Heartbreak and a Hole in the Wall: Matthew Tucker v Ashley Champion

Matthew says he's done with Ashley’s anger issues and controlling ways. Ashley admits to acting out but says she doesn’t feel like she is a priority in their relationship.
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[@MindlessGirl323319]

If a man threw a cup at a woman’s head, we’d tell her to leave. I don’t care what therapy they’re getting. He needs to leave her.

[@hebrewdaughter2786]

Shalawam Sis 💕 I TOTALLY AGREE 🤔

[@MSKTLIZ]

Agreed

[@janellepilgrim3046]

Correct is right!

[@debbiehughes7652]

Well, maybe he should've left but he don't want TO GO!

[@crystalmarroquin777]

He’s not going anywhere. She financially supports everybody in that relationship, and she’s flustered because he’s her better than nothing for a man.

[@lanishiaguider8887]

I hate that she didn't get called out for her b.s.

[@AmarYahu]

*The women never does. This is a Feminist-liberal based show. Nothing balanced about it.*

[@nastusalmander]

Double standards whaaaa

[@mrspeed48]

​@Yahu not true. I've seen women get called out on this show PLENTY of times.

[@1017himi]

Judge star don't call women that much

[@1017himi]

​@@mrspeed48 not by star

[@ANGELAKCLAY]

She's SO Trifling, He REALLY needs to RUN! 🙄

[@Jedi_Jonson]

She has anger issues, trust issues, self esteem issues, and she had the nerve to let a dude sleep on her couch and lie about, but yet get mad at him for making jokes with his guy friends?.....sincerely for all the good men out there.....F.D.B. this man is a good man and he deserves better!!

[@markeleiastreat6766]

He is a hard 38! As well as her! Lifestyle even harder. He NEEDS to leave. Life will be EASIER

[@tasherT]

Obviously it’s just me but I think that’s a toxic relationship and she’s nuts

[@QueenStizzle]

Not just you!!! Bad avice. She should have said RUN here like she does to the other less volatile relationships 😅

[@reneepaulettemarshall8000]

NAW, NOT just you. Judge Starr NOT on point for the "fire cracker" getting therapy and coming out controlling her anger. MARK ONE in ⭐'s LOSS COLUMN.

[@markeleiastreat6766]

He is a hard 38! As well as her! Lifestyle even harder. He NEEDS to leave. Life will be EASIER

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

I absolutely agree!

[@charleshall9488]

Leave her.

[@AGirlCalledNicole]

Leave this woman! Domestic violence is not okay. Like people are saying, if a man did this to a woman, we'd be saying the same thing. RUN for the hills!

[@thefreequency]

"You need to tell your landlord that's a cheap wall" 😂😂 she couldn't help herself 😆 Star please 😭🤣

[@ladymiss9466]

looks like my wall 😫I was triggered

[@latinabonitaj1418]

Perhaps A mobile home wall. .?

[@antoinettetapper2785]

She's an angry 😡 person and he is a humble man

[@charmainewalker8627]

Yep. She is miserable and needs to be left alone. Even her countenance is sour. Who wants to be around that 😮

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

And that's why it's not gonna work,unless she gets some anger management classes!

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

He’s a good man and clearly loves her. If she gets angry again and throws stuff, he needs to bounce.

[@Antlp711]

He needs to bounce now!

[@reneepaulettemarshall8000]

WOULDN'T BE NO WAITING FOR A SECOND TIME TO KA💥BONG ME with a propelled object ❗🤬 l'd be looong gone. PERIODT.

[@dianewilliams4508]

That man needs to run like the wind and get the hell no.she wouldn’t have time to throw anything at me again

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

I wouldn't give her another chance to, I'd be moving on!

[@angelamyers2924]

Isn't it amazing that a person that acts like she does gets a good man like him.

[@hvacinthecity9369]

Nah. Judge Star should have criticized her more. She's violent, a hypocrite, and definitely cheated on the man. He did nothing. It's time for him to go and find happiness.

[@blckbrdfly7675]

I like judge Star but trivializing how she threw a cup so hard that it caused a hole in the wall by saying "your wall is cheap" was trashy. She wouldn't have said that if he threw the cup at her.

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

My thoughts exactly!!! I'm so tried of people just overlooking men getting abused in a relationship!

[@kattiethomas4687]

Very 😮

[@okaygworl]

He seems like a sweetheart! They need to separate while she gets help...

[@TatewakiGaming]

Nah Bro. You need to run. Her insecurities will end up with you hospitalized or doxxed on the internet. She is too quick with screwing around on the socials or launching stuff at your head.

