HE WAS ENGAGED... STORYTIME

[@DakotaaCross]

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[@MelissaAnne9416]

“You cannot get love from the same place that made you sick.” Wow. I love that quote. I went through a similar situation. Someone who lied about everything and was seeing other people. I will never understand people like this.

[@DakotaaCross]

Ugh it’s so damn true I learned it late but I’m happy I finally did !❤️

[@linnyroro3177]

That quote got me also, but sadly the person that did all the harm to me and never would admit their faults and wrongdoings was my own father and up until the day he died he never admitted that he was toxic, abusive a master manipulator and the ultimate narcissist. Thankfully my husband was the person that saved me and has been there for me through more things than most men would even dare try to stand behind and be supportive. When I was younger like in my teens, people would always tell me “you usually end up marrying a man just like your father” and I would laugh and tell them that would not happen, I would rather be single my entire life than be with someone like my father was and I can say my husband is the complete opposite of my dad.

[@Leeleeleg]

I don’t ever leave comments. I stumbled on to this video and it’s exactly what I needed and the advice spot on. I woke up this morning and asked God to let me see the truth, and it came immediately .I told my BF to leave, and I have faith that my life will be better no matter how I feel right now

[@lynsirobertson3527]

Best wishes, luck and light to you, and I put it out there into the universe that you’re strong and won’t backslide at all with your ex. You’re already doing so great!

[@mediocrebankai]

Stay strong, you can’t find the one you are meant to have if you are with them.

[@alaina7483]

Your life will be better now. May God continue to bless you ❤

[@gabbyaliaga17]

2 years later I hope you’re doing great ❤ you deserve so much, you deserve someone who truly loves you. My best wishes girl 🫂

[@AndSoRYou]

Hey girl, he won't leave you alone. This type of guy will swirl a long time and try to insert himself whenever feeling alone or dumped. Only thing will be ignoring his messages, friend requests,don't even bother to block. Thank you for sharing your story, we all need support!

[@ambuuurrrr5191]

Girl I needed this so bad. I’m about to write a letter to myself & let go of my bad habit, poor boundaries, old reality, old self. Literally love your channel 🥹

[@DakotaaCross]

Yessss girl do it today !!! I’m telling you it feels so uplifting and you can begin your new chapter. Thank you so much 😘❤️❤️❤️

[@bethanymarie27x]

AN HOUR AND A HALF!!! GIRL💘

[@DakotaaCross]

giving y'all the goods!! lol

[@rachelreynolds0430]

Ya. Another one of those Dakota storytimes that is so unfortunately super relatable. You are completely helping so many people and there were definitely forces that didn't want this up. Keep up the good fight 💗

[@NayaBarcelona]

I really hope he watches this and sees how stupid he looks. It’s so much easier to just be open, honest, and spare everybody’s time instead of building lie on top of lie. I hope he heals himself before marriage otherwise that girl is in for the ultimate betrayal. You’ve done so great healing yourself, keep it up! ❤️❤️❤️ You dodged a serious bullet girl.

[@DakotaaCross]

I agree. It’s so easy to be honest and open but for people like him I don’t think he will ever reach that level where he’s honest with anyone let alone himself ! And thank you SO much babe I absolutely agree dodged a huge bullet !❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@levicaviell5608]

He was definitely a narc. I’ve attracted three in a row and think I’m clued up on it then I fall for the love bomb stage again and again

[@babylex9774]

as a pisces who was born on the same day as u, i started crying at the beginning when u talked about all the transformative situations & betrayals of this year i relate to u on such a deep level! ty for all ur videos 🖤

[@babylex9774]

and when u said the guy is a cancer omg literally such similar situations it’s sooo healing to hear ur story 😭

[@DakotaaCross]

I swear being a water sign is not for the weak!!!! Lol

[@DakotaaCross]

@@babylex9774 thank you babe 🥺❤️

[@linnyroro3177]

