He won't open his mouth.Please help my dad speak up.[Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.04.23]

[@Riding_Rogue]

Eric: what does your family mean to you? The father: we must live together Me: **flips a table**

[@sophiabrh5626]

Cute Baozi Xiumin LMAO same

[@afiqueamirule5772]

Your dad come & see the flipped table: "you're grounded for another year"

[@bubblyfanfics8839]

@@afiqueamirule5772 but he doesn't talk and if he said that its a miracle

[@blueboots-san]

It is a miracle the marriage lasted this long. All of them deserve better, wow.

[@v.e.y9887]

zackbennett333 This is so random comment, but wow your photo profile! Nishinoya~❤

[@somethingpark]

Sometimes when my father speaks you'll just wish he close his mouth coz he's either speaking nonsense or something really infuriating 😂

[@MeloTda]

Something Park Same here 😂😂

[@lauremayisengele884]

Same

[@vlee7025]

my dad will say do as i say u dunno about anything

[@soshimhan8050]

Something Park my dad too. But I'd rather have him being talkative than this one. It's just frustrating.

[@jazzycat2990]

Something Park is your dad my mom?

[@beno7581]

I could listen to flowsik talking for dayyyyys his voice is so charming ❤️

[@debbinskiii3781]

I'm sorry but how do you even find someone like that attractive enough to marry? He's never told his daughters "I love you" and he's never done something romantic for his wife. Wtf is that??? I'm soo confused

[@nou4716]

Radiant Melanin if they had kids in pretty sure they did have something romantic going on

[@Gabrosoft]

no u probably not very ‘romantic’ tho

[@namjoonstiddies9429]

@@nou4716 i-

[@creampuffisme]

For the "i love you", asians tends to be awkward to express love through words.. it's usually act of service or anything else

[@coldfrenchfry5181]

It might be something wrong with him. I think he says he doesn't talk at home only, right? It might be a superstitious thing.

[@sbjo]

Omg Flowsick!!!! so adorable!!!!

[@blackandwhitechannel5312]

Flowsik and Killagramz looks cute ! I wish can see them in a lot of variety show

[@lindatttao319]

i love the new studio but have to say i miss the old one too

[@agnieszkaagnes]

Me too :(

[@MzCelticsChik9]

I didn’t notice

[@sshdontdisturb]

And taejoon, too. ☹️

[@taniang123]

vibecakes me neither 😂

[@kookiemilkshake6099]

Phuong Thanh same

[@IamJHlover]

“Did Lee Yeongja cook for you?” And her reaction after that though lmao

[@RawrEXP]

I’ve loved flowsik for a long time and I’ve never seen him this freaking adorable

[@defiantaichi]

Bringing back something Dong yeop said a couple of episodes ago, when an immature person marries a mature one it’s very difficult to make it work. Mature works better with mature and vice versa. Unfortunately Asian societies don’t explore that

[@nou4716]

Sincerely Defiant don’t opposites attract lol

[@defiantaichi]

Tete Cortez maturity and immaturity are disjoint. Not opposites. Opposites would be a quiet guy and a boisterous girl. Both can be mature or immature. Theres a difference between being childlike while being cute and being straight up ridiculous and thinking like a child. He doesn’t want to talk cause he has nothing to say? He won’t quit drinking cause he likes it? What is he 5?

[@winteryash]

Sincerely Defiant you're right haha, you described my mom and dad right 😂 my dad gets upset even at the pettiest things meanwhile my mom doesn't get all of it since she doesn't want to make big fuss about things 😂

[@iknowfacebutidontknowname3428]

Flowsik is so adorable OH MA GAWD SQUISHY

[@rikadiestro7122]

i cant even stand not talking to my parents for an hour!

