He'd sleep with our house helps, when we tried to solve, he publicly insulted my mother - Pst Joyce

Pastor Joyce has seen it all in her three-year marriage. One night when her baby was only three months, she realised that her husband, who had left their bed for a short call, has taken a little too long...She decided to check only to find him in her house help's bedroom! But that didn't make her leave. Her decision to leave was prompted when her ex-husband insulted her mother publicly

[@MethayaKagoni]

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[@marywangui4116]

Humble gal GOD bless you

[@marywangui4116]

Kagoni lkng so smart 🥰🥰

[@rosamariewanjiru8659]

Please tell us where you get your dresses. They are beautiful.

[@gaudenciangome7640]

Aki woye...Try to speak english or kiswahili hatuelewi kikuyu

[@marieadnai6297]

Ngwa na marurumi😂 Thitima!

[@paulinekungu7919]

Mbona hakuna mtu anasema kagoni is cute❤️

[@goldenbazaars]

I noticed she looks glorious...

[@gladyswachira466]

She’s always beautiful 👍

[@josephmaina3633]

She is beautiful

[@janekinyanjui8485]

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@ruthnjeri1291]

Beautiful as usual 🥰🥰

[@carolinekolom5510]

We cannot support infidelity in the name of nothing new in the sun. If your husband is cheating on you or abusing you, You have no apologies to make as you walk away. Never take responsibility for your partner’s bad behavior. We have to value ourselves as women for me to value us.

[@lilyshiroh1933]

I concur with you. Respect is earned, I can't advice anyone to stay in/with "uncomfortable" situations in the name of building a home where you are not "respected" .

[@tabshopehubchannel9884]

Me I will demand respect and respect and respect! Majority of our mum suffered enough in the marriages that were not even meant to be! Through own experience... my first marriage lasted for only a year! I walked out and never looked back... currently remarried for some years now and I have never regretted..... I feel loved and in love... I am enjoying the sweet fruit of marriage! My happiness matters

[@tabshopehubchannel9884]

We protect our men all the time( kwanza our African men) yet crucify and blame women when marriage fail. I agree women are homemaker but someone help me understand how awomen is going to build a firm marriage with an abuser, or a cheats. Our motivational speakers don’t mention emotional abuse that women go through when their partners cheat! Myself worth is not fighting for a cheat or an abuser noooooh!!!!!!

[@mercykariuki1893]

I’m always adamant with these “old women’s narratives” that’s why most of them live with anger because they never lived they just survived all in the name of “kuvumilia”.It’s not right,no one is more human than the other we all need respect,love and being treated well.....Nîdathie

[@janemueni1730]

Ubaya ni kikuyu wengine hatuelewi

[@LolaBugzy85]

@@mercykariuki1893 I also dnt listen to their advice. Telling women to kuvumilia in a failing marriage. This is the reason they keep on saying our marriages are failing cs some of us have refused to stay in terrible marriages. It's never that serious and at the end of the day we all have individual lives to live.

[@trizahmburu5332]

😪😪😪 this is what I'm going through married for 2months and I'm 7months pregnant he is cheating rude to me telling me to leave and his mum is on his side I'm just confused wheather to leave or not..

[@hannahngeru9691]

If she looks this beautiful at 50,imagine how she looked back then💞That man was a gathenge hakuna kitu ya kuregret hapo.Her house is goals.

[@Jane-ie9ul]

I love her smooth complexion.

[@petermbugua6492]

Imagine hata leo ako tu hivi. Wacha tu matwenties na mathates alikuwa kirorerwa. Huyu mzeya wake analianga machozi anapomkumbuka na sii finyo.

[@millyshantel2512]

Umesahau wanaume ni wale to

[@snjau7613]

Kagoni niuri style ya interviewing itari ndona na any other tv host. And you are beautiful too

[@Miss-kariuki__251]

She did right to choose her mum over that man. Respect lasts longer than attention

[@tinanjoki3339]

I tend to disagree, emotional torture is worse than physical torture. A man can humiliate you to apoint you loose your self worth, you feel nothing good is worth living for. Emotional abuse is so bad it can lead to suicide. Let's stop normalizing emotional abuse and cheating in relationships. Kuna ingine ni too much

[@monicamwaniki7376]

She says run when he physically abuse u but this other things/ sleeping around/ disappearing for days are normal.