Not all cancers are bad, my husband is a cancer and he is a wonderful person, he drives me insane some days but I know I do the same to him it’s part of marriage. I’m a Scorpio so him being a cancer is my perfect match. We are about to celebrate 19 years of marriage and trust me everyone told us from the day we decided to get married we were rushing in and it would never last because we were only together for 8 months when we got married but I got pregnant one of the first times we slept together and he was in the army and got orders to deploy to Iraq and he refused to go on that deployment without us being married because he wanted to make sure if something happened to him our son would be taken care of. He even told me that if I wanted we could always get divorced once he came home but that he wanted to make sure his child would always be taken care of if he didn’t make it home. We have 2 boys that are 18 & 16 and we are currently on our 3rd round of IVF to have a baby girl. Yes we are both crazy to be starting over when our kids are practically almost adults but it’s something I have had my heart set on for many many years and my husband told me if that was what would make me happy and fulfilled and that I was willing to put my body through the process of IVF and another pregnancy knowing how hard my pregnancies with our boys were then he was fine with it. He does joke around and tell me that he isn’t changing diapers this time around and I just give him a side eye roll and kinda laugh and say ok, I know better than that. I know once I have that baby girl she will not only have her daddy wrapped around her finger but also her 2 big brothers because they can’t wait and are both praying for twins. My husband keeps joking and telling me that he is in trouble if this round is successful because that means she will be born a Scorpio also and he isn’t sure he is ready to deal with a mini version is me. Again I just roll my eyes at him and laugh and oh trust me it’s an evil laugh too!!!

[@lonesesa]

I'm proud of you, your ability to analyze your situations and grow from them without holding on to bitterness and anger is amazing. Stay on your path!

[@DakotaaCross]

My favorite comment. Thank you so much !!!!

[@HalloweenQueen24]

You are so right! I loved my job so much but they let me go like I was nobody. All my coworkers I looked up too never thought twice about me. I used to sacrifice my sleep, time, and relationships for my job. It was all a learning experience. I appreciate the opportunity I was given. Now I'm on to my next journey. Sending prays for you and your family :)

[@DakotaaCross]

Hey guys so I did mention at the beginning of the video that I’ve spoken about this person in a storytime before ( linked in the description for those who need a refresh ) the rest of the video is new information that I found out recently but I had to recap the past story that way this one made sense. The first 20 minutes are a recap and beyond that is the new story.

[@rmw2461]

Ooohh!! I came to the comments to be like wait am I going crazy, or have I heard this before. At first I was like damn shes been in identical situations twice!

[@melisasale7359]

I’ve folllowed your videos forever from the other end of the world, and now I finally have a profile to tell you, that you are really helping others with sharing your stories, thank you for that. These ‘boys’ are worth absolutely NOTHING and I am actually sorry for the person he’s with.

[@angelagriebenow3640]

I’ve gone through this so many times and right now too. Sometimes it’s just so hard!! Watching your videos helps me a lot!!! ❤

[@crystal485]

Thank you for this, I’m balling my eyes out because I really needed to hear all of this…and just you telling us that it’s going to be okay…really helped me so much. Thank you a million times for sharing your journey, it really feels like so many of us are going through the same stuff, it’s crazy. I GOTTA PUT ME FIRST!!!!!

[@nicoletaveras3562]

We have divine feminine energy we do not chase!! I have lived a similar situation w someone who when i was single i chased and he was never “ready” but in a relationship he pops in and “checks on me” every few months & this all just made it click! Also these long story times are really getting me through my shifts, thank you! 💞

[@KayKay-ht2cd]

You are truly amazing! Everything about you is a whole vibe! ❤ thank you for sharing your story! I feel like we’ve been besties for years and that is such an amazing gift that you have!

[@mariangelacobian793]

This literally made my Saturday :) sending much love and healing prayers ❤

[@Ellebee15]

You explain him exactly like I felt about my ex.. I can still sit here and remember how I felt just being with him, so secure, so loved, words of affirmation, he sweet and thoughtful, would sneak in the bathroom to grab my towel & put it in the dryer while I was in the shower so when I got out he would hurry to hand deliver my warm towel, I would walk into our room and he would have my clothes laid out on the bed and then would rub my back.. like just everything I wanted. He didn’t cheat but there was serious things I couldn’t get past like him having a couple Kid’s he didn’t try and see and didn’t pay child support for but he was around my kid everyday and amazing to her and i just couldn’t be that girl that’s with a man that sees my kid and does things for my kid but not his own.. I still love and care about him but it’s just one of those situations where I can’t..