[@kellybelly1004]

I think there might be some hurt from his childhood. Looking at his age, he probably came from a family where he was just told what to do. I want to say that he may be one of the younger ones in his family. Probably afraid he will say the wrong thing/ask the wrong question which will lead to the family disrespecting him as the head of the household. All this is conjecture since the MCs don't ask the hard questions but that os a given since its a variety show...just so curious of the facts of his life that has been repressed

[@abidas1938]

I think you may be right or he may have had a developmental condition in which he struggled to develop social skills. When asked for why he didn't give a reason a he seemed to have no idea why that was necessary. There certain amount of social skill that needs to be developed to have such an understanding. This is why is crucial to ensure that adequate psychological intervention for adults and children so they and their families can live a happier life.

[@wingedbunny6211]

That’s what I was thinking! Everyone in the comments are saying he’s a terrible person but honestly he probably has some anxiety about speaking or something that prevents him from having full communication skills.

[@abidas1938]

WingedBunny Exactly ! I wish they had an actual professional, the MCs are good but they don’t have the correct training to deal with this.

[@xLoveeAnimalsx]

No, he speaks fine with his friends. He just doesn’t find his family interesting enough to talk to them.

[@purrgundy]

dream maybe does he speak well with friends because of alcohol?

[@wingedbunny6211]

Honestly I feel bad for the father as well. I think this is a clear case of some sort of anxiety about speaking to his family. It may have been something in the past that made him uncertain or just sometimes being a dad you feel disconnected from your daughters and wife. Of course, there are some things he could work on, but I think it’s just from not knowing when to speak what. As he said, he doesn’t know how to express himself.

[@NeiCybDaiiShHH]

I was thinking something similar. More along the lines of something being neurologically wrong though. When they ask him questions half the time it looks like he wants to speak, but it looks like the brain is telling his mouth not to move and he’s battling that out. I could be wrong though.

[@LafaelNaim]

I'm the same, it's very hard for me to communicate with other, even speaking with my my family, cousin and friends is a bit hard and uncomfortable. Ppl always ask me weird questions like "Are you looking down on me?" "Why are you so quiet?" "You're naive, no?" But it's not funny at all. I'm like this since I was born, so envy ppl who can speak freely which is not me.

[@Wazzup25]

Lafael Naim I can relate, because of that I don’t have a close relationship with my family, especially my mom.

[@Anasyub]

im a very awkward person but atleast i try...this dude doesnt bother with his family....the least he can do the least is just answer to them instead of commanding them like try to start a convo or just instead of talking just spend time with them even thats fine honestly

[@greyrose6097]

6:42 I know this is a serious topic, but I love the expression on the girl on the left

[@thamisoares8437]

I can't handle Flowsik's cutness

[@smilez.k1762]

They should have had a few of his friends on the show to also comment on his personality when he's with them. I believe he has a very introverted personality

[@ohhimark6864]

My dad is the total opposite lmao XD He be like "how's school? how's your friend? was lunch delicious? did you have fun? did you eat a lot today? do you have homework? are you running out of money? are you okay?" He cared a lot about my mom too. He drives her everywhere and always wait for her happily and rarely complains. My grandfather (mom's side) fell ill and my grand parent's house is far away from our house but my dad drives my mom to my grand parent's house many times in one day. When she said he can just wait for her at home he said he feels better driving her and make sure she's safe too. When my mom got sick and had to stay in the hospital he stayed with my mom and works on his computer. He drives from the hospital to pick us up to visit mom when she's asleep and drive us home later when she is asleep again. My mom always told me every time she opens her eyes my dad is always in the room and it's like me and my brother just teleport there lol. The only similarity is he got pissed easily, he was pissed at me for watching aquaman with my bestie instead of with him and my mom... another time I went on a shopping date with my mom and my dad got pissed that we left them with my lil brother. I later found out that my lil brother was playing computer game and didn't really spend time with dad so he's pissed. uwu my dad is so precious T_T P.S. Eric Nam's future wive and children are the luckiest people ever TAT

[@AbhishekKumar-vf3ig]

You got nice dad 😊

[@gabrielabhaktirasaveiskate4785]

Feels like the father is shy and when doesn’t say anything, thinks what to say for a very long time. I actually understand him..

