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@peteroz73322 жыл бұрын
just finished listening to your audiobook... 👍 cudos, thank you💪 it was a great buy 💥💥💯
@evolveelectricvehicles85512 жыл бұрын
Dude you are white you don't understand color women they are crazy, how many colored folks call in with their specific cultural problem like indians living with mom, hispanics and puerte rican with their knives, its common in their culture
@peteroz73322 жыл бұрын
@@evolveelectricvehicles8551 he doesn't need to understand... 🤷♂️ he gives an advice (general not specific to certain race or skin colour) to men... you can take the advice and do whatever you want with it... 🙄 nobody forces you to do anything... you can even quit watching this channel and this content, imagine that 😉👍 it seems that you've got some issues too 🤔
@Apollo-bw3hv2 жыл бұрын
@Entrepeneurs in Cars - Great video and sound advice. Just curious… why does the thumbnail depict a White woman and not a hispanic.
@jimmycampbell782 жыл бұрын
Thumbnail doesn’t matter. This is a phenomenon not just confined to Hispanic women. It makes the point, potentially these types are not just existing in one culture.
@LD9user2 жыл бұрын
Literally, every single woman I've met since my separation has had at least 3 red flags. Every last one. Solitude is freedom.
@TILLEYJS2 жыл бұрын
You ain't lying. When you bring out a diagram and present your thesis to her problems. Going step by step. They'll deny it all the way. Until their meal ticket is gone. Then the fake apologies come with them begging you back. I just sent my ex back to the struggle bus. Put up with it for almost 3 years. A man can only eat so much shit until he's full.
@LegacyFarmandHomestead2 жыл бұрын
Keep looking. I dated 8 girls and managed to find one without any red flags
@TomNook.2 жыл бұрын
what concerns me is the future of society, of humans. If most mothers are like this.... what sort of children - adults - are they creating? Humanity is fucked
@jct34392 жыл бұрын
At that point, I’d look inward. If you only are attracting broken people then there’s probably brokenness within you
@jaywright10172 жыл бұрын
Yes it is
@Buildingexcellence112 жыл бұрын
This was my life with my ex wife. Even after I left her, it didn’t stop. I got custody of my daughter, and we haven’t heard from crazy in 15 years. I Empathize with this guy.
@SSNESS2 жыл бұрын
She’s not 🔥
@MaximGolovlev2 жыл бұрын
I had a neighbor, several times we heard his wife screaming and calling for help, we thought that he was killing her. Then he showed us a recording from his phone, on which she just stood alone in the room and screamed
@xMrjamjam2 жыл бұрын
You are going to want to see one of the latest videos from better bachelor or however its spelt where there's a news article published teaching women how to lie about their past. Can't trust anything a woman says without her showing proof
@benmollitor37762 жыл бұрын
I knew a guy and his girlfriend said she was gonna get him arrested so she started punching herself in the face and hitting herself with pots and pans . So he had his phone in his hand and was recording it. She calls the police and says he beat her up. He shows them the video and she goes to the looney bin....
@josetheman2392 жыл бұрын
Last week my boss asked me if I had a girlfriend I said "No" the world is so upside down these days that it's men who are asked when they are gonna marry. I told him you gotta be okay being alone with yourself before you invite someone into your life, I have flings who would kill to come live with me right now. A lot of men will wife up the first girl that gives them any attention, they live alone not by choice but because no one wants to live with them. Be better men.
@waheedali24292 жыл бұрын
@@meghanbenson6837 because good looking woman usually working in sex industry and they are very promiscuous
@mowtivatedmechanic11722 жыл бұрын
@@meghanbenson6837 she’s probably a good women on the inside. That’s where it counts.
@cautarepvp20792 жыл бұрын
@@alonzor.2912 lol was thinking the same ahah
@FloridaManConstruction2 жыл бұрын
As soon as you said crazy Latina in Miami I thought knife….
@Son-of-Krypton2 жыл бұрын
Never ignore red flags early in a relationship. It will save your life. 🤔
@josetheman2392 жыл бұрын
Men ignore them daily out of desperation.
@rp7r542 жыл бұрын
MORE RED FLAGS THAN THE CCP.
@ChrisProutyVideos2 жыл бұрын
Sound advice, Shiraz. Thanks.
