Cheesecake Factory Woman Responds.

[@RoPDurriLags]

Aba😂 next time play it on 1.5x 😅 it will save us time

[@AbaNPreach]

it was on 2x....

[@TotalBlackoutPainting]

😂😂😂

[@wildsagediary1109]

@@AbaNPreach😂😂

[@retrobluemusic]

😂😂

[@realaebros]

​@@AbaNPreachDamn

[@micboo1978]

I love the fact that she’s now known as the ‘Cheesecake Factory lady’ the very place she felt was beneath her. 😂

[@cinnamonstar808]

she probably is a 1%-er. When you make a ton of money. Restaurant chains are no longer your taste. RICH OR POOR : i never like the Cheesecake Factory... the food has not taste; and 🙄Im not waiting on water flavored food.

[@KayLeeXVI]

Lmaoooo this!😂😂😂

[@Vradica]

@@cinnamonstar808 No... lol... Money or not, food have the exact same taste, you don't magically get new taste buds because you become rich.

[@pabloescobarschanclas]

@@cinnamonstar808she’s a loser who is trying to mooch off of people…..let’s be real

[@psychopompous3207]

Lol. This is a poignant observation.

[@goodgirl140]

You know whats even crazier? He had a reservation to a nice restaurant that she approved of, but she was an hour late. So they missed their reservation and he had to inprovise at the last moment. He is such a gentleman and a catch, I hope he finds a nice lady!

[@shanaparrilla978]

Ok wow see she is even more wrong now that we know even more to the story . Making good dope black woman look bad. Shame on her

[@callmemayhem6366]

He deserves an amazing woman. I can't lie he handled that with 1000% more maturity than i would have. Lol. Hope he gets everything he's looking for and then some.

[@eeroala5132]

He will have to go to Pakistan to find a decent women. It wont happen here.

[@dominiquejones3805]

Some restaurants still will charge u 4 missing your reservation

[@jimhills1920]

@@eeroala5132He’s Indian. He said even the ones from his own community reject him. He’s too nice and soft for Western Women. Fortunately there are still good, polite, decent women out there. He just has to fish in different waters.

[@robertnguyen9493]

Dude handled it like a champ. He let her speak and show her colors, he didn’t yell and scream and act the fool, he stayed calm and level headed. He didn’t have to make her look bad, cause she did it all by herself.

[@noneya1238]

This was a skit, she's still playing yall. They're both actors and you can see them both do retakes several times.

[@ashleybrooke2087]

She called him out & made it public to humiliate him. That's a bitch move. He was still offering to pay & everything. It's a first date! That girl needs to chill.

[@rhyno8644]

I want to know why she thinks shes fine. Whats interesting to me is she has no plans to lose any weight.

[@qlasalle]

​@@noneya1238 No

[@Eddybo22]

​@@noneya1238still don't care about that, it's still BS and it happens in real life more often than it should.

[@Andy-xx3tt]

She 100% intended to embarrass the guy but now she’s like, “Guys, come on! You only saw a small moment in my life, that’s not who I am!” She wanted everyone to “know” him but wasn’t expecting anyone to make assumptions about her.

[@ew0711]

I don’t know how she didn’t think she would be judged 🤷🏽‍♀️ when I saw the video, she’s the one that behaved horribly. He seemed like a very nice & respectful guy.

[@shalinimahalingam9064]

It's cos despite her saying that she chose to go out with him cos of his personality, she's very shallow and thought just by showing how she looked verses him, people would agree that he was wrong to not do everything she asked. The level of delusion's off the charts

[@Treyperiod]

Excellent comment

[@newyorkvisionary]

Not courting? Dude picked you up, arranged a dinner and waited an hour. This woman will be alone forever. And rightfully deserved.

[@saysomethingsmartcomeonent5233]

I truly hope so. Unfortunately it is very unlikely due to american men being simp.

[@sergiosperspective]

Nah, she'll have her cats

[@Michaelroni-n-cheese]

Actually the dude got them a reservation at a nicer place and she was like 3 hours late causing them to lose it. So he took her to CCF as a last minute attempt to salvage it.

[@susiex6669]

And...she isnt all that. She acts as if she were Naomi Campbell circa 1994. 😂😂

[@desmondjefferson2127]

I'm wondering if she has ANY mirrors in her home, because I don't think she has ever SEEN herself. And definitely not naked in a mirror, because if she was honest with herself she'd already know what the problem was.

[@campbell1446]

He said the Cheesecake Factory was his lucky spot. Well, it certainly helped him dodge a bullet with this entitled chick and her inflated ego.

[@нитинк]

I guess he was into bestiality with that one.

[@Valdemar-Perez-III]

In that case it saved his ass lmao.

[@gh0rochi363]

The steak continued lol

[@kuma.369]

As a woman I can say, after hearing her, that you can't expect to be treated like royalty when you behave like trash.

[@abcdefgcdefg5178]

My wife treats me like a king, therefore I treat her like a queen, she met me, dated me and stayed when I had nothing so now everything we have built is just as much hers as it is mine, she stayed when I had nothing so now she is my everything

[@SIPEROTH]

She has a serious attitude problem and she thinks she god's gift to humanity. I don't need a cheesecake factory incident to realize that. I realize it by her constant smug face, the whole attitude she shows when she speaks and how she behaves like what she says is some superior wisdom.

[@12B4Christ]

NONE of you are royalty to begin with. Nor are the men! Where did all these royal, king, queen lies begin? NONE of you are that, so put your feet on the actual ground and get a life.

[@houseofmatrix6174]

That’s a Jewel

[@purplelove3666]

And you still don't know that,this was a fake skit?

[@SammieKCIAFFFLLTGF0303]

"Is there anything worse than when someone talks slow to say F**KING nothing?!" No, there is not!! 😂😂😂

[@zyrahorihara8419]

If you're gonna be crazy hurry it up 😂

[@brooke9847]

It's not that she rejected cheese cake factory, it's the fact she tried to embarrass him online. Her being ridiculed now is just karma at play.

[@commissarkitty3553]

its both, on top of the fact that she is entitled and thinks she deserves to be treated like a "royal" when she treats strangers like crap.

[@HiGlowie]

Rejecting Cheesecake Factory is appalling. It’s a first date. Who thinks they’re too good for Cheesecake Factory? Does it have good ambience? Of course not, but not everyone vibes like that which is fine.

[@ameliadeshane9192]

Women have unrealistic expectations and entitlement. Unless theres an allergy problem, she shouldnt be rejecting HIS choice. He is taking HER out. He knows what he can afford, and she should practice graciousness.

[@ameliadeshane9192]

If there is an allergy problem, then dont expect them to accommodate that, immediately. Coffee should be fine for first dates. Regardless of the lies women spread about it being cheap. I want to encourage frugality in men.

[@sarahelizabeth8585]

It’s both. She’s delusional if she thinks she’s too good for the Cheesecake Factory. Honestly, I’m at the point where I don’t care where we go on a date. As long as it’s safe place 🤷🏻‍♀️ can the man hold a conversation? Does he have goals? Where does he see himself in 5 years? Can he make me laugh! That’s so much more important than the location. And tbh, she was giving free meal because she’s broke vibes 🤷🏻‍♀️ she was quick to reel it back in once he’s like k this isn’t going to work I’m taking you home. She’s gross.

[@biajdzismols1204]

Whoever raised her,did a terrible job. Listening her saying how she was raised made me gag.. PAUSE

[@zombae_art]

Probably a single mom did

[@mr_0n10n5]

Well, she comes across as someone who was never told no in her life

[@fuziontonygaming]

There’s a bunch of narcissist parents that are exactly like her lol, they are extremely out of touch.

[@gwyn1056]

Sometimes, though, that's just an excuse to divert responsibility of their character. You can raise kids as best as you can, but a shit kid is a shit kid.

[@cuneytunsal5422]

Pause?????

