Does he want you? Does your boyfriend like you? If a man continuously leaves you, that's a sign that he doesn't want you. A man doesn't leave someone he wants to be with. Become an exclusive member on my channel: / @tonygaskins
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@lisas92234 жыл бұрын
ladies, never let man have to tell you he dont want you twice. Leave the FIRST time
@keturah19804 жыл бұрын
Speak your facts!!!
@minnieshadesofbeautyllc53954 жыл бұрын
Yes, just happened to me ouch should of got the memo the first time, but you live and you learn that's what life's about right 😉.
@dar65004 жыл бұрын
That's the problem, they won't tell you..just keep using you. You have to make that decision-even if it means being alone. You can be true to yourself.
@roses4me4514 жыл бұрын
i.pinimg.com/564x/d0/ad/d5/d0add574c06db53a6bd65cda663b9c7c.jpg ("Judge Lynn Toler") She said this is what her grandmother told her. Ladies, listen up!!
@EducatedBlackQueen4 жыл бұрын
Or if he tells you your not worth it!! Nope! Bye!👋🏾
@gc63584 жыл бұрын
When did men become a prize . The women are begging for men now . Men used to try to impress us. Damn women have to do better
@dar65004 жыл бұрын
That is because women are competing against each other or dating the same man and he's not giving either of them anything. Most just want what they can ger out of you.
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
Men have always been the prize!
@roses4me4514 жыл бұрын
@@TravelingDiva-vp1gt Baaaaay bay!!!! You got the "formula" down pack! I got my passport and I'm traveling in 2020. They put you down when you got your own house, car, degree, money, etc. They can't stand a smart, independent woman! Girl, Dubai is waiting! Let Becky have Tyrone!
@gc63584 жыл бұрын
Lark Ford stop all those lies you’ve been telling. Men used to try to impress women. That’s why all those old love songs were created.
@sherwoodwalker5734 жыл бұрын
The glory of God is the prize not the man nor the woman. The gender battles have made us bitter and unforgiving, There are narcissistic men and women. I can see how women are frustrated with men and I why men won’t commit to women. Blaming each other will never fix the problem. Fix you and be the best you. Ask God for discernment and don’t let your type and lust lead you to make a bad decision.
@silentdreams24152 жыл бұрын
"A man who is blind, deaf and mute can show you that he loves you." ~ Mr, Tony Gaskins.
@imspecial22864 жыл бұрын
My mom always told me, "its okay to be a young fool, you are still in the process of learning. But it's sad to be an old damn fool.🤔 Ijs
@cherylhunter27754 жыл бұрын
Smart woman
@sashamean13 жыл бұрын
@ Imspecial2..😂😂🤣🤣.. your momma wasn't lying.. I'm so embarrassed I had no idea that dude was in a relationship with the favored woman at the church neither told me but I found out her whole crew incl. the Pastor talked so bad about someone at the time didn't know it was me... saying he don't want you, you're a crackhead, why are you fixing yourself up around folks who don't like you..boy when I found out..just devastation to this day...dude damaged my name in church in a small city you can kiss a good respectable job away... sometimes I feel dead while I'm alive then I have to shake it off with uplifting music and Psalms... nothing I can do about that... people call me crazy because of them...yet I'm supposed to just get over it...still working on myself..🤗🤗🌹
@LoveAlways10023 жыл бұрын
I hope your momma included 33 in the young age 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yes, listen to your momma 😘😘
@desireeslayton79593 жыл бұрын
Giiiiirl!!!!!! I may have been young n dumb n love for him doing this but ill be damned if a 70 year old idiot!
@Liteskinblacknotmix3d7 ай бұрын
I taught my 26 yr old daughter that it's never okay to be a fool because a young fool usually turns into an old fool! And still she's no fool.
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
"If you have to wonder if a man is into you, he's not." Absolute fact!! 🙌🏽
@tjtanner93114 жыл бұрын
Well damn 😔
@lyndapeoples81274 жыл бұрын
@@tjtanner9311 ...😄
@c30ful4 жыл бұрын
Omg!!! Please put this on a Blimp and PSA so that every woman can see and hear this!!!!
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
If a man doesn’t feel wanted and needed by his woman then he’s not!
@DynamicallyDC4 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 Yes, eventually or immediately a man would withdraw his interest in a woman if he feels taken for granted. I think Tony was stating whether it's reciprocated by the woman or not, a man that loves & is genuinely interested will make it crystal clear through actions and communication. You won't be confused, you won't have to wonder nor have to second guess if you're his only pursuit, the one.
@pinkmotivationalspace4 жыл бұрын
He doesn't want you but someone better will want you 🤷🏽♀️
@markieshagray82704 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😇
@caddyscott53304 жыл бұрын
So true
@evolved934 жыл бұрын
Thank you🤗
@traceylennon12044 жыл бұрын
FACTS @Motivated by Kelly Arts
@britishbrown15744 жыл бұрын
Absolutely. Ive experience better
@mariannebauman34102 жыл бұрын
Whenever he loves you ,you will not have to beg for his attention,you will automatically get it
@siaitsme68002 жыл бұрын
Exactly...!!
@sweetnewsghana37762 жыл бұрын
🥺
@stannwjnstxt2 жыл бұрын
^this!
@redfather53429 ай бұрын
Your delusional
@MsFree2u4 жыл бұрын
“If you have to wonder if a man is into you.....he’s not. If you have to wonder if a man is in love with you....he’s not. Love either is or it isn’t.” I so felt this in my spirit. Cut and dry.
@aliciag9463 жыл бұрын
Yep, felt that one in the bones chile!
@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman4 жыл бұрын
You will know when he truly loves you. There will be no confusion.
@notpunishmentbutdevelopmen82604 жыл бұрын
AMEN
@roshunjohnson57364 жыл бұрын
@JamericanDC1 right
@theythinkidontknow19754 жыл бұрын
I’m definitely in that mess right now...Him ...claiming Christianity but can’t put me(his wife ) first...I know GOD comes first but in human form I’m suppose to be first ...so GOD then me,but he don’t even put GOD first...I feel like after 20+ years i have wasted my time...
@Well_Woman_WORD_Woman4 жыл бұрын
@@theythinkidontknow1975 Go to God and prayer. Seek God first. Ask HIM for peace, insight, and direction. Develop your relationship with God.
@MsSassydiva124 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!
@SK-no2pp4 жыл бұрын
This is probably true, and hard to hear. My brother used to date a lot and was not “into commitment” THEN he met THE ONE. He liked her a lot and eventually she wanted to get married. He said he was unsure, so she said okay I’m going to do my own thing. She cut him off completely. 3 months later my brother changed his entire life, proposed, and they have been married 2 years now. What Tony is saying is painful to hear for some of us but it’s 100 % true
@jennahope43534 жыл бұрын
my brother and 3 of my dawg ninja cousins!
