He Took His Date To The CheeseCake Factory & She LOST IT... So He Kicked Her To The Curb

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[@selainemartina6580]

There is this other one too the "Oyster girl" look it up please😅

[@Reofenja]

My woman saw this video, and immediately asked if we could go to Cheesecake Factory for our anniversary while laughing hysterically. We went, she hated it, and now I've made reservations for the place we originally were supposed to go.

[@lizafrench8455]

"Broadcasting" is a thing fr

[@andressierra4608]

Abba and Preach are now Red Pill.

[@Arise4Fries90]

That guy has an all glass roof. That’s a Tesla man’s is not broke.

[@reshie]

Imagine saying you're too good for the Cheesecake Factory while wearing a 22$ dress from Shein

[@169abr]

Ruth’s Chris and FashioNova, modern women’s ideal date.

[@SpoonHurler]

😂😂😂😂 bet the tag is still on it

[@Prophezora]

Lol

[@inherblues7261]

it's probably $9

[@PeacefulwithOyaEnergy]

And caked up strip eyelashes!!

[@jth_printed_designs]

He's WAY out of her league and she thinks she's better than him. INSANITY

[@JPKelly-xr7tr]

What 'league' is that...LOL!

[@garnetdavey8776]

Facts

[@saltysocks1074]

Lol I be down for a little woman but y'all be going to far

[@thatyellowfellow]

@@JPKelly-xr7tr The league of a man with far superior patience and etiquette. I don't think spoilt people understand the kind of personality you have to have to keep your cool around insanity and stare it down as you do it. The patience of a decent man does God's work in most healthy relationships.

[@Superbatmanbro]

Her entitled ass very childish and that dude dodge a bullet and I’m happy for him and I hope this dude finds someone that will appreciate him for putting in the effort.

[@Mrstarrant619]

I’d be so grateful if a first date took me to Cheesecake Factory. It’s pretty expensive, the majority of us are struggling in this economy. This kinda behavior turns the good guys into assholes.

[@467076]

I got you blondie, I’ll swing by at 7pm :) real talk though, blondes, you’re my biggest weakness 😔

[@BryanThompsonTv]

My girl came from a poor village in China and lived in a foster home there for years. She moved to the country recently and we started dating and I took her to the Cheesecake Factory. She had no idea what it was and only knew of 2-3 American food chains. Long story short, she thought it was the fanciest thing she had ever seen and told me how lucky she was to have a guy take her out to such a fancy place like this and we fell in love. Fast forward 1 year later and we are engaged and get married in 9 months and I've never felt so lucky in my life to find a woman like her that appreciates the small gestures

[@greuju]

Yeah the food there isn't the absolute best, but one of the reasons I always go to cheesecake factory is no matter how picky you are of an eater there's always something for everybody on their menu it's huge. RIP firecracker salmon. 😢

[@SilvaPeric]

Good on you mate. I didn't have such hardships as your finacee in life, but if any man (which would now only be my husband) took me somewhere...it's not about where you are, it's who you're with. Congrats to you and your future wife.

[@Boyo-xe5fp]

Hahahahahaha no wonder white dudes love the fresh off the boats. She probably thinks you have a hog too.

[@fragrantbloom]

I just want my partner to treat me like I'm important to him. The food and it's price doesn't matter.

[@467076]

They only got bats in china 😔

[@chemykal]

She tried to embarrass him but only managed to reveal how awful she is. He was so patient with her and I'm glad he stood up for himself. There's a much nicer girl out there for him.

[@RMBlake007]

Nicer AND better looking!

[@berniem9254]

That's what it was, karma's a Bi***

[@oneDonly]

There’s actually not though. Guys really have no options

[@moniejackson2496]

@@oneDonlymaybe just you. There’s plenty of good women, but men like you choose to see past that because you want reasons to excuse why you’re single

[@moonknight4053]

The bro had bn consuming blackpill and redpill content, hence why he’s like that. And if he hasn’t then fuxk he’s bn dealt a shitty hand. I think the only way to approach a girl is to do cold approach but make sure you’re not surrounded by people, incase she or u makes a big scene.

[@ninchalla_creates]

Instead of getting upset, he literally turned it into a teaching moment. What a legend

[@Jambuc829]

I don’t teach the unreachable

[@BreMue]

Idk if she would learn but since shes filming, might as well correct the record. This was the best thing he could have done aside from cancelling when stood up for an hour

[@cory8080]

I need to learn from him cause how he reacts to this probably means that's how he is in other areas of his life. I would have came off as so damn annoyed and mad. haha

[@himynameis294]

…And SHE’S BEARLY A 4. This is what he gets for doing a charity run. 😢

[@mateo3506]

4? You are being generous @@himynameis294

[@derekcarter2645]

She'll go home telling herself that he lost a dime piece meanwhile he'll go home knowing he dodged a bullet. He's way out of her league.

[@T.C.-EDU]

“I’m Fresh, I’m Fit, I’m moisturized… and MONETIZED!” The shade never ends! 😂

[@cyberturkey77]

She meant to say Dusty and Fat

[@arceus521]

The most disgusting part is that she’s so obsessed with herself she spends the entire time looking at her phone to see herself rather than looking at the person she was having the conversation with.

[@amadamarquez82]

😭👏

[@blakegreene6913]

The narcissism. She thought she was the main character. Ironically she is the main character now, but not in the way she was hoping. 🤣🤣lookin like a whole ass.

[@BGDGr81]

I couldn't believe the amount of BS she was saying. She is such a narcissist. I understand having self confidence, however having it, is being QUIET about it. Not proclaiming to the whole world '' I am so pretty ''. And let be frank, she isn't THAT pretty,

[@solodeus_rey8548]

she mid AF too😂😂

[@24KLuxury]

Vanity on full display. This is the modern NPC.