@appendix-q6k2 жыл бұрын
Not being married is the best life decision I’ve made. It’s not what she is but its what she can become. Nobody has that much value to risk marriage.
@dolanduk79462 жыл бұрын
God damn right, my worst nightmare is waking up and finding myself anchored to that, no shit I go to Ukraine before I lived with that trash. Atleast over there youre allowed to shoot back when things get heated.
@mowtivatedmechanic11722 жыл бұрын
Well said. I’ll take that to heart and remember your words. “It’s not what she is it’s what she can become”
@rossconrad96652 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice!
@deakdeagen9382 жыл бұрын
It never ceases to amaze me how women can go from a gentle, caring spirit with tons of desire and passion to a raving lunatic in 1.5 seconds.
@zzospreyzz552 жыл бұрын
I mean, let’s be real. They’re just cute and calm lunatics when they aren’t pissed.
@buckrogers63782 жыл бұрын
So....during my divorce I saw something occur that I never imagined possible.......and that was my STBX's ability to hate me at a higher level and increase her efforts to destroy me. Just to give you a little snippet of how law enforcement views men in general when it comes to enforcing COURT ORDERED time with kids between spouses......my experience has been that being male means the court order is worth as much as my used toilet paper that's flushed. You might think immediately, "HOW CAN THAT BE? You have a court order that spells out your mandatory time with the kids. The police could and would never knowingly take that time away from a dad just because an angry ex picks up the phone and says "words". As soon as she realized that anything she said was reason enough to get the police over to my residence ASAP and threaten arrest unless I immediately complied with "more words", then my time in my court ordered paperwork with my kids ended. Then you might say....."Well, take her back to court and explain it to the judge! They can't do that!" So, I did that after the first few incidents. So, I had to pay more lawyers fees and wait forever until this court time happened hoping to see my kids as soon as this resolves. But, why did I think that the same police forces in her city and mine would give a flying F about any further pieces of paper in my hand from the court when they didn't the first time around? I have absolutely no recourse and the internal stress, finances, emotional turmoil, loss of control....have been so enormous that there are many aspects regarding my life that are simply 'broken' these days. And, to listen to my ex then express how I am complete garbage for not spending much time with my kids knowing full well she alone is the reason for this (consider the emotions you might feel having to endure this shit for a few nights with kids ((because she has weekend plans and doesn't want kids this time round)) and knowing this won't change and her narrative additionally becomes the lens through which most of the world views you due to her enjoyment of posting endlessly about you on social media). I finally was able to unburden myself from the mountains of anger and hate I carried every moment of every day. It was going to be the end of me if I didn't. Young men.....I implore you to consider the reality of your future as married men with more study and introspection that you've ever dedicated to any other topic in your life. You are at the mercy of a person (your wife) who you truly NEVER know what she might do or how she feels towards you. I believe that women aren't generally capable of making sacrifices, adhering to commitments, and employing empathy to the level of men (NOT all women of course and plenty of shitty dudes). Your wife will likely not love you even a quarter to the degree that you are committed to her and truly want what's best for her. Do not marry as a general default stance.
@trzmdpath19812 жыл бұрын
It is rather appalling that the police forces flatly refuse to enforce completely legal family court orders regarding visiting time for fathers and only listen to ridiculous false accusations from mothers. People lie including many females!
@vinilzord12 жыл бұрын
USA is a fucked up place. In Brazil men are not ass fucked as bad. I've got a degree in Law and, to be honest, family law is quite fair. After the divorce, either man or woman are expected to give a sum of their income to the other part if they're financially capable. But 99% of the time the woman will get the custody of the kid, which is culturally accepted as the norm. Doesn't make sense to me because boys gotta learn how to be men with their fathers, but okay. Also, the ex-husband is legally obligated to provide child support, and this money should be strictly used to pay for the kid's expenses such as education, extracurricular activities etc. In the end of the day a small percentage of it goes straight to the mother's pocket, but it's almost negligible.
@jd3thegreat2 жыл бұрын
You need to do what Aaron Clarey says and document all of this. As a father your job is to win the kids over from 18 on. Your ex wife will always be able to fill their heads up with whatever narrative she wants when they are growing up. Its your job after they are grown to disprove her programming and give them the reality that you were helpless in the situation and you did all you could.
