the ppls are brothers.

[@lolkuuj6859]

That was wholesome AF.

[@Khesan84]

I'd love to see more of these redemtion and/or coaching archs! Felt wery wholesome when you got closer to the same wavelength.

[@RappingManualYT]

That's maturity right there and it's achieved through time, experience and reflection - always a pleasure to witness. Having the empathy to recognize emotion, then the ability to separate the individual from the emotion. This is not a toxic person. It's a person, acting toxic - the difference in perception is where maturity resides, as you can handle their emotion in a productive way, neutralizing it by not exchanging fire, after which - you help them see the illusion they've mistaken as reality. That was awesome Grubby!! : ) : ) : ) Also, your AoW creeping is improving for a player who couldn't even get to rank 1 bnet as elf ; p

[@CleFesse]

That's one of your best video I think Fantastic mindset and coaching!

[@krakenos111]

omg that first game :D what a micro play lesson

[@GraveUypo]

A surprising amount of patience and care for a stranger. i'd just have drank his tears and moved on 🤣

[@G1ingy]

The best way to counter something you think is imbalanced is by playing it yourself and learning whether it's really imba or if it's just a skill issue. Regardless of the outcome you'd atleast be able to learn that strategy's weakness and counters...unless you inherently hate playing that thing you consider imbalanced. In which case, tough luck.

[@LionMartell]

I really love the psychological judo you did. Kept calm and stayed centered because you knew the bigger picture. Fun to watch

[@lavrikmaksim1814]

I'd like to think of Grubby as a Bo Burnham's nerdy half-brother

[@kf7137]

We see so much bad behaviour, that we have zero patience for it. Nice to see something else happening on the internet for once. Wholesome :)

[@ashenshugar2010]

There is nothing I love more than to see someone get out skilled by the Grub and for a rematch game on their terms. Oh man!

[@Rethaxian]

That first game lol... promise not to be bad. I see the dota lives on in grubby

[@Xarick]

And there we have it 17:04 "acceptance" :D Grubby dropping truth bombs as this guy goes through the five stages of grief.. xD He really wanted to win!

[@Azadng]

Video ended up on a therapy xD

[@SohjieDeLeon]

I know this is not related to the highlight of the vid, but man, the sounds of your keyboard whenever you type is just really soothing

[@nothingfancygaming]

gj grubby, glad you could help someone improve, hope he keeps what he learnt on board

[@Saekasaur]

32:09 "I harass my mirror every morning" lol Great video btw, always love to see people awakening from tilt and toxicity

[@italee]

poor mirror

[@cheshire9646]

that was amazing. besides the funny gameplay in the first game. Even though initially that guy was pretty toxic, props to him for finally coming around and listening to the voice of reason. Many gamers would have doubled down with the insults and coping. Major props to grubby for taking the time to explain to this guy how to improve (with some salt and pepper) and not just trash talking him back. very cool video.

[@DerDarkfire1]

As I stated multiple times in the last couple of years. Grubby is a good person. This videos proofs it. Grubby became a free therapist for about 20 minutes for his opponent who even INSULTED him before. Much respect Grubby. Those who call you a friend should be happy and proud.

[@niuage]

It's very hard for me not to answer with mean comments when I encounter someone like this guy in games, in general. Well done Grubby.

[@phaethos]

GG, glad this had a happy ending. Looks like Grubby found his Vegeta

[@JeanNezMarre25]

"you have to proise not to be bad" hahaha, what a lapsus! :D

[@bontmeister6724]

I started watching because I wanted to learn more about RTS games, I started to enjoy warcraft 3 but now I check for new videos constantly because you're a wholesome dude with an admirable mindset. Never change Grubby. Not that part, at least.

[@ernestomarcos0103]

Love how you won him over, I wish every competitive game had a therapist like you who talks someone out of the insulting tilt mindset. I never could do it and that sort of thing makes everyone have less fun (unless you're a sadist I guess).

[@OmegaN9ne]

Originally I thought "mad cuz bad" Then I thought...Grubby your a fucking King for always being the chill teacher.

[@qelluc]

I know that I'm late to the party, but leaving the comment to up the engagement of the video, cause I really liked this game/therapy session in particular. Love watching you Grubby!

[@badtiming2208]

What a comeback. I hope that dude gets better, maybe goes pro and owes it all to that 1 chance meeting with the one and only Melon.