[@EmpressFerra]

Nothing wrong with the Cheesecake Factory! They have good food and are moderately priced. Her behavior was disgraceful and ungrateful period.

[@andrewrogers3067]

Haven’t tried it, probably be interested in a date there tbh

[@crazydolphin33]

Nothing wrong with Starbucks lol

[@BattleBladeWarrior]

Thats just it, the cheescake factory, in my opinion is a fancy restaurant. YOu're paying around $20 for a slice of cake, that you could get at a grocery store for 10. Not like he took her to mcDonalds or something.

[@jerrella6019]

​@@andrewrogers3067you won't be disappointed. It's mid scale not to expensive and the serving sizes are big. And they have cheesecake. Bread is mid but the food is good

[@WJWeber]

I’d get not wanting to go to cheesecake. It can be a bit petty too. What I couldn’t handle is someone thinking their above going there.

[@heydibear1079]

As a 40 something year old, during the times I dated pre marriage. I swear, my ideal date was grabbing two cups of coffee & walking at park/beach/pier & talk about life. Seriously. Those simple 1:1 dates were the best. I’m happily married now & so grateful. Yo this new mentality is on another level. 😂

[@ParadigmGamer88]

Now days if you suggest a coffee as a man you're called broke and thrown aside.

[@467076]

Yall don’t understand how difficult it is nowadays. You gotta make at least 500k a year, gotta have a boat, gotta be like 8 feet 4 inches, tall gotta drive a Porsche and own 2 properties, preferably one by the beach. You gotta be a surgeon or a lawyer or some kind of athlete and then, maybe you have a shot at a 4/10 😂

[@Vaan1984]

@@ParadigmGamer88 I see no problem offering coffee dates nowadays. its fast and effective to sort out the bad apples - and there are MANY, so a fast solution to see what she really wants would be preferable.

[@ClockworkWyrm]

She's doing him a HUGE favour by putting all her red flags on the field up front and self selecting OUT of the dating market.

[@crystals2186]

The fact that they were suppose to go to a nicer restaurant and missed their reservation because she was an HOUR late. Ridiculous.

[@sockhead-fd8zu]

The Truest Divine comedy

[@halzenuteyes8472]

She took an hour to ended up looking cheap! She needs a reality check, she isn't all like that...

[@CoOlKyUbI96]

And notice how the guy voiced all of his opinions. Yet didn’t once mentioned anything about her calling him up. So I’m getting the impression she didn’t even bother to let him know she was going to be late

[@gerryo25]

I wouldn't have bothered if she was an 1 hour late that shows she has not respect for his time.

[@myklo4269]

She should appreciate the fact he waited for her. The Cheesecake Factory is nice for the nonsense she put him through.

[@ANYHOO0]

She was shocked that he actually stood up for himself and respectfully took her and her nasty entitled attitude right back home.

[@msto8225]

She wanted someone to pay for her dinner... it wasn't about the date.

[@Kayiostan513]

She would’ve gotten taken out of my car and if she didn’t want to leave guess what? The cops would’ve took her out

[@lars7747]

shes just a prostitute with bad marketting, and bad merchandise, he dodged a bullet

[@akeel_1701]

so it was a Foodie Call LOL@@msto8225

[@jameswayton2340]

@@msto8225 I don't think it was about someone paying her dinner. It was about her being a narcissists that can not handle ''no'' or criticism in any form.

[@gfighter897]

She expected him to just deal with it. The repercussions of her actions was just hilarious.

[@MeowChiquitita]

Other women will be lining up for a date with this gentleman! He handled this lunacy very well. I’d honestly be beyond confused idk if I’d even understand what was happening if I were him in the moment lol. And this makes me want some Cheesecake Factory, haven’t been there in a minute!!!!

[@weiner01103]

and hes attractive too

[@cookerkids]

What’s crazy is he was the perfect gentleman. Picked her up (in what looks to be a nice car), waited patiently, booked a reservation, pivoted when she made them late, was kind, and asked to get the door for her.

[@viviennedunbar3374]

He is wayyyyyyy to good for her. So glad he kicked her to the kerb.

[@the_eternal_darkness_8436]

And throughout the entire convo he was willing to talk, and more than likely willing to move to another restaurant. That was before she started with her shit

[@OwenFriday13]

And drove her back home. Wow.

[@mitchjames9350]

He didn’t ask to get the door he thought she wanted that since she didn’t get out of his car.

[@jameswhitaker4357]

Apparently he took her there as they missed their original reservations at a nicer place, still though her reaction is petty

[@majjkk999gaming6]

Note, he made a date prior, that had reservations, he made said reservations, and told her what time they had to be there. She took too long getting ready, missed the reservation, and our guy decided it’d be better to go to Cheesecake Factory. So she’s upset cause she didn’t get a more fancier experience, when our guy MADE the reservation to have that experience. The self entitlement is real. Props to our guy to go for better

[@aqua-mina]

Isn’t that insane?!

[@joegurt2957]

@@aqua-minait’s bogus asf!

[@amoraacho6181]

I hope he can find a good women

[@robb037]

she sabotaged the date before it even started, then tried to make him look like the bad guy. the entitlement and delusion is paplable. it's women like this that killed chivalry.

[@mohamedmadnia1907]

"Beautiful Woman" ????????? You are nice at the best of days & this is not your best days.not being mean. Your arrogance is 20 out of 10 unlike you rating which is 4 out of 10. This 4 out of 10 is for your soul not your looks. It's amazing how kings/Queens of this world only finds clowns.