[@thefreequency]

Interesting. Why do you think she would ever dox him?

[@TatewakiGaming]

@@thefreequency She seems pretty well versed on how to best use electronic communications and social media, and was quite comfortable in setting up an online honey trap for him with one of her gal-pals. I don’t think that there is such a big step between pulling strangers into his personal business and posting his personal business and details up on the internet. She seems to lose sense when she gets heated. I don’t think she is a bad person, but I do think she gets blinded by rage and overreacts.

[@keishajenkins6925]

I do not like this woman attitude at all! She probably never been treated good in her other relationships and now that she has a good guy her ass wants to be controlling. Get rid of her asap

[@NRigsby7]

Whew...they have had a hard 38 years

[@kaeshalae1]

Burnt

[@christinewhite1205]

Facts.

[@welchless]

No. He needs to leave her and move on. If it were a man who threw a mug at the woman and caused that kind of damage, on top of all the other stalker crap she's done, Star would have told the woman to leave because he is being abusive and controlling.

[@QueenStizzle]

💯

[@crystalmarroquin777]

Sure.. problem is there are NOT two many women out there that can or will financially support a man let alone a man with luggage

[@Nard9701]

💯

[@Passion85031]

She thought it was pretty clever because she’s a controlling narcissist

[@ninadavis5517]

Insecurity never works in a relationship because the other person will get tired of the accusations. Shes one of those "I can do it but you can't" type of people

[@meowlerrz]

I've never heard someone say "calm the hell down" so nicely. Judge star is so graceful with her words

[@nayobegomez2619]

She's the one that's cheating and real bad and thinks he's doing the same. Her conscious don't let her live.

[@wordplay6665]

“You had another man stay at your house”😂 almost spit my drink out

[@tonyaharper2468]

I can count on one hand how many relationships I've been in and have been single over 7yrs. Felt too much like ownership

[@quichequiche4274]

"...in every relationships there's things..." RUN SOR! She thinks EVERYONE cheats, you'll never convince her otherwise.

[@tonyaharper2468]

If you're not compatible jus separate

[@crystalmarroquin777]

She’s to smart and mad that she has to support a man and his children in order to have a man. Yes people things are really rough out there for both male and female especially if you don’t have something to offer except luggage.

[@MsBizzyRae]

Smh this lady is a whole mess. You have a good guy that you are going to ruin!! Instead of loving him and treating him well, she's just making his life hell. If he leaves, she'll regret all this mess she put him through.

[@Antlp711]

Facts

[@ladytnynj8284]

This couple looks wayyyyy older than 38!!!!

[@sweetsweet81]

Now this is much calmer and "slightly" more relatable. She definitely has anger issues, but those can be worked out....and it needs to happen before they try again for a child. If she doesn't get that together, then he needs to think about moving on. He doesn't need to be beheaded over a phone call.

[@robbbietheim2096]

Ain't no way in hell, I would be ducking flying coffee cups in my own home, but if the therapy works out for her, I'm rooting for this couple ❤💯

[@VashtiPerry]

Yea same

[@ivodaal8951]

No crazy and agressive woman in my house .

[@crystalmarroquin777]

That’s the problem, it’s not his house. If it wear I have a feeling there would be a role reversal.

[@reneepaulettemarshall8000]

UH UH! NO!!! She's an unstable, loose cannon. Smh She ain't trustworthy. Boyfriend should be looong gone IMMEDIATELY.

[@reneepaulettemarshall8000]

Therapy WITHOUT me😅😅

[@viviancoleman8109]

Man Run!!!!!!!!!!

[@TwiceSmittenOnceShy]

I don’t think the judge asked the correct questions.. After all the unfounded accusations from the girlfriend/wife, I would have asked about her dating history and if she’d been cheated on, because that’s what it sounds like.. The dude sounds like completely genuine guy all around.

[@sinavaitululeupolu1455]

Love themselves n move on. Too much drama within this relationship.

[@sug8415]

Sounds like judge needs to make her own damn eggs

[@gooniemo8658]

Cause bffr !!!

[@sug8415]

@@gooniemo8658 tell her we ain’t got any eggs

[@kaeshalae1]

LMAO and they sound nasty😂

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

Yep!

[@jemp.b.3926]

If the roles were reversed the advice would be different

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

Absolutely!

[@BaranPrada]

I love how classy judge Star's outfit is. I always admire her sense of fashion.

[@nastusalmander]

Just based on the intro, this sounds like an abusive relationship

[@MomsSelfReliance]

I think he really loves her, she is just scared and acting out of impulse towards him.I hope he forgives her and they move on together happily.