[@sarahkaranjamuhoro6041]

Wacha nifate advice ya Benjamin Zulu mimi which says It's either you are happily single or happily married.Zingine sitambui mimi.

[@phylahgruh6104]

Yeeep😌...mm hapo ati second chance mtu umeshika like twedi times Issa no...don't destroy their ego...what about my ego....what about my terittory...married and happy ama single and happy👌🏾

[@joycepaul3743]

I love pastor and Joyce. Bring her back to talk about single mature women and who are not married cos the society think they have failed

[@beatricewanjiku8454]

Joyce, never see yourself as a failure cos you are not married. Better to stay alone and safe and avoid that pain of betrayal.

[@kamaukingora5074]

I admire the know-how and unparalleled wisdom of Pst Joyce in life lessons and especially pertaining to marriages and relationships. Can she please consider speaking to our girls in primary and secondary schools about this especially in the wake of teenage pregnancies, divorces, broken moral fabric...

[@beatricewanjiku8454]

That's the way to go Pastor Joyce. I always wonder why ladies are so shy to say their age. Always remember, the day you were born there are those who never saw sun set, others dint live for a week, month a year, a decade, etc. So let us always appreciate our ages. The older you are, the more blessed you are. Each day we thank God for favouring us with a new day. So let's be greatful to God each day and shout our ages any time we are asked.

[@elizabethgitau4040]

She is those women I would listen to preach. She is very interesting.

[@lucywanjiku4470]

Feeling inspired aki

[@njerij1511]

The video is of very good quality both pic and sound, kudos

[@kagiaevah1346]

Ngai uria urathimaga Arume nowe urathimaga Atumia . Glory Be to God I like this

[@sirnjehu629]

Too much wisdom from her. Thank you for saying the truth.

[@margaretmacharia7330]

she is good but she missed a few POINT as you cant live with an adulterer and this is his life style. he seems to be very insecure. honestly i cant entertain such a man. he could be sick with AIDS. WHERE WOULD YOU GET A WOMAN WHO CAN ENTERTAIN NONSESE!

[@lydiawambui8167]

This is a proverbs 31 woman...your words are seasoned, pure wisdom...

[@perminus65mwai97]

Waoooo the show too encouraging , interesting I have learned more.God bless you pastor joyce.

[@naomigitahi7636]

Monicah & Lynn Ngùgì are the best interviewers. Nawapenda sana.

[@maggieking6394]

Being single in marriage set up is normal,,it works when one pray for God's grace 🙏 🙌,,I concur with that💞💞💞👊

[@njamimbiiri5781]

Ooooh pst Joyce, she is my customer, love every bit of her, A woman full of wisdom, God given Grace

[@gladysndungu9199]

Kagoni you are doing great .The show was a free advice to all. Divorcee, seperatee, couples , preachers , business pple etc. Joyce was my high school mate. She still look the same gorgeous ’

[@bigteddymungai1731]

Very bright woman full of wisdom.

[@steveykimson3158]

Absolutely

[@eunicewairimu5015]

She is very beautiful and young at 50yrs 🙏👌🌹grace of God is sufficient, pst Joyce is hilarious gukunda akundete owega 😂🤣good advice but I feel umetetea wanaume Sana 😪who will terollate such kind of man in this century?? U are simply telling women to wait for mental torture etc

[@maryannekimani3748]

I imagined from her voice

[@WanjiruMuya]

What women go through in marriage😢pastor Joyce is not only beautiful but hilarious 😍❤️keep winning Ma

[@murikiraalice1409]

Wanjiru muya Yani Kwa hizi streets za KZbin lazima nikutane na comment yako😂😂😂

[@marthakariuki818]

Wanjiru muya Mimi nikikosa comment yako najuanga story haibambi 😁😁

[@WanjiruMuya]

@@murikiraalice1409 mwenyeji😂

[@WanjiruMuya]

@@marthakariuki818 haha hey Martha😊

[@janekinyanjui8485]

Very true

[@nancymacharia1507]

Good testimony but being in a bad marriage kills, esp emotionally. I believe walking out of a bad marriage is a bravery.

[@marionnjoroge441]

And diseases are there

[@annwaiharo5669]

You are right, there was nothing in this marriage

[@margaretmacharia7330]

sure just leave as this is his life and he is a sick insecure man

[@hellenwanjiru7989]

Wow! A very strong character. I love her for her sound minded choices. A great single Mam to emulate abounded by true God's grace. I love this

[@mainamwareri6984]

Captivating session. The interviewer and your guest, great combination. Monica, you are a very mature host. What a guest!