[@MM-ng8lj]

That's so insightful of you to see that about him. You could have easily just accepted him and how he treated you and your little, but you saw how he treated his kids too and you couldn't look past it, you could have been kind of look the other way and lived happy but you took those kids feelings into account. You sound like a really good person. It also I guess makes you see someone different that can overlook their own babies and it makes you think if it ended with you 2 how would it be especially if you had kids together. Really admire your decision 🖤

[@gracieannvela2539]

Girl!!! My eyes teared seeing the teddy bear depiction 😭❤ I was going through a hard time 6 years ago with a man who was a narcissist and that picture helped me alot. I met someone a few years after that and within 3 months we got married. 😆 We just celebrated our 5th anniversary yesterday and I could not have asked for someone better to spend life with ❤

[@yulissab7103]

Just wanna give you a big hug watching this. sending you sm love and light

[@anastasiazinnecker1855]

Hi, Dakota! I recently got dumped by a guy that I was in a very toxic relationship with and you teach me that this was a blessing in disguise. You show me that I deserved better and I'm worthy to receive the same love I give. ❤️

[@jessicahall8190]

You literally just changed my life. And I’m not easily moved girl because people say anything on this internet. Somehow your video caught my attention. First time watching. Thank you!

[@gstotoro1472]

You are so smart and so strong. Thanks for posting this.

[@tavifascomaroha8547]

I really needed to hear this right now, thank you for sharing your experience and wise words ❤

[@altagrace5485]

Love love your story times. Thank you for helping so many of us with your stories ❤

[@therealmaaa]

i never usually comment but i have to today. i relate to this whole story in so many ways. you opened my eyes to so much and you remind me of myself. our resilience, intuition and strength is our power. your videos are helping me with my healing process please never stop. you’re so amazing, i love your channel sm❤️

[@autumnperry5117]

your so beautiful Dakota you choose healing and happiness over drama 💛✨

[@DakotaaCross]

Yes ! The best journey is one free of drama ❤️❤️❤️

[@autumnperry5117]

@@DakotaaCross Amen! I love your videos ❤️❤️❤️

[@hollywood19191]

I'm not spiritual or religious at all, but I love the way you describe your journey. I very much believe in the same values and principles you do. You've spoken so well and I just want to wish you all the best!

[@mflo1531]

Im divorcing the father of my baby and it’s been so painful. Trauma bonds are incredibly real. Hoping for personal and internal closure and healing. Claiming positive energy and messages from this video. Thank you

[@xoxoanaa]

I think we all have a person like Stephen. I think we learn to live without them and with what we lived but it never fully goes away. Sending you love and hugs ❤️ xo

[@HeatherMarieKader]

This is such a good informative video. I too have dated a guy like this. I think all of us girls have. He never made sense to me. In my guy. Which I later found out he always had this one girl he supposedly love-loved and was with but he cheated on her with all these other girls and always tried to cheat on her with me. It just always felt off. He was 100 then 0 all the time. So Don’t ever delete this video. It’s such good info for young girls out there dating. Much love Dakota ♥️

[@beautythought3502]

You have inspired me so much to be vulnerable it’s so hard for me to do this but when I hear you I feel like it’s okay to be vulnerable 🥺

[@DakotaaCross]

Vulnerability is a super power !!! Use it and own it ❤️❤️❤️❤️ you got this babe

[@heathermusselman1748]

Thank you, I feel so validated! Love your sweater too!!

[@noraramos5204]

Dropping gems!! 💎 thanks girl!!! related so much! ♥

[@mnight4894]

His behavior is appalling! From what your saying he seems very selfish and insecure, taking no regard for others feelings and how his actions affect others. I feel bad for the Cassie who is engaged to someone like him who clearly is only serving himself. It's going to be a very hard and heartbreaking road for her. It's been the hardest thing for me to accept that someone I loved and cared about intentionally hurt me and doesn't care!I am sorry that we share this heartbreak! I'm sorry you had to go through this heartbreak and trauma! I hope you are able to find peace and comfort, you are truly beautiful Dakota ❤️

[@alyonavam9040]

