Healing from Betrayal with HURT | Addressing Infidelity (Cheating) Trauma

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[@leecorleone]

Need more of the infidelity conversations on your channel. Highly beneficial and thank you

[@DocSnipes]

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[@tearthangel373]

I tried and he chose to divorce me instead if addressing his sex addiction and compulsive lying. I feel safer now

[@DocSnipes]

I am sorry that happened to you and I appreciate you watching

[@rubyanaya126]

Thank You for your time energy and support ☺️☺️☺️

[@DocSnipes]

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[@MM-pk4xw]

Thank you 👍

[@DocSnipes]

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[@Greenfields-w2p]

This is betrayal- right ? Not necessarily infidelity but a narc lying by omission & gaslighting me - reacting & reacting in shock - painful

[@DocSnipes]

Yes, it’s betrayal. I appreciate you watching.

[@joanncoopertroupe3506]

Been there in 2015.. i decided to stay in the marriage its been hard.. we have been married 23 years hes age 68 i am age 64. ., never thought it would happen me!! i live with cptsd anxiety, depression.. he is a Vietnam vetrean. He too lives with anxiety. Ptsd.. i make no excuses. He has also adult ADHD. I have Add.. have always had. Problems in sex dept.. don't want to put it all out here.. its on hoth our sides.. Thank you. For your Awesome Videos!!

[@DocSnipes]

Thanks for watching! Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

[@Greenfields-w2p]

Cannot speak to a partner who lies & repeats the patterns as you suggest to reduce triggers - it’s repeated trauma out of left field for the one who is innocent - Pls speak further about this/ thx Doc

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Thanks for watching!

[@AffectionateSeaOtter]

T in HURT = TALK. Talk with whom? Are you suggesting the betrayed spouse STAY in a relationship with the BETRAYER / CHEATING SPOUSE?

[@DocSnipes]

Thank you for your comment and for raising this important concern. The intention behind the "T" in HURT-Talk-is not to suggest that anyone should stay in a relationship with a partner who has betrayed them if that doesn’t feel right for them. Rather, it focuses on open communication in relationships, whether you choose to stay or move on. In this context, "talk" is about expressing your emotions and needs clearly, whether you’re trying to work through the betrayal with your current partner or navigating a new relationship. For instance, if a current partner’s phone dies, and that triggers memories of when a previous partner would turn off their phone to hide infidelity, discussing these feelings can help your new partner understand where you’re coming from. Letting them know what triggers you allows them to offer support and reassurance, helping you feel more secure. Ultimately, whether you choose to stay in the relationship or not, expressing your emotions and processing what has happened is an important part of healing-whether that’s with your partner, a therapist, or trusted loved ones. Also, if you’re comfortable, please free to share what you found most useful from the video. Additionally, if you're interested in learning more on the topic or want to explore my video library, you can use my AI: allceus.com/AskDocSnipes.

[@AffectionateSeaOtter]

@@DocSnipes Thanks for the clarification. Appreciate it.

[@haPPySundAy970]

I knew it

[@DocSnipes]

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[@MadeManifest111]

There's no talking when the betrayal caused a nasty divorce. Just saying.

[@DocSnipes]

The insecure attachment style may contribute to information overload or telling people things that are too personal too quickly. One of the keys may be first healing your attachment.

[@Lion-1.]

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[@clarkluse2918]

ordinary world

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