[@nikkilong7377]

Omg this lady😂 I knew someone like her. This guy is so friken calm and I admire how he turned that around. Another podcast pulled them on to Interview them. Her whole story changed and she was asking for another chance. Because she "understood" how she needs to be more lady like and grateful. She won't change.

[@mottwoman6775]

He is such a gentleman. He deserves a lot more. What a good man.

[@richboii6597]

This dude is actually a badass. Planned on going to a nice restaurant but then changed it to cheesecake AFTER she made him wait outside her house for an HOUR. Yooo mad respect to this dude 🫡

[@rotcev1327]

That’s not really how it went down. The place had a reservation time and they couldn’t make that time cuz of how long she took to get ready. Probably still would’ve taken her there if the reservation time was a lil later still

[@lil-oah6592]

Waiting a hour is crazy. no respect

[@singmysin]

​@rotcev1327 you just explained what the O.G reply did

[@richboii6597]

@@rotcev1327 idk man. A person like you described would have called for another reservation or at the very least responded with “I had a reservation at a nice place but we missed it” right away once she started saying shit about Cheesecake Factory if not before that. He didn’t tho, he waited awhile to throw that at her and you can tell by the convo and his demeanor that he was probably making that choice regardless if they made it in time.

[@gss6531]

@@richboii6597 You'd call for another reservation when some rando-ho makes you wait an hour? He was respectful as heck, I'd have driven off after she got close to the car.

[@janemurugan5619]

I like his style! He was cool, calm and collected. He made his point, didn't lose his temper, she could not look more foolish. He remains a REAL gentleman!

[@decepticonavidgamer882]

You spelt simp wrong

[@glcsander]

He was on camera, what else could he do to not escalate situation, the date was off at least he got his off, I would drag her off my car and left cause I'm not half as patient.

[@amoraacho6181]

@@decepticonavidgamer882are you sure you know what simp means?

[@bman6198]

@@decepticonavidgamer882 A simp would've taken her disrespect and would've bent to her will when she was in the wrong. This guy is a rational, level-headed person

[@Mark_Greg_Spudnik]

​@@bman6198yeah he's a good guy. Good guys still don't put up with bullshit he was kind enough to take her home and everything I would've made her find her own way back for wasting all my time.

[@samljer]

For me, date was over when she pulled out the phone and started the camera. Too good for cheesecake, meanwhile looks like a street walker.

[@ElitheBeeGuy]

Damn he waited for an hour!!!! That definitely goes crazy 😂 dude is hella patient

[@lcavit]

To all the workers at Cheesecake Factory, pay no attention to this woman keep up the good work and I’m on my way right now to provide moral and financial support

[@paulconrad6220]

And have a slice of that Banana Cream ready, please!

[@TheVanOvanShow]

I'm waiting for the cheesecake factory commercial that spawns from this

[@JuanitaMichelle]

Right????? Like CF has Levelz! They don’t deserve this slander.

[@realting4540]

I don't think employees at cheesecake factory cares about her naw paying ass

[@cpnd]

Their fried avocado plus sauce is so Good! Now I wanna go too.

[@N0bodyn01]

Watching someone who thinks they are exposing someone, expose themselves is so satisfying. I’m glad she brought us all on this humbling adventure with her.

[@blakegreene6913]

Yessss! It’s so sweet seeing how everybody is roasting her now after she thought she was such hot shit🤡 the sad part is all the backlash still won’t be enough to humble her.

[@Ogrillian]

​@blakegreene6913 the worst will be those that will emulate her

[@mr.fettesq.7705]

This is what females love to do these days. An attempt to humble men...but humbling herself

[@Acueil]

I'm going to bet there are thousands of people who praised her, and call the guy an incel before she got viral.

[@AnonymousanonymousA]

He handled it well but I don't know if I would be so patient

[@handzproductionz6361]

He said Shorty is "MID" and he was KIND !!!!! 😊😊😊😊

[@YolandaArrey]

This was a skit. This was not real. Both of them are actors.

[@muniapriya1331]

Sources?

[@mippyflippy6706]

She did NOT get the response she was expecting. 😂 I don't understand how some women have become so entitled. The look on her face and how she changed her tone when he said he was taking her home was priceless! She's gonna end up sad and alone.

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Take her home nah she grown, she can call a taxi

[@Oleangel]

@@Diamondr11Bluenah facts

[@tobib7143]

She looks like she’s in her 40s, so she’s basically already there lmao.

[@mr.duanesharpe]

“They call her the cat lady..”

[@mippyflippy6706]

​@Diamondr11Blue I agree. I kinda wish he just headed in to eat and left her there.

[@Homemadegameguru]

She went viral for being a horrible entitled woman...and she also helped show the world what a good respectful man is. Good gentlemen exist - it's women who choose to be blind. I hope he has a line-up around the block of eligible women now!

[@harsh3948]

Sad reality: He won’t

[@blacktigar4676]

She also showed why good gentleman turn into bad guys.

[@houseofhas9355]

He doesn't. Men like him are doomed. He needs a man to teach him about women and how to have a backbone and not get used.

[@HiGlowie]

@@blacktigar4676just because you meet a couple bad women doesn’t mean you have to turn into a bad guy. Most people are pretty rational and mild-mannered tbh. This excuse of a grown woman is luckily an outlier. Most chicks aren’t like her.

[@masterofthedrip2288]

@@HiGlowieI think your underestimating how many women are entitled, it doesn’t have to be this exact situation but they are definitely like this more and more by the year

[@vivianavasuna5563]

8:51 her face says it all I knew he was going to say that she was late. Her face: oh no you’re not gonna tell them I was late you just didn’t

[@Ambelica]

This man deserves so much more

[@justacoginthefkery]

I give that man MAJOR props. He's not a simp, he's a gentleman of integrity, self-respect & dignity. He gave her the benefit of the doubt about being late, didn't flip out yet still stood his ground & called out her behavior respectfully. He deserves so much better than some twit like that. I don't understand her issue anyways. I'd be in absolute heaven at the cheesecake factory!!