Girls like Dakota always appeal to the “decent” part of the personality of the guy that they think exists, but it just does not. She has been an emotional place holder for a self proclaimed “victim” who posts soppy messages on Facebook how other people “wrong” him. Dakota obviously gets something from this too. She gets to be special and the “saviour” . Classic karpman’s drama triangle. Then when he doesn’t want her she becomes a victim and he’s a villain. None of these roles are healthy and Dakota really needs to ask herself why she goes for men that don’t completely choose her. What does she get from wanting to “win them”. She describes all the little “signs” she reads into, little “nice things” he did to show he cares… at the same time she knows this very well the guy isn’t completely into her, because if he was she wouldn’t need to “read signs” or ask if he “really wants it”. She’d be asking herself if it’s enough for her. This whole situationship she lives in her head. But it’s not about the other person, how they treat her and what they do or do not say. It’s about whether that’s acceptable for her. And if yes, then why?

[@CCALBS]

Your have a great channel from your story with Adrian I started following you. I’ve started listening to this story now I’m sure it will be good 😅 also I think that narcs target certain ppl - good ppl so no doubt you could have heaps in your life, it would be no surprise 😊 “he’s like a fking tornado” 😂

[@anjelicacastillo8059]

@Dakota You have helped me HEAL so much and learn to get more into energy reading and protecting my peace. Letting things go without closure and being bitter or spiteful! I'm in such a much better place now and i thank you for it. The healer in me feels like i need to help people now because it's truly exhilarating . We've been through some similar situations and you helped me open my eyes to ALOT Thank you!!

[@deonnaflanagan7632]

Beautiful story, beautiful lesson and beautiful women. Thank you, Dakota. It takes a lot go through something like this, and it takes even more to post it on the internet for us to learn from. Love you!!

[@DakotaaCross]

Tysm for the support my love !💕

[@MsCherryOnTop12]

Aw Dakota 💕💕 thank you so much for these videos… youre getting me through tough times aswell.. much happiness and healing to you girl !! God always got us 💛💫✨

[@mimigarza4668]

Dakota over here spoiling us with a whole ass lifetime movie. So here for it 🍿🍷

[@DakotaaCross]

LMAO PERIOD !!!!

[@AshleyRenee3787]

Wow! Crazy. I'am sorry he treated you like that you deserve the absolute best for yourself and your daughter! ✨️

[@DakotaaCross]

I dodged a bullet for sure ! And thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️

[@jleticia]

dakota you speak so beautifully 🤍 literal chills ✨✨

[@victoriaxbeck]

RIGHT. my favorite thing about her.

[@DakotaaCross]

Thank you 🥺❤️

[@DakotaaCross]

@@victoriaxbeck you’re so sweet ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@SE_0929]

Love you girl. I came to like and comment but imma save this to watch as I cook later 😘

[@DakotaaCross]

Love you more !! Thank you for the support

[@katg9361]

Hey D, think the thing that stings more than anything is that they were meant to be your best friend. It hurts so much when you think or are made to think it’s your problem they treated you the way that they did. It’s so lovely to watch you grow and grow in self love. I hope you and your darling daughter are ok xx much love xx ❤

[@laylagordon5243]

I’m sitting here watching this and realizing that this is the exact situation I’ve been in since October of 2020. This has opened my eyes and made me think really hard. Its crazy that someone can go thru something and i can relate 1,000% i just wanna say thank you for sharing this and i will never forget it. This video really helped me realize stuff that i was completely blind about. I thought i knew everything but i guess I didn’t considering i found out so much more about him that i thought i already knew. The way you felt is exactly how I FEEL, and the way he acted is exactly the way my ex ACTS, but i just really wanted to thank you bc your videos have helped me thru a lot, especially this one. This one really made realize and didn’t just go thru one ear and out the other like the others ones have. They made me think but I never actually tried to change anything or do anything about my situation. Twin flames are the absolute worst heartbreaks to go thru and that’s the path im on rn. I can’t wait till i learn everything that i need to and can just move on from all this this and put it in my past PERMANENTLY. Btw im super proud at how far you came and it sounds weird saying that coming from a 16 year old to an adult. I really appreciate you sharing everything with us. I’m sure it means alot to every single one of us

[@DakotaaCross]

Ugh my heart aches for you. I had a separation with my twin flame last year and it took me a full year to heal and recover properly. It’s painful but life separated you because you deserve better. He’s not on his healing journey yet and he’s not on your level so it’s not your fault at all it’s his because he hasn’t walked his path yet. You will find better because you are better. I’m sending you so much love and healing energy and thank you SO much for this comment because sweet words like this are what allow me to realize what I’m doing is making a difference ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LifewithSerena0323]

❤❤❤did such an amazing job just winging this video. Love this vibe you got going. So authentic and empathetic to listen to your stories. You are on 🔥

[@DakotaaCross]

Thank you 🥺❤️ I love being unscripted !!!!!

