He Left...There was an OW, a marriage ....And a Restoration

[@MiguelGarcia-ye9vg]

I left my wife and am working to get her back. Please pray for me and my family. She is the best thing that God has given me. I pray for God to restore my marriage!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yes sir....prayers going up!!!

[@buyisiwepreciousxaba5902]

It shall be done

[@josev6368]

Hermano cre en dios pero obedese sus mandamientos y no pekes y el te ayudara

[@rparchman]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@jessicadiarythenaturalmomm9623]

@miguel Garcia why did you leave her? If you don’t mind me asking

[@annagrace1159]

My beloved husband is seeking something that only God who is our Lord Jesus Christ can and has already healed. The pridefulness, unknowing of who God is, bitterness, anger, mental anger, disappointments, arguments, etc. creates so much strife and unrest on my husband 😢 where if it were not an issue he is loving and kind. The brokenness is so hard but thats exactly what's needed for the Lord to bring him to repentance for choosing his own way. I stand with the Truth of God because it is my call.

[@erikahooks6969]

After a 2 1/2 yr stand, my H is marrying the OW. It seems like I'll be standing through this unless the Lord intervenes before. I watched these videos months ago, had to watch again. You guys are so encouraging. Thank you for sharing your testimony. Please keep the Hooks in your prayers.

[@SoliDeoGloria778]

I miss my wife very much. We have been separated for over a year. And, I see her almost every day but she said that she wants a divorce. It hurts a lot. I should have been a better husband. It has been a very hard year. It is as though my flesh is pulling from my body. I don't want a divorce at all. I want my wife back. Please pray for us. I will continue to pray and seek God. He is faithful.

[@antoniojoyner1638]

Thank you ! And God bless you I’m going through separation because of my own mistakes and the stopping of my self growth. I hurt my wife too bad and she wanted out. She’s happy now and even talking to someone. But we have two kids together and still live together. Part of me wants to walk but the God in me knows I must stand. Many men I know would walk but the God in me knows that she is my Rib and I need to stand for myself and her. This marriage will work in Jesus name ! May anyone going through be encouraged. God is a god of restoration! He will be my Guide !

[@shelli523]

Pray to God & seek him.

[@kay-annclarke6312]

Keep standing. I am not married but I'm standing for my son's father to be restored to us and for us to get married. I don't know how long . Others may say , he may not be the one God has for me but deep inside I know God can fix anything so I told God I will keep praying until He answers.

[@phumzilemokobi5064]

@@kay-annclarke6312 please pray for my husband Mr Solomon Mokobi to stop infidelity

[@GreenMan-em2jd]

So did your marriage get restored?

[@betthieg.1676]

Antoniojoyner, I pray your marriage has been restored.

[@Angela-zm5ox]

When my marriage of 28 years collapsed, people at church said things like "new beginning" as if they were excited for me. It was awful. Most of the church doesn't believe God can and does restore marriages. I have been standing for 8 years since he divorced me. I am so content in my life right now, it's hard to get my head around why I'm standing. It isn't for my joy, fulfillment or even companionship. It's not for me anymore - I'm filled with God's goodness on every side. It's only for glory to God and a testimony of his covenant loyalty. Truth is I don't need it anymore. Am I still standing? I don't know. I bless my husband and I don't disparage what he did and understand why he had to do it. I want him healed and whole - walking in his identity in Christ. If marriage restoration in this life is a piece of that - then yes I am still standing. I will never remarry unless to him or til death do we part.

[@ndahafahappyjuju]

Amen. I thank God for what you said. Remarriage to someone else while your firs spouse is still alive is a sin anyway Romans 7:2,3 therefore I bless God for what you just said mummy. May God be glorified in your marriage.

[@ashaundacarter4287]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 amen. Prayers to you and your stand.

[@staciecrawford4971]

My hubby’s leavening soon….he has planted “I’m done” several times. I see where/how I went wrong but he’s sooo angry, rooted anger from b4 “us”. Please come into agreement with me that what he says is what he will do..”I need to work on me, why I’m angry” Thanks for your prayers

[@anuncommonlove1112]

And in the midst of all the, "but God". Allow him to release you of the anger and bitterness..there are so many more videos we have to encourage you, hang in there and know you are not alone..🙏

[@beckylink]

I stood for 6 years then I fell away.., I’ve come back to my stand now. It’s been 20 years! I never could remarry; I thought about it twice in a dozen years.. then came back last year. My faith is under attack but I am holding on. !!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

The word of the Lord puts it like this, "having done all to stand, stand and your loins girded about..." This means we need to stay in the word trusting him no matter what. Keep the faith, as trials come to make us strong..🙏 praying and believing for you

[@beckylink]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Amen!! I agree 💯%!! Thank you for the encouragement. Appreciate y’all. ❤️❤️ I was originally the prodigal, then became the stander. ✝️

[@salomafisher985]

I’m standing for 12 years and still believing! Thanks for sharing and giving hope.

[@angelisarobinson7969]

Amen. I've been standing for 7.5 years 🙏🏾💜🙏🏾

[@elizabethbrandon677]

Bless you!

[@imgrateful7142]

God did this with me when I was a new stander; dreams, revelations, signs, a word from people. I think because he knew where I was spiritually. He pretty much took those away( still some from time to time) and made me rely on His word.