@TomNook.2 жыл бұрын
why does government and society enforce this? they surely can see the future of humanity they are creating is getting worse, stemming from these crazy mothers. And having men with less stress is far more beneficial for the children in the long run, as ultimately, they NEED both their mum and dad, and they need them to get along to grow up well adjusted.
@manabouttongue2 жыл бұрын
@Benjamin Smith women don't love at all.
@MH-rx7tn2 жыл бұрын
Good info. I continue to love my child free bachelor lifestyle. Protect myself. Also protect my elderly parents. No one needs this hassle.
@williambaldwin93462 жыл бұрын
Same, 41 here, never married, and zero kids. Always have yourself protected. Never live with a women, never put her name on any bank accounts of any type, don't put her name on anything.
@tassosplatis21432 жыл бұрын
@@williambaldwin9346 what are you going to do when you get old? Does old age worry you? Not trying to be snarky, genuinely asking.
@tassosplatis2143 Жыл бұрын
@House Lannister ok have fun taking care of yourself in your 70s and 80s. I'm sure the cats will do a grocery run for you every so often
@pfschuyler2 жыл бұрын
What's disturbing with scenarios like this are the kids. They are like weapons she can yield against him over and over.
@davidchester4292 жыл бұрын
God help this guy. I was in a similar position to this guy. Fortunately no knives or no kids but people are so conditioned to help women. Even after leaving with scratch marks and bite marks on me that were impossible to get from a defensive position people still asked "what did I do to deserve it?" Just stay away from this guys you only get one life
@kevindunne772 жыл бұрын
Were you able to see your kid(s)?
@mrtimtom26312 жыл бұрын
Knives?
@daviedood25032 жыл бұрын
Bc they hate men. They assume women are angels and YOU must have done something to deserve it. They automatically take women's side. The women know this and have no shame in lying about what really happened, to avoid consequences. They feel they don't have to. Anything to maintain that image in their head.
@chrispbacon30422 жыл бұрын
God?…lol
@thronewalker11532 жыл бұрын
What did you do?
@Zanatos92 жыл бұрын
Ontario Canada here. I went on a date with a single mom, she told me how she became single. She got in a fight with the guy she was living with. She started hitting him, she called the police to get him out of his house (she's living in his house). She even told the cops she hit him, not the other way around. They still arrested him telling her that they saw it as her protecting her kids vs the evil man. So now she's squatting on his property, so he can't go there because she put a restraining order on him. Shes not leaving his home. I couldn't believe she told me this whole story, after the date, I tossed her # out.
@ceasarwright75672 жыл бұрын
Whats her name
@mowtivatedmechanic11722 жыл бұрын
We need a black list for these women. Can some IT guy make an app for that? I’m sure women will have one too and we’ll all be on it.
@grahamashe97152 жыл бұрын
Just stay single, men. Avoid all the BS. Not worth the risk. If you really need something, just straight up pay for it and leave when you’re done with no strings. See how easy life can be? Take it from a divorced dad.
@Son-of-Krypton2 жыл бұрын
Absolute truth ☝🏼
@mr.lettuce82872 жыл бұрын
@Haung Jo holy fuck dude chill 😂
@massacremaker6342 жыл бұрын
Pay for sex?
@frenchmime19722 жыл бұрын
@@massacremaker634 you always pay either way.
@zzospreyzz552 жыл бұрын
Murder is cheaper and easier than divorce
@supersteve83052 жыл бұрын
He knew she was crazy way before these episodes. He knew when he dated her. His mistake, is he overlooked it all because of bedroom time. Big mistake for him.
@Stan-mh7bf2 жыл бұрын
He was thinking with the other head and he admitted it. That is the result. Never ever put your equipment in crazy!
@madsaltyskills2 жыл бұрын
The first sign of crazy argument or any physical violence I would have been walk away NEXT! 😂🤦♂️
@suzuh50602 жыл бұрын
As a woman...this even frightens the shyte out of me. I can't even imagine having to deal with this for years on end. Those poor kids, WOW. So terribly sad.
@JL-lq6bu2 жыл бұрын
Don’t invite Crazy into your life!! Thanks coach 💪
@deanmcginnes2 жыл бұрын
Wow just wow! This is why I’m still single at 37. No kids and never been married. Always vetting woman for red flags. I feel for the guy. I hope he gets his life sorted and doesn’t have to deal with this. Thanks for posting this video and show his videos as well Rich! Viewing stuff like this impacts us more than just you reading it back. Hopefully it will help us make better decisions.