[@MaiaMatiIda]

I live for these videos! Proud of you!

[@nicoleavery7238]

Everytime I watch one of your videos you make me remember my power ❤️

[@DakotaaCross]

Thank you so much 🥺❤️ what an amazing compliment

[@evette2946]

The fact that he hid all this from you. Honestly. Who knows if the fiancé is choosing to be blind, or if she truly didn’t know- but I hope God does her a favor and shows her who he truly is. He called her a ROOMMATE and diminished her to nothing for years. Just like the way you found out the truth and are healing for the better- I kind of hope the same thing happens for her too. He doesn’t deserve any woman let alone a wife 😒.

[@Cinnie-Cyn]

I completely understand the crappy feeling of having someone treat you like this. I’m so sorry this happened to you. When this happened to me I was so hard on myself for not listening to my instinct, I fell so hard in love I literally turned a blind eye to ALL the red flags, it sucked so bad.

[@fidezramirez3144]

Dakota, I have learned a lot from you and thank you so much ☺️. 💞💞❤️❤️

[@gabbyjones9941]

You are so beautiful & I know soon you are going to find someone that matches your energy , and heart 💛 they will match your loyalty & treat you like a queen for the rest of your life. I love watching/ listening to your story times. ❤

[@sage8929]

Just by the way you talk I can tell you’re so strict and firm with your daughter about the things that matter but youre still totally loving and accepting. Wish you were my mom lol.

[@DakotaaCross]

That’s my parenting style in a nutshell !!! Lmao

[@sage8929]

@@DakotaaCross that’s something to be proud of ❤️

[@Ellebee15]

Men are so weird.. it’s like sometimes they don’t care while you’re single but when you start talking to someone they care. It’s like they don’t necessarily want to be in the relationship but they don’t want to see you with someone else

[@DakotaaCross]

That part!! It’s an underdeveloped part of them that’s crying for help. Constant validation is not normal

[@SadGirlsRUs]

Finally 😭😭😭 I was waiting since yesterday for this to be posted

[@DakotaaCross]

Ugh I had so many complications girl almost lost the whole video lmao

[@SadGirlsRUs]

@@DakotaaCross nooo it’s the fucking eclipse it’s fucking with everyone 🥺

[@carmenarce966]

Damn Dakota , not you making me shed tears while doing groceries 😢 your words are really hitting my soul. Thank you so much for your videos. Love you always ♥️🥺

[@MakeupbyRocky]

This story sounds like my ex 🙃 I didn’t realize how bad he was until my current healthy relationship and we are almost 3 years in so i really realized a lot

[@DakotaaCross]

I can’t wait for that moment !! To be in a healthy relationship and realize that I didn’t have to put up with what I use to !!

[@claire2.097]

This guy's behaviour is very very much like a narcissist's. they have no compassion, no actual soul if I may put it so (but they are good at faking emotions). They prey on your emotions, mostly bad, they start a relationship with a 'sugar show' , then they make you feel miserable and when you're out of energy they 'discard' you, but they never give up on you completely and continue to 'ping' you from time to time, to see if you recovered for them to return and prey on your emotions for some more time. And they always have a 'harem' of women, his fiance is also his victim, he got back with her to suck her out (maybe she recovered from their previous break up, pr maybe she is a fresh one), and continued to 'ping' you at the same time. You should block him everywhere and go on with your life feeling nothing for him. Any slightest chance for a narcissist to contact you is bad for you

[@laislk1359]

you’re always spoiling us girl!!! 1,5h🤩

[@DakotaaCross]

whole documentary loll!!! love you guys

[@lalizzle]

We act just alike & we’re both Pisces !!! Love you love love you 🥺💕💕

[@DakotaaCross]

Ahhhh when’s your birthday !???? And love you !!!!!