[@alangreene5037]

Imagine she thinks it’s crazy for people to judge her based off a moment in time as she judged a date based off a moment in time ….she is a complete embarrassment

[@mah7961]

People keep saying this whole thing is a skit and totally fake. But fake or not stuff like this happens real life all the time. 99 percent of the time it happens to good honest men that are navigating the dating world. And they often get jerk around by bunch of heartless ladies that have no intentions other than spending your money, time and energy. For their selfish needs and overinflated egos

[@lawsattitude1999]

Doesn't help that she recorded it either.

[@sistrenyogigal3813]

A moment she recorded

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

Judging her over a moment she willingly recorded and posted online. Once it's online, if the sharks get you then they get you. Dont post stupid shit framed as you being smart and you'll be fine. Having proper levels of self awareness and situational awareness can solve a lot of issues 🤷‍♀️

[@cmh9932]

A moment in time that she created by being late🤦🏽‍♀️ don't forget that part.

[@GoldenGraham25]

She’s capping. As a black woman, I PERSONALLY LOVE THE CHEESECAKE FACTORY! I know what I’m getting everytime, whether in a date or alone.

[@Spidr-Man]

My family loves the Cheesecake Factory lmao you be getting full full there (and also other places of the like)

[@AmoriMON6T3RDYZ]

Right!!! The Cheesecake Factory is somewhere I’ve wanted to go to for a while.

[@dirtnbloodnotherkids]

Right? Its delicious and such a fun place! I've never left the CF unsatisfied 😅

[@robbieceez7052]

What does you being black have to do with her shitty personality?

[@NavySharkz]

Cheesecake Factory near me stays packed with 80 percent Black people, mostly women.

[@Dev1cted]

Oh please. She LOVED the attention she got, so I’m not expecting a apology.

[@ryboi1337]

​@@vy2pnsure thing lil bro

[@champ7139]

@@vy2pn It's always a skit when it's a woman being bad

[@ptk4392]

​@vy2pn blk wmn always got an excuse this is how a number of you behave

[@Z48654]

@@vy2pnquit glazing in every comment

[@cp37373]

@@vy2pn your racism is blinding you

[@daironhernandez7023]

I feel bad for the guy, cause he says “I didn’t put my best foot forward” and “ it didn’t represent my best self” bro did nothing wrong and was a complete gentleman despite the bad situation :( what a good guy

[@Elhastezy888]

Humble To The Core 🤍

[@sarahelizabeth8585]

The fact people are apparently looking at him sideways and this this bozo is baffling. He was so kind and seems like such a nice person. I hope he finds someone who values him. In an era where guys just wanna come over at 2am to “hang out” at 30+ years old find someone like him that actually values getting to know someone

[@debede8296]

God bless you Aba for your ability to distill her bullshit on black women "settling". What absolute nonsense.

[@God_Shen]

@@sarahelizabeth8585 That "2am to hang out" example was a really specific lol I am sorry that happened to you and I hope you find better!

[@jameswayton2340]

She's a narcissist that picks this guy for the exact reason. Someone who has a personality blaiming himself for things he did not do. Its so clear as glass to me.

[@drew3865]

She’s so delusional she thinks SHE did the rejecting. HE ended it.

[@keiracarmichael9430]

No he didn't. there's another video of her making a public apology to him and he actually agreed to another date with her.

[@JuntaRevan]

"He actually agreed to another date with her" Meaning he won that and decided to go entertain her for another date @@keiracarmichael9430

[@vanmontgomery3754]

Yes! Very delusional and she’s not even attractive!

[@dcabral00]

I was waiting a long time for something like this to happen. She should have never accepted the date because she simply was not attracted to him. The problem we have today is that typically women, girls, etc. Will accept a date with anyone so they can enjoy a free meal, experience.

[@swadey2.017]

@@keiracarmichael9430It’s doesn’t stop the fact that he still rejected her the first time. She APOLOGISED to him, he pitied her enough to give her a second chance

[@MindOverMayh3mm]

She wasnt looking for a courtship, she was looking for a doormat with a pulse

[@steveyj3002]

She made a video trying to embarrass someone else and ended up embarrassing herself and now she feels it’s unfair 🤡🎪🤡🎪🤡🎪🤡🎪

[@walkerdrae]

💯

[@mroblige1018]

Women in a nutshell

[@saint037]

tale as old as time

[@deniseberman8633]

She goes on a first date scantily dressed unless it was 90 degrees I don’t get why she wore that top. Maybe she was trying to impress him with her royal boobs. I’d like to think most intelligent men are more impressed with what’s in your head.

[@MaceWindu8935]

Narcissistic/Histrionic behavior is a crazy thing.

[@dracocaelestis6370]

and she’ll always be known as the cheesecake factory lady, no matter how much of an “image” she has to protect 😂

[@phantasticmrphasma9874]

Alee-seeya*

[@ibizawavey8630]

Now she's got a whole new image to protect.

[@SweetPhantom]

Exactly! This happens to people everyday, who decide to put all their business on social media.

[@condesabeatriz9303]

Pretty much!

[@TheSodaShop]

The irony

[@WongWho]

No shame, no accountability, and no apology. This woman proves that social media brings out the worse in people.

[@rubinfeuerherz3799]

it was a FAKE skit😂

[@Superbatmanbro]

This chick is allergic to accountability and responsibility, like bruh and pulling out the race card is childish and just shows me that your not ready for a relationship conversation.

[@user-nz7bf2zc3m]

@@rubinfeuerherz3799Ah yes, the classic “it’s a skit” excuse

[@mr_0n10n5]

I thought it was a skit until this video. Social Media can make people worse, but she doesn't seem aware enough to even want to change that.

[@rodprops]

Social media doesn't make people worse, it simply broadcoasts their bad actions, for all to see!

[@koftribe117]

Her: "As a black woman we deserve to be treated like royalty because of our skin color" Reality: " who are you exactly!?"

[@Squidwardsangryface]

As a woman, I respected his response to her in that viral video. He didn't scream, degrade her, or treated her like garbage. I'm surprised he even waited an hour for her. Like what?!

[@MuantanamoMobile]

I guess benefit of doubt, and he initially liked her.

[@stratblacknosugar.5125]

3 minutes, I'd be gone.

[@wingedgravity9742]

Idk how he didnt go off on her maybe cuz of the camera but props to the dude either way for keeping his composure

[@junkmail1111]

It’s literally a skit

[@Squidwardsangryface]

@@junkmail1111 how do you know?

[@jorgeoliveras7386]

Despite all the nonsense she’sput this man through, he still goes above and beyond to be polite and respectful. Props to him.

[@notusedanym0re-r7n]

This whole thing has just shown other women why they should date him.

[@dendrien]

Simp behavior that is what that is. Nothing respectfully about it. His an idiot however an idiot who every man shouldn’t be. Don’t let anyone walk over you especially if she’s a woman with a princess mentality

[@abigailyalew1304]

​@@notusedanym0re-r7n💯💯 she fumbled real time

[@kansuke33]

​@@notusedanym0re-r7nand it shows what they miss when they act like the woman.

[@noneya1238]

​@goldheartart6684 Nah, it's fake and a skit. Look it up, f him. They knew a video vilifying a woman, and making a man a hero would make the video go viral.

[@JustinTimeJLew]

People who talk slow about issues typically do it because they love the idea that they have your attention...guard your attention from these kind of people...Thanks for skipping Aba!

[@lordnarasimha2500]

I think she’s trying to think through the thought in real time but it’s taking longer because her initial position was nigh indefensible.

[@fxlltxtsearch]

Jada pinkett

[@paulcarmi8130]

I understand what you're getting at but I'm just a slow person. (Not slow as in retart_ed, I'm just slow)

[@fillerbunnyninjashark271]

They're also chronic liars

[@theycallme_bruce]

She’s slow because of the sub 60 IQ.