@glevando2 жыл бұрын
That woman's crazy behavior will forever impact those children. That's sad and it's disgusting that it is assumed that the female is the better parent. Look at the outcome of children raised by single mothers. It's not a good outcome. Watching this makes me glad I'm single. All women have the potential to be that woman. Vet for flags but understand they can change their behavior at a moment's notice.
@amolgill74802 жыл бұрын
Great video Rich. Big eye opener for me. Glad that I read your book and content in my teenager years. As for the guy in the video, he saw the red flags and decided to ignore. He did it to himself. Red Flags are no joke. Be rational not emotional. Especially in today’s society, very important to be aware and make good decisions.
@FroggyFrog90002 жыл бұрын
we all know theres a problem with the family court system, why do we still put up with the family court?
@FroggyFrog90002 жыл бұрын
@@FritzDWhite no that will rapidly destroy our people.
@kickinkanga70262 жыл бұрын
9 years ago she was an Angel 😇
@dchristian10212 жыл бұрын
Sureee
@westnylefx2 жыл бұрын
If you ignore redflags, then you will pay the price.
@bigbadwolfproduction2 жыл бұрын
This sounds VERY familiar!! I dealt with crazy for 20 years. There were tons of red flags in the beginning. I ignored them. Paid the price! 😔 My bad.
@YZFMANIAC082 жыл бұрын
Happen to the best of us mate, take care and be vigilant
@mowtivatedmechanic11722 жыл бұрын
Happened to us all brother. Same here. Same as this lady in the video. Head up dude. Life moves on.
@Blando78872 жыл бұрын
yes, couldn’t agree more, first sign of crazy you flee. When you decide to stay bad things happen
@carni48732 жыл бұрын
Yep! Definitely heard of tons of situations where women use weapons against men.
@rhysperalta39062 жыл бұрын
I'm 27 years old. And im blessed and grateful to say, i had a lot of good mentors that had been through the ringer already, and thanks to that. Im Single with no kids, on my grind,and purpose in life. Thank you, Rich as well, you're a hell of a man. Also the other gentlemen in comments and this community as well. Keep leading from the front guys.
@richardaird36362 жыл бұрын
People, stop selling yourselves short.
@leroyharvey20242 жыл бұрын
Wow she is a dirt bag. Even if he was cheating too, you DONT do that in front of kids, family, neighbors, or anyone else. Especially the kids. I have been in a similar situation with my divorce and it takes super human willpower not to strike back. The thought crosses your mind every time she assaults you that she is battling you like a man so why not react to her like she is a man. So hard not to fall for it but it just increases her power with the law if you do, as well as turn your kids against you. So one sided and the government will always be on her side regardless of circumstances. All I can recommend from my experience is if you catch your wife cheating or any other problem worthy of divorce, don’t get emotional. Play it cool like nothing is wrong and contact a divorce attorney FAST and make a legal exit strategy. The law will likely still not be on your side, but it’s the only way to make the best separation outcome from a very one sided legal system.
@thevine20102 жыл бұрын
Plus gather evidence. The more the better. Cameras the size of USB drives and tracker software and software for text forwarding for documentation. Cheaper than a drawn out legal battle when you are a few steps ahead of her.
@beerandbones6142 жыл бұрын
Thank God for your content. Im 1000% serious. And your book. What a excellent book.. The problem is some of us knuckle heads after learning all this, still wanna play around w these damaged women. And let me just say its not a joke. You will eventually get to the point where you're gonna get locked up on false allegations. I finally let mine go for good. It was back and forth back and forth. It never got violent physically. Yet. But i saw the rage recently in her eyes. And that was it for me. F*ck the sex, forget the good times. There's way too much drama and risk and a huge liability, and if i stuck around it would eventually of gotten real bad. I was a idiot for staying w her as long as i did. So many red flags from the start. Thank god for your content because little by little i started to back away. It just took more time than it should of. But your content saved my life, physically and esp. Spiritually,emotionally. See its like a drug, these woman can be like a drug to the brain. And these videos are like the 12 step programs but for ending toxic relationships. You have a gift of really getting threw to people. Some of us are just slower. But we FINALLY get there and leave. And now after I take some time to heal, The next woman i come across I will vet accordingly. And will higher my standards and not ignore 1 red flag.