[@kartikarambe9492]

Flowsik💞💞

[@cozyreader]

I try to think why her mother married her father. But I just can't find any good reason. And how they have two daughters, if they even don't talk? What he did? Came to home, said "Honey" and went to bedroom? 😂

[@shanaynayokeil6553]

Liv :3 loooool omg i am thinking the same. I bet he grabbed her by the hand and didn't even say "honey". He went straight to business. Eww i am getting goosebumps thinking about it. Like how did they date and all?

[@yudiss_martaputra]

sometimes action is more important than words

[@cozyreader]

yudistira marta putra This is true, you are right. But his actions did not existed. He did not said to his daughters, or wife that he love them, he did not remember about birthday of his wife but expect that she will. So for about 20 years he did almost nothing. He don't wanted to talk in home just because.

[@cozyreader]

Shanaynay O'keil I have no idea o.O . He did not even proposed to her, so I don't know how everything happend between them. She said that she married him, because he followed her... I don't even know what to say about that. She did not said "Oh, I married him, because he was so handsome", not even because of pregnant. Just because he followed her 😳. She had not reason. I just have no idea 😮

[@yudiss_martaputra]

Liv :3 maybe, he is not a romantic person. just a reguler guy..

[@l3nz553]

Killagramz is so cute, like I reckon he would give the best hugs.

[@junnie1297]

Eric: What does your family mean to you? Me: *waits for a heartfelt comment by him about how much he cares for his family* Father: We must live together Me: *throws PC out of the window* that's enough internet for today

[@bbluvly2111]

So excited to see Killahgramz, and Flowsik on variety.

[@kibumisnotamused7]

imma need updates on how this father is progressing after the show. his daughters and wife deserve all the love and affection they can get :(

[@sanakizaki7044]

Nothing is resolved for me, I feel terrible that they might never divorce. That woman deserves better.

[@nou4716]

sanakizaki they said they weren’t married

[@sanakizaki7044]

Tete Cortez didn't the daughter mention getting divorce

[@thelastmoonchild.]

sanakizaki yes they're married. The mom said she married him because he followed her around, and that he talked a bit more when they dated. The wife asked him multiple times after fights if he wanted a divorce but he never answered. Idk what that person is on about, but you're right. They ARE indeed married.

[@e.a.1548]

This situation is just calling for a divorce, I have never seen such a careless dad, honestly what he said at the end didn't even seem honest. I wish the best for the girls and the mother, life can be so unfair...

[@nou4716]

I think he just doesn’t know how to express himself and his feelings to his family very well. I hate how everyone in the comments are acting like they know him off of just a few minutes of talking And this could have also been a fake story. How would they have dated and have kids without talking????

[@wingedbunny6211]

Tete Cortez I kept thinking he might have anxiety or autism or something that prevents him front having full communication skills.

[@jinnylee223]

I disagree. I think he just has very strong patrichal mentality and doesnt respect his family at all. He has no problem comminicating with people outside and he kept saying he doesnt want to be around women (referring to his wife and his daughters). Maybe he is a very selfish gay.

[@idees19]

Flowsik ❤😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤

[@princessleai]

Woah he’s more quiet than me, but I react the same way around my family especially when I don’t want to talk. Introversion is a real thing, I dislike when people force me to talk.

[@mgmmj6664]

@DragonLady XD yes me too but i can talk much easier with strangers its strange right?

[@donnarodney8770]

Flowsik had me dead with his English and such bro he kills me ughhhhhhh

[@gothmeow8133]

idk why but he sounded like rapmonster from Bts to me i might be deaf or something

[@csoniah4432]

To me it seems more like he treats his family as slaves like they are just there for when he needs them and just got married because that's what everyone does at some point in their life . He doesn't seem to care much about them which is sad because his family cares so much about him and I'm really curious about why the wife decided to marry him . I'm sure there's much more than just " he followed me so i married him" in their story.