[@Mr_Santo5]

Thank you for sharing your story. I am standing for my marriage and am on the 6th month. Wife has moved out and does not talk to me. One thing I found out quick was how I could not rely on the church we were going to. The people I knew there would shun and avoid me after my spouse separated from me, including the pastor. I tried to reach out for counsel, prayer and Biblical advice several times and it went nowhere. It's sad but I found that the Lord had to bring complete strangers into my life to show me the love of God. These people I did not even know would pray for me. He is so faithful and I am glad that through this he has shown me that the true church is not a building, but in the hearts of his people.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

You know... When the hospital stops giving medicine, providing options for the sick, stops caring for the sick and feeble, quits and turns away people at the Door and walk past you while your bleeding out, they cease from being a hospital the same way some churches stopped being a house of prayer and deliverance. God has a way of showing you who people really are when going through test and trials. God be praised for raising up people to help and encourage you where you are... If anything we can help walk you through we are here.. Be blessed🙏

[@nat3843]

Amen and Amen. Praying for restoration.

[@mindyloper4454]

@@anuncommonlove1112 OHHHH AMMMEENNNNNN TO THE HOSPITAL COMMENT ♥️ WHEW!!!!😉

[@docwhoshops]

I admit I am tired. 15 year fight for marriage. He is now remarried after several adulterous affairs AND my health is declining and 2 nights ago I discovered a huge sinkhole behind my house. I’m exhausted-physically and emotionally. I just left the hospital again 4 days ago. Last night I slept in a safe place. Lord please rescue me. I’m spent and weary!!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

"lord send your healing power, your favor, your love and bring peace to the minds and hearts of this home. Bless them in a mighty way, we believe the supernatural on there behalf, show up and show out in Jesus name.. Amen" Be encouraged, blessed and stay strong. 🙏

[@Joy-wc4iw]

Lord hear the cries of ur child and deliver them from this awful pit of heartache and physical weakness and exhaustion! Let Joy come in the morning Lord, may she know ur peace that passes all understanding even as issues arise with her home. U are all knowing, uv got this God. Give her strength abs spare her on that there will be a great and fruitful testimony of ur healing and restoration in her life. Help get sleep and rest in u Lord, r shepherd and our shield. Thank you Lord for what u are about to do in this ladies life. In Your might name, Amen 🙏🏻

[@shelli523]

You are in the hands of God. Look up to the songs: 1. Rescue Story - Zach Williams 2. God, Turn It Around- Jon Reddick

[@docwhoshops]

Thanks for the love and heartfelt prayers. I am medically stable and strong in the Lord.

[@1kings861]

Today is 33 months standing for my marriage. I will not give in or give up! GOD is able!! ✝️❤️

[@monicagardner5746]

Thank you for your testimony. I am going through this currently and while I'm standing this hurts so bad! Keep us in your prayers that God will work this out

[@MegaTia02]

Hey, you two, thank you so much for continuing to share your story. Husband, when you said that you were fed up, I thought how we don’t get so much fed up with our spouses, but with all of the other junk in our lives that we aren’t dealing with. It seems like the easiest thing to do is pull the plug on the person who is nearest to us, as a quick fix, and with devastating consequences. I know that when all of the junk builds up in our lives, from our past, expectations, disobedience, secret sins, it all rises to the surface one way or another and not only drowns us, but our family and friends as well. I will be praying for your newfound restoration, ministry and all those who are being fed by your story.

[@Drowning_Girl]

Your words are so true. I feel like I'm like a piece of trash that my husband threw away because he is unhappy with his life so he wanted to get rid of me. I'm faithful and standing for my marriage but this week has been hard.

[@diamonddimples7284]

@@Drowning_Girl I pray things have gotten better for you!

[@Formerbg]

What a blessing. I am surprised that I am experiencing the same behavior from my christian friends/leaders. They keep saying go on with your life and God has something better. I am standing for reconciliation of my marriage. I thank God for this encouraging video. Please keep my husband and I in prayer.

[@AndreaS-kn4mn]

Thank You for the Transparency and letting us in your life. I’ve have been standing for 1 year and 5 months . I have watched a couple videos as the Holy Sprit lead me to you. I will continue to stand as God can do the impossible. God Bless you and your Ministry 🙇🏾‍♀️🤗🙏🏾 . Pray and Fast . God always has one more move !!!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Be encouraged, "trouble don't last always, it is just a season" go through your storm... 🙏

[@AT-jf7up]

I love Rejoice Marriage Ministries! Finding you on KZbin was a blessing. It’s been 7 years and some days I’m strong some days I want to give up on myself. Your story is so parallel to mine it really got my attention. I’d like to contact you but I too had to get rid of social media when he left. I was a troll. I’m watching all your posts this weekend! Praising God!

[@LiaDuarteGoossen]

7 years for me as well

[@SomethingUnique12]

Thank You for your Testimony! This is such a blessing. I'm going threw something similar. My husband left the home and we have been going through it for a year. This is encouraging, but can you please pray for me. My husband has checked out and is now in another relationship with someone. I'm believing that our marriage is going to be restored. Please pray for Terrance and Lisa

[@denaehilliard2332]

Pray away that Jezabel faithfully

[@SomethingUnique12]

@@denaehilliard2332 I am.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yes ma'am.... God can

[@rachealjames8171]

I declare that God is going to work is out. Pray without ceasing

[@SomethingUnique12]

@@denaehilliard2332 Thank you so much!!

[@dvnwifey222]

5year stander here. I can relate to the no dreams thing. I don't get them too much now...if at all. But last year we had a false start, and the same day he left, that night God gave me a dream of him coming back and he spoke Hosea to me. A lot has changed in my life, but that is the one thing I'll never alter. I will stand for Ian's relationship with Jesus to be restored. I will stand and see the promises of God come to pass. Thank yall for sharing this testimony! It encouraged me. You are both great examples of living for God!