[@shikuwaini3374]

Monic my namesake, I love the professionalism and empathy with which you do your interviews. Great interview there with Pst. Joyce ❤🔥

[@ebakerscreations]

She is very hilarious and interesting to listen to . 😃 The two of you are very beautiful women . God bless you

[@luckygal5904]

A cheating man will never change no matter what. That's what I passed through and till now he's the same

[@johnlewis8340]

😪 sorry

[@rahabkihara5734]

Sure u can say that again

[@estaessy5336]

I agree am a witness

[@luckygal5904]

@@johnlewis8340 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@luckygal5904]

@@estaessy5336 it's a step of life also that teaches you a lot

[@bw4423]

The lady is contradicting herself on so many issues such as Abuse.

[@jenniferkamonjo7126]

She is a very strong woman.. very realistic

[@sarahmugo7372]

What a beautiful woman of God. Things we go through in a marriage. May God help us

[@charlesmwangi4669]

Amen

[@isabelawambui2121]

It's the home for me. So beautiful and calm. Fortunately or unfortunately am glad you weren't saved when you left your marriage, that was one sane choice. Sometimes religion blinds up from the truth. I don't think there is an amount of effort that would savage a marriage in which a man has slept with a House gal . You are so beautiful and bold.

[@Queency_Grande.]

I have watched so many episodes but this outdoes them all, I have loved this woman's wisdom.

[@elizabethomondi6428]

Me too I love her wisdom and fear of God in her. I Was so annoyed with my husband and I came across this message. You really advised me because am in the same situation as her. You are God send. Have learn alot by listening to you. I thank God for you. Now I will stand in prayer and I will respect my husband. My enemy is Satan and not my husband. Thank you woman of God. God bless you Mightily. Kindly take time call women for conference to listen to you pastor.

[@wanjirusspace]

Monica you are a good interviewer and your guest did so well. She is so real. I like her composure and responses to the questions. There is a lot to learn from Pastor Joyce.

[@josephinenyambura4822]

Monica you have a unique style of interviewing. Very calm aura.

[@ruthwangari4850]

Kagoni you cutie Sana... Pastor wetu uko pretty Sana... The interview is awww .. the humor is on point.. keep it up...

[@christinemwangi2927]

Wao, I love this pastor, wise words and encouragement to single parents

[@abigaelpatricks5201]

Kagoni you're glowing everyday..you look amazing💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞

[@JAMESMUGANE-dv8kr]

A wise woman build her own home.PERIOD.I like that pastor.God bless you

[@jacklinemuthee6800]

So inspiring, you're so elegant and gorgeous Kagoni and Pastor Joyce

[@serahwaithera6069]

Huyu pastor akujange kila wiki 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@annewanjiru818]

Pst Wanjiru and Monique, beautiful ladies. Am encouraged by pastor's encouragement and advice to us

[@nyamburakaringi8752]

She is a woman and a half love her. She is genuine vibrant honest beautiful and well spoken. Wow!

[@mummysson8830]

Kagoni whoever dressed you did make up and your hair let her or him do it more often because you look like sweet 18❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@phylismbogo1639]

Yes. She looks awesome.

[@naimawambui2822]

She got a very nice body

[@hellenahjohnson9661]

Awesome

[@grayceegracie5050]

Absolutely right Ptr Joyce. Us women we don't know how to share our love.

[@saisafaith7412]

My dear Monica God anaendelea ku shine light on you una glow. Thegio ni guturehera mugeni mwega pastor wanjiru. No riri athuri ma,no Ngai uui.

[@nyamburaruth8358]

Very confident woman,..I love you pastor,... would love to hear more from you.

[@paulbrown4445]

Such a great woman of God with alot of wisdom.

[@rufusnganga1118]

A very balance interview...I have really enjoyed it though hurtful moments coz Pastor is wise...she didn't just tell us the evil her husband did to her but also the good, she didn't just heap all the blame to him but also admits what did wrong and offers remedy

[@CoolkenyanInisrael]

Thanks Kagoni... u always bring very inspiring and engaging stories/ interviews. Keep it up.