[@adamlouis3725]

he waited an hour for her, hes 100% verified simp

[@carlosf.xblackjack]

Nah bruh, he waited an hour, and then took her to eat and was planning to pay. If he's not a simp he got simp qualities.

[@CircumcisionIsChildAbuse]

aba the type to ear three masks walking into mcdonalds 2023.

[@justacoginthefkery]

@@carlosf.xblackjack simps seek acceptance, validation & attention. The motive born out of desperation is what makes a simp a simp. A simp would have gone along with her requests. This man didn't act desperate nor let her walk all over him. He acted calm & dignified. Big difference.

[@M3Rn]

​@@carlosf.xblackjackyeah, well, opinions like that is why you're still single and banging bitches like that ;)

[@kaysmoke_]

Meanwhile, she’s basic AF and looks like she eats cheesecake for breakfast every morning. Respect to this man for not losing his cool.

[@paulcarmi8130]

She didn't wake up o the wrong side of the bed, she ATE THE BED

[@maineman5757]

😂😂😂

[@Superbatmanbro]

😂 oh man

[@dks80721]

And she keeps stroking that fake hair like she grew it

[@TheNeekaNeeks]

I'm fat and I agree 😂😂😂

[@christinat.9328]

Y'all make me feel normal about not being able to control my facial expressions when stupid happens. Thank you.🤣🤣🤣

[@509734]

Brother man is in complete disbelief he had to have that conversation with a grown ass woman

[@bige2268]

Handsome, respectful, level headed, and patient. Dude is an absolute gem.

[@elenasosa7416]

Right? what a shame! imagine fumbling a man like that in todays day and age.

[@Thefunnysize]

Right!!!!

[@essies4294]

He’s not handsome. We don’t have to pretend he’s handsome just because he is nice.

[@Ronzeru]

​@@essies4294we also don't have to pretend that he isn't, based on a single commentor's preferences on looks.

[@PappyMcPoyle-vj4vt]

He's not traditionally handsome....... but he's not ugly.

[@Alex-Mex]

As a woman we do not claim her, I blame the parents for raising her like a princess even as a teenager and she grew up to this immature mentality because of it. Trust me, most of us would not mind Cheesecake Factory and I don’t understand why that’s a problem because CF is not even cheap. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@xinpingdonohoe3978]

Does the council of women identify her as a trans woman to distance themselves?

[@lumi-df1no]

Don't blame the parents. Sometimes parents can be the most respectful and nicest people u ever met, but the child is like that woman lol

[@leydimoralesATL]

Girl I love the Cheesecake Factory. They really out here making all of us look bad 😭

[@WhiteJeezus]

Gotta also blame the men who told her she was a queen

[@Wgz945]

@@WhiteJeezusgtta blame men for shit women do of course

[@rushman2k3]

5:33 loving the subtle fresh and fit dig in the ad read

[@shaybae11470]

My question is why?? Why go on the date if you're going to be rude and disrespectful to a perfect gentleman? Don't expect to be treated like "royalty" when you don't behave like it!

[@itsbno3597]

She’s actually one of the most blatant narcissists I’ve ever seen

[@jameswayton2340]

I agree. I met one, female, she thought she was entitled to all kinds of things i would do for her when she was a guest in my home. Now she too thought she was entitled to special treatment but she did not put up a cliché act like this bitch in the video. Fuck i hate people like this and this is a great video how female narcissism looks like. Its this extremely entitled manipulative behaviour.

[@jakeb.2990]

this behaviour is relatively normal these days, here in the UK as well people who grew up with smartphones and social media often have main character syndrome, and it's worse with women

[@dammyo6010]

This mans DMs better be blowing up, because the way he handled this, with the utmost class and respect... I've never seen such a gracious trash collector. No piece of garbage has ever been handled with such tenderness and civility. If this is how he treats garbage, imagine how he will treat something valuable!

[@fettel1988]

He's Indian, dude. That's why. It's part of their toolset.

[@chisomibezim1481]

Right? Whoever dates him is going to be the luckiest girl

[@sginrummy88]

​@@fettel1988only the best girls get treated with that chicken tikka masala.

[@katarhall3047]

Guy gets made respect. He owns a car, took her out, was respectful and classy. I'm guessing he's getting plenty of DMs now from women going, "Her loss."

[@RevivedTaritsuHanma]

Thats not how the real world works unfortunately

[@creativityunblocked6816]

Him walking back and forth with his head cocked took me out LOL!!

[@vincentbourgon2517]

Yo preach you're goood, i heard thom yorke when you sang

[@g1sunstreaker584]

My jaw legitimately dropped when he said she didn't come down for an hour. He's incredibly patient, I would've given 20 minutes MAX.

[@JamesBond-zd5jx]

20 minutes? Oh no. You get five minutes. Anything after that requires explanation and apologies.

[@heyitsalannaluv]

You know she made him wait on purpose bc she seen somewhere that you make men wait for you lol..she thought way to highly of herself in more ways than one..there is no way she took an hour to get rewad..she has no makeup on just some purple makeup and her boobs are hanging all out like I'm sure a fancy place wouldn't like that lol

[@g1sunstreaker584]

@@JamesBond-zd5jx can't argue with 007 himself

[@Blindfaithpodcast]

15 minutes, then I’m out. That’s just rude.

[@jmb1231]

​@@Blindfaithpodcast15 mins s absolute Max

[@PH-jv4ik]

Respect to the guy for standing his ground and remaining calm and collected.