[@lalizzle]

@@DakotaaCross 2/25!!!! 💕💕💕💕💖

[@itty.bittypretty2019]

I’m so proud of your mindset and mental actions ❤ your glowing Dakota god is working on you and we can all see it man I can’t wait to get on your level with god and so on your helping so many girl

[@Lovelyjas333]

How did I know you were a Pisces!! OMG ❤️subscribed 😀

[@DakotaaCross]

Biggest compliment ever thank you 🥺❤️

[@Lovelyjas333]

@@DakotaaCross us Pisces get each other 🥹

[@krystalwithak2889]

There was definitely certain things in this video I needed to hear. ❤️

[@transitionsnc]

This is quite a story. I get the betrayal, especially from a friend. I'm sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately, some people are energy vampires and they thrive off the emotional energy you are giving them. His family is a bunch of enablers. They had to have known. He was projecting (re: loyalty) with his Instagram posts. I think some men just like to play out different facets of themselves with different women.

[@trinityy_breighannaa]

I always love your storytimes Dakota. ❤

[@brittanyc2965]

She’s somewhere saying “social media doesn’t define a relationship thats why he doesn’t post me” When they argue he comes to you with the “we would’ve been married” nonsense

[@DakotaaCross]

Lmfao so accurate ❤️😭😂

[@boiguhtz]

there are so many beautiful quotes that I will take to heart in this video. I appreciate you sharing this experience with the world 🫶🏻☀️✨

[@britneyramirez196]

I feel like we dated the same guy 💔 sending you love! you’re helping me heal.

[@Marissxworld]

It’s the consistency for me 💗

[@DakotaaCross]

Trying 😂❤️

[@zunairafaiz372]

your lipstick looks REALLY pretty

[@jibrijenkins1860]

This isn’t funny but omg this is the type of guy that would get married, have kids, then be like it should’ve been you 😢

[@DakotaaCross]

No but for real Lmao

[@annabalentine9304]

I love when she makes long videos.

[@Hearts_Keeper_]

I really needed to hear this ❤

[@DakotaaCross]

I’m so glad ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mzschocolatediva]

Omg, cancers ♋️ are the worst. I have never had a good experience with them, and I'm an aquarius ♒️ , my love sign is a leo ♌️ and I have him. He is the best we are engaged now. I love him so much. We’ve been together going on 4 years and still going strong. I can say he is the best I have had. I love him flaws and all, and he feels the same. However, listening to your stories, I have been there more than I like to admit. I'm praying you find true love and brings you so much happiness and joy and love you and your daughter forever and ever and put a ring on it. You are deserving of true love and happiness.

[@opulenttinglesasmr789]

Omg… anytime the guy that has had ample opportunity to commit, meet up, make his presence known in your life gets mad when you eventually move on and meet someone new yourself: RED FLAG. That’s the typical, I don’t want you - but I also don’t want anyone else to want you either!!!!

[@DakotaaCross]

Absolutely !

[@annberlin5811]

Some advice from an old lady date guys with money. They are all jerks

[@heldikkk20]

i was 28 (32 right now) when i met my fiance. the thing about him was that at first he didn’t give me butterflies and i thought that he’s not the one… but we continued talking and dating and slowly but surely i fell deep in love. right now we have two adorable daughters and about to get married💖 i really hope that 28 is the age for you as well, Dakota, when you meet your future husband🥰 (sorry if my grammar is a miss, because English isn’t my first language😄 and I live in Estonia where we speak Estonian😁) Anyways… Love your videos, Dakota!!!🙏🏻🥰

[@DakotaaCross]

Yes ! This is what I’ve been telling myself. Butterflies are your body’s way of warning you that this man is not for you. When you meet the person you’re suppose to be with it’s suppose to be a safe and calm feeling !! And wow what a testimony. This will give me and many other women hope so thank you ! And thank you for your kind words my love. I appreciate you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@heldikkk20]

@@DakotaaCross thank you for replying🥰❤️🙏🏻 you are one of my favourite youtubers and it means a lot that you replied🥰🥰🥰

[@strongwoman2668]

Keep this clown 🤡 out of your life!!!! If you deal with him you could end up with S.T.Ds you can't get rid of or something that can kill you!! You're a beautiful girl don't let him emotional heath or physical health!!! Stay true to you!! Hugs 🤗

[@Kelz-u8r]

I'm not American so i honestly don't understand the concept of seeing a guy and not being in a relationship and then hurting yourself and your soul when you realise he's just using you... To all my ladies, if you wanna keep things casual w a man, make sure you can handle it first and expect no relationship type commitment, AND make sure you don't hold him accountable for whatever he does behind your back. If you don't want all of this trauma, set your boundaries and get into a relationship so you can hold the guy responsible if he fucks up. Please.