@alexafusco11554 жыл бұрын
@@jennahope4353 all went through the ultimatums then changing?
@SK-no2pp4 жыл бұрын
alexa fusco they’re happy and going to Greece next week for vacation.
@brsugarbabe4 жыл бұрын
S K How long were they dated before she decided to cut him loose? I’m curious
@SK-no2pp4 жыл бұрын
Faith W. They’re in their 20’s. They dated 2 years. I knew he liked her a lot but he was nervous and didn’t want to make it official. For 3 months she did not speak to him. He’d send her Snapchat’s she would open them but NEVER respond. Once she didn’t wish him happy birthday he knew it was over. He was so annoyed and frustrated at what he had done. He used to complain to me daily- what should I do?? She’s not answering?? I said why would she answer, you guys want diff things. It’s over. He asked me if he should marry her? I told him that he has to want to, not because I want him to. The space apart made him realize he loved her and she was the one. None of this would’ve happened had she not said bye! 😭
@jeaniek49804 жыл бұрын
Do not pursue a man unless he chases you. Women you are the prize.
@c.l.taylor87603 жыл бұрын
Question: Why aren’t men the prize? Just curious.
@c.l.taylor87603 жыл бұрын
@Star Essence If society states that it is a man’s responsibility to be the provider and the protector, and women are clearly looking for these factors in a man, wouldn’t the man be the PRIZE?
@c.l.taylor87603 жыл бұрын
@Star Essence I never said men shouldn’t pursue women, I said men are the prize.
@Blinkgirlsareperfect3 жыл бұрын
It was at 99 so I liked to bring it to 100.... lol but seriously, true words spoken.
@nikkicas2602 жыл бұрын
Not correct I told a guy who was a friend of one my friends… sent him a text simply that I thought he was cute… he text me back that he was surprised I had a crush on him and ask me to meet for lunch… since then we have been together for 3yrs. He always mentioned how he liked the fact I was a go getter and how I knew what I wanted.
@harrietcarlock29864 жыл бұрын
Any man 👨🏻🦰 that is 30 and over know’s if you are the one for him. And he will make you his first priority. If not keep it moving, time is precious.
@Minister_LaShawn4 жыл бұрын
“If an animal can show love, a human can show love”👏🏽👀🗣
@Jcouncil19964 жыл бұрын
Pure Truth and facts.
@rhorho48164 жыл бұрын
True statement, HOWEVER a lot of humans feel above and superior than animals.
@Minister_LaShawn4 жыл бұрын
Rho Rho: I see your point but check out Hebrews 2:6-7. God made us a little lower than angels and gave us dominion over the works of His hands. In Genesis 2:19-20, God brought the animals He formed to Adam so that he could name them.
@rhorho48164 жыл бұрын
@@Minister_LaShawn Yes ma'am the word doesn't lie and I believe the word which is truth. I was just mentioning the fact that a lot of us could learn a thing or two from animals.
@carlee25004 жыл бұрын
AMEN! That is TRUTH!!
@felishapittman27784 жыл бұрын
Best lesson I ever learned... "He doesn't want you".
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
Yes indeed.
@msniakeema4 жыл бұрын
Heck yeah it was hard to hear but I move swift now with no regrets, it was definitely what I needed to hear . Problem is we be waiting on these men to be honest and just tell us, BUT Tony already told me so I don’t need to hear it from him.
@missarabia18754 жыл бұрын
Me too sister, me too.
@brandiew.67183 жыл бұрын
Love should never be confusing. Confusion is a sign of the devil.
@paigeelise57043 жыл бұрын
Facts. a man will do whatever for the one he loves period.
@AriaPringle90533 жыл бұрын
No, when he is ready to, noone changes for any particular person. People change when they are ready to.
@sashamean13 жыл бұрын
@ Paige Elise..ouch..that hurt very much..dude went all out to hurt me for a woman...😑.. still hurts
@missioncalming71724 жыл бұрын
Love is strong enough to walk away when a man/woman is unsure. #selflove is first.
@peggyoneal3254 жыл бұрын
Cassandra Ross, so honest and true!
@roses4me4514 жыл бұрын
"Love is many things. But one thing it is not, is UNSURE!" (Dr. Maya Angelou - "Madea's Family Reunion" by Tyler Perry).
@tishc244 жыл бұрын
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@sylviasylvia85514 жыл бұрын
This is very true. When I was dating someone and I recognized signs that just did not feel naturally comfortable; I broke the relationship up myself without any contact at all. They asked the day I said I 'could not and did not want to do this anymore' and they wanted to still be friendly. NO. Friendly to me; means being in your personal business. When you make a firm decision to not continue a rather or seemingly 'one-sided' communications; your values are not the same; you have trouble getting some basic and firm answers from that person; that person is not for you. PERIOD.
@JustineMfulama4 жыл бұрын
Amen! Self-love always has to come first!!!
@munix93514 жыл бұрын
Ladies remember, your only currency is time!! Moooovveeeee on! Movvveee on. Only respond when the person shows up behaving in the way you expect him to.
@gloriahenry91494 жыл бұрын
Exactly, if he doesn't display any type interests, he's using you. We as women have to break this vicious cycle 😭
@cestmagnifique79324 жыл бұрын
"Love is not found: Love is created." 🤯
@westcoastbred77454 жыл бұрын
I'm putting that in my bio😩🤣👩💻
@kimmieg14074 жыл бұрын
I never heard or thought of it that way until Tony said that. Wow
@dinnipinni48103 жыл бұрын
Trueee! Love energy comes to those who want it!
@wowso43 жыл бұрын
I know I was like wow!
@sonyalambcomer13698 ай бұрын
Yes because LOVE is an ACTION Word.
@MsAries19684 жыл бұрын
Men are born with that "Waste your time trait"
@mariadelagarza09284 жыл бұрын
Lol
@jaquetteteemer60684 жыл бұрын
U made me giggle
@heyyashleyyy26694 жыл бұрын
Yes tf they are
@jaquetteteemer60684 жыл бұрын
@Scooby Doo exactly
@racheluk874 жыл бұрын
No lies told
@sassyclassy33164 жыл бұрын
A man that is blind death or mute can show you that he loves you💀💯
@ak-47intelligence754 жыл бұрын
*deaf. Blind, deaf or mute.
@sassyclassy33164 жыл бұрын
@@ak-47intelligence75 true
@JuWannaRoland4 жыл бұрын
Ray Charles and Stevie Wonder showed love, so ain’t no damn excuse!
@Theepiphany20114 жыл бұрын
say it again..