@villaespesa12 жыл бұрын
Even when they luck out, they find a good man, hard working, responsible, treats her and the kids right they can't help themselves, somehow they ruin everything with ungrateful behaviors, they still think they're a hot commodity. Rich is 💯 right, work on yourself and then you can choose from the top shelf, not from the clearance racks.
@ak4750083962 жыл бұрын
8th red flag is looney toons shirt
@tlatimes92512 жыл бұрын
🥴
@amauryknight2 жыл бұрын
Just bought your book, need the information to be prepared.
@bbooth12292 жыл бұрын
Crazy women with violent tendancies? Why don't you just call her "woman". I see no difference between her and any other women I have ever met. Any woman, no matter the language or nationality, acts EXACTLY like this whenever they don't get exactly what they want. Why do you think they want our kids? Because it gives them the leverage they need to act like this.
@LD9user2 жыл бұрын
Hard cold truth, brother.
@AbhishekKumar72 жыл бұрын
💯
@Rocket99442 жыл бұрын
Yup
@OzzyGonzalez2 жыл бұрын
Growing up in a predominantly Central American neighborhood in Los Angeles, I saw a lot of these kind of relationships. Many of these moms’ children joined gangs or got pregnant during their early teens.
@CEWIII9873 Жыл бұрын
What set do you claim, homie?
@bill74ish2 жыл бұрын
Family law is not the only court that presumes guilt first ask questions later. Its in all areas
@davidr16202 жыл бұрын
I went through something similar. Wasn’t arrested. But I married a woman with many many of the red flags and she too made blatantly false and ridiculous allegations against me as well as allegations of child neglect. Luckily, being familiar with her past of filing restraining orders against people, my antennas perked up and I started making recordings. Both of her DV restraining orders were dismissed as well as both the Child Welfare Services cases. The judge looked at her and told her she wasn’t credible and looked at me and told me I was credible. I didn’t see my daughter for almost three months. It was hell. But I fought back. We have a hearing in June to sanction her and get attorney’s fees. I don’t care as much about the money as I do making sure she understands she cannot do this crazy shit and not face consequences.
@tinofeliciano14212 жыл бұрын
This kinda happened to me with my Colombian ex but not this bad. It is the gift that keeps on giving. Once, you have kids with these women your life will never be the same. False allegations. Parental alienation. Gas Lighting. Letting the cat outta the bag is a whole easier then putting it back in. Be safe. Be smarter.
@tinofeliciano14212 жыл бұрын
@@LA-wv7gf I would advise against bringing these foreign spouses back to the states or wherever you live. Not worth it
@sirtnfol84762 жыл бұрын
Crazy will disguise itself as a 10 made for you till its too late
@airlebron74672 жыл бұрын
Chameleon
@OpEditorial2 жыл бұрын
Sylvester and Tweety Bird typically don't get along
@dougackerman41822 жыл бұрын
Love the thumbnail Rich
@Apollo-bw3hv2 жыл бұрын
Diversity is our greatest Strength!
@starguy27182 жыл бұрын
Mexico sending us their best.
@07wrxtr12 жыл бұрын
Here's the issue: You're never going to fix guys getting with crazy women until guys will recognize attachment issues between themselves and their own mothers. Most guys are too weak/insecure to even discuss it. "Not all" but "a lot" of these guys have mommy issues and I don't mean to sound rude, but, it's their responsibility to work on those issues BEFORE entertaining any relationship of any kind.
@livestock97222 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Someone with a less than stable attachment style will attract more of the same, the majority of the time.
@jessecortez94492 жыл бұрын
This is the biggest failing I see in most of the RP/Manosphere. So focused on external locus of control that they never look at and develop their internal locus of control. Once I had my trainwreck of a woman I stopped everything and looked internally because I realized that we are two sided of the same relationship coin. The RP/Manosphere community is far too focused on dangerous women when they need to look at the dangerous issues they have inside themselves. Once that is appropriately handled the world gets a whole lot less crazy in almost every regard.
@GulliversFlo2 жыл бұрын
Explain the mommy issues briefly please..