[@Kurakura264]

flowsik♥️🔥

[@elleinfj1998]

Every time my dad opens his mouth and makes a joke i slowly die on the inside.

[@oceanstaiga5928]

COMMUNICATION IS KEY

[@lolasmith8607]

flowsick is soooo cute

[@pariyarashidi3011]

"He followed me around so i married him"

[@crazzee247]

This is an EXACT reason that KBS needs to have REAL professionals on standby to speak to these families. As much as the panel can give their opinion, and its funny when they make it light, some of these situations require professional help, REGARDLESS of culture or whatever. You have a show that asks people to air their laundry, the least KBS could do is provide them with some professional advice!

[@yonghuicarey4974]

안녕하세요~^^ 아침마다 출근 준비하며 즐겁게 재미있게 시청하고 있습니다🫶🏼넘 ~제치 있고 스마트 하게 프로그램을 이끌어 가시는 게 훌륭하셔요.👏💕

[@lizanah]

Flowsik!!!

[@yk7948]

The wife seemed so nice though I feel really bad for her

[@btsilovebts7337]

Tbh the flowsik’s voice sounds like RM 🤣👏🏻💜❤️

[@garyflooks2778]

I feel for the wife and daughters, my father is the same...no communication...This guy won't change...likely he had no love or communication from his parents, creating a legacy....very sad...

[@teklevanishvili1206]

i think he has problems with talking . movements of his mouth and also shaking voice ...he must be really shy or has difficulties with talking idk

[@manu8926]

The older daughter seems a really nice girl I hope the situation to become better for her happiness. And killagramz was right the father should make something to drink less. If he crave alcohol everyday it means he is on a dangerous road..if you feel that you absolutely need that something and cannot decrease assumption...man thats addiction. And addicted people deep inside feel sorry about it and start to distancing themselves from they family ecc.

[@r.e4784]

You can't choose your family and you can't throw them away, you think you should bear if they broke your heart. I know it's really worst problem in our life . Cause you can't give up on them because they are your family... So always i envy who have warm and well negotiated family

[@federicanapoletanoo1813]

This is the funniest episode of hello Counselor that I’ve ever watched ahahhahaha

[@SagePearls]

Seems like he is upset about not having a son

[@Nothing-iz6hw]

Why everyone here in the comment sections is so easy to judge the father? I mean you can't judge him just because he act like that, i mean you didn't know what he has been through in the past 😭

[@sage577]

This is kinda like my family, my mom never says I love you and she is never thankful or sorry.

[@ema8218]

chim chim some times we have a hard time expressing out feelings. Its probably why ur mother doesnt say those words. But u should know thats probably how she feels. She loves u. She is thankful. But sometimes for some people its hard to express their feeling.

[@sage577]

Kpop lover Mhm I understand, I’m sorry if I seemed rude... but it sometimes doesn’t feel like it by how she acts.

[@ema8218]

chim chim no no. U didnt seem rude at all dont worry. I understand how u feel.

[@MerissaYasmina]

my mom like that too. until now. even when im little my mom always hit me if im wrong or banging my head against the wall when she's angry. But when im growing up i know my mom always save her money for my education. even she never gave money for some snack in school but i know she's saving for my university and another class beside school cz my dad can't save money. You will know your parents love you when you're growing old and know how it feel become parents. I'm not a parents right know but i realize my mom's tired. There's a pressure to raise a child and cleaning home, cooking etc. that's make them lost control. but, cz i feel that harrashment since im little i dont want to do that to my child someday. cz i know that hurt feelings. But for right know my mom make me strong n learn more about life n love. sorry for my bad english, i hope you understand n love your mom more cz someday you will be parent too.

[@letsseewhatwecanlearn9242]

Im an introvert and i need my space i have my own problems and dont like talking to people much, and it can be annoying because the world moves so fast and i just wanna not talk

[@yukikanegawa7470]

They should ignore him and treat him like he treats them since he doesn't make an effort they shouldn't either treat him like a ghost he'll either feel pressured into speaking or become more distant which i don't think would make much of a difference

[@stellapebblenunie1137]

he is frustrating as hell yes! Every character of each one of us has a story how it develops.he needs to open up that to his family so that they will understand.