[@annjepsen1621]

My first date with my husband of 18yrs was at Applebee's. After 2yrs of dating he popped in question in that same Applebee's at the same table we sat at on our first date. While having certain things you want in a man is understandable, most of what she wanted had mothing to do with him as a person. She's far more concerned with money, looks, and well...more money, lol. It's sounds more like she's throwing away a good man.

[@tylerdurden5122]

That “moment in time” she’s being judged on showed her being an hour late to the date, filming her date to try and embarrass him, and refusing to get out of the car when she realises the destination is the cheesecake factory. That moment in time showed her true colours and she should indeed be judged by that

[@ANYHOO0]

Yeah, that was a whole lot of moments!

[@moonshinershonor202]

I doubt it's the first time too, she really thought she did something going online. Like plenty of people would like good company to the cheesecake factory, not even a whole date.

[@RomaTomatoe]

She's literally an actress, and this was a skit. Outrage content.

[@rhyno8644]

At the end of the day she filmed the person teying to court her in an entire 40 something y.o. campaign to embarass him. Theres no way around that fact. Thats who she it.

[@samwallaceart288]

Your Honor, why should I get a lifetime of punishment for the 1 second I pulled the trigger?

[@jasonwhite6463]

So glad Aba called out the unnecessary dramatic pauses. This heifer is crazy and ungrateful. But she did her date a favor by showing him who she was from the beginning. He dodged a bullet.

[@lastcall4111]

I felt the same way as aba. The sh!t was unwatchable 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@PardonMyPresence]

No he didn't bc they agreed to go on another date courtesy of the content creator who set the whole thing up. It's FAKE

[@timthefosterdad]

Yeah, you got the first half correct.

[@DadBot-_-]

She was literally trying to stretch her 15 minutes holy 😂

[@antonydrossos5719]

Bruh. That was a whole tank shell!

[@KeemReviewz]

You hit the nail on the head when you said she didn't respect him from the start. She wanted a free meal and knew she wasn't interested in him.

[@ca-xg3vk]

i hear she's looking to get him inside the octagon where she says she can whoop his little azz

[@tinygirl7531]

Her "courting" expectations are the reason she is still single. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@melaninemerlissa3051]

Courtship is leading up to marriage. A random date is NOT COURTSHIP!

[@sarahbogdan189]

Love how she says she can't go to cheesecake factory because she has an image to maintain and now she's known as "cheesecake factory woman"

[@biancaboswell6501]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@redclayscholar620]

Poor Cheesecake Factory, being associated with that vile broad.

[@exjehooberdubexpiobeezleeb6269]

IT'S A SKIT, she has a podcast coming out and there's multiple takes on the recording from the car. Tonyatko and Chrissie both have proof in their channel.

[@AV-we6wo]

At this point it's quite unimportant if it was a skit or not. What most people will remember is the nickname and her behavior. That was a big failure as far as 'maintaining her image' is concerned.

[@exjehooberdubexpiobeezleeb6269]

@@AV-we6wo absolutely. She played herself.

[@local8457]

I’m a female and if ANY WOMAN acts that way, it is not normal and it is not a person you want to be with.

[@ShantesTravelThings]

You're a female what?

[@lunavieira3616]

@@ShantesTravelThings a human one- we out here with more gametes than the males. Capable of producing ovum and bearing life. That’s the kind she speaks of. 😉

[@adrenalinflow]

Yeah, I feel like this chick has some sort of diagnosable personality disorder. NPD or something.

[@realdeallaignston8514]

​@@ShantesTravelThingsexactly. A female what? Sheep?

[@frankylampard3931]

Shes nuts. Imagine being annoyed at someone and whipping out your phone and telling the world about it in front of the guy..... so fuckin rude. There is no context outside of feeling unsafe where this is acceptable behaviour

[@drnot442]

He seems like such a great guy. I hope he finds a woman who values and respects him. I love how special the Cheesecake Factory was to him, and that is definitely an example of a thoughtful guy who appreciates the little things and sentimentality. He’s going places.

[@cha9165]

He needs to respect himself first, there are loads of lovely women and look who he chose to ask out for a date. I bet there are loads of women in his circle of friends who like him but he has chosen her. He needs to work on himself before dating.

[@jormundo7765]

From what I can tell the only thing he lacks is a bit of confidence and to know his value, he can't be taking sh like that. I would have left her on the spot, blocked her and never thought of her again. He did decent for himself in the situation but what is this, offering free pr after being disrespected Jesus Crist man.

[@aligmal5031]

i think he will be better off with someone from his own culture that value his values

[@Ekim2F94]

​@jormundo7765 perhaps but being his true self has gotten him this far. He doesn't necessarily lack confidence he approached this tall "regal" black woman spoke to her got her number took her on a date AND continued to speak to her despite her trying to literally public shame him and then got on a damn talk show. He IS confident. What he needs to learn is to be less naive and less trusting of people's character. People that clearly just want to take advantage of him.

[@mac1bc]

Well according to the follow up podcast that video hurt his future dating.

[@zakariyahabdulkarim5853]

So grateful for my woman. B4 her I dodged cheese cake factory woman like the plague. First date she was on time, respectful, loving , and considerate. She was wearing sweats and her character shined as if she was in red bottom shoes and designer dress. So deeply in love with her ❤. Hope dude finds someone worth his time.

[@papahandsoap2259]

Love to see some positivity gang!

[@itsmekiaratee]

“Don’t drag black women into this, this is your mess”… Thank You!! This is definitely her mess. Before my husband, I’d definitely been to the Cheesecake Factory on multiple dates. That’s one of the best places to go when you want an appetizer, entree and dessert. Not to mention the drinks, lol! They have the best menu.

[@sandosam807]

lol there you go. i just thought it was her problem

[@michellerichardson3090]

I love their food and drinks. She's just hating

[@sheasprettyskinny6630]

They even have a vegan Cobb and it’s 😋

[@404GameAndMusicProducer]

nah sis god said that it is gonna be like this until we as a nation or people change Deuteronomy 28 we was gonna be a proverb and byword and astonishment into all the kingdoms of the earth whither the lord shall lead thee we all get lumped into too it bad behavior don't care who or what reaction of the people is what matters even the lord said the good and bad go together he kicked out our forefathers out of the land of israel jeremiah 15 Then said the LORD unto me, Though Moses and Samuel stood before me, yet my mind could not be toward this people: cast them out of my sight, and let them go forth. 2 And it shall come to pass, if they say unto thee, Whither shall we go forth? then thou shalt tell them, Thus saith the LORD; Such as are for death, to death; and such as are for the sword, to the sword; and such as are for the famine, to the famine; and such as are for the captivity, to the captivity. 3 And I will appoint over them four kinds, saith the LORD: the sword to slay, and the dogs to tear, and the fowls of the heaven, and the beasts of the earth, to devour and destroy. 4 And I will cause them to be removed into all kingdoms of the earth, because of Manasseh the son of Hezekiah king of Judah, for that which he did in Jerusalem. 5 For who shall have pity upon thee, O Jerusalem? or who shall bemoan thee? or who shall go aside to ask how thou doest? 6 Thou hast forsaken me, saith the LORD, thou art gone backward: therefore will I stretch out my hand against thee, and destroy thee; I am weary with repenting. 7 And I will fan them with a fan in the gates of the land; I will bereave them of children, I will destroy my people, since they return not from their ways. 8 Their widows are increased to me above the sand of the seas: I have brought upon them against the mother of the young men a spoiler at noonday: I have caused him to fall upon it suddenly, and terrors upon the city. 9 She that hath borne seven languisheth: she hath given up the ghost; her sun is gone down while it was yet day: she hath been ashamed and confounded: and the residue of them will I deliver to the sword before their enemies, saith the LORD. 10 Woe is me, my mother, that thou hast borne me a man of strife and a man of contention to the whole earth! I have neither lent on usury, nor men have lent to me on usury; yet every one of them doth curse me. 11 The LORD said, Verily it shall be well with thy remnant; verily I will cause the enemy to entreat thee well in the time of evil and in the time of affliction. we have too be careful we as a people walk on eggshells and fragile glass dealing with these nations as it is written Joel 3:1-6 For, behold, in those days, and in that time, when I shall bring again the captivity of Judah and Jerusalem, 2 I will also gather all nations, and will bring them down into the valley of Jehoshaphat, and will plead with them there for my people and for my heritage Israel, whom they have scattered among the nations, and parted my land. 3 And they have cast lots for my people; and have given a boy for an harlot, and sold a girl for wine, that they might drink. 4 Yea, and what have ye to do with me, O Tyre, and Zidon, and all the coasts of Palestine? will ye render me a recompence? and if ye recompense me, swiftly and speedily will I return your recompence upon your own head; 5 Because ye have taken my silver and my gold, and have carried into your temples my goodly pleasant things: 6 The children also of Judah and the children of Jerusalem have ye sold unto the Grecians, that ye might remove them far from their border. Zechariah 11:4-5 4 Thus saith the LORD my God; Feed the flock of the slaughter; 5 Whose possessors slay them, and hold themselves not guilty: and they that sell them say, Blessed be the LORD; for I am rich: and their own shepherds pity them not. reason why we have too be on our best behavior anything can happen too us