@kashmirgold29484 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@aida_amore4 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I’ve been single for so long because I refuse to settle!!! Everyone that I know gives their time and love to men who don’t even appreciate them to the fullest. I don’t understand people! 🤦🏻♀️
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
Aida Amorre Everyone you know? Maybe your perception is a little off. Unless they personally tell you then you know nothing about what’s going on with their union
@aida_amore4 жыл бұрын
Lark Ford Go sage yourself& clear off that negative energy out of you! And yes, everyone that I personally know you dumbass.
@roses4me4514 жыл бұрын
Amen! I live by ONE mantra: "Life is TOO short". I refuse to settle. For me, "It's the BEST, or NOTHING!"
@wadzanaimanyore66654 жыл бұрын
Aida Amorre facts 💯💯
@montrelouisebohon-harris70234 жыл бұрын
Mee too! I've been divorced for about 23 years and then I got in a long-term four-year relationship and the last two months he was acting weird after we were super super close for 4 years. He asked me where I saw this relationship going and I told him I honestly didn't know. I had not really thought about it because I was focused on my law career and my kids and then on my relationship with him. That's when he told me that he didn't see our relationship going any further and I told him he should have told me a year or two earlier. He honestly said himself he didn't know until 2 months prior when I was 10 days late and thought I might be pregnant that he started to realize that our relationship wasn't going anywhere. I knew he wanted to have kids someday but I think he was telling me when we broke up that he wanted all of that but just not with me and that he didn't realize it until the pregnancy issue. I was not pregnant but even if I was I could have taken care of that child by myself because I already had two kids I had taken care of when I was married because their dad was never around then and he was not ever around when we split up..
@beedabee12214 жыл бұрын
You’re so right. Honestly, it hurts my heart my ego to know that he never loved me. Everything he said, was all a lie. I have to do some soul searching because I allowed someone to use me up and throw me away and yet I’m still looking for answers and I’m in disbelief that he never loved me at all.
@angellove22224 жыл бұрын
Bee Davis same
@deneendemosthenes99214 жыл бұрын
Same
@yolandawright7894 жыл бұрын
Me too 😢
@cadiahbeatty44114 жыл бұрын
Bee Davis same x 4
@daniellecurtis34094 жыл бұрын
You're beautiful and you will be ok. Don't beat yourself up for wanting a chance at love. My granny used to tell me that your value does not decrease from others failing to see your worth. Didnt understand it till my 30's.
@cynthia596652 жыл бұрын
When a man wants you or loves you he will not stop until he gets you and he will respect you and invest and communicate in every way text, phone whatever he has to do he will pour into you treat you like a Queen a Lady or like Christ treats the Church period 🙏♥️
@MaryHudson-dt4gu Жыл бұрын
very true All of this you text
@cassie1014 жыл бұрын
Ladies we definitely see all the signs but we refuse to just let him go or accept the fact he will not change! Love is shown by his actions not his words....However, some men are incapable of showing any form of love because he does not love himself.. GREAT VIDEO ~
@jakesleg634 жыл бұрын
I think it goes further than actions even. The real test of someone is their "pattern of behaviour"... Actions can be manipulative as can words
@nikam39864 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@jayceewaa4 жыл бұрын
@@jakesleg63 true
@Metaphysicalmindspace7774 жыл бұрын
Cass L And we refuse to move on. I think it is a huge pride/ego issue. We waste our youth and then blame the guy.
@cassie1014 жыл бұрын
@@Metaphysicalmindspace777 A fact...Well said
@AliciaExploresLife4 жыл бұрын
A real lady that ❤️ herself will not want a man that is confused...
@goldenlifelove72513 жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate that men in their 40s & 50s are still playing games. I'm 47, single & the men im my age group are still doing the same mess that they were in their teens & 20s & I'm still getting my heartbroken like I did in my teens & 20s. It's fucking ridiculous! As much as I want true love, I'm just going to keep working on myself to become the best version of myself until the right man comes along... VERY SOON🙏🏽
@siaitsme68002 жыл бұрын
Even men in the 60's are playing games... I was shocked to experience that....
@lorrainadennis26522 жыл бұрын
Even in their 60’s they are still playing games!
@criticfortheuploader20352 жыл бұрын
*You're not alone, l figured out l'm not the problem but the prize, it's sad how some men don't know who they are or what they want, smh...*
@kuhlemragala97452 жыл бұрын
Yes, don't want to grow up
@aniyawilliams99412 жыл бұрын
I’m 19 my ex is 33 he plays back and forth games and does alot of childish things
@Beka-Nique2 жыл бұрын
For the first time in my relationship life, I don’t feel the need to worry. I FEEL loved and adored. I feel safe and secure. Everything your saying is 100%… he literally changed his way asap. I’m forever grateful. The Lord came through! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@laj41864 жыл бұрын
He is CORRECT! You don't have to ask or wonder.
@charity41124 жыл бұрын
We dont have that many men now, we have boys in grown as body. Ladies work on ypurself and God will do the rest. I'm in my 30's and I wasted so much time
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
Charity we don’t have that many women nowadays. Mfs can’t even make a home cooked meal, what the hell I look like providing. Y’all want fathers, I have a daughter already. Don’t need a grown ass girl in my house
@WynterSantiaga4 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 Where do you live and what's your social handle since you seem to have it together? There's more women out here than men so please tell me where to look.
@sadetckr4 жыл бұрын
Wynter Santiaga Right 😂😂😂 I’d like to see too 🙄
@MissCobrina4 жыл бұрын
A word 👏👏👏
@ew07114 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 So, since you have a daughter, why didn't your relationship work out? Did she hurt you? Mislead you? Cheat on you? Judging by your comments on this particular video, you seem to be in your feelings. IMO... there are WAY more men misleading and screwing over women than there are WOMEN doggin men out. Most women that turn out like that is because a MAN or MEN treated her like sh**. Come on brother, look deeper than what's on the surface, and that's normally where the PAIN is
@sherriet28794 жыл бұрын
All the signs be there just gotta be strong enough to walk away and have confidence that you deserve better..ding
@tanishawhite80293 жыл бұрын
Im sitting here 41 years old not married and just been wasting time on the wrong dudes sad im done and cutting off this dude im with god has got better for me ive just been blocking my blessings and feeling alone and unloved the whole time i been with him im worth so much more ladies we all deserve so much more
@anethamoore61143 жыл бұрын
I am so happy for you, you definitely deserve better. Show yourself some love!🤗🤗❤
@tapiwagondwe22463 жыл бұрын
sounds so me...am thinking been single is better...cant keep trying men
@irlandaise56313 жыл бұрын
same and im 37..but when they know my legs and home are closed.they cut me off or simply dont really bother..so I dont really waste my physical time
@Heat_Rush3 жыл бұрын
That's how I felt when I was WITH my ex...ALONE. After I looked at myself in the mirror and apologized to myself for denying myself love and happiness...I finally left him.