[@bananamonkeyallergy]

wow this situation kinda feels somewhat like my family, but the only diff is now that im older, i no longer fear my dad anymore, i just either talk back/shout at him asking him to chill tf down, or ignore his tantrums. i know whatever i say or do will not change his temper, so idec anymore, even in public i will try to "educate" my dad by telling him to control his temper. i think my younger brother is worse tho, whenever my parents hit him, he will retaliate by hitting them back. (and he's only 11 years old) this is what happens to children who grow up in 'terrorizing' environment, they can either become weak and have no self confidence, or become one like their parents as well. seems like we are the latter. no children should grow up in such an environment. really hope such parents go for counselling sessions to control themselves. being unable to control your temper is a mental disorder, and it affects the ppl around you. the world does not revolve around your temper. slowly later in your life, when you realize your ill temper has chased away all your loved ones, you will regret so much, but you cannot turn the clock backwards.

[@우명희-b8q]

THEY RLY GOT KG AND FLOWSIK I HAVE WAITED FOR THIS SHIT

[@n.syawaniebtmohamadzaini5250]

is not that father fault but some people their mind a bit slow to structure the sentences, he not bad person people around him must understand it, the things is korean tend to be sellfish like just somethings happened are wrong to them, can they positive to each other.... find the ways to make him laugh or anything he like then he will talk slowly and mybe close to them ,sorry my english

[@memedaddyjb3396]

Another video from my favorite show 🤗

[@Sha-mw6dv]

But I'm here because of JayFlowsik♥🌸

[@진지충-l3l]

I can only come to the conclusion that he truly doesn't love his family.

[@wingedbunny6211]

진지충 Wow that’s an extreme solution. What if he doesn’t know how to love his family? What if he’s anxious about if he says the wrong thing and that’s why he’s so quiet?

[@진지충-l3l]

WingedBunny lol your hysterical. He says he have never shown basic appreciation to his family. Saying thank you and I love you isnt that hard if you truly love an individual, kiddo. And even if its not with words he could have shown his affection towards the family by staying at the hospital while his wife was sick. Leaving becuase he felt uncomfortable because there was only women around? Gtfo of here with that bullsht.

[@hathai4207]

Honestly, do you even watch the whole thing? He goes out and has fun with his friends everyday, he said that his friends even said that he was talkative. HOW IS THAT HAVING PROBLEM WITH TALKING BY ANY MEAN? His daughters ask him very basic questions. Which food you prefer is not a rocket-science type of question, how wrong can you answer that? If you love someone, you will respect them and care for them, even if you don't know how to tell them, they can still feel it. Look at how his daughters and wife cry and tell me that they can feel his love for them.

[@chrissyshae]

I feel like for a lot of people in order to be seen as someone with their lives “put together” they get married even if they don’t really want to but just to check off that box of what parents and peers expect of them. I’m just wondering that based off the way he said “I must live with them”. Even if he had some type of anxieties around talking I’m not sure if getting married was very smart if you knew you weren’t going to be able to talk with your future kids

[@ifzarawasreallyweird]

would ya look at that its my daddy flowsik

[@sitisalwabintirosli1903]

My father like this...he never congratulate me for my exam results, ,,when i ask my mother help me to talk to my father because i want to work( i am 13 ) my mom don't want to help me cause she know he never answer untill she ask many time😅😂😂 but I'm ok

[@christinefernandez4616]

I think he is just scared that he might say something that will hurt the girls since he is the only man in the house, maybe he is scared to get misunderstood and cause into a fight so he just chose not to speak.