[@petermbugua6492]

My dear sister niwatwanika biu but Gods Grace is sufficient . You are healing me sister. GOD bless you

[@petermbugua6492]

We we we ! You r breaking my ribs really. Sorry for this cos i knew its real truth. God is great dear. Kurutwo mikuru- ini ya gikuo

[@annitangugi9608]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@vgeegodseed1720]

Wah what a beautiful Pastor .wisdom and knowledge from each word .I'm inspired .more grace in ministry 🙏

[@flozzymunesh4271]

Wow that is pastor Joyce sister to my friend a very strong woman of God.

[@anastyist]

Pst Joyce needs to see a therapist she has a lot of unpacking to do, after all these years she still believes it was her fault her marriage ended🤦 I wish her healing

[@mercyboro6007]

My thoughts too

[@kamaukamau2915]

The story is touching but the guest has a nice sense of humour

[@wanjirunduta5346]

Keep up the good work Monica. In every story there is a lesson behind.

[@gladysvip8393]

Praise God pastor. Your store is like my store but my store more than me, thank you pastor.

[@gracewanjiku6991]

Pastor looking great.. Kagoni barikiwa Sana.. Your stories nawadays are becoming more sweeter 😘

[@annmuchemi1925]

Monica your hair is smart and Pastor Joyce you are beautiful..

[@sarahnyawira3855]

Her beauty don't stop the so called husband to sleep around with other women, he had No respect for her nor saw her beauty, so sad.

[@tabbymwaura6577]

I just love this servant of God yeye ananinjenga sana God bless you

[@mwaikadu7474]

I think the point we might be misinterpreting pastor hasemi watu wateseke kwa ndoa but before walking out of that marriage make sure you tried to save the marriage. Hau ha afrocinema Kai niwageririe Road to 100k subs

[@jkn3042]

How can you save a marriage that’s for maids and best friends. Let him go. He’ll do the same to the next and next and next

[@steveykimson3158]

Absolutely correct

[@petermbugua6492]

Yeah she was ordained b4 lakini masikio haikuwa imesikia sauti . My pastor n revered.God bless her

[@mwaikadu7474]

@@jkn3042 you're not getting the point. Ata biashara you don't quit na Mara ya kwanza right now we can't blame pastor for the failed marriage and the looser is the husband, Joyce did her part

[@jkn3042]

@@mwaikadu7474 who’s blaming her. I’m just saying she’s misleading the girls/women.

[@GraceWamui.]

Waoh beautiful inside out. Thanks Pastor Joyce

[@tabshopehubchannel9884]

Weee maya maudu! Mimi I will still blame the boy shaod for not honoring the institution of marriage! Women have blamed themselves enough even when it’s obviously the man is to blame! Go mama you are so beautiful

[@marym7552]

Maaa

[@ruthwanjiku516]

I second you

[@alice86097]

I hate this narrative being promoted that women should struggle with their kids alone after a breakup. Did she bear them alone? And why let the children suffer poor living and schooling conditions because of mistakes done by adults? I would never judge a mother seeking child maintenance support. Raising children is for both parents. Branding her as wanting the guys money is irresponsible and misguided. She's only looking for security for the children's welfare and future. No wonder the cycle of poverty will never leave africa. Nkt

[@gracekamau7064]

Ahh madam ni wa kwetu kabisa.. Kwetu ni kamira village.. From kianjiruini she knows my aunt Njambi wa mukinyo.. Good to hear about githuya kulikua jina baya zaidi.. Hatumgefikilia kutebeaa huko

[@stephennganga2374]

Men tell the truth at the good moments .That is very true

[@steveykimson3158]

Hauuu ni maaah

[@marygithinji1310]

Pastor joyce looks Lovery full of wisdom..moncah thnx 4 bringing pass i hv learnt a lot.

[@aliciakirika4930]

Monica u r beautiful inside & out side & humble I love you😍ur such a blessing to our nation

[@Cathynjiri]

Pastor you are full of wisdom,may Jehovah bless you so so much,we want your advice always.

[@pasqualinewangari8007]

Pastor Joyce you are an amazing woman

[@drsusankaguchia2376]

That man who threw this great woman is such a foolish man. This woman is gift. A great orator

[@metalcrusher8474]

She is beautiful in both complexion and demeanor.

[@mummysson8830]

The episode was well set oooh 🔥🔥🔥even the background and the ladies talking their total smart and beautiful ❤️❤️❤️

[@ruthwangari4850]

For sure wako pretty sana

[@annwaweru5643]

Love the way pastor has healed and laughing every episode off.