@livestock97222 жыл бұрын
@@jessecortez9449 On the money there.
@sharnieeverton92132 жыл бұрын
I agree. As a female, I’ve had plenty of relationships with volatile men who feed on drama too. I ended up stopping and looking at myself and why I was attracting messed up guys. Both sexes really need to do the work on themselves. There’s plenty of crazy on both sides of the fence.
@theflyingsmiley012 жыл бұрын
Just after the 9:00 min mark Rich says: "If a woman displays any violent tendencies, get out now." My dad did not do that. My dad should have left. Nothing really happened in the end, it is just that my dad was not exactly swinging for the fences when it came to women after his divorce.
@ENDWOKEDEGENERACY2 жыл бұрын
When a woman says “I love you” it means “i need you” and nothing more.
@RB09X2 жыл бұрын
waw just waw.. her screaming gave me a headache, this is mind blowing. What a beautiful disney princess love story. The govt. gave her a home. Epitome of humanity.
@stevenwatsham59732 жыл бұрын
Just pay for play.. It is a hell of a lot cheaper!
@glevando2 жыл бұрын
True. Way cheaper and more variety and no headaches.
@gregwong2132 Жыл бұрын
The Cell Phone advice is GOLD
@willyngomo73742 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂so typical. I have lived the same story. I went to jail for domestic violence when in fact she attacked me in my house when she came to drop my son and the trigger was because she saw my new girlfriend’s stuff in the house. She knew it was over for real. She attacked my new girlfriend on social media and still giving me hard time to see my son because of the court setup. They unruly and out of order but can’t deal with the consequences
@severepayne722 жыл бұрын
put some cameras up, or record when she comes over, u have to be one step ahead
@dolanduk79462 жыл бұрын
Get snipped while you're at it, or your new gf will turn into your old one
@williambaldwin93462 жыл бұрын
Guys....read his book. I have it,
@markdanielsmarksinspiratio35472 жыл бұрын
I’ve had women use the kids to accuse me of molesting the kids abusing the kids etc. and they filed ex parted against me etc etc. for no other reason than to get control and the courts gave it to them. This is common. I don’t have those troubles anymore that was many years ago. 11 years ago I got my six kids. My ex went back to her country I haven’t seen her since.
@LegacyFarmandHomestead2 жыл бұрын
Those poor kids. God damn.
@jimjoseph76412 жыл бұрын
Men should also take note: She may have been hot when she was 23, but she isn't now. If your main attraction to her was physical, you will be miserable when that fades.
@worldwanderingfisherman21662 жыл бұрын
This is insane, just looking at this video is very scary, if married life is like this then, no way in h3ll i will marry.
@habbadabbado57652 жыл бұрын
Wow. That’s just sad all the way around. Saying that to the kids and berating him in front of the kids does some serious damage.
@roastbeef19672 жыл бұрын
The biggest Red FLag: you are not allowed to defend yourself; i.e. the US court system. N.B.: behaving like a bitch only escalates the situation; you are not portraying a defender/fighter/provider.
@primalplasma2 жыл бұрын
I had a girlfriend just like this woman in my early 30s. Luckily I never married or had kids with her, and I ran when she got too crazy. Back then I felt guilty for leaving, but I remember talking to her after she left and she actually apologized to me. She said "I had to act this way so that you could leave." Even then I didn't know what she meant, but now I do.
@hello-u2w2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand. Please explain. Thanks for sharing
@Lowflyer022 жыл бұрын
Sounds like bpd
@thevine20102 жыл бұрын
She was either hitting the wall (wants the ring) or monkey branching (aka had other guys on the down low) or got bored (like all relationships). You lucked out on that disaster since she is clearly a manipulator.
@primalplasma2 жыл бұрын
@@Lowflyer02 Yeah she was bipolar.
@primalplasma2 жыл бұрын
@@hello-u2w That's the thing. I didn't understand in my 30s either. I understand only now in my late 40s. Instead of ending the relationship, she forced me to leave by being unbearable and showing multiple deep red flags, including spending my money without permission, burdening me with her debt, throwing violent tantrums and flirting with other men behind my back. She later told me it was the only way to break up with me. I guess she didn't have the heart to just say it. (sarcasm) I was working on-site at Microsoft in Washington State at the time. Outside of Seattle. Meeting women is hard out there; you are pretty much in the wilderness if you are not from there. So after six months of being alone without a girlfriend I got desperate and took what I could get. Big mistake.