@irlandaise56313 жыл бұрын
@@Heat_Rush I feel like that with many men..I meet..I simply 'friend zone' them ..you can discuss about subjects etc..but you cant really connect..some were worst than others..I had to walk away from the 'friendship'
@ssyynnn4 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. I blocked him on what's app and unfollowed him on Instagram. Good thing is he doesn't live in my state so the out of sight out of mind process will be easier. Thank you, NEXT!
@JR-xp1iz4 жыл бұрын
Me too
@likemindedlm42834 жыл бұрын
Mayanah I did the Same, I block his number... I'am about ready to get a new phone, but this video keep popping up in my feeds! For what I don't know, I don't care, but it's trying to make me care! Like No it's not happening!
@ka81554 жыл бұрын
Same here....Thank you next indeed. You'll attract a better guy soon. Never settle, and remember you are the prize, so no need to chase.
@burgandiwatson24774 жыл бұрын
Same
@MissCobrina4 жыл бұрын
I did that too
@lovemyself91254 жыл бұрын
She settling for less than what she deserve. It sounds like he already have a woman and don't want her to know. He don't bring you around his family, he don't take you out, he only text you. That's common sense. How many signs do you need. Too many women accepting nonsense because they don't want to be alone.
@violetharprashad98054 жыл бұрын
My husband of 3 years living together, does not show me love, don’t spend time with me or take me out, I’m so depressed and now we r fighting a lot, we have a huge age difference and we r now talking about divorce...
@roses4me4514 жыл бұрын
@@violetharprashad9805 Violet, GET OUT while you can! Life is too short to be miserable, unhappy, unloved, and invalidated. See a professional marriage counselor.
@kimmieg14074 жыл бұрын
@@violetharprashad9805 just curious what's the age difference
@violetharprashad98054 жыл бұрын
Kimmie G very smart... it’s huge age difference and a whole lot to this problem...
@tishc244 жыл бұрын
Love Myself ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️
@itzyogurlEleanor4 жыл бұрын
I broke up with a man this evening for this reason. I couldn't get a good feeling about it; he said he wasn't on the same page as me. I am looking for a marriage-minded person. I just ended it. He said respected me, I'm alright because I didn't fold sexually. He was frustrated because his game didn't work💅🏾
@ayessacamara39954 жыл бұрын
Really proud of you.... It s absolutely necessary to withhold sex during dating and if possible until he puts a ring on it.... Long term relationship have to be built on things other than sex such as friendship...
@preciousproperty60154 жыл бұрын
Go girl!!!
@juliawhite71523 жыл бұрын
Good for you! I was in the same situation as well, and did not fold sexually because I knew that he was full of nothing but game. Trying to get someone with his friends with benefits line. I don't think so!
@wowso43 жыл бұрын
Good for you darling, wish you all the best for you search of finding the right person 😘
@irlandaise56313 жыл бұрын
good, sometimes they want marriage and have the same values..but still you feel they arent interested in you either...there s no mutual understanding and when you talk he is silent a lot..
@julissahernandez8342 жыл бұрын
We have to remember our worth. We get lost pursuing these men that are children inside grown bodies. Men know what they want and when they're ready, there's no rushing them. When he's "the one", we know and we don't have to question it. We never have to question what's right.
@lifeventures41914 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned years ago is the gift of goodbye. There are what....2 billion people in the world. If that man doesn’t want, chuck the deuces because someone else will! Don’t be a pick me (a woman who will do anything to get and/or keep a man). Also work on your self esteem! No woman should want a man who makes her question where he is in her life. Life is too short. It will hurt, but leave (like Tony said).
@diablabeauty45854 жыл бұрын
Just stop dating someone I’ve been seeing for some months I had to realize he really didn’t want me I was just a good time & a cool person for the moment🙏🏽
@roses4me4514 жыл бұрын
It's very simple. NEVER pass out the "cookie", and have him there only for "nookie". You can always weed out the "playas" by NOT sleeping with them.
@sheliaglass4844 жыл бұрын
You deserved better and was too good for him. Your true King will find you and treat you like the Queen you are!
@aprilpringle12344 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that sis, take time to heal and work on you, ur goals, ur future.
@asharajaye98234 жыл бұрын
MMM..🗣PREACH IT, MS..LADY.!! W.O.W...EXTREMELY RESONATES YES...JUS HOW YOU PUT YOUR WORDS TO STATE YOUR COMMENT MS..LADY😉 THANK YOU, KINDLY.!! BOTTOM LINE AT END OF DAY, AND AS TO THE NEXT DAY THAT COMES POINT BLANK...ITZ ALL ABOUT 🗣TRUE ESSENCE OF QUEEN👑 TRULY DOES KNOW HER EVERY 💎WORTH💎OF🏆ROYALTY🏆 SHE SO ABUNDANTLY DESERVES TO HER EVERY♥️HEARTS♥️DESIRE
@erickat28394 жыл бұрын
This just happened to me today...got “broken up” with 😪 7 months and he said I don’t think we should see each other anymore Le sigh oh well 😔
@sandrasalinas97873 жыл бұрын
This video made me realized how delusional I’ve been all my life. Fantasizing and believing in fairy tales. What a waste of time. Thank you Tony. This hurts but it’s the truth.
@ysmithriley3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for MAKING IT PLAIN AND CRYSTAL CLEAR TONY. If a man says he doesn't want a relationship, WALK AWAY! He doesn't want a RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU! YOU WON'T CHANGE HIS MIND!
@sonyalambcomer13698 ай бұрын
True, He Will just keep using you for SEX or Whatever else he can get from you Periodt
@Ms_Sharpie4 жыл бұрын
"It is or it isn't." No gray, no fog, no confusion!
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
S Harper sometimes men show love but women don’t recognize it because it’s not the way they “want” to be loved. That’s why I say women should always tell the men, this is what I want and how I want it so he’ll know. My ex and my current woman have different ways in how they wanted to be loved, so what I thought was love for my ex isn’t love for my woman now. Smh so it’s not just that simple
@Ms_Sharpie4 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 "It is or it isn't" was a quote from the video. My response went along with the context in which it was said. However, I do understand and respect your response!
@rashenechin93314 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 Stop complicating things. Tony said it. You either love or don't love. No gray areas.
@doseofdesi9264 жыл бұрын
Women not listening to their god given discernment, that they know they hear! Then be upset about when they get hurt.
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
Some are so used to the pain it doesn't even matter to them anymore. That's a sad reality. I see it so often
@doseofdesi9264 жыл бұрын
@49jubilee ugh elaborate on the connection of menstruation and wisdom. Cuz I'm lost
@keturah19804 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@nikam39864 жыл бұрын
You better say that
@Catdaddy74104 жыл бұрын
This is why I feel no sympathy for women when they go through what they do. Ur negligence that ur well aware of won’t be my burden
@crystalpolk29684 жыл бұрын
I learned when I'm not wanted. Took a minute but I did. If a man is not all in just go. Or if he thinks everything just sexual not communication I rather be alone.