[@DanelleOlson-d7w]

Thank you for sharing your story! I was married to a woman for close to 25 years. We divorced in July of 2022. She later remarried in December of 2023. I realize now how much I contributed to the downfall of our marriage and wish that, somehow, I had the chance to make things right and remarry her. (Or as one person put it: “I want a new marriage with the same woman.”) Thanks again for sharing your story. You’re living proof that God is bigger than any circumstance and that he is still in the reconciliation business. 😊 I only wish I had clarity regarding did I should continue standing or if God is telling otherwise. (Mr.) Danelle Olson

[@msh5597]

I’m in tears this blessed meeee, this blessed meeeee. This bless me

[@mzclas8518]

Thank you for sharing your testimony. I'm going through the separation. My husband has decided he wants an divorce and I am stand for my marriage. God worked on him, but I still need God to work on me. And my husband just decided he did not wanted to wait for God to work on me. I have not stop seeking God for his works on me. I will continue because I believe in God. Please continue to minister to us. Thank you

[@Grace4MeNU]

@mzclas8518 how are you doing today? Are you still holding out for restoration. The Lord bless you.

[@southernmama7606]

Please pray for my marriage. My husband is wanting out after 7 years, our anniversary was just weeks ago, because of my withdrawal from him. He spent years trying to love me and I was so cold to him. Now, he's fed up and ready to give up, just as I'm realizing how much I love him and don't want to lose him. I don't blame him. He should have left a long time ago with how I've treated him. But he didn't. And he's still here, but barely. Please pray for us. God bless.

[@astandersjourneytomarriage4907]

Continue to pray! Ask God for forgiveness and forgive yourself! While. praying for your marriage, hope that helps

[@staciecrawford4971]

Praying for you, it helps to repent and admit what wrongs you made via the Holy Spirit. The book Love & Respect helps to see each other’s needs

[@jeannieocasio3329]

I appreciate your testimony. God send me to hear your testimony. I am trusting God restore my marriage after 34 years

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Wonderful!

[@asamusicdude]

Thank you for the encouragement great testimony. Been standing 1 yr with a cold and distant spouse she didnt even give a happy Bday this yr. still in contact everyday. Gods in Control. She a good woman doing a bad thing

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Stay encouraged as this is not the end...As stated God is in control. Be blessed 🙏

[@childofgod5350]

Thank you soo much can’t wait for the next episode. I am walking kinda the same. My husband left after 26 years and divorced me and the 5 mths later had married the ow. It has been 2 years since he left. I am standing. Please please pray for us and the ow.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you so much for tuning in, with all those who are indeed standing, we will continue to go to God on your behalf and stand in the gap. We also stand in the gap for those who left that they too will encounter the voice and reasoning of God to make the appropriate decision and turn toward him as a prodical and go home.. Stay strong, be encouraged, God has the last say...

[@cameronheynes9079]

John 10v10. I'm too standing for my Marriage, daily the enemy tries to show me that the more I stand in the spiritual the more my wife detaches. God gave me Ezekiel 36v26&27. And the day before I prayed for her hardened heart. God is faithful. Believe!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yessssss.. Stay encouraged 🙏

[@mindyloper4454]

That's right! Stay encouraged...DOOOO NOTTTTT let what you see and hear affect you.. it's a lie from the enemy...YOU STAND AND BELIEVE IN WHAT U CAN'T SEE, HAVING FAITH, THANKING GOD FOR WHAT HE'S DOING ON THE OTHER SIDE ....HAVING ABUNDANT FAITH PLEASES GOD...AND ALSO ASK GOD IF THERE'S ANYTHING IN YOU THAT NEEDS WORKED ON... IT'S NEVER JUST 1 SIDED LIKE I THOUGHT LOLOL...😜😉 GOD STARTED COMN AFTER ME AND I TOLD GOD GO AFTER "HIM", HE'S THE ONE THAT NEEDS HELP, IF YOU'LL JUST FIX HIM WE'LL BE OKAY, & GOD SAID, "WHEN I'M READY I WILL TAKE CARE OF HIM, BUT RIGHT NOW WE'RE GONNA TAKE A LOOK AT YOU!!!!!" 😳 😮 WHOA, WOW!!! AND HE SLOWLY STARTED SHOWING ME ALL THE PLACES I FELL SHORT AS A WIFE, AS A MOM, A FOSTER MOM, A STEPMOM, AS A PERSON IN GENERAL.. I'M STILL STRUGGLING WITH FORGIVING MYSELF, NO WONDER THE POOR MAN LEFT😞🤦‍♀️🙌🥺🙏❤️🙌🙏 BUT GOD...... LOL IM SORRY I THINK I SWAYED WAY OFF SUBJECT..IM SORRY LOL

[@heidiharris9227]

Notice the comment here from, "an uncommon love".... Prophetic to your marriage..... The love of Christ is completely, "uncommon." It's selfless, kind, patience, long-suffering, enduring, understanding, believing, hoping, & receiving.... In Grace, mercy, & compassion.... Love life your wife, family, marriage, finances, & freedom in Christ Jesus Holy name. 🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌 Amen. 💖💖

[@Mitch-fg4fy]

Proud of you the way you encourge you to pray for you and your husband

[@davidwhite8263]

Thanks so much for this video, I am trying to restore my marriage currently

[@estercosta6461]

Me and my husband has been separated for 2 years now, ive filed for the divorce because he got engaged with a strange woman, but i truly still love him and miss him dearly. I pray for my marriage restoration in Jesus mighty name amen

[@donnamckenna1509]

Why apply for divorce when you're believing for restoration?