[@uriamudeltoro5075]

Finally....thoughts and experiences from a thoughtful lady....

[@Mckaufman2011]

Yeah I’m a black woman and I think she is a little off base. He waited an hour for her…..she literally is the reason they couldn’t go to the fancier restaurant. She is insane. He is a gem.

[@Caffeinated_Acrobat]

A little? 🤣

[@drehardin]

🧐A Little ?

[@drdepression4605]

More like a planets worth of distance off base. The same way guys gotta call out our scumbags chicks gotta call these kinda behaviors out as well. Don't call it a little off. Her mentality is fucked up. If you recognize that say it with your chest.

[@lmao12391]

A little?

[@jeanmm6823]

An HOUR?! AN OWWAH?!!!

[@hyrunnisa997]

I am black woman and my first date was Panera bread and now we’ve been married for 6 years. its honestly not that serious…your first date doesn’t have to be super expensive. what if you don’t like that person, why spend a bunch of money on something that won’t last? She deserves to be alone until she changes her behavior…and honestly she looks really old. She looks like she is in her late 40s and he should be with someone who is his age.

[@HadassaMoon144]

Those women aren't dating to find a real partner. They're prostitutes for expensive meals, bags, clothes and trips. They're trying to trick men into being a sugar daddy. So of course they're mad when he wants to limit his spending. They planned to pay him back in sex so they don't feel that the exchange was equal. But they shouldn't play games. They should be honest about the arrangement instead. But then they'd be obvious whores and that's not okay with them. It they're honest, I respect them because there's stupid women having sex with near strangers and they pay for themselves and him too.

[@ShaferHart]

And eating out in the US is quite expensive. An expensive meal really is a big commitment for most people even if you make 120k a year, especially now that dating has been voided of so much meaning. Money doesn't grow on trees.

[@houseofhas9355]

Imagine the level of entitlement he would have seen if you acted like this on the first date. This behavior is common among women it's insane. This is why I do coffee dates. Because I want to see how you are before I start investing in a stranger.

[@Chickenpesto2468]

I feel like that's most peoples thought process. I've never had anyone complain to me about where I take them

[@LicoriceLain]

I appreciate people who are frugal with their choices. Showering money and gifts on someone you don't even know enough about to know if you even like the real them is just sad and shortsighted.

[@mahoganystructure]

If a first date made me wait an hour, the date wouldn't have happened.

[@kittypollay1581]

Thats what Ive been sayin!

[@9Destra]

Let me translate her “apology” for you: “It’s not my fault and I only care about this because it affected me negatively. I’m going to continue acting the way I did in my viral video but keep it off social media so I don’t face backlash again.”

[@kalvin48]

If crazy idiots like her were just transparent about their unbearable character, the would would be better. She has a friend group, like she said that encourage that behavior and make excuses. They nv change they just find new was to cover their shit and wrap in gold

[@foreignd852]

Respect it

[@73caddydaddy93]

💯📠

[@jackkraken3888]

Perfect!

[@CARPETMAN6666]

If I was a Cheesecake Factory I would be hiring the guy she went on the date with for a commercial. Golden opportunity for a legendary commercial.

[@yvettecruz6038]

This is not about her having dating expectations and not liking the Cheesecake Factory. It’s about her choosing to publicly humiliate another human being. She’s so worried about her image yet she dismisses another’s in a split second. Ironically, she tarnished he own image. Karma at its finest.

[@domino3023]

Its a skit. Hes an actor. The original video was filmed the same day as the interview.

[@talyahr3302]

And she uploaded it HERSELF 😂 That's what I really love. She can't be mad at anyone but herseld.

[@ferrisbueller9991]

Amen. Also how pathetic to keep a group of friends who will look down on you for eating at the cheesecake factory. If I'm worth less because of that then I guess I am, fuck you. Ya know? Why keep those people with such rules around, you aint dating your friends so stop caring about what they think. Ego is the big problem with this. She has entitlement issues, has sadly been told she is worth more than she really is and in ten years when she is worth next to nothing and her eggs are gone it is gonna be real depressing and the ego will crumble. Because she never was what she thought she was.

[@tonytoni1150]

“Karma’s such a thing of beauty.” -Drake

[@kalechips5972]

It's both.

[@welcometosemeticpalestine]

I hope he doesn't give her a second chance. He can do way better.

[@emmylovato921]

waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay better

[@piecebypiece2028]

I remember my first date with my husband. He took me out to a Chinese restaurant. He was honest with me about how he didn't have a lot of money but he really wanted to take me out. I ended up paying for myself to take some load off him. It's not about where they take you, it's about the quality time you guys spend when you're there.

[@dalehoward3704]

I totally agree! And what's wrong with the Cheesecake Factory???? I'm female btw. Even if he offered Macdonald's, he's paying and it's a first date! I believe in starting out simple!

[@piecebypiece2028]

@@dalehoward3704 right? Like I love going to cheesecake factory for a slice of cheesecake every year. We don't go often because it's expensive.

[@nekk-ra7080]

Hell, a nice walk where I could get a chance to talk to him and get to know more about him, and vice versa, would be a great first date. Your getting to know each other, the wallet can wait until you've both proven to each other that you have serious intention.

[@piecebypiece2028]

@nekk-ra7080 I agree. I mean I loved this Chinese restaurant so I was 100 percent down to go. Hell if he was down on cash, I would have paid just to get some Chinese food.

[@Ryan-wx1bi]

And you doing that let him know you are the type worth marrying.

[@marcusg2166]

Shoutout to this guy….he was really on camera explaining himself for doing a KIND ACT. If a woman likes you…she’ll walk with you in the rain.

[@taydavis453]

💯

[@HooLeeYo]

Not one apology, no accountability, she's horrendous and has learned nothing. All fellas need to avoid ANY woman like this.

[@100lines4]

“Give me a 3rd of your harvest.” I’m gonna fuckin use that daily now 😂💀

[@yevmk6031]

She doesn’t deserve the guy, he seems like a genuine gentleman

[@yevmk6031]

@@vy2pnwhat does her blackness have to do with anything? Plenty of Black women are way better people than her.