@itsgabbieagain3 жыл бұрын
This is such a hard pill to swallow. I'm heart broken, but I'm taking myself out of the situation. Thank you for your videos.
@katyarnold67574 жыл бұрын
Ladies, stop!! wasting your time with men who don't like you. Tony is right love is or it isn't. I would never ever!! waste my time with a man that doesn't want to get to know me personally.
@asill.66682 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@ladiired004 жыл бұрын
I agree with almost everything except it's not about a woman being "the one". Men can find an amazing woman that they love and attempt to change and show her love but if he isn't healed, if he doesn't know who he is or what he wants, he will eventually resort back to his old ways and then regret it once he loses that woman. There isn't only one person out there for everyone it takes self worth, effort, unconditional love
@shannonkingston26582 жыл бұрын
I agree. My issue with my estranged husband.
@JenniferGuerrero23 жыл бұрын
I just had that conversation with him. 2.5 years together and constant disappointment- he says he love me and want to start a life with me yet nothing was adding up- he wasn’t sure about me and it was starting to show.
@angelalittle55543 жыл бұрын
At 44 years old... it saddens me that I have not had an all at LOVE from a Man. I wasted so much time on counterfeits and men that claimed and said to have loved me.....🤔 confusion always and no clarity.... learned to love me more and I ain't settling
@RG-hf4et4 жыл бұрын
Ladies: Spend your time with someone who is sure, not someone who is unsure!!!!..... This is such a simple concept. WHY DO WE WOMEN STAY WITH UNSURE GUYS?
@melaniegonzalezart85064 жыл бұрын
Societal pressure to be with a man no matter how unhappy you are?! We are conditioned to chase titles and partnership, but not taught to vet men and read the fine print!
@LolaSemone4 жыл бұрын
Because we are hopeful that they will change for us when they never will
@RG-hf4et4 жыл бұрын
@Scooby Doo It's a lot of things. For some women, it is lust, for others it is companship, for others it is neediness, for others it is hoping the man will change or hoping the situation will improve, for others it is afraid of being alone, for others it is a financial situation- especially if there are kids involved, etc.
@misswill84883 жыл бұрын
Because of the fairytale he's spun. The false hope of what could be before he acted unsure. Btw, it's not lust for all women, because some women are abstinent and ain't give it up to him yet
@areyoudumb58233 жыл бұрын
Most women move off lust. Most women hold out on sex cause that all the have to keep the man sometime there. After most men hit it they leave or act different towards the women. Most women are choosing looks over everything thing in life. And eliminate men that unattractive. As time goes most women end up run thru or single mothers. So as time pass them unattractive men become the Men now. Alot of women deep down won't admit it's a man that they diss who as life went on he looking & living better now. Most women forget tables turn in life. Like that same unattractive women might not be unattractive yrs later life is funny that way. But most women chase Lust & got played. Now the good men yrs later are wats hot. But what most women don't realize is they all still remember them rejections. Most men be like why she want me now? Alot of women be straight single mothers or low key had alot of men sexually. So men just hit it & don't commit.
@keturah19804 жыл бұрын
Ladies you have been the “One” your whole life. You have just been looking at the wrong sources. A song God would have play in my thoughts soooo loud after my last heart break was- There is no greater Love ❤️. You will never experience a love as great as God!!!! Even the best relationship are conditional. Gods love is unconditional!!!
@gloriahenry91494 жыл бұрын
@Aruba Aysha I was thinking the same thing 🤔
@mel84692 жыл бұрын
Exactly!God is Love
@evelynibanez2223 жыл бұрын
“WHAT COMES OUT OF YOUR MOUTH, LET YOUR ACTIONS BACK IT UP “ omg this hits me hard
@witkneemenyon56124 жыл бұрын
I’m cutting him off! I’m serious this time
@ew07114 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you sis 🤦🏽♀️. The 🚪 is closed
@tokyoeatstheglobe85674 жыл бұрын
Did we cut him off 👀
@witkneemenyon56124 жыл бұрын
Tokyo W oh definitely lmao. Forgot he existed 😆
@stephymoundi96794 жыл бұрын
I'm doing the same
@melaniegonzalezart85064 жыл бұрын
Yes sis!
@next1kee4 жыл бұрын
I died when you said you wish it can be aired on National TV lol
@cupcakes70154 жыл бұрын
next1kee Right😭 10\8\19
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
Me too. Even if it was I wonder how many ladies would really take heed to what he was saying? 🤔 well I did my part I sent it to every female I know.
@GrowWithMe2314 жыл бұрын
Cause he know he the TRUTH!!!!! AND HE KNOW THE DEVIL HATE HIM WAKING US UP!!!! BUT THIS IS HIS NATIONAL TV !!! US !! HIS SUPPORTERS!! THANKS TONY!!!! your gifts will make room for you !!! I appreciate the videos!!!!
@toriphillip78154 жыл бұрын
Me too lol
@asteph33814 жыл бұрын
When he said a squirrel can show love...I was threw. When he went to the pig and snake I nearly passed out laughing. It's true. Yet, ppl accept anything from ppl as excuses.
@keturah19804 жыл бұрын
A Steph exactly!!! Loving the lie!
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
Well a squirrel doesn’t show love so that debunks his analogy there. No one runs up to a squirrel and it sits there. If I’m lying I’m flying
@asteph33814 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 it's always that one "genius" that takes the laughter out of a joke. We're just laughing...try it!
@CATA5124 жыл бұрын
Yes girl I bout lost it.
@asteph33814 жыл бұрын
@@CATA512😭🤣
@luluxinator79354 жыл бұрын
Been married 7 yrs and tony is not telling no lies!!!!u won’t have to question anything it will feel right& no one’s opinion will even get asked💪🏽✊🏾💜
@tamica40524 жыл бұрын
Im 26 & I feel like I wasted alot of time with guys that truly didn’t care or love me. I began to realize that it wasn’t about blaming the guy but it was more about my low self worth & low self esteem. I began to feel resentment and feeling like a failure. But I’m working hard everyday to think more positively about myself and what I deserve. I began to see the blessings in failure and I learned valuable lessons from being hurt
@xxsorrow4tHEbRoKen4 жыл бұрын
Your not alone and I’m 31 and stuck loving the wrong men b/c I too lack self esteem and seek external validation from men.