[@nanalalala6398]

@estercosta6461 God is faithful put him first and he will give you the desire of your heart a restore marriage because he hate divorce . Trust he went reconciliation for your family be bless don’t give up 🙏🌸

[@denaehilliard2332]

My Husband left Oct 1, 2021. He filed for divorce and I am devastated. He made me believe his female friend was just a friend and now he is sleeping with her . I knew in my heart if anyone could make him leave me it would be her. He told me about all her boyfriends and relationships and now he is sleeping with. I’ve been praying away the jezabel.

[@sunflower5741]

Im praying with you for that spirit to leave your husband alone in the name of Jesus

[@kay-annclarke6312]

Amen . I feel so encouraged by your testimony. I am praying for God to restore my son's father to us and for us to get married. I do get the same response that he will is not meant for me, I should move on. He is also with someone else but I still believe God will do it for me. It's a while now but deep in my heart I know God will answer me..

[@brendacarter5711]

I have been standing for 8 years. God said it will be restored. He has had an event with the op.” Their 7 year is tomorrow. God has transformed me. Yet I’m not going to lie. Although restoration isn’t my every thought, with the event anniversary tomorrow and the length of time, I have struggled recently

[@brendacarter5711]

It literally happened 2 weeks before our youngest graduated high school.

[@VickyDiamonds]

My husband left me and came back... But now leaving again for the same strange woman says he lost feelings for me and loves her, he feels we are toxic and he's tired etc and is filing for divorce. Please help me pray for my marriage.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

GM Vicki, Just know that God will finish what he started. Do not let what you see distract you from Gods promises or covenant. This is what happens when prodigals get in too deep and have blinders, they say stuff they dont mean, forget there promises, focus only on themselves, bu God. I know this to be true as this is Shon. replying to you and I too went through some things and blamed everyone else for some of the bad stuff instead of first looking in the mirror at self. "what did I contribute to our problems?" is not a question we first ask ourselves. However, when we get out of self and question God about our own selves, we will get answers. He knows how to reach us where we are, his brokenness cannot be fixed by you, but God. Just make sure when God has that encounter with him, you are ready with open arms to receive. Stay encouraged

[@natureworld760]

Thank you for sharing your story. My story is a lot different. And while I stand. I don't know how God can move in this situation. My husband not only left me for someone else to marry but he is very obsessed with another country and culture & Hobbies. He actually has changed completely into someone I don't recognise and I don't think he truly loved or attracted to me. Finding out now that I wasn't the right culture or nationality that he preferred..

[@katrinagarnett3256]

Sounds like a midlife crisis

[@Tammy-vl3pv]

February 2022 our son came to his dad because DSS was going to take our grandkids that day unless someone signed paperwork saying they would be responsible for our grandkids and this girl because when this 27 year old girl our son loved and lived with for 7 years gave birth drugs were in this girl and newborn baby so my husband of 30 years said to me soon as DSS gave the OK they would return home with our son but that's not what happened my husband and this girl informed me she was not leaving but they wanted me gone, and my husband started physically and mentally abusing me so I had to leave. I was homeless in my car from July 2022 till July 2023 a year while this girl is in our home with my husband, but What hurts me the most is knowing my grandkids are being exposed to their papa committing adultery with their mom. IM LIVING IN A CAMPER NOW ITS BETTER THAN LIVING IN MY CAR. KEEP ME IN YALLS PRAYERS

[@cosmosadorabilis7677]

@@Tammy-vl3pv why didn't you call for help when he was abusing you? Why didn't your son defend you?

[@andrella7748]

I don’t know why this makes me so mad , sad and happy y’all came back together. I hope no 3rd part was hurt in this process even besides the kids . To much pain . I also can’t stand it for the kids either. I really believe God doesn’t like divorce at all. Glad y’all are back

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for the gracious comment...as anyone who's ever gone through anything will always have both types of thoughts....be blessed and once again thank you..🙏

[@tammychisholm9197]

I can stand for my marriage but suppose he doesn’t want to be married. I believe God brought us together. We got divorced in April, 2022.

[@mommyme6073]

THANK YOU GUYS FOR BEING SO OPEN ❤️ TO THE TRUTH, I WILL STAND !

[@mindyloper4454]

I've been standing 3yrs...& over 2 of the 3yrs I've asked God to show me 1Cor.13:4-8...if His plan is restoration for my marriage....&I can't count how many times, sometimes several times a wk...so of course when you mentioned the scripture... I'll just smile &say Thank You Lord 😘🙌❤️

[@mindyloper4454]

@Noelle Aviles SHHHHHHH!!! I DON'T NEED ANYONE BUT MY GOD, MY CREATOR, THANK YOU THO!!

[@mindyloper4454]

@@missklassy4447 MA'AM I HAVE NOOOO IDEA WHO MACEO IS..🥺😔😢 THIS IS THE ONLY COMMENT I'VE EVER MADE ON THIS VIDEO ... WRONG PERSON!!!!!😔 Oh wait I did reply to the Noelle person because they were trying to get me to go to some like devil worship site or something :/

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Hey Mindy.. I got this.... I am monitoring before I remove folks access from this channel and this is getting ridiculous... No worries., hold your head up.. 💯

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Classy? Not classy at all... Been removed.. 🙏

[@mindyloper4454]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Thanks🙌😉🥺

[@angelabender1820]

So glad I found your channel. I have had the same that the pastor who married us say you must just divorce him. I left the fellowship. JESUS kept on asking me if I would tell Him to divorce His bride. I will stand for my marriage in JESUS name. It is difficult at times. I'm still married almost 2 years after my husband walked out... there is ow. I pray her marriage be restored with her covenant husband. And my husband be returned home to our destiny, purpose, marriage, me and our children

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yes, look at God... 🙏 Won't He Will.. Yes lord!!