[@cp37373]

@@vy2pn no, it wasn’t you racist

[@noemad5391]

​@@vy2pnwhere the fuck are you getting it was a skit

[@NoName-ug7rm]

@iantrofimov6416”your people” 🤡

[@Elchorizero]

@iantrofimov6416well well well

[@ocha-time]

I love how as soon as she clears up the topic and starts with "It's interesting.... to me..." it was clear that this was just going to be deflection on any criticism received. And how only her criticism of the (free) dinner after forcing the date to run so late that their original reservation was no longer valid was, in fact, worth consideration. What a woman

[@Shaka_J_Luciano]

Reading this while hearing the inflections being used in real time is hilarious. It felt like “I am not going to take accountability for my actions, but try to pivot to a new talking point to overshadow this situation drawing my narrative to a more positive one” 😂😂😂

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

The entire time I was thinking this woman was on the spectrum or something cause why is she talking so slow and putting pauses between her words? Lol

[@Shaka_J_Luciano]

@@tobiaslawrence8928 that did give me pause too.. 🗣now you trying to be Martin Luther king.😂😂

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

I literally thought that too at the same exact moment "It's interesting to me..." is when you know someone is about dip, duck, dodge, dive, and dodge accountability. This video also looks like an ISIS hostage video. I'm surprised she didn't wear a ski mask shouting Arabic into the camera while holding up a knife.

[@stinedange9152]

She looks like she was gonna cry the whole time… and I was like, what is making her cry? Regret? Embarrassment? Believing she was misunderstood and is truly deserving of more? Get over yourself! If you can’t take the heat, get off the internet!

[@Remy2Stronk]

This Indian brother is so kind, wise, genuine and composed. Good job being the man you need to be for a worthy woman, even in the presence of a nasty soul like this one. A great example for a young man.

[@chadwickcastle]

She keeps trying to make him look bad. People like him more and more every time he speaks. They like her less every time she speaks.

[@ivecometoeat]

⁠her real name is nickia Lowery. She is an actress. This is a FAKE SKIT, She admitted it. She just keeps going with it because she’s coming out with a podcast. Google her. Stop letting people hijack our emotions like this. Her and the guy are actors! The guy who is interviewing them helped set it up.

[@Remy2Stronk]

@@chadwickcastle don't be overcome with wrath brother. Be upright

[@Mezz8582]

@@ivecometoeat Bruh..... I got a feeling that 50-80% of this men vs women content is fake is hell. I need to keep this in mind HIGH KEY.

[@alona724]

What I think is funny is how invested people are in these stereotypes. Y’all know it’s a skit but still want to argue about it

[@tobechukwuokonkwo5957]

"If ya honna be crazy, hurry up wit it" 🤣😂 Hurry up wit your crazy - 💯

[@bidishah]

I feel so bad for the guy. Dating really is hard enough. Imagine being ridiculed on the internet by your date. That shit is traumatizing. And she is just so unconcerned.

[@deniseberman8633]

Narcissistic behavior. What on earth was she thinking? Did she think she was being cute with the whole video thing? Girl grow up, oh wait she is grown up supposedly.😄

[@нитинк]

Yes, imagine getting ridiculed by literal 🦍🐵 of all the people

[@julsc2106]

Why feel sorry for him?? Hes winning!!

[@CaulkMongler]

I just feel bad for the guy cause he comes off as a beaten down man. He’s literally apologizing for standing up for himself when he was so clearly being disrespected and diminished as a person.

[@tremoneyv]

Guy needs to grow a pair. I’m on his side but it’s hard listening to him apologize & make excuses for her. He didn’t need to curse her out but damn.

[@HoniTheCircleMaker13]

He's a punk. I'm a man and outgrew Cheesecake factory myself. My girl wanted me to take her, but I'd rather go to a nicer place, so we settled on Cheesecake Factory for dessert

[@CaulkMongler]

@@HoniTheCircleMaker13 you think the establishments you dine in is related to your manliness or something? Not sure about the point you’re trying to make. If money and material goods are something you hold in high value, that’s fine for you and your relationship. I don’t mind eating at McDonalds once in a while, I’m not gonna judge other people for where they eat. I’ve got other things on my mind.

[@chdh6556]

@@HoniTheCircleMaker13a man named honi? You sound a lil feminine champ

[@domino3023]

Its a skit. He's an actor.

[@stancollins6593]

I was 15 minutes late to my first date with my now fiancée. And I messaged multiple times to say I was on my way, sorry for being late, to not worry. She was gracious, understandable, and considerate. She insisted on paying but I made sure I paid instead. She appreciated that.

[@MegaNeet7]

The only difference is he was already downstairs to pick her up so he waited for a whole hour. You don’t find me like him anymore.

[@zweiigorgon8980]

Happy you found the one G

[@caitlinfaroo8561]

Congrats on the engagement! 👏🏽💃

[@kokuutou92]

Congratulations brother!

[@willwrite3675]

​@@MegaNeet7Men tolerate badly behaved women all the time

[@Kod1515]

Preach's matter-of-fact look when he says "I feel like everyone needs to be mad equally" had me in tears LOL. I played that ish back 🤣😂🤣

[@rainoftranquility7735]

As a black woman she does not speak for me! She meant what she said that day so her apology is unacceptable. She thought people would agree with her but the backlash she received was something she didn't expect. This dude seems to be a good dude but he is just too nice. I never would have done this I terview had I been him. She is delusional and he needs to disassociate with her permanently

[@rachelbilouson4877]

Same !! When she talked about black women settling, I was like nooooo don't go there, you do no speak for me, like just admit YOU want a soft life, don't pretend you're fighting for all the sisters or whatever haha

[@aris6756]

She speaks for narcissists, and delusional ppl lol, no woman of no race wanna claim her 🤣

[@SweetPhantom]

For real! As a Black woman myself, I would never EVER behave in the manner that this woman did! And some would say that I was raised privileged, private board schools, away summer camps, vacations every year, etc. I was also taught how to respect others, gratitude, and humility. Like they say “you want respect, you give respect!” But this heifer out here thinking she the shit with zero respect for others! It just shows how little respect she has for herself.

[@zazilicious]

I wish we didn’t have to say “as a black woman” and have to constantly defend ourselves smh

[@thfkmnIII]

Genuinely curious tho, how come black women are hella defensive when it comes to the "bad attitude" stereotype/criticism and don't acknowledge the kernel of truth in it so that they can make efforts to ameliorate it as a collective?

[@queen-asia2184]

Omg thank you for saying “Don’t drag black women into your mess” cuz it’s so upsetting that women like this end up being who represents black women in every one else’s mind 😒

[@aveclasse17]

did you see his face when she started saying "as a black woman,..." he looked so confused, searching his brain for what that had to do with the situation...

[@Lu-xd1ly]

Literally there are women of all races who’ve behave like this. And there’s plenty of black women who don’t behave like this at all. But women like her never fail to give us a bad rep 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@sosmooth13]

Yeah. I think women like her are definitely corrupting the dating sphere when it comes to other women. I’ve seen other black women echo her sentiments or expect to be paid for like it’s a requirement when it’s only the first date and it’s weird. This whole wanting a man to take care of the both of you so that you can take care of yourself is weird to me because it’s so counterproductive in the long run of a relationship.

[@perriredd615]

Exactly

[@nycedyme4]

Tbh what other race of women are even using the term soft life

[@Flow_Easy]

I've had some women say "Cheesecake factory is a chain restaurant". True. But so is Eddie V's, Morton's, Ocean Prime, Fleming's etc. Even the more expensive restaurants are chain restaurants. Sis, either we eating at your house or we ain't eating, well you ain't. Least not with me😂

[@cman04]

Ruth's Chris

[@paulcarmi8130]

TAKE THAT B TO BENIHANA YOUR WALLET GONNA BE GONE

[@MRLONG758]

Nobu's

[@JayfkProductions876]

Got 99 Problems Cheesecake factory ain't one.

[@JayMaverick]

Aren't Gordon Ramsay restaurants a chain?

[@mt7122]

Sorry but She reminds me of the Sloth from zootopia , can she speed up? we have things to do 😂

[@duhair23]

😂😂

[@MarshalDTeachh]

All those pauses she took was her brain struggling to figure out how to justify her ignorant behavior. What’s actually crazy is people like her that think they’re still in the right when it comes to stuff like this. Then doubling down and proceeding to think everyone else is in the wrong. Edit: Women like that don’t deserve to be provided for lads. She an average at best woman wanting to be spoiled like a queen. At the same time not proving her worth to be treated as such. Women like her are exactly the ones who would be on Kevin Samuels’ channel rest in peace.