@msstroh2 жыл бұрын
Thankfully, I own your book and have you narrating as well!
@chakala21492 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much Rich. Eye opening
@vonhofmeister99902 жыл бұрын
i wish i had known this back in2001 - i had a crazy violent wife like that too - at first i just held her from attacking me - i learned eventually to record and run away , cause as a man , you ALWAYS LOOSE when cops and judges are involved- DV record makes it impossible for me to rent an apartment in my own name- unfortunately the damage to me on my record was already done- no one believes me- i had to move 3hrs away to live drama free
@doncoyote25512 жыл бұрын
wow, scary. They are sick bro. Never allow yourself to be in this scenario.
@CaptainLeftHook2 жыл бұрын
"Kill me, kill me!". The dude is crazy aswell.
@LatimusChadimus2 жыл бұрын
She must have switched to the slipper when she saw the camera
@xMrjamjam2 жыл бұрын
One strike your out prevents all these problems
@deangiusti18842 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice in this video.
@windfactor2 жыл бұрын
Sticking into crazy is the downfall of great men and the enslavement of ordinary men.
@RunsWithKnives2 жыл бұрын
I was married to a woman just like this, I got full custody of my girls and she had no visitation rights from 2002-2013 when our youngest turned 18. My daughter's have never been told they couldn't contact her, they have just chosen not too all these years. Stay away from these women, I had to fight hard but it is possible to win in court but you have to have a good lawyer and build a real case because family law is totally against men.
@billthebutcher68732 жыл бұрын
I'm currently with a divorced latina with 3 kids from 2 different guys, and it's similar to this situation. It's an utter nightmare and I'm plotting my escape. She's violent, lies, and has severe issues. I'm crazy for having a heart for her, but she's not good to be with, and just need to move on.
@renelvital2 жыл бұрын
Good luck
@deltafox12 жыл бұрын
Run away man... change your phone number and leave the state or city, block her on every media and disappear.
@AfriqueNY2 жыл бұрын
You wildin bro..... Estás loco!!!
@billthebutcher68732 жыл бұрын
@@deltafox1 I am it's just complicated because we live together and I have valuable things here. I need to sell some things first and put things in storage, and then line a new place up to live.
@juliancho32292 жыл бұрын
Run away man, tomorrow it may be too late
@karlbrown46352 жыл бұрын
My ex brandy from my blue pill days was worse. She was sexy AF, but had me arrested on false dv 2x.. constantly terrorized me with threats of calling my probation if I left her despite obvious cheating. She had 7 sibblings with 5 different fathers,brothers in prison, garden tool sisters constantly trying to come get her to hang out with them to cheat on me I always suspected but learned for sure seeing text messages when I finally dumped her the last time and took the red pill. Beware of red flags gentleman
@Gameplayery2 жыл бұрын
We can't always blame women, as Men we have to take ownership of our mistakes. Or just be a better judge of character. that's my truth and i live by it
@Iburn2472 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy who's been with a girl since highschool and recent single. 15 years too late but I'm a slow learner I guess. Anyway, I'm a good looking and physically fit, 35 year old with my own house and business. No money problems and have 1 daughter. I literally don't know how to date or talk to new girls so I'm running thru tinder for practice. It's good for one night stands but not sure about finding a wife there. Wish me luck
@ray076NL2 жыл бұрын
tinder is just for hookups, if they werent trash women theyd be able to find a man in real life. a few are worth it though but they also hang out with chads, even at that age. just find them in real life, good luck.
@loadedpipe13112 жыл бұрын
So all the lessons from this video fell on deaf ears right? Go get burnt,learn your lessons and return back here to entertain us with your story,we will be waiting.
@blackpage7162 жыл бұрын
Toss the idea of having a wife. It doesn't work in modern society
@Someguy11332 жыл бұрын
expecting a ltr on Tinder is just playin yourself
@dolanduk79462 жыл бұрын
Yep, if u wana date walking red flags then get snipped, save evidence, and live close to the door. Soon as she starts this shit I'm ghosting. Life's too short to deal with this trash
@LegacyFarmandHomestead2 жыл бұрын
Remember guys violence doesn't start with violence. It can be breaking dishes. One sign was my ex before she started being violent towards me would be violent towards herself. She would punch walls she would hit herself. And I would lie to myself saying well she's not hitting me so this isn't really violence. Then she started hitting me.