[@mweshjayro]

Prayer for my marriage restoration and my husband to come back home,forgive me and love me again Please God hear my prayers Help me pray

[@anuncommonlove1112]

We will be standing for you and praying ... "Father God in the name of Jesus, we beasech you on behalf of this request and ask that you open up the windows of heaven, pour out a miraculous blessing she will not have room enough to recieve, do exceeding abundantly above what she can think and bring a change of heart to her husband right now. God we trust you, we honor you, we believe you and turn it over into your hands....in Jesus name, amen"

[@mweshjayro]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Amen Amen

[@Sunflower-kz3no]

Thank you both for sharing. I heard of you all on RMM. Gives me hope. Blessings for you both and family.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Much appreciate the feedback, keep a look out for more content coming. Be blessed

[@Intercessor2534]

Wow so much truth and insight! So grateful for your ministry and willingness to share your story!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you Joy, this is just the first of many to come.. Stay tuned

[@kellibrown-ui7qp]

Pray for my marriage I’m standing as well

[@Expsychicsaved]

Hi it’s 4/24 7:37 am I’m a faithful believer. My husband has bipolar and started a manic episode after taking himself off of one of his meds. We were in pastoral counseling and a wonderful church. His behavior became so bad and when he was held accountable he decided to file for divorce and go after a woman who lives in another state. I’ve just started praying for God to bring him to a sound mind and restore this. I watch these testimonies and feel hopeful but then realize my husband is so sick mentally. Do you think that changes anything? I know God is bigger than anything.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

God can, he will, but we have to trust him. "This kind comes but by fasting and prayer" 🙏

[@patriciarowland8230]

Ive missed you need you back now nov.20 23

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Awe thank you so much, we are doing well and organizing our lives. Keep us in your prayers as we come back stronger than ever.

[@precious5581]

Thanks for sharing your testimony. We are still together but insults and curses are too much. We need to forgive each other and truly love one another. Please remember us in your prayers. God is faithful. Amen

[@astandersjourneytomarriage4907]

Hi there been in your shoes! Keep. praying and ask for your husband to have a change of heart

[@LizToro0512]

"You are still young, you are pretty, you are gonna find a good man...blah blah blah". That really bothers me when I hear it.

[@hopefulgal]

Same…or “ there is someone out there for you. You deserve better.”

[@shannongilham4945]

Oh My... That seems to be the answer that everyone else has because they have not walked in your shoes before. Those phrases really irritate me as well. I genuinely LOVE my Husband. Though he has moved on and in with the OW. He is still seeking divorce after 3 yrs and 7 months of living with OW. I refuse to sign papers , because I know that it is not the Lord's Will for us

[@lydiawangui9503]

@@shannongilham4945 Amen may God restore back your marriage in Jesus name 🙏

[@shannongilham4945]

@@lydiawangui9503 Thank you so much. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@mylifeasamber3655]

Please pray for my husband he said he’s done and I’m so hurt . I want god to intervene. 😢😢

[@keepitsimple5744]

Is there a part 2? I wanted you hear his side about how God sent him back home.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

On my own personal channel Imdealingwith, I go through a 4 part series called restoration of a man.. I believe this is what you are looking for... 🙏

[@Mitch-fg4fy]

Please can you pray for me and my wife, i do alot of things against her and she to me

[@tab2tab]

Guys your story is my story. He’s been gone 2 years but God is faithful ! Treated me like a queen 23 then one day he left

[@tc8970]

@Tab this is my story 23 years together would be 17 yrs married on the 27th 3 daughters. Went out to eat Dec 31 and Jan 1 2020 came home he and all his possessions were gone. He just served me with divorce papers. I am still standing waiting on God to move.

[@tab2tab]

@@tc8970 thank you for sharing you testimony. God is faithful to both of us.

[@Mitch-fg4fy]

Better to seek God then to seek for help in of people in such situations

[@michellepenniston1482]

Been standing for 4 years. Today is our 33rd wedding anniversary.

[@astandersjourneytomarriage4907]

Keep praying sis!

[@Lovedrug96]

Did u date anyone ? After

[@fishchicken4188]

Just want to encourage wives that are praying for restoration in their marraiges I recommend a ministry called Restore Marraige international, it will be a blessing to you God bless you.

[@scorchedearth824]

What about husband's divorce and separation for the most part comes from the women?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

The focus is not on who does or does not separate more. This is about keeping marriages together and bringing them back to God. If the focus is on the ratio and statistics of it all this is the wrong channel. God's way or no way.. That's it🙏

[@scorchedearth824]

@anuncommonlove1112 I with you 💯 just a question cause that's the narrative that is pushed and unfortunately when it comes to our community, it seems we only know when to seperate and divorce, but not stay and fight for the marriage

[@Mitch-fg4fy]

I love my Wife, i pray always for her, we are on restoration vacation now in Europe.