[@skrellb9659]

The problem is too many guys don’t know their worth and that’s an entitled woman’s biggest fear. It’s the guy’s who know their worth they love and admire while fear all at the same time. The guy they can just use and abuse is the ones they cheat on and use as their atm.

[@jaimereynolds258]

Agree

[@rayanlasmar4247]

He has no self respect

[@pingu6028]

he handeled this situation quite well but you have to give him minus points for even ending up in that situation. You know what kind of woman she is right away and even if you somehow missed that I bet the house that she doesnt feel the need to hide it and posts this kinda content on her socials daily.

[@comancheclub3449]

A simp died that day and from the ashes a king rose.

[@ivecometoeat]

this was a SKIT, the ladie's real name is Nickia Lowery. This WAS NOT REAL. There are two different videos of this because their actors. she's coming out with a podcast. smh what is wrong with people these days.

[@AmericanBloodWolf]

Keep sayin the same thing, makin excuses

[@tiffanygrasso6424]

Just came across your ch recently and love you two together as a team being real n speaking the truth always ❤️ you make me laugh

[@yolofullsend]

I think this was the best first date ever... he learned EVERYTHING. He needed to know about her...

[@pollaris9540]

Exactly. Blessing in disguise. No need to waste his money or time on someone that entitled.

[@avivastudios2311]

😅

[@mysticstrikeforce5957]

Yep women don't know men be testing them to

[@funnyrandomwtfclips9322]

That’s facts 🔥🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 saved himself a fuck ton of time and money

[@dbreezy8716]

Yep…saved a LOT of potential future wasted time smh

[@jeffinmathew7857]

Yo this dude deserves a 100 dollar cheesecake gift card for the way he handled this!

[@thatisabsolutelykooooge2211]

More like $100k lmao

[@lpsglitterpaws8536]

I agree!!!!

[@hhww7478]

he need a lifetime membership, he just made The cheesecake factory millions 🤣🤣🤣

[@sharkdeepwater8]

When you park and get out of the car to open the door for someone. Can they roll the window down from the inside? The answer is no. It was a skit, because he knew he was getting back in the car.

[@seantaylor249]

It’s REAL! They actually did an interview after it that y’all should watch. It’s pretty wild (not in a ratchet way, but in how real it actually is)…Dude was still mad respectful and nice even in the interview. My mind was literally blown even more after watching it.

[@All.Will.Be.Revealed.]

The interview was staged too...

[@MikeSteele-px6le]

Where is the interview?

[@bluevelveteenvelveteen5038]

Eyy boys! Couldnt wait to see you do this one! Well worth the wait!

[@zachtemoro2116]

Honestly he should be thanking her. She just broadcasted how good this man really is to all the women of the world that he’s chivalrous, respectful, and how he’s ready to be a loyal bachelor to a woman who deserves it lol Edit: … who hurt yall? Don’t be Incels because of someone didn’t reciprocate your feelings. Act like a King, not a Child. Be Chad’s, not Eugiene’s

[@Sarkhan69]

women don't respect that though, and the fact he entertained her being an hour late shows he doesn't have options. this made him look WORSE to women.

[@GabrielSw0rds]

Wrong, my sisters wanna find this guy after this... 😂

[@MJohns-ui2vs]

@@Sarkhan69the missing word here is “some”

[@OwenFriday13]

She just broadcasted herself to singlehood while this man...nuff said.

[@lavorz170]

It’s just broadcasting him to all the other trash bags that smell blood in the water, very few women actually deserves a guy like him

[@ShoDaBrave]

What we witnessed here was a traditional man encountering a modern woman for the first time. That wasnt acting, we just watched that man go through a whole development arc. He just unlocked his sense of self respect.

[@occasionalgoth4318]

It honestly saddens me because now this poor dude is going to be on his guard whenever women show any interest in him. He was patient, understanding and did everything right, but it still wasn’t enough. Really sad

[@yourgrandpa2539]

@@user-zv7cs7xe1x modern women are not marriage material, period.

[@PardonMyPresence]

No what you witnessed was a skit y'all fools really think of a woman with that ego should date a man like that who looks shorter and skinnier than her?????

[@TheConnonedrum]

Exactly what Kevin Samuels was talking about.

[@WanRa28]

​@@PardonMyPresencethe car looks expensive, so yes?

[@stancollins6593]

Gotta love that subtle “My friend…” *looks into the camera* “are you happy now?” Preach finally admitted Aba was his friend.

[@reginaldmagee3586]

9:50 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣... Homeboy in the back is done!!

[@Anna.T.]

He handled her nonsense better than 99% of guys would have 😂

[@magacop5180]

Yea I woulda faked her out and left her at Aria. She is 300lbs.

[@tramarthomas6105]

Yeah, he's actually an exceptional person. Glad she exposed herself so soon

[@JaimeJDoesStuff]

Better than me. I would have promptly asked her to step out of my car and given her some change to catch the bus back home,

[@niani8359]

@@tramarthomas6105she honestly lost a catch

[@JustMalcolm914]

She would have gotten thrown out the car instantly

[@Klumsy206]

Saying I can’t go into the cheesecake factory looking like this, she wasn’t entirely wrong. Ma’am was wearing a green dress with purple lipstick, i’m gonna be honest she looked like a clown.

[@racheldunning1726]

I was thinking the exact same thing. She's acting like she's some high class sexy woman but she looks like a children's coloring book.

[@skuzzlebutt9745]

@@racheldunning1726​​⁠​​⁠shes a queen! Yall just hating. That’s no way to treat a black queen by taking her to some mcdonalds ass place. They always disrespecting black woman period.