@ceasarwright75672 жыл бұрын
Then what happened
@ChrisProutyVideos2 жыл бұрын
Your content is always better than the rest. I'm digging today's video!
@fernendo42 жыл бұрын
I will keep rubbing one out and increasing my net worth. This would make me want to do major damage if you know what I mean.
@Joelmaquera2 жыл бұрын
Poor kids they have to listen to her yell
@IDNHANTU2day2 жыл бұрын
Tax law is another area where you are guilty unless proven innocent. Imagine that on top of family law going on at the same time.
@vonhofmeister99902 жыл бұрын
any court you are presumed guilty and have to prove your innocence- the spirit of the law is not followed
@ronvaughan80412 жыл бұрын
Certainly these tendencies showed themselves prior to him fathering the second and third kids. And in all likelihood they were visible before the first. More men really need to come to grips with just how valuable common sense and a thin layer of rubber truly are.
@rishaddcruz20482 жыл бұрын
Happy to be single. The moment you put a ring on their finger OR tell them that you LOVE them, they take advantage of you. It's in their nature.
@jasonstella742 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the share…
@lovethechop2 жыл бұрын
thanks for the video rich
@hero20062 жыл бұрын
I've been in two similar situations like this and thankfully no children involved. Women will almost always get violent when they get caught cheating.
@LatimusChadimus2 жыл бұрын
Sai-ko ! Sike-oh ! Take your pick
@TheDogggrecords2 жыл бұрын
🤣 Better you than me homie! 😂
@stefan-stocksmadesimple52412 жыл бұрын
There's a reason they say "crazy in the bed, crazy in the head".. 👀
@michaelcummings61782 жыл бұрын
GREAT JOB ! ! Rich SHOW THE WORLDS HOW THEY REALLY ARE !
@cheapsoot19812 жыл бұрын
Absolutely frightening and hilarious at the same time.
@jflores852 жыл бұрын
the system needs to change but it wont
@blackpage7162 жыл бұрын
WE have to change it. The women cry "where have all the good men gone" Because we need to change the system. Good men have to stand up and do the work.
@todd50822 жыл бұрын
Every divorced person I’ve ever met, every single one, it was the other person’s fault. What’s the odds of that?? Lol.
@mowtivatedmechanic11722 жыл бұрын
Of the person is a dude it’s pretty high
@warrenglenn53492 жыл бұрын
This video brought back a lot of bad memories. My Ex wife seemed awesome in the beginning but after pregnancy and child birth it was a whole lot of craziness! It’s been 21 years since I ended the marriage with the Ex and the drama is not over! My three adult sons now get to deal with their crazy mother.
@maxwell-cole2 жыл бұрын
Wow. Nuts. Why any man would tolerate this is outrageous.
@stevec56572 жыл бұрын
Rule #1 - Get a vasectomy. Rule #2 - Always wear protection. Rule #3 - Don't be a stupid fool, take care of rules #1 and #2 a.s.a.p. Any woman that criticizes or ridicules you for protecting yourself, has ulterior motives and you should get away.
@pabsmanhere2 жыл бұрын
Some crazy hispanic woman isn't relatable. This is just typical family drama commonplace among minorities.
@MiguelHernandez-rb8mm2 жыл бұрын
This is why in the past for women being "lady-like" was so important...
@S6OOL2 жыл бұрын
I feel sorry for the kids. We live in garbage times when it comes to relationships. Mass media is promoting everything that destroys the foundations of healthy relationships, teaching young women that all men are toxic, women shouldn't "need" a man and that relationships are not worthy. Damn.
@chrispbacon30422 жыл бұрын
The part a lot of blokes forget is ‘ this all makes logical sense in her head’ …Scary! I have had to learn the hard way myself.
@rayraysphone2 жыл бұрын
There's a reason these chicks love communism. "Oh look it has the same outfit as I do."
@FinTra_2 жыл бұрын
When she send the dude the naked pics, he could have pressed charges for harrasment. That would bring the point across that its over.