[@gorgeouswales9635]

Thank you both so much! God continual blessings upon you🙏🏽

[@katherinebrown3371]

Please I need prayers no contact from my husband

[@katherinebrown3371]

@jonah ogwudu hey spammer I'm not stupid

[@franciscoyemmagarcia3853]

I have been standing for my marriage and Husband, He is in prison.

[@priscillamumba9554]

I wish my husband would met God

[@alessandrazanette09]

Praise the Lord I d like to know how Shon you were feeling when you got in the un covenant marriage and how you got out of it, my husband just did marry the ow, well the Lord just showed the ring he has, he doesn't tell me, for me the big problem are the kids I could protect them for 3 years now with the divorce he is allowed to take them to his house and they have 2 babies, and my kids (7 and 10) with the ow and the babies really bothers me and God told me I think... That He will use the kids, Shon I listened to the podcast rmm and you said the Lord used your kids, please tell me how? I am so disappointed God is allowing my kids to be there, I am asking for a sign and I found your beautiful testimony.. Be blessed

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for reaching out, I didn't 4 part series on my personal page Imdealingwith and the series is called Restoration of a Man...I believe you'll get some valuable insight through that..

[@cic-jakevanddalgeemyers.2739]

Church folks are the most dangerous to take your problems to.. don't you even try letting any of them know what you're going through in your marriage or family. your problems and situations will worsen, they'll start giving you bad advice and consoling. it will be like you're washing your dirty clothes outside, for the whole world to see. Instead, keep your shit, and take all your problems on your knees to GOD THE FATHER, THROUGH JESUS. I guarantee! you'll win, win, and win again.... Lesson number 1.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

6hebproblem is the church folk part....not everybody that goes to church and calls his name knows who God is. The big difference is people who know of him but has never had and encounter or relationship with him. Anyone who has had an encounter with him never leaves his presence the same. When we have a relationship and encounter we treat people as God has loved us considering ourselves. This is why some of us do what we do now helping those who have been left behind due to so called church folk.... Be blessed

[@Dr.Thandi]

Where is the rest of the story???

[@Morethanrubiesprov31]

God bless your marriage ❤️

[@bambam78215]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for your testimony, never stop testifying. 2016 seems to be the pivotal year for the revelation of the truth of what true covenant marriage is.

[@virtuousnaj3573]

Wow this sounds like what me and my husband are going through almost 3 months now . He just hasn’t moved out and pray he doesn’t. Any advice you have would be greatly appreciated!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

I would say get away from the home together and just go somewhere whether to park, beach, dinner, something that will allow a fresh scenery I order to have a real and honest conversation with no judgment and ask him how is he feeling. The hardest thing to do is listen completely without responding right away. After he speaks, turn around and tell him first what you heard with out adding anything or taking anything out. Doing this will let him know you heard his words and that you care. Later you respond to each thing accordingly in a calm soothing manner(a kind answer turns away wrath) and allow God to work through you both. Most importantly, Pray before any of this happens... 😁🙏

[@virtuousnaj3573]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Amen! Thank you! Our Anniversary 8 year anniversary is September 7th at first he said the kids are coming to dinner with us but when I said that wasn’t the plan hours later he said we can drop them with the baby sitter and go just to two of us since it’s our anniversary but that’s it! Pick up the kids and go home. The two months since this change happened he refused to go anywhere with me. We have spoke about some of the issues he had with me and I apologized started going to counseling and spending time with God more getting healed from past hurt trauma and baggage brought in the marriage . He said some days he’s fine but then just replays stuff over and over in his head. And he’s checked out and can’t help how he feels just feels so angry even when I hug him and tell I love him.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

In this case sis consistency is key... We always ask ourselves "well how long is this new attitude gonna last" as to not give in so quick. Be consistent everyday, every minute because they are gonna look for the hole in your love. Refuse to let a hole come, trust God, pray while he's gone and pray when he pulls in the driveway, "lord bring the peace" and allow him to work.. 🙏

[@virtuousnaj3573]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Thank you so much! I needed to see this. Some days it gets hard and how he’s acting I’m like I’m not going to hug him or show love I’m planting seeds for no reason he’s not going to change. You just confirmed not to do that keep being a light showing love and being Christ like ♥️

[@daniellepearls6714]

3 years with a narcisstic husband and his narcisstic parents nearly killed me. 4 broken ribs, he tried to strangle me, lied in court then ignored me for 15mths, now his sent divorce papers. I signed them!!!! Some marriages even God cannot save

[@anuncommonlove1112]

With God all things are possible. He is either Lord of all or not Lord at all.. 🙏

[@ibiminaabiye257]

I believe God can save every situation, but some are not worth saving. I'm seperated for 2 plus years myself from a narcissist. God will see me through.

[@kg811]

Almost 18 years standing. No sign it will change.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Trust him all the way..in spite of what it looks like, God can and will..

[@tnj4ever]

Be encouraged. My friend just told me about her aunt. Husband walked out on her and the kids for another woman. She was a strong believer and 20 years later he came home! All glory to God!

[@TheAverageServant]

U just shut it down .. there’s power in the tongue. Save room for belief geesh y’all kill me with that

[@yvettecain7447]

Why most of the time the black woman has to stand for the marriage? Why it's mostly the black man leave the marriage by committing adultery or walking away from the marriage? Why is he the weaker vessel when the Bible states the woman is the weaker vessel? Would he had stood for the marriage if his wife had committed adultery and left?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you so much for reaching out.. It's an amazing set of questions that I can't do them justice by trying to completely undress the mind, will and purpose of God through a man. However, I do believe that all of us are made for unique reasons for his glory. We have several men who have chimed in who didn't leave but the women have, yes there are more women standing than men thus far only from what I currently see and hear. However, in this place God has us, we are learning that there are far more facets and dynamics of complete surrender to God and each other that we are now being exposed to. To generally speak on behalf of all would be belittling to the few and vice versa. One thing we do know is when God is first in every area of our lives, we will always treat our significant others in a manner that pleases HIM.