[@KermitOfWar]

​@@racheldunning1726 Damn. Why a coloring book & not a Crayola box? 🤣

[@racheldunning1726]

​@@KermitOfWarcause a toddler drew those eyebrows

[@t-bagbagwell1327]

No good taste in fashion or whatsoever

[@shanegreenhough6352]

Props to that dude for amazing calmness. I think I'd have lost my temper and kicked her out the car in the parking lot of the cheesecake factory. She's got a phone, she can get an uber home.

[@jeremyreinhold3620]

😂😂😂 radio head reference. Priceless

[@jofthecross8241]

As a man who has never been to the Cheesecake Factory in my 20 years of my life I can’t believe she’s this this inconsiderate.

[@TB-jj7ri]

You're not missing anything...

[@greatestever8514]

@@TB-jj7rifacts. Best Cheesecake Factory experience is to order some cheesecake to go cause their food is mid. The cheesecake slaps tho.

[@Calamity8]

We are the same age let’s goooooo

[@jofthecross8241]

@@TB-jj7ri i felt like I have since a kid

[@hippipdip]

To be fair it’s glorious.

[@Supamav11]

“I have my requirements for a girl and you’ve already broken every one” is a really nice way of saying “I can already tell you’re a waste of my time and energy.”

[@GPhonse257]

You shouldn't have to tell a grown woman how to be a lady, and be respectful.

[@isaacbaidoo6892]

Bro,is so blessed to see the red flags flying so quickly to save his own life 🏃🏼

[@Mr03andy]

Was waiting for you guys to react

[@EFV369]

That guy is the definition of patience. Women like this need to go viral for a much needed reality check.

[@YoutubeUser-mb2oz]

He's in a Tesla so maybe he wants to make sure women aren't 100% after his money.

[@goodmorning192]

I believe she is viral now; I have seen this video of hers on different channels so far.

[@Freya1412]

​@@KZbinUser-mb2ozno he actually had reservations at a fancy restaurant and this troglodyte was 1 hour late. He said he'd pick her up at 4pm and she only came out her house as 5pm. He sat outside for an hour for this thing. He showed her the reservation and then she changed her tune and asked him to call the restaurant to which he said no. They missed the reservation. He didn't make it an issue and brought her to the cheesecake factory but she started acting like a clown. He is actually a gentleman and she lost out big time. I hope he finds a wonderful lady who appreciates his efforts.

[@saffy771]

He's cute too...

[@CursedHeartBearer]

He’s got limits

[@angemyarah]

He's a real man, respectful, well mannered, well spoken 👏 and has dignity.❤

[@seanmikejaffer423]

Maybe he is, but he should respect himself

[@kc270352]

if he was real, he wouldn't of waited an hour and allow disrespect

[@scottb296]

Well the dignity part is questionable in terms of waiting for her for 1 hour. He has to learn some self respect for real.

[@HoniTheCircleMaker13]

And she's am amazing independent woman! I mean if we are going to critique obvious skits, let's go all in with the buffoonary 🤦

[@McStrokeAvision]

If he had any dignity you would have never saw this video because he would have bounced when he had to wait an hour lol? I guess dignity is putting up with a narcissist bird’s attitude lol

[@samuelsylvester8911]

This is such a nice guy man!!!!! Honestly he was patient ngl, nad she started acting humble reaaaaaalll quick soon as he changed his mind.

[@Just.Arguing]

2:46 anyone who annunciates a word like this is the reddest of red flags

[@Wimplo86]

She’s asking him to compromise when he’s been compromising the entire time! She’s lucky he’s taking her home rather than kicking her out of the car

[@JeremiahDavis-2894]

Naw that’s not right I would of just order an Uber or something and drive off probably meet her off an dating app

[@Ptah1130]

Yup. She was gaslighting tf out of him

[@xirochamber5863]

@@JeremiahDavis-2894 just because it’s not ethical doesn’t mean it’s wrong. I would’ve kicked her out the moment she started giving me attitude. She’s a woman she can find her own ride I’m sure she can hit up a dude and get him to buy her an Uber if not she can walk home dressed up. Statistically speaking in America the more skin you show the less likely you are to be harassed because it intimidates those who prey on the weak. So it’s not like it’s dangerous for her to be kicked out of the car.

[@dominicviner6619]

I would have made her Uber

[@sepsis111]

I would have said "exit my vehicle immediately " and told her to call a friend to pick her up.....

[@ashleyprice9487]

OMG I was looking forward to you guys talking about this and as a woman there’s nothing wrong with cheesecake factory. My first date was at cheesecake factory and we bout to get married next year ❤love you guys keep speaking your truth

[@AbaNPreach]

Yes ma'am

[@Diamondr11Blue]

Imo the experience is more important than the cash spent.

[@Spankee99]

That’s what I’m saying! Cheesecake Factory is pretty good

[@IBigDickI]

I'd take my first date to an aquarium.

[@allenpoe17]

​@Spankee99 I've always enjoyed it. Never been disappointed.

[@thevaultkeeper]

It was a skit. She's a therapist who wanted to start a conversation.

[@Zeneyez]

I would totally go for cheesecake and ice cream parlour dates, it’s day time casual, the evening dinner date in restaurants is for later dates where you may be going back to a place together ya know. Would definitely go for cheesecake or a picnic in the park with snacks

[@anav3895]

I’m a woman and she should’ve been taken right home immediately or he should’ve left. The entitlement on her is atrocious.

[@SkaterChick1972]

Agreed

[@mztweety1374]

They say black don't crack but that anger and bitterness will sure in the f*** make it bend.😂😂😂

[@shaquilleedwards8635]

Nah fuck that I would've told her to get out and find a way home herself 🤷🏽

[@TheSuperPsychoKiller]

It’s time to stop calling women queens unless they are actual royals.