@dabrenajohnson51423 жыл бұрын
Am 26 too this year and never dated any man my entire life. Am a bit picky and wondering now if that’s a bad thing
@blindsey10432 жыл бұрын
Self love check breenly and Kev hicks u tube video out also RC Blakes TD Jakes God bless Love yourself according to the biblical definition of love is long suffering it doesn't keep count of harm etc
@maylikdavis40piecesofme4 жыл бұрын
Man listen, this is the absolute truth. When we tell men this they get angry. Thanks for the confrimation.
@danicacrowther46094 жыл бұрын
They do, knowing they wrong and can't admit it
@missyt58834 жыл бұрын
Listen!💜 "Love making is communicating not sex" "When you are in love you won't need my opinion"
@sojo30184 жыл бұрын
"Create the love you want..." Wonderfully said.
@dimplez282694 жыл бұрын
That's the key... If a man wants you, you will know... No questions asked
@valarieford84174 жыл бұрын
I meet his mother on mother's and his son meet his granddaughters on Christmas eve you can meet the family and he can still be a bum
@markieshagray82704 жыл бұрын
The family already know that hes a loser lol Thats why you get those looks like Wow he doesnt know what he has.
@redpooh54 жыл бұрын
FACTS!!say it again
@CATA5124 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 oh wow
@VJ-zw7xz4 жыл бұрын
YES
@burgandiwatson24774 жыл бұрын
Preach
@c-p19764 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%. It's so sad to me because I've never been "the one" - it breaks my heart in ways I never could have imagined. I've done a TON of inner work - I came from a very abusive home - I was never healthy in relationships. I've done so much work over the years, but I still have not been "the one'. And it breaks my heart. I know what you're saying and I completely agree with you.
@Kyera4u4 жыл бұрын
RM CP same here sis! But our time is coming 🖤
@keturah19804 жыл бұрын
Ladies you have been the “One” your whole life. You have just been looking at the wrong sources. A song God would have play in my thoughts soooo loud after my last heart break was- There is no greater Love ❤️. You will never experience a love as great as God!!!! Even the best relationship are conditional. Gods love is unconditional!!!
@angelaledesma14944 жыл бұрын
You are a daughter of King. It makes me sad to read you feel you are not "the One". You have not met your "right One". The wait might be long but it is better than being with just anyone.
@liss3194 жыл бұрын
You are the one God has called to be you!
@webuysellhousesaptscashoff94533 жыл бұрын
You are “the one “ with God Himself! He loves you so much and He is ready to marry you thru Christ. Have you accepted His proposal?
@montrelouisebohon-harris70234 жыл бұрын
A man texting you and calling you everyday or every night and saying good morning beautiful and then sweet dreams and all that bs doesn't mean anything!! What matters is that if he shows it or not within the first month two or three and if he's inconsistent or you notice about her 4 months or so he is slacking on the text messages and stuff that he just probably using you or he was infatuated and it's supposed to let it go
@leileisims63593 жыл бұрын
Once I started focusing on my spirituality and self care I started listening to what was not being said and looking at the actions or lack there of. I take my responsibility in this because I was treating myself very low and was asking him to treat me better than I was treating myself. I didn't teach him I to treat me because I didn't know how to treat me. That doesn't mean he's not responsible for his doing I just realized had I been operating from a higher energy and putting my spirit first. I could've heard him more and not what I wanted to hear sooner.
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
Ive always appreciated your honesty. It didn't feel good at times but It has saved me from many sleepless & lonely nights. I took the tools you gave & applied them to my life. I'm stronger & wiser. Thank you for caring enough to tell us the gospel truth. I rather be hurt with the truth than be comforted with a lie. Blessings to you & your family
@jackiezambeone4 жыл бұрын
We belong to same club👏🏻👏🏻
@kizzyrock4 жыл бұрын
Girl, It doesn't feel good right. Lol. Heck, I put the work in and I now have it 90% together at this point but I am committed to learning this last 10% from him. Lol. However, how good is God that he uses him as a vessel. We have to LISTEN and stop making excuses. Tony catches alot of slack from many men but it is what it is. When God CHOOSES you, to ignore the call is disobedience ...
@felishapittman27784 жыл бұрын
His videos have awakened me to my false reality. I have lied to myself for far too long. I'm in a better place too now. Tony had helped me understand myself and what mistakes to not make anymore.
@kizzyrock4 жыл бұрын
@@felishapittman2778 🙌
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
@@kizzyrock Amen. The truth shall set you free.
@jozejeaux39624 жыл бұрын
It doesn't take that long to figure out whether a man wants to be with you or not. Time waits on no one so, if he's steady leading you on and you're sitting there waiting for him to love you and be that woman, then you're wasting your time. Life is too precious to be waiting on these men because they'll jump ship on you in a heart beat....🤷🏾♀️ That's my story and I'm sticking with it
@shekinahfire59364 жыл бұрын
💯💯💯
@queennkee37494 жыл бұрын
THEY WILL JUMP SHIP FASTER THAN YOU CAN SPELL HEART BEAT SIS 💯
@ew07114 жыл бұрын
I completely agree 💯 facts
@deborahsmith71644 жыл бұрын
Knowing is one thing. Being strong enough to accept it and move forward is a key%
@db.89253 жыл бұрын
As a woman I've always stood by the fact that i can go months and years being celibate & i have..i honestly rather have a man mentally and emotionally stimulate me than physically. Sex becomes optional the older we get during dating phases /settling down , the more we value and respect ourselves and are secure in knowing what we bring to the table...the more we don't waste our time giving in towards the sexual aspect first...stimulate my mind then everything will follow naturally.
@siaitsme68002 жыл бұрын
Exactly...! Same here! In celibate for many years now..... (Not young anymore). I want he stimulates me mentally and emotionally (Not just only sexually)
@intentionalgreatness4 жыл бұрын
"Come on now, come on now" 😂😂. I felt that frustration.
@roniellecopeland4 жыл бұрын
Lol I swear!
@minnieshadesofbeautyllc53954 жыл бұрын
🤣
@DevotedDee4 жыл бұрын
For real 😂
@latoyaprince8354 жыл бұрын
Communication is real love making. My God from Zion. This Brought tears to my eyes.
@michellealtieri4571 Жыл бұрын
I see now he doesn't want me. I was so blinded.
@ms.ladysanders39393 жыл бұрын
My ex said I was "The One" and we married after a yr and a half later. He was a NARCISSISTIC fool. I divorced him soon after and he couldn't believe that I never ever took him back.
@steffiebeffie34684 жыл бұрын
When you are young and naive you make horrible choices in choosing men. It even more devastating when you go marry them to figure out years down the line they are narcissist and never loved you. It's a heck of a task to just up and leave. You just have to trust God to set you free.
@supastarmar24544 жыл бұрын
Steffie Beffie yup
@CarolinagirlSSS4 жыл бұрын
That’s a fact!!