[@seeker296]

Masterclass on leadership. Your wc3 humbled me, but now your teaching and personality have humbled me. I will relish this rare feeling and do better Thank you grubby

[@Chaino84]

I'm amazed on how you handled that rager. GG indeed. Thanks for this.

[@UnatickOne]

what a vid Grubby ! thanks for this sharing

[@gustavsandell1179]

You´r a true inspiration to the gaming community and people in general. Not manny players would offer advice to someone that hostile. Keep spreading the love Grubby!

[@JLGNieuwenhof]

Dit was echt een hele vette video Grubs. Vader figuur van WC3, ik ga hier echt heel lekker op! ggs

[@RandomJamFilms]

Chat: This is a waste of time Me: learning :))

[@mystiosmystios2534]

Very cool vide ! :) Grubby as always been a diffrent kind of streamer. That's why even after years i still watch his containt ! ^^

[@jewii3824]

"i can fix him." actually does.

[@binbadende]

Life lessons disguised as rts commentary. Good job, Joda!

[@tomservo1367]

This was very wholesome, redemption arc achieved.

[@D-Cupz]

Hey, Grubby, I'd like some advice about WC3 too. Can you make a video showing how to use the keyboard and it's various hotkeys for a newer player like me? Thanks for your great content, btw.

[@4NathreZim]

He has a video about it on his other channel, GrubbyTalks.

[@D-Cupz]

Thx for letting me know.

[@draheim90]

Grubby is a better man than I am. Once someone uses the n or f slur, I’m not bothering to engage in any type of discourse with them except possibly to lobby insults/try to make them even more upset.

[@user-it7dg4jq7c]

we came for some WC3 and we left with wisdom

[@christopherluntkowski-stoj6012]

And this is why Grubby is my favorite streamer.

[@rhyguy6260]

bro got the THORS victory. this was amazing

[@Ages_of_domination]

at the same time, giving it your all with emotion might be the best thing in life

[@valu4701]

"or chicken" undeniable dare

[@tinkeringengr]

Grubby giving therapy lessons through w3. Love to see it.

[@franciasii2435]

Meanest Nederlander vs Nicest WC3 player. Directed by Stanley Kubrick.

[@dylanjones268]

I understand the guys mindset and I think you handled it well. There is no reason to be angry at a guy raging, calm him down and give advice is just a kind thing. Good on you.

[@veilnebula2411]

5:18 bro i couldn't 😂

[@gzozgo]

Grubby couldn't crepe without footmen He could only pannenkoeken

[@LemonGingerHoney]

Thank you, Grubby, for making community healthier! Maybe you helped future Happy 2 to become better!

[@revutastohnu]

Just wow❤ Good to have good people like Grubby

[@lapprentice]

The dude is very very lucky to be able to play with and be coached by the legendary Grubby himself.

[@cosmicbard6998]

I really appreciate that despite the guy's rudeness, you still addressed their issues in rather well meaning manner. After all, the frustrations of the "impossible matchup/playstyle that I just cannot win against" is something that everyone who has ever played a competitive game is familiar with. But in truth, it's really all about practice and mindsets. Because sure, sometimes, your opponents will utilize a strategy or playstyle that will give them an unfair advantage (perhaps turning the win chances from a 50%/50%, to something like, a 47%/53% in their favor), but the game isn't happening between two AIs that both play perfectly. You're still fighting a human being, a human being that will occasionally mess up, and those mess-ups can be utilized to even out the odds, potentially even turning them around. Not to mention, in the majority of cases, even seemingly broken strats have their fair share of exploitable weaknesses, and it's up to you to study them, to find out what they are. This is very much coming from personal experience, from few years ago, when I used to spam an older version of Aurelion Sol in ranked League games, and got hit with a long lasting Kassadin meta. Kassadin was one of the best counters to my character, and a lot of them did manage to beat me. But as time went on, I started winning more and more into them, by analyzing and learning the matchup, and not allowing a myself to get a mental block from the idea that "by default, he has a higher chance to win". Due to the nature of competitive games, this is not something that will always work, but the results will show eventually. These journeys require patience, but it will always feel awesome when it pays off, and you manage to win games that would have seemed completely impossible before.

[@judasdedalosson8105]

"Why you mad? Is only game!"

[@Josuegurrola]

19:49 were I came for fun and I get out with life lessons. Master Warchief for sure.

[@LaPtaVerdad]

Grubby using only one heroe->balanced Grubby actually ALMOST playing the game as i tended->absolute masacre

[@Arbeta10000]

Ah, another video where Grubby abuses the game, just what I needed to finish this day with!