[@MegaMyown]

You would’ve taken her back home?! Lmao 😆😂

[@greggeiger7532]

She’s lucky she got a ride home acting like that.

[@autummsun]

Exactly ! I show my bros this and tell them I wouldn’t have a problem to kick her out of the car because she can always Uber herself home!

[@michaelcurd1923]

Yep that would be a duces and find an uber

[@thundertower]

Id have given her 5 dollaroos to go home. And point her where the bus stop is.🫡

[@seuny]

I am rewatching this and I just love Preach and Aba's back and forth "like we are all immunised, you are a disease" 😂

[@Moonbovine]

He should’ve took her to McDonald’s the way she looked 😂😂😂😂

[@thugmonk9837]

The way she handled the whole situation speaks volumes about the type of woman she is. He really did dodge a bullet. And thanks to her going live, many other men will hopefully do the same thing. She set out to embarrass him but basically ruined her reputation in front of the whole world. I love instant karma

[@TheMusicalKnokcers]

It's not a bullet it's a whole ass canon ball

[@etheu9sby292]

If she expects all those things then I think it's fine for the guy to expect head

[@Apollothe3]

"... many other men will hopefully do the same thing." She is exactly like this because of most men's desperation for s3x, companionship & intimacy. It will not change. I'm a guy & i know how guys are. They hear & see this behavior but still continue on w/ the desperation for the aforementioned qualities I listed. It's not going to change anything because if it did this video of her wouldn't exist. But thanks for placing a lot of faith in us lol

[@9Destra]

@@Apollothe3For me, it’s either I put up with this or die alone. My autism and height (literally the only reasons why I get rejected) automatically make me the bottom 1% even though I’d sound like I’m bragging if I describe myself

[@poki580]

@@Apollothe3 theres an entire subcontinent filled with thirsty men

[@Nameandaddresswithheld]

“Can’t we compromise” woman, Cheesecake Factory was the compromise. That’s a respectable first plan, let alone a backup

[@RazorRamonMachismo]

it was plan b they did have a reservation at a restaurant earlier which she confirmed and then she missed it so cheese cake factory was the compromise LOOL at the fool

[@tracycaldwell1736]

She doesn't speak for all women of color, because I would have enjoyed The Cheesecake Factory.

[@brawndothethirstmutilator9848]

@tracycaldwell1736, As a man if someone wanted to buy me food at the Cheesecake Factory I’d feel like it was lottery day 😂

[@sjappiyah4071]

@@tracycaldwell1736When did anyone suggest that she spoke for all POC women

[@bjornblackman2337]

Yo I would have taken her ass back home, go back to the Cheesecake Factory and enjoyed myself.

[@ashf585]

3:29 Ugghhhhhh that "y'know, cheesecake factory" then the smirk and dead face was rancid.... She'd have been out of that car in a heartbeat. that dude's got some saint level patience because I could never....

[@themrwinston9570]

finding out about the hour wait makes not letting him into the apartment an actual problem. at first i agreed with what he said, "i can respect that", but if ur an hour late, let me sit on the couch with a glass of water ffs

[@TheNightKing22]

"Some of you are so miserable that part of me wishes you die alone" -Aba. Word dawg.

[@MissV301]

Agreed

[@Fenrir190]

Bruh I heard that line and thought "aye. Someone had to say it"

[@DontReadMyUserName_]

☠☠☠

[@dks80721]

The funny part is they will die alone.

[@ONLYALEXISOMAR]

He don't gotta wish lmao shawty looks like she's damn near 40

[@Jmm4L]

She’s literally so mid and acts so entitled it’s literally insane how some women are so disconnected from the perception other people have of them.

[@justjen22]

Mid is being generous. She's definitely below average.

[@maineman5757]

Anybody else remember that movie Precious? She's worse than the chick in that movie.

[@redwall1521]

even if you were a 10/10 and you were vain enough to get pissed off at a free meal, that immediately drops you to a 5/10 or worse

[@semir9112]

She's not even mid tbh.

[@Dementia.Pugilistica]

This is what happens when social media boosts your ego "Slay girl!!" 499024 likes "damn u fine" Narcissism on steroids

[@issavibehoney]

She's so mean 😔 makes me wanna cry he's so respectful and nice bless his heart.

[@cjbunker8889]

u guys walking off after that 1 hour wait is priceless!!🤣🤣🤣

[@90savannarx7]

The internet been dragging tf outta her for a week now 😂😂😂

[@alphonsetram1]

Good.. 😂😂😂

[@Blutiger-Ant]

That hour comment took my man preach out.

[@Mandavirgin]

I’ve seen it everywhere and no one is on her side 😂 even some women saying they would have gone 💀

[@amolsingh5156]

She’s gonna be dragged longer than that 😂😂😂 long live the cheesecake factory

[@dks80721]

​@@Mandavirginthere's hope after all 😂

[@sarahferguson1830]

As a woman I have to say he has way more patience than I would have.

[@jedrickgonzales4388]

Well..women typically don't have patience. Especially towards men in date setting. Hence, it's so acceptable to shame men online.

[@shaychauntaye7047]

Absolutely. After waiting for more than 10 minutes I’m out.

[@562wiseguy]

What makes me laugh is her demeanor and the way she just looks at her phone and smiles as if she was looking in a mirror. She barely even looked at him during the entire conversation

[@skuzzlebutt9745]

@@562wiseguy​​⁠​​⁠shes a queen! Yall just hating. That’s no way to treat a black queen by taking her to some mcdonalds ass place. They always disrespecting black woman period.