[@cherieshepherd3491]

The moment I felt like throwing a coffee cup at the back of my ex husbands head, I knew it was time to go.

[@brendagiller1920]

He needs to get away from her. She shouldn't be throwing cups at him he should of called the cops and had her arrested for it

[@EcocleanPools]

They don’t need to be bringing a child into this world.

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

12:50 She is sitting there trying to justify why she had her MALE friend stay there since he had no place to go but she over there throwing cups at her man's head when he wants his male friend with no place to go to stay with them!!! He needs to drop her... he can do much better!!!

[@mrsbefort1616]

She’s mean

[@annamariaaqui3075]

I find that judges should go hard on women when they do a man wrong because they do it to men all the time. She was wrong

[@cymbolichuman433]

This is one of these times where I told him: "Quit yelling at me, and leave me alone!" And he wouldn't, so I picked up the ashtray and said: "if you won't shut up and leave me alone, I'll throw this ashtray. Well I did, and it made a hole in the wall and bounced back into my hand. "Next time I won't miss." And he finally shut up and left me alone.

[@crystalmarroquin777]

I think she started to say what was really bothering her( working TWO jobs) maybe if she stop working so much she might get pregnant . My coworker after trying so hard for Many years to get pregnant, finally gave up. Went on a RELAXING vacation, came back pregnant with TWINS.

[@2400md]

“And Calm the hell down” 😂😂😂

[@Ace_weeks]

She's too controlling. He needs to leave. And she needs counseling. He doesn't have a say in his own daily life.

[@Peachpocket415]

She doesn't deserve him😢

[@cadillacdeville5828]

That's a volatile relationship and her responses are highly disproportional to the situation (so far) . She should seek assistance resolving her anger issues and handling unpleasant emotions. HOWEVER, he was inconsiderate and out of line for moving someone in.

[@markeleiastreat6766]

He is a hard 38! As well as her! Lifestyle even harder. He NEEDS to leave. Life will be EASIER

[@markeleiastreat6766]

13:16 from the introduction to the explanation of how it came about with him sleeping that one night on the couch. Sleeping on a friend's couch for night seems to help with rent problems? Judge Star said...14:16 I hope that you resolved any issues that you had. As he asked "why she hid it then"? Was a call out in a tasteful way.

[@CheitaBlendz]

This woman is a massive red flag 🚩

[@vonnieb.4897]

She is totally out of order. He needs to get going

[@aprylb.3718]

I really like this guy I think he is genuine, I think he has good intensions, I believe that relationship can be salvaged IF she stops be so demanding and angry, I'm not giving excuses but hormones can play a part of the anger and mode swings.. But I don't want him to waste anymore of his life hoping and wishing, If things don't get better then he needs to leave, I wish them the best though..

[@CWYounger10]

They don’t need insight, he needs to leave. She’s abusive and out of control. He definitely doesn’t need to have a child with her.

[@cadillacdeville5828]

I'm late but here , hey everyone 👋🏽

[@Ravenous25]

Hello

[@cadillacdeville5828]

​@@Ravenous25 Hey there 😃 Raven

[@samuelchr1st]

Bisa saja istrinya dan pria lain itu sepakat berbohong untuk menutupi kejadian yang sebenarnya pada saat dia menumpang tinggal di rumah. Hubungan seks antara mereka kemungkinan besar terjadi saat seorang pria lain dan wanita itu tinggal dalam satu rumah tanpa orang lain mengetahuinya, dan juga mungkin pria lain itu tidak hanya satu hari menumpang tinggal di sana. Sisa rokok di dalam kamar tidur menjadi hal yang mencurigakan padahal pria lain itu berkata bahwa dia tidur di kursi tamu. Untuk memastikannya seharusnya menggunakan tes pendeteksi kebohongan.

[@qmartina81]

She has dobble standards. She is a control freak. She is treating him like on a leash. Brother you better run 😂

[@vonnieb.4897]

If he stays, he will never be happy

[@zannaambia7270]

Peace out dude

[@soulstrength]

She's immature and insecure and totally bulldozing over this man. They don't need to bring a baby into this. They can't even communicate without cutting each other off, especially her. Plus she's violent...throwing things?? They'd definitely be better off letting this relationship come to an end.

[@sunshinebutterfly4654]

They are not ok... she is controlling and that can be an issue later on if she don't stop with a anger...she won't even let the poor man speak 😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

[@cyrilenejones2284]

She want a boy not a man she is too controlling and bossy don't want him to do nothing without her knowing she is sumthing else

[@crystalmarroquin777]

I think she wants a man not a boy . Maybe she wouldn’t have to work two jobs. She’s trying to find a excuse to leave him. She checked out a long time ago.