[@yvettecain7447]

@@anuncommonlove1112 I appreciate your comment however you did not answer my questions. Thanks anyway.

[@barefeetconcrete]

Hey sis. Praying for you. It is not a matter of the black woman standing for their marriage there are many woman and men who are standing for their marriage. People leave marriages period. The enemy is real and whatever he can do to influence or temp you he will and if you are weak he can get to you. The battle starts in the mind and if the enemy can get you there that is usually all he needs....however sometimes we get in our own heads and begin to go our own way. This is why the word tells us to ,"Trust in the Lord....lean not on your own understanding...." Proverbs 3:5-6. I understand exactly what you mean when you say the weaker vessel. As a black woman of God I have asked God, "why do I have to be the strong one and stand" . God answered me and said, "Many are called few are chosen ..."Matt. 22:14. Why did God choose Joseph, why did God choose Jonah, Why did God choose Elijah, why did God choose Noah......Why did God choose Jesus! None of these individuals had to be obedient..they chose to and some with a lot of push back but because they loved God and chose to follow His Word....many were saved. The fight is much greater than what we see. The facts do not outweigh the greater purpose. When you marry, both man and wife have responsibilities. God will deal with the person not being obedient. As you stand you have to focus on you and know that God got you. Every man that I know of whose wife has stood for their marriage have been so grateful that she did not give up on God or him. "Do not grow weary in well doing for you shall reap if you faint not'"Gal. 6:9...There are so many scriptures that encourage obedience and standing for righteousness...ultimately we are all called to stand for righteousness.....curses are broken, souls are saved, generations are saved when a person stands.....Standing for your marriage is standing for righteousness...God hates divorce. It doesn't matter what the other person chooses to do God is a good God and he honors those who obey him. Love you in Christ. Be encouraged.

[@yvettecain7447]

@@barefeetconcrete Thanks for sharing your opinion however you miss to say the divorce rate is high among black couples than any other races. This says alot and the black race must find out why it affects us more than any other races. So your concept that this happens in other races has no bearing here. My questions are for the ones that made the video. Please allow them to answer. I really appreciate it. Thanks.

[@barefeetconcrete]

@@yvettecain7447 I said a lot and it's backed up with Word so it's not just an opinion. Wanting answers and just being bitter is two different things. Your tone even in your responses are nice nasty. FYI when you ask a question on a public platform anyone can answer. You can be right in your own mind and be completely off with God. Maybe you should seek answers from God or actually pay attention when people are trying to point you to God. Have a blessed night.

[@andreart7]

4 years here and tonight feeling deeply hurt

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Stay encouraged sis, God has the last say and will get the glory through your stand. Thank you so much for watching and our hope is that as you see our transparency in the story, you will find encouragement. God has so much in store for you, trust him and e will bring it to pass. "Having done all to stand, stand...."

[@barefeetconcrete]

Be encouraged....it is well with your soul. God bless you.

[@marilynmartinez5954]

i married while astray, he never told me he had a partner. she was aware of me too. they used me for him to come to USA. I have been beleiving for 7 years we live together on and off. so does this count as a covenant or should i quit standing?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank u for reaching out as i know this can be a little duanting. To answer your question though, if he was previously married then you already know the answer. It doesnt matter about the circumstances or how it was done. As long as he has a spouse still living he is to not be dealt with period. Hope this helps..

[@marilynmartinez5954]

@ not married they just lived tigether

[@keturahkaufman9923]

April 7th 2012! 10 years

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Stay encouraged, God will honor your faith as you stand. We will be here for you and pray with you as well. You are not alone in this..Be blessed

[@welchBful]

Beautiful testimony !🙌🙌praise the LORD!!! What’s the song playing in background in the beginning ??

[@anuncommonlove1112]

I believe I put it in the description below... By Stevie Alexander

[@presterjohn1697]

Being with my beloved wife makes me hear prison work songs in my head.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

@@presterjohn1697 Not sure if that is a good or bad thing....But when God is in it and he is first place, we both men and women will always do what is right to please God by doing right to our spouses. When we don't do it Gods way, we might as well be in prison..🤔

[@presterjohn1697]

@@anuncommonlove1112 So here's my thing. I'm a corrupt child of God who peers over the fence at a vast collection of delicious lady bits. I feel if I carry on with all this sight seeing God will instigate a massive flood in my sprawling suburban home causing extensive water damage. I don't have flood insurance at the moment but I wanna listen to some sweet R&B in the next field over. Til then I'm haunted by Angola Prison Songs (see KZbin for reference).

[@anuncommonlove1112]

@@presterjohn1697 I hear you loud and clear...Change takes time, it does not happen overnight and what is required is small steps in the right direction to you get to the promise. Your walk is "Lord i believe, but help my unbelief" in this area...you have to name the areas to where there is doubt. Next allow God to work those areas out, trust him and keep your hands off of it and before long you will see the change in your self.

[@keithhughes435]

I am standing for my marriage. 8 separations in the past 2 1/2 years and a pending divorce. Pray for us!!!

[@urbanhymns8880]

I just prayed for you Keith. My wife just filed this week. Pray for Howard and Julie.