[@sammyveinsmusic]

@@skuzzlebutt9745your a troll

[@alikazan24]

I live in NYC we don’t do “good” restaurants until after sundown. The sun is shining. The cheesecake factory is just fine!

[@bruh-you-serious...]

This is exactly why the nice guys finish last phrase is all too correct. Be kind but firm, self respect goes along way, if he had any the minute she started acting up you take her right back home and wish her well.

[@kylespevak6781]

Props of the dude for being calm and completely dismantling her. He owned her and didn't open himself up for any criticism

[@BB25_25]

I’ll criticise him for asking her out in the first place, waiting an hour and still driving her rude ass home instead of kicking her out of the car.. but yeah, hope he finds someone who deserves him, he did everything right and more, even though she didn’t deserve it.

[@dustinb1070]

​@@BB25_25 all that stuff is a waste of energy. Drop her off and cut ties. Staying calm is always the best way to go.

[@firingallcylinders2949]

He's of more value than her

[@talhaansari62]

​@@dustinb1070I'd agree with you. If he somehow pissed off this woman and she pressed some bullshit charges his life would be ruined. She has a platform on tik-tok and his life would've been miserable.

[@dustinb1070]

@@talhaansari62 staying calm is the best path 99% of the time.

[@cherryhazard8002]

"Who takes someone that looks like this..." Girl, your attitude shredded any type of physical attractiveness that you may have had in the first place. What makes someone act this way? It's not possible that you can get through life this way. That man was being so corteous and gentle with her and she pulled this out.

[@dontpanic8443]

She ain’t even all that I’m ngl , she look rough as hell, not even naturally beautiful

[@flash012234]

She's a land animal there was never any physical attractiveness in the first place. You can't be fat and entitled, its over for you

[@margaritamontijo6213]

Yeah the fatness

[@dontpanic8443]

@@StackSnackies I stg 😂😂😂😂 she look like she got a bad son and her baby father doing 5 for a felony gun charge 😂😂 she work for AT&T

[@faithrose4440]

Facts

[@beetleborg430]

You Dropped This King 👑

[@Im2Crispy]

When Preach said "my friend", I felt that 🥹🫡

[@williamhardee8863]

That man seems like the chillest dude. The entitlement alone is enough to make anyone go off, but he’s willing to talk about it even with the camera rolling. Honestly if it was me I wouldn’t even try to talk to her, I’d just drive her home and wish her a good life away from me.

[@P-P-Panda]

Fr he deserves better

[@marinazolotic4347]

He's above her league. I watched this on Mediocre tutorials and gathered he's driving a nice car and he was going to take her somewhere fancy. He's attractive. He seems very in control of his emotions. I like how he kept his composure, but ultimately put her in her place - that takes character. He dodged a bullet with this "queen", he could do infinitely better.

[@jirenthegray2904]

Nah, I would've taken her to Arias, let her order everything she wanted, then tell her I'm going bathroom and gap it, leaving her to pay the bill like the Oyster chick.

[@Raz0rking]

I am not even sure I would habe driven her home.

[@dazza761]

This seems like a skit.There's no way a woman like this actually exists IRL ,especially since she had to upload the video herself.

[@MK-Hogan]

I’m a woman and this got me heated. If a nice man wants to take me on a date, I’ll be ready on time and happy to go to the Cheesecake Factory. The sad part is, she doesn’t realize how ugly her attitude and personality make her.

[@tanyagivens4338]

The fact that she was late and missed the Reservation to the fancy restaurant.

[@unwnme]

I'll just say one thing. Her outside "beauty" is Very subjective at best. She might be the only one in existence to find her beautiful.

[@silversoulken]

@@unwnme HARD, HARD agree

[@kaoshi_kutie]

@@unwnmeAGREED!!! She really isn’t all that

[@kamaliancirranoush1916]

@@unwnmeexactly- she’s conflating having boobs with being beautiful. She’s plain and past her prime. Bye.

[@stevekelley4515]

I have seen this video over 20 times, this is the first time i saw the ending.. thanks Aba and Preach

[@tyw2675]

“Who takes someone who looks like this…” Ma’am, you’re lucky that anyone is taking you anywhere.

[@madiperez6073]

That "I'm fresh, I'm fit, and I'm monetize" still makes me laugh like it did the first day

[@JudasMaccabeus1]

You can feel the W emanating from his pristine pores

[@revolverocelot1919]

Of course the lesbo comments about freshandfit

[@sergiotee7356]

Bruhh🤣🤣🤣

[@bruhbutwhytho2301]

@TopG371it’s not that deep

[@sunnyjupita]

@TopG371 Haha. Sounds like the joke is flying way over your head there buddy.

[@MMMM-ui3ct]

She's actually delusional, he dodged a bullet. There are normal people out there who would be so happy to go on a date with someone they are truly interested in just to get to know them better. Cheesecake Factory is totally acceptable for first dates!

[@eviljinius337]

a bullet?! that was a warhead.

[@annienunyabiz6627]

I'd argue it's too good for a first date. Spend $10-15 on some coffee or ice cream for a first date to get to know the person first before you waste a bunch of money on some delusional diva. It's low key, low expectations, low stress, can focus on talking and getting to know each other, and a nice bonus test that they won't be materialistic. Shit's too expensive to waste on this kinda clownery.

[@deeznutzzz3217]

She average without the attitude..go pacers

[@juliemesser2053]

​@@deeznutzzz3217None of us are pacers yet she's average to good,but cut the attitude.

[@tadeob_]

​@@eviljinius337😂😂😂😂

[@ForceFedFetusFillet]

Her shit changed from this isn't good enough to are you sure you wanna go home because she was actually hungry, and probably too broke to be as full as she would be on someone else's dime.. She didn't want cheesecake, she wanted entrées.