[@iCJesus777]

Damn even Blackbeard is tired of it 😂😂

[@dominiquejones3805]

Then when they went back 2 her vid she was looking just confused

[@noneya1238]

According to worm food Kevin Samuels, women don't deserve anyone, especially the ones that don't have European features. He was trash and so are your takes. Nothing wrong with a woman with standards, whether you think she's worthy or not, who are you. It was a skit anyway and fake. Just make your little incel tiny pen3es tingle and create buzz for the video and they proved how fast it works. on yall.

[@HoniTheCircleMaker13]

She has standards. Why are men so mad about it? Either she's for you or not. Butt hurt men mad they can't command the same respect. I told my girl the other day, I wanted something better than their food, so we went to a better restaurant and just got dessert from Cheescake Factory, to satisfy her

[@iCJesus777]

@@HoniTheCircleMaker13 you can have standards without being disrespectful, it’s called manners

[@RA-wp6th]

I used to have a friend like her. The friendship ended when she planned an expensive concert for her birthday and held a grudge with me for declining (which I did politely). With people like that you’re constantly walking on egg shells.

[@British_Cocoa]

Yep!!

[@that_dam_baka]

I gotcha. It's annoying this deal with people who want you to partake in expensive hobbies.

[@mcfrisko834]

Yes they're called NARCISSISTS

[@deniseberman8633]

Narcissistic behavior.

[@jMoknows101]

He seems like such an amazing man. I hope he meets a woman who will appreciate him for who he is.

[@domino3023]

Its a skit. Hes an actor. Shes trying to be an actress. The interview was filmed the same day as the original video

[@jMoknows101]

@@domino3023 makes sense!

[@anonymousbo0318]

​@@domino3023😂 🤡

[@soniabal4961]

Just discovered you guys and it's seriously refreshing. I've never seen some of the videos on your feed that you talk about. I love your commentary, straight to the point, direct and pretty much on point. Thank you for letting me know I'm not the only one thinking like I do, that there are other people in the world with similar thoughts about some of these videos and people 🙏👍

[@SpencerCornelia]

I can't believe she's even worse than I expected. I was hoping for at least a statement about how she was having a bad day and shouldn't have treated him like that. Nope. Doubled down even harder lmao. "Treat me like royalty"

[@chauntill]

It's a Skit Spencer 😂

[@usagi32211]

"It's crazy how a moment in time can shape how people view you." She said that like it's the first time in her life that she's realized that people judge you based on your own actions, when she was judging that man for everything he did during the video.

[@kennymichaelalanya7134]

Well yeah, but what's strange is people accuse Andrew Tate of saying some dumb stuff like 5-6 years ago. That's insane as well . Probably more so because ideas and ideals can change within as little as 6 months let alone 5-6 years.

[@mah7961]

In a few years if not months she’ll be on TikTok complaining about where all the good men have gone. Crying about being alone for the rest of her days. While the good guys are just ignoring her or have left the west to seek out a good woman with good values to be with.

[@noneya1238]

It's a skit. Look it up

[@HoniTheCircleMaker13]

@@mah7961 then let her complain when the time comes. Who are you lames trying to get people to lower their standards? Grow up and do better

[@christina4012]

​@@mah7961tis a skit

[@KoyatheKueen]

As a black woman can I just say we are not all this crazy, unreasonable, delusional, and lacking accountability. There’s many of us good ones left. Keep the hope single people.

[@hatman4818]

Yeah, I think that's fair to say. There's definitely a stereotype there, and from a lot of bad experiences working with many in my old job (not even dating, lol), I don't think it comes from nothing. There's like... Some kind of weird culture there that I just don't get, having not grown up in it. One randomly assaulted a white guy at work out of the blue (punched him right in the face) when he was just trying to ask her to order an aircraft part (her job was literally supply), and she didn't see any repercussions for it (despite the fact that this was in the military, so... Yeah, there should have been some major repercussions for that). But I've also met a few smart, sweet, and fit ones. Weirdly if they excel in one area, they seem to excel in them all. And it's a shame they even remotely have to be associated with people like this. A couple I regret never asking out actually. Long story short, I thought they were way out of my league because I didn't value myself much at the time, but in hindsight, I think a couple of them were genuinely interested in me, and I flat out didn't pick up on it till way later. They're hard to find, but when a black woman is the whole package, I think they're some of the most attractive people on the planet, because they somehow go 110% with it in every respect. I wish they'd get more attention than people like this.

[@LoganDX1990]

Was just thinking this woman is damaging black women's image

[@The.Renovator]

As a black man I’d say too many of y’all think like this woman. All races of woman have some level of delusion to them but black women in today’s day are by far the most delusional.

[@hamzanocap]

We don't believe you Latishaniqua

[@PayThePiperr]

Yes it is

[@alikazan24]

She’s speaking in slow motion and saying nothing. “Nobody’s got time for that !!!” 😂🤣😅

[@MrShadowchief]

While she said this was about rejecting the Cheesecake Factory which it is. She forgot the most important part; you put someone on blast during the rejection. Doing that wasn’t necessary and she was publicly trying to embarrass this man for something he wanted to do for her. Now that what she did backfired on her she’s embarrassed.

[@cmbsr4851]

Exactly, now in the future when she shows interest in a man, he might recognize her and wonder if she'd do the same for him smh

[@invertedv12powerhouse77]

Bro she missed her expenaive date she wanted by being over an hour late lmao. She literally had 0 play in making that call without looking like an asshole

[@rhyno8644]

Pay attention. It had nothing to do with the restaurant. She made her mind up to to degrade him by recording the embarrassment process.

[@elenawilliams32]

Yes! And she said she was raised well.... I don't imagine she'll be getting any dates for a long while, and rightly so.

[@Khadi-C]

My fiancé and I had never visited The Cheesecake Factory before. After seeing so many comments from the original video saying how good it was, we decided to check it out. The atmosphere and environment were great, and they have a large menu! We ordered the normal amount of food we usually get at any other restaurant we visit (Red Lobster, Olive Garden, etc). My fiancé, who usually finishes his order before me anywhere else, said he was full! The bill was higher than at other restaurants we went to, but it was worth it. We will definitely go again for an occasion (probably Valentine's Day). That lady clearly was not hungry.

[@RustyX2010]

You should have went on the weekend like after 11am because they serve an awesome brunch!

[@mac1bc]

She wasn't that hungry, and was also entitled

[@TheDweeb002]

She was hungry for attention.

[@queenofpentacles11]

And that dessert! They are amazing! The celebration cake is my favorite

[@BLAZE45]

Although there's nothing wrong with eating at those places. I wouldn't call them real restaurants. They're like the McDonald's of "fine dinning " lol

[@stephenhenry4810]

Preach, that was the greatest analogy I’ve heard in the man-o-sphere “If you want somebody to treat you like royalty, date a peasant, because a King will treat you like his equal”. Absolutely brilliant 🎉

[@V4Now]

"But the Queen is the Kings Bitch!" ~ Patrice O'Neil ✊🏾

[@stephenhenry4810]

@@V4Now facts!!!!!!

[@thfkmnIII]

Fr tho the "kings" and "queens" bs floating around in the black community's cringe af

[@GregXHunterz]

Ye

[@GregXHunterz]

​@@thfkmnIIIyo I'm a brown dude I've seen this same language used in our community as well. But I agree it's very cringe

[@iberayhearmeroar]

"I feel like everybody need to be mad equally" has me geekin rn🤣🤣

[@mrchards37]

This is a perfect example of the issue with modern day dating: an average guy with good morals wanting a long-term relationship getting ridiculed by a below average delusional woman wanting more than she has earned.

[@Samsaraindo]

Yup, thats the world we are now in.

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

Exactly! I can get understand a super good looking woman but this woman is average looking.