@lillianpitts98533 жыл бұрын
Going through a divorce with a Narcissist now
@dorothyglover25894 жыл бұрын
girl move in to someone that give you more love! Don’t settle for less that your self worth. Never wonder if your are valued because when you have to ask that question you already know the answer!
@annjacobs39254 жыл бұрын
If you have to ask, if he’s the one, then he’s probably not the one. Love and doubt don’t fit together! Thanks for being real Tony G!!!🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💯🥂
@attorneyyaidaford3 жыл бұрын
“If an animal can show love...” This is so good. If you have to wonder if a man is into you he is not. Pure and simple.
@chussey510204 жыл бұрын
You're totally right.. ended a relationship after 6 months. His actions said something different from his mouth. He would go days without calling me. We both are in our 50s. Time is to short to have to wonder if someone is interested. I ended it and have moved on. He's still trying to find himself and figure it out..
@lovingdawn65304 жыл бұрын
In the 50s too... I was headed to meet a guy who contacted me after 20+ years. Then he backtracked making excuses... So i purposely missed my flight cost $500!!! But i avoided another heartbreak! Funny thing... I meta guy in my hometown3 daysagowho remembered me fromhigh school...we talked for hours about 'realtalk 'stuff. He tookme to a wellknown park and carved our initials into the tree while i was on phone cancelling the out of town guy! This fine brother is a real live combat soilder and he gave me a hugg kissed my head and said he will be there for me anytime I need. He complemented me on looks my mind and my age (56 hes 59)..he told me if the other guy only knew what he was missing... Then he left. 10minutes later he sent me a motivational video that reminded me that I'm worth having a good caring loving man treat me with respect. I thank heaven for my soilder angel he was right on time!!!!!
@joellgilbert95884 жыл бұрын
I'm 51 years old and about to turn 52 in Jan. A man I met when were teens popped up in the comments of a fb post I was on last November and we IM each other. I was real friendly like " how's your life been?" And he had moved away from our hometown 30 something yrs ago. We was talking and video chatting since February and somethings went down where he was staying and he got arrested. He was like I call you whne I'm out but sadly 😢 no he didn't. I didn't do nothing but accept him and was supportive of him emotionally while he was in and out of hospitals with bleeding ulcers and sickle cell disease. He even asked me to marry him via text but I guess I've been duped. Oh well....two tears in a bucket!.... His loss.
@LisaR1394 жыл бұрын
Same here...11 months in and I was STILL saying to him " You're not into me?" (which he always denied) HOWEVER, would go days, sometimes a week without any communication, never offered to help me unless I asked and when he did it was half a$$, NO affection mentally or physically (him: I'm just not like that 🙄). I stayed longer than I should have. Finally sent him a text explaining my feelings and said goodbye. No response...and there you have it
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
So you eneded it because you want to control and dominate the man!
@rhondastrode20724 жыл бұрын
@@larkford4460 get a life
@kit58304 жыл бұрын
Wow "communication is the real love making" , that's good stuff !! 🕺💃💥
@latoyaprince8354 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord!
@larkford44604 жыл бұрын
Understanding actually is. You can’t communicate all day but if a mf not understanding you then it’s not real love.. smh
@WouldntULikeToKnow.3 жыл бұрын
If you have to wonder, then he's just not that into you. My husband made sure I knew that he was for real even when we first started dating and I told him I was looking for something long term. He was too, and never made me doubt.
@shannongray-chappell60823 жыл бұрын
I found this video today. You are speaking nothing but the truth! I came to this conclusion much later in life. I'm a married woman and see the effects of some things years later. When a man wants you, he will make it sure you know it and feel it.
@Ilovechunkspicateam4 жыл бұрын
Hi I was with my kids father for 12 years we have 3 kids we meet when I was 19 he was 24 I'm now 31 and he broke up with me in July and I fought my self but I had to come to realization that it wasn't my fault he just didn't love me anymore I'm now loving on myself the way I loved him for years and now he's feeling some type of way because I don't give him that love that I once has I still love him and I want nothing but the best for him but I'm done loving alone
@fhodge264 жыл бұрын
OMG you sound exactly like me!! Same exact story I have moved on and closed the door and now his attitude is like a female when he comes to get his kids smh
@Ilovechunkspicateam4 жыл бұрын
Thanks I may never understand but I do know that I'm worth more for sure he's a wonderful father tho so I'm thankful for that but I'm not going to settle for anything less then im worthy of
@ms.anonymousinformer2424 жыл бұрын
@Happy Growing I follow her too.
@Ilovechunkspicateam4 жыл бұрын
@Happy Growing thanks I just subscribed
@kimmieg14074 жыл бұрын
@Ripley1156 I think it's easy, it all depends on what he wanted her for in the beginning(wife or for benefits) benefits is easy for them to walk away from u. They should still have a relationship with the kids. It's also a problem if he marries because she got pregnant. Usually never works
@VGWNR4 жыл бұрын
And the lie detector says....HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH!
@EducatedBlackQueen4 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!👏🏾👏🏾
@marshaebradbury64442 жыл бұрын
Every women should listen to the audiobook or read “He’s just no that into you by Greg Behrendt. That book is all you need to remember your self worth and realize the excuse that men make means he just doesn’t want you like that. Someone else will Pursue you the way you desire so keep the faith and trust that your husband is on the way!💕
@danabowman15003 жыл бұрын
Whew!!! You hit!!! "Use you as a stress ball, take up all your time, but doesn't want a relationship." My current situation! He'll call at all times of the night while he works 3rd shift and I work during the day time, keeping me up all night talking about HIS situations with work, finances, and baby mama, but never hears me out or asks how I'm doing. I've literally asked myself out loud, "what am I doing? Why am I doing this?"
@Dr.Elaine1 Жыл бұрын
I hope your situation has improved. Taking accountability looks like: “I answered his calls all hours of the night…”. “I was keeping me up all night listening to HIS situations…”. Etc.
@kimberly07174 жыл бұрын
Sadly, in the black community especially, it’s become accepted that two ppl can date, live together and have kids etc and still no marriage? To each its own, but for me I wanted different. My entire family were married, later ppl divorced, but in my younger years my siblings and my cousins parents saw marriage. The other factors ppl are settling for are obvious, like you said “come on now” even in your southern accent ☺️
@Catdaddy74104 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Scott A Family can be a Family without traditional marriage. I said traditional meaning societal marriage. The Family itself is the marriage. No one needs approval from any court system or church
@kimberly07174 жыл бұрын
Catdaddy7410 I? I didn’t respond to anything you said and I agree. I am speaking on what he mentioned on wasting your time IF that is your desire based on the many inquiries he get from women. I also spoke on what “I” wanted for me and the environment I grew up in. I never dictated what others should to do in their lives.