[@blue3clic]

The title says the other woman, but they dont speak about that?

[@beverlygordon3556]

Can you please tell me where the rest of this video is? Ow, other marriage?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for writing in, on Shons channel he speaks about leaving and what that all looks like from his perspective. The channel is called Imdealingwith and the series is "Restoration of a man" 3 parts. Hope this gives insight

[@beverlygordon3556]

@@anuncommonlove1112 thank you!

[@mrskim2u503]

Do anyone have any other testimonials about how God restored their marriage because these can be very discouraging if only 1 out 44 marriages can be saved

[@anuncommonlove1112]

I here you loud and clear.. Many can be saved, but choose to give up do to what they see. The other thing is trusting God through the whole process and knowing that anything is possible with him if we walk in what we say we believe. The other thing is transparency which many don't want others to know that they've gone through something as to not be judged or looked down upon, so they don't share. We were told, "if you are willing to tell your truth many will be healed because of it", so this is why we are here. Be blessed, stay encouraged🙏

[@mrskim2u503]

@Noelle Aviles if God can't restore a marriage what man can

[@CerroneL.Vaughn]

@Noelle Aviles That IG name is clearly not of GOD.

[@TheAverageServant]

I believe that long standers don’t truly believe and some are only out for their satisfaction and to heal their own pain or to win over the OW. I have a testimony my husband cheated, I left while pregnant it was very ugly he didn’t even show up to my sons birth and I had to take a DNA test cuz he accused me of cheating. He married the OW .. I was completely ready to let go and the Lord showed me the whole wedding was fake. I didn’t give them any attention cuz I knew this wouldn’t last I just knew my husband loved me and was mad I left. Fast forward we have a birthday party together and he wants to rekindle I say no cuz I felt like the power he had over my emotions was gone and I wanted it to stay that way. I denied him abt 2 more times.. and even once last year. I was the prodigal and I didn’t even know it I thought these other men was better but one night after realizing I was letting another man go cuz I didn’t love him I came to Christ and was shown my husband. I cried cuz my husband has still not changed plus he has been in a relationship since I sent him over to her house trying to “be free” I regret those moments so bad now my stomach hurts .. cuz the devil is moving fast he has been forced to engage again all because the Lord told me to leave my son with him and her I felt betrayed but I trust God .. this pain has purpose I see the future already. We are returning to each other. You must have faith. I thought we were done that first time, a wedding? A dna test? But God brought us past that and now I know we will get pass this one.

[@urbanhymns8880]

Did I miss the part where you talked about another woman and marriage? Did it go that far?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yes it did... But God.. 🙏

[@KishaLray]

where is the rest of this testimony?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Go to the next video, it picks up from this one.. 😂🙏

[@docwhoshops]

Thanks for sharing your testimony

[@zakiahart3919]

What exactly did he leave for?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for writing in ..go to Imdealingwith channel and you'll get an inside perspective from Shons point of view. Restoration of a man 1-3

[@patriciarowland8230]

What did you pray for other woman I care.

[@yevonnefletcher4310]

What is OW?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Stands for Other Woman (OW)

[@wandamannings3841]

Other woman

[@sonjawatt2273]

Other woman

[@scorchedearth824]

What about when people say you can't make someone stay?

[@sunflower5741]

You can't but God can, only if its his will

[@scorchedearth824]

@@sunflower5741 That's the issue GOD can but won't force his will upon no man, but it just seems to me as a husband we look for the easy way out

[@scorchedearth824]

You don't hear the wisdom of your parents or grandparents anymore when it comes to advice in marriage

[@patriciarowland8230]

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[@HammerofGod777]

Seems like the wife didn’t appreciate nor acknowledge her husband for everything he does for her and the family. This is more common than people know and women are constantly neglecting their husband’s and giving all their attention to their children and forgetting about her husband.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Than you so much for tuning in and the feedback.. In any relationship we are always going to go through whether the woman or the man is unhappy for whatever reason. There were many things that I held on to from my past and showed up in my future cause I didn't deal with them. We men have a tendency to sweep things under the rug and pretend we good only to find they've made a home in our present. So it didn't take much for me to become discouraged, irritated, bitter and so on (see imdealingwith "Restoration of a man") to begin to point fingers as to why I feel the way I do. Truth is, the process humbled me in order to really enjoy what God blessed me with..

[@katrinagarnett3256]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Perfect response!

[@johnchristopher464]

Am I the only guy on this comment section?

[@anuncommonlove1112]

No sir, there has been plenty of men reaching out here as well as privately my friend, you are definitely not alone. There are some that reach out in other video threads as well.

[@michellerostant8727]

Hello my dearest, Glory to God for his faithfulness.... Praise God for your restoration for you guys.... I wanted to msg you as soon as the video started... Thanks for sharing tho.... I will love to speak to you if you can contact me on FB plz.... God Bless you nd yours nd your ministry..... I hope you see this msg.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for watching and we will be in contact soon. Be blessed, stay encouraged and keep believing.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Hi Michelle, It would be a pleasure to connect with you. Currently I don’t have Facebook but you can email at [e-mail]. Or via Instagram @anuncommonlove2021. Many blessings to you for your support. Adrienne

[@michellerostant8727]

@@anuncommonlove1112 Thanks for your response, however I'm o ly now seeing this... I'm not to good with this technology 😂 but I'll try nd msg you as soon as possible... I'll love to speak to you nd tell you my story. God Bless you, your family nd ministry. 😍 😍 😍