[@km2460]

Can u incels stop blaming women for everything? People in general are shallow and degenerate these days…and social media has a lot to do with it

[@SpiritChild0980]

She has an image to protect🤦🏿‍♂️ I’m over here like who are her friends? What image? Broke and don’t know what a good man is. What about who are you to receive it? A spoiled brat…

[@AlisonMendez-bx8tp]

Also an issue is tons of incels and entitled men being scary when a date or relationship just doesn’t pan out. Ppl are crazy these days

[@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis]

She’s embarrassing me. I can’t. She thinks a man is supposed to “cater” to her??? No, no no. Stop it. Royalty??? YOU ARE NOT AN ACTUAL QUEEN, she knows that right?? I’ve never ever once felt like it was a man’s job to cater to me. She is showing her privilege big time here. She said she was raised that way?? Why do so many people just lack common sense. She’s alone for a reason, gentlemen. Leave her there.

[@stinedange9152]

The irony is that “royalty” is quite humble out in public. Because people with that much genuine class would never try to make others around them feel uncomfortable or unworthy. I’ve lived in Dubai and encountered real royalty… Sheikhs, princesses, crown princes. They are some of the kindest, most gracious and generous people… because they don’t need anything from anyone. They command respect, not demand it.

[@Whoopin_feet209]

If that’s how she was raised her dad was a puss. I dated a guy who was way too nice and as bad as it sounds I couldn’t be attracted to him anymore because I felt like he was weak.

[@gregoryjenkins8645]

There is something very very wrong 🙄for a woman to claim, she is “Queen”. 😬😒🥱

[@Comeback180]

Just like I predicted in the last video that was uploaded this date had to be a surprise, cause if she wanted a extravagant/luxury date she should've communicated that and see what his answer was gonna be.

[@baconscoobysnacks3135]

She's not even attractive either lol

[@MK-Hogan]

Even the way she speaks slowly is manipulative. Like, I’m gonna take up your time and you’re gonna sit there and just listen to me because you’re not rude enough to rush me. HELL nah. She’s creepy.

[@AD-wi4fq]

This! When people talk slowly in this manner, it comes off both condescending and as an attempt to stall the issue/deflect.

[@l33lzonwh33lz]

Well some people just naturally talk slowly, no ill intent involved.

[@Farhan_049]

​@@l33lzonwh33lz*"SOME"*

[@joshuaottley7902]

​@@l33lzonwh33lzsome. This isn't one of those cases.

[@ShaferHart]

Good catch. We all get it but you verbalized it perfectly. I hate that!

[@kyleighwhite1409]

She talks about being courted but is the WHOLE court jester. Clowning.

[@servingcant]

Nah she should leave us (black women) out of her bs.

[@thegameshowguy1]

Good, I would hope many of my “sisters” don’t have this type of mentality.

[@MsSamiam2]

Yup and he sounds like a good decent dude that got dragged into the toxicity of an immature woman who seems a bit obsessive with clout. I’m pretty sure he knows that not all black woman are like her.

[@shaejae6252]

I wanted this to be a skit so bad. I got 2nd hand embarrassment watching how she treated that man. And to see him still be a gentleman about it is absolutely mindblowing and admirable

[@exjehooberdubexpiobeezleeb6269]

It is there's proof all over. She has a podcast coming out.

[@canon60458]

It is a skit

[@diranshouse7061]

It's still a skit

[@VeseniaDesigns]

It's a skit. I was feeling the same way. An embarrassment to humankind.

[@ninamatthews8747]

It is a skit, there's 2 versions of the damn thing. Maybe she's getting paid for this so that's why idk.

[@chefboyardee8542]

"If you wanna be treated like royalty, date a peasant. If you date a king, expect to get treated as an equal" That was PROFOUND

[@kittypollay1581]

Exactly!

[@matheusbraga4716]

That's crazy how you have the car, pay the bill, wait the BI that's late for meet and u are equal because of makeup? Your value can be erased with a towel.

[@TheDylls]

That guy's posture in the interview... He's been physically beaten down

[@kole0429]

i think he's just a very calm, demure, laid-back dude .. he seems a bit nerdy and shy 😊 I hope he finds a lady who will match his wants and values in life and a relationship & they live happily ever after ❤❤❤

[@fragrantbloom]

For me he gives off calm vibes. As a woman I don't see it as a bad thing. I don't like overly masculine men so maybe that's why.

[@indralingenfelter5181]

Yes, because he was humiliated by her doing a video and posting it on social media to embarrass him. He did not realize that he stood out as a real gentleman, and the video actually helped his character, not harm it. I can understand his dilemma because it shows the cultural differences between a South Asian and Black American culture. There's a learning curve to understand the nuances. I saw it in my cousins who moved to America. There's a difference in what we perceive as rude and how to handle it.

[@PrapalyFree]

Man she dug her own grave. Like girl you decided to record the entire thing to embarrass him but now Suprised people going after your tail lol. Karma is a B

[@cpnd]

Right!

[@jonaholiver143]

Aba nailed it. She’ll 100% break her own rules for a man she is actuallly attracted to.

[@GregXHunterz]

That's human nature for ya

[@e69alpha]

They all do. For that One. Queue in Jet Li screaming "I will be the one!" Then fighting on top of a pyramid.

[@jrmckim]

I thought he was really cute. But I have a thing for South Asian men tho...

[@blackbullinvestor6094]

What makes it sad is that he had a fancier dinner reserved but her being an hour late, he took her to Cheesecake Factory. Then she tried to shame him by filming it. Her ideal of courting is being treated like royalty.

[@personalfreedom7843]

Kissing butt is the new norm

[@landmindssoul4636]

More like spoiled. Even royalty understand manners and respect. Being on time and being polite is important.

[@5050TM]

​@Suitcase__21If it was a skit, she's doing the worst thing by not admitting it. This will stain her for life. Her admitting it's fake one day won't go nearly as viral as the first video. Doubling down during the interview and in the video on a fake persona is not smart.

[@thoughtsonthoughts5412]

i think this speaks to a bigger issue thats been brewing for some time - women (possibly men too) believing what they see on socials, that a man has to do X, Y, Z for the bare minimum, to "earn your love". Honestly, i think it's feeding poison to the minds, providing this arbitrary "checklist" of what a guy has to do, and some are just following it blindly, like what? makes me think of when this one chick was asked, how much money should a guy that you're dating make, and she said something like 6 figures. the question itself was a trap, but are ppl okay?? why are we, as a society, falling into these superficial traps. i hope for the most part, ppl are going beyond these "lists".

[@0nepotential]

That man is too wholesome, we need to protect him at all cost!

[@SoldierofYAHUAH88]

Protection from from what?

[@andrewhood8952]

He seems like a good man but seriously he needs to carry himself with more conviction.

[@s.s.99]

Protect him from stank nasty, bad attitude, “beautiful and attractive” but actually ugly, ignorant, entitled women like her

[@tayzonday]

Most times I go to a fancy restaurant, all I want is recognizable food! Keep the caviar and give me peanut butter and jelly!

[@grey9704]

Lmaoo come on Tay you don’t order a pbj when you’re out

[@ShervierJ]

Holy shit the Chocolate Rain guy

[@BumFluffer1999]

Why go to a fancy restaurant then you weirdo

[@No1.Cheese]

So you'd pay fancy restaurant prices for pb&j? Naw

[@tayzonday]

@@grey9704 I DO order Peanut Butter and Jelly! They just call it “Farm-Fresh Fruit Paste with Ancient Nut Ointment on Artisan Bread” so they can charge $40 😳

[@yevmk6031]

She’s the case where you definitely should judge the book by its cover.

[@zionwassie2372]

💀💀

[@deaconmcrib4262]

If not by the cover, definitely by the synopsis 😂

[@tobiaslawrence8928]

This chick just said she's "beautiful" mean while I'm over here like 😳

[@Rockoblocko]

I would’ve taken her to a buffet. She seems like the type to enjoy stuffing her face.