[@starcatcher9698]

flowsickk

[@jijae2241]

"I feel like Im talking to a wall" reminds me of Mark from Got7 lol

[@minnimousy1996]

To conclude, he is a big baby(as the show mentioned) who want people to be attentive to his needs w/o saying nothing, and that man is superior thn women(what is that mindset)? What is there to be embarassed to stay with your sick wife?

[@zeroinfinity8975]

i cant stand when people dont answer me when im talking nicely bc once i get mad and raise my voice they say im rude and shit ㅠㅠ

[@screamthename_1772]

"He followed me around, so I married him" Oh, so u basically married your stalker.

[@_599_3]

1:12 his voice reminds me of rap monster

[@dkdkmkn]

Title should be "2018 Most Frustrated EP"

[@geiotj]

Eric!!!!!!!!!!

[@sylwaninn]

That's exactly what my father does. Drink a lot but never talk to us only fo commands

[@Nevermorepicker]

They should just ignore the father.

[@kpopismylifey569]

I watch this because I saw flowsik in the thumbnail

[@nixx1233]

When are they gonna release new videos?

[@ajbear9534]

uhhhh....... im speechless........ burned up inside!!

[@aparnavattipalli7409]

3:05 did I hear JIMIN ?!

[@de24nizelicious]

I think his problem was more like ever since his daughters grew old enough, they may have unintentionally started being close with their mum like the 3 musketeers. Unknowingly, they may have sided with each other & put him down, that's why he mentioned a few times, they are all women. Already feeling inferior, he met with the accident which made it worst. P.S "Its just my personal observation."

[@ashessss]

Her father sometimes like my father but sometimes i just like her father. I just dont feel like saying anything 😅😅

[@donnarodney8770]

Watching this I was like I’m like him I don’t really speak at home, then I continued watching and saw how terrible he is and said naw I’m nothing like him I just don’t wanna talk at home cause I got nothing to say and I’m shy and when someone talks to me I talk and conversation he just clearly is rude and doesn’t care about them at all but himself

[@laurentucker743]

I don't know why but Eric reminds me alot of GOT7's Jinyoung for somewhat reason 😂

[@aneladonesa2404]

i guess there's something that happened during his childhood that makes him act like that today but idk

[@herchannel1355]

They didn't even asked about his past or childhood, about his trauma, how he was treated in his family before married, there must be basic reason why he doesn't like to talk. And most of all....The strange about this program is no professional like psychologist involved. At least one. So, sometime i feel...is that really happened? Are they not actors? How come u be able to come to a show when u know lot people will be pointing at you? In the end it's only about to find which is the more craziest story.

[@widyaajeng5459]

Can you add indonesia subtitle please

[@kikak5820]

Their problem.sounds crazy. But i think thts serious. Your the father. You should lead the family, and it starts in good communication. But I Think He's a good father, its just that he hates explaining and talking and all that.

[@dadagain1612]

Ohhhhh...kaede Rukawa is real....😱😱😱😱

[@dayhop3257]

it might just take him a minute to process things, he is older, so it could be mental, idk

[@erikahudson5951]

Esto es como el diario de Patrícia pero sin gritos y peleas

[@RandomPerson-gy7oe]

This show would've been more credible if they also invited a doctor to be their host and maybe try to evaluate why this person or that person acts the way he does.

[@kumih4538]

They should do follow up shows after a year has passed to see if these problematic guest have really changed for the better...

[@shivi5561]

He seems to be the most irritating person to deal with I'm just surprised the family hasn't fallen apart already

[@suskihan]

FLOWSIK

[@Lillyorjasmine]

This type of person really causing my drain of energy😂 im feeling nausea

[@EJK-wy3eb]

I'm the only one who can make my dad speak XD He is not very the talkative kind and my mum is VERY talkative. So it's funny to see them interact with each other x) But damn, it must so frustating :/

[@anninaaa7572]

I think the alcoholism is more important than him not talking?

[@jewelrybussiness]

WOW i found my father twins

[@sandralee9830]

and my father needs to shut up 😷 its either he makes dad jokes or something really rude