[@lalaa8653]

The man that marries you one day is gonna be so lucky 💕

[@DakotaaCross]

Thank you so much this is an amazing compliment 😭❤️❤️❤️

[@Alexiax13]

I’m so glad you know your worth and you knew you had to cut these people off to grow even more! Sorry side note but I have to ask where that sweater is from it’s beautiful just like you! 😊❤

[@TheTravelworm]

That guy is a narcissist. He pulls you in and then withdraws.. he finds power in that. Very manipulative.

[@aritrisengupta6781]

Early bird here!! I just love your storytimes😘..love you from India🌼..keep growing..and gurl we loveeeee longer videos 😍😍😅😅

[@DakotaaCross]

thank you babe !!!! love you guys so much and I agree long story times are so much better!!!!

[@aritrisengupta6781]

@@DakotaaCross 😘😘

[@blossomalchemy]

I went through something similar except it was sexual and it lasted 5 years. You’re so mature beyond years and I’m so grateful I found your videos because I needed to hear all this so THANK YOU! I know this was probably hard and really nerve wracking for you but I am SO appreciative. I really hope I get to this point in my journey as you have. I start therapy tomorrow. ❤

[@zhanehoward4699]

My ex was exactly the same! Living a double life but posting all these quotes about love and relationships. It’s ridiculous 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ladychaos91374]

This is why I'm not dating anyone anymore I'm working on my self and getting me right because like you said it's not fair to treat other people for bs they didn't do

[@w1ldsvlog72]

I had a Steven too and I felt so guilty when I place a boundary, asked him to stop talking to me and then he kept texting me like 🤯 after letting myself down and answering him and hanging out with him again I blocked him. I have cried too much to keep going through that. Listening to you, I don’t feel so alone. Thank you 🥹❤️

[@stephaniebrooks8044]

It's a learning lesson. We've all been there. His loss.🙂

[@lupeonofre_]

I starting crying when you said you know your husband is coming next. I was on & off with someone for a long time but never official he made me think he had all this trauma he had to deal with, just to find out years later that the whole time I was the side piece he would run to when things weren't good with his gf. I remember the night before I found out I had a dream that he gave me a ring that kept falling off & I kept gripping to it. I knew something was gonna come out & yep the girl messaged me in the morning. I stayed single single for 2 years, after that I reconnected with an old crush & its truly the best relationship I've ever been in to the point that I would cry on my drives home because I wasn't use to being treated so good. I KNOW your husband is coming & he's gonna be amazing like you!

[@bitznpieces330]

GIRL GIRL GIRL! I’ve been on and off with this guy… long story short 😭 I needed to hear this video!

[@TheMorenaLand]

New subscriber here ❤️ thank you for sharing!!!

[@ediealejandrarubalcava1398]

Early !!!❤ i love you !!!

[@DakotaaCross]

love you moreee!!!!

[@sierraforever2954]

I feel like God is using you ❤ Thank you for sharing your story 😊

[@DakotaaCross]

Thank you so much 🥹❤️❤️

[@viktorijaangena6494]

Dakota, I hope you see this ! I do not know why I got this video on my suggestions , but this is the first video I saw from you and from now on, I am your fan. You are so , so smart , you gave me a life time knowledge and believe it or not , but my now husband was flirting with another girl while I was engaged with him. Honestly , I can not thank you enough. Love you !

[@lucemaillet630]

The in and out of the freezer metaphor is good.

[@IAmOneFastBunny]

Love your videos! ❤

[@DakotaaCross]

Thank you babe ❤️

[@transitionsnc]

Beautiful analogy with the teddy bear.

[@nicoleisvegan653]

I needed this… thank you. Exact same situation almost.