[@perlundgren7797]

@@deaconmcrib4262 Jokes aside, that's actually a good analogy.

[@audrey8275]

So he basically was treating her like royalty- he was taking her to one of his favorite spots that has a lot of good memories attached to it. I'd be really touched by that. He's going to make another girl very happy someday.

[@ferdimako]

No woman is happy.

[@njabulojubz]

The reason why they wentbto cheesecake factory is because she was late. She could have got what she wanted. It backfired. I feel bad for the guy.

[@icu3869]

Ladies and fellas MUST LEARN: someone who isn’t making your life better,isn’t for you . Only tolerate people who make you feel valued, respected ,and comfortable . In ALL relationships with ALL people, compassion, courtesy, and kindness are key. If you put that out but don’t get it back, you still emerge the bigger person. Never be with someone who makes you feel hard to love .Wait for the person who sees the good in you, and appreciates it.

[@chick1800]

thank you! needed it to hear THIS🥺

[@unknown-ot7xy]

I really needed to hear this

[@MichElle-py8lk]

Thank you for this 💕

[@stellanova4308]

BASED, i love this

[@MarsellusWallace2024]

“I’m a black woman and I’m mistreated and I’m a victim things have been so bad for me no one understands how we get treated” (also her) “I was raised to believe I’m royalty and should be courted and treated as such bow before me because I’m great”

[@noneya1238]

It isn't adding up because it's clearly a fake skit, look it up.

[@mattsavage9960]

​​@@noneya1238Its as real as it gets I've kicked two previous dates out of my car because they expect to be put on a pedestal its not happening especially when 8ve just met you. Women want these equal rights and they moan when we are not a traditional man. It's not happening both ways. Being an hour late and being below average looking this woman was completely delusional and raised wrong. I wouldn't wait past 15mins late without an adequate explanation.

[@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940]

The mistreatment is self inflicted. She probably chose Pookies

[@chdh6556]

@@noneya1238secondhand embarrassment has you in shambles lmfaooo

[@kostyarikx9754]

@@mattsavage9960 agree, 15 mins is still-polite point.

[@barathelango267]

14:36 "give me thrid of your harvast" came out of nowhere😄

[@zak4727]

She's too busy admiring herself and that's why she forgot what she wanted to say. This woman really thinks she's a 10😂😂

[@Farhan_049]

No she thinks she's above Aphrodite. That's beyond ♾️/10!

[@ivecometoeat]

her real name is nickia Lowery. She is an actress. This is a FAKE SKIT, She admitted it. She just keeps going with it because she’s coming out with a podcast. Google her. Stop letting people hijack our emotions like this. Her and the guy are actors! The guy who is interviewing them helped set it up. Her name is not even Aleysia, she’s playing a character because they don’t like hypergamy. They said they wanted to “shine a light” on how bad they think hypergamy is…everyone’s falling for it.

[@5Akecheta4]

@@ivecometoeat Makin excuses

[@therose1277]

He's a sweet young man, and I'm proud of him for standing strong, yet being respectful and kind. I pray he finds a woman who is truly worthy of him.

[@godsbeloved6280]

I totally agree I wish him well

[@Barcodez5555]

and as we all know, girls really want a sweet young man, who stutters at every word....

[@a91dan54]

Me and my wife’s first date was at the Cheesecake Factory. When i asked her if that was ok she said the reason we’re going out is to get to know each other it doesn’t matter where we go. She then asked if i wanted to just buy food and walk around the mall. I knew right there i was going to marry her. Our 4th anniversary was yesterday. People tend to forget what’s the purpose of a date is. We both make way into the six figures so it wasn’t an money issue btw

[@matthewwilson5019]

oh how cool :) congrats man, i hope you have a great life long marriage :)

[@willt.8645]

Same story here...23 years ago our first date was at Denny's when I was a first year lawyer making good money. If you are really into someone then what's going on around you hardly matters.

[@marcuswilson4143]

she was only interested in his resources.she really thought she was going to run him over

[@shannsimms9072]

He was so polite the whole time. I’m really impressed with him genuinely

[@mah7961]

The fact that he gives an apology, when no apology is required of him since he did nothing wrong. Shows how much of a gentleman he is as he humbles himself. He could’ve come on the interview and all fire and brimstone and let loose. And it would be understandable. But he didn’t as he is polite and respectful. He is a proper decent man. That deserves a decent proper woman. And I hope one day he finds one.

[@CesTorLop]

8:38 "If you want people to treat you like royalty, you got to date a peasant. But if you are dating a King, he's going to treat you as an equal." GOLD!

[@dominiquejones3805]

BOOM

[@buddleia]

He's a real gentleman. The fact that he corrected her name on her behalf despite all this shows he holds certain values in respext regardless or conflict. He's convictions about strong family are incredibly refreshing. That's somebody that would be a potential marriage candidate, and it was immediately turned down over Cheesecake Factory. We really need to adjust our priorities as young women. A nice date that "gets you whatever you want" is short-sighted and does not guarantee stability in a romantic relationship. She missed out on a good person.

[@darrenturner3534]

13:57 - You nailed it. For the right man, that woman would accept a wendys date. Shes making him jump through those hoops because she doesnt find him attractive. As they say, "if youre unattractive, women will put hurdles in your way. If youre attractive, they will jump hurdles to be with you."

[@Vergil14]

If I can add to that, there’s also this: a woman could like a man but put him through shit tests, which in all honesty are still pretty stupid. It’s the hypocritical selection process that makes it so ridiculous and gives the sense that someone like her is entitled.

[@EdgarHernandez-uu4iw]

yup i learned that brutal truth the hard way. I heard something similar like "women make rules for men they don't like but will break those same rules for men they do like" and whats crazy is that women who hate the red pill spaces they push men towards, hate being told how shitty they are and don't like being held accountable and deflect by saying men are misogynistic for saying such things.

[@iulia.bianca.b]

"Gimme a third of your harvest... Peasant" 😂😂😂 That's spot on what her attitude was the whole time!

[@TheKimskii]

She was late by an hour, refused to go to the alternative choice of restaurant, made a video , uploaded it and now can't understand why people are judging her. It's as if decades plus worth of footage of terrible behavior being rewarded in the form "Reality" shows has had a negative influence on society.

[@annsmith7454]

Delutional she is 2me huh!

[@jwhite5396]

She’s disrespectful, unkind and an embarrassment to herself.

[@nightwithout-stars1951]

Jay is a calm and considerate guy. She would’ve been lucky to get a date with him.

[@ajtaylor8750]

Anyone who starts off by saying "it's interesting to me" isn't looking to take accountability for anything they've done. They just want to blame others and deflect blame or culpability.

[@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis]

One thing I noticed is she said “I want somebody to treat me like a Queen, I want somebody to treat me well.” There’s a big difference between having a man treat you well, and then expecting to get your way acting spoiled, entitled and expecting to get treated like “Royalty”. Those are two different things. It’s fine to want someone to treat you well. But she’s just coming across as arrogant and entitled. I said it before and I’ll say it again- she is alone because she deserves to be alone. She still single because she has ridiculous expectations. If I were a man I wouldn’t want to deal with her either. She needs to bring her expectations down A LOT.

[@smashedmelon3156]

One thing bugged me was " men are the providers" like I through gender roles were bad but then again guess gender roles can only be applied to men not women.

[@anonymousbo0318]

​@@smashedmelon3156Nah, bring that up. The double standards woman have are ridiculous

[@jrmckim]

Yall it was fake.... they are acting

[@kennymichaelalanya7134]

​@@jrmckimthere is a list where a ton of women up voted it. The list contained places/ restaurants where guys SHOULDN'T take the women out on the first date.

[@viscountrainbows2857]

She calls herself a Queen but she expects others to pay for her. She is just a spoiled prissy princess angling for a Prince Charming. Hell even Princess might be too high up; maybe she's a Duchess at the very best when she's not rappin her bullshit