[@johnkabogo2718]

waoh Pastor Joyce you are seasoned with wisdom

[@marynjwri7409]

This pastor is beautiful A very strong woman of God

[@BlessedLady1978]

A cheater Is Always a Cheater...So ugonjwa ikikuja surely tukufe tuache watoto aki...When u accomodate some of these men with their ways utakufa na stress na depression...

[@rahabkihara5734]

Something we woman should put a stop to

[@ediththuo406]

Amazing testimony I love this pastor

[@penninahnjambi4770]

i love that dont depend on men..theaz GOD WHO STANDS UP FOR THE SINGLES

[@beatricewanjiku8454]

Well spoken. Indeed God has brought me through and I am now a grandma. Though life was tough bringing up children single handedly, at least they grew up. Thanks be to God.

[@susanwangui4181]

I love pastor joyce .I can listen to her 1hr .....I love you all very smart God bless you .

[@edithkabure3490]

Friends, we need to appreciate that times have changed. Gone are the days we used to hear, mucii ni wa mutumia. Friends, it takes 2 to tango even in Afrocinema. Therefore mucii ni wa mutumia na muthuri!!!!!

[@BlessedLady1978]

Very True..ati kuvumilia ndoa surely...Times have changed...

[@rahabkihara5734]

I agree they say that one finger cannot kill a leas

[@jerimoses7071]

I am surprised at this pastor. Don’t women have feelings too? How am I supposed to stay out and wait for HIV?

[@warembobilamakeup2180]

Wow! What an uplifting story. Words of wisdom from Pastor Joyce. And you both look stunning ❤️

[@marysimiyu7451]

Good advice to women. Thanks Monica for a good job

[@Faith_Nyambura13]

Pastor are so blessed.Women we go through alot after all the sacrifice.

[@nimmo-millish1615]

Amen🙏🙏🙏God loves women, na pesa imurudishwa kwa wamama🙌 fantastic👌

[@janengari827]

Ati mbeca icokete kuru atumia tondu arume ni maregete kuruta wira. Even young women are really hustling. Thanks Monica and Pst. Joyce

[@Jane-ie9ul]

Pastor Wanjiru is a wonderful preacher, mentor, quite interesting and a very funny mama. I think the separation worked for her cos she didn't really love him and he had hurt her so much in many ways. But kuna kuvumilia kuna leta kidonda. moyoni.

[@rozzycate5239]

Si kwa ubaaaad... Lkn these "old moms shouldn't advise us on marriage...their advices revolves around "bibi anastahili kuteseka kwa marriage"....there are good men outside here who respect their women..

[@gracemuia8167]

Kabsa dea

[@jfaiz7483]

@ rozzy cate.. True there are good men out there, treating their women with respect but on the other hand we can learn a thing or two from our older women, let's not just dismiss them

[@wanjirumuthee3024]

Correct. Why would you stick to a man who has no respect at all? Ati asiulizww swali sijui juu ya ego.... aaa si kwa ubad lakini apana..

[@wambuitracy4487]

Oh yes Our mums were brainwashed "ndoa ni kuvumilia" Nkt

[@mwaikadu7474]

Sio kwa ubad but you'll realize after kutoka kwa ndoa you'll also need a man. I think the point is try to save the marriage ikishindikana even before God utasema you tried to save it

[@beatricemwangi2303]

Very impressive,,thanks monica n to pastor Joyce u heal so much broken pieces.

[@bentanjururi8395]

Shocked in time of Aids and Hiv this woman is advising women to stay with husband who sleeps with anybody. She should not be giving advise to anybody. There is no husband and wife who should make you think so little about your life

[@eujk274]

I agree with you.

[@jnjugu10]

Emotional torture can also kill slowly, personal love very important.

[@mumbisandtmann8931]

Monicah your soo Humble,your trying to figure out those its not imaginable

[@NungariwaMuchaiCeo]

She's a beautiful lady and a great narrator...

[@Laughspaceworld]

Wow,I love you Pastor,this is encouraging..

[@mariontvgroup617]

What a touchy story. May God bless you good ladies.

[@njauelse7704]

What a story.. God bless you pastor Joyce

[@ruthkinyanjui9015]

I disagree on that, Gods word says thou shall not commit adultery and the only thing that can separate a husband and wife is cheating!!!

[@consonjoki4397]

I agree...if they can't honour the marriage why stay?

[@annmumbi4960]

Good message and you are so beautiful Monica and Pst.