@kimberly07174 жыл бұрын
lol lol what is wrong with you people??? Does it strike a cord? For the record I have been married so I did what “I” wanted to do! Why is it what I said I wanted for “MY LIFE” a problem for you/y’all??? Live your life how you want to, I have NO regrets. I said what I said 👌🏽
@kimberly07174 жыл бұрын
lol lol First of all, I’m guessing you are a man? The insults you’re throwing are very immature! Intellectually thought provoking ppl can have a conversation without throwing insults! So I will speak to you on your level. One, I wasn’t being “emotional” your “I wish you luck” comment was not genuine, it was sarcasm I’m not dumb! So who was the emotional one? Two, I said what I said yes, but it had NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU! Again, I said ME, I, no one else, why does it bother you what my sentiments are? Why aren’t you coming for Tony? It’s his video, he said more than I said and they are his observations and opinions but you’re corning at me? I’m too old to be in social media going back and forth with someone who cannot comprehend what someone clearly explained. Above I see 35 other ppl got what I was saying yet you’re still coming at my comments? Furthermore, where did I say “I was looking for marriage”?? What, I said it’s what I wanted for ME. Have you ever been married? How can you tell someone what they should have done or did not follow when you don’t know they’re story?? No I followed my vows, he was a narcissist so I got tired of being treated less than a wife so I loved myself and my son enough to GET US OUT OF A TOXIC SITUATION! I’ll say again I have NO REGRETS!!! If I can leave a marriage that became emotionally abusive you think I’m going to let a stranger who mean nothing to me as yourself come at my neck you’re crazy! I’m at hella proud of myself and nothing you can say will change that, I’m way too confident and been through way too much to let the lack of what you know or anyone else for that matter make me doubt anything in MY life!! Have a nice day!
@kimberly07174 жыл бұрын
lol lol same to you.
@Fulloflife242064 жыл бұрын
This came right on time was told just this past Sunday night he doesn’t want a relationship he was miserable in his last one. Not a problem I advise him cool just don’t contact me no more problem is he don’t want to let me go smh so back to focusing back on myself
@oceandabney34984 жыл бұрын
Stay STRONG Bc U are MORE than BETTER than that!!!!!
@kturilightways58144 жыл бұрын
You made the right choice, Sis.
@MissJaynet4 жыл бұрын
stay strong and block him on everything. cause he will keep trying. Same thing happen to me. Ending up finding out the man I was seeing for almost 2years had a whole fiance who claimed she was pregnant. I'm still getting over it. You know what his fiance told me; "this is what he does when we get into it". I said wow, he has whole girlfriends. I guess she says a piece of a man better than none. but anyway he married her and he found me on another social media site that I didnt realized he used. he still try's to pull me in. I jus continue to block. I may have to scare him with a PPO. it's really that serious for them these days to have their cake and eat it
@MissJaynet4 жыл бұрын
@Robin D. BIG FACTS! it's sad and scary out here. I jus stay prayed up about it. pray for my future husband
@sunnatural12724 жыл бұрын
It shouldn't be his decision to keep you present in his life if he wants nothing from you. Stop wasting your time.
@darleenowens61373 жыл бұрын
No question. You can feel a person's love. When they tell you they love you, those words are even more felt.
@leafmealoynederpydeu854 жыл бұрын
I love how your goal is to raise healthy kids . That us beautiful. This is powerful.
@akissfromnature12984 жыл бұрын
If you have to ask you already know the answer. As the old saying goes and still goes “Actions speak louder than words” It hasn’t changed.
@gbemia40549 ай бұрын
Nowadays, so much talk and zero action from men.
@katheward52474 жыл бұрын
This is right on time. Married 19 years and I have been questioning on and off of rent past 6 years or so. I’m finally filling for a divorce but he keeps saying that he is not in agreement but he is not wanting counseling either. Elder needs to keep stepping. I’m out with a new job in another state🙏🏾
@godsanointeddaughter87824 жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best sweetie.
@katheward52474 жыл бұрын
Yolanda always blessed thank you so much. I feel so relieved and free🙏🏾❤️
@ms.anonymousinformer2424 жыл бұрын
I thought I was reading my own comment and had to check the name. Same situation here . Together 20yrs,married 19. Will be married 20years next Sept. I don't wsnt a divorce but he has proven to me our entire marriage (I just didn't see it until two years ago) I'm not "the one" for him. I now realize I am not with MY "the one" either,after in 2017 seeing how he truly feels about things I'm passionate sbout with life,and the future for my kids and I. He doesn't beleive the same way about what we should do for our future and that is a big deal.
@lasond24714 жыл бұрын
I have always told my friends that if someone loves you, it is evident. If you have to ask a man what you are to him...that is your answer! Staying in a fruitless situation will not only kill your time but your spirit snd confidence as well. Loving someone who doesn’t feel the same way is beating a dead horse!
@deelish19332 жыл бұрын
Love is a verb, not a noun. It's an action word. You can say you love a person all day long but if you're not showing it, then it means absolutely nothing.
@djina31414 жыл бұрын
"Love IS. Or it ISN'T." Needed to hear this...thank you Tony for sharing! God bless!
@kgodsgirl4 жыл бұрын
I thank God for the renewing of my mind and the transformation he has done in me. I will never accept foolishness in my life from a man. Thank God for all the relationship video that I have watched. Happy in my singleness😇🙏😇
@cedrickdorsey89214 жыл бұрын
This goes both ways Where is there a segment on “She don’t want you”
@gwenlee95623 жыл бұрын
It's so much easier to walk away if you have not prematurely given your body to him. Save your body for the man that shows you that he loves you.
@telesialoyd80844 жыл бұрын
I owned up and took responsibility on my part in every relationship and situationship I’ve been in...now I’m happy...ALONE and I’ve been single for over a YEAR NOW...the best feeling...doing the work and getting the knowledge I need to attract the right person...Thanks TG
@jennahope43534 жыл бұрын
marriage exposes your singleness.... there's alot to be said about self development. understanding your pathology. great advice as always tony... find the answer in his actions ladies.
@sheenamcdaniel56734 жыл бұрын
That part!!! Stop wasting time with grown boys that don't know what they want..... I love it💞 So True!!
@amazingrace814 жыл бұрын
Well, I was married to a narcissist who showed so many mixed signals that I had to leave him. So, this video may not apply to that situation. But, there were signs of commitment, longevity and family dynamic on top of the “player” mentality that always left me confused. I felt loved in some cases and I’m others, I was discombobulated. So, hey 🤯 And trauma bonding is real. That’s why a lot of us stay in toxic relationships. Cause of the way they purposely keep us confused.
@shannongray-chappell60823 жыл бұрын
If and man wants you he will let you know by his actions. You must be "the one for him" not the one he is with. A lady doesn't have to say a word and it will not take long.