[@crystalmarroquin777]

Pa ya boy mar antony

[@tatianavicks7152]

He is so sweet. She doesn’t deserve him.

[@rodcliffneal1849]

He is too nice and honest of a person for her, she play too much game and too sneaky of a person

[@winniebassette9591]

Sir, just leave. He can’t speak, order his own food, live his life. She wants a child not a partner.

[@barbarawilliams8305]

He need to leave that chick alone.

[@christinewhite1205]

If this was a man making excuses for all his actions Judge Star would've been all over him. The worse thing he can do is have a baby with her. Sir you're in an abusive relationship run fast!!

[@jazzy5975]

this the first time i actually saw a couple walk out hand in hand. lmao

[@TheMerrigal]

She seems to be a onesided wrongsided controlled freak...he needs to bounce and left her and move on.

[@winniewera2510]

I love this show and all But honestly my #1 reason daily is to see what Judge is wearing. You have beautiful outfits/age appropriate Amazing Judge your also amazing! ❤

[@Beast_Lee]

Bro...run!!

[@RobinZK67]

It’s like, I found someone else, but I wasn’t cheating on you! What a mess. I hope her new person realizes that she will do this again. Pretty lady. Empty soul.

[@islandgirlruby2750]

Dude drop that piglet and run 🏃‍♀️

[@Mzdedeo]

I sure hope therapy can help her. She’s actually angry and abusive! Run away sir!

[@ChocoBeauty8]

He needs to leave. She is very abusive. I believe she will lie and say he hits her.

[@favor8689]

She plays on words and his short comings and that is not right, so we can look forward to pride coming before her fall.

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

17:30 She is a very angry lady and you can see it all over her face.... she even has a permanent frown line!!

[@janetdriskell7673]

She also looks like drinker. Dude needs to run in the other direction.

[@kaiajohnson2887]

He needs to leave. If it was him doing these things everyone would tell her to run. It's sickening how she can't even own up to her own bs. He's a good man & deserves better. I hope they don't have a child bc then she'll Really never be out of his life. SMH

[@shanieldacres9020]

Yea I don’t like her…run sir run…

[@dammonicawhite9129]

This Lady is a liar. I believe him.

[@marzi0574]

GOTTA BE SEEN IN GREEN! JUDGE STAR is STUNNING...carry on.

[@crystalmarroquin777]

Exactly!! Wow finally someone that can see the OWNERSHIP…. She owns him. And I think she’s sick of everything… probably Burt out from work. I mean two jobs ? And you say you have a “man” ???

[@sunflowertulip9346]

Come here Matt I will treat you nicely. Leave and run away dude. She is angry as shit.

[@annettescroggins3905]

She sounds controlling, angry and insecure. Good suggestion by the judge to attend counseling.

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

She is the problem!!!!

[@adamswiggan]

Star is so real!

[@janetsmith3203]

Sir, if she doesn't get long term counseling - walk away.

[@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202]

Love that color Judge Star!

[@mariannehappiness2227]

This relationship will end very soon!!

[@teesmith8448]

Why they smoking in the house! Let alone the bedroom!? Ewww and this coming from someone that smokes!

[@godfavored5]

The cigarette butts was in the room, the went at his head. We are gonna scoot pass these thing’s.

[@sharonh7857]

What is the landlord going to do about cheap walls? Give her all new walls?

[@wordplay6665]

So he needed help but only stayed a night and conveniently while he was gone

[@lakeofalltrades]

Her throwing a coffee cup at him is serious 🧐

[@nicolemcintosh2403]

38???? They don't look a day over 52😂

[@biblosantral]

She got that Roseanne demeanor about her so the anger is in her personality and he got swag look how he walk outta the courtroom like he got a mandingo or sumn😀😀😀I don't think she gonna change no way

[@NefertitiNubianQueen]

Catfish your man !!!!! No she shouldn't have done that. Either she is insecure or just spiteful. She needs to also sort out her anger issues. He clearly loves her but sadly it appears she treats him like a door mat.

[@ronnimartin7033]

After listening to that intro, I just KNEW that she'd be cute!!!! All due respect, I think JS missed this one!

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

My thoughts exactly!

[@juliusdv6657]

They’re 38?? My goodness. My hubby is about to hit 40 and looks 10x younger than them

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

On his part it could because of all the stress he's under and for her she has low self esteem issues which leads to over eating.

[@Gisellej80]

Oh throw a coffee cup at him. She is not listening